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L00k
30-09-2024, 02:52 PM
Short story, recently meet up with an cheongster friend that never contacted for years. He is a Geylang cheongster since his army days he is now 28 years old. Met him tcss here and there, skip to the main point he talks about how he wants to stop cheong clubbing / brothels plans to settle down by 30 year olds. Good for him and I asked whats his ideal type (For context he is 168cm, 82kg average looking 5-6/10, blue collar earning about $2500) He says his ideal type is tall at least 165cm, pretty, big boobs and ass and I am like wtf ? I asked him how is it possible to find someone like that ? Guess what he replied ? He said Geylang so many PRC chio bu only $100- $200 why outside cannot find someone close to that ? I quite stumbled then shoot him say bro they earn $100 - $200 per customer leh not per month they easily make 5-10 times more than you. He keep thinking that Geylang got so many chio bu outside sure can find… argue with him about 10min and gave up. What do you think about this delusion ? IMO those $200 syt in Geylang can easily tio bao or marry by someone who earns $20,000 above. Earning $2500 thinking can marry them is dumb as fk. What’s more is girl outside this line even worst come on.. haha. How to whack him out of this dream ?

wattonhenry
30-09-2024, 03:07 PM
Got. Just not a Singaporean and probably can’t be found in Singapore.

No need to whack him too. Reality will do that for you.

jgosh80
30-09-2024, 03:10 PM
Lol. I use the OG Mint as an example. She is one smart cookie. She worked in spore for a few years and saved her money wisely and put it to work for her in China with several properties earning passive income for her. Now as of 2024 she has no need to work and is spending her time either traveling or enjoying life without worrying about daily expenses.

Is your friend able to do that?

L00k
30-09-2024, 08:12 PM
Got. Just not a Singaporean and probably can’t be found in Singapore.

No need to whack him too. Reality will do that for you.

Imo PRC girls are much more demanding especially partents than SG girls.
Not gonna lie earning $2500 might not even able to find him a fat PRC girl... his type ? Face facepalm max.

sbwow
30-09-2024, 08:18 PM
Short story, recently meet up with an cheongster friend that never contacted for years. He is a Geylang cheongster since his army days he is now 28 years old. Met him tcss here and there, skip to the main point he talks about how he wants to stop cheong clubbing / brothels plans to settle down by 30 year olds. Good for him and I asked whats his ideal type (For context he is 168cm, 82kg average looking 5-6/10, blue collar earning about $2500) He says his ideal type is tall at least 165cm, pretty, big boobs and ass and I am like wtf ? I asked him how is it possible to find someone like that ? Guess what he replied ? He said Geylang so many PRC chio bu only $100- $200 why outside cannot find someone close to that ? I quite stumbled then shoot him say bro they earn $100 - $200 per customer leh not per month they easily make 5-10 times more than you. He keep thinking that Geylang got so many chio bu outside sure can find… argue with him about 10min and gave up. What do you think about this delusion ? IMO those $200 syt in Geylang can easily tio bao or marry by someone who earns $20,000 above. Earning $2500 thinking can marry them is dumb as fk. What’s more is girl outside this line even worst come on.. haha. How to whack him out of this dream ?

Don't be jealous.
He can do it with $2500 which makes you look bad. HAHAHA.

blu3fin
30-09-2024, 09:04 PM
Lol. I use the OG Mint as an example. She is one smart cookie. She worked in spore for a few years and saved her money wisely and put it to work for her in China with several properties earning passive income for her. Now as of 2024 she has no need to work and is spending her time either traveling or enjoying life without worrying about daily expenses.

Is your friend able to do that?

I think her timing is lucky, as long she plan well can liao.
Now, I bet more than a few kenna caught with lan wei lou or negative assets they can't even afford the monthly payments now. All their savings down tbe drain easily.

Xgenre
30-09-2024, 09:08 PM
Just chit chat to talk cock sing song why you so serious? Maybe he can really find.

I have a few guy friends whom I feel are useless negative minded idiots. Guess what? They managed to meet simple minded ladies who are the only child to rich parents. Knn, straightaway play shotgun game to tie down and marry such girls. Set up for life financially already.

cestycesty
30-09-2024, 09:42 PM
i know 3 people who did it. 2 cousins and 1 ex colleague. None of them are the good looking type. 2 of them are sweet talkers. one of them went to prison for fraud.

all married rich girls. only the prison one the wife is CMI. but all 3 are set for life.

If you ask me what impression the 3 of them gives. all 3 behave like handphone salesman.

2 cousins living in landed now fully paid for by in laws and driving merc and porsche.

prison one lives in mansion with in laws, wife drives him around. he doesn't have license.

wattonhenry
30-09-2024, 11:23 PM
Haha. You can’t choose parents but you can choose your wife. So choose wisely. Haha.

My question is what the girls see in them.

Iveagh
01-10-2024, 02:25 AM
$2500/month blue collar is low.
The prc production operators where I work earns that amount with OT.
Better to find a higher paying job first than look for a partner.

Alwaysmovedown
01-10-2024, 02:49 AM
i know 3 people who did it. 2 cousins and 1 ex colleague. None of them are the good looking type. 2 of them are sweet talkers. one of them went to prison for fraud.

all married rich girls. only the prison one the wife is CMI. but all 3 are set for life.

If you ask me what impression the 3 of them gives. all 3 behave like handphone salesman.

2 cousins living in landed now fully paid for by in laws and driving merc and porsche.

prison one lives in mansion with in laws, wife drives him around. he doesn't have license.

A friend of mine did it as well. His wife is not rich in landed property sense but he definitely married up.

My friend earns 3k+ at almost mid 30s with O lvls, his wife is some first class honours from NUS working as a regular, major rank in early 30s.

And no the wife is not some tomboy, good looking in fact. My friend is average looking, always the "weird" guy since our sch days. No idea how he did it but am happy for him!

Aidan
01-10-2024, 01:04 PM
What people want and what people get are very different.
I wanted very different things for myself, fuck if I got any of it.
Did get a couple, the rest did not drop from the sky for me, so too bad.
Leave him be, probably a phase that needs to be grown out of, even if he is 28.

naan1974
01-10-2024, 04:03 PM
Wow nowadays SG men like PRC women ah..
marrying up is an inspiration !

loneyheart
01-10-2024, 04:08 PM
Earning just 2.5k can't even pay for HDB 4 rm flat loan nowadays don't just ever think of marry :)

ilovepantyhose
02-10-2024, 08:20 PM
My question is what the girls see in them.

sometimes its bcos 相欠债

:o:o:o

AvadaKedavra
02-10-2024, 09:28 PM
i know 3 people who did it. 2 cousins and 1 ex colleague. None of them are the good looking type. 2 of them are sweet talkers. one of them went to prison for fraud.

all married rich girls. only the prison one the wife is CMI. but all 3 are set for life.

If you ask me what impression the 3 of them gives. all 3 behave like handphone salesman.

2 cousins living in landed now fully paid for by in laws and driving merc and porsche.

prison one lives in mansion with in laws, wife drives him around. he doesn't have license.

Learnt a lesson here. Thanks man haha!

chinacuntlover
03-10-2024, 10:50 AM
Sometimes, it is just down to luck.
If you are not born rich, or smart to self made millioniare, marrying / into a rich girl can be a good alternative.

Sometimes, no need to be handsome or have some, just plain sweet talking, girls can be gullible

For the record, i do not belong to any of the above:(

ghostcow
03-10-2024, 01:34 PM
How to marry up as a guy? And tips?

Xgenre
03-10-2024, 02:03 PM
How to marry up as a guy? And tips?

Find a rich girl. Preferably only child. Shoot as much sperm into pussy as often as you can. Tell her you will be a responsible husband and father.

sbwow
03-10-2024, 09:09 PM
How to marry up as a guy? And tips?

Find a rich girl. Preferably only child. Shoot as much sperm into pussy as often as you can. Tell her you will be a responsible husband and father.

Your future father-in-law is teaching you the ropes. HAHAHA.

WinterMelonTree
04-10-2024, 11:18 AM
i want to share the opposite POV.

one of my good friend since childhood is very rich. dad drives lambo, very flashy guy. his only daughter had 2 ex bfs. both also not rich, super working class.

the way i see the ex bfs, they are not living as a man at all. in fact they are not living at all.
some examples,

ex bf 1 - her birthday party, all her uncles came in fancy cars. talk about business, about investments, about which countries to invest. ex bf only can smile and tag along her backside taking pictures for her.

ex bf 2 - when she play mahjong, he just sits behind her giving moral support. a whooping 6 hours sitting on a stool scrolling his phone.

these are just 2 examples off the top of my head. it sounds trivial BUT try applying this logic to EVERYTHING she do. it gets soul crushing super fast.

not to mention you gotta take her princess temper, her every whim, her whole clan looking down on you. always gotta have that dumb grin on your face. yes you get a nice Patek, a nice Porsche. but she will skin you alive for even bioing at another girl. your entire life revolves around her. the term see you no up is very very real lol.

this is a sex forum. so lets be real. it is FAR easier and much better for your mental health to earn a modest monthly pay. live a modest life. but you fly to Thailand/HCM/Laos/Indon each month and try 10 different 18yo pussies. in fact try 2 at once. or even 3. load up on viagra. fill out your time in-between fucks with massages, with good food, with sight seeing.

you will come back having a new appreciation for life.

ghostcow
04-10-2024, 04:45 PM
i want to share the opposite POV.

one of my good friend since childhood is very rich. dad drives lambo, very flashy guy. his only daughter had 2 ex bfs. both also not rich, super working class.

the way i see the ex bfs, they are not living as a man at all. in fact they are not living at all.
some examples,

ex bf 1 - her birthday party, all her uncles came in fancy cars. talk about business, about investments, about which countries to invest. ex bf only can smile and tag along her backside taking pictures for her.

ex bf 2 - when she play mahjong, he just sits behind her giving moral support. a whooping 6 hours sitting on a stool scrolling his phone.

these are just 2 examples off the top of my head. it sounds trivial BUT try applying this logic to EVERYTHING she do. it gets soul crushing super fast.

not to mention you gotta take her princess temper, her every whim, her whole clan looking down on you. always gotta have that dumb grin on your face. yes you get a nice Patek, a nice Porsche. but she will skin you alive for even bioing at another girl. your entire life revolves around her. the term see you no up is very very real lol.

this is a sex forum. so lets be real. it is FAR easier and much better for your mental health to earn a modest monthly pay. live a modest life. but you fly to Thailand/HCM/Laos/Indon each month and try 10 different 18yo pussies. in fact try 2 at once. or even 3. load up on viagra. fill out your time in-between fucks with massages, with good food, with sight seeing.

you will come back having a new appreciation for life.

Good advice, better to live a carefree life than be a dog for the sake of eating soft rice

Lvvep
04-10-2024, 06:21 PM
Young is good

chinacuntlover
05-10-2024, 09:21 AM
i want to share the opposite POV.

one of my good friend since childhood is very rich. dad drives lambo, very flashy guy. his only daughter had 2 ex bfs. both also not rich, super working class.

the way i see the ex bfs, they are not living as a man at all. in fact they are not living at all.
some examples,

ex bf 1 - her birthday party, all her uncles came in fancy cars. talk about business, about investments, about which countries to invest. ex bf only can smile and tag along her backside taking pictures for her.

ex bf 2 - when she play mahjong, he just sits behind her giving moral support. a whooping 6 hours sitting on a stool scrolling his phone.

these are just 2 examples off the top of my head. it sounds trivial BUT try applying this logic to EVERYTHING she do. it gets soul crushing super fast.

not to mention you gotta take her princess temper, her every whim, her whole clan looking down on you. always gotta have that dumb grin on your face. yes you get a nice Patek, a nice Porsche. but she will skin you alive for even bioing at another girl. your entire life revolves around her. the term see you no up is very very real lol.

this is a sex forum. so lets be real. it is FAR easier and much better for your mental health to earn a modest monthly pay. live a modest life. but you fly to Thailand/HCM/Laos/Indon each month and try 10 different 18yo pussies. in fact try 2 at once. or even 3. load up on viagra. fill out your time in-between fucks with massages, with good food, with sight seeing.

you will come back having a new appreciation for life.

Haha, well said (thumb up)