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[xangelx]

i was a chiongster back in 2020, i only recently created an account.. back then i have only book from stables and okt that doesnt require me to pm them. i have tried multiple FL in dome 1, this is the first time i somehow fell in love with a WL…. she is still currently in dome 1 but i will not be mentioning her name. i have been visiting her quite frequently during her stay here, rtf 5 times already. she claims that she does have feelings for me too, however im not sure really… she also claims that she is in need of money thats why chose to come and work. but still requires more money and requested to borrow from me about $4000. should i borrow her to help her with her emergency case? 🥲

[Drumsticks]

i was a chiongster back in 2020, i only recently created an account.. back then i have only book from stables and okt that doesnt require me to pm them. i have tried multiple FL in dome 1, this is the first time i somehow fell in love with a WL…. she is still currently in dome 1 but i will not be mentioning her name. i have been visiting her quite frequently during her stay here, rtf 5 times already. she claims that she does have feelings for me too, however im not sure really… she also claims that she is in need of money thats why chose to come and work. but still requires more money and requested to borrow from me about $4000. should i borrow her to help her with her emergency case? 🥲

I don't think about loan. More like to give.

[VVDReds]

If I am you will not bother.

[Me16]

All wl also in need of money one la. Once u pass her the money, u must be prepared u won't get the money back.

[xangelx]

I don't think about loan. More like to give.

she claims that she will pass me back. but slowly thought each month $200. that takes like 20 mths

[xangelx]

All wl also in need of money one la. Once u pass her the money, u must be prepared u won't get the money back.

true… indeed i have the thought that she would not pass me back too

[xangelx]

If I am you will not bother.

i have never rtf for a single girl. usually i like to try new girls. however this is the first time i encounter being kc by a wl.

[loneyheart]

Will u lend yr not so close new friend 4K ? :)
Or can u lend me 500 ? :p

[Joverick]

Ask yourself if $4000 is a lot to you or not. If say you earn $100k/month then i won't stop you from giving away 4k la. Macam peanuts. And yeah it's not lending her coz you won't get it back one. It's a 4k gift to her.

She claims to have feelings for you too. But do you think you're the only guy she added in line?

Don't think with your small head leaw.

[edbdbd]

i have never rtf for a single girl. usually i like to try new girls. however this is the first time i encounter being kc by a wl.

are you willing to lose this 4000?
if you wish to gamble this 4000, you need a collateral from her. be it her address or anything or snap a photo of her IC.

afterall we are not in your situation we dont know this person, we dont know 2 of your story. KC or not KC, i just wish it's not a scam.

money is yours, you have the rights to KYC her until your gut feeling tells you it's ok to give or not to give.

[fxty1989]

Chance is 50/50, if this 4000 is not a problem for you, can test the water. Else better think twice before you make a move.

[xangelx]

Will u lend yr not so close new friend 4K ? :)
Or can u lend me 500 ? :p

tbh i wont hahaha, example of wjmk

[xangelx]

Ask yourself if $4000 is a lot to you or not. If say you earn $100k/month then i won't stop you from giving away 4k la. Macam peanuts. And yeah it's not lending her coz you won't get it back one. It's a 4k gift to her.

She claims to have feelings for you too. But do you think you're the only guy she added in line?

Don't think with your small head leaw.

i am an average guy earning about 5k a month before cpf and ofcoz 4k is a lot :/ will take up the advise. think small head tio kc hard. already rtf 5times and she is still on shore

[xangelx]

Chance is 50/50, if this 4000 is not a problem for you, can test the water. Else better think twice before you make a move.

sounded sincere. she will be going back soon but i am still considering. rly hurts my big brain thinking about it

[xangelx]

are you willing to lose this 4000?
if you wish to gamble this 4000, you need a collateral from her. be it her address or anything or snap a photo of her IC.

afterall we are not in your situation we dont know this person, we dont know 2 of your story. KC or not KC, i just wish it's not a scam.

money is yours, you have the rights to KYC her until your gut feeling tells you it's ok to give or not to give.

true. i didnt even think of getting her ic or her pp since the start lmao. will take into consideration if i were to ‘borrow’ it to her 555

[shimasu]

I feel u already have ur answer judging from ur thread title..

[cestycesty]

No need lah. she likely earn 4-6 times more than you. 4k is just 2-3 days work for her. you might as well let us know which one you talking about.

[xangelx]

I feel u already have ur answer judging from ur thread title..

yes i am thinking twice about it. but i really do somehow feel the connection with her. we went out for meals and i have rtf for 5times. if she wasnt a wl i would 100% went for it. but its a 50/50 now

[xangelx]

No need lah. she likely earn 4-6 times more than you. 4k is just 2-3 days work for her. you might as well let us know which one you talking about.

i cannot expose her name due to her safety. there are some complications between her and the stable. thats why there some problems with the money she will be getting paid. she told me that she need this money for some emergencies back at home. will not go into detail if not i might accidentally expose her identity. sorry

[secretlurker88]

5-10 guys cumming into her each day..some maybe w/o cd. and you want to pass her 4k. Just FYI 4k in baht is 100k baht. It's too huge an amount in thai standards. What makes you think you're the only one she's asking from?

[danlachey]

Bro, it's so obvious she's finessing you with that money situation,if she really love you, she won't come out with that situation as a WL as she is earning too and come here to only work.

Wake up la, haiyo. You're at the losing end when she Chao from SG to another country to continue her work or whatever is her next plan.Alot of WL come here all got sob story but overall everything is transactional,feelings don't matter.

[shimasu]

yes i am thinking twice about it. but i really do somehow feel the connection with her. we went out for meals and i have rtf for 5times. if she wasnt a wl i would 100% went for it. but its a 50/50 now

That's not what I meant... ur title state gongtao... meaning it's a bad idea already...

[edbdbd]

i am an average guy earning about 5k a month before cpf and ofcoz 4k is a lot :/ will take up the advise. think small head tio kc hard. already rtf 5times and she is still on shore

best way to do is to drop her name, & we help you verify if we also kena the same case as u or not :D

[I Love Boobs]

Fucked her RAW?
Creampied her?
Took sex videos and photos?
If the answer to any of these is No, don’t bother.
4K can take a 1 week trip to CNX of BKK all inclusive including fucks…

[sexcision]

Some bro here mentioned gambling. This gives me an idea hahaha.

That that 4k, go to casino and bet 1 time on big/small. If win. U "lend" her, if loose. Take it as a message "dun do anything stupid."

[xangelx]

5-10 guys cumming into her each day..some maybe w/o cd. and you want to pass her 4k. Just FYI 4k in baht is 100k baht. It's too huge an amount in thai standards. What makes you think you're the only one she's asking from?

thats true… she claims that she had emergency back home thats why needed such a big amount of money

[xangelx]

best way to do is to drop her name, & we help you verify if we also kena the same case as u or not :D

i wish i would bear to do it, but i cant. due to the complications with her stable okt ltr on. she claims that they did not pay her ‘expected’ and is not getting enough for her emergency back at home and asked to borrow 4k from me will return me $200 every month

[edbdbd]

i wish i would bear to do it, but i cant. due to the complications with her stable okt ltr on. she claims that they did not pay her ‘expected’ and is not getting enough for her emergency back at home and asked to borrow 4k from me will return me $200 every month

verify by seeking messages proof that those stories she told you were true. she owes u all sort of explainations and it's her job to earn your trust.

at least don't ya ya papaya and just hand her the 4k without drilling for true stories.

[Me16]

sounded sincere. she will be going back soon but i am still considering. rly hurts my big brain thinking about it

Now you mentioned she going back soon, I think the percentage of you not getting back the money goes higher.

[xangelx]

verify by seeking messages proof that those stories she told you were true. she owes u all sort of explainations and it's her job to earn your trust.

at least don't ya ya papaya and just hand her the 4k without drilling for true stories.

If I ask her about it, I am afraid she feels that I do not trust her etc. but good suggestion, I think I have to think of a way to clarify with her.

[xangelx]

Now you mentioned she going back soon, I think the percentage of you not getting back the money goes higher.

Eventually she has to go back. She’s just a wl, her ‘holiday’ can’t be that long. But she told me that she would transfer me $ every end of the month. Would visit me back in sg sometime and I could go to bkk and find her as well.

[edbdbd]

If I ask her about it, I am afraid she feels that I do not trust her etc. but good suggestion, I think I have to think of a way to clarify with her.

your RTF all have to pay? if so, you are nothing but a customer to her.
Secondly, it's not wrong to "not trust" you are just cautious on how you want to spend your hard earned money. if she cant even understand this, your 4K better dont give to her.

[xangelx]

your RTF all have to pay? if so, you are nothing but a customer to her.
Secondly, it's not wrong to "not trust" you are just cautious on how you want to spend your hard earned money. if she cant even understand this, your 4K better dont give to her.

nope. only the first 2 times. after that we did went out for lunch and dinner. she did invite me to spend overnight with her too.

[Flash28]

Bro i think you are too naive on this trade, I'll guess you are not even in your 30s, but still its up to you since its your money. Just a piece of advice : remember they are just here to be fuck

[Zetyalpha]

nope. only the first 2 times. after that we did went out for lunch and dinner. she did invite me to spend overnight with her too.

DO NOT "LOAN" HER the $4K
You definitely not gonna see the money again.

I rather you loan it to a local friend, least you might able to have recourse from tribunal court.

If you so in need to loan people money. Loan it to me, I want the money for upgrading. Pay you 3.5% interest, also 20 months to repay.

AGAIN Please loan it to somebody who least have some probability to repay.

[sbwow]

DO NOT "LOAN" HER the $4K
You definitely not gonna see the money again.

I rather you loan it to a local friend, least you might able to have recourse from tribunal court.

If you so in need to loan people money. Loan it to me, I want the money for upgrading. Pay you 3.5% interest, also 20 months to repay.

AGAIN Please loan it to somebody who least have some probability to repay.

Yes, at least invest in a good dictionary.
He might throw in a few good words once in a while. HAHAHA.

[xangelx]

Bro i think you are too naive on this trade, I'll guess you are not even in your 30s, but still its up to you since its your money. Just a piece of advice : remember they are just here to be fuck

Thanks for the advice bro 👍

[BroHenry]

Eventually she has to go back. She’s just a wl, her ‘holiday’ can’t be that long. But she told me that she would transfer me $ every end of the month. Would visit me back in sg sometime and I could go to bkk and find her as well.

Thanks for sharing.

[8ah8ah8ah]

Yes, at least invest in a good dictionary.
He might throw in a few good words once in a while. HAHAHA.

Agree with you.

[LordVader]

Will u lend yr not so close new friend 4K ? :)
Or can u lend me 500 ? :p

Bruh dun like that leh...

But OP can lend me $400 is enough liao :)

[Me16]

Eventually she has to go back. She’s just a wl, her ‘holiday’ can’t be that long. But she told me that she would transfer me $ every end of the month. Would visit me back in sg sometime and I could go to bkk and find her as well.

Hahaha my friend girl also said the same thing. She also told him that he could go bkk find her. So he really went to find her. Once he touched down, that girl was uncontactable. So he roam around aimlessly. Coincidentally he managed to saw her with a Thai guy in a pub. So he went up to the girl, the girl didnt acknowledge him and even said 'who are you, I don't know you'. This is my friend story that u may want to take note but ultimately the final decision lies with yourself bro. All the best 👍

[xangelx]

Hahaha my friend girl also said the same thing. She also told him that he could go bkk find her.

I mean well, she did told me where she worked back in Bangkok. Also told me that if I go bkk I could stay with her in her condo. That’s why everything seemed so sincere

[xangelx]

Anyway quick update

She will be heading back to Bkk and leaving our shore really soon. As soon as she settle her $ problem here she WILL leave.

[FreebiezWanker]

WHORES are for fucking. Fuck n go. Simple as that.

[Me16]

I mean well, she did told me where she worked back in Bangkok. Also told me that if I go bkk I could stay with her in her condo. That’s why everything seemed so sincere

Of course what happened to my friend doesn't mean it will happen to you. All the bros can give our advices but you are the one that really know her. You know the best what to do. Just don't let small head make decision.

[xangelx]

WHORES are for fucking. Fuck n go. Simple as that.

I know we all have that mindset that girls are really just for fking. Even me I have been in dome 1 since 2019/2020. I do agree that they are all here for money. If they do have the money they wouldn’t want to work this either. They might have some crisis back at home and sometimes I do pity them.

[xangelx]

Of course what happened to my friend doesn't mean it will happen to you. All the bros can give our advices but you are the one that really know her. You know the best what to do. Just don't let small head make decision.

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, in the end did your friend meet his girl back in bkk or anything. Thanks 🙏

[Me16]

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, in the end did your friend meet his girl back in bkk or anything. Thanks 🙏

My friend did saw his girl back in bkk. But the girl pretended that she does not know who my friend is.

[xangelx]

My friend did saw his girl back in bkk. But the girl pretended that she does not know who my friend is.

wow…. that must have hurt quite a bit if he really did like her 🥲 well, i most probably would go and find her in bkk. i do know where she work back in her country. she even told me if i come i could stay with her in her condo 🥺

[Joverick]

i do know where she work back in her country. she even told me if i come i could stay with her in her condo 🥺

Say is one thing. Do is another.

Some of us here have chiong way earlier than you and have went through the exact same thing so we can tell you what it is. Of course exceptions do happens sometimes (i.e genuine lady) but the odds are damn low.

I think deep down you already have an answer so in that case, you can minimize your loss by giving her installments rather than lump sum upfront. Like maybe 1k now, another 1k when meet her in bkk, another 1k for next meetup in bkk etc.

Just take it as lesson learnt in life. Pay tuition fee to experience human nature.

[xangelx]

Say is one thing. Do is another.

Some of us here have chiong way earlier than you and have went through the exact same thing so we can tell you what it is. Of course exceptions do happens sometimes (i.e genuine lady) but the odds are damn low.

I think deep down you already have an answer so in that case, you can minimize your loss by giving her installments rather than lump sum upfront. Like maybe 1k now, another 1k when meet her in bkk, another 1k for next meetup in bkk etc.

Just take it as lesson learnt in life. Pay tuition fee to experience human nature.

true, do know that chances are damn low. what she says now might not be whats gonna happen. will take in the advice thanks 🙏🏼

[edbdbd]

true, do know that chances are damn low. what she says now might not be whats gonna happen. will take in the advice thanks ����

yes, alot of people kena girl peng wei before. so thats why you need something to grab hold her of, not the other way round that she grab you by the balls and grab your 4K and let u idle and waiting aimlessly.

not say she will peng wei as each individual is different and we have to respect the benefit of doubt, everyone is different. hence suggest to dive deeper into her urgency of wanting that 4K.

Thinking far a little, will this 4k loan be repeated? given if you take the step to loan her, your relationship with her builds towards a positive side. what if, in future, it repeats again. can you take this kind of monetary stress that you have to support her?

[Twa_Kee]

true. i didnt even think of getting her ic or her pp since the start lmao. will take into consideration if i were to ‘borrow’ it to her 555

First of all, there’s a difference between borrow & lend, use the word correctly … thanks

Borrow = the girl give you money
Lend = you give the girl money

[xangelx]

yes, alot of people kena girl peng wei before. so thats why you need something to grab hold her of, not the other way round that she grab you by the balls and grab your 4K and let u idle and waiting aimlessly.

not say she will peng wei as each individual is different and we have to respect the benefit of doubt, everyone is different. hence suggest to dive deeper into her urgency of wanting that 4K.

Thinking far a little, will this 4k loan be repeated? given if you take the step to loan her, your relationship with her builds towards a positive side. what if, in future, it repeats again. can you take this kind of monetary stress that you have to support her?

if its a one time thing its okay. but if every month its this case then its impossible. her family is waiting for her to return with the money. she claims that is for an operation.

or should i try to tell her that i do not have the 4k first and see her reaction or her next step. but will it be a little bastard as it would seem that i doubt her.

[xangelx]

First of all, there’s a difference between borrow & lend, use the word correctly … thanks

Borrow = the girl give you money
Lend = you give the girl money

sorry error in my english, half bucket water only. thanks for the correction.

[Iveagh]

Does she has anything verified valuable she can use as security ?
Twice the value of $x, will not be a problem if she says she will return the money eventually.
Failing that, I won't lend any money.
She expects you to say no, so don't worry about disappointing her.
Her trying and asking cost her nothing, anything she gets is pure benefits.
It is also very very unlikely that you are the only one she asks.

[Zetyalpha]

I mean well, she did told me where she worked back in Bangkok. Also told me that if I go bkk I could stay with her in her condo. That’s why everything seemed so sincere

Anyway quick update

She will be heading back to Bkk and leaving our shore really soon. As soon as she settle her $ problem here she WILL leave.

She can say whatever she wants. But her case is a "unsecured personal loan" Whatever, her business back home is none of our business.

I ever rtf a PRC whore before more than 5 times. Her face is really pretty but changi airport, great bed skills esp the cowgirl riding. Developed some feelings too. (Still got photo and vid. Whenever I think of her, just open up her photo/vid and pcc, lol :D) She also asked me if I liked her, I just keep quiet. You totally setting up yourself to be used by admitting.

Before, you get recked. Please find a new Thai FL asap and fuck. But hey, it's your 4K.

Yes, at least invest in a good dictionary.
He might throw in a few good words once in a while. HAHAHA.

It wasn't intentional. But I am abit of a verb nazi, lol

[xangelx]

QUICK UPDATE :

Thanks for all the advices. In the end i lied to her i say that i do not have such a big amount. She said that it was fine. Even if i did not lend her the money she still loves me.

Even if i go bkk to find her i could stay in her condo with her and she wishes that i could visit her soon. She will find her own solution to her emergency back home and do not wish to trouble me.

She is flying back tonight, it does make me feel bad and at the same time sad. Contemplating if i should help her.

[Twa_Kee]

sorry error in my english, half bucket water only. thanks for the correction.

Most welcome … enjoy the process …

[Twa_Kee]

QUICK UPDATE :

Thanks for all the advices. In the end i lied to her i say that i do not have such a big amount. She said that it was fine. Even if i did not lend her the money she still loves me.

Even if i go bkk to find her i could stay in her condo with her and she wishes that i could visit her soon. She will find her own solution to her emergency back home and do not wish to trouble me.

She is flying back tonight, it does make me feel bad and at the same time sad. Contemplating if i should help her.

No need to feel bad, just book the next airticket and stay at her condo …

[xangelx]

No need to feel bad, just book the next airticket and stay at her condo …

I was shock that she still said it was ok not gonna lie.

[Joverick]

I was shock that she still said it was ok not gonna lie.

Coz you're not the only "bank" she can borrow from. Maybe she manage to find other "banks" who can lend her various amounts so her debt is covered now so ok. Got see her line not? See how many bros she's in contact with.

[xangelx]

Coz you're not the only "bank" she can borrow from. Maybe she manage to find other "banks" who can lend her various amounts so her debt is covered now so ok. Got see her line not? See how many bros she's in contact with.

nope i did not see her line. maybe the next time when i meet her i send roughly take a look.

[edbdbd]

QUICK UPDATE :

Thanks for all the advices. In the end i lied to her i say that i do not have such a big amount. She said that it was fine. Even if i did not lend her the money she still loves me.

Even if i go bkk to find her i could stay in her condo with her and she wishes that i could visit her soon. She will find her own solution to her emergency back home and do not wish to trouble me.

She is flying back tonight, it does make me feel bad and at the same time sad. Contemplating if i should help her.

congrats. just make sure she does not return back as a FL. other than that good luck with your potential GF.

[xangelx]

congrats. just make sure she does not return back as a FL. other than that good luck with your potential GF.

doubt she will be back as fl anymore. she got scammed and didnt receive her full payment from the stable. on top of that she had to pay the stable some money. but will not go into details here. she bought her own ticket and had safely arrive back on her shore.

[Twa_Kee]

doubt she will be back as fl anymore. she got scammed and didnt receive her full payment from the stable. on top of that she had to pay the stable some money. but will not go into details here. she bought her own ticket and had safely arrive back on her shore.

She earned enough while in Singapore to pay the stable and airticket home ?

[Lennyberg]

Better u pass me the $4K, I pay you in 12 months with 5% interest.

Hahaha.

I'm reasoning with you ya. I no need your money but you get my drift. U lend someone here better than u lend a FL.

The WL I am seeing regularly is offering to pay instead. I believe that would mean sincerity to bros here.

[xangelx]

She earned enough while in Singapore to pay the stable and airticket home ?

Nope. She did not earn enough and what she was suppose to take. Apparently there was some issue between the stable and the fl. She had to pay for her own hotel room which isn’t cheap. She also said that she got money from her family to book the flight back home.

[xangelx]

Better u pass me the $4K, I pay you in 12 months with 5% interest.

Hahaha.

I'm reasoning with you ya. I no need your money but you get my drift. U lend someone here better than u lend a FL.

The WL I am seeing regularly is offering to pay instead. I believe that would mean sincerity to bros here.

I understand, thanks for your reply. But anyways she is back on shore already. We are still currently in contact and I might be visiting her in Bangkok real soon.