View Full Version : Jerk off coz wife/gf couldn't satisfy you
CaptHD
17-10-2024, 09:14 AM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
CaptHD
17-10-2024, 09:25 AM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
correlation
17-10-2024, 09:42 AM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
So what's wrong?
DivockOOrigi
17-10-2024, 09:44 AM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
You can always go outside steal eat.
Saxan
17-10-2024, 09:49 AM
Even when I had gfs that gave me as much as I want, I still diy.
Making love can be tiring and time consuming, so I still rub out a few weekly.
But yours is a different case, so you will have to work it out with her.
oxeso
17-10-2024, 09:55 AM
No, leave it to the pros.
betho
17-10-2024, 10:34 AM
Even when I had gfs that gave me as much as I want, I still diy.
Making love can be tiring and time consuming, so I still rub out a few weekly.
But yours is a different case, so you will have to work it out with her.
Agree with you.
Actaeon
17-10-2024, 12:35 PM
How long have you 2 been married for ?
sbwow
17-10-2024, 12:38 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Why that restriction?
Is your wife getting fucked by other guys? HAHAHA.
virgone
17-10-2024, 01:31 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
U should have a talk with her to find out the reason.
E.g. she may encounter discomfort every time after the act, thus doesn't want to do it often
itguy2008
17-10-2024, 01:52 PM
The frequency will go down further after you have kids.
Maybe this is one of the reasons why Singaporeans are not having children.
ctan100
17-10-2024, 02:05 PM
If you're only just a short time into marriage then really jialat..
normal at the start to have it non stop during gf bf phase.. then marriage still ok but less .. but if just married already once every 2 months.. sth is wrong.
should try to discuss. comms is key !
Hope you find an answer soon!
TenSanYi
17-10-2024, 02:13 PM
Mine can be up to 6 months once, reason she is not interested and i really too pissed off to beg her.
sky_liner2
17-10-2024, 02:46 PM
If you have a DH, she may helps
xcess
17-10-2024, 05:57 PM
Similar case here....now I stopped asking. Felt like a beggar.
sbwow
17-10-2024, 06:12 PM
Similar case here....now I stopped asking. Felt like a beggar.
Yeah, marriage makes guys feel like beggar. HAHAHA.
ahbey
17-10-2024, 06:49 PM
Yeah, marriage makes guys feel like beggar. HAHAHA.
Wife always busy with kids until late night
Waiting her in the bedroom for until I fell asleep
Finally she come inside the room , she will say too tired
Need to beg for a quick fuck….sianz.
I rather go outside pay $ to release …. FL served you like king
Bbbj with ass rim ,sometime enjoy cim service …
Goh123
17-10-2024, 09:16 PM
normal , me too.
Twa_Kee
17-10-2024, 10:36 PM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
Why wife only allow you to enter her once every 2 months ?
lmaolmao
17-10-2024, 11:06 PM
All the same pent up frustrations.
Gingerbreadmy
17-10-2024, 11:52 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Means wife not allow sex or your libido?
looney83
18-10-2024, 08:23 AM
Wife always busy with kids until late night
Waiting her in the bedroom for until I fell asleep
Finally she come inside the room , she will say too tired
Need to beg for a quick fuck….sianz.
I rather go outside pay $ to release …. FL served you like king
Bbbj with ass rim ,sometime enjoy cim service …
sorry to digress...
i see a problem here. did u help her out with the kids especially making the kids sleep?
not sure how come you guys don't want to practice sleep training? should start training them else its gonna be a chore for u guys.
now back to topic, me and wife still have sex every wk.. at least twice per wk.. and i still DIY sometimes.
EternalFrame
18-10-2024, 09:47 AM
You can always go outside steal eat.
My exact sentiments.
SirLance
18-10-2024, 09:55 AM
sorry to digress...
i see a problem here. did u help her out with the kids especially making the kids sleep?
not sure how come you guys don't want to practice sleep training? should start training them else its gonna be a chore for u guys.
now back to topic, me and wife still have sex every wk.. at least twice per wk.. and i still DIY sometimes.
Agree with you.
Viber
18-10-2024, 10:21 AM
Yeah, marriage makes guys feel like beggar. HAHAHA.
Agree with you.
TenSanYi
18-10-2024, 11:04 AM
I am surprised that so many samsters has the same thought as me. Women wants man to be faithful to them and be the providers for everything, however, they can't even bother to fullfill basic men needs.
sbwow
18-10-2024, 11:46 AM
I am surprised that so many samsters has the same thought as me. Women wants man to be faithful to them and be the providers for everything, however, they can't even bother to fullfill basic men needs.
Once a guy gets married, he is auto labelled as a beggar and loser to his wife. This is the unspoken truth. HAHAHA.
Trust me broskis. I didn't live till 69 year old uncle for nothing. HAHAHA.
itguy2008
18-10-2024, 12:11 PM
I am surprised that so many samsters has the same thought as me. Women wants man to be faithful to them and be the providers for everything, however, they can't even bother to fullfill basic men needs.
Most interestingly, they will ask for equality in gender rights. I am like ?!?!?! where is the equality?
kaixiang
18-10-2024, 01:00 PM
Agree - last time always thought just maintain and it should be ok.
Maintain lan jiao ? (literally) No kids but wife tired when working.
No working she stress coz no job.
Maybe work took a toll on my hours also, but feel like she don't have needs.
Recently talking to friend, sexual energy also.. Ok lah, i not a white knight, so not lomantic or etc ah.
(i still occasional flowers, bring her treats and high tea monthly wor and also date).
I also jerking off most weeks :x pain to wallet as much as i wish for service provider to help.
Most importantly know all bros here just want to enjoy - hope you find your way to deal with the pent up.
TenSanYi
18-10-2024, 03:36 PM
Maybe some samsters can share how to enjoy beside than DIY?
fxty1989
18-10-2024, 03:42 PM
This happened a lot, especially after having kids.
WinterMelonTree
18-10-2024, 05:02 PM
i think jerking off is very normal? i remember got 1 male jav actor interview. the guy has fucked over 10k girls and he shoots like 3-5 times a day but yet he still say he diy everyday. i have no reason to doubt him.
also after a certain point, diy + cum is a way to go to sleep, not just for horny LOL
sandy6979
18-10-2024, 05:43 PM
I relate with this thread.
I know someone who has married more than 15 years ago and since last more than 5 years he hasnt had sex . One of those types whose wife makes him beg for sex and he prefers his self esteem to a few min of pleasure he has been shaking himself since last more than 5 years and many times more than a few times a day as well
haikim999
18-10-2024, 07:25 PM
I relate with this thread.
I know someone who has married more than 15 years ago and since last more than 5 years he hasnt had sex . One of those types whose wife makes him beg for sex and he prefers his self esteem to a few min of pleasure he has been shaking himself since last more than 5 years and many times more than a few times a day as well
Could it be some of your wives here have her own fwb outside? She's satisfied so no need to find you for eca?
Dignified69
18-10-2024, 10:31 PM
The frequency will go down further after you have kids.
Maybe this is one of the reasons why Singaporeans are not having children.
Global problem bruh. Many of my angmoh friends complain about the same
TheSpyingPerv
19-10-2024, 03:15 AM
from how i read it, it seems like TS only has sex with his wife once in 2 months , because he's not that into her and prefers jerking off..
prataegg
19-10-2024, 04:26 PM
Global problem bruh. Many of my angmoh friends complain about the same
Not a big problem for angmoh, they can easily find friends for casual sex, but so easy here.
Peacekeeping
19-10-2024, 05:37 PM
Maybe the real situation is wife has urge but just don’t want to do it with husband. So husband wear green hat and jerk off alone.
sbwow
19-10-2024, 06:54 PM
Maybe the real situation is wife has urge but just don’t want to do it with husband. So husband wear green hat and jerk off alone.
Nah, the wife doesn't sympathize with the begging loser. HAHAHA.
CBTanHanWei
19-10-2024, 07:57 PM
Like that need to sign FJ Package at outside for self satisfaction?
Zetyalpha
19-10-2024, 07:58 PM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
Better discuss with yr wife soon before something goes wrong in the marriage. Once every 2 months is a sahara desert. Who normally initiate?
Never been married before. But minimum for me should be like once a fortnight OR once a month in a marriage (depending on age). Dating, least once a week. Anything lesser than that, better off being housemates, lol. No offence.
The frequency will go down further after you have kids.
Maybe this is one of the reasons why Singaporeans are not having children.
Actually, it's a combo of factors. One of them is the ENTITLED SENSE OF SELF I been on this forum for a long time. Read many stories here, plenty haven't had sex with wives for months or even years!
2nd, is the high cost of living. I wonder if RICH MEN here (like net worth 10 million sgd) faced the same problems with their own wives.
Phosphorique
19-10-2024, 09:57 PM
I am surprised that so many samsters has the same thought as me. Women wants man to be faithful to them and be the providers for everything, however, they can't even bother to fullfill basic men needs.
Same sentiments here. They say they have no such needs.
koites
20-10-2024, 01:58 AM
Maybe some samsters can share how to enjoy beside than DIY?
After years of trying, ML and FL are the best. Yiu get what you want in the shortest amount of time for the least effort. And you get to savour all the young SYTs. No need to beg or please or plead. You’re the boss. Sounds bad but after years of trying. You’ll realise it’s a win win. Sure initially you’ll say no. But after years of trying, it’s gotta end somewhere.
1231231233
20-10-2024, 03:39 PM
my wife actually has high needs, and I don't think I'm being f up but describing her as "highly used" given my history with her. Married each other out of convenience, never really in love for the first decade by having a dysfunctionally open marriage. She's had her fair share of ONS and ex lovers...
we are still married, now more normal and happier. but I'd still crave from time to time, those innocent traditional women, conservative.... basically not so heavily used.
more than often, I'd meet one whom I'm attracted to and secretly jerk off to them... sometimes I'd let the "heavily used" wife know and she'd role play for me, but it's just not the same.
Highly unlikely, any other brother has the same fetish also?
itguy2008
21-10-2024, 01:29 PM
Global problem bruh. Many of my angmoh friends complain about the same
No wonder aging population is not only a Singapore problem but an international one. hahaha.
itguy2008
21-10-2024, 01:30 PM
Better discuss with yr wife soon before something goes wrong in the marriage. Once every 2 months is a sahara desert. Who normally initiate?
Never been married before. But minimum for me should be like once a fortnight OR once a month in a marriage (depending on age). Dating, least once a week. Anything lesser than that, better off being housemates, lol. No offence.
Actually, it's a combo of factors. One of them is the ENTITLED SENSE OF SELF I been on this forum for a long time. Read many stories here, plenty haven't had sex with wives for months or even years!
2nd, is the high cost of living. I wonder if RICH MEN here (like net worth 10 million sgd) faced the same problems with their own wives.
I only know 2 person net worth about 10m SGD. Their problem is worse. Wife and him, go out and play differently. hahaha.
hiponor72
21-10-2024, 01:50 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
1231231233
21-10-2024, 05:11 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Did you ask her why, this arrangement?
Rential
21-10-2024, 06:27 PM
When with gfs, I had the on and off habit of working out.
I discovered that when some muscles were obvious, my then gfs were more horny, and they admitted as much.
Caught them several times looking at my 6 pack or chest muscles.
Other muscles don't seem to interest them as much.
Suggest TS do some workout to build on those muscles.
So even if wife not impressed when those muscles are there, she is sure going to worry wtf you are working out.
We also have to make ourselves desirable to them.
Peacekeeping
21-10-2024, 10:50 PM
When with gfs, I had the on and off habit of working out.
I discovered that when some muscles were obvious, my then gfs were more horny, and they admitted as much.
Caught them several times looking at my 6 pack or chest muscles.
Other muscles don't seem to interest them as much.
Suggest TS do some workout to build on those muscles.
So even if wife not impressed when those muscles are there, she is sure going to worry wtf you are working out.
We also have to make ourselves desirable to them.
You hit the nail on this. We want our wife to desire us and submit to our urges. How to make her if we never take care of our body and sexual performance?
paynow
22-10-2024, 10:45 AM
When with gfs, I had the on and off habit of working out.
I discovered that when some muscles were obvious, my then gfs were more horny, and they admitted as much.
Caught them several times looking at my 6 pack or chest muscles.
Other muscles don't seem to interest them as much.
Suggest TS do some workout to build on those muscles.
So even if wife not impressed when those muscles are there, she is sure going to worry wtf you are working out.
We also have to make ourselves desirable to them.
Thanks for sharing.
dinoace
22-10-2024, 12:20 PM
.maybe only can have sex
ttmsbf
28-10-2024, 06:50 AM
The frequency will go down further after you have kids.
Maybe this is one of the reasons why Singaporeans are not having children.
After childbirth, my wife experiences discomfort during penetration, even with my finger.
sbwow
28-10-2024, 06:59 AM
After childbirth, my wife experiences discomfort during penetration, even with my finger.
She doesn't want any sexual acts from you. You disgust her. HAHAHA.
ultrasound
28-10-2024, 10:38 AM
You hit the nail on this. We want our wife to desire us and submit to our urges. How to make her if we never take care of our body and sexual performance?
Agree with you.
inflection
28-10-2024, 10:40 AM
She doesn't want any sexual acts from you. You disgust her. HAHAHA.
Thanks for info.
1231231233
29-10-2024, 11:13 AM
You hit the nail on this. We want our wife to desire us and submit to our urges. How to make her if we never take care of our body and sexual performance?
no offence but I've seen fit and handsome men, also suffering in their marriages.
it's not just the body, or the looks, it's also the emotional support and mental connection, for a select group of women.
in fact, two friends, married, both toned and good looking, work out a lot, just got divorced. They weren't cheaters either.
but then again, maybe this point coming from me is a bit biased because i'm still a fat bastard. haha
scaupraft
29-10-2024, 12:12 PM
You disgust her. HAHAHA.
hamka
29-10-2024, 08:23 PM
My gf is amazing but somehow, I enjoy jerking myself off more. :confused:
nemoman
29-10-2024, 08:27 PM
no offence but I've seen fit and handsome men, also suffering in their marriages.
it's not just the body, or the looks, it's also the emotional support and mental connection, for a select group of women.
in fact, two friends, married, both toned and good looking, work out a lot, just got divorced. They weren't cheaters either.
but then again, maybe this point coming from me is a bit biased because i'm still a fat bastard. haha
Good point, even handsome and 6 pack guys with fat ugly wives have found themselves cheated on, amazingly. So it's really the character of the gal (and guy), and not always that you choose an ugly fat duckling gal means you'll be safe. Same for guys, some dirt poor ugly fat guys with impossibly chio gfs still have mistresses and long term flings outside, and some of these flings are even worse looking than their wives, even when their chio wives are in their 20s and early 30s. That's how I managed to source for and net trophy pretty wives along the years, by catering to this "profitable niche" which many doesn't seem to be working on, because men will be men and you can get openings from knowing human nature.
Ginung
29-10-2024, 08:31 PM
Last time my gf very boring. Don't want sex, don't want blowjob. Everything cannot. Just handjob. Very boring. Eventually even when she asked, I denied her. Then she angry, accusing me eat outside, say she is not attractive anymore. Then when I told her the reason, she said I only think of sex. But when she asked if I can lick her, can finger her, I always say yes. :(
nemoman
29-10-2024, 08:32 PM
Last time my gf very boring. Don't want sex, don't want blowjob. Everything cannot. Just handjob. Very boring. Eventually even when she asked, I denied her. Then she angry, accusing me eat outside, say she is not attractive anymore. Then when I told her the reason, she said I only think of sex. But when she asked if I can lick her, can finger her, I always say yes. :(
We're always the giver, the provider, the worker, but get nothing back in return.
Peacekeeping
29-10-2024, 11:12 PM
no offence but I've seen fit and handsome men, also suffering in their marriages.
it's not just the body, or the looks, it's also the emotional support and mental connection, for a select group of women.
in fact, two friends, married, both toned and good looking, work out a lot, just got divorced. They weren't cheaters either.
but then again, maybe this point coming from me is a bit biased because i'm still a fat bastard. haha
They must be young, late 20s or early 30s? At least after divorce they have the conditions to find another good looking partner. Maybe think the forest is too big to give up for one tree.
Hunterbeast
30-10-2024, 01:12 AM
When with gfs, I had the on and off habit of working out.
I discovered that when some muscles were obvious, my then gfs were more horny, and they admitted as much.
Caught them several times looking at my 6 pack or chest muscles.
Other muscles don't seem to interest them as much.
Suggest TS do some workout to build on those muscles.
So even if wife not impressed when those muscles are there, she is sure going to worry wtf you are working out.
We also have to make ourselves desirable to them.
Agreed on that.. Definitely we guys must always maintain our body so that one day if our gf went off we still have the gold card to get new gals lol
songkilan
30-10-2024, 09:51 AM
But when she asked if I can lick her, can finger her, I always say yes. :(
We're always the giver, the provider, the worker, but get nothing back in return.
Your folks must be proud of u
ctan100
30-10-2024, 10:02 AM
When with gfs, I had the on and off habit of working out.
I discovered that when some muscles were obvious, my then gfs were more horny, and they admitted as much.
Caught them several times looking at my 6 pack or chest muscles.
Other muscles don't seem to interest them as much.
Suggest TS do some workout to build on those muscles.
So even if wife not impressed when those muscles are there, she is sure going to worry wtf you are working out.
We also have to make ourselves desirable to them.
i also got to agree on this. i also realised once married.. things are just diff.. no more spark also LOL.. but then if you work out hard and really go out more often it keeps the other side worried. but at the same time... if ur partner is also working out harder and looking much better... u also worry. i think it works both ways to make ourselves always marketable so the other side will want to desire you more lor.
okay off to the gym now LOL
Wulver
30-10-2024, 10:52 AM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
how long you last each time, got make her high ?
itguy2008
30-10-2024, 11:19 AM
After childbirth, my wife experiences discomfort during penetration, even with my finger.
How many kids did you have?
ttmsbf
30-10-2024, 04:21 PM
How many kids did you have?
Just one. It has been 9 months and my wife still haven't gotten back her sex drive and felt painful when I stuff her pussy.
Ginung
31-10-2024, 12:38 AM
We're always the giver, the provider, the worker, but get nothing back in return.
I feel like a loser :( They can have all the fun, I also want to have fun
libra27
31-10-2024, 04:45 AM
Same issue as u. So just jerk off ba
sbwow
31-10-2024, 08:30 AM
Just one. It has been 9 months and my wife still haven't gotten back her sex drive and felt painful when I stuff her pussy.
She got fucked painful by another guy. HAHAHA.
Not leaving any fucks for you. HAHAHA.
sbwow
31-10-2024, 08:32 AM
I feel like a loser :( They can have all the fun, I also want to have fun
Yes, you are the loser at this. HAHAHA.
candle2000
31-10-2024, 09:20 AM
We're always the giver, the provider, the worker, but get nothing back in return.
Not that bad situation as many "want to give but has no free abalone"
and "end up paying to give".
Please appreciate your pussy-in-hand and when "it strays away and never return", you may definitely regret.
irasshaimase
31-10-2024, 09:23 AM
i also got to agree on this. i also realised once married.. things are just diff.. no more spark also LOL.. but then if you work out hard and really go out more often it keeps the other side worried. but at the same time... if ur partner is also working out harder and looking much better... u also worry. i think it works both ways to make ourselves always marketable so the other side will want to desire you more lor.
okay off to the gym now LOL
Thanks for info.
suffrage
31-10-2024, 09:24 AM
Not that bad situation as many "want to give but has no free abalone"
and "end up paying to give".
Please appreciate your pussy-in-hand and when "it strays away and never return", you may definitely regret.
Agree with you.
ciseda
31-10-2024, 03:29 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Not bad liao, for some this is not even happening lor
itguy2008
01-11-2024, 01:32 PM
Just one. It has been 9 months and my wife still haven't gotten back her sex drive and felt painful when I stuff her pussy.
Don't force it. The sex drive will be lower and lower. Let her rest and sleep more.
bmwspeed
07-11-2024, 06:05 PM
.any bros can share...thx
wearhelmet
07-11-2024, 06:37 PM
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
ctan100
10-11-2024, 03:53 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
Bro why does it sound like ur in prison LOL.. not that i get much action from my wife but then again once every 2 months is less than her period i think sth wrong leh?
ghostcow
24-11-2024, 05:02 PM
Worth it to get married or no
ParkTheBus
25-11-2024, 11:51 AM
Not that bad situation as many "want to give but has no free abalone"
and "end up paying to give".
Please appreciate your pussy-in-hand and when "it strays away and never return", you may definitely regret.
Well said bro! :)
bodypleasure
25-11-2024, 01:02 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
normal bro. Now paying for others to help me jerk off after massage lor
syinz1
25-11-2024, 05:56 PM
my case is different.
After wife gave birth, and we stop for 2 years. cos she seem discomfort and i assume she don want it. so i DIY all these years.
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. After a long discuss, she told me her sex drive gain alot as age increase. She was in 39s now.
After that day of long communication, we started to more open, we brought alot sexy lingerie/nightgown/cosplay/pantyhose to increase our sexperience, sometime we fucked in bedroom door openly while my daughter was outside watching tv, sometime balcony/kitchen. she is damn wet
She start to wear sexy dress/ bra top with pad without wearing bra. sometime she went to try some new cloth when shopping, i will wait outside fitting room and wait for her show. we will purposely try those thin cloth so that she can show me pointing nipple and sexy panties. (but still i not dare to fuck her inside as i wan to take care my daughter outside. )
other than tat, She also following those girl KOL who talk sex, and shared with me how to fuck her so that she can feel more deeper.
i feel like i got a new wife after the conversation. Her sexy drive high til i have to stop her. she said she can fuck everyday if i can hold it. I told her maybe of my age, i only happen to fuck every week. i have to brought those tiger coffee to maintain my performance. damn..
bochapsing
25-11-2024, 06:16 PM
no pussy, no money... DIY lo.. what to do?! :o:o:o
arbalest
26-11-2024, 01:27 AM
I think husband and wife should really talk about sex and desire. Don't scared kena judged or what, just talk first. If can fix without eating out then fix. If not eat out already no turning back.
I do jerking off quite frequently...maybe only can have sex with wife once every 2 months...
Thanks for info.
Renzi
26-11-2024, 09:29 AM
I think husband and wife should really talk about sex and desire. Don't scared kena judged or what, just talk first. If can fix without eating out then fix. If not eat out already no turning back.
Agree with you.
dalat
26-11-2024, 09:31 AM
my case is different.
After wife gave birth, and we stop for 2 years. cos she seem discomfort and i assume she don want it. so i DIY all these years.
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. After a long discuss, she told me her sex drive gain alot as age increase. She was in 39s now.
After that day of long communication, we started to more open, we brought alot sexy lingerie/nightgown/cosplay/pantyhose to increase our sexperience, sometime we fucked in bedroom door openly while my daughter was outside watching tv, sometime balcony/kitchen. she is damn wet
She start to wear sexy dress/ bra top with pad without wearing bra. sometime she went to try some new cloth when shopping, i will wait outside fitting room and wait for her show. we will purposely try those thin cloth so that she can show me pointing nipple and sexy panties. (but still i not dare to fuck her inside as i wan to take care my daughter outside. )
other than tat, She also following those girl KOL who talk sex, and shared with me how to fuck her so that she can feel more deeper.
i feel like i got a new wife after the conversation. Her sexy drive high til i have to stop her. she said she can fuck everyday if i can hold it. I told her maybe of my age, i only happen to fuck every week. i have to brought those tiger coffee to maintain my performance. damn..
Thanks for sharing.
Btlifestyle
26-11-2024, 09:33 AM
Thanks for all who contributed.
syinz1
27-11-2024, 04:08 PM
I think husband and wife should really talk about sex and desire. Don't scared kena judged or what, just talk first. If can fix without eating out then fix. If not eat out already no turning back.
yes, this is very true
Fed02
27-11-2024, 06:30 PM
I think for couples who had reached a certain age when stamina is an issue, can always try sex toys to make the session longer and match each other's desire.
ghostcow
27-11-2024, 08:09 PM
How bros? Worth it to get married or not
blu3fin
29-11-2024, 07:27 AM
my case is different.
After wife gave birth, and we stop for 2 years. cos she seem discomfort and i assume she don want it. so i DIY all these years.
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. After a long discuss, she told me her sex drive gain alot as age increase. She was in 39s now.
After that day of long communication, we started to more open, we brought alot sexy lingerie/nightgown/cosplay/pantyhose to increase our sexperience, sometime we fucked in bedroom door openly while my daughter was outside watching tv, sometime balcony/kitchen. she is damn wet
She start to wear sexy dress/ bra top with pad without wearing bra. sometime she went to try some new cloth when shopping, i will wait outside fitting room and wait for her show. we will purposely try those thin cloth so that she can show me pointing nipple and sexy panties. (but still i not dare to fuck her inside as i wan to take care my daughter outside. )
other than tat, She also following those girl KOL who talk sex, and shared with me how to fuck her so that she can feel more deeper.
i feel like i got a new wife after the conversation. Her sexy drive high til i have to stop her. she said she can fuck everyday if i can hold it. I told her maybe of my age, i only happen to fuck every week. i have to brought those tiger coffee to maintain my performance. damn..
You good liao... mine totally lose interest in sex after difficult pregnancy, so just DIY liao.
Denis5220
29-11-2024, 10:31 AM
You good liao... mine totally lose interest in sex after difficult pregnancy, so just DIY liao.
Same as mine too. Have to plead like a loser to get sex. Haiz
tigerXXX
29-11-2024, 06:32 PM
no sex , but allow CIM weekly
blu3fin
29-11-2024, 10:18 PM
no sex , but allow CIM weekly
Not a bad deal really...
entering
29-11-2024, 11:36 PM
Is it normal? I can only have sex with wife once every 2 months....any bros can share...thx..
I can't DIY. Once I DIY, I can't cum when I meet my girls. So, I eat outside (or inside when the part time maid fucks me at home while they're out) but I can't DIY.
bighead111
03-12-2024, 12:28 PM
After some diy time, my wife starts to initiate and also accept my initiation as well.
I realised one thing and it is the energy level of the wife that dictates if we have sex or not.
So these days I coaxed her to go to bed early and we usually will have some time in the morning to have morning sex or foreplay (HJ or BJ).
So I sum it up as her energy level can easily used up ( household , children, work, TV, phone etc) so it is easier in the morning when she is feeling all energized and happy before the day starts and ruin her mood or energy level.
TingSieSiong
04-12-2024, 01:00 AM
my wife past 40s already menopause, women past 40s are expired already. I try to initiate sex and she kick me away. Now I only fantasize on my friend Wilson Tan's young big neneh wife.
ArmKarn
16-12-2024, 07:17 AM
my wife past 40s already menopause, women past 40s are expired already. I try to initiate sex and she kick me away. Now I only fantasize on my friend Wilson Tan's young big neneh wife.
So fast 40s already menopause ?
ArmKarn
16-12-2024, 07:22 AM
One day, she talk to me. She asked if i eat outside/cheating, cos i dint touch her for 2 coming 3 years. ..
What was your answer to her to this question by her ?
Lemonjuice
16-12-2024, 08:20 AM
I can't DIY. Once I DIY, I can't cum when I meet my girls. So, I eat outside (or inside when the part time maid fucks me at home while they're out) but I can't DIY.
Wow.. how you ups part time maid? Or is it CSB?
fucksticks
16-12-2024, 09:12 AM
my wife past 40s already menopause, women past 40s are expired already. I try to initiate sex and she kick me away. Now I only fantasize on my friend Wilson Tan's young big neneh wife.
Thanks for info.
wankpuffin
16-12-2024, 09:13 AM
Thanks for those who sharing.
FootParadise
16-12-2024, 02:29 PM
Thanks for info.
Thanks for those who sharing.
Thanks twins.
entering
20-12-2024, 01:16 AM
Wow.. how you ups part time maid? Or is it CSB?
Usual lor, the part time are all the maids I up outside first. Then tell wife to hire a part time on weekends to help with house work. When wife and kids all go out for breakfast, I fuck one round, then they go out for lunch is round 2 then after that I leave home to meet other maids for round 3 in the afternoon and then after dinner is round 4.
The part time will rotate. This week is maid A, next week is maid B and after that is maid C or A...
Every year end will get a new batch of girls so have about 6-10 to rotate but lately, the girls have some admin, some accounts, some nurses, some healthcare workers.
Mostly either indo or Pinay, but once in a while have other countries.
Weekday meet once or twice, but holiday season will be more, some days can meet 2-3 girls on a weekday. But this is after many years of prospecting and cultivating the whole group.
Lately gave up an indo healthcare nurse. Not pretty and also skin got discoloration but looks isn't my issue, her attitude was my issue. But after I deleted her from my contacts (so I've no way of contacting her anymore to ensure a clean break), I quite miss her cuz somehow pussy grips my cock in the right way and I always cum with her.
To cum these days, is quite hard for me.
itguy2008
20-12-2024, 03:03 AM
Usual lor, the part time are all the maids I up outside first. Then tell wife to hire a part time on weekends to help with house work. When wife and kids all go out for breakfast, I fuck one round, then they go out for lunch is round 2 then after that I leave home to meet other maids for round 3 in the afternoon and then after dinner is round 4.
The part time will rotate. This week is maid A, next week is maid B and after that is maid C or A...
Every year end will get a new batch of girls so have about 6-10 to rotate but lately, the girls have some admin, some accounts, some nurses, some healthcare workers.
Mostly either indo or Pinay, but once in a while have other countries.
Weekday meet once or twice, but holiday season will be more, some days can meet 2-3 girls on a weekday. But this is after many years of prospecting and cultivating the whole group.
Lately gave up an indo healthcare nurse. Not pretty and also skin got discoloration but looks isn't my issue, her attitude was my issue. But after I deleted her from my contacts (so I've no way of contacting her anymore to ensure a clean break), I quite miss her cuz somehow pussy grips my cock in the right way and I always cum with her.
To cum these days, is quite hard for me.
why quite hard to cum bro? The girls cannot excite you?
entering
21-12-2024, 02:49 AM
why quite hard to cum bro? The girls cannot excite you?
I also don't know. This year is the year of the purge for me. Got rid of all that I don't feel anything anymore, which was like almost 20 girls. Said bye to them in one way or another.
Just came back from another session, girl is 49 but her body is the super soft, fats at the right places, breast damn nice and round, plus her skin damn smooth. For a 49, I would say she's a 7/10. Fucked her for 1.5 hours, she came a lot, I didn't. Don't know why too, but at least I was hard.
Those I can't even get hard one, I just told them, we aren't suitable for each other anymore.
I went to ask the GP about pills, he told me the pills only work if I'm aroused, cuz if I'm not, won't work so well. Plus getting hard isn't a problem for me, more like something in my mind switched off. GP said he wants to refer me to psychologist but then what will I say to the psychologist? That I fucked so much until now I have no feel?
Last week, just prospected a new batch of girls, and all under 40, a few in their 20s. Will see if I can get hard and if I'm hard, whether I can cum.
If not, I'll have to really check out what's wrong.
itguy2008
22-12-2024, 04:53 AM
I also don't know. This year is the year of the purge for me. Got rid of all that I don't feel anything anymore, which was like almost 20 girls. Said bye to them in one way or another.
Just came back from another session, girl is 49 but her body is the super soft, fats at the right places, breast damn nice and round, plus her skin damn smooth. For a 49, I would say she's a 7/10. Fucked her for 1.5 hours, she came a lot, I didn't. Don't know why too, but at least I was hard.
Those I can't even get hard one, I just told them, we aren't suitable for each other anymore.
I went to ask the GP about pills, he told me the pills only work if I'm aroused, cuz if I'm not, won't work so well. Plus getting hard isn't a problem for me, more like something in my mind switched off. GP said he wants to refer me to psychologist but then what will I say to the psychologist? That I fucked so much until now I have no feel?
Last week, just prospected a new batch of girls, and all under 40, a few in their 20s. Will see if I can get hard and if I'm hard, whether I can cum.
If not, I'll have to really check out what's wrong.
Bro, maybe you are like me. You cannot be simulated by physical attraction alone. Need some intelligent chats and a bit of flirting.
entering
22-12-2024, 06:34 AM
Bro, maybe you are like me. You cannot be simulated by physical attraction alone. Need some intelligent chats and a bit of flirting.
I also figured the same. Yesterday, had one with a 29 year old. She complains a lot and looks wise was like a 4/10 for me. Plus when she turned up, she said she was tired.
So, the usual, fuck a bit but didn't cum and also after that, even when she suck, I didn't get hard. I just didn't feel it.
I think I need the girl to romance me. The only problem is, romance takes a long time to build.
My closest friend, who also fucked like more than 100 Pinay (and other country girls) also said, after a while, it's natural that our body reject the ugly, attitude problem, and also need the girl to be 8/10 in looks & attitude.
I miss being young, not the age, but miss those days when even 60 year old aunty, I'll be hard and fuck them till they complain their pussy is aching, but want more.
Az284
22-12-2024, 07:58 AM
Bro, maybe you are like me. You cannot be simulated by physical attraction alone. Need some intelligent chats and a bit of flirting.
Yup. I'm the same - sapiosexual. I get turned on by displays of intelligence. And I've been turned off by physically attractive women who display the opposite.
Twa_Kee
22-12-2024, 08:35 AM
Usual lor, the part time are all the maids I up outside first. Then tell wife to hire a part time on weekends to help with house work. When wife and kids all go out for breakfast, I fuck one round, then they go out for lunch is round 2 then after that I leave home to meet other maids for round 3 in the afternoon and then after dinner is round 4.
The part time will rotate. This week is maid A, next week is maid B and after that is maid C or A...
Every year end will get a new batch of girls so have about 6-10 to rotate but lately, the girls have some admin, some accounts, some nurses, some healthcare workers.
Mostly either indo or Pinay, but once in a while have other countries.
Weekday meet once or twice, but holiday season will be more, some days can meet 2-3 girls on a weekday. But this is after many years of prospecting and cultivating the whole group.
Lately gave up an indo healthcare nurse. Not pretty and also skin got discoloration but looks isn't my issue, her attitude was my issue. But after I deleted her from my contacts (so I've no way of contacting her anymore to ensure a clean break), I quite miss her cuz somehow pussy grips my cock in the right way and I always cum with her.
To cum these days, is quite hard for me.
Wah, you so easily get to bonk these maids … the ones you wanna let go, can let us fxxk or not leh ?
entering
22-12-2024, 11:08 AM
Wah, you so easily get to bonk these maids … the ones you wanna let go, can let us fxxk or not leh ?
👌those I deleted is like total deletion so lost contact. But next time, I want to delete a girl I'll keep for you 😅👌
entering
22-12-2024, 11:13 AM
Yup. I'm the same - sapiosexual. I get turned on by displays of intelligence. And I've been turned off by physically attractive women who display the opposite.
But at 50, it's damn tiring to go through 30 girls just to pick that 1-3. Even if don't fuck, just texting, sexting, coffee (rare but lately started coffee interview), fucking once (then realized the girl is not fun).
Then eventually reach that 1-2, some days I also ask if I should retire.
But this morning, my part time came and as I was staring at her big ass and cum in her mouth, I think I won't be able to retire so soon.
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