View Full Version : If you met your dreamgirl, would you give up Cheonging?
blackburn_rover
15-11-2008, 09:46 PM
If you finally got the girl of your dream, the one that you always wanted to have and have chased for so long...now that she is finally your girl/wife, would you turn over a new leaf and give up cheonging altogether?
David_Ginola
15-11-2008, 10:30 PM
Yes i will give up for a short while........then everything starts all over again hehe
whitegals
16-11-2008, 01:15 AM
My dreamgirl would be the one who would go cheong with me, picks up the babes, and join in for 3somes. So if I did indeed meet her, it would be kinda ironic to give it up then, wouldn't it? :confused:
Erasure
16-11-2008, 11:18 PM
Why not? If this was my dreamgal and I have to choose between cheonging and being with my girl, of course i will take the latter....
High till Dry
17-11-2008, 01:26 AM
since it's a "dream" likely it will not come true :p
If i ever meet my dream gal , i will give up cheong , and only truthful to her, and work hard and marry her and have a happy family。
believe in saying "Once a chongster always a Chongster", u might give up for a while but eventually u will be back. ha ha.. just my 1 cent thought...
Townhouse
18-11-2008, 01:50 PM
Let see how's our relationship goes? Maybe slow at the beginning.
Megatronzombie
18-11-2008, 09:12 PM
I already met and successfully woed my dreamgirl. I swore to be faithful to her forever. Unfortunately, she turned out to be a slut and I started cheonging :mad:
givemeanick
19-11-2008, 08:25 PM
Can be considered :)
xmalaysia
20-11-2008, 01:11 PM
Yes, if I meet my dream gir I would you give up cheonging :)
stupidinu
22-11-2008, 02:52 PM
Depends on how to term cheong. For me, still cheong but not to go for paid sex. maybe ktv for some fun. ;)
larotomo
22-11-2008, 11:06 PM
Why bring a cow back just for the milk??:D
Virginhell
22-11-2008, 11:14 PM
Why bring a cow back just for the milk??:D
Well, at least u noe this cow is most likely free from melamine :p
I too would give up cheonging if I found someone I really love....I will not risk anything to lose her...unless like what megazombie mentioned earlier...if she is a slut...then I will make a comeback as a cheongster...;)
cheongsterjon
23-11-2008, 12:59 PM
Please do not flame me but honestly I think sometimes it's easier said than done. I had a perfect girlfriend last year, she is great in almost every aspect. She's very classy, the type which makes you want to bring her out to show your friends(Not to show off but rather is proud of her), hot and sexy, good in the heart, not like some girls who just put up a false front and most important is good in bed. However, during the times when I am on overseas business trips when I'm alone, when I pass by those health clubs at the bottom of the hotel or when I visit karaoke pubs to entertain clients, I still have the tendency to pick up girls and go for one night stand. It is impossible for her to be always by my side and it requires a great deal of effort for me to resist such temptations...
newman11
19-12-2008, 09:01 PM
Like other bros mentioned..
I think is a hobby/habbit.. Once you enjoyed it, you will always want it as and when you feel it need it man..
As for me, yes i may consider to start afresh.
DarthRevan
20-12-2008, 05:20 AM
Most likely start afresh, hopefully can find a dreamgirl soon :D
slyer
20-12-2008, 01:32 PM
i will give up for short period of time but after a while i cannot resist temptation and will start cheonging :D
_Frank_
20-12-2008, 01:55 PM
i will give up for short period of time but after a while i cannot resist temptation and will start cheonging :D
That's what a lot of chiongsters do.
The grass is always greener on the other side. :p
akaza24
20-12-2008, 02:14 PM
I will definitely try my best to gv up cheonging, tats wat I can say :)
panorama
21-12-2008, 11:07 AM
i will try to but not anytime soon.
nik ajus
21-12-2008, 11:15 AM
Yes I am, and I have given up almost 1 year now, we have a baby boy 8 months old and we enjoys every moment of our life including sex :)
longwinter
21-12-2008, 01:11 PM
this kind of thing very hard to say de leh
maybe u met ur dreamgal liao, for a while being, u wont go out and stray la. but after sumtime temptations sure will set in de leh. our mood always change. it cant be always static de leh.
and summore sumtime l realised that when l have a bit more spare cash in the pocket, sumhow rather l will feel itchy also.
johnng
21-12-2008, 01:49 PM
The term dreamgirl means someone who is really very special, must really treasure her. yep, will give up cheonging.
dap26
21-12-2008, 03:27 PM
For me i think is hard to say....Although u might set your mind to stop chionging but sometimes the urge is always there..
longwinter
21-12-2008, 03:41 PM
For me i think is hard to say....Although u might set your mind to stop chionging but sometimes the urge is always there..
ya, that is why l tink this kind of things dun say early. same thing applies to everything in life. dun promise so readily or say things in a rush.
Erasure
21-12-2008, 04:13 PM
If you make a promise, you are making a commitment...at least you know you should and will be determine to try. If you don't even try or make any commitments, chances are very high you will cheong even when attached with ur love ones.
To me, giving up cheonging is important for a couple of reasons:
1) Its going to be costly now that you have a girlfriend/wife-to-be. Bad economic times require prudent spending.
2) You love her too much to lose her. I don't want to break her heart. If you caught me cheating, I'm pretty sure that's the end of our relationship. Plus, I don't expect her to cheat behind my back, so its only fair I do the same. Chances like these come perhaps once in your life, lose it and you may live to regret. I always believe in karma, you reap what you sow.
3) If I kena some STDs outside, den that's really doing no good to her and myself. If I got plans for a family etc...it only makes sense to be loyal and faithful.
Well, that's my thoughts, I know others may not fully agree with me, but least I know this is what I would do. So, if one day you guys see me stop posting on SBF for my FR, it means I have found my true love....or it simply means my computer was spoilt....;)
joew2005
21-12-2008, 04:33 PM
I would like 2 say that I would give up cheonging if i met my dream gal.
But then life is so full of surprises,u nvr know wat's next.
Perhaps...perhaps...perhaps...
But then nw i m alrdy losing 2 temptation. ;)
12qwerty
21-12-2008, 05:50 PM
Really hard to say...temptation may occur leh :D
Jiminator
01-01-2009, 11:40 AM
I will try to be a BETTER man . BETTER MAN in terms of being more safe ,cautious and responsible in cheoning . Hard to give up this vice of mine .:p
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