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girlgirl
22-12-2008, 12:48 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
slhong18
22-12-2008, 08:59 AM
can we be frens?..then u can see if it is different...
netrot
22-12-2008, 09:05 AM
Girl girl..
First of all , how long u with him.. ?? he not interested in make love with u ??
Why dont u make fren with us ?? and when he sense that u had other" guy" fren .. he will be jealouse and start to bonk u like no tomorrow.. but beware..
is he only jealouse than bonk u ?? or he really love u ??
my humble advice..
Benson Cheng
22-12-2008, 09:11 AM
Talk to him not directly but understand him more about his friends circles. That may help to understand what went wrong.
Hope this will help.
ganbei
22-12-2008, 09:15 AM
You must first ask him why. The bros here wont be able to help if we dont have the specifics.
actionnera
22-12-2008, 09:16 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
Depends on the maturity, probably the 2 of you are still very young. He's just interested in your body or he's pretty tied up lately. Why don't you ask him directly instead of asking any strangers.
Kittenish
22-12-2008, 09:29 AM
Hi there.
Perhaps it's time to re-examine your past relationship with him, try to be objective. Can you find the reason?
You also should ask him, but try to do it without accusation or guilt-tripping him, you will be less likely to put him on the defensive. Remember that it is possible that it has nothing to do with you or your behavior.
Good luck.
Remember,do not accuse him or point fingers. Have a mature, open discussion with your chosen partner.
sinbin3333
22-12-2008, 09:37 AM
Just find a right time, sit down and have a good talk with him.... if it don't work then you can ponder other options
Beastmaster007
22-12-2008, 09:52 AM
I do agree with most of our bros here.... Sit down n have a good talk with him..... Problem lies between u n him.... We cant help u much but advises only. Ultimately u n him have to solve it between urself as only he n u knows wats happenin....
or
Maybe he finds it gettin dry... As in sex with u or e relationship..... So wat u can do is spice things up abit.....if u really need help, i believe bros here will be more than willing to help stay cool we will always be there for u! Cheers...!
waiwaiz
22-12-2008, 10:33 AM
Can it be the case that you'll over do it during the 1n half years?.......Try using some sex toys to spice up sex wuth him again.....I use vibrator on my gal at times........Hope it help....:)
stephan
22-12-2008, 11:07 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
瘦田无人耕,一耕有人争! :D
DegenerationX
22-12-2008, 11:31 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
u wanna consider me? :D
no_faith
22-12-2008, 11:35 AM
he not interested in making love wif you?
first you have to upload sum of ur pics for us to analyze then we can advise u or else no pics very hard to comment anyting.;):D
瘦田无人耕,一耕有人争! :D
那么肥田也不一定有人争。只因 “太肥沃了”。
Goldhills
22-12-2008, 12:10 PM
Maybe got 3rd party with him.
J76_1999
22-12-2008, 12:42 PM
the answer is self explanatory if you are an inexperienced young gal who does only missionary.
Bronco
22-12-2008, 01:00 PM
Ger, is ur physical body got any problem in the first place.. example below any smelly or not:confused:
Oralcraz
22-12-2008, 06:09 PM
The only reason a couple don't make love anymore is..... the love feeling is GONE! Have to give the relationship a check Girl.
Greendevil
22-12-2008, 07:12 PM
girlgirl, there could a thousand and one reasons and answers to your question. You need to provide us more background so the bros here can analysis your situation better and give your sound advice. It will be useful if you can tell us,
1.Your bf and your age
2.How long you two been together?
3. What was the freq of your sex routine with him?Compare with past and present
4.Some info abt yourself?
5. any other info you think it might be useful?
6. how you two go abt having sex etc?
SammyHulk
22-12-2008, 07:17 PM
Another alternative site for ur queries ShoppingLifestyle Sex Forum (http://www.shoppinglifestyle.com/forum/forum_topics.asp?FID=62) Hope helps ;)
sickwormm
22-12-2008, 09:09 PM
girlgirl, by the way what is your bf age. At current economy crisis guy would feel alot of pressure from work, this may also affect the sexual desire. If you would love him, try asking him in a soft approach like how's work, is there a lot of pressure. etc. Slowly grow deeper and more intimate.
If he still loves you you should be able to get your answers. One suggestion try to put your thought into his situation, thing may get better. Just by simple suggestion hopes it is helpful to you.
girlgirl
23-12-2008, 12:53 AM
Thanks people for your concern.
I guess the main reason is that we always does missionary?
:confused:
kpkprivate
23-12-2008, 01:54 AM
Not sure if this applies to you....
How well you know your bf?
How much you know about him?
Is he feeling inferior about himself?
Or too naive gaming away on the screen?
let what some of the bros here have mentioned,
Try dropping him hints or get physical w him.
If none of them works you both have to sit down and talk...
kimochichi
23-12-2008, 02:19 AM
Hey girl, I suggest you have a heart-to-heart talk with your Boyfriend sincerely, asking him is there anything that he is unhappy or unsatisfied with in the relationship or with you (no offense). Some guys would just choose to bottle everything up within themselves in order to avoid conflicts and trouble, but I believe with right and gentle persuasion, he would gradually open up to you. Ganbatte! :p
ah rat
23-12-2008, 07:47 AM
I guess the main reason is that we always does missionary?
Ever try missionary position-Yours BF lie,while u on top and u do pumping :D
simple truth is we tire of the same dish over and over again. if there's nothing new to offer or you are very passive, it's just easier and less energy to diy. you'll be surprised bu his porn collection. talking to him doesn't help. my guess is he's the quiet type and to avoid conflicts, you won't wring the truth out of him.
the only way is to wait out till he grows up or for you to change partners. or for him to find that you are still desirable to other men.
ultimately you have to ask yourself, is he a good man? is he worth your time waiting for him to grow up and realise?
one thing I'd like to find out though. how do you define love? what is the meaning me love? sometimes it may just be the little things that he does that you've taken for granted. don't compare with your girlfriends what their bf do cuz we're all different and respond different.
in the end it's about the special bond we've created for ourselves. the togetherness, that special telepathy where you simply think and if knows what you want and smiled bu each other. in the end these are the qualities guys look for in a companion. the lovey dovey feeling cannot last forever and is tedious if you are always the receiver and not the giver.
again I ask of you what is your definition of love?
Bangster
23-12-2008, 12:47 PM
Girlgirl,
if you are below 17,
and your bf recently read up a little bit of the Penal Code,
he must be shitting in his pants right now.
That's why he has not been making love to you of late.
Maybe if he is also in this forum and see my reply here, tomorrow onwards you will not be able to contact him even. He would have run to Malaysia liao.
Ok lah, not really run as in "run" lah, can take KTM train or Johor Ekspress bas. SBS Transit 170 also got go there.
girlgirl
23-12-2008, 01:12 PM
I'm 23 and he's 28 la..
waiwaiz
23-12-2008, 01:15 PM
Ah girl,
Making less love to you, doesn't really mean he doesn't love you anymore. What position is definitely not an issue. Beside making out lesser, do you see any others changes in him to you????........:)
.
Thom07
23-12-2008, 01:25 PM
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Another 3rd party might be involved. ;)
girlgirl
23-12-2008, 03:23 PM
The possibilities of 3rd party is quite low. He still meets me very often.
sky_liner2
23-12-2008, 04:41 PM
I'm 23 and he's 28 la..
HOR SEI LIAO, 2328. HUAT AHHHHH....
He may have a galfrd, it is time that you change your BF :rolleyes:
Greendevil
23-12-2008, 06:55 PM
girlgirl, his sex interest with you is it a sudden change?If yes, do you notice any other change in his daily behaviour?this maybe indication there is a third party, and depositing his little JR elsewhere
If it is a gradual change, then it maybe because like many bros has say, time to add some spice to your sex life. Btw how come onli missonary?
tokkon1
24-12-2008, 02:10 AM
The flwg are some reasons that makes me not want to have sex wif my ger.
1. Stressful day at the office.
2. Having a bad day (all kinds of reasons)
3. *My ger pissed me off (knowingly or unknowingly)
* Something u say, did, asked for. Being unreasonable, stubborn. etc....
4. Money or lack of it (financial issues)
5. Hygiene...bad breath, smelly cunt, BO, etc.
6. My ger takes me for granted. No more lovey dovey.
7. This one is really bad. I have lost interest in my ger. She no longer turns me on.
My dear, hope it helps?
huanggua
24-12-2008, 08:04 AM
There are no other ways than talking to him and finding out the reason. Only then you can explore the various possible ways to overcome that problem or problems.
tan1688
24-12-2008, 10:04 AM
The possibilities of 3rd party is quite low. He still meets me very often.
i think the common answer would be
1) Is ur pussy smelly ? do u shave and have good hygiene ?
I broke off with my gf cuz her pussy really smells horrible
does he like to lick u, if he doesn't too bad bah dun ask him too
2) Do you initiate sex or ur bf ? u must be active not passively
waiting lor .. can give some hints like rub him with ur bobbies
till he is horny :rolleyes: or buy sexy lingerie and seduce him ..:p
3) Is ur sex skills good ? if do one position onli very boring can
try other new positions etc ... do u know how to give a good
blowjob this comes by experience, is ur riding skills good not,
can make him cum 3-4times per love session
geckoSG
24-12-2008, 10:14 AM
Sis, if you only did missionary and only acts like a dead fish there by moaning
without much other changes. For me, I will also be sian...
To improve that, do take initiative and change positions... Go internet look
for some nice positions that you can try... To enjoy sex, you must be open
minded for FUN.
MEN get aroused easily... Especially, we loved women who are very "FUN"
in bed.
So, hope this helps you, still need more help, can drop me PM. Cheers and
Good Luck! :D
daozi
24-12-2008, 11:18 AM
Maybe you can bring him to a sex shop and see what kind of fun he likes for a start.
Kyser Soze
24-12-2008, 11:24 AM
MEN get aroused easily... Especially, we loved women who are very "FUN" in bed.
So, hope this helps you, still need more help, can drop me PM. Cheers and
Good Luck! :D
Quite right. Perhaps it is seduction not enough. :p
tenggiri
24-12-2008, 11:47 AM
The possibilities of 3rd party is quite low. He still meets me very often.
Many ppl feel unloved also, that's why there are so many extra marital affairs or break ups. Once the spark of a relationship is gone, its quite hard to get it back. There are certain ways you can try to get your rs back on track but, no guaranties. PM me if you need help.
Oralcraz
24-12-2008, 02:50 PM
Thanks people for your concern.
I guess the main reason is that we always does missionary?
:confused:
This really cannot be the main reason:( When I was at yr age (I'm 45 now), I also always did missionary with my then gf. Most of the time, I'm on top. But the feel between us is so strong that it doesn't matter what position or whether foreplay is enough. We "Just do it" and our missionary last between 15-30 mins. We have mission everyday, sometimes more then once (except for the mens period). We continue our mission for 5 yrs till we broke off.
So, whether mission or not, I think is immaterial. Still think the relationship need to be checked!
Stud00
24-12-2008, 03:36 PM
Sis T.S,
i am sorry to hear about such things. I guess the best solution that you would have is to sit down and have a good talk with your bf. There could be many factors, such as work-stress, being tired physically. Also,Communication is the basis of life.. Important be it in Career,Families,nation or even relationship. You won't know until you guys have a good chat. Hope you managed to work things out.
Cheers
can we be frens?..then u can see if it is different...
Fuck.. don prey on ppl la.. she asking for advice/help.. :mad:
zinedine zidane
24-12-2008, 03:44 PM
or maybe....... ur bf is alwiz surfin this forum??:p
soooo much goodys on this forum, soooo hard to resist!!!:D:D
The possibilities of 3rd party is quite low. He still meets me very often.
hi i think you should talk to your BF about your worries...
me now also 28 the urge for sex is not that much and active now but this might different from many bros here who is super active :D
Highjoys
24-12-2008, 05:19 PM
The possibilities of 3rd party is quite low. He still meets me very often.
If he "eats" same dishes every often he will get tired of it someday.... do u know this logic is quite popular among many couples?
slyer
24-12-2008, 06:29 PM
i think ts should sit down and have a good talk with her bf and sort things out. maybe he is busy and didn't show u much concern
Blue_gal
24-12-2008, 11:18 PM
LOL u guys are super duper "helpful" here leh...really make my day after reading......
sorry back to girlgirl's matter:
i would like to suggest......"DUMP" HIM -> is time to change!!
a relationship without making love = ZERO feeling.... unless both of u are in 60s or 70s yrs old if nope, both of u should be enjoying SEX LIFE! Make SEX! Only be letting "HIM" IN "HER" then both of "THEM" will gets to "love eachother" every days....
as for finding a "replacement" i bet those sweet guys here can help u for SURE! :D
Cheer!
Blue AUnt|E
ah rat
25-12-2008, 08:13 AM
i bet those sweet guys here can help u for SURE! :D
Sure I can help :p :D
hollyboy123
25-12-2008, 08:43 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
It means He is not interested in ur body anymore.
It also means he does nt love U anymore.
Maybe the session had been too boring??
Try nice tricks lah.........
Some gals will just lie there n get wreck, too shy???
UserAdmin
25-12-2008, 03:14 PM
Hi Miss Unloved,
There is so many possible answer to your problem.
Just make sure that she still love you.
Questions yourself:
Did he change? (get angry with you easily)
Sometime it can be due to stress. or maybe something happen to his birdie,
Hope it helps, and wishing you both all the best.
Oralcraz
25-12-2008, 03:37 PM
Quote from Blue Gal :
"a relationship without making love = ZERO feeling.... unless both of u are in 60s or 70s yrs old if nope, both of u should be enjoying SEX LIFE! Make SEX! Only be letting "HIM" IN "HER" then both of "THEM" will gets to "love eachother" every days...."
U and me same metality;) I like.
lglg666
25-12-2008, 04:42 PM
It is sad when it comes to this situation, guess most relationships will come to this point once the freshness wear-off. This is when LOVE play it's part.
If no LOVE then....very soon this relationship will fall apart, trust me on this.
If possible....sit down with him to recall why both of you came together in the first place then talk it thru, if both of you can agree to rekindle the LOVE then fine.
My 2 cents worth....Cheers! and merry Xmas.
girlgirl
25-12-2008, 11:00 PM
The thing that I find it strange is that I do initiate but he can upfront reject me.
Is it normal?
Trueself
26-12-2008, 04:45 AM
i have one of my ex rejected me upfront as well.. i felt horrible!
It's like i am a rejected goods from factory.
He even told me said " why everytime must have sex when we meet? ":confused: (we seldome meet like once a week)
So i gave up, and didnt bother.. soon he told me that he is in love with another gal..
Period.
But after him i do experience rejections but only once from my last bf. Cuz he was too tired which i could really see it, he fell asleep like within 5 sec when he hit the bed, n totally no reaction on his 'bro' unlike normal times. So i guess.. perhaps ur bf is tired? U tried touching when he is asleep after he reject u?
daozi
26-12-2008, 10:08 AM
The secret is to constantly practice the 3 Ts. Time togeher, talk and touch.
geckoSG
26-12-2008, 01:08 PM
The thing that I find it strange is that I do initiate but he can upfront reject me.
Is it normal?
Dump him bah, its very very obvious he is not interested in you anymore,
dun let him treat you as a spare tire... Do and find yourself some other meat.
Oralcraz
26-12-2008, 02:43 PM
The thing that I find it strange is that I do initiate but he can upfront reject me.
Is it normal?
For yr case, I think gecko is right. Finished already.!
As I mentioned in my earlier post, for 5 good yrs with my ex, and almost with a mission everyday, I never rejected her, never. She also never reject me. The only times she protested were when there are people at home in the day. Even that, still cannot take it. Still carry on to complete the mission:D
girlgirl
27-12-2008, 01:24 PM
Dont know whether is really tired anot.
So sickening.
:mad:
geckoSG
28-12-2008, 02:00 PM
girlgirl,
The easiest way is to ask him straight in the face. Does he still loves you,
ask him why he is no longer keen to have sex anymore.
Tired can mean alot, really tired, or no longer keen to make love with you,
cos nothing is fresh or feel is gone.
If he loves you but is not keen to make love with you, then you can choose
to love him but then have your desire satisfied with a FB. Choices here are
abundance for you to choose from.
Honestly, if you think he no longer has feel for you, then no point holding on.
You are still young, go find yourself another guy or FB.
Cheers.
tenggiri
28-12-2008, 04:48 PM
But after him i do experience rejections but only once from my last bf. Cuz he was too tired which i could really see it, he fell asleep like within 5 sec when he hit the bed, n totally no reaction on his 'bro' unlike normal times. So i guess.. perhaps ur bf is tired? U tried touching when he is asleep after he reject u?
Lol sis. No wonder i get erotic dreams sometimes. Must be my oc doing to me when i was snoring away.
But coming back to yr qt; i think our didi can erect even when we are tired. Got one time in NS, i fell asleep after night training. In the middle of the night i felt 'shiok' and suddenly wake up to find our platoon gay guy playing with my didi hehehe. I quickly shoo him away.
phallusman
28-12-2008, 08:49 PM
I got a feeling that this girlgirl might be just a young sch gal play here in SBF. What do bros think? Just my sixth sense la. :D
girlgirl
29-12-2008, 12:31 AM
Your 6th sense is definitely wrong.
LostALau
29-12-2008, 04:01 AM
Me n my bf has been together for ard one n a half yrs.
He seems not interested in making love with me anymore.
Any idea why is that so?
:confused:
There are 101 reasons for that and sometimes the truth will never come out. Some years ago I was suffering from depression due to job and financial problems and didn't bonk my OC for months on end. I was just not in the mood for bonking. She never asked me y and up till today I am still wondering y she didn't ask me y I didn't bonk her for so long.
In your case, no bros can pin-point the reason. Perhaps u can introduce your bf to me. When we have become friends, I can try to fish out the reason for u.
fishball
29-12-2008, 08:31 AM
Thanks people for your concern.
I guess the main reason is that we always does missionary?
:confused:
I think i having the same problem too.. Me and my wift recently married for less than a year, but i already do not felt like making love to her liao.. I damn worrried now..:(:(
sincerechap2004
29-12-2008, 04:04 PM
I think i having the same problem too.. Me and my wift recently married for less than a year, but i already do not felt like making love to her liao.. I damn worrried now..:(:(
bro fishball, this is quite true, like some saying everyday each the same dish also would be tired. Sorry to hear that, but you can try to initiate a change in the way, style and positions etc. Hope things get better for you bro.
To galgal, just my humble suggestions:
So to spike up the sex life I guess it would take both hands to clap. So from the gal part why not try to change to different style (even try different position or try doing the riding when your partner is tired) and be more erotic before the big question, like kissing and rubbing and hugging. It would add to the flame and the guy would be likely to turn-on. If he still feels for you, you should be getting your requested answered
pewpew
29-12-2008, 04:11 PM
Your 6th sense is definitely wrong.
From the various reason u stated, seems like ur bf is no longer interested in u even if u satisfy his thirst.
Just from my point of view, i suggest its time to move on, as long as u have the quality, there are no worries of not finding another bf that love u.
Forget about him, move on, ignore him, if he really treasure u, he will come back for u.
Bonus if u are still young n pretty!
+U, there are still alot of guys out there that will want a loving gf (bonus if its sg? :D)
Good luck n take care ^^
Greendevil
29-12-2008, 07:18 PM
girlgirl, i still suspect your bf is fooling ard despite all u say,esp even u initiate sex, he still reject u?could have fire off his ammo somewhere else - maybe a f-buddy in office??
anyway, i think the fundamental qtns is do both of you still love each other? Do u see light down this path?if yes talk to him in the face. sex is not everything in a relationship.
OTHERWISE MOVE ON, WE SURE CAN HELP :p
girlgirl
30-12-2008, 12:29 AM
So its still possoble for love without making love?
CyberRod
30-12-2008, 12:53 AM
So its still possoble for love without making love?
It is possible my dear... I went on with a girl for almost 2 years without making love but in the end realised that I was taken for a ride... She's the only gf that I didn't make love to her... Was very very deeply hurt and took me 6 mths to recover... :(
girlgirl
30-12-2008, 01:19 AM
Off to bed.
Goodnight everyone!
Greendevil
30-12-2008, 01:26 AM
So its still possoble for love without making love?
You may try to resist at the start, but eventually the thirst will drive you crazy. but you can always still love him and be fed elsewhere kekeke
smokinggun
30-12-2008, 02:05 AM
哪只猫会不贪鲜... :rolleyes:
luvjimmy
30-12-2008, 02:18 AM
for me n my wife not making love more than 6 mths. is there something go wrong.
AirAsia
30-12-2008, 07:20 AM
Me too, Gf is like distancing away from me. All sort of thoughts are running wild in my head...:rolleyes:
zinedine zidane
30-12-2008, 03:38 PM
LOL u guys are super duper "helpful" here leh...really make my day after reading......
sorry back to girlgirl's matter:
i would like to suggest......"DUMP" HIM -> is time to change!!
a relationship without making love = ZERO feeling.... unless both of u are in 60s or 70s yrs old if nope, both of u should be enjoying SEX LIFE! Make SEX! Only be letting "HIM" IN "HER" then both of "THEM" will gets to "love eachother" every days....
as for finding a "replacement" i bet those sweet guys here can help u for SURE! :D
Cheer!
Blue AUnt|E
actually i do agree wif wat bluegal said, frm my own point of view, i've never heard of couples whom doesnt engage in sexual activities unless both of u r 60 or 70 yrs of age, i personally feel dat ur BF dun love u anymore, im nt tryin to say bad things abt him but as a guy, which guys dun need sex??:confused: i knw not all guys r horny but every man needs n wants sex. if u dun feel gd abt ur relationship, juz let it go... life goes on, this r all the parts & parcel of life, letting go doesnt mean bad, juz like Quan yifen's marriage, they decide to let go n move on in life rather than hanging on, it wil only make ur life more miserable... hope it helps, my 2 cents worth...;)
geckoSG
30-12-2008, 03:52 PM
girlgirl, wat's the latest progress? Update us a bit
girlgirl
31-12-2008, 01:40 AM
Hai..
Still the same.
No love making for almost 2 months already. Though we meet almost everyday.
:(
Bigbluebird
31-12-2008, 03:17 AM
That seems really odd, perhaps you are really bad in bed or he has found a new love hole ;)
poorman4sex
31-12-2008, 04:50 AM
it is not odd...
confirm he dun love u anymore... find a new guy
Oralcraz
31-12-2008, 01:55 PM
Hai..
Still the same.
No love making for almost 2 months already. Though we meet almost everyday.
:(
Agree with greendevil that he could have unloaded with someone else. "2 MONTHS" no sex:eek: how to tahan. During my dating days, one week never do also cannot tahan.
Suggest u play PI for awhile. Make sure he never cheat. Then make yr decision.
zinedine zidane
31-12-2008, 02:35 PM
Hai..
Still the same.
No love making for almost 2 months already. Though we meet almost everyday.
:(
girlgirl, 2 mths no sex? u sure? i 2 days no sex feel like dyin liao ur bf can tahan 2 mths no sex? my advise-dun waste time la, there r many guys out there might beta than him, move on...hangin on ur relationship wil only make u feel miserable n paranoid, juz let go n i bet u will definitely feel beta...if 1person told u ur bf dun love u anymore, u can choose not to believe, but look at the comments all bros here gave, same...."ur bf dun love u liao" (there is no smoke without fire) take care...cheers!!!:)
girlgirl
31-12-2008, 03:19 PM
Hey, but at around 28 yrs old, not making love is it common???
Greendevil
31-12-2008, 04:42 PM
girl girl, i 30, till now i unloading every single day, sometime more than once a day. He sure got problem. got a syt gf, 23yo don want to up, hard top believe. If i were him, i sure u everyday go work with wobbling leg :D
Oralcraz
31-12-2008, 05:50 PM
Hey, but at around 28 yrs old, not making love is it common???
I don't think is common. My most active sex is between 20-30 years old. Almost everyday. Now, I'm 45, still feeling horny but OC not interested in sex already. For past 15 years, usually once a month only. So I no choice but PCC.
So, I always envy those Bro who has good sex with wife. U are 23. Must enjoy love life. When married and have children, then want to enjoy.....may be difficult.
luvjimmy
01-01-2009, 08:30 AM
sometime think back.as long his heart got u someday everything will be fine.
lek54
01-01-2009, 09:26 AM
hi Girlgirl,
perhaps u may want to consider a total make-over like dressing up in any enticing,see-no touch typed and saying 'no' to sex when asked upon.play hard to get ,it may work and get him wondering. u may have make things too easy for him before. now,it's pay back time...last but not least, if all still don't works, can consider sbf bros. to have a good time. u're young.think of all other things u can do besides SEX.
Girlgirl,
If a guy not interested in making love with the gal at all...it is over. Forgive me for being very direct, you should not hope for his return rather pickup the courage to dump him.:cool:
If you still love him then you may have to go for a revolution change, ranging from outfit, style and you approach to sex.
I do wish you solve your headache soonest possible.
Happy New Year to everyone.
girlgirl
02-01-2009, 01:31 AM
Latest update:
I got rejected again last night.
Guess I'll take advice from the bros here to play hard to get.
:o
Greendevil
02-01-2009, 08:57 AM
Latest update:
I got rejected again last night.
Guess I'll take advice from the bros here to play hard to get.
:o
girlgirl, hard to get may be a good tactic IF the guy ask to get it. So, when the last time he ever took initiative and asked for it? Your hard to get tactics, may turn out to don get at all tactics lol.
qwerty66
02-01-2009, 09:56 AM
Play hard to get when he now not even interest when you initiate?
Wake up! Time to move on. He already got someone and it is not you.
Cut the lost and run quick.
You are still young and lot of trees out there.
Don't waste your time on a log.
pewpew
02-01-2009, 09:57 AM
Kudos to u for being so persistent on the relationship even though ur bf seems cold n odd...
Dun bother waiting for your bf to satisfy ur urge, go to buy some toy to ease ur thirst n say byebye to ur bf!
KingEros
02-01-2009, 10:30 AM
Hey, but at around 28 yrs old, not making love is it common???
It all depends ... to me (a guy who has almost seen it all, done it all), it's got nothing to do with age ... more importantly, I firmly believe nobody can stop wanting it, after they've actually tasted the pleasures of sex, whether it's a guy or a gal we are talking about.
No love making for almost 2 months already.
Though we meet almost everyday.
Cases like this are not uncommon ... for married couples.
But since you guys are just BF/GF, then it's hard to imagine why he feels there are more important things in the relationship besides having sex ... in contrast, for married couples, there are other important issues like money, children, etc
Looking at it from another angle ... if he is already like that now when pre-marital sex is still considered by most as "forbidden fruit", can you imagine what it'd be like if you marry this guy? So, do you really wanna marry such a guy ... when you deem having (good) sex to be one of the more important things in life? :D :D :D
You are still young ... lotsa chances for you to go look for another guy that's more suitable for you. If you are not sure or not ready about letting him go, then put him through some tests. Contact me here again ... to discuss, if interested.
Oralcraz
02-01-2009, 10:31 AM
Latest update:
I got rejected again last night.
Guess I'll take advice from the bros here to play hard to get.
:o
Wah lau e:mad: Like that also can.! I feel so sorry for U, really. I may be a guy but I understand how U feel cos, 16-17 years liao, my wife also don't wan sex. Only once a month after her mens. I am upset, disappointed, fustrated. Last time when she knows I PCC, still got scolding somemore. What to do:( But when she wants it after mens, I still give her my best. Gentlemen cannot reject sex if our partners wants it.....unless.....luv gone liao!
Good luck.
zinedine zidane
02-01-2009, 11:48 AM
Latest update:
I got rejected again last night.
Guess I'll take advice from the bros here to play hard to get.
:o
hey girlgirl, my personal opinion...dun tink abt playin hard to get but well...no harm tryin, play hard to get only when there's high demand! now dat there's no demand, y u stil wan to supply and jack up the price?:D remember-demand & supply logic works hand in hand...no demand=dun supply!:p
sometimes its life, dialectic. some hyper, their partners dont. Haiz.:o
girlgirl
02-01-2009, 12:23 PM
Its very sickening you know..
Its not like he dont bother about me anymore. He's still very caring and all those stuff. Just gets frustrated with me easier..
I'm starting my new job next week. Maybe with more things to do I wont think so much le..
Good luck with your new job.
sickwormm
02-01-2009, 02:58 PM
Its very sickening you know..
Its not like he dont bother about me anymore. He's still very caring and all those stuff. Just gets frustrated with me easier..
I'm starting my new job next week. Maybe with more things to do I wont think so much le..
girlgirl, good luck in your new job and your bg relationship. After seeing all this communication, I really hope you can learn to let go, anyway, when a guy gets frustrated with his gf easier, it means thing has changed.
Just my simple suggestion hopes it is helpful to you.
slyer
02-01-2009, 06:19 PM
girlgirl all the best for ur new job. maybe u will meet better guys in ur new job :D
shocky
02-01-2009, 06:45 PM
if he is so caring then why he get angry with you so quickly?
maybe he not healthy for you anymore, just my thoughts
Red Blood Cell
02-01-2009, 07:02 PM
GirlGirl
Mayb dun push too hard on the sex thing jus leave it be. Do something which will make yourself feel happy.
Star Fleet
02-01-2009, 07:29 PM
Its very sickening you know..
Its not like he dont bother about me anymore. He's still very caring and all those stuff. Just gets frustrated with me easier..
I'm starting my new job next week. Maybe with more things to do I wont think so much le..
Turning down sex? Not a good sign. Getting frustrated easier? Not a good sign. Conclusion it's either time for time out for the both of you or it's time to call it quits but he just has not found the right reason which he can accept.
girlgirl
03-01-2009, 04:58 PM
Turning down sex? Not a good sign. Getting frustrated easier? Not a good sign. Conclusion it's either time for time out for the both of you or it's time to call it quits but he just has not found the right reason which he can accept.
What do you mean the right reason to accept??
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