Ever caught by OC "steal eat" outside ?

[ONEON]

Anybody care to share ?

For me, it's the phone. The girl (civilian, not FL) is an ex-colleague sms miss me and wanna see me. Then OC saw the sms... then gotta stop :(

[ranking]

so far so gd....can't imagine wat will happen if she find out i steal eat.....:p

[edwin58yock]

Better delete any unwanted sms from the HP as I have a terrible time with my OC when she go thru my HP.
Black face for a few weeks.:D

[kra77]

Better delete any unwanted sms from the HP as I have a terrible time with my OC when she go thru my HP.
Black face for a few weeks.:D

why let OC go thru the HP?
I never let her do that. Its my phone and my personal stuff. she got no right to check my stuff. marriage doesnt give her the right to look thru my stuff..

[ucla]

why let OC go thru the HP?
I never let her do that. Its my phone and my personal stuff. she got no right to check my stuff. marriage doesnt give her the right to look thru my stuff..But they will say if u got nothing to hide,why scare to let me scan.....haizz....whenever they said that,i dont know how to reply liao.

[kra77]

But they will say if u got nothing to hide,why scare to let me scan.....haizz....whenever they said that,i dont know how to reply liao.

then i would reply this... then if i want to check whats inside yr pussy, why you dont let me? nothing to hide then why scare to let me scan?...

i can also reply, why dont you let me scan yr wallet or handbag? hahaha


it works for me bro... if she agree to my request i will let her scan my handphone but i will scan her pussy with my dick... then how to scan fully... hahaha

[hahakoh]

my oc wake up in the middle of the night to scan my sms, and lucky i delete them before i reach home.
now i've change to pda phone, she dont kno how to use. haha

[Newbie007]

what i usually do is replace FB's contact with some guy's name.. If OC scan hp and see the message, jux cook up some silly story and i am off the hook wOoOo..

[alvin36]

Anybody care to share ?

For me, it's the phone. The girl (civilian, not FL) is an ex-colleague sms miss me and wanna see me. Then OC saw the sms... then gotta stop :(

Bro, better use another SIM card and another phone.

this is what I do.. i kept one additional phone (for FL contacts and FB) , i seldom ON it, and I told my OC that the phone is company phone, I ON it only when I'm on standby :D

[kra77]

after reading the posts here, it seems that most OC are really leeching...

I guess i am lucky as my OC not the must scan the hp type.
maybe its the trust. just lucky me.

[gu du]

Last time when i m with my ex gf, i got another gf pinoy tat i picked up in a pub. MY ex gf was flipping through my credit card bill when she notice a payment for "hotel booking". Luckily i was quick witted told her my friend wanted to book a hotel room online but no credit card so help him with mine lor..:D

[steamystreamsg]

Luckily, my OC is a hp ignorant & I change my hp regularly, that make it's tougher for her to meddle with my hp

[howcher]

dun mind me asking..wat is OC...

[tora23]

i am also keep guessing..
Wad is OC =X

[CyberRod]

for u, its might be your mum

Hahaha.....! I can't stop laughing... Bro... You are good... :p

[howcher]

omg....

its wife or ur gf.

for u, its might be your mum


i know..i mean like OC stands for wat..? like CCB is Chao Chee Bye...X.X

[Lubber.duckie]

i know..i mean like OC stands for wat..? like CCB is Chao Chee Bye...X.X

Bro......obviously u have nv been to army.... its Officer-in-Charge

[LostALau]

why let OC go thru the HP?
I never let her do that. Its my phone and my personal stuff. she got no right to check my stuff. marriage doesnt give her the right to look thru my stuff..

That's what u think but not what she thinks.

But they will say if u got nothing to hide,why scare to let me scan.....haizz....whenever they said that,i dont know how to reply liao.

My OC also said that, also got reason. So instead of arguing, delete everything immediately after reading.

then i would reply this... then if i want to check whats inside yr pussy, why you dont let me? nothing to hide then why scare to let me scan?...

i can also reply, why dont you let me scan yr wallet or handbag? hahaha


it works for me bro... if she agree to my request i will let her scan my handphone but i will scan her pussy with my dick... then how to scan fully... hahaha

If I say that, she will readily oblige. Then she will check my hp everyday because she is the horny type and can want it everyday. Like that I will dry up.

I was caught once when I took over her handphone and did not realize that the stupid hp has a backup record of all the sms's. She saw the msg's and KBKB and wanted to commit suicide. Took a long time to settle the matter. Nowadays my movement is closely monitored with limited freedom. :(
Since we are staying together, it is not possible to prevent her from accessing our hp. She can wake up in the middle of the nite to do it, when u are taking a nap or in the toilet, so my advice is

1. Delete everything immediately including any backup record.
2. Double lock yr hp ........with pin number and security number
3. Tell yr contacts not to sms u only at certain 'dangerous' hours.
4. Don't carry any handphone at all
5. Get another number only just for yr outside contacts.

[LostALau]

omg....

its wife or ur gf.

for u, its might be your mum

Maybe he has not been in the NS (NS = National Service = Serving in the army for the Nation), so he does not know the meaning of OC = Officer-in-Charge, which is used to refer to wife or gf or mum who is in control of his life.
Askers most probably a teenage school boy or gal. :D

[Merlin]

My OC found suggestive smses in my phone when I was having my bath one day. I was confronted and it was all hell broke lose that day. Fortunately, none of the messages had any names attached to the mobile nos. Anyway I had a hard time explaining the situation. Whats even worse was I gave my OC the use of my old phone and inadvertently forgotten to delete some topless photos I had taken of some girls. She found out when her brother was meddling with the phone and then asked her what they were. We were all at my MIL's then. My OC just told me to delete them. I was quite nervous then as she pretended nothing happened. Later at home my OC then asked me how I obtained those photos. I cooked up a story that someone sent them to me and I had forgotten to delete them. Fortunately, she accepted my explanation and it was end of the matter.

[HeadOn]

sometimes i wonder if it is the kick or the challenge or the excitment...got OC liao still go all the way out to steal eat..but cos scared kanna found out will go through lotsa ways n effort so as not to be caught...

w so troublesome?..might as well dun ever have a OC..free urself, do watever u want n never get caught..:D

[Jintian]

My OC found suggestive smses in my phone when I was having my bath one day. I was confronted and it was all hell broke lose that day. Fortunately, none of the messages had any names attached to the mobile nos. Anyway I had a hard time explaining the situation. Whats even worse was I gave my OC the use of my old phone and inadvertently forgotten to delete some topless photos I had taken of some girls. She found out when her brother was meddling with the phone and then asked her what they were. We were all at my MIL's then. My OC just told me to delete them. I was quite nervous then as she pretended nothing happened. Later at home my OC then asked me how I obtained those photos. I cooked up a story that someone sent them to me and I had forgotten to delete them. Fortunately, she accepted my explanation and it was end of the matter.

You fortunate lad. Your OC very understanding leh. Ordinarily, you will kena slapped.

[BMW520_M]

HaHa. To play it safe, us a pre-paid card for cheonging and normal line for daily use. Safest........

[Oralcraz]

But they will say if u got nothing to hide,why scare to let me scan.....haizz....whenever they said that,i dont know how to reply liao.

Happened to me once in my younger days (checking pager/HP/wallets). I replied in a very mild and gentle manner. I said "I didn,t check yours bcos I respect yr privacy and trust yr loyalty." So...would you still like to check mine???:) 18 yrs till now, never check any of my HP etc.

[sammyboy.sexy]

Well one advise for u if this works. For me the very first day my OC gets to know me i already screw it into her brains NEBER SCAN my Hp this is call personal RESPECT if my girl ever try doin that and i wouldn't give it a second thought to dump her :p cos i dun wan any furture problems when we exchange rings (but anyway some girls are good at hiding their ture nature and will change after marriage) haha so good luck to those who are still hunting :D

maybe another option for other ppl , you can try stopping visiting FL after marriage right ? in life there is always another option it all depends on what u want and choose it all boils down to yourself heeheehee :p

[Oralcraz]

Anybody care to share ?

For me, it's the phone. The girl (civilian, not FL) is an ex-colleague sms miss me and wanna see me. Then OC saw the sms... then gotta stop :(

Nope. Not a chance. Put yr phone on vibration/silent. Once a while go toilet and check lah! Also, don't attached any names to the number. If picak lobang, just said "wrong number! HaHa wondering who is sending such romantic messages":). Also, always answer the call, if your OC call. If u don't answer, jiak lat liao. Always think u are fooling around. When answer and not convenient to talk, just say "Oh baby, I'm driving without my hands free on. Call u 5 mins ok. I stop my car first." Also, like some bro's said, always delete "those messages" immediately.
Just some tips for u. Take care.

[owen10]

a reminder for bros again. this might seem a very small issue but dun small see it ok.

for bros surfing SB, if u have gf or OC who r sharing d com with u, better rembr to clr yr cache, del files n clr hist. n rembr dun tick on d option to rembr yr id n passwd everytime u login.

for myslf, im onli using com with siblings so i kinda bo chap. so whn i goto d SB forum, im automatically logged in liao. imagine those with OCs n gfs, it's very dangerous when they happen to enter SB n see all yr FRs, yr sexual excapades, yr flings, yr past history etc. yellow river wash oso cant clear all d shit!

[MrElixir]

Bro change phone to Samsumg Omnia lar, there is this feature that when you want to read sms they must unlock with your pin before they can read use the phone

[MrElixir]

Bro, better use another SIM card and another phone.

this is what I do.. i kept one additional phone (for FL contacts and FB) , i seldom ON it, and I told my OC that the phone is company phone, I ON it only when I'm on standby :D
That is a good one also

[MrElixir]

That's what u think but not what she thinks.



My OC also said that, also got reason. So instead of arguing, delete everything immediately after reading.



If I say that, she will readily oblige. Then she will check my hp everyday because she is the horny type and can want it everyday. Like that I will dry up.

I was caught once when I took over her handphone and did not realize that the stupid hp has a backup record of all the sms's. She saw the msg's and KBKB and wanted to commit suicide. Took a long time to settle the matter. Nowadays my movement is closely monitored with limited freedom. :(
Since we are staying together, it is not possible to prevent her from accessing our hp. She can wake up in the middle of the nite to do it, when u are taking a nap or in the toilet, so my advice is

1. Delete everything immediately including any backup record.
2. Double lock yr hp ........with pin number and security number
3. Tell yr contacts not to sms u only at certain 'dangerous' hours.
4. Don't carry any handphone at all
5. Get another number only just for yr outside contacts.




Wa your one is the best

[LostALau]

a reminder for bros again. this might seem a very small issue but dun small see it ok.

for bros surfing SB, if u have gf or OC who r sharing d com with u, better rembr to clr yr cache, del files n clr hist. n rembr dun tick on d option to rembr yr id n passwd everytime u login.

for myslf, im onli using com with siblings so i kinda bo chap. so whn i goto d SB forum, im automatically logged in liao. imagine those with OCs n gfs, it's very dangerous when they happen to enter SB n see all yr FRs, yr sexual excapades, yr flings, yr past history etc. yellow river wash oso cant clear all d shit!

Before u can jump into the Yellow River to wash, yr OC would have dumped u into the Amazon River full of alligators. :D

[sammyboy.sexy]

btw i believe we can set not to save save send msg in the phone so why dun we explore more deeply into our phone functions :p

[Oralcraz]

Hi bro Ahlau,

If I say that, she will readily oblige. Then she will check my hp everyday because she is the horny type and can want it everyday. Like that I will dry up. You have a good wife. How I wish my wife is "yr OC type". I don't mind being "dried up" but unfortunately, mine's always fully loaded.

I was caught once when I took over her handphone and did not realize that the stupid hp has a backup record of all the sms's. She saw the msg's and KBKB and wanted to commit suicide. :eek:so jiak lat ah. Thank God you settle the issue. Happen to me once. Seen by her sis face to face in a shop when I'm with my darling. Immediately, phone call comes in and must report home. Reached home, kena Gelebak, Gelebuk. However, we were on the verge of divorce then (relations was very bad, no communication, no sex etc) so, I openly admit and stated my stand. End of the day, I did not divorce. Took a long time to settle the matter. Nowadays my movement is closely monitored with limited freedom. :(
Since we are staying together, it is not possible to prevent her from accessing our hp. She can wake up in the middle of the nite to do it, when u are taking a nap or in the toilet, so my advice is

1. Delete everything immediately including any backup record.
2. Double lock yr hp ........with pin number and security number
3. Tell yr contacts not to sms u only at certain 'dangerous' hours.
4. Don't carry any handphone at all
5. Get another number only just for yr outside contacts.

Good luck bro.

[Oralcraz]

Before u can jump into the Yellow River to wash, yr OC would have dumped u into the Amazon River full of alligators. :D

Amazon will be full of Piranha. Nothing left except bones!:eek:

[bangbangben]

To get caught eating outside is like to get caught driving without a driver's licence.

If wanna eat outside, you have to learn to clean ur mouth.
If not confident of wiping your mouth cleanly, don't eat out.


No matther what excuse you give, you are at the mercy of your OC.

[geckoSG]

what i usually do is replace FB's contact with some guy's name.. If OC scan hp and see the message, jux cook up some silly story and i am off the hook wOoOo..

Won't your OC be worried that you are gay?
Imagine the other party sent you

MSG "I wanna suck your cock now..."

from Larry... LOLz...

[owen10]

interesting to read d various sugg by bros

use a pin everytime u gotta read an sms? tt'll b too inconvenient. carry 2 hps? i thk it's natural most wives have d slightest suspicion once they sensed somethg fishy (i thk all/most women got this 6 sense). i thk they may still chk yr hps secretly when u r nt ard, say shower or wat. this is so classical ... we witnessed this in so many ch 8 n hk drama serials ... LOL :D

[howcher]

Maybe he has not been in the NS (NS = National Service = Serving in the army for the Nation), so he does not know the meaning of OC = Officer-in-Charge, which is used to refer to wife or gf or mum who is in control of his life.
Askers most probably a teenage school boy or gal. :D

indeed i haven been to NS...hehe, going in next year...

[guywonder]

Bro change phone to Samsumg Omnia lar, there is this feature that when you want to read sms they must unlock with your pin before they can read use the phone

all hp can add pin no in ..

[blacknight6]

"for u, its might be your mum"[/QUOTE]

That's a good one, laugh till stomachache.

[eeemen]

Use 2 HP. Simple, no hassles. :D The one for cheonging, dun ever bring home. ;) leave it in office, or in my case, i leave it in my car boot [secret compartment]

[bochapsing]

interesting to read d various sugg by bros

use a pin everytime u gotta read an sms? tt'll b too inconvenient. carry 2 hps? i thk it's natural most wives have d slightest suspicion once they sensed somethg fishy (i thk all/most women got this 6 sense). i thk they may still chk yr hps secretly when u r nt ard, say shower or wat. this is so classical ... we witnessed this in so many ch 8 n hk drama serials ... LOL :D

agree.. if u always lock ur hp, oc sure suspect something fishy.. girls will suspect and start to think of everything n anything whenever they smell a slight fishy..

best is to delete all sms after sending or reading, or to use another sim card for cheonging (but never bring the sim card or hp home, else they'll get suspicious again....)..

[vigo69]

all bros be warn there is still trace of ur sms in ur sd card for those phone tat have the feature, i was caught recently when i borrow my hp to my wife. she bring it oversea n have it check out with some program that i don`t kno n print it out to show me:mad:

[CityHunter789]

Siao liao, which phone model got back up record of deleted sms?
Nokia series? Sony ericssion series ?

[leecs]

I rememeber on Jan 3rd 09, i went to 81 with a WL. I was stupid & paid it with my credit card. Last month, my wife kepo & open my bank statement & saw the bill. She called me & ask why is there a transcation of $80 at 81. She was sobbing!!

I was stunned! I hooked up a story that i went with my colleagues & they dont have cash on hand to pay hotel & they dont wana use card to pay, so i offered to use mine.

Then when i reached home, i wanted to explain, but she looks fine. After that, i gave her a good bonk. Heng ah!!!!!

[LostALau]

interesting to read d various sugg by bros

use a pin everytime u gotta read an sms? tt'll b too inconvenient. carry 2 hps? i thk it's natural most wives have d slightest suspicion once they sensed somethg fishy (i thk all/most women got this 6 sense). i thk they may still chk yr hps secretly when u r nt ard, say shower or wat. this is so classical ... we witnessed this in so many ch 8 n hk drama serials ... LOL :D

Bro Owen, Agree it is a little inconvenient to unlock the security pin each time u want to access yr hp but it is better than being exposed. It is just like paying a toll to cross the bridge as compared to swimming across the Amazon River full of crocodiles or piranas.

As for wife feeling suspicious and wanting to check hp. Explain that u lock yr hp to precent yr colleagues or others from using yr hp to make unauthorized calls. Invite her to check yr hp. After all u have already deleted all the msgs.

indeed i haven been to NS...hehe, going in next year...

Bro Howcher, Hope u make the best of yr stay in the NS. Make sure u be a good soldier and dont AWL to go cheonging. :p Here, take my one candy to sweeten yr stay in advance.

"for u, its might be your mum"

That's a good one, laugh till stomachache.[/QUOTE]

Bro blacknight6, u are right on the spot!

all bros be warn there is still trace of ur sms in ur sd card for those phone tat have the feature, i was caught recently when i borrow my hp to my wife. she bring it oversea n have it check out with some program that i don`t kno n print it out to show me:mad:

Yr wife damn power man. It also happened to me once. I lent my 'standby' hp with roaming to my OC during her overeseas trip. I thought it was safe as it was quite dormant as no one had contacted me on this line for a long time. An ex who had not contacted me for a long time msg me her new hp number just as my OC boarded the plane. Damn accurate and suay for me. Luckily it was just a hp number and not other msg. Later I explained that it was an ex colleague and got off the hook. Wahlau, damn heng ar!

[michael_368]

Luckily, my OC is a hp ignorant & I change my hp regularly, that make it's tougher for her to meddle with my hp

Hi bro,

tks for your pts, and i have return my fav green apples to you too.:D

[gu du]

I rememeber on Jan 3rd 09, i went to 81 with a WL. I was stupid & paid it with my credit card. Last month, my wife kepo & open my bank statement & saw the bill. She called me & ask why is there a transcation of $80 at 81. She was sobbing!!

I was stunned! I hooked up a story that i went with my colleagues & they dont have cash on hand to pay hotel & they dont wana use card to pay, so i offered to use mine.

Then when i reached home, i wanted to explain, but she looks fine. After that, i gave her a good bonk. Heng ah!!!!!

Use cash! use cash!:D

[superchevy]

Wa your one is the best

bro waiting for the sample up u 5 pt....

[qwerty66]

Well, the best is still to use separate phone. Keep the ‘illicit phone away from prying hand or eyes. (I kept mine in my office)

Even we talk about respect of privacy. There is no 100% save. Why take the risk?

CO never or will ever like us making sweet talks to others unless to themselves. Even speak of drinking milk outside but don’t bring the cow home. Don’t think of even let them know we drink milk. NEVER trust a women. (Hopes the Sisters here not offended)
Oh, come to think of it. Women and Men the same. No man would allow his women to eat outside and wear Green hat.

When you have upgrade your gf’s to special status. Best to switch them over to your ‘PRIVATE’ number.

Play safe Brothers and Sisters :p

[HCKing]

if really want to play safe, wear a mascot costume when out with the FB or FL, sure wont kana caught.

just kidding.:D

[Panamera]

i know..i mean like OC stands for wat..? like CCB is Chao Chee Bye...X.X

Go check on which term is suitable for you. :D

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/126772-why-use-term-oc.html

My OC don't understand chinese, except English and Japanese, so it's safe for me till she master her Mandarin lessons....But got a flying phone from her once, when a call came in during wee hours and I was having my sweet dream after a good session, she answered the call and the caller tot my OC was her 宝贝!!! This 2 words - my OC understand....:D

[biz3057]

Ya, its the worst.... dancing in the club with 2 gals but b4 i started my OC tapped me on the shoulder and i shrunk!!! then followed 2 months of ordeal b4 it finally blown over.....Damm suay!

[V123]

Panamera
So you have a japanes wife. Same as me. What do you feel having a Japanese wife compared to a local? Do you sometimes wish you marry a local?

Just want to compare

[howcher]

.
Bro Howcher, Hope u make the best of yr stay in the NS. Make sure u be a good soldier and dont AWL to go cheonging. :p Here, take my one candy to sweeten yr stay in advance.




kum sia kum sia, will up u when i got the POWER...haha..no la, AWOL go cheong bo hua la, later still must LAN LAN go DB...

[howcher]

Go check on which term is suitable for you. :D

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-discussions-about-sex/126772-why-use-term-oc.html

My OC don't understand chinese, except English and Japanese, so it's safe for me till she master her Mandarin lessons....But got a flying phone from her once, when a call came in during wee hours and I was having my sweet dream after a good session, she answered the call and the caller tot my OC was her 宝贝!!! This 2 words - my OC understand....:D


Officer commanding the Children - OC


haha..bo pian..i not attach..my OC is wat uptownboy bro said..HAHA...

as for yr incident..u only kena flying phone ar...?next time call yr another girl use Qin Ai De, then maybe wont kena...hahah

[howcher]

omg....

its wife or ur gf.

for u, its might be your mum

in fact..i was thinking wat will happen if one day i kena caught in a raid then the Police threaten to call my OC...i will tell them "fine la, call my mum'

i wonder wat will their reaction be like...but i would prefer not to know la...haha

[sassy_sammy]

wah... all of you are so cautious nowadays sial hahaha
on the contrary, anyone caught your OC "steal eat" outside b4 through h/p, emails etc? i know some guys also check OC's h/p discreetly too ler :P

[_AXL_]

Use 2 HP. Simple, no hassles. :D The one for cheonging, dun ever bring home. leave it in office, or in my case, i leave it in my car boot [secret compartment]

hah!!! me too!!! left it in my car too!!! then my OC "siao" on, sunday morning go wash my car while i was sleeping in and found the spare hp...:eek:

luckily, she just wanted me to end it when i told her that i was a paying customer.:p guess she know all along my heart is always with her. close shave!!!

[makpoke]

you are damn lucky..I guess many others out there aren't so lucky..

[hugootober]

Recently with the advance IT techonogy, we guys want to eat outside must be very careful (for those who are married or have gf).

Last time:
1) I pay my hp bill myself.
2) Top up my ERP cash card myself.
3) Check and tranfer my bank account myself.

Now:
1) My wife offer to pay hp bill for me and terminate my Starhub service to join her Singtel line. Somemore activate the so call "when she call you, she will know where is the location you are", hai...... the reason she give is if sometime I am late back home, she worry with me and if she know where I am, she will feel save and also mean I am safe.....hai.....

2) Offer to top up my cash card and buy me 1 more extra card. When $$$ going to finish, she will take it to top up and pass me the other one. You know, with the cash card, she may print out all the detail as where I had going b4. Ocos I do not know she do checking or not.......or just only help me to do top up.

Recently told me that we may use credit card to pay ERP in future, KNN more "jialat". Mean that when I go to the area that have ERP, will show on the credit card bill and she is the one handle all my credit card bill.........

3) Ask me to give her my internet banking pin no and the "token" so that she can help me to pay miscellaneous fee like pub bill etc.

See this is the disadvancetage for the advance IT technology.....hai....

Agree with those bro here, take 1 spare hp with Hi card is more safer and don't go those hotel in ERP area....haha.....

[Dahu]

I think alot of us have been caught somehow before (myself included). But in my case my wife gave me face by not confronting me on it.

[zhu star]

My way of preventing being caught with my pant 'down'

1. Buy and use the most user unfriendly mobile phone, example HP pda phone, u can hide your serect sms in folder that is very hard to access. I put a pin code in this phone but I take the trouble to tell it to her, this way she tot if I dare to tell her I must be ok! I also tries many times to teach her how to use the phone but always tell her all kind of bullshit until she gave up. OC suggested I buy more user friendly phone like Nokia (Too user friendly!) Told her my boss bought the phone for me for biz use.

2 I always keep a set of dirty working shirt which has not so nice smell in my car. If I go out cheonging, I always come home with this shirt, at the door I make it an effort to hug her! The result is that she always get rid of me fast by chasing me off to the bathroom.

[block11]

just wanted to share a story..... my friend woke up 1 day and his mobile phone was missing. his OC had took his phone to a shop and bypassed the password to check all the sms, mms, etc.... the rest is history. they are now separated :D

so its best to delete your dirty secrets no matter how safe you think it is :p

[hard rain]

She found condom in my car in a hidden box? :(

[V123]

hard rain,

tough luck, she found condom in your car? then how? i guess best is to throw away the unused condom each time, dun just think of saving money i guess.

[Oralcraz]

Now:
1) My wife offer to pay hp bill for me and terminate my Starhub service to join her Singtel line. Somemore activate the so call "when she call you, she will know where is the location you are", hai...... the reason she give is if sometime I am late back home, she worry with me and if she know where I am, she will feel save and also mean I am safe.....hai.....

2) Offer to top up my cash card and buy me 1 more extra card. When $$$ going to finish, she will take it to top up and pass me the other one. You know, with the cash card, she may print out all the detail as where I had going b4. Ocos I do not know she do checking or not.......or just only help me to do top up.

Recently told me that we may use credit card to pay ERP in future, KNN more "jialat". Mean that when I go to the area that have ERP, will show on the credit card bill and she is the one handle all my credit card bill.........

3) Ask me to give her my internet banking pin no and the "token" so that she can help me to pay miscellaneous fee like pub bill etc.



Bro, actually, you have a very good OC who is willing to do errant for u. I will say u are very fortunate. Pse treasure this and I'm happy for u.
My OC, pui.....ask for very small help.....the reply is always " WHAT, u don't know how to do it meh???" Always show a displeasure face when I needed help. But if my in-laws side needed help, she will not hesitate to do it. There was once, she even took few months to sew curtains for her mum house. For me, when I need some sewing on my pants or shirt, she say "u do it yourself" or show black face. Well, I just take them to the neighborhood tailor and get it done. Now, I try to do everything myself. Don't even dare ask her:(

Well, back to yr issue, I think she is actually trying to track u but in a very diplomatic and respectful way. Guess u have to think of how to get around it. Good Luck bro.

[sammyboy.sexy]

Recently with the advance IT techonogy, we guys want to eat outside must be very careful (for those who are married or have gf).

Last time:
1) I pay my hp bill myself.
2) Top up my ERP cash card myself.
3) Check and tranfer my bank account myself.

Now:
1) My wife offer to pay hp bill for me and terminate my Starhub service to join her Singtel line. Somemore activate the so call "when she call you, she will know where is the location you are", hai...... the reason she give is if sometime I am late back home, she worry with me and if she know where I am, she will feel save and also mean I am safe.....hai.....

2) Offer to top up my cash card and buy me 1 more extra card. When $$$ going to finish, she will take it to top up and pass me the other one. You know, with the cash card, she may print out all the detail as where I had going b4. Ocos I do not know she do checking or not.......or just only help me to do top up.

Recently told me that we may use credit card to pay ERP in future, KNN more "jialat". Mean that when I go to the area that have ERP, will show on the credit card bill and she is the one handle all my credit card bill.........

3) Ask me to give her my internet banking pin no and the "token" so that she can help me to pay miscellaneous fee like pub bill etc.

See this is the disadvancetage for the advance IT technology.....hai....

Agree with those bro here, take 1 spare hp with Hi card is more safer and don't go those hotel in ERP area....haha.....

wah !!! :eek: bro pardon me for saying this, your wife treat u as her slave ? seems like she got u under monitor 24/7 :(

[sammyboy.sexy]

Bro, actually, you have a very good OC who is willing to do errant for u. I will say u are very fortunate. Pse treasure this and I'm happy for u.
My OC, pui.....ask for very small help.....the reply is always " WHAT, u don't know how to do it meh???" Always show a displeasure face when I needed help. But if my in-laws side needed help, she will not hesitate to do it. There was once, she even took few months to sew curtains for her mum house. For me, when I need some sewing on my pants or shirt, she say "u do it yourself" or show black face. Well, I just take them to the neighborhood tailor and get it done. Now, I try to do everything myself. Don't even dare ask her:(

Well, back to yr issue, I think she is actually trying to track u but in a very diplomatic and respectful way. Guess u have to think of how to get around it. Good Luck bro.

Hahaha this is exactly the opp from hugootober :p one over caring the other too bo chup :p (Women = nothing but trouble) :D

[_AXL_]

bros, if your OC really wants to catch, there is actually no escaping from it. eventually, the truth will come out due to our own carelessness or plain arse luck. only way is to cheat once in a long while, instead of going up the mountain too often.:D;)

[nobodyisme]

I was caught once when I took over her handphone and did not realize that the stupid hp has a backup record of all the sms's. She saw the msg's and KBKB and wanted to commit suicide.

Which hp model? :eek:
MUST AVOID!

[nobodyisme]

My case is not hp call or sms but lover's pictures.
End up separation case...
Although now, things getting better, the level of trust is increasing.

[Niceman]

I got a bro, he downloaded a software into his phone. All in coming numbers or sms will be hidden with password. Thus, his wife has been unable to see his sms under the inbox, cool huh? :D available in china, not sillypore land

[greeny_bunny]

haha.. i rename the guys name to female names adding company name behind = customer's contact

or sometimes put my sch name behind.. become class mates....

i do lock my phone oso.. he ask y i did tt.. my reason being.. 1 day i drop my phone, ppl cannot call out mah~ :D he noes im careless... always misplace my things...

[kra77]

She found condom in my car in a hidden box? :(

dont panic bro. just tell her... lets do it... or, tell her whether she can find the rest of the condoms and not necessary must be in the car...

i always place my condoms everywhere. always tell OC that since she dont want to take pills, i have to standby condoms when i want it.

[Real07]

I got a bro, he downloaded a software into his phone. All in coming numbers or sms will be hidden with password. Thus, his wife has been unable to see his sms under the inbox, cool huh? :D available in china, not sillypore land

Is a good business opportunity in SBF. :D

[dec_gal]

I suppose no one is be "daring" or "stupid" enough to bring the "cow" back to the own house bah...:confused: anyone?

If want to "eat" please "eat" outside & clean properly... To most wife, unless is caught "red-handed" normally will jus forgive & close one eye .. especially those with family...:cool:

[ONEON]

I suppose no one is be "daring" or "stupid" enough to bring the "cow" back to the own house bah...:confused: anyone?

If want to "eat" please "eat" outside & clean properly... To most wife, unless is caught "red-handed" normally will jus forgive & close one eye .. especially those with family...:cool:
why need to bring home when we have so many Frangrance and H81 ...:D

[Big Semens]

just wanted to share a story..... my friend woke up 1 day and his mobile phone was missing. his OC had took his phone to a shop and bypassed the password to check all the sms, mms, etc.... the rest is history. they are now separated :D

so its best to delete your dirty secrets no matter how safe you think it is :p
Wah lan ! :eek: Like that also can

[Oralcraz]

I suppose no one is be "daring" or "stupid" enough to bring the "cow" back to the own house bah...:confused: anyone?

If want to "eat" please "eat" outside & clean properly... To most wife, unless is caught "red-handed" normally will jus forgive & close one eye .. especially those with family...:cool:

Well, honestly, I've heard of quite a few men (2 who is my relative, 1 who is a friend, others' hear say) who bring the fb home. Those who got caught, the wife divorce them (even those with children).
In today's society, I think if the wife did not see it with their own eyes, or at least the hubby did not bring the lady home, wife with family can try to forgive and close an eye but if caught red handed at home on the very same bed, no way can the wife accept.....unless she has some extremely difficulties or special reasons. Sorry to bring it up but am sure u know what I mean.

[Dunhill_11]

I hated those friends' husband who saw u with some gals and told their wife's about it. As if if they are the saint!.. :mad:

[Dahu]

I hated those friends' husband who saw u with some gals and told their wife's about it. As if if they are the saint!.. :mad:

Agreed.

One night I was sitting in a coffee shop and the boss's wife sat down at the same table to talk to me. My wife's friend (some bitch) who saw us called my wife immediately. When my wife called me to confront me I retorted by asking who this "friend" was. I told her that the person is not a friend because if she has treated her as a friend she would not have called her immediately knowing that it may caused an irreparable rift to break out between us. My wife understood what I was trying to say and apologised. After that I told her who the lady was and tell her not to listen too much to what her "friends" tell her in future. Now she doesnt listen very much to what others tell her about me.

[xcapade]

Jus to share some of my experiences ,

1) i kena caught few times before but in this case it's jus my gf(oc) ,
first kena caught by smses & morning late calls , she checked my hp and find those smses and late morning calls , luckily for smses i never save the contact number , so i jus say wrong sms.....
For late morning calls , i save but i rename the contact to my reservist troopers name....hehe....so no prob....

2) Kena caught for possession of 1 box of condom but LUCKILY unopen ( later tell u y) ,
she was so furious that she found the box of condom , shit sia , she was helping to pack my stuff cos me and she and me was goin on a trip and she go checked my personal rack , and i usually never lock my personal rack , i was outside shopping with my dad when she was helping me packing up,

When i came back , she gave me this face , den i know lor , siao liao , she confronted me.....
But luckily the box of condom was unopen , so coincidently me and my gf was goin for the trip right ,i told her the box of condom is for us , for the trip , she was reluctant at first ,
cos usually i dun use condom on my gf, only when i go hanky panky with fl or wl , i wear condom , so it's unusual for me to have condom in my possesion ,
But nevertheless she took some time to believe it , i was off the hook , pheww....

3) This one never kena caught but i jus share only , for bros using jailbroken iphone u can download Swap Camera Roll from cydia , this enable u to swap the camera folder as and when u want , really damn useful , but now my gf use iphone , she know bout it liao...sianzzzzz

anyway the best is to use extra phone with prepaid card , that's the best according to all the bros here......
i'm using w890i for my prepaid phone, freaking slim.....

good luck guys....

[PinkyPinky]

In fact, checking on phone, wallet, handbag, etc are unnecessary, whatever he did outside or he is going to do something bad, and you are the one next to him, you will notice the slight change. He/She may not realize it but the one next to you really do....no matter how hard you are trying to hide. Trust me.

Confrontation is just the final step to end the relationship, cos you know he/she will deny, make up stories, create lies, when you are doing all these, you just hurt the one you ever loved....

My bf recently went out with a gal, and he lied to me he went out with guy friend, he started to lie to me, and he will go on lying in future....When he is doing this, did he spare a little thought of my feelings?

Just feeling rather hurt, but I didn't even ask him, you guys know it is useless and just create more argument when this war starts.....Just to hope that he will stop this and correct his mistake by breaking my heart.

[dec_gal]

Well, honestly, I've heard of quite a few men (2 who is my relative, 1 who is a friend, others' hear say) who bring the fb home. Those who got caught, the wife divorce them (even those with children).
In today's society, I think if the wife did not see it with their own eyes, or at least the hubby did not bring the lady home, wife with family can try to forgive and close an eye but if caught red handed at home on the very same bed, no way can the wife accept.....unless she has some extremely difficulties or special reasons. Sorry to bring it up but am sure u know what I mean.

ya.. this is one pt that i wan to highlight.. wan to eat .. but please dun hurt ur wife that deep.. it may become a nightmare for her for a long period or even forever....

[starfox444]

I have two hp nos, one official and the other for kang tao, non official always kept in office.

[Gentle Beast]

Opt NOT to subscribe to caller ID, a bit of inconvenience but it may safe you big time when you least expected it :D

[dodotiti]

aiyah, get a symbian phone N70, N95, n series, and installed

MCleaner (Symbian OS 60 3rd) - Free software downloads and reviews - CNET Download.com (http://download.cnet.com/MCleaner-Symbian-OS-60-3rd/3000-2064_4-10842103.html)

this will keep your sms and calls safe

[ONEON]

I have two hp nos, one official and the other for kang tao, non official always kept in office.
Keep in office how to bring out to cheong !

[ledd_777]

aiyah, get a symbian phone N70, N95, n series, and installed

MCleaner (Symbian OS 60 3rd) - Free software downloads and reviews - CNET Download.com (http://download.cnet.com/MCleaner-Symbian-OS-60-3rd/3000-2064_4-10842103.html)

this will keep your sms and calls safe

bro care to explain more how it works????? i used to own 2 N73 and N95 but traded in for a most basic nokia 6300 cos the call log can be deleted unlike the N series. could u explain more in layman terms how it works, would really appreciate it. can the nokia or outside shop install for me if i buy??:p

here my story.
when my wife went overseas trip 2 yrs back, i smsed my fb at 4am cos we just came back from drinking and 2 rounds at east coast. smsed tks for the nite and nice bj and i cummed all over her......but when i pressed the sent button under the most recent used i sent it to my wife:eek::eek:

2mins later she called me to explain.....told her my fren used my phone but she could recognise the way i write.....sigh lan lan admit. now she checks my phone on and off. always spend few mins before reach home to delete all my sms and calls to my fb. so if a phone that can be prevent her to check my fb call and sms wil be great. now i type quietly cos she zzz beside me.:cool:

[LentorGarden]

When I was first introduced to this forum years back, I hooked up with a local FL here and I took a cab to the venue. I got on board the cab and told the uncle : Hotel81 Bencoolen.

Then I looked at the taxi driver's face. !@#$%^& He was my OC's brother! :o He just smiled to me and luckily, did not tell on me! Phew! That was a close brush!

[old_yet_horny]

I never use my true name when I go out cheong...

I will always use names like Ah Meng, Roland or Jimmy... depending on which nationalities are my targets...

For my phones, I never save their numbers and bever keep any sms history... Becos I know my OC will check my phone when ever she got the golden opportunity...

There's 1 night, I ONS a bak chye at a local disco... didn't know that that bloody bak chye use my phone to call her phone so to get my number... luckily she did not get my real name...

Few days later, this bloody bak chye sms me at mid night while I was sleeping.. the sms read..

" Jimmy...Wanna meet and fuck now, I am so horny..."


My OC woke me up and ask hell lots of question.. "whose number is this etc etc.."

I just turn my head away and replied her...

" Who the F is this gal?? I am not Jimmy and I dun know this number.. obviously she sms the wrong guy lar!!!"


Pheeew.....:p

[aczeta76]

all hp can add pin no in ..

Actually... it is worse if you add pin number.. false sense of security...