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Benzamania
17-05-2009, 10:57 PM
I bonk a FL few days ago.
When foreplay with her i lick her from ear to knee.
she doesnt allow painting, so i didnt lick her pussy.
After a 5-7 mins foreplay, she moaned loud and said:" 来了! 来了!" at time i licked her knee while raba-raba her boobs. I dun even fingering her pussy!

Have any bros got got this experience before?
Gal cum(reach climax) during the fore play?:confused:

sstas
17-05-2009, 11:07 PM
The answer is yes. :)

torak
17-05-2009, 11:09 PM
cum by fingering got. I was lucky that one of my ex is a squinter. During our 1st time, I fingered her until she squint, wetted my whole bed... from then onwards hv to use towel whenever i do with her...

boggieman
17-05-2009, 11:18 PM
yes....i ever kiss and grope my ex gf so much she was super turn on..but never do coz we were gonna going out. later she told me she came with in the mrt just thinking abt what we did earlier

Benzamania
17-05-2009, 11:20 PM
yes....i ever kiss and grope my ex gf so much she was super turn on..but never do coz we were gonna going out. later she told me she came with in the mrt just thinking abt what we did earlier
really???:D:D

boggieman
18-05-2009, 09:49 PM
really???:D:D
yup...i checked when we got off the train...she stained her undies

rocket_boy
18-05-2009, 11:10 PM
really???


you don't know meh ? :mad:

raba raba and my woman's panty is wet :D

the more i raba her the more she's excited and get readily for me to lick and bonk her :D

tasting my woman's juice and seeing her moaning makes me so horny and wanting to fuck her hard hard. :D

tigerprawn
19-05-2009, 09:03 PM
I bonk a FL few days ago.
When foreplay with her i lick her from ear to knee.
she doesnt allow painting, so i didnt lick her pussy.
After a 5-7 mins foreplay, she moaned loud and said:" 来了! 来了!" at time i licked her knee while raba-raba her boobs. I dun even fingering her pussy!

Have any bros got got this experience before?
Gal cum(reach climax) during the fore play?:confused:

Bro, while it is definitely possible for girls to experience an orgasm during foreplay, I regrettably am of the subjective opinion that in your case, you china girl was just faking one to get you on with the job. Based on what you say, you didnt touch her pussy so her clit and g-spot was never stimulated at all, no girl will orgasm by licking knee.

A female can experience clitorial orgasm or vagina orgasm, both of which requires stimulation of her sex organ. Feeling an emotion of elation and mental fulfillment when kissing or hugging etc does NOT equate an orgasm. You would be surprised that there are many girls out there who, due to one reason or another, has never experienced any orgasm before in their lives. Cos girls are not like guys, minority of girls masturbate unlike guys it is almost second instinct to know how to masturbate. So for many of these girls who never experienced an orgasm before in their lives, they mistake that feeling good and high = orgasm, which is rubbish although very sad. I have a friend who married an old virgin (30) the holy christian pious kind who never had sex before and doesnt know what an orgasm is. She claims that she does not need sex (due to unreasonable fear of penetration) but claims she orgasm once they kiss)! What rubbish!!

Ok sorry i sidetracked. Bottom line being. whether guy or girl, you need to stimulate the sex organ to have orgasm. You cannot just imagine things in your mind and suddenly orgasm just by thinking.

needtofuck
19-05-2009, 11:15 PM
I love doing Painting and I am sure I made quite a few woman cum ! :p

Oralcraz
19-05-2009, 11:24 PM
If foreplay include oral sex, fingering of pussy and breast/nipple stimulation, then the answer is yes; sure. If just by lip kissing, licking knee or other parts of the body, well I don't think so. I agree with tigerprawn explanation.

ToxicQueen
20-05-2009, 12:04 AM
Of course it can... But me getting lesser :S

tomvoyeur
20-05-2009, 12:27 AM
Have any bros got got this experience before?
Gal cum(reach climax) during the fore play?:confused:

I second some of the other bros' opinions on this - this is really too good to be true. One still need to at least touch her clit or g-spot in order to make a normal gal cum within such a short space of time. Given that she is a pro, it should not be too surprising to believe that she is just leading the customer on. Just my humble opinion though; there could be miracles out there too! :)

yoursecret
20-05-2009, 01:27 AM
I know women who have cum without touching their clit but elsewhere. Quite rare though, and they probably experienced -- the brain and the imagination are the biggest sex organs after all.

As for the holy virgin who cums when kissed... what if you really lick/bonk her? she see god ah?

saustin316
20-05-2009, 01:46 AM
I know women who have cum without touching their clit but elsewhere. Quite rare though, and they probably experienced -- the brain and the imagination are the biggest sex organs after all.

As for the holy virgin who cums when kissed... what if you really lick/bonk her? she see god ah?

this is really funny !!! :D:D:D

curry_mutu_man
20-05-2009, 01:53 AM
some women can really cum without any licking of pussy, just by touching other parts of her body can make her wet to a certain extent :rolleyes:

sgname
20-05-2009, 03:44 AM
Foreplay aslo need alot of skill and depend how u do it.:p

duothrust
20-05-2009, 04:28 AM
Is it possible for a woman to reach orgasm just from the fondling of her breasts without touching the puss at all?

yoursecret
20-05-2009, 03:38 PM
Is it possible for a woman to reach orgasm just from the fondling of her breasts without touching the puss at all?

Yes, have experienced. Takes a while, also depends on the person and their body sensitivity / mood etc.

KINGor75
20-05-2009, 03:51 PM
lick the clitoris!!!!

asdfghjkl
20-05-2009, 08:55 PM
i know a girl can reach O by watching porn.. :rolleyes:

MeePokDry
20-05-2009, 09:14 PM
guys..actually the best way is by fingering...go for the g-spot...really great..can achieve more than 10++ orgasm in around 10 mins.. all the best guys...

asdfghjkl
21-05-2009, 09:24 PM
very good documentary on orgasm.. kekeke :p

Mary Roach: 10 things you didn't know about orgasm | Video on TED.com (http://www.ted.com/index.php/talks/mary_roach_10_things_you_didn_t_know_about_orgasm. html)

terumo
21-05-2009, 11:13 PM
I do believe that females can have some sort of delayed orgasm, but maybe only slight cunt juice dripping. Not those kind of super orgasm.

BiAndPretty
22-05-2009, 10:13 PM
Oh boy, you guys have a lot to learn. Not every woman is built like the next....

And yes, we can reach orgasm sometimes without clit or G-spot stimulation. It's a mental state of mind. Some days we feel good, dress better, smell nicer and a smile from a hunk can just set the mood going. Orgasm is a state of mind.

And there's Tantric Sex. Those who have practiced it knows the state of arousal and how stimulating it is.

Just having a big tool or knowing how to use it is not always enough. Sometimes, the point of sales, buying decision and packaging matters, too.

AND one more thing - No! Please do not PM me and ask for tantric sex. Thank you.

janus69
23-04-2011, 12:52 AM
A woman has spoken, so it must be true.

From personal experience, a girl need not be touched in the genitals in order to climax. She just needs to be touched in a sensitive manner. But I think working ladies tend to fake the experience. Even with your own gal/FB they might not want to let go easily.

Once, I was in a secluded public place with my gal, fully clothed. With only light caresses and kissing from me, she reached a mini climax (actually, she jumped off me before she went over, but still had a few moments when she was shuddering slightly).

BiRd13
23-04-2011, 09:54 AM
Yup... Possible... Depend on individual which may have different 'sensitive' area... I was hugging my CO in mrt from the back, and my 'didi' rubbing her from the back... till she's wet... We supposed to take mrt from Pasir Ris to Tiong Bahru... but drop at Aljunied and went hotel instead... =X

Baileys
23-04-2011, 01:51 PM
Yes definitely can. My wife can get an orgasm when I give her a good shoulder massage

Ronsee
23-04-2011, 01:57 PM
Bro, while it is definitely possible for girls to experience an orgasm during foreplay, I regrettably am of the subjective opinion that in your case, you china girl was just faking one to get you on with the job. Based on what you say, you didnt touch her pussy so her clit and g-spot was never stimulated at all, no girl will orgasm by licking knee.

A female can experience clitorial orgasm or vagina orgasm, both of which requires stimulation of her sex organ. What rubbish!!

Ok sorry i sidetracked. Bottom line being. whether guy or girl, you need to stimulate the sex organ to have orgasm. You cannot just imagine things in your mind and suddenly orgasm just by thinking.

AMEN to that bro..my experiences so far testifies to that. Of course some may claim u can achieve O by touches or kissing...well i have yet to see eviddence of that; at least not with the girls i have bonked. But good foreplay does make the achieving of O easy and sets the mood for a great Sex session ahead.

Just sharing my 2 cents

tigerprawn
23-04-2011, 03:30 PM
Spot on Bro Ronsee. :)

Just because a woman has spoken doesnt mean anything. After reading through all the postings, I realised it came down to the different definitions ppl here give to the word "orgasm".

Feeling high, getting wet and sexually aroused (no matter how wet even if the girl is dripping) does not = orgasm. It is obvious some girls that the bros speak of here (as well as the girl who posted) used the word "orgasm" very loosely to mean also sexual arousal or any other form of sexual good feeling minus actual physical orgasm. Just like for a guy, orgasm = ejacuation. Or a new age sensitive guy would start claiming that he can reach a form of "mental orgasm" or "micro orgasm" without actually climaxing and ejacuating. Yes, there is such a thing like tantric sex etc like some kind of "spiritual climax" in the mind BUT I think that is not what is the intended definition this thread was originally meant for. Yes, of course a girl can feel all sexually aroused and mentally spiritually stimulated and excited and get very very wet by just touching her shoulder or knee if her mind is rightfully stimulated BUT she is not going to have a good old fashion physical orgasm just by thinking or being touched on the shoulder or knee.

Cos this kind of new age talk confuses a lot of guys here. Just as that girl who posted. If orgasm is defined as such, then there are no perimeters within which to make this discussion meaningful; like that everything and anything can "orgasm" spiritually - kiss feel good also say orgasm, touch shoulder get wet also orgasm. The word orgasm would become meaningless.

Please use some common sense. Extreme example but demonstrates the point: do you think a girl can just do nothing but spread her legs, imagine in her brain then suddenly start squirting? Not going to happen. So let's not stray into subjective spiritual orgasms which then render this discussion meaningless cos there would then be no yardstick for any meaningful measure. I believe the girl who thought about her bf afterwards did feel a sense of elation and sexual arousal by thought alone but definitely she is not going to suddenly experience an orgasm in the true sense of that word by thinking alone. Likewise the bro's wife in the MRT train and the other bro's wife who was massaged on the shoulder.... yes I believe she can get very very wet even dripping wet BUT that is NOT an orgasm.

Also remember that statistically, only 20% of females have actually experienced what a real orgasm is, no matter how much sex she may have had. Unlike guys who sure 100% orgasm when ejacuate. So, you may be listening to one of these 20% female who think they orgasm cos that is the highest and farthest sexual elation feeling they have ever felt in their lives during sex (cos the guy never ensure her true physical orgasm and climax) so they think that is an orgasm... but the reality is they have never truly orgasmed in their lives before. These girls, if ever one day they meet some experienced lover who then really bring them to a REAL orgasm (and possibly make them squirt), then they will say breathlessly "OMG, so that was an orgasm... i have never felt this way before my entire life...."

PS - there are a lot of young boys and virgins (guys) here in the forum seeking to learn and I just do not want the wrong info to be imparted here. This post is NOT intended to antagonize anyone of differing opinion BUT to point out the differences due to different definitions of the word orgasm different ppl choose to attribute to it. Afterall, most important is you enjoy it :)


AMEN to that bro..my experiences so far testifies to that. Of course some may claim u can achieve O by touches or kissing...well i have yet to see eviddence of that; at least not with the girls i have bonked. But good foreplay does make the achieving of O easy and sets the mood for a great Sex session ahead.

Just sharing my 2 cents

DKMY
23-04-2011, 08:31 PM
my ex gf got very sensitive nipple and breast, we always start our session with heavy petting. I would never miss her breast and nipple, once I start to caress her breast she would ask me to sequeez and suck it. I was rewarded with her erected nipple, then this signal to me to start fingering her. Her g-spot was quite shallow, I manage to reach her love spot with my center finger hence I manage to give her the big O. At time she would be so sexisfied and not have any penetrative sex. So would ask her to suck me dry and she complied.

So to answer to TS, it is possible to give your gal cum or climax when hitting the right spots.

Baileys
24-04-2011, 01:12 AM
I think brother tigerprawn is right... I have to re-phrase my sentence...

My wife can get horny and wet when I give her a good shoulder massage

MaiDUaKang
24-04-2011, 01:27 AM
Can why not...touch the clitoris already can make some gals quite high

freezetheDB
24-04-2011, 05:31 PM
the mind is the greatest sex organ.

how many times have we experienced pissed poor performance in bed because the mind is stressed with other things, stressed about sexual performance, the masseuse not chio enough, mind not turned on, etc...? Sometimes morning wood is so much harder than when with a girl you have no chemistry with?

Ronsee
25-04-2011, 12:58 PM
Spot on Bro Ronsee. :)

BUT to point out the differences due to different definitions of the word orgasm different ppl choose to attribute to it. Afterall, most important is you enjoy it :)

Bro Tiger, thanks for the comments. Your words are well balanced and spelled out the meaning of O as far as i have experienced myself with ladies.

Good Foreplay can help a girl to achieve O, i have personally done it numerous times with my ex FBs and GFs before just by giving her a good licking job on her clit. The vibrations and physical expression is unmistakable when she cums.

I honestly believe besides penetrative sex which helps a girl achieve the BIG O, proper foreplay on the right spot is able to achieve same effect, and as what Bro has said, O's can be clit or vaginal depending on which is stimulated.

As for touching and kissing on lips, shoulders or breasts etc (other than the clits or vaginal penetration), i have not personally experienced a girl telling me she cum when i licked or sucked her breasts for a good 30 mins...which i had done before. But 5 minutes into pussy licking on the clits and vaginal areas plus finger fucking her, i have many times brought a girl to O.

So girls can get sexually very aroused when u kiss or lick her other body areas, other than vaginal areas, but to achieve O i believe the criteria is still the Clit or Vaginal penetration which will help her postivitely achieve the BIG O.

And as what Bro Tiger has said, O is a very physical enjoyment and feeling, lets not go into the spirtual or mental aspect of it hahaha.

And TS's objective is the physical aspect of O as far as the intention is concered.

End of the day, its always a SHIOK feeling when i see my girl O, because even if i didnt get mine yet, the satisifacton of watching her cum first shows that i have done a good job on her hahahaha.

Just sharing my 2 cents.

naan1974
25-04-2011, 03:10 PM
I know women who have cum without touching their clit but elsewhere. Quite rare though, and they probably experienced -- the brain and the imagination are the biggest sex organs after all.

As for the holy virgin who cums when kissed... what if you really lick/bonk her? she see god ah?

no wonder my virgin ex GF keep screming "oh god oh god" when i paint her.
now i know.... hahahaha:D

bettertml86
26-04-2011, 03:20 PM
Yes. It can be done. I foreplay my ex-gf til she cum quite a number of times. In fact, she love my foreplay very much, especially my painting and fingering. So yes, girls will cum when foreplay, depends on your skill of course.

janus69
13-05-2011, 12:42 AM
PS - there are a lot of young boys and virgins (guys) here in the forum seeking to learn and I just do not want the wrong info to be imparted here. This post is NOT intended to antagonize anyone of differing opinion BUT to point out the differences due to different definitions of the word orgasm different ppl choose to attribute to it. Afterall, most important is you enjoy it :)


Actually, I agree with pretty much everything Bros Tigerprawn and Ronee have said. So, to be clear. Orgasm starts when, with the buildup of pleasurable sensations, the woman loses control and climaxes. I think Bros Tigerprawn and Ronsee will pretty much agree with this definition.

It is easier for a woman to be brought to orgasm with genital stimulation, especially of the clitoris, and more difficult without. How much more? Depends on the girl, the guy and other factors.

That said, genital stimulation is not absolutely necessary. Without genital stimulation, the sensations during foreplay can also build to the point when your darling "buay tahan", at which point, she loses control and experiences all the sensations of orgasm, like genital contraction, pulsations and so forth. Of course, some bros may say that it is more practical to have foreplay with genital stimulation. Unless you are making out in a public place, fully clothed.

So, IMHO, it is still possible for the girl to have an orgasm without genital stimulation. Or perhaps this is true of some girls only. At the other end of the scale, like what Bro Tigerprawn said, some girls never experience orgasms.

I have shared my experience. Other bros care to share theirs?

Chanelfingers
13-05-2011, 12:47 AM
Gals can feel mini orgasms in many things
Not necessary just fingering or painting.
Sometimes thoughts of precious sex episodes can cause orgasms in public