One Nite with Your BEST friend..

[Peugeot]

Hi Bros,

Sharing a real life experience of having ONS with your best friend here...
Any bros have this experience? After the ONS, do you remain as frds or FB?

Personally i have this good friend and had a bit too much last sat and we were already hugging like couple at the pub. Initially i thought it was ok due to liquor but everything goes wild when i send her back. Near the doorway, before we parted She started frenching me.. i reach out for her skirt.. she unzip me.. blah blah blah..

Till now.. she hasn't decide to contact me yet. Hiaz.. Lose a friend or lose a potential FB?:o

[thaizombie]

Till now.. she hasn't decide to contact me yet. Hiaz.. Lose a friend or lose a potential FB?

maybe you should make the first move, call her first and apologised for what you have done.Then lets see what she response.

[GP123]

Hi Bros,

Sharing a real life experience of having ONS with your best friend here...
Any bros have this experience? After the ONS, do you remain as frds or FB?

Personally i have this good friend and had a bit too much last sat and we were already hugging like couple at the pub. Initially i thought it was ok due to liquor but everything goes wild when i send her back. Near the doorway, before we parted She started frenching me.. i reach out for her skirt.. she unzip me.. blah blah blah..

Till now.. she hasn't decide to contact me yet. Hiaz.. Lose a friend or lose a potential FB?:o

U should make the 1st move, called her and thank her for the nite. Tell her she is very sweet and very nice to you, and you want to bring her out to a nice dinner to return the favour. At least u can salvage yr friendship, to make her yr FB or not you have to see what comes out after.....

Hope everything turns out ok for you.

[simple2kee]

Hi Bros,

Sharing a real life experience of having ONS with your best friend here...
Any bros have this experience? After the ONS, do you remain as frds or FB?

Personally i have this good friend and had a bit too much last sat and we were already hugging like couple at the pub. Initially i thought it was ok due to liquor but everything goes wild when i send her back. Near the doorway, before we parted She started frenching me.. i reach out for her skirt.. she unzip me.. blah blah blah..

Till now.. she hasn't decide to contact me yet. Hiaz.. Lose a friend or lose a potential FB?:o

bro, it is HARD to maintain as best friend again. well, listen to bro thaizombie. i do agree with his sound advice.
cheers!

[zaoren]

Hi Bro,
You should make the first move to contact her instead of waiting, at least show some gentlemen approach and you're sincere, see how it go next...

Good luck.

Rgds, Zaoren

[gambit88]

Bro Peugeot,

After the bonk you never stay for the night? :confused:

of coz the gal don't call you lah :(

You want to score a FB???
At least do the morning-after-work to sweet talk her mah. Stupid

Regards
Gambit88

[Peugeot]

[QUOTE=gambit88;3763849]Bro Peugeot,

After the bonk you never stay for the night? :confused:


Bro Gambit88... no bonk lah, i fingered her for a while and she hJ me that's all. Can't do much at her door step right? Btw, just contacted her and was told to be normal friend. hee.. not sure what that means.. maybe really got chance to be FB... But really cannot imagine a good 10yrs frd becoming FB yah.

any bro here got experience in getting Good friend to be FB? or before becoming FB, they have to be your close frd.. hee;)

[GP123]

U have the best chance to make her yr FB. Definitely she likes you, but not enough to be GF, and allow u to sexify her that nite.

What u have to do is go dinner with her, and go drinking again and you will know the situation better.

Apparently u are very concern, which is a wrong sign. To her its no big deal, see! She did not ask u for anything, and what do think she should ask?

So i think u act blur, and thought friends can have sex, and make her a FB, but never go into i love u that stage. Take it easy and let her take the lead.

Hope luck is on yr side......:)

[Criminalz]

i tot getting ready to read story about sex then i see blah blah blah.

[bochapsing]

Hiaz.. Lose a friend or lose a potential FB?:o

trying to put myself in shoe of TS...
personally i think losing a good fren of 10 yrs is worse than losing a potential FB.. i rather to have her back as good fren...

:cool::cool::cool:

[unsung80]

Sorry to hear that, but you blow the chance of her been your BEST friend again. If you lucky still can be friend. Good luck bro. :)

[daredevilgal]

eh guys...wait up...i thought TS said the gal initiated the kissing near the doorway? So where did some of you guys got the idea of "oh man, you gonna lose a best fren"?

imo, since the gal initiated this ONS with the kissing, i dun think you will lose a best friend. Seriously TS, you should at least make the first move and sms her something. I'm pretty sure the chances of getting her to become your FB is quite high, or at least, i don't think you'll lose her as your friend.

[rainchezz]

actually it's more of her feeling weird now that the effect of alcohol is off. TS can just take the initiative and establish contact again .... just treat as normal good friends till the topic is being brought up. had sth like this as well, so could identify with how both felt. so, simply yout tots, just treat as normal and see where that leads you.
good luck mate

[sexhound]

Sorry to hear that, but you blow the chance of her been your BEST friend again. If you lucky still can be friend. Good luck bro. :)

Bro Unsung80 and Bochapsing are right. You have blow your chance at being BEST friend but you will still be friends, but the whole friendship feeling will be very different now after this.

Trust me, i know this experience too well. My fren and i hit it off very well from the start, i think sparks really flew for us even though we both are attached. The friendship develop very fast and well and deep down we know we have a liking for each other, but we held back cos of all the complications.

Of course after around a year, human will cannot overcome human needs, we started kissing after one night of drinking and followed with french and petting soon after. i knew it will blow up in my face but i didnt stop it as she really was very different from all the girls i have known.

Eventually after some time, we made love. After that, it become almost a weekly routine for the next 1.5 years. My female buddy has become my FB. We had felll for each other but i dont have the heart to desert my GF. My FB couldn't bear knowing i will never acknowledge her, and chose to give up this relationship.
Although we promised to remaingood friends, you know things have changed. i feel that change. Now, when you have personal and intimate things to discuss, you are afraid that it will ignite the flame again, and you drift apart sooner or later.

Take my experience as a reference, if you arent attached, good for you. And if you are sure she may be the one you will stay with for long, go ahead make her your GF, not just FB. I fnot, leave it, and continue to be there foor her in your capacity as a good fren. Dun be like me, in the end, everyone is left heartbroken.

[best123]

trying to put myself in shoe of TS...
personally i think losing a good fren of 10 yrs is worse than losing a potential FB.. i rather to have her back as good fren...

:cool::cool::cool:

yah....but sometimes the fantasy is there.... i ahve a friend of more than 10 years... she quite a looker.... can't help but imagine what it's like to have a ONS with her...

[enigma77]

ONS!!! you must be either very handsome, or very smooth talker to be able to land one....

[kwaychup]

prefer to keep a friend of 10 yrs.

once almost sank too deep with a neighbour + friend of mine for 5 yrs+
don't wanna go into too much details but after that petting session,
we never really stay in contact much already.
thus i lost a friend :(

Btw, just contacted her and was told to be normal friend. hee.. not sure what that means.. maybe really got chance to be FB... But really cannot imagine a good 10yrs frd becoming FB yah.

hmm maybe you should try n dig deeper.
girls dun happy happy kiss n hj you for nothing 1 :D

[wuliao_5529]

ONS!!! you must be either very handsome, or very smooth talker to be able to land one....

You did not state, lucky and rich? :)

[whitegals]

I used to know a ger like that, we were great frens before, used to hang out and go see show together, not like a couple, more like frens, i had a gf and she had a bf.

Then one day, my gf dumped me for some rich arse who drove an Audi TT, i asked her out, we got drunk and ended up in bed.

After that, we still managed to talk and hang out, although occasionally, she would come over to my place, and I would know that look in her eye, she would unzip me and give me a BJ before jumping into bed for me to screw her brains out.

Now that she is married, we dun see each other that much anymore, although sometimes we'd still meet up for lunch and a couple of times sneak up to her office and fcuk on her table... :D

[chedet]

ya. i once have a good fren, we had smtg. i kinda know she like me but i pretend dunno since she knows i have gf. once u get it, u can always get it again, provided that u dont screw thg up.

[bochapsing]

I Then one day, my gf dumped me for some rich arse who drove an Audi TT, i asked her out, we got drunk and ended up in bed.

Now that she is married, we dun see each other that much anymore, although sometimes we'd still meet up for lunch and a couple of times sneak up to her office and fcuk on her table... :D

bro, u r a lucky chap...!!

but i think u should call ur ex-gf up to thank her..!!

:p:p:p

[Bangster]

In my most honest opinion,



TS, i really think you should make her drink and both get high or drunk again. Then ask her to consider again.

You may get something more this time round...


heh heh...


don't we all just love alcohol?


:D

[lilmei]

i used to hve a female fren, everythin oso can talk ...
to the extend can juz ask her jokinly n sometime seriously "i horny, can screw w u or not?" and she would juz reply "no" like nothin ...
She always reject any advances but sometime would b jealous if i speak too fondly of another gal.
she say it's not possible to screw w me because she treats me as gd fren n the friendship n how we see each other will change if we screw but sometime when we chat, i will purposely open my legs to let her see my "swelled" member buldging and i confirm she would glance many times at it during the conversation. At times (once or twice), when she is wearin tight pants, she would oso open her legs to show me the contour of her cheebye. which she would look at me when i stare at it n she dun bother closing up till someone else comes near.
She oso share w me her near affairs w other guys, all the juicy details ...
we've not been in touch for few years le, nvr screw her b4, haven't stop thinkin abt screwin her till now.

so, Imagine u nvr do anythin n slowly, still lose contact w that GD fren ...
wouldn't u b thinking then ... "nah beh, that time should hve juz whack first n see how..."

then, btw "nah beh, that time should hve juz whack first n see how..." and
"if i did screw her, would i still lose a gd fren?", which qn would u prefer to ask yrself end of the day?

I chose the latter :p

[joew2005]

honestly,i find it veri hard 2 maintain the friendship aft wat happened.
Personally,I kannot even consider my ex-gf 2 be best of friends as well ......
perhaps i m 2 petty ...... perhaps ... perhaps ... perhaps ...

[junior_cannibal]

After reading this thread, can't help wanting to also mention my own. Knew a PRC in Singapore, not a FL but a proper OL at a trade seminar. After a couple of business like lunch and coffee, proceeded to dinner.
At the very 1st dinner, which followed by drinks and karaoke session. Had a bit too much to drink, frenching in the karaoke that proceeded to a ONS. After that, she sort of refused to see me, for not wanting to get in too deep in the relationship. Thought that was the end of it, kinda sad as I kinda like her as well. After a while, she told me she actually likes my company and would still like to go out with me.
We had a few more outings, managed to hold hands, kissing and even caressing, but never got to having sex again. She told me, she just wanted to protect herself from getting hurt.
As I like her, also wanted her to find her own happiness, wish that she can find her real own BF and move on with her life. However, deep down inside, I know I still enjoy her company very much. The fact is, now she is back in PRC, but will be back in a month time. Let's see if I can get over this whole thing.
Sorry for this seemingly irrelevant post in this thread.