View Full Version : Any Samster bro here who got WL as GF ?
Hi all, just wonder how many bros here who got WL as girl friend before ? be it past or present. My meaning of GF was include.. Making love.. outing.. even staying together .... Pls share with bros here for their interesting encounter . Thanks for reading and sharing.:)
jon2000sg
27-05-2009, 01:01 PM
many overseas !
player18
27-05-2009, 03:17 PM
U have one for yourself? Maybe can share your experience.
U have one for yourself? Maybe can share your experience.
哈哈哈Got one but already over now. Still miss her so much but nothing can be done ...::(
ang09
27-05-2009, 11:00 PM
哈哈哈Got one but already over now. Still miss her so much but nothing can be done ...::(
wow,power sia,is she a angpai that we know?
wow,power sia,is she a angpai that we know?
Bro Ang, May be you know who she is since you are senior in SB but soory cannot disclose the name here... else she will get ki siao liao :p
big_dick
28-05-2009, 10:29 AM
I used to have one as GF.
We would frequently go out together on her off days.
Strangely, we have never held hands or done any of those lovey-dovey stuff when going out together. Sometimes we would just go for simple drives or just to cafes for simple drinks. No hanky panky but she was happy and enjoyed my fuss over her. But she has also never allowed me to buy anything expensive or unneccessary for her.
On the day she left, she asked for help for only 2 items; getting a bigger luggage bag as she had bought too many clothes (all her own spending) and a simple silk tie and tie pin (not more than $100 altogether) for her father.
She's not back but we are still in contact through QQ.
We had already discussed and agreed that I cannot give her a permanent long-term relationship.
Sorry also cannot reveal name or any other information as I respect her privacy.
I used to have one as GF.
We would frequently go out together on her off days.
Strangely, we have never held hands or done any of those lovey-dovey stuff when going out together. Sometimes we would just go for simple drives or just to cafes for simple drinks. No hanky panky but she was happy and enjoyed my fuss over her. But she has also never allowed me to buy anything expensive or unneccessary for her.
On the day she left, she asked for help for only 2 items; getting a bigger luggage bag as she had bought too many clothes (all her own spending) and a simple silk tie and tie pin (not more than $100 altogether) for her father.
She's not back but we are still in contact through QQ.
We had already discussed and agreed that I cannot give her a permanent long-term relationship.
Sorry also cannot reveal name or any other information as I respect her privacy.
Wow Bro, Looks like you are lucky guy. :cool:Believe she was a gentle and considerate girl and really fall in love with you. Do you know her as WL or knew it after your BG relationship ?
What I can only say is tresure your relationship....Ture love are hard to come by especially with a WL....:)
regza85
28-05-2009, 12:26 PM
i got a few..
we always go out after their working hours, like for meals.. and sight-seeing..
and they ask nothing in return.. only me to visit them in thailand and some1 to care and listen to them after work if they faced bad customers.
and most of the time, i get "free-sex" but i will always pay them ever thou they will refuse to take...
These girls are also humans.. they also dun enjoy working as a FL, but they got no choice...
todae
28-05-2009, 12:27 PM
FL is freelance. WL = ?
player18
28-05-2009, 12:40 PM
It true that it hard to love a WL cos when they go back it difficult to contact them. Most of them live in countryside. But if they really love u they wouldn't ask anything from you even u offer them they also reject.
If u really love her and her love to u is true everything is not a problem to be together.
BiRd13
28-05-2009, 12:51 PM
Got 1 before... Some years ago.... She's from Indonesia though... Met her at one of those 'lap sap' KTV. (By then, this kind of KTV was popular, and not so 'strict'). That night, we were in the hotel bonking... (Usually she don't go out with customer de... Only 'entertain' in there...)
Next day, we became couple.... And as I don't like her working at such environment (who will?), I told her to quit her job, and tell her I will provide her lodging and etc... She agreed, and we stayed out together in a renting apartment...
Went out like couples, hold hands, movies, shopping etc. Even got her a job as an Admin staff, and this continue on for about 1yr++ Later part we broke off due to some problems and quarrels.... And after that she went back Indonesia already. Ever since she married (Got invited me over), we never contact since then...
player18
28-05-2009, 01:51 PM
Any Bro outside know that if they come sin become WL. Later when they go back they can't come sin again or marry with sin guys??
ang09
28-05-2009, 03:01 PM
Bro Ang, May be you know who she is since you are senior in SB but soory cannot disclose the name here... else she will get ki siao liao :p
Bro,pm me lah,i very curious to know,believe me,i wont spread,ok.:)
yjmteen
28-05-2009, 03:08 PM
WL can be ur gf or wife . got friend who married WL
the problem is ... do u bro, want to retired frm visiting others WL meh...???:confused:
big_dick
28-05-2009, 04:03 PM
Dear Bro dcky
Allow me to clarify; there was no "free" bonks for me.....so, many bros would not agree that I was that 'lucky"......hahahahaha
But I did enjoy her company and that was enuff for me.
Dear Bro dcky
Allow me to clarify; there was no "free" bonks for me.....so, many bros would not agree that I was that 'lucky"......hahahahaha
But I did enjoy her company and that was enuff for me.
Don't worry bro... as I don't believe in " free Bonk " in this world... As a GF normally you need to pay much more than what you had pay for a WL for their job. Since your WL GF never ask much from you such as watches, Branded items etc already consider dame lucky.... Don't you agreed ? :)
adalbrecht
28-05-2009, 05:29 PM
i agree!:)
BroRelax
28-05-2009, 06:27 PM
FL is freelance. WL = ?
WL = Woodlands :D
WL = Whore Lor :p
Seriously bro, WL = Working Lady
player18
28-05-2009, 10:38 PM
The one that i know really doesnt want anything from me also. They really want u to listen their problem and someone that can console them. If they not interested in u they wouldnt call you after their work everyday. But too bad now she went bad le. Only way is to visit her in thailand. Sad cos we share.
The one that i know really doesnt want anything from me also. They really want u to listen their problem and someone that can console them. If they not interested in u they wouldnt call you after their work everyday. But too bad now she went bad le. Only way is to visit her in thailand. Sad cos we share.
Why so sad? If you really her so much and still have her contact in Thailand, why don't you pay her a visit in Thailand ? if she really fall in love with you and like wise for you there still have chance la....On the other hand if she only after your $$$, than forget about her .....Don't waste time liao .:(
player18
28-05-2009, 11:39 PM
Cos she call me before she left. She cried and ask me not to be sad and promise to call me when she back but not so soon. Haiz... she told me if she was given another chance she wouldnt want to come sin to work. But is only a short period and she went back. She cant endure anymore from this kind of life and she need to bluff her family from what she doing. Good thing is that she really didnt want anything from me including i offer to send her money.
I used to have a gf as wl... during our 1st meeting we already have some chemistry, slowly we click off well... of cos every gal come here have their own stories... I nv stop her from working cos myself income not stable too. We know to be together is impossible but we just enjoy each other company....
During her off we will do what a couple will do, now she is back at her hometown. Only can wish her all the best and remember all memories in my heart. :)
I used to have a gf as wl... during our 1st meeting we already have some chemistry, slowly we click off well... of cos every gal come here have their own stories... I nv stop her from working cos myself income not stable too. We know to be together is impossible but we just enjoy each other company....
During her off we will do what a couple will do, now she is back at her hometown. Only can wish her all the best and remember all memories in my heart. :)
Good memory for you bro... If fated may be next day you will meet her again. If she wasn't yours even if she stay in Sin, you two may still part after sometime right ? Good luck and have your sweet memory best you still got some photos of her to recall all your good time together. :cool:
Bangkok Master
29-05-2009, 12:12 PM
Tirakship with WLs are not meant to be existence but somehow or rather there will still be ppl who are persistance enough to pursue it. There were tonnes of bros in the past who had tried, done and move on simply because the complications are too much for them including myself to mantain a normal lifestyle with an ex-WL.
Regency
29-05-2009, 12:31 PM
Tirakship with WLs are not meant to be existence but somehow or rather there will still be ppl who are persistance enough to pursue it. There were tonnes of bros in the past who had tried, done and move on simply because the complications are too much for them including myself to mantain a normal lifestyle with an ex-WL.
Fully agreed... I'm one of them too... So whether whatever nationality she's from or whether she's a FL or WL this type of relationships is just too complex & got so many complications... Initially when u just kick-start the relationships it will be so happy & sweet... But as time goes by there will be more problems & issue till u can't handle plus it will affect your daily routine & work... This is just a small fraction which is being mention...
So if u really want to be with a FL... Just dun start any relationship but just a companionship whenever she needs u... Just offering my 0.02cts worth of advice... ;)
Fully agreed... I'm one of them too... So whether whatever nationality she's from or whether she's a FL or WL this type of relationships is just too complex & got so many complications... Initially when u just kick-start the relationships it will be so happy & sweet... But as time goes by there will be more problems & issue till u can't handle plus it will affect your daily routine & work... This is just a small fraction which is being mention...
So if u really want to be with a FL... Just dun start any relationship but just a companionship whenever she needs u... Just offering my 0.02cts worth of advice... ;)
Wow Senior samster Bro TilakMaster & Regency finally speak up liao.. . :p
Ya fully agreed that indeed too much complications and troubles to handle. If FL or WL getting too close to you and treat you like their Tilak ( Dear in Thai.), they will start throwing their problems to you and expecting you to help. This type of relationship will get sour if you are not able to help much or meet their expectation....:(
Anyway bro here able to share their real " feel " when making love WL GF is quite different from looking for normal WL right? of cos you got to pay high price for the good "feel "....:p
John_Lloyd
29-05-2009, 01:03 PM
Yes, it's true that we should avoid WL/FL as gf because of the future complications that will inevitably take place. Then again, what if it is fate? Do we have control of it? I myself almost fall into this, and force myself not to think of her. But whenever I meet her, which is once a week, I falll in love all over again. You know what I mean?
Sigh.. Sometimes, you just can't control the emotions..
Yes, it's true that we should avoid WL/FL as gf because of the future complications that will inevitably take place. Then again, what if it is fate? Do we have control of it? I myself almost fall into this, and force myself not to think of her. But whenever I meet her, which is once a week, I falll in love all over again. You know what I mean?
Sigh.. Sometimes, you just can't control the emotions..
Hahaha.. john you are just like me. Sometime just can't control myself after see her lovely face ... . For those WL to make money here, they got to have some stardard in term of appearance either face or figure. So guys here will be easy to fall in love with them..
For me, best way to part with her is purposely make her " tu Lang " and hate me so that she will not call me again. . . After sometime than everything will be back to normal liao...:p
Good memory for you bro... If fated may be next day you will meet her again. If she wasn't yours even if she stay in Sin, you two may still part after sometime right ? Good luck and have your sweet memory best you still got some photos of her to recall all your good time together. :cool:
good things remember can liao... if you wanna own it then it will become nightmare. we did not took any pic together too bad... :rolleyes:
Kingaroo
29-05-2009, 06:19 PM
Just be mentally prepared lor.. if u want a WL as your girlfriend.
Tirakship with WLs are not meant to be existence but somehow or rather there will still be ppl who are persistance enough to pursue it. There were tonnes of bros in the past who had tried, done and move on simply because the complications are too much for them including myself to mantain a normal lifestyle with an ex-WL.
Bro Bangkok Master, looks like you are a real experience samster but still fall in having Tilak ship with WL ? May be you could share some of stories with us here.:p:p
Bangkok Master
30-05-2009, 12:25 PM
Bro Bangkok Master, looks like you are a real experience samster but still fall in having Tilak ship with WL ? May be you could share some of stories with us here.:p:p
I can say almost 20-30% might be more of samsters in the forum(might be more...keke) had went through some form of tribulations with WLs while cheonging. There are no guidebooks or 10 year series to successfully lead you through a relationship with a WL but you must ask yourself - HOW FAR CAN YOU GO?
I started cheonging GL when I was 17 back in 1993, at that time lor 2,4,6 was the prime area for cat40. Those days was the best as most WLs are still not so commercialised and smart enough to fleece you. And you could still find WLs who could spend their hard-earned cash to pay for your slots in order to see you.
I was stuck w a particular WL in lor6 hse which I was deeply in love with her and practically work part time in order to visit her often. It was quite difficult for a student like me to fork out $130 every week for booking her overnight. But still I was mislead by my own assumption that I could win her heart from all the other cheongster with true devotion and after few months of pursuing her, I was kinda promoted to the top 3 tiraks in her books.
It became to a point that I was interested in nothing but her, it really affected my studies as I was literally waiting for her call every night after she finishes work, skipped sch in the morning in order to meet her at golden mile, buy her favourite fillet o'fish and deliver to the hse. I'm sure the senior tirak players will find it familiar since everyone who goes through tirakship will go have the same process...keke
The worst part for me was when the WL started to show more affectionate actions towards me like subsidising my bonking fees, buying gifts for me and calling me darling etc. I became more and more obsessed about her untl I was contemplating to leave sch and go thailand with her after her tour of duty ends.
Luckily for me I managed to get outta of it when I caught her with another tirak at golden mile which I had initially wanted to surprise her by going to the hair saloon which she frequents daily. I never confront her but I secretly approached the other tirak for clarifications and realised both of us were duped, we became cheong buddies after that. The best part was aft the WL found out that the lobang had pichak, she tried her very best to savage the situation by declaring her true love to both of us consecutively, it came to a point I almost believed her as she cried in front of me when she insisted that I go and see her.
I was confused whether to believe her anot until the other tirak called me and told me the same story then I already accept that she was lying all the way. At that point, my dreams had shattered and I finally realised that I was just another customer like everyone else except we enjoyed certain privilages more than others. Why because we invested more $ than others, the more you pay the more you get...
Of course until today, I still believed she might have some feelings for me but still in reality she has to be multi-tasking tiraks simply because they are here for $ not finding a husband. Unless you are the SPECIAL ONE like Jose Mourinho who manages to find a club who really wants you to be the coach of the team.
There are many many more stories which I encounter in the later stages of my life which not matter how experience am I, there are bounds to be occasions when your heart goes soft when you see someone that you fancy. I will continue if the rest of the bros wants read my lo-so stories...haha
vandom66
30-05-2009, 12:48 PM
Everyone have a series past of history regardless loveship, courtship, cheonging or marriage. They maybe sweet and bitter. All this experiences lead us to growth in life.
人生有几多个十年, 最重要是活得痛快。。
hoho99
30-05-2009, 01:16 PM
There are many many more stories which I encounter in the later stages of my life which not matter how experience am I, there are bounds to be occasions when your heart goes soft when you see someone that you fancy. I will continue if the rest of the bros wants read my lo-so stories...haha
Well why not, many of us in sbf quite kaypo one hor...:D
city.people
30-05-2009, 02:25 PM
I used to have 1 from one of the Lor 8 houses.She's one of the fav there and is tired everytime because of good business.During my time with her,of course she have a few 'Roberts' that shower her with gifts and cash.Sometimes i laugh at their antics cos u know,if Thai gals if they like u,they dont need those material gifts,only your sincere devoted commitment.Not that i approve of her doing so,but she did tell them its not possible,hey who's the willing party right?
Being together with her is really a test of u and her relationship as sometimes she tell me bout those bad customers when u cant do anything at all.Also her off day is only 1 time a month which we mostly go walk-walk,eat and see movies cos at nite she have to be back before 12am.
Initially she did not say,but hint me to book her overnite every weekend(that time the price for ON was 130 ma).But of cos i did not ON every week la.Later on,as we get together longer,she say she prefer me dont waste money,ask me come 1 month 2,3 times ok liao.Sometimes she even pay for my ON when that month i dont have $.By the way,she never ask anything from me before too...Anyway,she's back to LOS and cant come back SG anytime soon.We still keep in touch by sms/calls by the way.
My advice to bros is be very very prepared to take a long and hard road if u want to achieve this r/s with your gal.It'll be a true test of your resolved feeling for her and vice versa.Along the way,u'll encounter more sad and pain than happiness.But those sparing moments of joy will be so sweet and will embed in your mind forever.Good luck....:)
rockystone
30-05-2009, 02:52 PM
I ever had 2 PRC WL relationship when I cheong China quite often with a group of frens. The feeling they both gave me is till date wat I still cant find from the local gals. I even get 1 of them to come here to meet a family n relatives. We lasted for 8 months before we end it in a good way. She had never ask me to buy anything for her. During her time in Singapore she dun even want go shopping, all she wanted was go zoo, birdpark, nite safari, sentosa. And also i when back to her hometown to meet her family and relative too.
Too bad we cant have a good ending.
player18
31-05-2009, 02:32 PM
Wat u say is true is they like u they dont want anything from u. If they can go out they will ask u along to spend more time wif u. Mine had recently went back to LOS. Even the last nite in sin she sneak out during midnite to accompany me till 4am. But sad is that she live in country side she say is difficult to call me and ask me to email her and she will try to call me after a month when she settle down. Although we know each other no long about 1 month but everynite after her work she will give me a call to talk to me. Now wat i can do is to email her and wait for her call. BRO, how yr relationship with hers?? Did you go to find her?? U speak their language any communication problem??
Regency
31-05-2009, 05:00 PM
Well why not, many of us in sbf quite kaypo one hor...:D
Yeah hope bro Bangkok Master can share his part & enlighten those bro's who had lose their mind & soul to those FL (including me). :eek::D
Looks like most of the samster bro here having some Thai or Main land Chinese WL or FL as GF... Any bro here having Malaysian WL as GF ? Able to share .....:o
HOWITZER105MM
31-05-2009, 07:32 PM
There is a beautiful movie about this theme, it is a Thai movie MIDNIGHT MY LOVE you watch it on YOUTUBE. Very touching.:)
Show Stopper
31-05-2009, 07:46 PM
I've long given up on Thai WL/FL becos i found out that they are really very gd liars. Even if u found out that they are lying, they will come out with another lie to cover the previous lie.
Gd luck to those who are still in a relationship with a Thai WL/FL especially.
mit1686
31-05-2009, 07:56 PM
in reality she has to be multi-tasking tiraks simply because they are here for $ not finding a husband. Yup, most of the wl i know are like, i believe is the environment that they r in that cast them to be like that......
Yup, most of the wl i know are like, i believe is the environment that they r in that cast them to be like that......
Ya agreed.. Most of them are just here to make some $ . They may fall in love with some cheongster here but in reality they will eventually go after money than Tilakship here. We also cannot blame them. Understand from friends that most of Thai WL like to lie to their Tilak just for some monet support instead of ture love... How about some malaysian WL ? Any comments :(
city.people
01-06-2009, 12:44 AM
I beg to differ when u say all Thai gals like to lie.This is rooted deep in their culture,it depends on whether how u see it.As for those who kena 'cheated' of their money,ask yourself 1st: did she point a gun at u and who willingly gave?Its just that u gave your all and she did not,thats all.Somethings u need to step back and see the overall bigger picture.
I've long given up on Thai WL/FL becos i found out that they are really very gd liars. Even if u found out that they are lying, they will come out with another lie to cover the previous lie.
Gd luck to those who are still in a relationship with a Thai WL/FL especially.
bro i dun think only thai are like that .... each country got it own black sheep :cool:
zennie
01-06-2009, 10:01 AM
i nearly get myself a WL as gf but i think end of the day .. they just working for the sake of the money so no point go further ..
newyorker88
01-06-2009, 12:32 PM
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Luckily for me I managed to get outta of it
When we cheong, we must know the limit lah. As you age, you get wiser. Afterall, why they go into this line in the first place? It is all about $$$.
When we cheong, we must know the limit lah. As you age, you get wiser. Afterall, why they go into this line in the first place? It is all about $$$.
Ya think most of the bro here know they shouldn't get involve with WL in the first place but we are human and like wise for WL... The moment you met a " right girl " is very hard for you to keep cool... More over if the WL treat you well and both can click well than very naturally both will get together and become GF, lover, TILAK.....BUT Normally will not get into any happy ending only..:(
D_Silver
02-06-2009, 09:00 AM
Had something of a relationship with a WL before.. nothing serious as I know it wouldnt work out. Just spend time with her.. guess we both needed company.
Several times the thought of whether this could turn out to be long term came into my mind, but there would be too many hurdles to cross. So I chose not to cross those hurdles and just enjoy the moment.
I think its the same for her, as we never talked about a future together.
After she gone back, I never have that kind of feelings for another WL again. Think I become too skeptical to really believe true love can blossom between a myself and a WL.
From all the feed back on this topic so far, looks like quite a number of bros here do have WL as GF before - may be already over or still having the Tilak relationship now. Over here I do have another question fresh into my mind now is :
Have your do Raw sex with your WL GF ? ( chances is quite high since already having Tilak relationship ) but what happen if she is also have another Tilak back in their country or another guy ????:confused:
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