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josephjo
19-07-2009, 12:02 AM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

alvin36
19-07-2009, 12:21 AM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?


dont understand what you saying :confused:

are you saying that you take long time to get hard on ??
how long ? 2 min ? 5 min ?

anyway... take long time to get hard is not a problem lah.... if you dont last long enough, then is a bigger problem.

josephjo
19-07-2009, 12:29 AM
Yea have problem erecting in front of a girl. Takes alot of effort. Although i erects easily alone at home while masturbating..

T_Lex
19-07-2009, 01:04 AM
Your FR's seem ok leh ... sounds like it's just a confidence issue. So long as you can hold the erection, should be ok. Just relax. Maybe bonking more will help ;)

Regards.

jana
19-07-2009, 01:15 AM
Bro usually erection problem is caused by mixture of psychological and physical, as you can masturbate then i will say its definitely not physical then, thus one of the method some doctors used is to pass a patient a vitamin pill(one that looks like the actual viagra) and tell him that its viagra and then the guy will eat it and actually solve the psychological issue through very mild medication.

Cos you think you have eaten something to give you the extra edge you feel confidence thus you perform very welll thinking that its the viagra but actually its just vitamin thus you over come psychological issue from inside.

There are some medication in the market that will turn you from strong to stronger dun try those in the category of cannot to can ah(too potent), try those.

immutable
19-07-2009, 04:59 PM
Its all in the mind. Just relax and everything will become natural.

elth
19-07-2009, 05:10 PM
Yea have problem erecting in front of a girl. Takes alot of effort. Although i erects easily alone at home while masturbating..

bro maybe you should relax abit more... I also have similar problem during my younger days when I find FL dunno is too pressure or too shy... cannot get hard or soft easily :D but dunno since when it become a SOP thingy :p

cumfast
19-07-2009, 05:20 PM
you have no problem getting hard with porn... but have problem with real girls??

sound like a sign of too much exposure to porn...

try to live a normal life?

KTV_seow
19-07-2009, 09:54 PM
.....Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude.......
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

Bro, sounds like you have difficulties in getting hard in front of girls. It seems to be a psychological problem as you don't have issue with porn. Maybe you can imagine you are the porn star going to bonk the gal, maybe you have a hardon more easily. If you problem persist, maybe you should consider seeking medical advice.

hope this 2 cent worth of advice is helpful.

TheGod
19-07-2009, 10:57 PM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

Bro,

I have smiliar problem as you, but my target audience is only to FL prostitute etc as long as its a transaction i will face these problem.

izerkudie
19-07-2009, 11:05 PM
i think such case are quite common if you are nervous etc? chill bro, its normal :D

stephan
19-07-2009, 11:38 PM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

If you are still young, high possible affected by masturbating too much, which you can concentrate well either with book or video. When facing to a real girl infront of you, you lost your concentration by replacing nervous, it is a psychologise barrier.

Anything related to psycholgy, advice is easy to give but you are hard to change your mindset. I suggest you watching sex video clip to help up getting your hardon when dealing sex with girl.

jaslau83
20-07-2009, 01:41 AM
If you are still young, high possible affected by masturbating too much, which you can concentrate well either with book or video. When facing to a real girl infront of you, you lost your concentration by replacing nervous, it is a psychologise barrier.

Anything related to psycholgy, advice is easy to give but you are hard to change your mindset. I suggest you watching sex video clip to help up getting your hardon when dealing sex with girl.


agreed!
too much masturbation when u r young or even now!
try to stop wank urself for a day or 2 b4 sex and see how it goes loh..

darkice
20-07-2009, 01:45 AM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

Although sometimes sex with someone we lust will get you hard easily, Sex is always better with someone you love or you have feelings for.

But in your case, I think you sound more nervous. Go with the flow bro.

Mankok
20-07-2009, 02:40 AM
bros please don't laugh at me. But wonder you guys had any of such problem?
When at home masturbating. Less than 30 sec would get a hardon. But when doing it with someone. Alot of factors involved. tv, the girl keep moaning, anxiety. Sometime abit hard to start the engine. Need to wank abit first.
I even had to ask the girl to switch off tv. Then wank to get hard on. It is even harder when the girl have the dun care attitude. Scare she think i'm impotent. Think i need some male confidence during sex. I try to abstain masturbation one or two days before sex doesn't work.
What do you guys do for those have this problem. How long usually do you people takes after she strip to get hardon?

Bro,
Remember: It's all in the mind!!
This all means that you just are not turned on by the gal.
You can get a hardone in seconds if the gal's presence turns you on.

I suppose you are young.
The point is: You must find and discover the things that turn you on.

For example: visit an attractive milf with big boobs in some TN and let her take care of your littlebro. Maybe you will have a hardon in seconds and release within one minute.

Or find something else.

BoinKING
20-07-2009, 03:46 AM
you need a shrink.

playboy82
23-07-2009, 02:22 PM
hmm... i guess its masterbate too much le.. so even when u see a pretty naked gal, ur mind had no more visual to stimulate ..

dragonfly888
23-07-2009, 03:44 PM
bro, did the gal goes naked direct or u have a series of foreplay before sex? actually men too need foreplay. This could include:

1) Sexy wears by the gal
2) 'accidential' expose by the gal (You can pre-arrange with the gal...believe me... this sure to work.. how many time have u gotten a 'hard-on' when u accidentially see some gal expose themselves unknownly)
3) Sensual rub by by the gal on the cock (or under the cock area)
4) BJ by the gal..
5) External medicine (eg Wild Oat from GNC.. pls.. I am no worker for GNC.. just feel that it works)

Try out the above and u should see some diff.. as one of the bro mention.. u need to experiment to find out what works for u...

dgsk
24-07-2009, 11:31 AM
The girl has the TV on? And have a dun care attitude?
Is she a WL/FL?
Is she watching the TV while letting you do your stuff?
Suggest you get someone else.
Don't think the problem is you physically, but the whole wham, bam, f off scene.

GP123
24-07-2009, 12:08 PM
Dun worry...have more practice and u will get over it. Make her suck till u get hard. If still cannot, she is the problem, not u. Undesirable gal i also cannot stand....kekeke.

lasupkia
24-07-2009, 03:35 PM
I thought I had the same problem too... not able to be hard...

But when i was in the GL pubs with the viets...the way they rub their bodies against mine caused a major hardon...

So i think the problem is the girl's attitude. Rush rush fuck care attitude or slow flirting... if the girl keeps running her fingernails around yr crotch and balls but still cant get hard... u need a doctor fast before it becomes major problem.

I hope it's not a gender problem for u. Man make u hard and woman turn u off... that would be a darker day than the eclipse