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meisawai
07-10-2009, 10:33 AM
Hi All,

Am new to this forum and am glad to say that i have learnt lots of things from all the bros here.

Here goes..

About a year ago.. cross path with my childhood sweetheart and have been out for dinner a couple of time and recently she has been showing signs of feeling for me again... problem is I am a married man...(she is still single) to be frank, i did lust for her but i think its not worth to cross the line.. so should i

1. tell her that let just be friend and nothing else..

2. or.. advise needed..

Thanks in advance to all the bros..

sammyboyfor
07-10-2009, 11:17 AM
Should be "ADVICE needed".

"Advise" is a verb.

My advice is to let sleeping dogs lie. Don't mess up your life for the sake of a freakin' pussy.:rolleyes:

Joker74
07-10-2009, 11:29 AM
Friend... don't mess up your life!

Nothing come free... there is always a price tag to each gal... Since married... stay faithful to your wife... if want to eat, go for paid services (fuck, pay and fuck off)... no string attached...

Plotinus
07-10-2009, 11:32 AM
I know forbidden fruit is sweetest. But stay away, bro. Too risky and the damage is likely to be substantial.

lglg666
07-10-2009, 11:34 AM
Bro....
What you need is not "advices" from us here but to ask your own conscience whether what do you really want out of this?

As a guy...frankly I will tried my best to bonk any girl I fancy if given a chance.
And if you just want to do that then just go ahead but if you have want to do the right thing as a married man then it is best to stop thinking of "lust" but just as a mutual friend when you meet her. That way then no misunderstanding later.

My 2 cents worth...btw I am an older guy so not much time left therefore will try my best to bonk whenever there is a chance. But still...will only do so if it is really "worth the trouble" and let me tell you...not all girls are worth the trouble in order to get into their pants.
Some...just pay, bonk and forget while others....we may have to give up our hands/legs/life in order to smell their pussies hehehe!
Some men's pussies is other men's wives...oh! some men's food is other men's poison hehehe!

lglg666
07-10-2009, 11:36 AM
Friend... don't mess up your life!

Nothing come free...go for paid services (fuck, pay and fuck off)... no string attached...

Hi bro Joker74,
Good advice....cheers!

meisawai
07-10-2009, 11:36 AM
Thanks bros..

Roger that.... advice heeded.. its not worth it.. :o

iswift
07-10-2009, 11:38 AM
Few factors to consider,
1) Are u happily married ?
2) Do u have kids ?
3) Is she sticky ?
4) What u looking for, FB or ONS ?

Please consider carefully, if not, best advice is not to touch.....

gyrfalcon
07-10-2009, 11:41 AM
If you can stay resolute to the "fuck and run" principle, why not? If not, one thing will lead to another and before long you may find yourself wallowing in a sewage full gutter.

Oralcraz
07-10-2009, 04:04 PM
Thanks bros..

Roger that.... advice heeded.. its not worth it.. :o

Absolutely wise.:) One humble point for u.

Frankiestine
07-10-2009, 04:22 PM
From my experience anything to do with single gal tend to end up in one big shit...:eek:

sammyboyfor
07-10-2009, 04:23 PM
Bro....
What you need is not "advices" from us

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

Castrol
07-10-2009, 05:41 PM
About a year ago.. cross path with my childhood sweetheart and have been out for dinner a couple of time and recently she has been showing signs of feeling for me again... problem is I am a married man...(she is still single) to be frank, i did lust for her but i think its not worth to cross the line.. so should i

1. tell her that let just be friend and nothing else..

2. or.. advise needed..

Thanks in advance to all the bros..

she is single and waiting for fuck and you are talking about crossing the line?
what the fuck is happening? :confused:

fresno99
07-10-2009, 06:54 PM
she is single and waiting for fuck and you are talking about crossing the line?
what the fuck is happening? :confused:
Exactly, bro.
It's all about sex right? Happens all the time in Angmo shows la.. As Nike logo.. "Just Do It". If wife finds out then different story la. Wife can also find out about paid sex what. Somemore this type got KC.. if u dont want, I bet bros will line up from Changi to Jurong to be next in line.. I Q first hor.. :D

Martyn
07-10-2009, 08:01 PM
Fuck her and get yourself stuck? Break your marriage vow? Family or old lover important?

What past is past, be it good or sweet memories. Those are only memories and just keep it to yourself.

Cock itchy...pay a chicken and screw it off. Brain blockage...bang it on the wall and sure that fix.

meisawai
09-03-2010, 06:37 PM
Hi bros,

It's been a while that I have last posted, so let me update all the bros here on my r/s with my childhood sweet heart..

Have been trying to distance myself from her ever since.. but in strange circumstances our r/s took a step forward.. I constantly remind myself and to her that I am married and that she deserve someone that will cherish her more than I can give... she said it's ok and so on..

I really wanted to treat her as a friend cos i sincerely care about her well being and I dun want to fcuk up my family.

So, I humbly seek the wisdoms of the bros here once again and hopefully it will be a win win situation. Thanks in advance.

Jurist
10-03-2010, 10:59 AM
Don't bonk her. If you have to then do it once and keep a distance away.

tryherout
10-03-2010, 11:09 AM
Ask yourself how hard have you try to keep away from her...? Change your mobile number? If not, the roadmap is clear.

Flesh
10-03-2010, 11:26 AM
Your's is a common dilemma....

The obvious advice is to stay away- its all water under the bridge, don't shit in your own backyard etc etc. Of course that's easier said than done. We are all human (of course some are Tigers, others are Neos...haha) :p

But since you are posting in this forum, there are some who would say that life is short, that you should live for the moment and go with what feels good. No wrong, no right- just do it. But go in with your eyes opens and lay the ground rules early.

Not sure if this helps. Life is shades of grey. Good luck in deciding.

Bangster
10-03-2010, 01:58 PM
I think best is ask her to go hotel with you 1 night.

Then when you are both inside, tell her that you are having second thoughts about this as you are married and blah blah blah....

If she really wants you, tell her you feel the same but you have your reservations...

If she really doesn't care, then you tan-tio.

Next time if shit happens, at least you can push the blame to her.

Make sure you leave the voice recorder in your mobile phone on.

yangguo
10-03-2010, 03:37 PM
Bro TS, I think Jack Neo can give you the best advice! :D

Elysian
10-03-2010, 04:44 PM
So, I humbly seek the wisdoms of the bros here once again and hopefully it will be a win win situation.

Your win win means you want your cake and eat it too ?

That sums it up if that is what you mean.

meisawai
10-03-2010, 05:01 PM
Bro TS, I think Jack Neo can give you the best advice! :D

Ha ha ..

Tks bro.. Ah Neo's episode really made me think things through.. my OC " will not " be so forgiving..

toitoi
11-03-2010, 12:09 AM
well , i suggest that he talk to her heart to heart if you really want to bonk her and see how she respond to it , if she mind try to change the topic or just tell you " is a casual remarks " and if she dun mind , ask her to be your FB but you must remind her that both of you cant cross the line as you are married . MOST IMPORTANT , ALWAU HAVE THE BALLS IN YOUR GAME AND NOT THE OTHER WAY AS YOU ARE MARRIED .

hope its help bro .

meisawai
11-03-2010, 11:22 AM
Bros..

Thank you all for the inputs ..

I have made up my mind and remain faithful to my OC .. not suitable to play the game..

Hope that the bros here will continue to give valuable advice to all the newbies..

Cheers..

yang punk
11-03-2010, 01:22 PM
TS

I think you are waiting for people here to say go ahead and bonk her since she is game! That would ease your conscience considerably.

The fact is the future is unpredictable. The situation can go both ways...you bonk her and both of you are happy. She continues to be discreet and undemanding and your marriage goes on.

OR

She becomes possessive and sticky and pester you to leave your family for her failing which she will mess up your life. Enough of news on such matters to enlighten you on what a woman scorn can do!

Its your decision really!

yangguo
11-03-2010, 07:05 PM
Tks bro.. Ah Neo's episode really made me think things through.. my OC " will not " be so forgiving..

Your "OC" can be forgiving if you are as rich as our producer Ah Neo..

Just kidding la.. :)

If you are not sure of the outcome, why should you take the risks ah???

Stay faithful is a safer bet.. I reckon.

tyro
11-03-2010, 07:09 PM
Your "OC" can be forgiving if you are as rich as our producer Ah Neo..

Just kidding la.. :)

If you are not sure of the outcome, why should you take the risks ah???

Stay faithful is a safer bet.. I reckon.

Well said. I was in a similar situation and I stayed away. On hindsight I believe I did the right thing.