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Big Sister80
03-12-2009, 04:08 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

sex4LiFe
03-12-2009, 05:03 PM
As they will always say - "It's not you, it's me."

Maybe you're just way too good with sex. ;)
Chin up, you're definitely be able to find one who'll appreciate you other than your bedroom skills.

wheregotghost
03-12-2009, 05:18 PM
well. next time dont jump into sex too soon after u 2 are togather.

Big Sexy
03-12-2009, 05:23 PM
you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.;)

I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex.

waahaa
03-12-2009, 05:30 PM
Maybe i not good in it.:(

don't jump to the conclusion that you're not good. lots of chaps here would be happy to help you evaluate before you come to a conclusion

Big Sister80
03-12-2009, 06:27 PM
you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.;)

I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned. I always trust my bf so much even we know less than 3 months. I put trust and end up being betray n hurt. Wat else can i say. Maybe i trust guys too easily and when they ask me i will give in. Is it wrong to trust a person you love dearly.
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.

JumpinJackFlash
03-12-2009, 06:40 PM
[QUOTE=Big Sister80;4343984. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:([/QUOTE]

I would surmise that you gave away your body too willingly, I may be wrong, in the hope of gaining love from those guys. That is not going to get you the "trophy". Many reasons why the guys walked out on you, can't even think of trying to second guess, sister. A lot has to happen and click between two persons other than physical sex, in order for a relationship to take shape and flourish.

For now, ask yourself an honest question- what's your strength, values, personality etc. Work on these areas to present yourself as one wholesome lady and not one who will immediately take off her panties when the next guy lock eyes with you.

Guys are easily stimulated sexually and everyone wants to "conquer" the next lady. Avoid this game. Gets you no where.

Ask yourself - you're in the circle of friends? cultivate outdoor activities? Hobbies ( don't tell me it's sex) In other words, groom yourself to be a desirable person to be with, arh arh.... don't jump into bed so easily.

Sorry for the long "sermon" hope you find out why things don't work out and chnage for the better, cos it's worth it.

JJF

Big Sister80
03-12-2009, 07:09 PM
I would surmise that you gave away your body too willingly, I may be wrong, in the hope of gaining love from those guys. That is not going to get you the "trophy". Many reasons why the guys walked out on you, can't even think of trying to second guess, sister. A lot has to happen and click between two persons other than physical sex, in order for a relationship to take shape and flourish.

For now, ask yourself an honest question- what's your strength, values, personality etc. Work on these areas to present yourself as one wholesome lady and not one who will immediately take off her panties when the next guy lock eyes with you.

Guys are easily stimulated sexually and everyone wants to "conquer" the next lady. Avoid this game. Gets you no where.

Ask yourself - you're in the circle of friends? cultivate outdoor activities? Hobbies ( don't tell me it's sex) In other words, groom yourself to be a desirable person to be with, arh arh.... don't jump into bed so easily.

Sorry for the long "sermon" hope you find out why things don't work out and chnage for the better, cos it's worth it.

JJF

Many many thanks for your advise. I received too much of pm that most of them want to have sex with me. Pissed me off. Why in this world, in this small country hidden so many perverts? I must thinling that i thread abit misleading. But i not into this type of so call sex without love game.
Just too bad i do not have any power to zap those pervert.:(

ipwnyou
03-12-2009, 07:13 PM
I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

Big Sister80
03-12-2009, 07:20 PM
I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

At the age of 18, i trust that is my direction. But after i fall madly in love with my first bf, i lost my determination for that. Is really my fault. Whenever i think back i always break down to tears. :(

see see only
03-12-2009, 07:21 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.

Hi Sis,

It may not your sex skill or ..... it could be the things that happened before sex :rolleyes:

Or worse,:confused: you got armpit hair SI BO :D bad breath maybe, me setting examples only and trying to help help only ... so dont get upset with me ok :D


But me & a lot of bro here, dont mind trying the S.. things out with you to check check if that is the reason

HCKing
03-12-2009, 07:27 PM
always rem for a r/s to last the guy must love u as a person and not yr body only

simple2kee
03-12-2009, 08:06 PM
Big Sister80, LUCK would change from time to time. u need NOT worry too much. move on! :)

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
03-12-2009, 09:53 PM
you are wrong..
simple and usual girls DO NOT sleep around like you do
what you should do is STOP sleeping around with all your bfs.

Like that will her bfs leave her faster? Cos they cant get what they want :D

I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

Wow....:p

Hi Sis,

It may not your sex skill or ..... it could be the things that happened before sex

Or worse,:confused: you got armpit hair SI BO..bad breath maybe, me setting examples only and trying to help help only ... so dont get upset with me ok


Bro, maybe you try to ....her...then QC by u liao then tell her what's wrong..:rolleyes:

knylim
03-12-2009, 09:59 PM
I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

You don't let your boyfriend piakpiak you then i am very sure he is doing piakpiak with someone else!

You can respect yourself of course but can your boyfriend respect you?

In the end of the day, be an adult. Be responsible.

If you are so angelic, please don't post in sbf... you are in the wrong forum.

Oralcraz
03-12-2009, 10:00 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

I agree with "JumpinJackFlash" & "HCKing" advice. Take care and good luck.

Oralcraz
03-12-2009, 10:03 PM
I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X


Is not call simple. Is conservative. Is not wrong. I once know a female colleague who is like this. However, I feel pity for her bf then.

Big Sexy
03-12-2009, 10:16 PM
if her relationship can only be sustained by sex
she will be a fool to cling on to such a relationship


Like that will her bfs leave her faster? Cos they cant get what they want :D

baby85
03-12-2009, 10:41 PM
learn to love urself

don give in to easy to guys u just known ..

some guys , i mean SOME just wants to get some free fark n go

so they would give u reasons tat ur e gf n u should let them fark ..

doing sex wen both of u enjoying it , not bcos u wan to keep e guy by ur side ..

u only let them save e money of getting a FL ..

but tings always take 2 hand to clap , i believe if u don wish to have sex with them , they cannot do anyting too , other den raping u ?

if ur a willing party urself, den don blame others for taking advantage of u , bcos u urself giving ppl a chance to do so ..

lastly, take good care of urself .. :)

#someting to add on , if e guy leave u bcos u didnt wanna have sex with him , pls forget him n get on with ur life

he don even love u , he only need u for a free fuck ..

Sting
03-12-2009, 10:48 PM
Sex is part of the intimate relationship.

Know what is in your mind of your boyfriend.

Are they going for your body or not?

Do not jump into sex straight away.

Ask yourself what are you after? Are you after lust or a relationship that will lead to marriage?

Let him know what you want, be sure they you both need each other more than sex only. Sex should be carrying a very small portion.

Whether he is a wild dog type, shoot and run. Or he is a old faithful.
Usually old faith does not do well in sex as they lack of experience with other girl.

If you find that is your sex skill is the main course then you need to ask yourself why. Because you are the best person to know yourself.

Sting
03-12-2009, 10:50 PM
learn to love urself

don give in to easy to guys u just known ..

some guys , i mean SOME just wants to get some free fark n go

so they would give u reasons tat ur e gf n u should let them fark ..

doing sex wen both of u enjoying it , not bcos u wan to keep e guy by ur side ..

u only let them save e money of getting a FL ..

but tings always take 2 hand to clap , i believe if u don wish to have sex with them , they cannot do anyting too , other den raping u ?

if ur a willing party urself, den don blame others for taking advantage of u , bcos u urself giving ppl a chance to do so ..

lastly, take good care of urself .. :)

#someting to add on , if e guy leave u bcos u didnt wanna have sex with him , pls forget him n get on with ur life

he don even love u , he only need u for a free fuck ..


I totally agree with you.

comm
03-12-2009, 11:02 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

how old are you :confused:

usually its teens with zero 'character' that face this problem

PunjabiPlayboy
03-12-2009, 11:06 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

Respect your body. Respect yourself. And your future boyfriend will respect you too.

Also, focus on the emotional side of your relationship rather than the physical aspects. This is the secret to sustaining a long-term relationship. A relationship based on physical intimacy is never going to last. I hope you find this advice useful.

nstern
04-12-2009, 02:42 AM
my guess is you have been looking for love in the wrong places. do you even know your bfs before you enter the r/s? i think not. My advice is to understand your bf before you commit physically.

sammyboyfor
04-12-2009, 04:10 AM
Many many thanks for your advise.

Should be "Many thanks for your ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

HCKing
04-12-2009, 04:27 AM
I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned. I always trust my bf so much even we know less than 3 months. I put trust and end up being betray n hurt. Wat else can i say. Maybe i trust guys too easily and when they ask me i will give in. Is it wrong to trust a person you love dearly.
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.

1st u need to knw wat is real love. real love doesnt happen overnight it takes time to develop, to know each other well and to create a bond btw them. if u say u love the guy dearly when u only know him less than 3 mths thats just infatuation or temporary love. this type of love can be easily replaced by any other guy who can gives u all the same attention you need. so dont talk abt love or trust when u barely know each other, if not you will possibly end up with the same outcome the next time.

Big Sister80
04-12-2009, 05:46 AM
Someone pm me his statics and say he like big size gal and want to play me. I not big size, so sorry loh. Maybe i think i should copy his pm here and let all sbf brothers and sisters here see how pervert he is.:cool:

ah rat
04-12-2009, 07:23 AM
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.

Sis,FB mean Fuck Buddy (a person with whom one is having casual sex with on a regular basis, but are not involved in a romantic relationship)

Big Sister80
04-12-2009, 07:59 AM
Sis,FB mean Fuck Buddy (a person with whom one is having casual sex with on a regular basis, but are not involved in a romantic relationship)

Many many thanks brother rat. I was told by 1 brother in my pm. Now i just want to pick up myself and move on, so please to those brothers that pm me for sex to stay away from my pm. I not into 1 night stand.:mad:

JumpinJackFlash
04-12-2009, 09:34 AM
To Big Sister80:

OMG ....... you're 18 and what in the world do you want to "buy" a relationship by sleeping with guys. You are as much a part of the problem as the guys who banged and left town in a hurry.

Don't wanna psychoanalyse ...... it may come across to me that you may not have a close and supportive relationship with folks back home. Hence a need to form an emotional relationship with another guy. Just a reality check..

Hey, it's not all that bad, just don't "let go" so easily even if you cannot seem to manage those hormones at your age. We all live through this period in our lives. Girl boy relationship is here to stay, gotta learn to manage it.

There are many issues that can take your mind off this thing - studies, career building, hobbies, family ties and good circle of friends, group outings blah blah blah. the list goes on.

Having said all these stuff, you still wanna have fun, ok, just practise very safe sex, tell the guy to obey the rules. Last thing you want is to have an accident looking for a bed to happen. Manage your emotions - don't expect the guy to stick with you happily ever after when he's done with you in bed.
The guy's built to "conquer" and then "run" unless you can control events from letting this happen. So, be part of the solution, don't let every sweet talking Tom, Dick and Harry get between your legs unless you have known each for some time and there is mutual respect.

My nick suggests I am a baby boomer from Mick Jagger's generation. At 18, I was still a damn virgin when my right hand was my best friend. See how things have changed over the years. Now, I feel content to enjoy "fcuk and forget" with the FLs without guilt feelings. Sure big boss Sam agrees to this oft quoted mantra.

Just remember girl, only you can decide what to do with your body and with whom. But be careful if you cannot be good.

JJF

Astroboy77
04-12-2009, 10:07 AM
I would surmise that you gave away your body too willingly, I may be wrong, in the hope of gaining love from those guys. That is not going to get you the "trophy". Many reasons why the guys walked out on you, can't even think of trying to second guess, sister. A lot has to happen and click between two persons other than physical sex, in order for a relationship to take shape and flourish.

For now, ask yourself an honest question- what's your strength, values, personality etc. Work on these areas to present yourself as one wholesome lady and not one who will immediately take off her panties when the next guy lock eyes with you.

Guys are easily stimulated sexually and everyone wants to "conquer" the next lady. Avoid this game. Gets you no where.

Ask yourself - you're in the circle of friends? cultivate outdoor activities? Hobbies ( don't tell me it's sex) In other words, groom yourself to be a desirable person to be with, arh arh.... don't jump into bed so easily.

Sorry for the long "sermon" hope you find out why things don't work out and chnage for the better, cos it's worth it.

JJF

Ya... bro i agree with wat u say.. TS do consider as it will be veri helpful to u in the future...;)

BigBoy2
04-12-2009, 10:55 AM
Agree.......

Please be sure of yourself before giving in to HIM..... Men, thought I also one, are all similiar... When they don't have it, they want it soooo badly and they will find all means and ways to get it. Once tasted, they just discard it away. Of course there are some good ones around, but please be very careful as these good one don;t write the WORD GOOD MAN on their forehead.

Be selective and most important of all DO NOT BE EASY......

Just my 2 cents worth.

Joris
04-12-2009, 11:59 AM
Judging from the statements u made, u seem kinda lost to me.
I believe time will heal everything. Sometimes its good to do some thinking thou.
Take care sis n may u be happy always.

Bangster
04-12-2009, 12:23 PM
Sister,

One confirm+guarantee way to have sex and yet get to keep your boy for a long long time is....


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Let him penetrate....pump....and then, don't let him climax.

Like that, he confirm geh tiao, oo tang gan (get to fuck) bo tang choot (dont get to shoot)...

he sure stick with you for as long as you don't let him shoot.

If you ask me how not to let him climax, aiyah very simple one...tell him you need to pang sai, pang jio, pang pwee etc or just push him away lah, say you need to vomit.

baby85
04-12-2009, 12:36 PM
I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned. I always trust my bf so much even we know less than 3 months. I put trust and end up being betray n hurt. Wat else can i say. Maybe i trust guys too easily and when they ask me i will give in. Is it wrong to trust a person you love dearly.
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.

trusting a person u love dearly is good , but blindly trust is not good ..

know how to differ wat is true n wat is fake sweet talks ..

guys coax n pamper girls , either to get her strip off or simply nice intention to make e girl happy n feel loved ..

once bitten , twice shy .. i guess u should noe tis, don again n again fall into it over n over again ..

:)

itsabt6x
04-12-2009, 12:52 PM
Many many thanks for your advise. I received too much of pm that most of them want to have sex with me. Pissed me off. Why in this world, in this small country hidden so many perverts? I must thinling that i thread abit misleading. But i not into this type of so call sex without love game.
Just too bad i do not have any power to zap those pervert.:(

sis...this is a SEX forum....what do you expect????
anyway bros here are actually helping you.....testing your resolve not to simply give in to sexual favours at the slightest hint of "I Love You".......:p

Big Sexy
04-12-2009, 01:01 PM
are you crazy??
i didn't not call you a Cheapo
i simply said you should not sleep with every bf
you know and that there is more to a relationship
than just sex.
if you chose to be a piece of meat.
then go ahead.:rolleyes:


I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned..

hell4lif
04-12-2009, 01:30 PM
Sis...be sure of yourself! and be sure of what you want in and from a r/s...
you are 18 already..should be old enough to at least know what you want for yourself?..

Ichigo_Kurosaki
04-12-2009, 02:04 PM
TS, you not so simple. You mentioned in other thread that you were sexually abused in childhood. Your failed relationship could be the consequences and effect of this trauma - Fear of loss of control in relationships = give love easily but easily affected and confusion by a certain remark, touch or behavior that brings back memories of the abuse = hot-tempered, jumpy, excessively alert = making love problems = ditched.

Oralcraz
04-12-2009, 02:11 PM
TS, you not so simple. You mentioned in other thread that you were sexually abused in childhood. Your failed relationship could be the consequences and effect of this trauma - Fear of loss of control in relationships = give love easily but easily affected and confusion by a certain remark, touch or behavior that brings back memories of the abuse = hot-tempered, jumpy, excessively alert = making love problems = ditched.

I really feel sympathetic towards TS. Best wishes to her.

tonberry
04-12-2009, 02:16 PM
Hey TS, try to really get to know the person first before you commit into a relationship. As you are still young, give yourself more time to understand the person. Being inexperienced in life, it might not be easy for you to tell what a person's intentions are. Take care.

Big Sister80
04-12-2009, 02:23 PM
By the way i am 29 coming 30 this year. What my previous post said that at the age of 18 i had my first love. True i been molest before at the age of 12. But it did not affect me on my grow. The molester only managed to touch my shoulder and i give him a very very hard kick up his groin. When the lift open i dashed out and shout for help and he groan in pain and run for his life.:p

Ichigo_Kurosaki
04-12-2009, 02:30 PM
I really feel sympathetic towards TS. Best wishes to her.

Depending on the seriousness, it is advisable to seek professional help at 10 Buangkok View during this school holidays for the good of her and the men that follows. Good luck, speedy recovery and cheers. :)

HCKing
04-12-2009, 04:25 PM
By the way i am 29 coming 30 this year. What my previous post said that at the age of 18 i had my first love. True i been molest before at the age of 12. But it did not affect me on my grow. The molester only managed to touch my shoulder and i give him a very very hard kick up his groin. When the lift open i dashed out and shout for help and he groan in pain and run for his life.:p

TS u oredi going 30 and u started yr 1st r/s at age 18 dont tell me until nw u still nvr learn a thing after always gotten ditched?:confused: one possibility i could think of is the type of guys u are seeing and dating. if u adore and worship bad boys type hw u expect them to be serious n faithful towards u sia since they r the bad boys. u might wanna re examine yr taste in guys n ask yrself wat u want most, is it fun or stability in a r/s? one cant simply have the best of both worlds in life.

wildbeast
04-12-2009, 05:11 PM
I dunno why but just got all negative feels for this thread .

- School holidays time, nothing better to do.
- If genuine case, from 18 yo to coming 30 yo, you like still dun know how to
sort things out in relationship, intercourse (as in make love or just fuck!),
marriage, self-repsect and moral values.
- This is sex forum, not counselling centre. If you really got problem in this
area, suggest you just go to the right help.
- Cheers.

Big Sister80
04-12-2009, 09:22 PM
Many many thanks to those brothers that had up my points. I will return my favour 1 by 1. Well now i had straighten my thoughts and decide to focus on my business better. Once again thanks all brothers.:):):)

geckoSG
04-12-2009, 09:59 PM
Sis... I dun know you personally, but then I guess you put yourself too
much into relationship. So what if you are at the age of 29/30. Take
your time...

Sex is a natural path in a RS... If you do it, dun regret it... RS dun work
well, just move on... Dun feel bad about it... Importantly, dun ever have
the feeling of being used...

If you keep thinking of yourself being used by men, forever, no matter who
you are with, you will forever feel used or gonna be use soon...

Keep RS with a open mind... Its not such a simple world anymore.
You may be madly in love with someone who may be madly in love with u.
After marriage, you might not even last 6 months...

Just be happy... Dun keep feeling demoralised... That will help... :p

jekyll69
04-12-2009, 10:28 PM
amitbha
shan zai shan zai

ah rat
05-12-2009, 07:09 AM
The molester only managed to touch my shoulder and i give him a very very hard kick up his groin. When the lift open i dashed out and shout for help and he groan in pain and run for his life.:p

Sis, if u really kick him very hard at his groin, I think he unable to run very fast :D

Big Sister80
05-12-2009, 08:29 AM
Sis, if u really kick him very hard at his groin, I think he unable to run very fast :D

Rotan more painful:D groin pain? I guess you got the answer.:D

fedomme
06-12-2009, 10:12 PM
By the way i am 29 coming 30 this year. What my previous post said that at the age of 18 i had my first love. True i been molest before at the age of 12. But it did not affect me on my grow. The molester only managed to touch my shoulder and i give him a very very hard kick up his groin. When the lift open i dashed out and shout for help and he groan in pain and run for his life.:p

Best wishes to you TS, maybe you should have more outdoor activities, going out making more friends, focus more on your business or career, or seek some professional help as some bro mentioned, and dont think too much abt the relationship and sex, just enjoy your life as young woman and all those will come naturally thereafter :D

otacon
06-12-2009, 10:24 PM
it's always surprising to hear so positive replies from brothers here.

TS, i think u can turn off the PM function if u dun need it. Anyway, good luck to ur love life, there must b something went wrong so ur bf left u, u just have to find out urslef.

slamer_dunk2004
06-12-2009, 11:50 PM
Many many thanks to those brothers that had up my points. I will return my favour 1 by 1. Well now i had straighten my thoughts and decide to focus on my business better. Once again thanks all brothers.:):):)
i wonder what type of business you are into when you have this type of problem since 18 yrs old zzz:confused:

BlackerKnighter
07-12-2009, 12:25 AM
Best wishes and take care lah.

Life is a lot more than just sex and Bfs so there is so much more that you can do to get your life back on track. Why worry about yesterday when it can't be changed.

Look forward to tomorrow. Cheers.

Big Sister80
07-12-2009, 06:47 PM
Posting in again to all the kor kor here. Once again many many thanks for your points given to me.:)

naturegreen
07-12-2009, 08:01 PM
.....
Wise words from baby85

Should be "Many thanks for your ADVICE.".
"Advise" is a verb.
Wa boss, this time you are faster then me. :D

Posting in again to all the kor kor here. Once again many many thanks for your points given to me.:)
Amazing! :eek: Your points shoot up so quickly in less than 1 week. But there are always many sides to a story. We are listening from just 1 point of view.

I do have a friend whose encounter is quite similar to yours and always blaming it on her luck and the guys. Always complain why she cannot get a good bf, blame why her job sucks, blame why her life so tough etc........ But there were a few bfs she had whom I know. Treated her like a little princess but she says she dun like guys to treat her like that. So maybe she needs to sit down and reflect on her own actions cause she got bad attitude. Remember there's no smoke without fire. And it also takes 2 hands to clap. :p

Sting
08-12-2009, 12:28 AM
Remember Love is just part of our life.

There are more things that we can achieve and focus on.

Example. Family, career and knowledge.

Knowledge is power. The more you know the better you are.

Focus on your career if love is not round the corner. Everyone will meet his other part in some part of their life. Don't think that single is no good. Being married and attached is not that simple. How to keep the feeling is a combination of art and science. Example, myself married for 10 years. But don't really have time spend with my wife alone. We had no time to eat dinner alone. All this because we had a son that play gooseberry. Fortunately, our son became the bond between my wife and me. I am an career minded person that focus most of my energy and time on my career. Although till know I did not achieve anything great but I enjoyed working.
There are incident almost my wife was trying to walked out of my family as the chemistry between us is weaker.

Family is a great source of support if you can find one .

You need not to rush to bed with any guy that your relationship is not firm up.
If a guy is sincere toward you, you can feel it. Only then proceed to bed.

I am not asking you to play high or act virgin. Just to confirm the relationship before being lay down.

Be happy

These are just some of my advise to you

Big Sister80
08-12-2009, 12:44 AM
I can be very teaseful but not in actual facts. I can be openminded but not easygoing. Thanks brothers out there up my points. I will remember sbf forever as i find my place of joy. :)

smokinggun
08-12-2009, 03:45 AM
I can be very teaseful but not in actual facts.

Its abit like saying "I wear short and skimpy outfit but I dun want people to ogle". You gotta be realistic. If TS is seriously/desperately looking to better her r/s life, my 2-cents-worth suggestion is to change the mindset and not even giving people the wrong idea, even though its ur freedom to live the way u want to.

I can be openminded but not easygoing.

Let me just put it this way, some gals that I know had the mentality that they want the best of both world; to flirt yet at the same time avoid the sh*t that comes after it. I'm not implying the TS is a flirt, but its like "wanting your cake and eat it"...

I will remember sbf forever as i find my place of joy.

Hope the suggestions here by the bros helped you abit. Ultimately, ur life, ur call...

ah rat
08-12-2009, 07:35 AM
Well now i had straighten my thoughts and decide to focus on my business better.
Sis,what type of business.
Wow! nice neh neh in yours avatar :p

Big Sister80
08-12-2009, 07:48 AM
Sis,what type of business.
Wow! nice neh neh in yours avatar :p

Thats my neh neh lor.:p I go swimming regularly thats why very nice lor.:D

Hecate
08-12-2009, 08:49 AM
Hello sister :) Seen that you are active around the forum, so I decided to drop by to say hello.

I've been in this situation once - the guy asks me out a few times, treats me real nice, and so I've got stars in my eyes. After which, it leads to the bedroom and we get down to the nasty.

That was back when I was very young (not underaged though). I thought that this equation was true --> SEX = LOVE. That's what they tell you in the movies, darling. They call it "making love", not "having sex", and that's why we sisters get so..confused.

Ever since that guy, I've made sure that the guys I date got some sort of standard, and of course, I play the game with them - you know, the standard "can't-get-me" thing. And I do make sure I think hard and carefully if I really want to go into a relationship. A relationship is not a simple thing and yes, you should really start off as friends first. Don't chase the guy! Let him chase you ;)

XOXO
Hecate

lglg666
08-12-2009, 10:00 AM
Thats my neh neh lor.:p I go swimming regularly thats why very nice lor.:D

Wah.....a pair of nice looking neh neh, that really made me hungry lei! So suckable:D

old_yet_horny
08-12-2009, 11:56 AM
Sis,what type of business.
Wow! nice neh neh in yours avatar :p

Bro Tikus..

U keen in her Business or Boobs??:confused::D:D

hermit1313
08-12-2009, 12:03 PM
Bro Tikus..

U keen in her Business or Boobs??:confused::D:D

i dunno abt him... but i am interested in both :D

Xgenre
08-12-2009, 02:04 PM
Life's a journey. Sometimes things don't go well. Why not try to find a positive angle on your unpleasant experiences? Be thankful that these guys are kind enough to dump you after 1 round of sex. Things can be worse. Some guys use a girl for sex for months before setting them free. Some guys suck up all your money before dumping your heart. Your experiences can be much worse isn't it?

By the way, how many guys have dumped you after sex? If it's anything between 1-3, I think you have been very unlucky in love. If it's anything more than 5, I think it's time you re-assess how you approach love and wise up. Not that young anymore right? Can't be forever be the gullible pussy.

Ichigo_Kurosaki
08-12-2009, 02:15 PM
Sis,what type of business.
Wow! nice neh neh in yours avatar :p

Hahaha..Bro ah rat..I like your fast turnaround "getting into business" response..
Thanks again for the previous kindness :D

Blackstar
08-12-2009, 03:41 PM
I think there more reasons then jus the sex . Sex is jus part of life maybe it's the way u dress or the way u manner yourself

Big Sister80
08-12-2009, 04:39 PM
Sad to see that all brothers here after my neh neh:DBut i believe that is true they are still attractive:D

freebiez
08-12-2009, 05:17 PM
many pple who read your thread will look at your avatar first n interested only in your nehneh including me...we are all horny bastards here..

but there are also many kind hearted souls here who will listen to your story and give you proper guidance in life...life is not always about sex....there are many more things to do in life even in a relationship, love does not equate sex. so treasure yourself and once you meet the right soulmate, using your gut feeling, u can have a more memorable sex with tat partner...

wish you luck in your future relationship...cheers! :)

Xgenre
08-12-2009, 05:18 PM
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/orgies-swinging-arrangements/158945-looking-4-gf.html

You seem to respond to boliao guys. Maybe that's why you haven't been lucky in love. :p

DTCEPL
08-12-2009, 05:45 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

Maybe you are too good for them and you deserved someone better! They left because they felt inferior beside you.

Being together, sex is a balancing factor, not the only criteria. A relationship based on sex cannot last.

richie_rich
08-12-2009, 05:53 PM
Sad to see that all brothers here after my neh neh:DBut i believe that is true they are still attractive:D

sad ah? what do you expect seriously? :p:rolleyes:

Big Sister80
08-12-2009, 06:18 PM
sad ah? what do you expect seriously? :p:rolleyes:

I expect something like wow you are still very attractive this kind of words but not pin point on my neh neh.:D

arcticwind
08-12-2009, 06:27 PM
I'm happy for you that you manage to sort out your thoughts. I've friends like you who encountered such problems. Don't say 29/30... My friend is only 21/22.. Lol. Pregnant and the bastard run away. Even tried to make her miscarriage a few times. Now her baby is born but there are many guys around her who treats her like she's simply... a fuckable girl. Try to befriend her, become friends with benefit kinda relationship and later bf. Do her a couple of times and then leave her. Its kinda sad looking at her end up like that but nothing can change until she makes an effort to get rid of the bad name she has got for herself. Everyone she slept with are either "close friends" or "boyfriends". Not a loose girl in that sense but just damn silly.

kpkprivate
08-12-2009, 08:42 PM
Well, everyone have fetish on certain or various things.
People are attracted to nice stuff be it physical or something hidden within.

Just take the right time, right person and at the right place to be discovered.
I believe there are priorities in your life needed your attention now.

Goodluck and have fun.

Big Sister80
08-12-2009, 09:23 PM
I got other good points yet to discover or explore:p

ericgo18
09-12-2009, 02:00 AM
Dun worry sis if u r with me I won't ditch you......as long as ur tongue always remains wet for me :p

ah rat
09-12-2009, 07:11 AM
Thats my neh neh lor. I go swimming regularly thats why very nice lor.
I love to see neh neh & teh neh neh :p
Sis, can teach me swimming :D

Bro Tikus..
U keen in her Business or Boobs??:confused
I Tikus ,U Ziko ,any different :D
Sure both & how about u
Hahaha..Bro ah rat..I like your fast turnaround "getting into business" response..
Thanks again for the previous kindness
Must fast,if not she take me as pervert :D
Previous kindness don't mention & U welcome

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 07:53 AM
Ah rat kor kor you not only pervert plus naughty.:D But i llike it:p. If you can come into my business meaning that you will also get my boobs:D My :pis always wet.

richie_rich
09-12-2009, 10:04 AM
I expect something like wow you are still very attractive this kind of words but not pin point on my neh neh.:D

ok ok. if that's waht you want.......ready?
"WOW!! sis80, you sure look damn attractive!! oh yes, nice body and very nice set of boobs!! very very attractive!! Can we meet up? *slurps* " :rolleyes:

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 10:12 AM
ok ok. if that's waht you want.......ready?
"WOW!! sis80, you sure look damn attractive!! oh yes, nice body and very nice set of boobs!! very very attractive!! Can we meet up? *slurps* " :rolleyes:

Kor kor many many thanks for your 1wow, 2 attractive, 3 very:D

hermit1313
09-12-2009, 10:21 AM
so wat business u do? can get involve with u or not? haha

haonan25
09-12-2009, 10:40 AM
Kor kor many many thanks for your 1wow, 2 attractive, 3 very:D

all said what i wanna say.. lolz, in that case, i say superb & heavenly pair of neh neh lor... haha :D

Think positive sister, there're many better stuffs for u to discover de...:D

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 12:27 PM
so wat business u do? can get involve with u or not? haha

Morning sell cheng teng, at night sell ka chng. You want to joint venture?:DBut yoy do the job , me collect money:D

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 12:28 PM
all said what i wanna say.. lolz, in that case, i say superb & heavenly pair of neh neh lor... haha :D

Think positive sister, there're many better stuffs for u to discover de...:D

Neh neh again?:D

Ichigo_Kurosaki
09-12-2009, 12:47 PM
Morning sell cheng teng :D

No wonder you're fair as pearl sago with tits like gingko nuts + red dates, sweet like rock sugar and shiok like a good pot of cheng teng on a hot day :D

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 12:59 PM
No wonder you're fair as pearl sago with tits like gingko nuts + red dates, sweet like rock sugar and shiok like a good pot of cheng teng on a hot day :D

So sweet! Then all my ex-bf all kena sweet urine:D

Ichigo_Kurosaki
09-12-2009, 01:03 PM
all my ex-bf all kena sweet urine:D

Never rmind your ex-bfs, they just lost their way due to suger-high caused by you, anyway, there are lots of good and healthy bros in your thread. :D

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 01:06 PM
Any brother out there try naughty G before? Heard from my staff that the drinks can make body hot and horny. This applies to both sexes.

old_yet_horny
09-12-2009, 01:17 PM
Any brother out there try naughty G before? Heard from my staff that the drinks can make body hot and horny. This applies to both sexes.


No leh.. Test like Coke with some ginseng or some herbs to me only..

After drink I fart alot...

Think normal hawker fried oyster do better job..:p

Big Sister80
09-12-2009, 02:44 PM
I just drink the tea. Now waiting for the horny lamb weeds to happen. Hehe:p

ah rat
10-12-2009, 07:31 AM
But i llike it. If you can come into my business meaning that you will also get my boobs My :pis always wet.
Nice to hear u like it.OK! I come to yours business & get yours neh neh.:p
As for yours :p always wet, this will go for my dick :D

I just drink the tea. Now waiting for the horny lamb weeds to happen. Hehe

Anything happen

Big Sister80
10-12-2009, 07:53 AM
Feeling very hot and horny at the begining, but after around 10mins its gone. Maybe the power of the drinks can only last for a while. Cheap things are like that.:D

Big Sister80
10-12-2009, 07:57 AM
During the hot and horny 10mins i do alot of things.:D I ......................:p

Red Blood Cell
10-12-2009, 09:15 AM
So wat have u done during tat ten mins???? Btw i am also thinking of trying tat drink. Do u think te drink actually dun really works???

Highjoys
10-12-2009, 09:23 AM
During the hot and horny 10mins i do alot of things.:D I ......................:p

Aiya Big Sister I am not sure why u wan to post messages here at sammyboyforum. But if u are looking for decent chat there are other websites like "lunch actually" (just that u need to pay) and if u are looking for decent bfs from sammyboyforum, I am afraid that you had forgotten this is a commercial sex website for sex discussion and for finding sexual fun. So, I am not sure what u want, u will get here or not. But the likelihood is very low. Sorry for being frank. ;)

Oralcraz
10-12-2009, 11:43 AM
Thats my neh neh lor.:p I go swimming regularly thats why very nice lor.:D

OMG.....:eek: With due respect to u, I am very turn on by yr beautiful pair:p

Oralcraz
10-12-2009, 11:56 AM
Morning sell cheng teng, at night sell ka chng. You want to joint venture?:DBut yoy do the job , me collect money:D

This is good business. Who do the job/who collect money is not an issue. Most importantly, end of the day profit is 50/50.
Btw afternoon sell what leh??? I propose new product to sell in afternoon. How about "DO" "you cha kueh and Hum chim bang" in a nice aircon "kitchen" :D

Oralcraz
10-12-2009, 11:59 AM
Any brother out there try naughty G before? Heard from my staff that the drinks can make body hot and horny. This applies to both sexes.

Look up this for more info.
http://www.sammyboyforum.com/sexual-health-issues/153905-naughty-g-drink-does-help-enhance-sex-performance.html

Ichigo_Kurosaki
10-12-2009, 12:20 PM
During the hot and horny 10mins..I ......................:p

Wow..hope you washed your fingers after you.........before serving cheng teng..:D

Btw, long queue 2day? Any customers asking for that "special taste" afternoon delight? :D

Yyzen
10-12-2009, 01:15 PM
i'm confuse.. is TS looking for fun ?

Big Sister80
10-12-2009, 01:53 PM
Noon time not open for business. I need to surf sbf in afternoon:D. That is something i need to clarify, i can be very openminded and easy going in typing but not in real life.:) As for the night business who is interested can PM me?:D

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
10-12-2009, 02:16 PM
Noon time not open for business. I need to surf sbf in afternoon:D. That is something i need to clarify, i can be very openminded and easy going in typing but not in real life.:) As for the night business who is interested can PM me?:D

妹妹, why you afternoon need to surf SBF leh..boss employ you to look after us arh :D

妹妹, at night do what business - 哥哥 only interested in hanky-panties..i mean panky..business leh..可以吗..

StreamPower
10-12-2009, 02:28 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

call me,,i able to help you///

Big Sister80
10-12-2009, 03:06 PM
妹妹, why you afternoon need to surf SBF leh..boss employ you to look after us arh :D

妹妹, at night do what business - 哥哥 only interested in hanky-panties..i mean panky..business leh..可以吗..

Kor kor do sent in your pat pat resume to me. If your pat pat still virgin i will give you ang pao and can fetch a good price.:D

WhamBamTYM
10-12-2009, 06:32 PM
Kor kor do sent in your pat pat resume to me. If your pat pat still virgin i will give you ang pao and can fetch a good price.:D

I need to sell... You sure you can get biz for me? How you know whether mine virgin or not wor? :P

tiger2
10-12-2009, 06:48 PM
Kor kor do sent in your pat pat resume to me. If your pat pat still virgin i will give you ang pao and can fetch a good price.:D

very funny leh; how are you going to test if i am virgin or not, does it means if i screw you and you can feel my virginity?

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
10-12-2009, 07:24 PM
Kor kor do sent in your pat pat resume to me. If your pat pat still virgin i will give you ang pao and can fetch a good price.:D

Simi is pat pat..i only know pad pad :D
I can be like a virgin de..behind lor..for exit only..:o

Big Sister80
10-12-2009, 07:58 PM
Very to test virgin anot. I got 1 bayee singh staff he can do the job to test your pat pat virgin or not.:D He sure happy to do overtime job without pay:D

ah rat
11-12-2009, 07:12 AM
Very to test virgin anot. I got 1 bayee singh staff he can do the job to test your pat pat virgin or not.:D He sure happy to do overtime job without pay:D

U should do the test and as the time u can enjoy it :D

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 07:44 AM
U should do the test and as the time u can enjoy it :D

Why not you join my work force so you can test and enjoy:D

ah rat
11-12-2009, 07:49 AM
Why not you join my work force so you can test and enjoy:D

I can join yours work force but I testing on females only :p :D

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 07:51 AM
I can join yours work force but I testing on females only :p :D

Probation period you have to go thru the basic first. After that then you can screw female age range from 45-80:D

ah rat
11-12-2009, 08:02 AM
Probation period you have to go thru the basic first. After that then you can screw female age range from 45-80:D

Basic 1 let yours staff bayee singh to test. I expert on 18-35 :p :D

Oralcraz
11-12-2009, 10:05 AM
Probation period you have to go thru the basic first. After that then you can screw female age range from 45-80:D

I don't mind 45-50 as long as presentable.:)

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 12:34 PM
All my staff are in A grade quality. Even the cleaner auntie also been praised by my customer as lau chio and the cleaner uncle as lau hero.:D

haonan25
11-12-2009, 02:22 PM
Neh neh again?:D
bobian eh, all say neh neh, i also add 1 leg lor...
Noon time not open for business. I need to surf sbf in afternoon:D. That is something i need to clarify, i can be very openminded and easy going in typing but not in real life.:) As for the night business who is interested can PM me?:D

what business...? big $ cannot afford, small $ still can...

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 02:46 PM
bobian eh, all say neh neh, i also add 1 leg lor...


what business...? big $ cannot afford, small $ still can...

I don believe that you just want to add 1 leg maybe you also want to add your dxxk right?:D Business partner also must be interview by my staff name BYS. He will 1 to 1 access you properly.:D

elainehoal
11-12-2009, 02:51 PM
bigsister80,

i really pity ur staff BYS. he gotta poke so many holes for interviews..... he sure regret being hired as HR-MANAGER. this time the word HUMAN RESOURCE really come into usage.:)

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 05:01 PM
bigsister80,

i really pity ur staff BYS. he gotta poke so many holes for interviews..... he sure regret being hired as HR-MANAGER. this time the word HUMAN RESOURCE really come into usage.:)

Last time BY are used to guard bank, pawn shop and also hotel car attendant. Now i used him as HR ,sure he are happy to have this job.:D

geckoSG
11-12-2009, 08:30 PM
As for the night business who is interested can PM me?:D

Short nite business? Kekeke... Lizardman may be keen. LOLz

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 08:39 PM
Short nite business? Kekeke... Lizardman may be keen. LOLz

Sure my BYS will at his most to service you. Sent me your resume:D

geckoSG
11-12-2009, 09:05 PM
Sure my BYS will at his most to service you. Sent me your resume:D

Neh... I'll let my "Bangedash" entertain your BYS while we spend some quality
time with my resume and your requirement... :D

Big Sister80
11-12-2009, 09:18 PM
Neh... I'll let my "Bangedash" entertain your BYS while we spend some quality
time with my resume and your requirement... :D

Our quality time,your resume and my requirement sounds chim and complicated leh. :confused:

elainehoal
11-12-2009, 10:45 PM
bigsister80,

he want quality time with u... quick send ur "EXCURSION" form over la....... another to join ur boyboy-club...

haonan25
12-12-2009, 02:36 AM
I don believe that you just want to add 1 leg maybe you also want to add your dxxk right?:D Business partner also must be interview by my staff name BYS. He will 1 to 1 access you properly.:D

add 1 dick... think so easy meh... haha... nvr even go think so far... but what business 1st...?

geckoSG
12-12-2009, 02:47 AM
So sadz... Sis aeroplane me tonite... :o

Big Sister80
12-12-2009, 04:59 AM
So sadz... Sis aeroplane me tonite... :o

sorry lizard kor kor. I think i have to register a new ym account. I forgotten my password. Keep trying also cannot. When i get a new ym account i pm you ok. No worry you will get to see me online in webcam.:)

geckoSG
12-12-2009, 12:40 PM
No worry you will get to see me online in webcam.:)

Sweetie, I prefer seeing you in real. ;)

Big Sister80
12-12-2009, 01:05 PM
Sure why not. I had pm you my new YM add. Tonight remember our online dating hehe. All brothers here are nice chap except afew of them. Nevermind i still enjoy surfing SBF.:)

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
12-12-2009, 02:04 PM
Sure why not. I had pm you my new YM add. Tonight remember our online dating hehe. All brothers here are nice chap except afew of them. Nevermind i still enjoy surfing SBF.:)

Who are the afew :D

Enjoy your stay sis ;)

miniboy
12-12-2009, 04:12 PM
try dating me
i wont ditch u off de
^_^
just be 1 of my gfs
heehee
only gfs ditch me nia
so sad
sama sama with u hor

see see only
12-12-2009, 04:29 PM
Who are the afew

Enjoy your stay sis

Sure why not. I had pm you my new YM add. Tonight remember our online dating hehe. All brothers here are nice chap except afew of them. Nevermind i still enjoy surfing SBF.:)


List them out:mad:, we dont friend them ok :D



or .... :rolleyes: better pm la, dont go public ......

Big Sister80
12-12-2009, 06:03 PM
List them out:mad:, we dont friend them ok :D



or .... :rolleyes: better pm la, dont go public ......

I do not want to list them out. They can just do what they like. I can only say most of the afew are newbies. I don want brothers here to zap them. Let them stay here to surf and maybe can post something juicy or useful.:)

elainehoal
12-12-2009, 06:23 PM
bro see-see-only n bigsister80,

this thread becoming a dating scene for the 2 of u wor...... got hanky-panky in ym, use webcam.. nv jio.......

enjoy your chats tonight....

geckoSG
12-12-2009, 06:36 PM
Hope to see you online tonite sweetie pie. drop me an sms when u are online.

Big Sister80
12-12-2009, 07:43 PM
Hope to see you online tonite sweetie pie. drop me an sms when u are online.

Sure tonight i will cook lizard soup:D

elainehoal
12-12-2009, 09:29 PM
oei you 2!!

post picture online if anything happen hor!! hahaha


or give us a good story!

tiger2
14-12-2009, 09:35 AM
I don believe that you just want to add 1 leg maybe you also want to add your dxxk right?:D Business partner also must be interview by my staff name BYS. He will 1 to 1 access you properly.:D

wah! like that I pity your bayee singh will one day visit the hospital next to TTSH.

btw you at first offer yourself and now passed it on to you BYEE, not interested in baboo leh.:rolleyes:

geckoSG
14-12-2009, 09:41 AM
Sweetie damn busy, whole nite didn't go online on msn... i am so sadz... :(

Fatboy39
14-12-2009, 09:49 AM
Hey,

I guess you should make a guy fall in love with you properly before you proceed to sex.

Men will give love for sex where as ladies will give sex for love. If you can reverse these roles, your love life would be heavenly.

Just remember this, most guys think with only their dicks to lead them around when the know that you are hooked on them. Just turn it around so that they are the one hooked on you and cannot live without you.

Play hard to get so that they will really appreciate you even after sex.

Hope it turns out well for you in the future my dear.

Live life one step at the time and be patient.

wat2woopee
14-12-2009, 10:40 AM
Morning sell cheng teng, at night sell ka chng. You want to joint venture?:DBut yoy do the job , me collect money:D

Definitely a school vacation kiddie passing off as a she, jerking off in front of PC as usual
:rolleyes:

makkau
14-12-2009, 10:52 AM
I never let my boyfriend to piakpiak me. I believe on sex after marriage since I'm someone who respects ownself. That is then call simple. Am I right guys? =X
In my own opinion, if you think that you're unsure about the aftermath, don't force yourself. Things will get complicated.

im 21 and the only thing closest to sex i've ever gotten in my 5yrs relationship and 3yrs with ex gfs were a bj ... 69 and sucking/fondling her boobs.

so tell me .. i believe to go all the way in .. i'd want someone special to do with. someone whom i can belong - a wife. so till then... bj and 69 only .. no piaking

Big Sister80
14-12-2009, 04:14 PM
Definitely a school vacation kiddie passing off as a she, jerking off in front of PC as usual
:rolleyes:

I also want to turn back the clock go back to school days. But i cant, now the most urgent things for me is to solve out my payroll to staff. :(

elainehoal
14-12-2009, 05:46 PM
bigsister80,

u better give B.Y.S. big bonus payout... he help alot of members here.. and u nv subsidize his transport fees everything lor!!! interview so many for u.......

geckoSG
14-12-2009, 06:50 PM
now the most urgent things for me is to solve out my payroll to staff. :(

Solve your problems first sis... other things can wait...

Big Sister80
14-12-2009, 07:38 PM
Solve your problems first sis... other things can wait...

Lizard kor kor thanks for your understanding. Afew brothers from here offer to help me but no thanks. I appreciate it. I am doing food supply business. Not too good for me to disclosed too much as we got alot of competitors. If they found out that we got cash flow problems defintely they will attack us. :)

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
14-12-2009, 10:31 PM
im 21 and the only thing closest to sex i've ever gotten in my 5yrs relationship and 3yrs with ex gfs were a bj ... 69 and sucking/fondling her boobs.

so tell me .. i believe to go all the way in .. i'd want someone special to do with. someone whom i can belong - a wife. so till then... bj and 69 only .. no piaking

Wow....:eek::p

Beijing2008
14-12-2009, 11:55 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

Da Jie,
Hope you dont mind what i am going to say but its perhaps the most honest feedback from a guy's persepctive about your situation ..

I once had a fling with my colleague but before that, she mentioned casually 2 of her ex-fling and how the first one went "soft" in the mid of the session and couldnt get hard anymore after that ... from then that guy did not initiate anymore bong-sessions

The second one ditched her after the first sex session ...

i was puzzled, as she is attractive and intelligent ... anyway, it was until i bonk-her that i realised her problem... she had UTI (urinary tact infection or something like that) that makes her inside smell (NOTE: she dont smell externally) ... after a few thrust, i reaslied that the condom on my dick smell
and when i trioed to push my dick back, i accidentally touch the condom and can smell the odor on my finger..

of course i didnt went soft on her, ---- today, she is still my FB and infact my best lover --- we did everything and enjoy every momment together/bonking

What i did was to use strawberry favour condoms, everytime we bonk --- took the smell away

Anyway, i am NOT implying that you have smell there, but thought i share my experience with you because maybe its not your skills --- u know

hope this helps and i dont get zap :-)

elainehoal
15-12-2009, 12:59 AM
it seems you're not implying on anything, you're not saying anything, u're not moving towards any direction that says........ bigsister80 has CCB?

beijing2008, u sure have issues. i believe this thread was started becoz she feels men are after her body.. not her love or anything related to the heart.. NOT ABOUT her pussy.

anyway girls having CCB is no big issues.. just buy vaginal wash.. it'll cure off the bacteria..

beijing2008..... seems like u owe someone an apology.

richie_rich
15-12-2009, 08:47 AM
Definitely a school vacation kiddie passing off as a she, jerking off in front of PC as usual
:rolleyes:

wow, bro, you've seen through 'her' already huh? too bad many bros still being 'blinded' and up 'her' points. (see 'her' posts and signature lah, does 'she' deserve 'her' points?) :rolleyes:

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
15-12-2009, 11:06 AM
Definitely a school vacation kiddie passing off as a she, jerking off in front of PC as usual
:rolleyes:

o well, i really didnt wanna say or show it out..because i feel is this is just a virtual forum, unless we know each other..other ppl posing as what doesnt really matter.
Anyway i have already realised this from ....the 1st post :D

Not much worries tough..

it seems you're not implying on anything, you're not saying anything, u're not moving towards any direction that says........ bigsister80 has CCB?

beijing2008, u sure have issues. i believe this thread was started becoz she feels men are after her body.. not her love or anything related to the heart.. NOT ABOUT her pussy.

anyway girls having CCB is no big issues.. just buy vaginal wash.. it'll cure off the bacteria..

beijing2008..... seems like u owe someone an apology.

seriously dunno why the "anger" about.
I think his comments as he mentioned is just ONE of the reason that guys starts to avoid "her" after bedding her, which in fact i think is a good example.
There are thousand & millions of reasons - whatever reason will anger or agreed by anyone - take things postively lah..you look at negatives will only show the amt of maturity one has :)

Cheers mate..

lovehurts
15-12-2009, 12:06 PM
I expect something like wow you are still very attractive this kind of words but not pin point on my neh neh.:D

eh TS, you beri funny lehz....how to appreciate your other attractiveness if your avatar just shows your tits !?!

KimSiew769
15-12-2009, 12:21 PM
it seems you're not implying on anything, you're not saying anything, u're not moving towards any direction that says........ bigsister80 has CCB?

beijing2008, u sure have issues. i believe this thread was started becoz she feels men are after her body.. not her love or anything related to the heart.. NOT ABOUT her pussy.

anyway girls having CCB is no big issues.. just buy vaginal wash.. it'll cure off the bacteria..

beijing2008..... seems like u owe someone an apology.

Hello All
Not sure if all of us have been through scenarios where we dress like "clown" to work and everyone says we look "good" ...but in actual fact, we really dressed like "clown"

Many of my frens will comment whenever they see a "clown" dresser on the streets by calling them "No-Real-Friends"... because if that person, has real freinds --- they would have given her/him the most honest comment..

I think Beijing 2008 is just trying to share his thoughts

huat_ah_888
16-12-2009, 04:40 PM
love does not mean just sex. sex is only part of love. open your eyes wide & dont listen to sweet nothings every guy tells u.

Big Sister80
31-12-2009, 07:31 PM
Posting in to wish every brothers and sister happy new year.:)All the best to all of you.

sweetsensation
31-12-2009, 07:48 PM
yea. happy new year to all bro and sister too.

saintdevil
01-01-2010, 12:50 AM
there are girls suffering the same prob, guys suffering from a different version of the same prob. Its part and parcel of life.

happy new year everyone :p

elainehoal
01-01-2010, 12:59 AM
Posting in to wish every brothers and sister happy new year.:)All the best to all of you.

happy new year to all horny bros and sisters....... may we all bonk the right partner... enjoy the right sensation... and may all our fetish wishes come true....

saintdevil
01-01-2010, 01:29 AM
happy new year to all horny bros and sisters....... may we all bonk the right partner... enjoy the right sensation... and may all our fetish wishes come true....
wa all fetish wishes come true.. bro hoal very fierce.

IdontKnow
02-01-2010, 09:01 PM
lol got a few wannabe "white knights" in this thread trying to be close to TS with the motive of upping her eventually.. hahaha losers...

geckoSG
04-01-2010, 03:16 PM
lol got a few wannabe "white knights" in this thread trying to be close to TS with the motive of upping her eventually.. hahaha losers...

LOLz... So U are the "black knight" lah? Underwear on the outside while
wearing a mask? :D

jameskty2000
04-01-2010, 06:05 PM
lol got a few wannabe "white knights" in this thread trying to be close to TS with the motive of upping her eventually.. hahaha losers...

wow your point negative lau...


aiyo you all dont quarrel... is alway matter of life...

me ah peh tell u... guys normally looking fo Sex/... gals looking for $$ they say secure , safe reliable... that is all $$$.. n we guy give all love or wat ever for SEX..

this is a true..

if you guys don believe jus try this example... have you deeply love a gal that you wouldn't make love with her...

gals would you deeply love a guy that you will feed him... hahah

cum on... ah peh go through this so long lau...:p

elainehoal
04-01-2010, 06:41 PM
actually i don't really know who the TS is referring to... is he referring to all the replies in this thread or who in particular??

if we wanna UP the girl.. we won't spend so much time in forum posting replies just to get the nod. we HAVE the rod, why wait for the nod.

wake up -81 (and counting) TS.. get alive.

Big Sister80
04-01-2010, 07:46 PM
Most of the kor kor or didi in SBF are good guys. They always give out kind advise or maybe give you a helping hand if you are in problems. Although i in SBF only slightly more than a month but i can sense it even we are just behind the screen.:)
Nobody will know who will up who in future.:D Those brother who really need to be up so badly, i got no choice but to let my BYS take over.:D

razer123
09-02-2010, 08:30 PM
hey hey Da Jie, don't be so sad ok? Sometimes, its just life...I've not really had any great relationships thus far as well and I'm 22...Maybe I'm asking for too much or things always end up sour as I'm quite dao sometimes...

I think its just a matter of time for one to find a good life partner! Jia You take care and Happy Chinese New Year!

divababy
09-02-2010, 09:52 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

I tink u juz met the wrong guy :(

some_
11-02-2010, 11:53 AM
jiejie dont be sad ok what is done is done i believe you will meet your prince soon de:)

perspicacious
11-02-2010, 12:18 PM
Don't worry. Next time you ditched the guy.

some_
11-02-2010, 12:21 PM
Don't worry. Next time you ditched the guy.

lolzzzz you not scare being ditched by girls? lolzzz

Big Sister80
11-02-2010, 01:13 PM
Wait i ditch you out of singapore:D

hardcoremayhem
11-02-2010, 04:21 PM
i am the one who always kena ditched by girls leh

DTCEPL
11-02-2010, 04:24 PM
Wait i ditch you out of singapore:D

Nowadays Big Sis ditch all the horny boy boy(s) liao:D

Happy CNY.......and happy ditching!

yummymocha
11-02-2010, 04:26 PM
I am just a simple as usual gal. I always no luck in live world. All my ex-bf ditched me aside after we had sex. I really don know y i am in this state. Maybe i not good in it.:(

then i really suspect the guy love u or ur body. u should reject ma if the guy want sex. if he respect ur decision than i can say he truely loves u.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
11-02-2010, 04:42 PM
then i really suspect the guy love u or ur body. u should reject ma if the guy want sex. if he respect ur decision than i can say he truely loves u.

i always say that to my girls - " i respect your decision"
But nxt day i up her liao :D

kums
11-02-2010, 04:51 PM
try not to be too open the next time.. but if really cant control each other needs; do it with rubberS.. never never leave home without them..:D

Big Sister80
11-02-2010, 05:15 PM
I never try but it always open:D. Advance happy CNY to all bro and sis here. Thks to post in my thread and wish all of you here a better year ahead.:)

cum_in
11-02-2010, 09:02 PM
I never try but it always open:D. Advance happy CNY to all bro and sis here. Thks to post in my thread and wish all of you here a better year ahead.:)

U mean "open" as you oso very loose type lor :confused:

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
11-02-2010, 10:51 PM
I never try but it always open:D.

You mean which part open..i prefer your lower limb to be open tough :D

Huat Arh~~~~....Happy New Year Everyone :p

perspicacious
11-02-2010, 11:16 PM
lolzzzz you not scare being ditched by girls? lolzzz

It either you ditch or you get ditched. What's the big deal? Tomorrow the sun will shine, you will breathe and night will always follows day. It's only a matter of attitude.

zwlim87
11-02-2010, 11:34 PM
I am not a cheapo gal as u mentioned. I always trust my bf so much even we know less than 3 months. I put trust and end up being betray n hurt. Wat else can i say. Maybe i trust guys too easily and when they ask me i will give in. Is it wrong to trust a person you love dearly.
I received alot of pms asking me to be their FB. What is FB? All i need now is to move on myself for better and not worse.
fb means fuck buddy.simply put, they call u when they wan sex.if they dun wan sex,u will not hear from them...understand,little girl?:)

zwlim87
11-02-2010, 11:39 PM
Sister,

One confirm+guarantee way to have sex and yet get to keep your boy for a long long time is....


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Let him penetrate....pump....and then, don't let him climax.

Like that, he confirm geh tiao, oo tang gan (get to fuck) bo tang choot (dont get to shoot)...

he sure stick with you for as long as you don't let him shoot.

If you ask me how not to let him climax, aiyah very simple one...tell him you need to pang sai, pang jio, pang pwee etc or just push him away lah, say you need to vomit.
good one!haha!straight 2 e point..

DumbAss
12-02-2010, 01:41 PM
Nice to see some nice thread going on once in awhile. Just like a breath of fresh air.
Wish everyone here a very prosperous CNY!Especially to TS.
:)

irrefutable
12-02-2010, 02:51 PM
Wish TS a prosperous lunar new year with lots of guys to choose.

Big Sister80
12-02-2010, 08:12 PM
Hahaha agreed. But lol? Little girl? Bigsis ish ard 30 year old le wor.. Not young anymore le la

I never say i am young. I address myself as lao char bor. Sigh! valentine day no dating.:(

Niceman
12-02-2010, 08:50 PM
ok ok, kor kor sayang u... i date u

tomvoyeur
12-02-2010, 10:37 PM
Self-ads are featuring prominently as V-day draws near.

Happy lunar NY and get more sex during V-day!! ;)

Big Sister80
12-02-2010, 10:43 PM
ok ok, kor kor sayang u... i date u

Kor kor how you going to sayang me? I very hard to pleased 1 you know:D

Big Sister80
12-02-2010, 10:44 PM
Self-ads are featuring prominently as V-day draws near.

Happy lunar NY and get more sex during V-day!! ;)

Wah you expose me:mad: Then where got guys come and date me:(

Niceman
12-02-2010, 10:58 PM
Kor kor how you going to sayang me? I very hard to pleased 1 you know:D

slap u, puch u, kick u.... lick u? :P

DumbAss
12-02-2010, 11:14 PM
Wah you expose me:mad: Then where got guys come and date me:(

Ah....! 27hours deadline to Vday. No wonder!:eek:

genius
13-02-2010, 01:16 AM
I just see this threat and decided to give my 5 cents worth.

It's difficult to find true love and faithful lover in today world. I thought I have a low sex drive, when my ex-girlfriend come to my place, many times, we still end up on the bed and then start saying sweet nothing... I am lazy and tired to go outting with her. I always give her all kind of excuse (less sex).

Finally I call it a day when I got enough when she keep pestering me to get married.

Nevertheless I do love her and care for her. I do my part (at the least) by paying for most of the expense when ever we go out.

It's difficult to avoid sex when one is seeing each offen especially when there are only 2 persons. Sex keeps the relationship going. It also maintain a healthy balanced relationship.

Personally i would said, sex is important. As long as as both are comfortable and willing then is ok.

You don't have to be be forced into sex. If you don't like, just said NO. Normally the guy will respect the girl. But on the other hand. if you start kissing and petting.. sex is just a matter of time..

May you find pleasure (and NOT PRESSURE) in your next relationship.

All.. bro and sis, wishing you a Happy Tiger New Year and Valentine Day:)

Wah you expose me:mad: Then where got guys come and date me:(

Savanna
13-02-2010, 05:16 AM
Time to get Even... Dump the Next Guy you Date!!!

Or you will be the next Humpty Dumpty... :D:D:D

Big Sister80
13-02-2010, 07:44 AM
slap u, puch u, kick u.... lick u? :P

Wah you so rough 1:eek: But i like it:D

lacoruna69
13-02-2010, 01:48 PM
Let's hope you are not a clone of Sherine.......:D

Niceman
13-02-2010, 02:05 PM
aiyo... u so bian tai one?? i very gentle and innocent one hor.....

btw, r u trying to seduce?? i very scare coz I very easily seduced..... :D

geckoSG
13-02-2010, 02:48 PM
Helo sis... How's thing... come come, I date u lah... LOLz...

Anyway, to me every day is V-day... :D

GeMiNiZzzzZzz
13-02-2010, 03:57 PM
I used to have this gf who i meet the first time and we had sex on the first day we meet.. after the deed was done lol she broke up with me =_= wtf :mad: machiam i sex toy used finish can throw

:eek:
I thought this statement will only made by women...:D

There are exceptional case i guess :p

Big Sister80
14-02-2010, 12:23 PM
Let's hope you are not a clone of Sherine.......:D

Who is sherine???

Big Sister80
14-02-2010, 12:24 PM
aiyo... u so bian tai one?? i very gentle and innocent one hor.....

btw, r u trying to seduce?? i very scare coz I very easily seduced..... :D

You mean you are a easily man? EEE:eek:I thought you are a niceman:D

Big Sister80
14-02-2010, 12:25 PM
Helo sis... How's thing... come come, I date u lah... LOLz...

Anyway, to me every day is V-day... :D

Lizard kor kor, i am free today so lets chat in ym and see how it goes ok;)

DumbAss
14-02-2010, 04:51 PM
Waiting for you to chat! No picture no sound!

geckoSG
14-02-2010, 07:56 PM
Lizard kor kor, i am free today so lets chat in ym and see how it goes ok;)

Sis, PM me your YM... later I come check. :D

Star Cruiser
14-02-2010, 08:08 PM
it is hard to find true love nowadays, i dun even trust my gf anymore but for the sake of our emotional feelings n needs we are stuck to each others for a few years already.
Guess it is time for me to move on.... sigh...

zennie
14-02-2010, 10:02 PM
advise u should move on ... live for urself not for other =D ...

Niceman
14-02-2010, 11:49 PM
You mean you are a easily man? EEE:eek:I thought you are a niceman:D

ya lor 人人为我,我为人人... so dun bully me... i very very niceman... :D

DumbAss
15-02-2010, 12:19 PM
Lizard kor kor, i am free today so lets chat in ym and see how it goes ok;)

Problem is you never show up for chat!:p

asiannewyorker
17-02-2010, 09:26 AM
As a guy myself I can think of a few reasons:

-He has a gf/wife and wanted a fling on the side
-He likes you enough to have sex but not enough to pursue a relationship
-He likes you but you guys weren't compatible in bed

In any case, don't read too much into this.. if it's not meant to happen it's better that you end at the start line then get hurt later on. Unlike women, men trust their instincts and usually make a judgement on relationships right away so don't feel bad.

You're obviously good looking because guys want to sex you, just pick the right one and it will work out for you.

DumbAss
17-02-2010, 09:48 AM
Another case of Cock Teaser!

sleeping
20-02-2010, 02:20 AM
Hi Big Sis, sms you afew time but you never reply. Anyway thks for the treat. Next month will be my turn to treat you back. Remember to give me the best stuff i want ok;)