View Full Version : will u bonk ur gf/wife's friend?
sun814
03-12-2009, 04:32 PM
I recently met a lady from china (about 40) who was really beautiful for her age, get to know her more, can feel that we were really physically attracted to each other, had a few drinks with her but not the chance to bonk her yet. one fine day, was shopping with my wife, and met her again, and turns out that my wife actually knows her! athough not really close friends, i and the lady were a little embarrassed, but we try to act as though we knew each other for 1st time. she called me afterwards, expressing her sadness and that she actually likes me very much, though i am dumbfounded for words, i also told her i like her also, but unfortunately, i am married. she wanted to have another drinking session with me.
bros, if u were in my shoes, would u still go out with her, and possibly has a sex-ssion with her? I love my wife very much, but recently when making love to my wife, i actually fantasized that her friend is the one whom i actually made love to.
random man
03-12-2009, 04:48 PM
whatever happens after the drink... your wife will know? bring your wife along 100% nothing happen. go without your wife n did something n your wife finds out... u're dead meat.
Kobe83
03-12-2009, 04:58 PM
i think u better stay away from her.
Later if she want something from you and you cannot give then you know what she will do....
sun814
03-12-2009, 04:59 PM
maybe i should test the water first, and see whether if the lady will really mind n be very discreet about it. but was wondering how should i test her? i must emphasise that my wife and her are not really close friends but acquintance.
Kobe83
03-12-2009, 05:00 PM
i think u better stay away from her.
Later if she want something from you and you cannot give then you know what she will do....
Vertu
03-12-2009, 05:08 PM
Women 6th sense are beyond our estimation.....
Dont eat and shit .
asdf8888
03-12-2009, 06:40 PM
i think all brothers here are sincere... stay away
sun814
03-12-2009, 07:02 PM
thanks for all the comments and sincerity, still thinking whether to go ahead with the drink. haiz... if she's not my wife's friend, will 100% go for it without any hesitation, as she is one of the most prettiest woman i have seen (not exaggerating, at least 8.5/10 in my opinion) and first time to have such a strong mutual attraction with another woman (not even my wife when i first know her). i know the dangers of doing it, but just can't help myself from thinking of her.
Max77
03-12-2009, 07:04 PM
bro plse plse don't. U r married, tat's sth not to mess up in ur life-unless u can afford it (divorce)
Maybe u haben met wif women who r so demure at first and later turn demoness when things don't meet their demand. I've met some. The only women u worth investing ur love is ur gf (if u r single) and ur wife (if u r married)...the rest (WLs/FLs-WHO UR WIFE DON'T KNOW) better apply F&F strategy. At least the chances of meeting after paying is slimer (but still possible)
I've got a FB half way down the relationship wif my long term steady gf. I can tell u, it's the sweetest time of my life the first half and the worst of my life the second half when all the earth shattering passion and lust being taken over by life threatening possessiveness.
oxgyen
03-12-2009, 07:08 PM
Bro,
Just pay and fuck off. We just want to have fun and don't get ourselves in trouble. This is complicate and this is a time bomb which anytime can explode. Women everywhere wife only got one. So be careful to make the right decision.
Good luck bro
Cheers
Yen.
bonkster
03-12-2009, 09:34 PM
My experience is that women can't keep a secret. Screw her and it's a matter of time before u r screwed. Please look for someone else your wife doesn't know. Best is just stick to FLs and don't ever bother about KC. That's the safe bet IMHO. :)
Many people complain that marriage costs a lot of money...many bros who have been through divorce will swear a divorce cost a hell lot more...especially if the wife is out for vengeance. Don't play with fire hor bro...i'm sure u r smarter than your didi. Cheers ;)
Glock
03-12-2009, 09:44 PM
bro.
your thinking all wrong.
you already say here:
I recently met a lady from china (about 40) who was really beautiful for her age, get to know her more, can feel that we were really physically attracted to each other, had a few drinks with her but not the chance to bonk her yet.
YET. so you already want to do it,and would do it already if not for the one problem.
you are saying that you have never fucked any woman other than your wife?so if ok to fuck another woman what for you worry if your wife knows her? if your wife catch you fucking another woman, whether she know her or not,you still have the same problem right?then if you already want to fuck other woman, then FUCK THE OTHER WOMAN.
dont waste time.
I love my wife very much
2 ways of looking at what you are saying.
1) Love and Fucking two different things so can love your wife and fuck other woman no problem
OR
2) if you are "yet" to fuck other woman then whatever you feel for your wife dont matter to your cock anyway so only thing you need to worry about is whether because this woman and your wife know each other you are more likely to get caught.
Ichigo_Kurosaki
04-12-2009, 02:04 AM
It is only human when we see an interesting and attractive woman, we might think to ourselves "wow! she's cute and smoking hot..I wish she go down on me". Whatever it is, there will be an attraction and of course that's natural, we can't stop that, and just to think that we're going to say "I'm not going to look at another girl now that I'm married, only my wife, I'm not going to look at anyone else for the rest of my life" - That's a complete lie isn't it? We can't do that because we still have lust for other girls once we’re married or in a relationship, so be realistic and think about what we are going to do about this.
For all I know, despite all good and kind bros contributions above, you will still go ahead to meet up with her because your are enjoying the sexual arousal caused by her and you are saying to yourselves: “I MUST make an effort to meet her to continue with this HIGH” and to get into her "HIA"(cantonese). However, instead of just allowing the whole process to get so inflamed and out of control that you are under the power of lust and you can't stop it anymore – - try and stop it earlier - see the whole destructive process happening then stop it now before it gets too late. It's called a simple "restraint". I don't think you can actually imagine that your wife will say to you "oh yeah go ahead, go and do it, go and sleep with my best friend, I don't mind".
Danger signs are there, Bro sun814, so don't let it go so far to the point that you go crazy and you lose your common sense. It is Not worth it - it's almost certainly a Lose-Lose situation. Here's why:
a) If you eventually want to end the relationship, she might tell on you.
b) If she eventually wants to end the relationship, you'll have to rely on her keeping your secret. Same thing applies if it's only a one-off.
c) If your wife finds out, hell freezes over you and you be trying to sort out the problems, begging your wife to give another chance, it could lead to divorce, splitting money issues and custody battles and I will see you in Matters of the Heart section in 2010.
d) If you want to end your marriage to be with her, well, that's a whole new mess of problems.
Go for it and reap the consequences?
Your Choice,Think Twice!
Good Luck and Cheers. :)
President
04-12-2009, 09:55 PM
My experience is that women can't keep a secret. Screw her and it's a matter of time before u r screwed. Please look for someone else your wife doesn't know. Best is just stick to FLs and don't ever bother about KC. That's the safe bet IMHO. :)
Agree, Women is not made to keep secrets, one of things they like is to gossip on whatever they know, and comparing among themselves :D
So enjoy them, play with them, admire their bodies and beauty while you can :D but dont share so called "secrets" with them.
naturegreen
04-12-2009, 10:05 PM
Bro,
Just pay and fuck off. We just want to have fun and don't get ourselves in trouble. This is complicate and this is a time bomb which anytime can explode. Women everywhere wife only got one. So be careful to make the right decision.
Good luck bro
Cheers
Yen.
Totally agree with Yen. TS, you already say you like her. Since you are married, try not to get entangled with a girl that you have feeling for else you will fall deeper into trouble. Want a bonk, just pay and keep it stored in your memory. :rolleyes:
unsung80
04-12-2009, 10:05 PM
Time for a threesome.
fedomme
04-12-2009, 10:10 PM
... The only women u worth investing ur love is ur gf (if u r single) and ur wife (if u r married)...the rest (WLs/FLs-WHO UR WIFE DON'T KNOW) better apply F&F strategy...
Fully agree bro, :D That is love. But in the commercial sex or "pure" sex and lust world, just F&F and dont think twice :rolleyes:
reaperx
05-12-2009, 07:45 AM
Maybe i give u an example,one is called home the other is called hotel. Have u played monopoly b4? To build a home and to buy a hotel is 2 different ball game. U can buy a hotel if ur reli very rich, but u cannot buy or rebuild YOUR shattered home with all the gold in the world..
Yin&Yang
05-12-2009, 11:45 AM
I don't find it worth it. Who knows what she will do? Not forgetting she might know alot of your info. Too dangerous
sun814
05-12-2009, 04:07 PM
but she is too difficult for me to resist n reject, will go for a drink with her later (of course without my wifey)
Ichigo_Kurosaki
05-12-2009, 04:21 PM
but she is too difficult for me to resist n reject, will go for a drink with her later
Expected. Wishing you a fun-filled session.
Hope it be a good one.
Cheers and enjoy your weekend.
sun814
05-12-2009, 10:10 PM
woh, just had a wonderful session with my girl, it was simply awful! she was so wet n wild in bed, i don't regret. we have this understanding that we will continue with our 'affair' for maybe once a week and she is not to interfere with my marriage as i told her that my wife is the only one i love. she will try not to be in contact my wife anymore.
Rster
05-12-2009, 10:43 PM
The beans will be spilled eventually. You are playing with fire, so be prepared from now on, bro.
wittyman
06-12-2009, 10:51 AM
Time for a threesome.
Threesome with OC and FL? even the ancient King also can not do it, think your didi will be cut by OC :cool::cool:
wittyman
06-12-2009, 10:52 AM
woh, just had a wonderful session with my girl, it was simply awful! she was so wet n wild in bed, i don't regret. we have this understanding that we will continue with our 'affair' for maybe once a week and she is not to interfere with my marriage as i told her that my wife is the only one i love. she will try not to be in contact my wife anymore.
You are senior enough in the forum but seems .... take care bro, sometimes we just can not control the lust .. :D Good luck
Kawasaki11
06-12-2009, 02:19 PM
Seems to me so many bros here say no...
But u still tempted?
The only reasons why we are at SBF is pay to fuck, no commitment, no troubles now nor future...
Why risk...
Ninja_Assassin
06-12-2009, 06:20 PM
Agree, Women is not made to keep secrets, one of things they like is to gossip on whatever they know, and comparing among themselves :D
So enjoy them, play with them, admire their bodies and beauty while you can :D but dont share so called "secrets" with them.
Very very true. i learning the hard way women all got cheebye mouths cannot keep secrets one. now i just fucking them and tokcok only but no telling them any serious stuff. :D
whitegals
07-12-2009, 08:08 PM
Seems like the TS already made his mind up. Even if he doesn't bang her, what's to stop the woman from fabricating stories to ruin him if she wants to? So rather than be accused for doing something he did not do, might as well just do the deed, then later kena accused also won't feel so du lan... :D
limrayson
07-12-2009, 08:35 PM
its a trap set by your wife , you are now dead meat because your "session" was recorded by a hidden cam in the wardrobe . your girl was merely an accomplice
TCSS MODERATION
09-12-2009, 11:29 PM
why not,if she wants it.
The MilkMan
10-12-2009, 06:25 AM
i will not do it,to avoid unnecessary trouble. :D
pkkhong
10-12-2009, 11:55 AM
I agree. I will not bonk my gf/wife's friend. You 'll never know whether your relationship with the friend would turn sour in the future. Don't take risk. :eek:
cheers
piang
10-12-2009, 12:17 PM
My answer is No. I will never bonk my gf/wife's friend
Manofwar
10-12-2009, 12:28 PM
bro if thats the case i would advice ya to forget her... there are many gals around... its better be safe than sorry, i knw e thrill that u are actually Fuking yr wife's friend..
sun814
11-12-2009, 05:49 PM
it is not the thrill, i had one of the best sex sessions with her, so i want to keep her as my regular fb.
hymoh
11-12-2009, 11:10 PM
I will not bonk my wife/gf's friend. I think the risk of the incident being discovered is too great.
cheers
tubbyt
14-12-2009, 06:39 AM
Really depends I think.
Categorically I'd say no but that because I do not believe in betraying my other half. But if she's ok with it, why not?
hosay10
14-12-2009, 10:13 AM
Maybe thats why my gf dont like to intro her friends to me...
pandaeyes
23-12-2009, 02:46 PM
Time for a threesome.
Haha, sounds like a good idea...
sun814
23-12-2009, 05:53 PM
haha, only in my dreams. anyway still having great times with the lady.
see see only
23-12-2009, 06:16 PM
i will not do it,to avoid unnecessary trouble. :D
Me agreed :D
Even with my wifey consent or even a MFF with her along, I won't - today's consent could turn into tomorrow’s night-mare
:D if ever me finish my little story (sorry lazy to write):rolleyes: guys, you will understand
bigMiMi
23-12-2009, 06:31 PM
Bonk wife's friend is too risky. Not for me!
pandaeyes
23-12-2009, 07:23 PM
Shit happens, the last thing I want is to be trapped in between...
Actually I had bonk my gf's best friend before.
It's a one time thing, we both had some drinks.
and we take it as nothing happen till now.
tropiccana
26-12-2009, 11:55 AM
gal are very dangeroues
turbo_slk200
26-12-2009, 02:05 PM
Yes ,
Must take extra precaution not to get caught...if not it is definitely the end...
sun814
26-12-2009, 04:03 PM
shouldn't have any problems if u know how to deal with them n not let the wife knows about it.;)
slyer
27-12-2009, 01:34 PM
i will not bonk my gf's frens to avoid troubles. always play safe:D
Sperm Man
27-12-2009, 03:52 PM
definately, NO! simply because i wont want my friend to do the same as well.
Gerald Tan
27-12-2009, 05:34 PM
Dera Bro Sun814
I understand your stiuation..it is most persplexing to DO or NOT TO DO.
To DO, it carries VERY HIGH RISK
To NOT TO DO, is an OPPORTUNITY wasted a lifetime...
Hahah....finally, only u can decide yourself !
Damned if u do, and Damned if you dun do.... But I advice is, DUN do it simply bcos your wife does not allow it....
myDcup
30-12-2009, 10:44 AM
Not for me! Big risk. :(
cannon640
06-01-2010, 01:54 AM
if she is fine. Why not?
travelmate111
07-01-2010, 10:02 AM
No joke. Wait gana bao duo how?
Caisheng
09-01-2010, 03:30 PM
If she is damn chio. Why not? But must careful tied down with the friends loh
sggamer
14-01-2010, 07:00 PM
fantasize doing with wife's friend. but try not to to avoid trouble.
DaiLup
18-01-2010, 12:59 PM
To avoid possible future troubles, I will not bonk my wife's friend.........:)
bigNeNe
18-01-2010, 01:03 PM
Me too! No future troubles means I have the opportunity to go chiong. :D
bonkharder
21-01-2010, 04:03 AM
yes but with caution. Bonk even harder:D
Mike1972
22-01-2010, 09:21 PM
Depends... mostly "YES!"
qsnake
22-01-2010, 09:39 PM
bros, if u were in my shoes, would u still go out with her, and possibly has a sex-ssion with her? I love my wife very much, but recently when making love to my wife, i actually fantasized that her friend is the one whom i actually made love to.
bro, don't play with fire. If you have an affair with her and things turn sour, she can blackmail you very easily. Never a assume a relationship will be smooth sailing and everybody is happy with status quo. If one fine day, things takes a turn for the worse, she will blackmail you for money. Don't shit in your own house. If you want a pussy, get one who doesn't know your wife. Let this one go. It is just not worth taking that kind of risk just to have sex. Go and grab a KTV mei mei who's 21/22 years old. A woman who's 40 and not married yet, has problems that you never know about till you're too close to it. Please think with your big head.
There are a lot of stories here about bros' who got blackmailed by seemingly loving partners. They put themselves through mental torment and anguish and really regretted the initial decision they made. Just remember, women when scorned, will do almost anything to get even. I'm not saying that she needs money, but if she wants you for herself, you will see the true side of her.
lgwong500
22-01-2010, 10:01 PM
Why not?
I have this experience before with few of my gf’s friends and some are cabin crew… :)
hornykock
22-01-2010, 10:36 PM
yes, ;why not.
j0n`_8
24-01-2010, 05:26 PM
i did it once last time with my ex's friend. at first it was her friend that was interested in me but i chose my ex instead. they stay in a rented apartment with another guy.
it was a day when i went over to look for my ex but she wasn't in so i waited while watching tv. the guy was in his room playing pc game. me and my ex friend watch tv till end up fucking in the living room all the way to my ex bedroom.
damn shiok! but only once and that was it... come to think of it she was better in blowjob and fj than my ex haha.
sun814
26-01-2010, 01:46 PM
why do it once only when u enjoy it so much? i am now still bonking her at least once a week, sometimes 2-3 times a week. haha would like to do with her more often but too tiring liao as at the same time need to service my own wife leh. :D
juayboy79
31-01-2010, 07:48 PM
Yes I will
Provided its a hush hush things. Just be careful not to be caught.:)
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