M'sian Gf

[mrloner]

posting in here, to seek more what do you think of them?

any bros who have 1 before or having one at the moment?

what do u think of ladies, are they better then local gals? as in not so realistic as in cash car or whatever?

local chinese here. first time having a msia gf

hope wont be de flame

[Cheonging101]

First here! :D

It depends.

If the girl had been staying in SG for more than 3 years, chances are that she'd be more or less influenced.

Use your own judgment.:p

[Sangrawi]

Had a Malaysian GF in my younger days.

Be careful. They are a lot more conservative and "sticky". Many of them want to get married immediately once they started going out with them. Definitely more intense in their feeling. They tend to be less cosmopolitan than Singaporean (I know I am generalising more)

My Malaysian gf even wanted me to leave my family (wfe and kids la) for her.

I ran fast fast and ended the relationship.

[mrloner]

thanks to all answer..
as for sticky dont seems to be having it.. i dont mind @ times.
haha
still trying 2 understand more

[newlife]

I do have a malaysia GF and we have broke off this june, think it was not the right time when we met. But the two years we spend together there was a lot of up and down. I find that is better then local gals cause they are more simple and understanding. Have even went back with her to her kampong. But bro do bear in mind that you also have to spare time going back with her if you really into the relationship. Try putting yourselves if you are oversea alone with this gal, you also wish she would be able to accompany you to visit you folk too right. Cheers and hope you have a happy relationship with her. Still hoping mine will come back one day.

[jasen]

Generally speaking M'sia also got good and 'bad' girls as in other country. But if you get 1 from country side states like sabah, the girls there are more 'pure' as compare to those from KL. I would say this applies to China woman too.

[tkwok]

Hi Ts, frankly speaking, i agree with Bro Jansen, every country has good and bad girls. so choose slowly.

Secondly, i personally have a malaysian ex-gf. my experience is , she is super sticky. unable to give me room to breath. i was with her for 1 year. when we break up, she told me she is preg and want to jump out of the HDB flat.

Then in the end, i know she's not preg and i eventually lost contact with her. :)

[TightV]

i dated msia gals before. I think they give more gfe than sgp gals. Yes, they are rather sticky, but i think can be trained..

[Snoopy21]

Yeah, you can really persuade them to do anything you like; sometimes they are very shy and just give in to you! And most of them don’t care about money; they only want you to take care of them.

[poorman4sex]

i married one....

[verytimid]

Based on my story (from my signature) you already know my then-gf, now-wife is a Malaysian. THey can be super sticky, but that is because they are living overseas and you're the only one they can depend on..

After some time they can be loving, fun, and very accomodating, something i failed to find on local girls.

[Joris]

The ones i've met so far seems more easily satisfied whether internally or externally.

[Sting]

Let me put in this way.
Typically all innocent and pure girl are 'sticky', can be super glue too.
They expected how they treat you, you have to return the favour in full.

For me, my wife is a malaysian. She is super sticky but I do enjoyed all sort of sexual excitement with her. She is willing to blow, suck, lick and highly corporate in bed. We did a few time in open when we ware dating. Enjoyed making love with her.

The only problem I had is with her mother. My wife, I will said she is a super 'sticky', for my mother-in-law, for her is totally 'barbaric'. No way you can talk sense into her if she feels is right.

[gunner77]

m'sian girls are more simple and understand.

I agree with bro tightV, they give a more gfe.

[owen10]

i think it's subjective.

i do like msian gals too. last time i studied overseas for a few yrs which there were many msian gals. most of those i came across are homely, well mannered, fun loving n caring. too bad d pretty ones were taken up. :(

but some of my msian guy friends tell me it depends on where these gals come from. those rural ones fr states like sabah, sarawak tend to be more guai guai n submissive type while those fr d more modern cities like KL or JB tend to be more materialistic n demanding, have higher expectations fr their bf/husb. N 1 bro did actually bring up that many of those msian gals who come to spore n work tend to be influenced by our sg culture easily which i think can be quite subjective.

maybe our msian bros here can comment?

[naturegreen]

It really depends on each individuals. Had many partners (note: not gf) but they are getting more and more open-minded nowadays while some are still sticky. Similarly when there's black, there's always white. So just got to keep trying. Those coming from kampongs out to work in the city area such as KL or Singapore are initially more naive. After some time, they get a bit smarter, play harder to get etc..... but well, if correct tactics applied and they like you, you will still get lucky with some. ;)

[mrloner]

i wish mine was sticky, but its like a hack care thingy. how do i say it.
its like call or reply your sms when she wish to.. so i was like well, just take it as dont have.

[jespertan]

[QUOTE=mrloner;4367473]
what do u think of ladies, are they better then local gals? as in not so realistic as in cash car or whatever?
local chinese here. first time having a msia gf

read my post on fellow msia gf beer promoter
fang fang - 98944819 (off work 11pm)

nice girl but too bad playboy at that time & she start to boss me also. call only if u serious

[newlife]

I agree with owen10 cause my also came out to singapore to work, and if she like you is not the money she is looking for. I have not been working after we have been together for 1 year and once i very really really down and broke she is still by my side. There is other rich guy going after her in singapore, not to mention i have brought her over to HK and she have see the kind of life she can have with a rich guy like my bro-in-law. So is the feeling that count in all relationship, till now i'm still in love with her even she have call it off 6 mths ago.

[mrloner]

Thanks for all the replies. but then i guess mine was unique.
wont stick. haha
furthermore like the bo chap attitude in someways. just like a local gal.
no offense 2 bros out there.

[jasen]

As per what I've said, I would say that if given a choice, I would choose to marry a Malaysian over a PRC or a Viet. :)

[Savanna]

Mine is Super High Performance & Low Maintenance... :D:D:D

[S i l v i a]

Mine from JB，now become wife liao。

It’s true that they look after family better than our locals even they are from city area like JB，KL etc。 I think it is their family upbringing and culture。 Also in term of sex， they are also more willing to try and explore new “tactics”， heehee

But 1 thing for sure， if any girl from any country know that u are a well loaded with money， they will start to want this and that。。。 it‘s up to you to hide ：）

[Lsy84]

Dear Bro Loner,

I guess every individual has his own preferences when it comes to this. If you ask me, I can definitely say that out of 10 msian gers, only 2% are bad, and the other 8% are good.

The reason why most local guys want to look across the causeway for gf is because generally, most made in singapore gers are just too materialistic and money-minded these days.


One of my bro, told me the other day that he just broke up with his gf cos he realised that she was in this relationship cos she was out to treat him as a "robert".

That's why I gave him this advice: we are not rich men, but we are men that want to be rich.

Rich men can afford to be treated as robert, but for guys who want to be rich, what we want is true love.

[shadow99]

Well im a chinese guy living in KL, I think there are many materialistic girls in malaysia too. Since young I've came across many of em. Some of the girls I know would rather date Singaporean guys, because I was told spending SGD in malaysia is like living in heaven :) .

[gilagila100]

It really depends on the upbringing of the girl.

Singapore is a city-state anyway with a very much cosmopolitan lifestyle.

City-folk tend to be more materialistic, aggressive and competitive.

Why? Simple the lifestyle demands it. It is a eat or be eaten rat race here in Singapore. Anyone brought up in such environment will be behave accordingly.

To most girls, hitching a rich guy is ticket out of the stupid rat race.
If I am a girl, most likely I would behave in the same manner.

The pace and culture in Malaysia is much more different although for cities like KL and JB, there are a lot of similarities with Singapore.

Therefore it is easier in some ways to get a good natured msian gf than similarly a Singaporean one.

Just my two cents.

[werdnac]

Had a gf from KL for 3 years...

Woah can say is the best i ever had...

Great sex in bed.. willing to learn everything.. and devoted to u only...
She also the only one who allow me cim and swallow.. hehehehe after much coaxing..
She was virgin before i deflowered her...

Too bad we did not last as i was already attached.

This is my experience.

[Deep Blue]

Well im a chinese guy living in KL, I think there are many materialistic girls in malaysia too. Since young I've came across many of em. Some of the girls I know would rather date Singaporean guys, because I was told spending SGD in malaysia is like living in heaven :) .

This is because KL is much like Singapore, when you go to smaller cities like Ipoh, Penang etc, you will realised that girls there are more simple and straight forward. In a way they are not exposed to the glamour of city life and also no need for the glamour life. What’s the point carrying a LV bad where the furthest place you go is the market place. ;)

[shadow99]

This is because KL is much like Singapore, when you go to smaller cities like Ipoh, Penang etc, you will realised that girls there are more simple and straight forward. In a way they are not exposed to the glamour of city life and also no need for the glamour life. What’s the point carrying a LV bad where the furthest place you go is the market place. ;)

LOL! Very true!

[mrloner]

well m single..
haha.. i guess she was just playing

[zzdzz]

well m single..
haha.. i guess she was just playing

well.. move on then bro! There are still many more out there but i guess not all malaysian girls r bad..there are always gems ard! :)

[ave_joe99]

Hi Folks, just my 2¢ on this matter.

Its basically a luck of the draw kinda deal. There're Gems to be found anywhere, its just that in highly urbanised setting like S'pore, hard to find people who're not by the Rat Race i.e. not solely focused on $$$ & material things.

I would tend to agree that most girls from MY regardless of their hometown/origin will get influenced and adopt a style, outlook & attitude similar to SG girls after some time. This, I know from personal experience based on my ex. I could feel the transformation over time especially when she started working in SG.

And I can also concur on the sticky part.. whether that's a trait of Malaysian girls.. I can't say for sure... it can be down to trust issues, the age & maturity of the girl/woman in question also plays a part.. is she the independent sort? too many factors to ascertain for sure. Even then, this is all sweeping generalisation and somewhat stereotypical mentality at play as well.

Whatever it is.. I wish TS and all brothers (& sisters) here best of luck in their hunt for Love (& lust) Irregardless of race, language, religion or sexual orientation! :D

[elth]

my friend from Sabah married a Sabah girl, told me that his wife do not allow him to wash his clothing, sweep the floor or do any of the house work. From young the girls are teached by their parents that it the wife duty to serve the husband.

:D

[SR71]

Bros... All I wanna say is, MY gals are anytime better than PRCs... I think I don't have to state the obvious do I... :p

[chick]

Over time (even after marriage), they will still get influenced by local colleagues & friends. Thus, one day, they will be just like local gers...

[libidoer]

Hi TS...let me share my views here. I had 2 chinese msian gfs b4 and although they can't represent all msian gals, I discovered that msian gers generally have lower expectations on their guys, know how to pamper their bf and alot of them know how to cook. Both my ex gfs can cook really well. Somemore they give great sex...haha....Both my ex are adventurous in sex. Haiz, too bad it's all in the past.