What will you do if you finds that your spouse flirt/sleep behind your back?

[Ho-Lee]

Guess this is a very difficult question to answer..It depends on your love towards him/her.:)

[see see only]

:D Alamah cannot choose two ans lei....

Me will forgive & forget also .... but choose to see what wrong with her first :rolleyes: However if she lost interest in me and wanted to go, me will let go ...........


Er..... but if she stay .... hopefully she practise "safety first" :D

[big_cojones]

make her die slowly and painfully, complete my unfinished business on earth, and kill myself.

no excuses!:mad:

[newlife7121]

sure will go seperate way. Cannot tolerate and think of my wife gana screw by other:mad:

[cockakola]

its hard to accept...heart feels like cut by knife... but if one were to calm down and think, its her choice ultimately, unless she was drugged...if not, she made that choice herself...can't blame anyone else, except her (own temptations):(

[bonkharder]

its hard to accept...heart feels like cut by knife... but if one were to calm down and think, its her choice ultimately, unless she was drugged...if not, she made that choice herself...can't blame anyone else, except her (own temptations):(

Agreed bro, unless it was drugged. BUt still have a thorn in the heart seriously

[cannon640]

bye bye if it of own willingness

[sun814]

haha i guess man are selfish creatures, they can play a fool with multiple girls but they won't allow their girl to do the same.

[edack]

yep ,we can fool around but different thing when you own spouse flirt

[Manfese_Widz]

Well, if that man is really a HUNK, a lot more handsome then me, well built, well groom, maybe, well... still can consider if things can be patch back. But if it's some, wah paingz, BO GEI AH PEK or, someone who really see liao can puke type, damn, will kill her liao then drown myself...

[starcrosser]

I admit that i outside steal eat and sleep with others a lot.

I think it is fair if she want to sleep outside so long as dont bring any dieases home.

[Kuan Aik Hong]

Luckily brothers here are rational enough not to commit suicide. If it happens to teenagers I guess they might do it.

[phantom010436]

Might go separate way.

[NightHawk88]

This is most unfortunate thing that happens in a happy marriage. The couple needs to seriously re-validate their relationship and work out a solution in amicable ways.

IMO, marriage is about love commitment and long term responsibility as husband and wife. It takes some heartfelt conversation to understand the root cause, and eventually the decision of both parties after revalidation process, the sincerely of forgiveness from the suffering parties are the vital elements in determining the fate of the relationship.

[Toyota Honda]

For me, I think I might be at fault. So I will choose to hear her out. If she do it out of frustration and to hurt me cos its my fault, I will learn. But if she did it out of love for the other guy, I will let go.

But I assure that guy will not live well...

[Lil'Tempt]

pretend to forgive/forget & then flirt/sleep ard double his rate. LOL~
plus use his $$ like water... for all my own expenses :p:p:p

[Fatfucker]

Would file for divorce