Is paid sex really addictive?

[samyboys]

is it true. it has not occur to me yet.
no $ means cannot buy sex

[blitzmeout]

all vices are addictive

[Ngengheng]

Is very addictive and I have a friend even went to borrow money for a bonk.

[samyboys]

Is very addictive and I have a friend even went to borrow money for a bonk.

that would be a sex addiction

[liberatte]

Well, it helps to think first... lets say per bonk is $150...
just imagine how many chicken rice you can buy...

Say chicken rice is $5. You get 1 chicken rice per day for 30 days!!!

[musketeer]

It can be since it is so accessible.

[cancerian69]

is it true. it has not occur to me yet.
no $ means cannot buy sex

hi samyboy... truly hope u can stick to "no $ means....". i'm trying to contain my "addiction"..... This is an expensive addiction tat can suck u dry in terms of health, mental strength and most importantly yr $$$$.......Hope i can kick off my addiction b4 I'm been suck dry......:mad:

[cheongsterjon]

It is very addictive, even when times when you have a hot syt gf or cmf-look fb available for you to up, even after bonking them, as soon as you recover from the physical activity and little spermies reloaded, I will start to crave for which hc girl to bonk of which fl to call. Been there, done that, experienced this feeling.

[GridLock]

Sex with a hot girl is addictive, even better if she's your gf. It is sex that is addictive, not whether is it paid or not.

[starcrosser]

Unfortunately it is

[EtherC]

No it's not I've only been here since the Delphi days. :D
The mind is willing but the flesh is weak................

[Johnston]

You see, the trouble with seeing a pretty girl in orchard road or whatever, is tat u know is going to be hard to get her number or watelse.

When u see the same pretty girl stading along the street of GL or in the fishy tank, u know that if u can PAY, u can FUCK. :D

[Hou Bao Daan]

PCC free of sex.....Hahaha

[simple2kee]

all vices are addictive

second this statement. :)

[arizona]

TS, its not addictive at all...

JUZ DO IT

[AAFuck]

To me ii is :D after release and no string attached is a great feeling :p:p just need to take care the pocket :cool:

[Xgenre]

Yes initially. You will have a sense of conquering the world. Chinese girl (tried), Korean (tried), Thai (tried), Singaporean beauty (tried), lesbian (tried) etc... Some experiences will be memorable.

But after sometime, you will realise that you feel very empty inside. You know... so what if I had paid to bonk the prettiest lady? I still sleep alone at night, I still feel empty. Money can only buy you temporary happiness. Really want to pay to bonk strangers until cock can't stand meh?

I find that when I have hobbies, organise gatherings... basically things to prevent me from being free, I don't have strong craving for paid sex. But once i'm free and have nothing to do... then maybe. So trying not to be too free. :p

[Johnston]

*hums Britney Spears - Lucky (hugh hefner vers)

He's so lucky, he's a stud
but he cries cries cries in his lonely heart
thinking
if theres nothing, missin in my life
then why do these tears come at night?:D

[dummydummy]

i did it because i don have gf and no girl will dare comes near me if not for money. but i am too poor to sustain a long term relationship, hence i chose short term happiness...

[1HILLDUDE]

Good sex is addictive. Paid or unpaid.

[(.)(.) lover]

Paid sex is not so bad, what is holding me to it is big (.)(.)

Just cant control myself when I saw a Fcup here

[alanthegreat]

is it true. it has not occur to me yet.
no $ means cannot buy sex

mr woods' story is a case study. and it answers to your query too

[Johnston]

Mr Woods is an extra extreme case :D
I heard of prenuptial agreements, but a Prenuptial agreement where its stipulated

IF both party stay married for X amount of years, the wife gets a millions of $?

Doesnt that make the wife a really really highly paid Escort??? :D

[SammyHulk]

IMO, it's subjective and depends on individual. Some like paid sex no hassle FTFO, some wanna challenge no chase no shiok :p:D

[NetRodent]

is it true. it has not occur to me yet.
no $ means cannot buy sex

Sex could be addictive if it got too available at price one could afford.
Having sex with girls was not easy in the past due to access to them and one would found less discreet at a visit to GL, BUT and now FL are common and affordable, and coupled with younger ladies, sexy asset and the affordability, most importantly, the accompanied preview pix would easily tempt horny guys. Online browsing at SBF make it even easier to book a bonk.

You will not get tempted easily until u had tried the session with them.
Sex itself is a biological need, addiction is instinctive when you kickstart by having the first, or having a fresh sex partner, for a married guy.

A faithful man after trying a new lady, would sooner or later become addicted in having more sex partners.

It take a strong mind to resist such temptaton.

Sadly, I can't fight it myself.

[slider_72]

I tried really hard to resist the temptation, but failed. Sigh... Yes it is really addictive. More so than cigarettes I think.

[tomcat007]

As your Platoon Sergeant will say.... "Recruit, it's all up here (pointing to his head), not down there (pointing to his other head)".

Personally, I think it's whether you want to control or not. For eg, I got a friend... Since his VB go back in late December, up till today, he's not fucked a 2nd girl yet. That's a freaking 40+ days liao.

So, can control?

[AAconnection]

TS is not addictive unless there is no more people on earth. Sex is natural when you need it have it when you dun need take a rest. Addiction is because you have not taste the best. LOL

[richie_rich]

for me, paid sex is not addictive.
but once a man has spending power and is bored of having home-made steak all the time, he would want to go outside for a burger once a while. that's me. :p

[blitzmeout]

I find that when I have hobbies, organise gatherings... basically things to prevent me from being free, I don't have strong craving for paid sex. But once i'm free and have nothing to do... then maybe. So trying not to be too free. :p

I find this very true too. If you keep yourself busy with activities, surround yourself with friens, the urge is less. Maybe becoz you wun feel so lonely anymore.

Anyway I found that keeping busy works.. but if so busy with work until stress, the urge also come coz need to de-stress..:confused:

[topcook1]

Of course is addictive..even though I have ED and always in my mind keep on thinking of bonking...

[essray]

I\'m glad that TS started this thread so that many others are able to share their opinions and hopefully help others who are also trying to get rid of the addiction.

The problem with us men is that we have our urges (2IC talking) which will keep on coming no matter what that will require us to release them from time to time. This is not necessarily unhealthy, only problem is how you go about releasing it and learning how to control. Having pretty girls dressed sexily everywhere and FLs who for a big fee will sextisfy you does not help especially for those without girlfriends to help them out. But I do agree that being busy helps as you will not have time for your mind to wander and your 2IC to take over your mind.

Perhaps we should have some SBF activities for bros who cannot control their addition to FLs and help them to save their money drain.

[kreator28]

No,its not addictive.Just bonk once in a while.Mostly money spend on 4D and toto.

[Singaporeaura]

Paid sex is definitely addictive. From my first session 13yrs ago, already spent quite abit of $$$ and still continuing till today! :D

[Oralcraz]

I pay for HJ because I have an urge for sex, an urge to hug a woman and an urge to smell the fragrance of a woman. In my mid thirties when I had a so call affair, I did not paid a single cent for FL/WLs. So, is not paid sex that is addictive. Is the sexual urge that make us go for sex ..... and in this aspect, paid is the most convenient way.

[一 条 龙]

initially I concede that I'm addicted to sex.
Spend quite a number of amount in HC/TN/GL/OKT in this forum etc...
However, recently i felt slowly lost interest in visiting such place that i used to visit though i have the urge. Lately I would prefer having sex with a little more feeling (though is a paid sex) rather than fuck & forget. Or maybe I' m the weird one.
Anyone having the same feeling as me ?

[samyboys]

Yes initially. You will have a sense of conquering the world. Chinese girl (tried), Korean (tried), Thai (tried), Singaporean beauty (tried), lesbian (tried) etc... Some experiences will be memorable.

But after sometime, you will realise that you feel very empty inside. You know... so what if I had paid to bonk the prettiest lady? I still sleep alone at night, I still feel empty. Money can only buy you temporary happiness. Really want to pay to bonk strangers until cock can't stand meh?

I find that when I have hobbies, organise gatherings... basically things to prevent me from being free, I don't have strong craving for paid sex. But once i'm free and have nothing to do... then maybe. So trying not to be too free. :p

good point, keep yourself busy so that you won't stray;)

[samyboys]

generally i have friends that are active outfield.

their reasons - the one they have at home cannot give them what paid sex can offer.
maybe paid sex workers are more experienced and work towards $ and therefore satisfy you.
some come with huge boobs which u can play with, which again if your partner do not have, means you can never experienced that kind of feeling.

but its quite a bit for $ for that 120mins of passion to 'release' stress. its always the process that is interesting, the end result seems the same. shoot out the load and feel relaxed.

talk about conscience, deep inside you do not feel right.
maybe fear of some diseases.. getting hooked?

but for sure. if a man cannot control his sex desires, and no $, will he end up being a molester and rapist?

[dexblu]

for me, paid sex is not addictive.
but once a man has spending power and is bored of having home-made steak all the time, he would want to go outside for a burger once a while. that's me. :p

hmmmm... very true... and i noticed that you have been going for GOURMET BURGERS instead of the type which the fast food joints serve !!! :D

how befitting to aptly name yourself as RICHIE RICH !!!:D

[samyboys]

whats worrying when u don't even know you are addicited

[longwinter]

if paid sex isnt addictive, there wont be so many of us lurkin around in this forum liao le mah. :D

Ya, agreed that paid sex is addictive. Somemore u can even use $ to buy it, that makes it even much more tempting to all the guys out there. U dun have to go thru the normal procedure of knowing the girl, wooing process n etc...

Basically it is like free n easy, with no hassle or trouble, u have the $, u get what u wan...

[phantom010436]

Yes,it is so don`t start because it is hard to kick.

[cuntcum]

if paid sex isnt addictive, there wont be so many of us lurkin around in this forum liao le mah. :D
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Agree bro, dont forget that only paid sex can fulfill your fantasy and fetish, if you ask your partner then got scolded upside down lao.

Confirmed additive :D:D

[longwinter]

Agree bro, dont forget that only paid sex can fulfill your fantasy and fetish, if you ask your partner then got scolded upside down lao.

Confirmed additive :D:D

That is why I urge newbies to really think carefully about it before plunging into this world of commerical sex. Once u try it le, u are hooked forever.

[Boliaoz]

For me , paid sex is getting stale. I am venturing into FB relationship. The process is far more enriching and fun, rather than a straight cash transaction.

[doublepeak]

Yes yes yes!