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Oopsx2010
22-02-2010, 01:57 PM
Finally I found a place to unleash my bottled up feeling. A secret that is buried deep in my heart…
As I’m not a seasoned writer, in fact, this is the 1st time I’m posting a story. I will have great difficulty in narrating the ‘steamy’ scenes thus I will copy some of the scenes’ description posted here and there when they fit. Hope bros & sis do not mind me copying some of your descriptions to make the story more interesting. However, the incident is authentic.
Beginning
This incident happened more than 10 years ago when I was into my 6th years of marriage…
At that time, both my husband and I were busy building our careers. We have a 5 years old son who was taken care with the help of my mum-in-law.
Ring… I picked up my handphone.
Me: Hello, Lynn speaking.
Caller: Hello, Lynn? This is Ben from ABC company. I got your contact number from customer, XXX.
Me: Oh, hi! How can I help you?
Ben: Actually my company is looking for an experienced sales person and you are recommended by XXX. Would you be interested to attend an interview with my boss on 20 Mar’97 at 11am?
ABC company was quite an established firm. I was speechless for a moment since it was the 1st time I was being so called ‘headhunted’ then.
Me: Erm… thank you for calling. I’m flattered. Yes, I’m interested to meet up with your boss for further discussion.
Ben: Ok, so confirm the interview on 20 Mar’07 at 11am. Address is ……. See you.
Me: Thanks, see you!
On the interview day, I arrived 10 mins earlier and asked for Ben at the reception. After waited for about 20 mins, Ben came out and apologized saying that he was held up in a meeting. Besides Ben, stood a tall and handsome guy. Ben introduced him as Shin, Sales director, Ben's boss. By the way, Shin was an expatriate, 36, married with 2 kids. After exchanging greetings, Shin said that he made a reservation at XXX restaurant for our lunch discussion. As I was not familiar with the location of the restaurant, he asked me to take his car and leave my car at his office carpark.
During the lunch discussion, Shin was very friendly and easy to talk to even though English is not his main language. He explained the responsibilities and expectations of the sales person he was looking for. We chatted a bit about ourselves too. Overall we had an enjoyable lunch. At the end of lunch, he offered me the job with 30% increased in the salary package compared to my current job. I was apprehensive and overjoyed at the same time. He did not press me for immediate reply, instead allowed me to consider and reply him within 3 days.
I returned back to office, discussed with my close colleague about this job offer. She encouraged me to grab this opportunity. So on the same day evening, I called Shin to accept his job offer and set on the start date which was a month later. The appointment letter was signed the next day and I tendered my resignation with a month notice.
You may be wondering why my husband was not being consulted over this decision. We were so busy with our careers for the past few years that it was up to a point where we 'neglected' each other in the process. That was the root cause of this affair…
Oopsx2010
22-02-2010, 05:26 PM
Just completed the 2nd part.
Continue...
You may be wondering why my husband was not being consulted over this decision. We were so busy with our careers for the past few years that it was up to a point where we neglected each other in the process. That was the root cause of this affair…
New Company
1 month passed quickly with several farewell lunches with bosses and colleagues. And not forgetting treating lunch to my customer, XXX, who recommended me to ABC company.
On the 1st day of reporting to ABC company, Shin was there to welcome me! I was surprised and felt honored as he was in much higher position than me.
He showed me my desk (office layout was open concept type). My desk was placed directly in front with 10m away from his desk. Shin has full view of all the staff from his desk's location. I was rather disappointed at the office layout with little privacy.
Though ABC was an established company, its Sales office was set up only few years ago. It had 8 staff in total including Shin.
Mine was a regional business development role covering certain local and SE Asia customers.
Though it was a small Sales office, I quickly discovered that office politics was not spared here. The local staff knew that I was ‘headhunted’ to join them, so I could feel their not so obvious hostility. I actually regretted changing jobs without deeper considerations at that point of time. Amidst of all these, Shin was always there to guide and support me. Introducing me to the right/key persons in various departments which helped to cut short my learning curve.
When I was into the 2nd month of my job, he arranged a 2 weeks orientation trip for me to visit head office in Korea & regional head office in Hong Kong with him. I was kinda of anxious and fearful about the trip…
I have good impression of Shin, being good looking, kind, caring and good at his work. But I was afraid to get any closer with him for the fear of developing special feeling for each other. I also noticed that he seemed to look at me in a funny way. Sometimes I could feel his intense stare behind me! I could sense his liking for me. Being emotionally ‘neglected’ by husband, I was too in great danger of falling for Shin with his continued care and concern…
*Bros & Sis, please give your valuable comment on my postings so that I can improve on my writing style. Thanks!*
rayalpha
22-02-2010, 05:37 PM
Nice beginning... Pitching tent here for more..
silas86
22-02-2010, 06:05 PM
Hmmm, interesting.. :) office affairs.. More please.. :)
shiokx3
22-02-2010, 09:50 PM
Interesting to see a story from lady TS, pls continue...
owlzzzz
22-02-2010, 10:04 PM
hope to read more from U
nice share
Oopsx2010
23-02-2010, 08:31 AM
Urrrr... seems like the story is not well received? Is it due to my writing style? :(
Btw, why did it take so long for my updates to be posted? After I clicked submit Reply, there was a message about Moderation something... how does it work? How to get out of Moderation?
gugugege
23-02-2010, 10:00 AM
very exciting esp reading such a story contributed by a lady samster. sis, u r doing just fine. pls keep it coming. I up u my humble pt as encouragement n appreciation. :)
Tits & Nipples
23-02-2010, 10:25 AM
Nice buildup... :) Pls continue
Punder
23-02-2010, 10:51 AM
i will be waiting patiently for the continuation of the story :D
Plotinus
23-02-2010, 11:35 AM
A more interesting title : "An unforgettable adulterous affair...". Anyway, please carry on with your story.
pluto33
23-02-2010, 11:59 AM
Really interesting story line from a lady point of view, it should be an orginal true encounter. Hope there is no fantasy line. Nice, please go on.
well, at least we have something from the other gender..sure be pitching tent here.
HolySh!t
23-02-2010, 02:02 PM
Good intro...Hunger for more :D
Oopsx2010
23-02-2010, 03:24 PM
very exciting esp reading such a story contributed by a lady samster. sis, u r doing just fine. pls keep it coming. I up u my humble pt as encouragement n appreciation. :)
Thanks bro gugugege for the encouragement & appreciation! I will do my best to recall the events and update as much as i can remember.
interesting.......... do carry on
luckyyeti
23-02-2010, 04:25 PM
the show has started!!! and my tent is all set up!!
continue plsssssssssss
luckyyeti:p
Oopsx2010
23-02-2010, 05:44 PM
Thank you for your feedback and encouragements - bro Silas86, Shiokx3, owlzzz, Tits & Nipples, Holysh!t, d3x2, woof and luckyyeti! :)
And to bro/sis who increased my points but didn't leave your name, THANKS!
A more interesting title : "An unforgettable adulterous affair...". Anyway, please carry on with your story.
To bro Plotinus, by using the word adulterous, it sounds degrading to my relationship with Shin! :mad:
Yes, I agreed that there was not morality in this relationship but what Shin & I shared was what everyone of us here seeking for... LOVE or some form of Love.
Really interesting story line from a lady point of view, it should be an orginal true encounter. Hope there is no fantasy line. Nice, please go on.
To bro pluto33, thank you for your feedback. It is an original true encounter, NOT a fantasy made up. Well, the incident happened more than 10 years back. So I may not remember every details. Of course to protect my family & I, names are changed and some details are omitted.
imaginative
23-02-2010, 06:10 PM
Urrrr... seems like the story is not well received? Is it due to my writing style? :(
Btw, why did it take so long for my updates to be posted? After I clicked submit Reply, there was a message about Moderation something... how does it work? How to get out of Moderation?
I like your story and already upped your pts too. :)
Oopsx2010
23-02-2010, 06:27 PM
I like your story and already upped your pts too. :)
To bro imaginative, Thanks!
I'm posting the next part soon but due to moderation it may be posted few hours later.
Oopsx2010
23-02-2010, 06:55 PM
continue...
Being emotionally ‘neglected’ by husband, I was too in great danger of falling for Shin with his continued care and concern…
Business Trip
Korea
Soon it was time to leave for my 12 days orientation trip to Korea and Hong Kong with Shin. We traveled on Saturday night flight, arrived in the morning at Seoul. Our Korean counterpart met us in the airport and ferried us to breakfast than to our accommodation which was in the factories compound, 3 hrs drive from Seoul. Nothing much to do for the rest of the day as the factories compound is located outskirt of the city, just catch up sleep at the hotel and had dinner with my Korean counterparts.
The next few days were filled up with factories visits, meetings and trainings.
In the evening, usually there were be drinking sessions after dinner. It was important to join the drinking sessions as it was during those times that we got to know more of our Korean colleagues so as to build rapport and working relationship. At times, the drinking got heavy, Shin was always there to fend for me. He tried his best to make everyone conversed in English or did the translation for me so that I could understand and participate in their conversation without feeling being left out. He constantly checked if I was doing ok. I was so touched by his action. I enjoyed being pampered in such a way. I had almost forgotten such wonderful feeling…
During one of the training with a Korean counterpart, K, who was Shin’s best buddy in the company as they entered the company on the same day, worked in the same department till Shin posting to Singapore. K mentioned that he noticed Shin was exceptionally nice to me… he seemed trying to find out if Shin and I were an item which it didn’t occurred to me what K was doing at that time. I naively joked with K that Shin was nice to me because he found a gem! K had this amused look at my reply. In my heart, I was finding excuses for Shin's behaviour. Wanting to believe that it is their culture to offer such warmth hospitality for visitor to their country.
Time flies in Korea, Shin and I got to know each other better through lunches, dinners and drink sessions. He married his college sweetheart immediately after they graduated from university due to shotgun. His wife became housewife since day 1 after graduation. Hearing that, I envied Shin's wife because it is a luxury for us to be housewife in Singapore, right?
Shin said that he admired Singapore girls for their all rounder attitude, working full time and starting family at the same time. Maybe he was trying to please me by saying that? But I did feel appreciated upon hearing what he said, at least he understood the sacrifices and toughness that we, Singapore working mothers faced…
pass9009
23-02-2010, 07:29 PM
hope TS will carry on soon
camping here
funzguy
24-02-2010, 12:56 AM
Good story.. keep it up..
Schneider
24-02-2010, 01:40 AM
Urrrr... seems like the story is not well received? Is it due to my writing style? :(
Btw, why did it take so long for my updates to be posted? After I clicked submit Reply, there was a message about Moderation something... how does it work? How to get out of Moderation?
You only got 4 posts. To get out of moderation you need to do a few more postings. Don't have to be a long one. Suggest you go to other threads and make simple comments. Once the number of your postings approach 10, you will definitely come out of moderation. The (M) letter shoulod disappear.
Nakedlee
24-02-2010, 02:29 AM
Nice! Keep up the story!
nightqueen
24-02-2010, 06:12 AM
camping here for updates :D
affair with korean...
reminds me of my past. hahaha sounds so 'familiar'..
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 11:05 AM
To bro pass9009, funzguy and nakedlee
Thanks for your encouragements!
I will post the next update by today. Stay tuned! :)
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 11:07 AM
You only got 4 posts. To get out of moderation you need to do a few more postings. Don't have to be a long one. Suggest you go to other threads and make simple comments. Once the number of your postings approach 10, you will definitely come out of moderation. The (M) letter shoulod disappear.
Thanks bro Schneider for your explanation! I noticed I'm out of moderation with my latest post. :)
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 11:09 AM
camping here for updates :D
affair with korean...
reminds me of my past. hahaha sounds so 'familiar'..
Hi sis nightqueen, glad to hear from a lady reader. Thanks! :)
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 12:15 PM
Continue…
Maybe he was trying to please me by saying that? But I did feel appreciated upon hearing what he said, at least he understood the sacrifices and toughness that we, Singapore working mothers faced…
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Dinner & Stroll
On day 8, we completed the orientation in HQ, Korea and moved on the regional HQ, Hong Kong. It was a Saturday. We arrived and checked into the hotel located at Tsim Sha Tsui, Kowloon in the early evening. We arranged to meet at lobby for dinner after washing up.
It was my 3rd time visiting Hong Kong. I like Hong Kong for its vibrancy and convenience. It was my turn to take care of Shin as I’m quite fluent in speaking Cantonese. We decided to go for the famous Wanton noodle recommended by the hotel’s counter staff. I couldn’t remember where it was exactly located, it was within walking distance from the hotel.
Hong Kong style wanton noodle is different from Singapore style. It does not have BBQ pork meat (char siew) and its wanton is made of prawn & skin only without minced pork. The egg noodle was very fine and springy type. Simply tasty! Sorry to divert a little… I’m drooling when thinking of it. :p
Shin liked the noodle. He polished the whole bowl of noodle and left not even a drop of soup in the bowl. Maybe he was hungry? After the simple dinner, we decided to go shopping around the area. Just to soak in the local vibe of this crowded city. As we strolled further, we came to Ladies’ street market (similar to Singapore's Pasar Malam). It was very crowded and we had to squeeze through people to move forward. At times, we lost sight and then found each other again.
When I stopped at a crowded stall to browse at the cute cartoon items displayed, he stayed very close behind me. I could feel his breath. My heart started to beat fast, and I felt light-headed… I think he felt the same too because after that he just grabbed my hand and pulled me along while we continued our walk. I was so shocked by his action that I think I stopped breathing for a moment. My mind was in total chaos. We remained holding hands and walked in total silence with him ½ body ahead of me. I felt myself blushing all the way but it was a magical and sweet moment! And I wish the road was never ending…
Although I was in my late twenties then, I was an inexperienced person in handling this kind of situation. My husband (also my 1st boyfriend) and I got married after 3 years of knowing each other. Shin was the 2nd man that I fell for.
Savanna
24-02-2010, 12:52 PM
Now I can imagine what happened to my Ex-WF whenever she goes on her so-called Business Trips with her Boss cum BF...
Plotinus
24-02-2010, 03:23 PM
Pardon my oafish insensitivity.
"So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called."
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 08:57 PM
Now I can imagine what happened to my Ex-WF whenever she goes on her so-called Business Trips with her Boss cum BF...
To bro Savanna, affair does not happen overnight. If there is no cracks in the marriage, why on earth would anyone wants to the risk to hurt their family and risk losing everything. At least for me I won't do that...
Oopsx2010
24-02-2010, 09:23 PM
Pardon my oafish insensitivity.
"So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called."
Bro Plotinus, I don't understand... very chim lah! Can you explain in layman term?
luvuass
24-02-2010, 09:45 PM
Pls cont quickly, LNY is coming to a close lah
funzguy
25-02-2010, 12:07 AM
Wow.. this is a nice work/vacation :) I had mine in the past too :)
Savanna
25-02-2010, 03:34 AM
To bro Savanna, affair does not happen overnight. If there is no cracks in the marriage, why on earth would anyone wants to the risk to hurt their family and risk losing everything. At least for me I won't do that...
What you mentioned is quite true...
She was a Mistress of 2 married men before I met her... Both are her Bosses cum BFs...
I suppose old habits die hard!!!
Savanna
25-02-2010, 03:44 AM
Pardon my oafish insensitivity.
"So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called."
I take thee at thy word.
Call me but love, and I'll be new baptized;
Henceforth I never will be Romeo.
:D:D:D
Camping here! It's nice to hear from the perspective of the woman in any amorous relationship.
I have been trying to find out from my wife whom i am separated from now as to why she fell for her so called boss and thus cause a huge strain in our relationship which admittedly was in a "take for granted" situation.
Maybe it will bring some closure for me.......................so Oopsx2010 take it away with your story
eeemen
25-02-2010, 01:05 PM
Sis, another camper here awaiting for more of your story, cheers ......
yang punk
25-02-2010, 02:30 PM
Now I understand why its so easy to bed married women!:D
Please don't stop telling your story till you reach the end...and don't leave out all the unspoken nuances that went with the relationship. Won't like to understand human beings better...hahaha
Plotinus
25-02-2010, 03:29 PM
Bro Plotinus, I don't understand... very chim lah! Can you explain in layman term?
You had some reservations over the use of the word "adulterous". I was merely saying that it is the intrinsic quality of the thing that matters and not what it is called. I then took the liberty to refer to an extract from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet which fell on all fours with your situation. As you are aware Romeo was a Montagu whilst Juliet, a Capulet. This was a relationship prohibited by their respective families at that time. To this Juliet then said:
"Tis but thy name which is my enemy ....
What is in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called."
Hope this is enough to explain the rationale of my post.
Plotinus
25-02-2010, 03:32 PM
I take thee at thy word.
Call me but love, and I'll be new baptized;
Henceforth I never will be Romeo.
:D:D:D
As it pleases your goodself.
giant underwear
25-02-2010, 03:47 PM
You know I am checking on your thread update more then my shares!
Good story but my coffee is turing cold soon!
diamondo
25-02-2010, 04:36 PM
Please continue. Don't take too long to post your next segment. I have been logging in every hour hoping to see your updates.
Wonderful writing with a lot of feelings. Thank you and please post update soon.
griffon
25-02-2010, 04:43 PM
Please don't let your hot thread turn cold.
Oopsx2010
25-02-2010, 07:51 PM
To bro luvuass, funzguy and Savanna, thanks for reading and care to post your comments!
Pardon me for my ignorance, I don't understand the meaning of what you posted, bro Savanna... :confused:
I take thee at thy word.
Call me but love, and I'll be new baptized;
Henceforth I never will be Romeo.
:D:D:D
Oopsx2010
25-02-2010, 07:59 PM
Camping here! It's nice to hear from the perspective of the woman in any amorous relationship.
I have been trying to find out from my wife whom i am separated from now as to why she fell for her so called boss and thus cause a huge strain in our relationship which admittedly was in a "take for granted" situation.
Maybe it will bring some closure for me.......................so Oopsx2010 take it away with your story
Bro lj69, sorry to hear that you are seperated from your wife. I like to comment on the "take for granted" situation from my view after I completed my story.
This "take for granted" situation is also silently destroying my marriage though my husband and I are still together todate.
Oopsx2010
25-02-2010, 08:32 PM
To bro eeemen, giant underwear and diamonds, Thanks for your encouragements!
Glad to hear that you are 'addicted' to my story. :)
It takes alot of time, effort and courage to recall the suppressed memories to pen down the details... I hope my writing style will not bore the bros and sis here too much.
To bro Plotinus, sorry still cannot understand... can you summarize in simpler and more direct English? Singlish also can! :p
You had some reservations over the use of the word "adulterous". I was merely saying that it is the intrinsic quality of the thing that matters and not what it is called. I then took the liberty to refer to an extract from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet which fell on all fours with your situation. As you are aware Romeo was a Montagu whilst Juliet, a Capulet. This was a relationship prohibited by their respective families at that time. To this Juliet then said:
"Tis but thy name which is my enemy ....
What is in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;
So Romeo would, were he not Romeo called."
Hope this is enough to explain the rationale of my post.
To bro yang punk, 1st of all, Thanks for your points!
Next, I like to rebuke on your statement. Please do not generalise married women as slut which your statement implied!
Have you bedded all married women to come to this conclusion???? :mad:
Yes, I had this one and only affair which I'm not proud of what I had done.
And I do not use unhappy marriage as an excuse to go around sleeping with any other guys who showed me care and concern!
Now I understand why its so easy to bed married women!:D
Please don't stop telling your story till you reach the end...and don't leave out all the unspoken nuances that went with the relationship. Won't like to understand human beings better...hahaha
Cookie Monster
25-02-2010, 08:52 PM
Interesting account told from a lady's perspective, can't wait for the climax! :)
Cheers,
Cookie Monster.
Oopsx2010
25-02-2010, 09:13 PM
Specially for bro giant underwear and diamonds to relieve you from the hassle of constant checking for my next update today. :)
Continue…
I felt myself blushing all the way but it was a magical and sweet moment! And I wish the road was never ending…
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Music Lounge
At a cross junction, Shin suddenly turned to me and asked me if I want to go for a drink. I could only manage to nod my head in my reply.
We settled down in a music lounge at one of the famous hotel. I remembered it was playing Cantonese song when we entered the lounge. It was quite crowded but we managed to get seats. In Hong Kong, everywhere was crowded!
Shin requested the waitress to move the 2 separate chairs side by side. All these while, Shin was holding my hands tightly and had no intention to let go though I tried pulling my hand off his grip subtly several times.
After seated and ordered our drinks with him still holding on to my hand, I told him what was on my mind.
Me: Shin, we should not….
Immediately Shin looked straight into my eyes and said,
Shin: Shhhh… don’t think so much, just relax and enjoy the music.
But it was tough for me, my mind kept telling me “Dangerous! Stop going further, you are playing with fire!” Yet my heart was melting and yielding for more…
We just sat in silence, occasionally; Shin will squeeze my hand tightly, or caressing it like a prized treasure. He made me feel attractive and wanted. At one point, he gently moved my head to lean on his shoulder. I could feel him planting a kiss or two on my hair. I was powerless to move or do anything else. “Just enjoy this moment”, I told myself, “then make it clear to him tomorrow”. I really overestimated my willpower…
Time seemed to stop there. After a while, Shin confessed…
Shin: Lynn, I had seen and observed you at customer, XXX’s office after he pointed you to me. That was before I instructed Ben to contact you for an interview. You were in the opposite room from me having discussion with a group of engineers. (The meeting rooms at customer’s place were all glass partition)
Me: Oh… I didn’t notice anyone observing me. When was it?
Shin: *smile*, of course you didn’t notice. You were so engrossed in your conversation with the engineers. I could see that you are well liked by them, you guys laughed a lot during the discussion.
Me: *smile*, yeah… they are nice people but I worked hard for them too to always meet their ‘impossible’ deadlines. You know, it is not easy.
Shin: I couldn’t hear what you said but from my observation then, you are a friendly and cheerful person. A suitable character for Sales job. And you keep popping up in my head after that.
After saying that, he touched my head gently.
Me: Oh… so you have an ulterior motive for me to join your company huh?
Shin: No lah! Work comes first, you were approached because I felt that you are suited for the job.
Me: Really? Now I don’t believe you!
Shin: Silly girl, don’t think so much.
With that, he gave me a knock on my head!
Me: Ouch!
Then, he planted a kiss on my head.
By the way, Shin was quite fluent in speaking English. He could also speak some degree of Singlish too as he was in his 4th year of posting when I joined the company.
We returned back to hotel holding hands. Our rooms were located at different levels. His room was several levels higher than mine. When the lift reached my floor, I quickly pulled my hand from his grip, stepped out from the lift, muttered a good night to him and walked quickly to my room.
Shortly after I entered my room, the phone rings.
Me: Hello
Shin: Silly girl, why are you so afraid of me?
Me: Huh, nothing lah
Shin: Never mind, tomorrow morning shall we meet at 9.30 for breakfast then go for sightseeing? Is it too early for you?
Me: Sure, I’m ok.
Shin: Ok, sleep well my dear!
Me: orh
Shin: *chuckled* what is orh?
Me: Good night!
And I hurriedly put down the phone before he could reply as my heart pounded rapidly…
I had trouble sleeping that night with many thoughts raced through my head. On one hand, I looked forward to spend the next day with him. On the other hand, I was afraid and felt guilty. I kept thinking how to draw a line with him without compromising our working relationship before it is too late. What a deep shit I have gotten myself into! Finally I fell asleep due to tiredness…
*To all bros & sis, please give me more feedback.
Am I boring you? Too much details? Any constructive comments are welcome.*
luvuass
25-02-2010, 09:27 PM
V good story - slow buildup, I like it. hope I dont have to wait too long for next chapter
irrefutable
25-02-2010, 10:06 PM
Fortunately, my OC is a stay home full-time mother. The moral of your story is that we must never let our wives work.
Mike_JustDoIt
25-02-2010, 10:57 PM
It's interesting to read a married lady's perspective in an affair. I can understand how you must have felt, as it was the same situation for my FB when we started our affair.
Since you said you're still with your hubby to date, I'm keen to know how things turned out between you and Shin. I get a sense that your affair ended at some point, and I fear it may be the same outcome for me and my FB as well. :(
Whatever it is, do continue pls ... :)
Dear Sis Oopsx2010,
I will be awaiting patiently for the completion of your narration.
Your next course of action after the latest narration is the crux of the whole "incident"
Sorry but i may be jumping the gun here. As far as i can guess, your "incident" probably did not work out in the end and things arent any better even though you are back with your husband. The crack has surfaced in your relationship the moment you indulge in your escapade and things will never be the same anymore ............ just a passing "guesstimate"
irrefutable Re: An unforgettable affair...
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Fortunately, my OC is a stay home full-time mother. The moral of your story is that we must never let our wives work.
(Sorry i dont know how to copy the whole text in blue to differentiate the conversation so i just cut and paste the text)
To Bro Irrefutable
Dont be too sure hor, i know of incidents whereby full-time housewife have amorous affairs with other man. (P/S i am not suggesting anything abt yr OC)
The real moral of the story should be IMO never take your wife for granted It doesnt matter how long couple are married but rather the quality of the union
Oopsx2010
25-02-2010, 11:24 PM
Fortunately, my OC is a stay home full-time mother. The moral of your story is that we must never let our wives work.
To bro irrefutable, I think you got it wrong. It doesn't mean that housewives have no opportunities to fall into an affair unless the husbands lock them up 24hrs.
The moral of the story is take good care of your wife, love her, pamper her, maintain strong communication with her, keep her occupied with you so that she has no space & time for any temptation in her mind and heart.
As mentioned in my earlier post, given a chance, I think many working mothers would jump at the chance to be full time stay home mum. Shin ever told me that in their culture, 100% of the husband's salary is given to wives for them to fully manage the finance. Wives will ensure to top up the agreed allowance for their husbands (daily, weekly etc depends on the couple's arrangement). Stay home mothers are being highly respected for their contribution to the families and society.
However, it is a different scenario in Singapore. It takes a lot of courage to be a full time stay home mother even with the support of husband who is quite rare in current economy. Parents, parents-in-law, siblings, friends and colleagues may tell you to reconsider twice. Why waste your qualifications and experiences? Some may even say that you are lazy to work, giving so much pressure to husband to feed the whole family etc etc... All these are speaking from personal experiences.
diamondo
26-02-2010, 01:50 PM
How very true. But again it depends on the individual. If one is well to do, happy and contented, there is no reason for her to be working outside. Running and managing a strong family unit is very challenging and satisfying. She is the CEO of the household.
I love the way you narrate your story. Very touching and realistic. Thank you for posting.
bus72
26-02-2010, 04:29 PM
lol nice one... btw does ur husband know about it though.. sry to say this bus skeli he saw this ar then u know la :(
One_Of_The_Kind
26-02-2010, 08:32 PM
Love affair always great ... bring back moment ... like Alice in wonder land .... ... now the best part is to hear from the lady side of view .. keep going Oopsx2010 ... i one of your many listener ... :p
TREKLIM
26-02-2010, 08:51 PM
Not bad from a lady samster, camping here!
irrefutable
26-02-2010, 11:54 PM
My wife was a banker. Giving up her job was a great sacrifice. Actually her salary was always intact because I paid for everything including the house and the apartments and the car she is driving. On top of that I tell her I love her and she's beautiful and a wonderful mother everyday. If she stray she's the loser.
Oopsx2010
27-02-2010, 12:43 AM
To bro luvuass, Cookie Monster and alphonsus, Thanks for your points!
To bro griffon, Green papaya, lj69, Mike JustDoIt, diamondo, One of The Kind, and TrekLim, Thanks for your comments and encouragements!
To bro bus72, Thanks for your concern. There is no danger of my husband knowing my postings though he knows I surf sbf...
lol nice one... btw does ur husband know about it though.. sry to say this bus skeli he saw this ar then u know la :(
To bro irrefutable, good to know that you are taking good care of your wife and know how to appreciate her. As long as she is happy with you, there is no reason for her to stray. Keep it up! :)
My wife was a banker. Giving up her job was a great sacrifice. Actually her salary was always intact because I paid for everything including the house and the apartments and the car she is driving. On top of that I tell her I love her and she's beautiful and a wonderful mother everyday. If she stray she's the loser.
To bro/sis who zapped me,
I got zapped 3 times in a span of 4 mins last night with comments of 'zapped, I don't agree and Unacceptable behaviour'. Like many bros & sis here, I don't care about points. But I do like to know which part of my story irked you to zap me. If you have the guts to zap me, then have the guts to explain the reasons to me through PM.
genius
27-02-2010, 12:50 AM
No worry, I up you back... :)
To bro/sis who zapped me,
I got zapped 3 times in a span of 4 mins last night with comments of 'zapped, I don't agree and Unacceptable behaviour'. Like many bros & sis here, I don't care about points. But I do like to know which part of my story irked you to zap me. If you have the guts to zap me, then have the guts to explain the reasons to me through PM.[/QUOTE]
Oopsx2010
27-02-2010, 01:18 AM
Continue...
I had trouble sleeping that night with many thoughts raced through my head. On one hand, I looked forward to spend the next day with him. On the other hand, I was afraid and felt guilty.I kept thinking how to draw a line with him without compromising our working relationship before it is too late. What a deep shit I have gotten myself into! Finally I fell asleep due to tiredness…
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Free Day
On Sunday morning, was woken up at 830 by morning call from the hotel’s operator. I didn’t remember arranging for morning call, it must be Shin.
While I was washing up, I kept thinking how to face him. Should I act like nothing had happened? The more I ponder about it, the more apprehensive I became…
I reached the hotel’s café 5 mins earlier, Shin was there. He greeted me with a warm smile. He was dressed in white polo t-shirt and jeans just like me in a white blouse and jeans. What a coincidence, we looked like a couple!
Upon seeing him, I told myself that I must not delay anymore making clear to him not to cross the line. So I made up my mind to talk to him after the breakfast.
Shin seemed to know what was on my mind. Before I could say anything while finishing up our coffee, he said,
Shin: Lynn, I can feel you were nervous about last night. But I’m not going to apologize because I enjoyed your company very much.
Shin looked into my eyes intensely while saying that. I tried avoiding his eyes.
Me: Yes, I’m going to talk to you about it too. It is not right for us to get so close… Can we just return back to normal like previous time? Be normal friends?
Shin: Don’t worry, let’s just enjoy today. Don’t think so much. I won’t force you to do anything against your will. Just be natural. (I think he meant let nature take its course)
Me: Ok, you promise? No holding hands and body contact, ok?
Shin: OkOk, don’t look so troubled, silly girl.
Me: Thank you! Phew… I feel so relieved now.
Shin tapped gently on my head.
Me: Hey, remember no body contact?
Shin: *chuckled* Sorrrrry…
True enough, Shin kept to his promise. We had a great time roaming and shopping in Kowloon and HK island. In the afternoon after lunch, we dropped by Tiffany Store located at the shopping centre besides The Peninsular Hotel. As I wasn’t really into branded stuff, I didn’t know anything about Tiffany then.
Shin said that his wife wanted him to get a necklace with Paloma Picasso design pendent. I actually felt awkward accompanying him to get a gift for his wife. As he was checking out on the necklace, he asked for my opinion on the design. At that moment, I felt a strong sting of jealousy towards his wife. There were few different pendent designs available, I just pointed to the one that was simple and neat. After that, I told Shin I want to check out other stores in the centre and will meet him outside Tiffany store an hour later. I just couldn’t bare to stay in the store anymore for the fear of him discovering my jealousy…
In fact, to retaliate, I bought a pair of same design & colour Latcose polo T-shirt for husband and myself (like couple Tees) hoping to stir up Shin’s jealousy feeling too when I showed him what I bought. Thinking back, what a childish act!
Apart from shopping, we also managed to catch an action movie. In the evening, we took a tram up to Victoria Peak to view the sunset. The feeling was very much like dating. I was falling deeper and deeper without realizing…
We settled at Lan Kwai Fong for dinner. After that, proceeded to the bar next door for drinks. Shin liked strong alcoholic drink, I can’t remember the name of the drink, was it Gin tonic? I tried his drink, too strong for me. As I don’t frequent bars or clubs, shy to say that my knowledge is limited to beer and Singapore Sling only. :p Shin ordered for me a Long Island Tea.
We chatted, shared and exchanging jokes about our family and friends. And soon we finished a couple of drinks. We were in high spirit and reluctant to end the night.
Soon it was past midnight, as we have to report to regional HQ by 9, we had no choice but to call it a night. Boarded a cab and returned back to hotel.
griffon
27-02-2010, 05:32 AM
Thanks for the update. More, please.
Vectra
27-02-2010, 11:06 AM
Nice encounter from a female samster... Will stay tune for more:cool:
manhood
27-02-2010, 11:18 AM
looking forward for more too :cool:
imax1234
27-02-2010, 11:59 AM
Nice one... rolling them out pls... :)
NikonCamera
27-02-2010, 12:46 PM
Hi Sis,
It's a great story that you're pen down and I know it takes great courage. We're all here to recall our memory where it's impossible to share it elsewhere...
Sorry, me not great enough to up your point... maybe next time. Cheers!
Oopsx2010
27-02-2010, 01:21 PM
To bro genius, manhood and goldmember, Thanks for your points!
Though I mentioned I don't care for the points, but it does make my day with bros & sis taking the trouble to increase my points. I feel appreciated and it motivates me to continue writing even though it is a emotional roller-coaster trying to recall the memories... :)
For guys, it is so easy to please women if you know which button to press... :D
No worry, I up you back... :)
To bro griffon, Vectra, manhood, imax1234 and NikonCamera, Thanks for your comments & encouragements!
Struggling to pen down the next part... will try to update within these 2 days.
Thanks for following my thread!
bus72
27-02-2010, 03:03 PM
lol i mean your affair with that guy...
Oopsx2010
28-02-2010, 12:31 AM
Just completed this short update.
Continue...
Soon it was past midnight, as we have to report to regional HQ by 9, we had no choice but to call it a night. Boarded a cab and returned back to hotel.
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Necklace
When the hotel’s lift stopped at my floor, before I could bid good night to Shin, he said that he will walk me to my room. I replied,
Me: No need lah, it’s late already.
Shin: Shhh… let me walk you to your room.
As we walked towards my room in silence, I could hardly breathe, heart was pounding fast and my mind had gone blank. The atmosphere was tense and the time seemed to stood still. I dragged my feet behind him. As we reached outside my room, he took my keycard to open the door. His sudden action caused my heart to skip a beat. Then, he asked me to wait a moment. He took out a small Tiffany's gift bag from his bag and shoved it to me. He said,
Shin: Please accept. To thank you for spending a wonderful day with me.
I was caught by surprise and at the same time touched by his gesture.
Shin: Ok, now go in and have a good rest.
Me: Thank you but I didn’t get anything for you…
Shin: No need, your company today is enough.
At that instance, I didn’t know what came over me, I tip-toe and gave a peck on his cheek. This time, Shin was caught by surprise. Then, I quickly went into my room and closed the door.
It took me a while to calm myself down. I was really touched by Shin’s gesture. If he was to make his move just now, I would not have any power to reject him. Fortunately, he kept his promise.
I opened the gift box, it was a necklace too but not with the Paloma Picasso design pendent. It was a very simple design pendent. I loved it and put it on immediately. Normally, I don't wear any jewellery except for ear rings. But I wore this necklace for almost 2 years throughout the time we were together.
The next couple of days again were filled with discussions and meetings with regional HQ colleagues. Monday evening was spent with HK colleagues for dinner and Karaoke. On Tuesday, Shin rejected an invitation from another group of HK colleagues for dinner with some excuses. He later told me that the reason for rejection was he wanted to have dinner with me alone since it was the last night of our business trip.
Hearing him said that, somehow I fear something inevitable was going to happen that night…
Bangster
28-02-2010, 02:26 AM
He asked you to foot the bill for the hotel and the dinner?
haha
just joking...
musketeer
28-02-2010, 10:36 AM
Hope you feel better after confessing.
nightqueen
28-02-2010, 12:55 PM
really bring back memories leh...
my korean used to call me silly girl oso :(
but well.
life goes on, we moved on. (and im gonna move on right into the grave of love soon...)
glad u moved on too! waiting for next chapter... ((:
To bro bangster... like that not so bad leh, imagine to add on ah, u find that the tiffany is a fake.!:eek:
Savanna
28-02-2010, 12:55 PM
To bro genius, manhood and goldmember, Thanks for your points!
Though I mentioned I don't care for the points, but it does make my day with bros & sis taking the trouble to increase my points. I feel appreciated and it motivates me to continue writing even though it is a emotional roller-coaster trying to recall the memories... :)
For guys, it is so easy to please women if you know which button to press... :D
Thanks for following my thread!
I reckon...
To please a woman; cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
To please a man; show up naked ;)
Oopsx2010
01-03-2010, 12:24 AM
To 2 anonymous bro/sis who didn't leave your nick, Thanks for your points!
He asked you to foot the bill for the hotel and the dinner?
haha
just joking...
LOLz... there would be no more story if that was the case... :D
Hope you feel better after confessing.
Not confession lah, just sharing... yes it helps after writing out.
glad u moved on too! waiting for next chapter... ((:
Sis nightqueen, Thanks for your comment and point. I recognise your signature icon! :)
I reckon...
To please a woman; cuddle her, kiss her, caress her, love her, stroke her, tease her, comfort her, protect her, hug her, hold her, spend money on her, wine & dine her, buy things for her, listen to her, care for her, stand by her, support her, go to the ends of the earth for her....
To please a man; show up naked ;)
For women, you got it! However, for men, you sure that's only thing men care about???
Savanna
01-03-2010, 12:58 AM
Oopsx2010...
Dont mind me...
I am just pulling your leg!!!
Bangster
01-03-2010, 01:31 AM
.. like that not so bad leh, imagine to add on ah, u find that the tiffany is a fake.!:eek:
So it's no longer Tiffany but Ti-phony?
:D
Oopsx2010
01-03-2010, 02:23 PM
Continue…
Hearing him said that, somehow I fear something inevitable was going to happen that night…
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Last night 1
Unfortunately, at the last minute, with the insistence of the GM of Sales we had to join the dinner arranged by him at a posh Chinese restaurant.
I didn’t really enjoy the dinner as I caught a cold and started to have runny nose just before the dinner. I think it was due to insufficient rest from the many late nights of dinners and drinking sessions. As the dinner proceeded, my flu worsen and I used up all my tissue papers. I tried my best to pretend I was ok in order not to dampen the atmosphere. For me, the best cure for runny nose is to take the flu medicine, lie down and rest! I wanted the dinner to end so much…
Shin noticed my discomfort. He requested the waitress for paper serviettes and a glass of warm water for me. At one point of the dinner, he was gone missing for a while. I was wondering what happened to him. Then, Shin returned with a plastic bag containing a tab of flu medicine for me which he bought at a nearby pharmacy store. He made sure I take the medicine immediately. Once again, I was deeply touched by his gesture. He was out to KC me, right? *By the way, I learnt about this word ‘KC’ from sbf* :p
Finally, with great relief, the dinner came to an end. Due to my condition, I was excused to join the rest to proceed to another place for drinking. Shin was apologetic that he couldn’t see me back to hotel. I assured him that I was feeling better and perfectly alright to take a cab back. I bid goodbye to my HK colleagues, took a cab and returned back to hotel with a sign of relief.
Back to hotel, after I washed up and a short rest, I felt much better. Since the night was still young at 9+, I decided to catch some last minute shopping around the hotel’s area. Many shops open till late night. That’s why Hong Kong is labeled as shopping paradise!
I managed to get some gifts and souvenirs for family and colleagues. Then, returned back to hotel slightly before mid-night. When I was just done with packing my luggage, the phone rings and I picked up the call…
Me: Hello?
Shin: *sounded anxious* You are back! Where have you been? Are you ok?
Me: Oh… you called me just now? I went for last minute shopping...
Shin: Shopping? You are supposed to rest after taking the medicine. I was worried when you didn’t pick up the call!!
Me: Oh… sorry… I felt better after taking a hot bath and short rest. Since it was still early, I thought still have time to get some things for colleagues mah...
Shin: Never mind, bye.
He put down the phone before I could reply. I thought he was angry with me. For the next few minutes, I was contemplating whether to call him back when the door bell rings…
I opened the door and surprised to see Shin!
For a few seconds, I was speechless… while holding onto the door.
Me: Eh… how come… you are back early?
Shin: I told B (the GM) I better come back to check on you so left the bar earlier.
Me: Oh... sorry..
Suddenly, Shin moved a step foward and pulled me into the room. Immediately behind the closed door, Shin planned his lips on my lips. I resisted by pushing him away but he was holding me tight with no hint of relenting. My weak defence was quickly melted by his kisses…
I felt like drowning…
gugugege
01-03-2010, 03:48 PM
Ooooh....... tis is it man! so wat happened next? :)
Savanna
01-03-2010, 04:48 PM
Ooooh....... tis is it man! so wat happened next? :)
Shin Caught the FLU too!!! :D:D:D
Advent Children
01-03-2010, 04:51 PM
Thanks for sharing.. Serves as a reminder for guys.. :)
CyberRod
01-03-2010, 05:36 PM
Thanks for sharing.. Serves as a reminder for guys.. :)
Sorry bro... I beg to differ... To my understanding of women, when they have a change of heart, nothing can stop them.
I had 5 relationships and all ended up the same way.. No matter how much I pamper and love them... Had my 1st experience 20 years ago and 20 years later, it's still the same... The 1st time I tried salvaging but in vain... The recent 1 (caught her in bed with another guy) I told her to get the f*** outta my face... And I get on with life...
Life moves on bros... Heard this from Class 95: Life is like riding a bicycle. You have to keep moving forward so that you will not fall off from the bike... How true... :cool:
viperf14
01-03-2010, 05:44 PM
Sorry bro... I beg to differ... To my understanding of women, when they have a change of heart, nothing can stop them.
I had 5 relationships and all ended up the same way.. No matter how much I pamper and love them... Had my 1st experience 20 years ago and 20 years later, it's still the same... The 1st time I tried salvaging but in vain... The recent 1 (caught her in bed with another guy) I told her to get the f*** outta my face... And I get on with life...
Life moves on bros... Heard this from Class 95: Life is like riding a bicycle. You have to keep moving forward so that you will not fall off from the bike... How true... :cool:
I totally agree bro. Once a woman change her heart, no matter what you do also no use. We guys must really know how to take it and move on :)
fairlady12
01-03-2010, 06:09 PM
I totally agree bro. Once a woman change her heart, no matter what you do also no use. We guys must really know how to take it and move on :)
this i agree. actually, how about guys? anyway TS, i love your story, keep it going. :)
bunnyrabbit
01-03-2010, 06:28 PM
guys ah? may look strong outside but internally still love his woman very much! dun u find guys always agree to the woman who want to break in the 1st place but always regret it n try to win her back?
so gals give yr man a chance to say sorry after they realise it their egos playing them out k.....
CyberRod
01-03-2010, 06:43 PM
guys ah? may look strong outside but internally still love his woman very much! dun u find guys always agree to the woman who want to break in the 1st place but always regret it n try to win her back?
so gals give yr man a chance to say sorry after they realise it their egos playing them out k.....
Hi sis, I dun deny that guys stil love their girls deep down despite the fact that they hurt us. But let's face it, 一次不忠,白次不用 (direct translation for our non-chinese bros: Unfaithful once, never trust for a hundred times). FYI, the most recent 1 is the 2nd time doing this to me... I admit I stil love her but I stil have to live for the fact that 狗改不了吃屎 (Leopard will never change their spots)...
The world won't stop revolving for you... We just gotta move on... I'm a strong believer of retribution... So my msg to her is be afraid... Be very afraid... Retribution comes on many forms... Let's just see what's her dessert...
Oopsx2010
01-03-2010, 11:32 PM
Shin Caught the FLU too!!!
LOLz... ok, as you wish here comes the FLU version! :D
I resisted by pushing him away but he was holding me tight with no hint of relenting. My weak defence was quickly melted by his kisses…
I felt like drowning…
Continue...
He held my face in his hands and gently kissed my lips; running his tongue over my lips slowly, inviting me to kiss him more. Soon we were frenching passionately…
Suddenly Shin started to sneeze violently and uncontrollably. Soon, his nose started to bleed and gone into fits. Oh gosh, what should I do? I was panicky! I led him to the bed and asked him to lie down, gave him a towel for his nose bled. I quickly contacted the hotel’s reception to call for ambulance.
Ambulance came and immediately sent Shin to hospital with me tagging along. After rushing several urgent tests done by few doctors as they have not encountered such symptoms, they informed that Shin had contracted H0N0 (predecessor of H1N1), a pretty new type of virus then. He was ordered to stay in hospital till full recovery.
What An UNFORGETTABLE AFFAIR! :D :p :D
Red_Wolf
01-03-2010, 11:35 PM
It an "unforgivable affair". Please convince me it's otherwise.
Bangster
01-03-2010, 11:39 PM
Heard this from Class 95: Life is like riding a bicycle. You have to keep moving forward so that you will not fall off from the bike... How true... :cool:
Must have come from Glenn Ong, right?
Back to the saying....
I thought can put our foot down and rest awhile, maybe scratch backside, then continue riding what....heehee..
Oopsx2010
01-03-2010, 11:42 PM
It an "unforgivable affair". Please convince me it's otherwise.
Huh????
In the 1st place, why are you in this forum?
Who are you to judge me? And why should I convince you? :confused:
zeratul
02-03-2010, 12:04 AM
ignore them lah.. want to be saints yet create acc at here and then look at every story and jerk off. bo liao people
Oopsx2010
02-03-2010, 12:07 AM
I had 5 relationships and all ended up the same way.. No matter how much I pamper and love them... Had my 1st experience 20 years ago and 20 years later, it's still the same...
Everyone of us know that it takes 2 to clap in every relationship.
Don't mean to be rude or judging, have you reflect on yourself why all your 5 relationships ended the same way?
redkop09
02-03-2010, 12:09 AM
Hi Sis TS,
Truly enjoy your story. Truly agree with you tat on the points that constant communication/tender love/care will prevent marriage from craking then breaking down...
Camping here for more...
Sorry cant up yr pts as i am still very new here...
CyberRod
02-03-2010, 12:09 AM
In the 1st place, why are you in this forum?
Who are you to judge me? And why should I convince you? :confused:
Hi sis... There are lotsa fake saints here in this forum. Jus ignore them and con't your story... I believe there are lots of fans waiting for you to con't.... :D
CyberRod
02-03-2010, 12:12 AM
Everyone of us know that it takes 2 to clap in every relationship.
Don't mean to be rude or judging, have you reflect on yourself why all your 5 relationships ended the same way?
I did... I can tell you every single 1 and they are unique by itself... I just have to resign to fate... Dunno why I always end up with sluts... Still looking for the right 1 to come by... :o
Oopsx2010
02-03-2010, 12:17 AM
I did... I can tell you every single 1 and they are unique by itself... I just have to resign to fate... Dunno why I always end up with sluts... Still looking for the right 1 to come by... :o
Oh... then you are super 'lucky' to meet 5 in a row!
Why not start a thread and tell us your stories? I'm sure the bros and sis here are more than willing to offer their views and advice to help you avoiding the same problem again. :)
CyberRod
02-03-2010, 12:28 AM
Why not start a thread and tell us your stories? I'm sure the bros and sis here are more than willing to offer their views and advice to help you avoiding the same problem again. :)
Haha.... I can't little sis... How can I hijack your thread.... After you, my fair lady...
Anyway, for those who know me well will B able to identify who I'm haha... So may wanna keep my identity hush hush... Perhaps I may start 1 or 2 that's I've not told my frens before but let me consider...
Or maybe I should PM or email you for advise... From a lady's point of view... I got too much guys' perspective already... :p
Savanna
02-03-2010, 12:37 AM
LOLz... ok, as you wish here comes the FLU version! :D
I resisted by pushing him away but he was holding me tight with no hint of relenting. My weak defence was quickly melted by his kisses…
I felt like drowning…
Continue...
He held my face in his hands and gently kissed my lips; running his tongue over my lips slowly, inviting me to kiss him more. Soon we were frenching passionately…
Suddenly Shin started to sneeze violently and uncontrollably. Soon, his nose started to bleed and gone into fits. Oh gosh, what should I do? I was panicky! I led him to the bed and asked him to lie down, gave him a towel for his nose bled. I quickly contacted the hotel’s reception to call for ambulance.
Ambulance came and immediately sent Shin to hospital with me tagging along. After rushing several urgent tests done by few doctors as they have not encountered such symptoms, they informed that Shin had contracted H0N0 (predecessor of H1N1), a pretty new type of virus then. He was ordered to stay in hospital till full recovery.
What An UNFORGETTABLE AFFAIR! :D :p :D
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...
It could not have ended that way!!!
You must have caused him to "Nose Bleed"!!!
Was it some SPECIAL TREATMENT/MEDICATION you gave him???
wewe2010
02-03-2010, 02:02 AM
Good story.... Please continue.... Love it..:)
Oopsx2010
02-03-2010, 01:27 PM
LOLz... ok, as you wish here comes the FLU version! :D
What An UNFORGETTABLE AFFAIR! :D :p :D
I got zapped for posting this FLU Version!
Comment from zapper (no nick given): What An UNFORGETTABLE AFFAIR! so anti-climax!
Hahahaha... I can't stop laughing!!!! Thanks for making my day, Humour-less guy!
Oopsx2010
02-03-2010, 01:47 PM
To bro Kingcopa and a anonymous bro, Thanks for your points! :)
To bros & sis - Bangster, Savanna, gugugege, Advent Children, cyberRod, viperf14, fairlady12, bunnyrabbit, Red Wolf, Zeratul, Redkop09 and wewe2010, Thanks for your encouragements and comments.
Please give me some time to complete the next update which so far is the hardest to write... at the moment, I'm still struggling on how to present it.
My apology to those who felt that my FLU aka JOKE Version is an anti-climax to you. Will make it up to you on the Original version. :p
Stay tuned...
Ice2005
02-03-2010, 02:50 PM
Dear TS, impressive real life story. You had indeed double the excitement knowing that you are a gal SBF surfer. Hope to see some detail action especially during the development of the stories.
Well we are all human, always looking for newer things and neglect what we have in hand. That is why the phase " the grass is greener opposite the river bank."
Cheers and hope you enjoy writhing. :D
nightqueen
02-03-2010, 05:27 PM
So it's no longer Tiffany but Ti-phony?
:D
aiya... Ti-phony inside a Tiffany bag can? :D
It an "unforgivable affair". Please convince me it's otherwise.
why should she even convince you ?
who are you to her? :cool:
Bangster
02-03-2010, 06:39 PM
.....they informed that Shin had contracted H0N0 (predecessor of H1N1), a pretty new type of virus then. He was ordered to stay in hospital till full recovery.
What An UNFORGETTABLE AFFAIR! :D :p :D
Still better than performing cunnilingus on you while having a flu. Or worse, you also oral him when you are down with flu....
basically postion 69 lah...
and if he kena fits half way while eating you, I bet the diagnosis from the Doc would not be H0N0 but H6N9, super fast mutation of H1N1 virus when in contact with bodily juices...heehee
Be||aDonna
02-03-2010, 07:58 PM
Nice Story. :p
Oopsx2010
03-03-2010, 12:16 AM
To bro CyberRod, wolf2305 and ice2005, Thanks for your points!
To the 2 zappers with comments of 'no good' and 'for your infidelity', just curious... do you zap me because I'm a woman or you go around zapping everyone who posted immoral stories? :eek:
yang punk
03-03-2010, 12:31 AM
Dear Meimei...just ignore those lamers who deducted your points. Don't even give them the pleasure of gloating over your displeasure!
Just continue with your story...a good read will automatically bring forth the points.
yp
Oopsx2010
03-03-2010, 12:40 AM
Suddenly, Shin moved a step forward and pulled me into the room. Immediately behind the closed door, Shin planned his lips on my lips. I resisted by pushing him away but he was holding me tight with no hint of relenting. My weak defence was quickly melted by his kisses…
I felt like drowning…
Continue…
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Last night 2
He held my face in his hands and gently kissed my lips, running his tongue over my lips slowly, inviting me to kiss him back. Soon we were frenching passionately, I could taste his warm tongue, soft lips and smell his breath.
As we embraced and hugged each other closely and tightly, our lips locked and intertwined, trying to get more of each other.
Then he led me to the bed, gently stroked my hair and face, letting my blushing cheeks felt his smooth palm and fingers. He held me closer and gently brushed his lips over my hair, ears, nibbling my earlobes lightly and kissing the back of my ears. Slowly he moved his lips on my neck and ran his lips over it, sending shivers through my body. I froze and closed my eyes to savor the sensations.
He slid his hands under my blouse, caressed my back as I moaned softly. He then unhooked my bra which I instinctively stiffened and stopped him. Shin then took me gently in his arms and gave me a deep kiss that made my legs trembled. We continued to kiss passionately, and I was totally melted in his kisses. Slowly, almost in slow motion, Shin removed my tops with one hand and caressing my breast with another.
He brushed my hair as he leaned down to kiss my neck, running his lips lower towards my breasts. He licked my nipples gently as he caressed my breasts one after the other. Soon he was sucking my breasts and nipples and I moaned in enjoyment. He took my nipples between his lips and rolled his tongue over them, licking and sucking them till both were erected. My body trembled and he held me tightly…
Shin removed my jeans. He then used his fingers to trace my panties and felt the wetness through it. Then he knelt down and placed his mouth nearby and started to kiss and licked my inner thighs with his hands caressing... sending me shivering and moaning loudly. I bit my lips trying to suppress my cries of enjoyment. With a swift motion, he slipped my panties off quickly.
Shin spread my legs and started to paint me. I started to breathe heavily and moan louder and louder as he licked furiously. I didn’t realized I was moaning so loudly until Shin had to use his hand to cover my mouth. I gripped his head with my thighs in ecstasy! Then I straightened my body as he lay beside me with my legs wrapped around him tightly. I was breathless and held him tightly as my heartbeat started to slow down gently…
Shortly, Shin started to caress my breasts and kissed deeply. His colonge scent was alluring and his passionate kissing made me drowned again. Soon I started to lick and suck his nips while he caressed my body, running his hands all over my breasts.
Then Shin got on top of me, slowly inserting his hardness into me fully. I murmured in ecstasy, and pressed my body to him. He started to thrust slowly then faster and faster, moaning as he fondled with my breasts, sometimes he would lean forward and we kiss deeply. We were both engulfed in the pleasure of closeness with movement in rhythm together, driving each towards the orgasm both so desperately wanted.
It was a very special feeling of intimacy and closeness as we made deep passionate love. We felt so connected, not wanting the moment to end…
After the excitement subsided, out of a sudden all emotions of guilt, fear, love, satisfaction came gushing to me and I started to sob. Shin lying beside me just stroked my hair gently and muttered, “shhh, shhh, my darling, it’s alright…”. It was tears of sadness and joy, tears from my confused and tormented feeling. My tears continued to flow till I was so tired and dozed off with Shin hugging me tightly.
We had the most amazing almost sleepless night, lost count the number of times that we reached for each other and climax. We simply can’t get enough of each other!
I do not regret a single moment that was spent with Shin. It was one of the most beautiful period of my life. All along, with my limited knowledge of sex from husband and few porn tapes, I had no idea what was orgasm. Always thought that the porn actresses over acted. Girlfriends of my age group do not discuss sexual matters amongst us. I realized I had not experienced any orgasm till I met Shin. He showed me the true meaning of love making and orgasm. He also showed me the true meaning of caring and love. With him, he completed me…
~Next update will be about how we spent our time during those 2 years when we were together.~
Savanna
03-03-2010, 01:39 AM
I knew there was more to that than just the "HO..NO.." flu thingy... :D:D:D
BRAVO!!! I am certainly looking forward to your next coming episode!!!
mentholfresh
03-03-2010, 03:20 AM
Nice to read stuffs from a lady's POV.
In life, sometimes it's the guessing, anticipating and waiting that provides the thrills...
I'm waiting...
Vectra
03-03-2010, 08:27 AM
Then Shin got on top of me, slowly inserting his hardness into me fully. I murmured in ecstasy, and pressed my body to him. He started to thrust slowly then faster and faster, moaning as he fondled with my breasts, sometimes he would lean forward and we kiss deeply. We were both engulfed in the pleasure of closeness with movement in rhythm together, driving each towards the orgasm both so desperately wanted.
This part could have wrote longer... But generally it is good, will stay in tune:cool:
A great and lusty account of loss and new beginnings. Thanks for sharing.
garyt1628
03-03-2010, 09:36 AM
The reason you are getting zapped is because you are a woman.
Someone said "A woman who sleeps around is a SLUT but a man who does the same is a STUD". But what if the woman is someone's wife? Super Slut lah.
Double standard I know but what to do? That's the animal kingdom, that's nature. The male species need to spread his seed. Maybe that's why Muslim men are allowed to have more than 1 wife.
My National Language (Malay) teacher once asked us "Do you know why a man can have many wives but a woman can have only 1 husband?"
The answer : because if a woman has many husbands, then her children will not know who the father is!
But that's before DNA tests are available ;)
Anyway, great story.
Savanna
03-03-2010, 10:22 AM
The reason you are getting zapped is because you are a woman.
The answer : because if a woman has many husbands, then her children will not know who the father is!
But that's before DNA tests are available ;)
Anyway, great story.
At least they will get to know who and what their mom is when they get a little older!!!
Red_Wolf
03-03-2010, 10:32 AM
Bro gary1628 had stated the point succintly and concisely.
There are not many husbands who would condone such behaviour on the part of their wives. You may called this double standard. But the book of Genesis made it very clear that Eve, the first woman was made from a bone taken off Adam. Even Aristotle considered a woman to be an incomplete person.
In any case, I am not judging you. I made no reference to you but only in respect of your actions which only God can judge.
Having said that honest criticism is always hard to take. There is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us.
yang punk
03-03-2010, 10:39 AM
Guys...keep your morality to yourselves. We are here to enjoy TS's recollection of her true life experiences. If you want to preach go to your church, temple or mosque... Nobody is interested in your double standards!
Meimei...that was a very stimulating dick raising account...comparable to the best writers here in sb forum. Keep it up!
yang punk
03-03-2010, 10:49 AM
There are not many husbands who would condone such behaviour on the part of their wives. You may called this double standard. But the book of Genesis made it very clear that Eve, the first woman was made from a bone taken off Adam. Even Aristotle considered a woman to be an incomplete person.
Are wives supposed to condone the actions of all those husbands who stray?
You believe in Adam and Eve? Obviously you have a very simple mind. Do you also believe that God made the universe in 6 days and rested on the 7th? :rolleyes:
Btw Red wolf ... quoting bible and watching porn are not compatible activities!
B52bomber
03-03-2010, 11:10 AM
Wow, how can i miss out this thread !TS, Stay cool and accept what is given or taken away from you...life is such there are days that we loss and there are days that we gain..... most important is "never look back"
exskk
03-03-2010, 12:28 PM
wow..nice story. Thks for sharing n waiting for more :)
CyberRod
03-03-2010, 12:30 PM
Guys...keep your morality to yourselves. We are here to enjoy TS's recollection of her true life experiences. If you want to preach go to your church, temple or mosque... Nobody is interested in your double standards!
I agree and applaud to that...
You believe in Adam and Eve? Obviously you have a very simple mind. Do you also believe that God made the universe in 6 days and rested on the 7th? :rolleyes:
...but let's be sensitive when making such comments...
garyt1628
03-03-2010, 12:45 PM
Guys...keep your morality to yourselves. We are here to enjoy TS's recollection of her true life experiences. If you want to preach go to your church, temple or mosque... Nobody is interested in your double standards!
Meimei...that was a very stimulating dick raising account...comparable to the best writers here in sb forum. Keep it up!
Yah, quite true. But just like she buay tahan, we also buay tahan must voice out. But I guess that's her biz, nothing to do with us.
Ok, lah, I will keep my double standards to myself and enjoy the show here.
Now we know a woman's pussy can take over her head just like a man's dick can stop all rational thinking.... I guess Freud was right after all :D:D
yang punk
03-03-2010, 02:58 PM
I agree and applaud to that...
...but let's be sensitive when making such comments...
This is a sex forum, we know why we are here...people who can't keep their religion to themselves don't deserve our subtleness! :mad:
Ecuader
03-03-2010, 03:04 PM
kudos to shin:p hes the man
Ice2005
03-03-2010, 04:53 PM
Sorry TS, a little unbelievable, as you had described that your sex live is normal with your husband and yet your allow painting with Shin without any resistance. Perhaps would be better to include some resistance on trying non standard love making method. hehehe.
May ignore my comment. :D
Spectrum17
03-03-2010, 05:29 PM
Business Trip
Hong Kong – Last night 2
He held my face in .............
................He also showed me the true meaning of caring and love. With him, he completed me…
~Next update will be about how we spent our time during those 2 years when we were together.~
Sis, thanks for the story. Are you stil with your husb?
Your "with him, he completed me" reminds me of my ex-gal frn from vietnam. This is wat i said to my ex too.
!&!!
machate
03-03-2010, 06:36 PM
Very interesting and good story :)
Pls continue
Sorry TS, a little unbelievable, as you had described that your sex live is normal with your husband and yet your allow painting with Shin without any resistance. Perhaps would be better to include some resistance on trying non standard love making method. hehehe.
May ignore my comment. :D
Return You 5 Sweet Oranges!!! :p
qazz qazz :cool:
瓜子瓜子:cool:
Oopsx2010
04-03-2010, 12:10 AM
To bro Casannova03, machoman, B52bomber and ktvking, Thanks for your points and comments.
To bro and sis - BellaDonna, Yang Punk, Savanna, Metholfresh, Vectra, Dufu, garyt1628, Red-wolf, exskk, CyberRod, Ecuader, Ice2005, Spectrum17, machate and qazz, Thanks for your comments and feedback be it an encouragement or a condemnation. Everyday I acquire new knowledge here. SBF is really a place for accelerated learning! :D
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"Then Shin got on top of me, slowly .................................................. ............desperately wanted."
This part could have wrote longer... But generally it is good, will stay in tune:cool:
Sorry TS, a little unbelievable, as you had described that your sex live is normal with your husband and yet your allow painting with Shin without any resistance. Perhaps would be better to include some resistance on trying non standard love making method. hehehe.
May ignore my comment. :D
Bro Vectra and Ice2005,
It took a long time for me to write the last updated post... Initially, my draft was like any other FR which I don't feel right. In fact, I felt naked and like a porn actress if I were to post it!
In the end, I decided to let the readers know how I (a woman) felt during the whole act yet without indulging too much details which is the purpose of my thread. Some of the intimate details are best left private and for your imagination... :p
There are also some questions from other bros/sis about my husband and Shin... here it goes,
About my husband,
- Yes, we are still together
- No, he didn't know about the affair (I think) though I wasn't that discreet during those 2 years with Shin. Everyone around me noticed the difference in me except him. Either he doesn't care or just take me for granted.
About Shin,
- Yes, we didn't use condom on the last night in HK.
By the way, I'm taking a few days off from writing before I start on the next part.
Thank you for following my thread.
rh8611
04-03-2010, 12:39 AM
great writing from sis Oopsx2010.
definitely worth my 4 points of peanuts. up up up!!
Vectra
04-03-2010, 11:00 PM
Bro Vectra and Ice2005,
It took a long time for me to write the last updated post... Initially, my draft was like any other FR which I don't feel right. In fact, I felt naked and like a porn actress if I were to post it!
In the end, I decided to let the readers know how I (a woman) felt during the whole act yet without indulging too much details which is the purpose of my thread. Some of the intimate details are best left private and for your imagination... :p
2, 3 sentences of erotic are simply too short to even start imagine. Hahaha. Try write a "bit" more la... to satisfy the bros here:D
yang punk
05-03-2010, 12:17 AM
Hi Meimei
Take a break to recharge...but come back quick!:D
Can't wait for your next posting!
Oopsx2010
06-03-2010, 12:54 AM
great writing from sis Oopsx2010.
definitely worth my 4 points of peanuts. up up up!!
Hi bro rh8611 and slutwen,
Thanks for the points!
Hope to complete and post the next part in a day or two.
Stay tuned! :)
chick
06-03-2010, 02:10 AM
Oopsx2010,
Sometimes, it's not that the guy doesn't know. Instead, it's a choice he made to keep it within himself (withstanding the mental torture) just because he still loves her and would try ways and means to improve on the quality of life (not just material) between them.
Oopsx2010
07-03-2010, 05:50 PM
Oopsx2010,
Sometimes, it's not that the guy doesn't know. Instead, it's a choice he made to keep it within himself (withstanding the mental torture) just because he still loves her and would try ways and means to improve on the quality of life (not just material) between them.
To bro chick, thanks for your comment. I have my reasons to believe that my husband is not aware of the affair.
Oopsx2010
07-03-2010, 06:23 PM
This update will conclude the part 1 of the story.
He showed me the true meaning of love making and orgasm. He also showed me the true meaning of caring and love. With him, he completed me…
Continue…
Business Trip
Last day in Hong Kong
After an earth-shattering night with Shin, I awoke the next morning with my head still resting on his chest. I listened to his even breathing as he slept and turned to study him. Again, complex emotions just rushed to my head but I was too tired to think.
We were both exhausted from the 'countless' love making sessions and lack of sleep. Finally, had to wake Shin up to wash up and get something to eat as I was famished from all the vigorous ‘activities’. ;)
I was shy to let Shin see me naked in daylight so I grabbed the bedsheet which was being ripped off from the bed during the ‘sessions’ to cover myself and ran to the toilet. I could hear Shin’s laughter for my funny action. Just as I stepped into the bath tub to turn on the shower tap, Shin came in and hugged me from behind.
He squeezed some bath gel, sprayed some water on me and started to soap me all over gently. It was a heavenly sensation especially when he rubbed and teased my breasts alternately with one hand and with the other hand massaging my buttock lightly. My legs started to go weak and I had to lean on him, feeling his erected hardness. He then kissed behind my ear and whispered, “Do you want me?” Without answering him, I turned to face him. After a night of intensive training, I need no further prompting from him.
With my arms locked around his neck, I took the initiative to kiss him hard on his lips and we started frenching. I love frenching with Shin. He always never failed to make me drowned in his kisses and he knew this is one of my weakest link!
Now his exploring hands gently caressed my back with ever widening circles, the tips of his fingers getting lower and lower. The finger-tips of his hand were soon at the top of my crack. I teased him by rubbing my soaped body against his hardness, making him groaned loudly and he squeezed my ass hard.
Sensing my desire, Shin let his hands roamed over my ass, feeling the soft globes as he pressed against them. Then he slide between my legs and pushed his erection into me. I let out a deep moan as he buried himself deep into me with one hard thrust………………
This time, we climax together…
After washed up, Shin returned back to his room to change and pack up. We checked out and had our breakfast in the hotel’s café before leaving to airport for our flight back to Singapore.
As soon as we got seated on the flight, Shin requested not to be disturbed for meals and we fell asleep immediately after the flight took off. We were simply drained out! Throughout the flight, we held hands with our fingers interlocking under a blanket provided.
We didn’t chat much after woken up before landing, both pre-occupied with our own thoughts, occasionally smile and looked deep into each other eyes. I was fearful about returning back to Singapore. I have to face the reality and the consequences of our actions. However, I was too tired to think further. But in my heart, I knew that it was going to be a tough road ahead...
kingkong112233
07-03-2010, 07:46 PM
wow!! impressive! keep it up. ;)
bully
07-03-2010, 11:54 PM
A very nice and well written sis, if possible please include your session with your hubby when you get back home too. It will be more like a mini series drama when we read and follow.
My humble 6pts for you. :p
rooney245
08-03-2010, 02:12 AM
nice story.. looking forward for more....
Rosicrucian
08-03-2010, 03:30 PM
I like the way the story is told but I don't approve the actions.
randyboy73
08-03-2010, 07:32 PM
Great job sister oops (TS)...
hope your story telling intermissions arent too lengthy.. always a pain waiting for next installments...
Oopsx2010
09-03-2010, 12:21 AM
To bro bully, Thanks for the points and comment!
A very nice and well written sis, if possible please include your session with your hubby when you get back home too. It will be more like a mini series drama when we read and follow.
My humble 6pts for you. :p
To bro kingkong112233, rooney2345, Roscicrucian and randyboy73, Thanks for your comments and encouragements!
Savanna
09-03-2010, 12:37 AM
Oopsx2010...
I noticed by the Stroke of Midnight you will appear and disappear in a Flash... :D:D:D
wewe2010
09-03-2010, 12:49 AM
Oopsx2010...
I noticed by the Stroke of Midnight you will appear and disappear in a Flash... :D:D:D
Ha Ha Ha .. Oopsx2010.... Someone is watching you...LOL
Oopsx2010
09-03-2010, 12:50 AM
To start off with part 2 of the story, I decided to pen down a brief event that happened on my childhood life. I heard from some early childhood education experts that early events that happened in childhood will have impact on your adult life if they are not handled properly. I am not finding excuses for my behaviour but I do believe that this event has great impact on my life.
Continue…
I was fearful about returning back to Singapore. I have to face the reality and the consequences of our actions. However, I was too tired to think further. But in my heart, I knew that it was going to be a tough road ahead...
About Lynn (me)
Lynn was born to a middle income family of 5, dad, mum, elder brother and a younger sister. Dad is a traditional man who owned a small business. He spent most of his time in his business except for the 1st 3 days of Lunar New Year.
Mum became a full time housewife after gave birth to Lynn’s elder brother. She is a gentle lady with a spirit of steel. Mum was born in Malaysia but came to Singapore to work at the age of 20.
As Dad is a traditional man, he only pays attention to his elder and only son. Lynn being the middle child is always a ‘fighter’, fighting for her parents’ attention and love. Maybe it was a blessing in disguised, with the least attention from her parents, she was free to make her own decision since young about almost everything. In a way, she is quite an independent and resourceful girl.
In her childhood memory, there was an incident that affected her badly. It happened when she was 10 years old…
Mum discovered that dad was having an affair with a rich divorcee. In those days of affair, dad was a totally changed man. He started to take special care of his appearance like dressed smartly and put on cologne which he never did before. He treated home like a hotel, only returned to change and sleep.
Although mum stayed home most of the time, she sometimes helped out at dad’s business once in a while. So mum knew some of dad’s friends and went around asking them for the contact of his ‘mistress’. Finally mum got it.
On that fateful day, Lynn can still remember clearly, mum brought Lynn and her younger sister to visit the mistress. The mistress was staying in a huge and beautifully decorated 2 storey house. Lynn’s family only stayed in a HDB flat.
The mistress was a tall and elegantly dressed lady with nice make-up. In comparison, mum was shabby like any other housewives who do not take special care of their appearance. Sister was too young to understand what was going on but Lynn stared at the mistress in great hostility. Ready to pounce on her if she has even a slight intention to hurt mum!
Mum and the mistress exchanged some conversation. Out of a sudden, mum ordered Lynn and her sister to kneel down with her before the mistress to beg her to leave dad. Though Lynn was young, she could feel the great humiliation mum faced. All the mistress did was just telling mum that it was all up to dad, she can’t force him to do anything. With that, she walked up the stairs to her bedroom on 2nd storey.
They were all in tears when they left the house.
That night, dad came home after work. He was furious at mum for going to his mistress’ house. They were in heated argument and dad slapped mum several times. Lynn heard the slaps and rushed out from the bedroom crying and pushing her dad away from mum. She too got slapped for her action. After that, dad left home and did not return for the next few days.
Dad eventually broke off with his mistress under the great pressure of his brothers and sisters whom mum seek help from. Life returned back to normal for the family but it was never the same for Lynn.
After this incident and at the age of 11, Lynn vowed she will never end up like her mum who was financially dependent on her dad thus always has to be at his mercy no matter what happened. Lynn also said to herself that she will not let any man hurt her like what dad did to mum. So to protect herself she must not fall in love with any guy. And she despised home-wreckers!!!
Ironically, she became someone she despised since young when she was with Shin...
CyberRod
09-03-2010, 01:48 AM
Hi sis... I truly understand how you feel... I truly do... :(
As for me, my childhood days made me a very strong and independent man... A man that never say die and gives up without a good fight... Never succumb to fate... It seems like you are a female version of me...
Anyway, as always, will be waiting for the next installment... :)
Red_Wolf
09-03-2010, 04:04 PM
Rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others without putting his thumb on the scales.
bigmannow
09-03-2010, 09:21 PM
seems like history always casts a dark shadow over one's future..
terrible ted
09-03-2010, 10:41 PM
You poor thing.
Oopsx2010
10-03-2010, 12:30 AM
Bro Savanna,
Now is midnight, here I am! LOLz...
You are very observent huh! Are you stalking me like what bro wewe2010 mentioned?? :D
Oopsx2010...
I noticed by the Stroke of Midnight you will appear and disappear in a Flash... :D:D:D
Ha Ha Ha .. Oopsx2010.... Someone is watching you...LOL
Savanna
10-03-2010, 12:56 AM
Oopsx21010 aka Lynn...
I am merely an Observant Observer...
When the Cat is away... The Mice will Play!!!
Soon there would be more stalkers awaiting your Presence after Midnight... :D:D:D
Tallchap
10-03-2010, 04:29 AM
wah... i just spent an hour to read through 11pages, gd work for ur story =) Life is short, enjoy what u have on hand =)
Red_Wolf
10-03-2010, 03:30 PM
History repeats itself.
Oopsx2010
10-03-2010, 05:36 PM
Bro Red_Wolf, are you referring to my mum? :confused:
Rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others without putting his thumb on the scales.
calisa
10-03-2010, 06:33 PM
I just joined this sbf today and saw this thread.
I like it.. :)
The part 2.... i felt like crying after reading it. Felt touched.
Please carry on with your story.. Will be checking often for it. Thumbs up!!
Savanna
10-03-2010, 08:10 PM
What do u have installed for us tonight??? :)
Oopsx2010
10-03-2010, 11:31 PM
*Dadah*... haha, tonight I appear before midnight!
Sorry tonight cannot leh, tired lah... Sounds familiar? :D:p:D
Next update will be about Lynn and Hubby. Writing in progress, hopefully can finish this part by tomorrow. :)
What do u have installed for us tonight???
toitoi
10-03-2010, 11:37 PM
cant wait for more story .....
Savanna
11-03-2010, 12:19 AM
*Dadah*... haha, tonight I appear before midnight!
Sorry tonight cannot leh, tired lah... Sounds familiar? :D:p:D
Next update will be about Lynn and Hubby. Writing in progress, hopefully can finish this part by tomorrow. :)
Giddyup and Work Hard tonight!!!
Dont forget to fill in the details tomorrow!!!
gobal100
11-03-2010, 12:29 AM
really hope that you can turn to become a stronger woman. but i know you already did that.
The_Chef
11-03-2010, 12:39 AM
AFFAIR...this word is the IN word now!
Oopsx2010
11-03-2010, 11:50 PM
To bro Goldenmonkey1, Thanks for your points and comment!
To bro/sis Savanna, wewe2010, CyberRod, Red_Wolf, bigmannow, terrible ted, Tallchap, calisa, toitoi, gobal100 and The Chef, Thanks for your comments and encouragements!
Next update will be posted soon...
Oopsx2010
12-03-2010, 12:13 AM
Continue…
Ironically, she became someone she despised since young when she was with Shin...
Lynn and Hubby - 1
Lynn noticed a tall, lanky and topless tanned guy talking to her classmate, Ken, from far when she arrived at the meeting place, a canoe renting shop at East Coast near to Big Splash. It was a windy and sunny Sunday morning which Lynn and her classmates (Polytechnic) arranged for a canoe outing. This was how Lynn met her hubby, Teck, for the 1st time. Teck is Ken’s distant cousin. Ken asked Teck to join them as he is good in canoeing and other water sports.
Lynn is a sporty girl, although it was only her 1st year in Poly, she had made many friends and joined many activities with them.
Teck being a few years older than most of them stood out from the crowd. Lynn was kinda of impressed by his relax yet mature appearance, a great difference from her classmates who were always noisy and excited.
Lynn has a mind of her own. She was steadfast against starting any relationship with her Poly’s mates as she felt that they were not mature enough to know what they want. To avoid headache, she stated her stance clearly upfront and treated all her guy friends like her brothers.
Nothing happened between Lynn and Teck during this outing. They only managed to exchange a little conversation. For the next 2 years, sometimes Teck will join their outdoor activities. So Teck was a familiar face in her group.
Towards the end of her last year in Poly, the guys organised a tougher trip as a form of training before their army enlistment and also a farewell trip before they graduate and part their ways.
They decided to go for a 3 days climbing trip at Mount Ophir, Malaysia. Teck was requested to join since he been to this mountain twice. As it was a tough trip and none of them had any experience in climbing, the only girl who dared to join the group was Lynn. Lynn had no fear as she knew that the guys will take good care of her. Actually all of them doted on her for her easy going and cheerful personality.
The toughness of Mount Ophir climb was beyond Lynn’s expectation. Having to carry a 10kg backpack to keep walking up the slope was not an easy task even for the fit and sporty guys. Just as Lynn was about to give up half way up the mountain, Teck came over to unpack Lynn’s bag by removing most of the heavy canned food items into his own bag. After that, he always appeared at Lynn’s side when she needed help or encouragement to move on. Lynn and her group eventually reached the top in the evening feeling elated! Lynn was grateful to Teck, without him, she had no chance to go beyond half way point.
For the 1st time since she met Teck, she looked at him in a different light. Someone that can be depended on during difficult time. At the same time, Teck was attracted to Lynn’s friendliness and cheerfulness too. After observing Lynn on several occasions, he found her to be very different from other girls. A very easy going girl to get along with unlike those working ladies that he met, required lots of attention and pampering.
After the Mount Ophir trip, Teck started to keep in touch with Lynn by asking her out for movie. Lynn was surprised to hear from Teck asking for a date as she thought Teck treated her like a sister. She was happy to go for her 1st single dating with Teck.
Prior to this date, Lynn had no experience in dating at all as she always refused to single date with any guy. Lynn was not only inexperience in dating, she was totally ignorant on sexual matters too. During her education years, sexual topic was not taught in school and she had no access to any porn materials. She didn’t even know the existence of condom! Teck on the other hand had few girlfriends before Lynn.
On the 1st date, Teck managed to hold the hands of Lynn. Then on the 2nd date, he managed to steal a kiss from her. Very soon, from kisses, it escalated to heavy petting… Lynn enjoyed it but at the same time she was afraid too, feeling it was not a right thing to do before marriage! She felt it wasn’t a decent thing to do yet she didn’t know how to reject it.
When they were 3 months into their relationship, Teck brought Lynn for a weekend trip to Malacca. It was a trip that sealed her fate…
yang punk
13-03-2010, 12:43 PM
Oops! write faster leh... waiting for the exciting parts now!
:p
audi-tt
13-03-2010, 11:55 PM
Sis TS, this is one of the few stories that i keep following. well written. hope that u will find yr happiness. cheers.
nasilemak
14-03-2010, 02:34 AM
nice story u have sis....hope to see more updates soon :)
PepperO
14-03-2010, 04:38 PM
Hi sis Oopsx2010,
Just want to let you know that I'm one of your fans. :)
Kinda salute you that it went on for 2yrs. I've been having an affair with my honey for only 3mths, and I'm already beginning to realise that it's not easy..
Sometimes really wish I were a man, then maybe I would be less emotional.. :p No offense to all the bros here, though.. I've always envied my guy friends who seem able to snap out of their relationship issues real fast and still function well in their everyday lives.. really need to learn from them. :p
eeemen
15-03-2010, 04:15 PM
Hi Sis, spent the last 2 hours catching up on your thread. have been busy these last weeks.
Thanks for the very intimate and entertaining read. I could sense the trepidation in your writing when sharing your innermost experiences and thoughts with us. Thank you for taking the time and effort to share these with us.
Looking forward to your continuation, & all the best to you. Cheers ........
lionking200365
15-03-2010, 04:49 PM
Hi Lynn, thanks for sharing your love stories and extra-martial affairs.
I admired your courage to enjoy love. i also agreed that we should not hurt our loved ones.
Like to see more of your story and know you as friend.
Cheers
Oopsx2010
16-03-2010, 09:28 AM
Hi sis Oopsx2010,
Just want to let you know that I'm one of your fans. :)
Kinda salute you that it went on for 2yrs. I've been having an affair with my honey for only 3mths, and I'm already beginning to realise that it's not easy..
Sometimes really wish I were a man, then maybe I would be less emotional.. :p No offense to all the bros here, though.. I've always envied my guy friends who seem able to snap out of their relationship issues real fast and still function well in their everyday lives.. really need to learn from them. :p
Dear sis PepperO,
Yes, I understand how you feel. If there is next life, I definitely want to be a MAN! :p
mirage07
16-03-2010, 10:34 AM
Hi,
Jus spend 1 hr too reading the thread.. to me is nothing to be ashamed of.. humans hav feelings.. things dun happen out of nothing.. so take it with a pinch of salt.. if feelings r so easy to control.. there will not be an existence of this SBF... lol...
Keep it going...
PepperO
16-03-2010, 11:23 AM
..to me is nothing to be ashamed of.. humans hav feelings.. things dun happen out of nothing.. so take it with a pinch of salt.. if feelings r so easy to control.. there will not be an existence of this SBF... lol...
Bro mirage07, well said.. much as some people may hate to admit it, it IS possible to love someone and still have feelings for another.. :o
shark89
16-03-2010, 05:28 PM
If there is next life, I definitely want to be a MAN! :p
Be a man? Then you got to be the one who has to do all the pampering and showing care, concern and loving to the woman lo. Of cos, not forgetting all the f**king too. :p
Nice story that you have been relating. I'm glued.
yang punk
16-03-2010, 05:36 PM
Be a man good?
We can only have 1 orgasm, women can have multiple orgasms!:D
Oopsx2010
16-03-2010, 06:36 PM
Be a man? Then you got to be the one who has to do all the pampering and showing care, concern and loving to the woman lo. Of cos, not forgetting all the f**king too. :p
Nice story that you have been relating. I'm glued.
Be a man good?
We can only have 1 orgasm, women can have multiple orgasms!:D
LOL... if I'm a man, no problem at all to do all the pampering and showing care, concern, loving and f**king. It is the duty of men! :p
Hmm... as for orgasm, don't bluff me lah, men can have multiple shots too! :D
Oh by the way, I'm tied up these few days. Will do my best to rush out another update asap...
Cheers,
Oops!
Oopsx2010
16-03-2010, 11:33 PM
To bro/sis - Yang Punk, adui-tt, nasilemak, PepperO, eeemen, lionking200365, mirage07, Shark89 and 'my stalker' (you know who you are! :p), Thank you for your comments and encouragements!
Next update will be posted in a short while.
Oopsx2010
16-03-2010, 11:48 PM
Continue…
When they were 3 months into their relationship, Teck brought Lynn for a weekend trip to Malacca. It was a trip that sealed her fate…
Lynn & Hubby – 2
Teck is Lynn’s 1st in many ways…
- 1st kiss
- 1st time to hold hands with a guy
- 1st time to be touched intimately by a guy
- 1st time to go trip alone with a guy
and of course during the trip, Lynn’s 1st happened on………………………………………………….............................
It was a beautiful Saturday morning as Teck and Lynn set off for Malacca by coach. Upon arrival in Malacca’s hotel in the early afternoon, they checked into the hotel. This was 1st time for Lynn to share a room with a guy. When entered the room, Lynn saw the King size bed, she turned to Teck with her tongue sticked out :p. And Teck returned her with a wink ;)!
Then, Teck jumped on the bed and signaled to Lynn to join him. Obediently, Lynn climbed onto the bed and lay beside him. "What are you trying to do?", Lynn poked at Teck’s tummy. "I want to kiss you till you cry for mercy!", Teck replied. Immediately hearing that, Lynn jumped up from and bed and ran away from Teck, shouting, "Catch me if you can!".
Teck sprang up from the bed, in less than 3 strides, he caught hold of Lynn, threw her onto the bed by holding her arms tightly above her head. Lynn was still laughing when Teck planted his lips onto her. She tried to struggle but Teck was too strong for her. So she gave up and just enjoyed the kissing. Slowly, Lynn could feel Teck’s hand releasing his grip on her arms and slided under her T-shirt.
“Noooo…..”, Lynn said and tried to get up. “I’ll be gentle…’”, Teck gently pushed Lynn back onto the bed. “I’m scared”, Lynn whispered. “I’ll be very gentle, you won’t feel the pain. If pain, then I stop, ok?”, Teck said. Lynn nodded her head confusedly.
Teck removed Lynn’s tops and started caressing her breasts. Lynn was aroused yet embarrassed. She tried to pull away when Teck put his mouth to suck and lick her nipples alternately. “Unbuckle my belt and remove my pant”, Teck instructed. At the same time, he removed Lynn’s shorts with one hand while continued to pinch her breast with the other hand.
It all happened so fast that Lynn could not really remember how she managed to remove Teck’s pant. Lynn was shocked to see Teck was so erected and hard when the boxer was removed. Without any further delay, Teck spread Lynn's legs and pushed his hardness into her.
Lynn cried out loudly, “Pain… NOOO....”. Upon hearing that, Teck retracted. “Ok, darling, I’ll put in slowly, ok?”, Teck said gently. This time, Teck used his hand to guide his cock and little by little he thrust himself into deeper and deeper. “Darling, you ok?” Teck asked. Although it was painful, Lynn just nodded her head. Suddenly, Lynn blurted out, “What if I got pregnant?”. Teck replied, “I pull out, don’t shoot inside so no problem.” Haiz… what an naïve couple!
That was how Teck deflowered Lynn… Lynn didn’t really enjoy her 1st love making as it was painful due to insufficient foreplay. But she thought it was normal and all women will go through the same kind of experience on their 1st time.
Subsequently, Teck and Lynn had the floodgate opened. They were so addicted to each other and could make love the whole night long. The 3 days trip was spent mainly in the hotel’s room with meals served by room service. They leave the room only when it was time for room cleaning. What a memorable f**king trip!
alphonsus
17-03-2010, 01:04 AM
Finally you are back :)
eXia-san
17-03-2010, 03:53 AM
Yoz sis!! Nice story out there... Can said it is my 1st time read girl's encounter...kekeke!! keep it on sis!!
razer11
17-03-2010, 01:08 PM
Hi,
Thanks for sharing your experience. Its been a refreshing read. Your style of writing makes me feel i'm reading one of those novels. Keep it coming.
Cheers.
Oopsx2010
18-03-2010, 11:34 AM
Dear bro & sis,
While I'm preparing for the next update, I like to side-track a little to seek your opinions.
Heard from few guys that platonic relationship with girls is non-existence in their dictionary. In another word, there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc?
Appreciate for your frank opinion.
Oops!
JIKED D
18-03-2010, 01:42 PM
Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
It depends ... some are while the rest are not ... it depends if the girl is attractive or not ... some girls are fun to be with or ideal to be friends with but dont have the right stuff as bed buddy
Although my taste differs from my friends, I would have my own standard in the type of girls I want to bed ... and some girls are strictly not allowed on my bed :rolleyes:
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
It also varies for guys ... some will take anything that's walk on two legs while others are more selective
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc?
I wouldn't say that but for girls who visit SBF, they are probably more horny or curious than their peers ... and of cos the wolves could detect that "scent" and zone in for a possible kill :D
thomas037
18-03-2010, 01:50 PM
... there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc? ...
What is your defination or degree of 'friendship'?
To my experience, I agree there is no 'pure friendship' when guy and gal say something like they are best friends. In my opinion, there is some degree of liking and fasination...it is whether their mind is open for sexuality. And I believe stereo-type girls who visit SBF started with curiousity, wish for some excitement in their life (不想白活). Who knows...SBF may open their sexuality mind and getting their pussy horny enough; they may become easy prey :rolleyes:.
Do PM me if you know any successful story about find sex partner or sex buddy in SBF...hehe :p
Nevertheless, continue camping for your interesting story. :D
Decartes
18-03-2010, 01:56 PM
What happened "When Harry Met Sally"?
kick_ass
18-03-2010, 04:08 PM
Dear bro & sis,
While I'm preparing for the next update, I like to side-track a little to seek your opinions.
Heard from few guys that platonic relationship with girls is non-existence in their dictionary. In another word, there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc?
Appreciate for your frank opinion.
Oops!
well, i do hv some some "chio" platonic frds till nw... some wth intention of bedding, some not. i did bed 3 of them, more like a ONS kinda thingy. but we are still great pals whom we still hang out wthout the physical attraction nw. i admit i did hv the intention to bed those i havent tried, but sometimes its "situations" tat forbids or some other reason. so after awhile it tends to die dwn & naturally we became great pals. and for me, its awkward to bed a pal:o
as all guys are generally horny esp those who visit SBF. maybe not all but at least 99.99% are:D so its quite subjective whether we guys can hv a gal as a frd be it in general or in SBF. i do believe bros here hv some platonic frdship wth some gals.
i wont really stereotype gals in sbf as horny or easy prey as usually these gals are usually promoting themselves as FL to earn fast cash or jus plain curious. some even went in to check so as to see whether their hubby surf the forum. i do hv a frd who kanna by the wife by tis method.
razer11
18-03-2010, 04:48 PM
Dear bro & sis,
While I'm preparing for the next update, I like to side-track a little to seek your opinions.
Heard from few guys that platonic relationship with girls is non-existence in their dictionary. In another word, there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc?
Appreciate for your frank opinion.
Oops!
I beg to differ (though i might be the minority).
I believe true plantonic relationship does exist between guys and gals. It could be in a form of normal friends, or "brother-sister" relationship but its a thin line.
Not all guys befriend gals with the intention to bed them (eventually). However, guys being guys, we tend to think/dream/fantasize, at some point in the relationship, about how female friends will look in nude, in bed, etc. Its how most of us are wired. Whether that thought materalise depends on many factors like timing, situation, etc.
There are guys who want to score as many goals as they could while they are alive but there are also guys who can't be bothered.
As to gals in sbf being sterotype as easy, again I dun think so. Maybe they have walked the path and just want to share their experience or let it out so its off their chest. Or they might want to learn more from a forum they are able to discuss questions freely and not with the intention to sleep with everyone in the forum.
My 2 cents.
richie_rich
18-03-2010, 05:39 PM
Heard from few guys that platonic relationship with girls is non-existence in their dictionary. In another word, there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
there is no platonic relationship between a guy and a gal because sex always gets in the way. erm, am speaking only for myself. :p
Romany
18-03-2010, 09:49 PM
What happened "When Harry Met Sally"?
They had sex. I remember this very well. This question was posed to me by a friend in my varsity days. Then I was getting quite close to a lady when I was already attached to someone else. I told him that our relationship was purely platonic. And I was so wrong.
Vectra
18-03-2010, 10:54 PM
It seem like this question of "pure friendship" will repeat once in a while. I remembered this qtn being asked years back. Of course there are many opinion to it. The one I still remembered was physical appearance attract first then follow by chemistry. It take 2 to clap and make it work. :cool:
Oopsx2010
19-03-2010, 01:08 AM
Dear bros,
From your opinions so far, it seems that the better looking the girl is, the slimmer the chances for her to have platonic friendship with guys! Is this considered fortunate or unfortunate, I wonder? :rolleyes:
Anyway, I'm safe as I belong to the non-attractive category. So in my category, I'm still able to form true friendship with guy friends, phew! ;)
Do continue to share your view on this...
I'll try to post my next update within these 2 days.
Oops!
lifescience
19-03-2010, 01:22 AM
Hi Sister,
Obviously from Shin approach, he definitely a very good old timer with experience in his tricks. I believe this is not his first time he success and probably did it many time with other ladies.
He is to experience and control the situation well and can predict what happen next and how to approach you depend on your responds.
However, 95% of the ladies will like this type of approach and will certainly buy it. In my opinion, these things are planned and executed accordingly to his wish and prediction.
In other words, he is certainly sure you will be under his prey.
Nevertheless, Shin and You have a good time.
But, poor hubby that I am sorry.
Cheers
Yen
Oopsx2010
19-03-2010, 01:38 AM
...Obviously from Shin approach, he definitely a very good old timer with experience in his tricks. I believe this is not his first time he success and probably did it many time with other ladies.
He is to experience and control the situation well and can predict what happen next and how to approach you depend on your responds.
However, 95% of the ladies will like this type of approach and will certainly buy it. In my opinion, these things are planned and executed accordingly to his wish and prediction.
In other words, he is certainly sure you will be under his prey.
Nevertheless, Shin and You have a good time.
But, poor hubby that I am sorry...
Dear bro/sis? Yen,
Initially, it did came across my mind that Shin had it planned nicely to lure me. However, I choose to believe that it all happened naturally.
Whether I was his prey or eventually he was my prey, you will have to stay tune till the end of my story... :p
As for my poor hubby, pardon me to be direct, you do not have the full picture to judge if he is that 'poor' or not...
Oops!
audi-tt
19-03-2010, 11:33 PM
it seems that every family has their set of problem. 家家有本难念的经!
Oopsx2010
21-03-2010, 12:51 PM
Sorry for the delay in posting.
It is not a steamy update but rather how I felt in my marriage life. Marriage should not be taken for granted. After all these years, there are no more expectations from Teck. Without expectations, there won't be hurt. Life is just calm, stable but lonely. Especially loneliness, a person can be surrounded by many people and taking part in many activities but yet feels lonely. Don't know how to explain such kind of feeling exactly unless you tasted it before...
Continue…
Subsequently, Teck and Lynn had the floodgate opened. They were so addicted to each other and could make love the whole night long. The 3 days trip was spent mainly in the hotel’s room with meals served by room service. They leave the room only when it was time for room cleaning. What a memorable f**king trip!
Lynn & Hubby – 3
Back to SG from Malacca, Lynn was confused as ever. To her, she always wanted to keep her virginity till wedding night. Worse of all, Teck had not given her any assurance on their relationship unlike her friends used to tell her how their boyfriends asked to be their steady. Lynn just kept thinking negatively that she was just another girl added to Teck’s list.
2 weeks after returned from Malacca trip, Teck left SG for an overseas training trip and would be un-contactable for several weeks. He didn’t inform Lynn his exact itinerary and any contact number. Everyday after work, Lynn would rush home just to wait for him to call but he never did.
A week before Teck returns, Lynn discovered her menses had been delayed by more than a week. Lynn began to panic, with nobody to turn to, she went to the Chinese medical hall to buy the off the counter Chinese medicine for inducing the period. The man who sold her the medicine reminded her that if the medicine doesn’t help, it would be better to seek treatment.
Lynn completed the course of Chinese medicine but nothing happened. She was cursing herself for being so stupid and how could this happen to her. Her worse fear came true after she tested with the pregnancy test kit bought from pharmacy. She was in tears when she looked at the positive line shown on the kit.
With still no news from Teck, Lynn visited a GP to confirm the pregnancy and requested the doctor to refer her to a place for abortion. The doctor didn’t say much just highlighted to Lynn that abortion may cause future complication, he asked Lynn to consider carefully. Moreover, Lynn was not 21 years of age yet, so will need parents’ consent for the operation.
Stepping out the clinic, Lynn’s mind was in total chaos. She could not bring herself to tell her parents and friends about her situation. She felt so ashamed of what she had done. Now all she could do was to wait for Teck to return.
A day before Teck returns, Lynn received his phone call. She was so relieved to hear his voice and before she could speak, she started crying. In between her cry, she told Teck about the pregnancy. Teck asked Lynn not to do anything rush, just wait for him to return 1st.
After Teck returned, everything happened in whirlwind. Teck asked Lynn to marry him if she wanted to keep the baby. Although Lynn knew that she was to young to commit into a marriage and she didn’t know Teck well enough but she had no choice. Lynn’s parents were in shock when she broke the news that she was going to marry Teck, she didn’t tell them about the pregnancy. Being strong-willed child since young, they knew that they can’t do anything to stop her.
The wedding was a simple affair with just a small celebration. Not the Lynn mind, she thought it was the best arrangement as she didn’t want anyone to discover her pregnancy.
Life after marriage wasn’t easy for Lynn. Being a young working mother, she had to learn from scratch how to cope with her marriage life. 2 years into the marriage, Lynn felt like she is a living widow or rather a FB of Teck. Teck has high sex drive but sex with him is always about satisfying his needs. Lynn realized that she had not experienced orgasm prior to Shin.
Teck is absent in every aspects of Lynn’s life… But Lynn is grateful to Teck for taking up the responsibility of marrying her when she needed most. For that, she stays in marriage with him till to-date regardless how physically and emotionally deprived she is for the past 20+ years. Will there be another 20+ years for them?
End of Part 2.
Part 3 will be about Lynn & Shin during their 2 years together.
B52bomber
21-03-2010, 01:27 PM
Dear bro & sis,
While I'm preparing for the next update, I like to side-track a little to seek your opinions.
Heard from few guys that platonic relationship with girls is non-existence in their dictionary. In another word, there is no such thing as friendship between guy and girl. Whatever so called 'friendship' starts from the basis that the guy's motive is to bed the girl.
Is it true? Does it apply generally or only in SBF?
Do you stereo-type girls who visit SBF like they are easy prey, here to look for sex partner etc?
Appreciate for your frank opinion.
Oops!
i only have plastic friendship !
Oopsx2010
21-03-2010, 01:47 PM
i only have plastic friendship !
Huh? What do you mean by 'plastic friendship'?
bloggert
21-03-2010, 02:41 PM
I think he might be meaning to say "platonic" rather than "plastic".
Oopsx2010
21-03-2010, 09:25 PM
i only have plastic friendship !
I think he might be meaning to say "platonic" rather than "plastic".
LOL... bro bloggert, I think you got it wrong!
Look at bro B52bomber signature, 宁可杀错,决不放过 and also his postings. He is a big time cheongster lah! :D How can he only has platonic friendship? hahaha...
bloggert
21-03-2010, 09:44 PM
That's true! Although, a plastic relationship is kinda hard to imagine.
Daniel
killerKIKK
21-03-2010, 09:58 PM
That's good.....cool1
razer11
21-03-2010, 11:26 PM
Huh? What do you mean by 'plastic friendship'?
Maybe he meant Barbie and Ken kind of relationship?
"I'm a Barbie gal, in a Barbie world. Lovely plastic, it's fantastic..."
eeemen
22-03-2010, 11:38 AM
Thanks for sharing your past background relationship with Teck. It is also a gentle reminder, for me anyway, not to take things for granted and to be aware of, and the need to show continuous love and passion after years of marriage to keep it alive and going strong. Kudos to you, and thanks!, cheers .........
Oopsx2010
22-03-2010, 10:20 PM
Dear bro & sis,
R'ced some PMs asking me when I can post the part 3. I'm tied up with work & training. Most probably can only post the next part during this weekend.
Thank you for following the thread.
Cheers,
Oops!
audi-tt
22-03-2010, 10:29 PM
it serve as a reminder to us that do not take things for granted. perhaps its time that fade the feeling for each others......sigh
Decartes
22-03-2010, 11:13 PM
Thanks for sharing. Looking forward to your next part.
nasilemak
22-03-2010, 11:54 PM
can't wait to read part 3 of your story....:o
VanGogh
22-03-2010, 11:57 PM
WoW, I did not log in for 3 months and realised I misssed so much fun here !! :D
Sis Oopsx2010, waiting for your next episop. . ..
. .. .. hmmm, being a naughty old man reading your account, can't help but to hope I can be Shin. ... :D (sorry,, sorry,, kekekekekeke)
Pls continue soon ok. .. thanks...
seeknewss
23-03-2010, 01:48 PM
A nice simple affair, camping here....... Good job TS ! :D
wowguy
24-03-2010, 05:16 AM
Threadstarter,
I empathize with your situation.
I guess the passion a woman needs, if it's sorely missing from her marriage, can cause her to succumb to outside temptations, not that she's actively looking for one.
huntingworld
24-03-2010, 07:16 PM
my dear Oopsx2010,
your sequence of events is more like The Infernal Affairs! (Wu Jian Dao)
Episode 2 first, then Episode 1 then Episode 3.
Anyway, if you are going to make it into a Star Wars Trilogy, I doubt any brother here would complain :P
nice story/confession/letting loose :)
Oopsx2010
24-03-2010, 10:08 PM
I empathize with your situation.
I guess the passion a woman needs, if it's sorely missing from her marriage, can cause her to succumb to outside temptations, not that she's actively looking for one.
Dear bro wowguy,
I agreed with your comment and it applies to everyone not only to women, I believe...
your sequence of events is more like The Infernal Affairs! (Wu Jian Dao)
Episode 2 first, then Episode 1 then Episode 3.
Anyway, if you are going to make it into a Star Wars Trilogy, I doubt any brother here would complain :P
Dear bro huntingworld,
On my 1st post, I already mentioned that I'm not a season writer like some of the bros here...
As I write, I recall more and more events... maybe will exceed Star Wars Trilogy eventually! :D
halcyon
24-03-2010, 10:34 PM
More than decent writing style. Keep up the good work, sis.
andrewforest
24-03-2010, 11:53 PM
Dear Oopsx2010 sis, I've been following yr story and it's getting more exciting. I'm feeling sorry for you oredi as in every affair, women will always be in the losing end..
stupendous
24-03-2010, 11:56 PM
Dear Oopsx2010 sis, I've been following yr story and it's getting more exciting. I'm feeling sorry for you oredi as in every affair, women will always be in the losing end..
You are absolutely right.
PepperO
25-03-2010, 12:11 AM
Dear Oopsx2010 sis, I've been following yr story and it's getting more exciting. I'm feeling sorry for you oredi as in every affair, women will always be in the losing end..
Bro andrewforest... that is so very true...
Oopsx2010
25-03-2010, 12:23 AM
Dear bro & sis, Thank you for all your comments and encouragements!
Managed to squeeze some time to complete part 3-1. Here it goes...
Continue…
We didn’t chat much after woken up before landing, both pre-occupied with our own thoughts, occasionally smile and looked deep into each other eyes. I was fearful about returning back to Singapore. I have to face the reality and the consequences of our actions. However, I was too tired to think further. But in my heart, I knew that it was going to be a tough road ahead...
Lynn & Shin – 1
The 1st year of the relationship with Shin was filled with sweetness and more sweetness. Everyday was honeymoon to Lynn. They practically spent most of the waking time together except for weekends. Being in regional sales post gave Lynn great opportunities and excuses to travel or stay out late with Shin.
When they are not traveling, they would find every opportunity to get their hands on each other after work. They did it in the car at ECP, Upper Thomson, MSCP, Airport MSCP, Cinema, hotel lounge and even in the company’s store room! ;) The only place Lynn disagreed to go to was hotel. She didn’t like the idea of going to SG hotel.
Lynn remembered clearly that particular intense moment that spent in the office's store room…
It was a normal Friday evening in the office. Everyone except Lynn and Shin had left the office on the dot for the long weekend ahead. Lynn was engrossed in rushing some reports to HQ, Korea and didn’t notice Shin was behind her.
Then, Shin placed his hands on Lynn’s shoulder and gave her a good rub. Lynn can feel Shin’s horniness but pretend to act blur. Suddenly, Shin stopped his rub and asked Lynn if her hubby touched her last night as he knew that Teck returned from a long overseas trip yesterday. Lynn dared not answered him directly, jus nodded her head lightly.
The admission was enough to make Shin went crazy! He pulled Lynn up from her chair and dragged her to the store room in the office that stored the office accessories. Lynn knew that Shin was filled with jealousy but secretly she was pleased!
Immediately behind the closed door of the store room in darkness, Shin hugged Lynn tightly and started to kiss her deeply. Shin knew that Lynn loves to be kissed deeply and it never fails to arouse her. Almost automatically, Lynn reached to unbuckle Shin’s belt and Shin reached inside her skirt to pull off the panties. The fear of someone coming into the office made the moment even more exciting and electrifying.
With very limited time before the security guards make their round to the office, Shin turned Lynn with her back facing him. He pulled up her skirt, slipped his hands under her blouse to caress her breasts and inserted his erected and throbbing dick into Lynn at the same time. Doggie is one of Lynn’s favorite position. She can feel the deep penetration and with the continual strong and hard thrust from Shin, Lynn was moaning loudly and cried out to Shin to push faster and faster.
With few more hard thrust by Shin, both of them were in paradise! They stayed and hugged in that position for a while before Shin withdrew from Lynn. His cum was dripping out from Lynn and onto the floor. Lynn turned around and beat on Shin’s chest lightly with her fist, calling him cheeky man. Shin laughed and gave Lynn a deep and long kiss. Then he dressed up and went out the store room to get tissue paper for Lynn to clean up as well as to clean up the floor.
It all happened in less than 20mins. A real intense quickie!
PepperO
25-03-2010, 02:14 AM
Sis Oopsx2010.. *applause*
Your story is getting more and more intense as well.. it is H.O.T. in here! *fanning myself* :p
chikoman
25-03-2010, 09:48 AM
Clap, clap ,clap....look forward to the next episode
bloopz
25-03-2010, 05:22 PM
sis.. great effort in relating your past as a story.. my heart goes out to you and your husband that you have to get married at such a young age due to responsibilities..
remember seeing in one of your post that you are still with your husband, so hope things are better for both of you now tat you are more mature and know wat are your needs and wants. meanwhile, keep the story coming. relating the past definitely help to heal wounds which is why you can manage to recall some other events which had happened..
Oopsx2010
25-03-2010, 11:39 PM
sis.. my heart goes out to you and your husband that you have to get married at such a young age due to responsibilities..
remember seeing in one of your post that you are still with your husband, so hope things are better for both of you now tat you are more mature and know wat are your needs and wants...
Hey sis bloopz, thanks for your comment!
I was young but not my husband when we got married. We are still together to-date. Nothing has improved, instead we are functioning like strangers living in the same house and bed... what kind of strange marriage life I have, something I wonder?
Yes, I do know my needs and wants now. If the affair with Shin happens now, I would reverse my decision...
Oopsx2010
26-03-2010, 12:28 AM
cancelled!
Oopsx2010
26-03-2010, 12:42 AM
I'm trying to post a song from youtube link but seemed unsuccessful in previous post... Hopefully this time is ok. I love the meaning of this song.
YouTube - ???-????? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4_hhPM-6RU)
exskk
26-03-2010, 03:15 AM
Hi sis, thks for sharing the song.... Think that is what most people face in their live. Including me at times. Well, everyday is different and tomorrow will be better ya. Be strong and enjoy whatever you can :p
andrewforest
26-03-2010, 09:25 AM
Hi sis, your song very touching. Life is always cruel where we face different problems in money, love, career etc. Guess most important of all is to have family love and someone to standby you whenever the going gets tough.:(
Hope you're getting on better now.... and moving on in life..........:)
Sunshine_apple
26-03-2010, 09:36 AM
Hi, enjoying reading. Sometime I wish I was being headhunt too. :)
garyt1628
26-03-2010, 10:21 AM
You seem like the female version of Jack Neo :rolleyes:
Apparently your hubby has also lost interest in u. Then why are you still in the marriage when there is no more love left? For the child? How old is your child now?
I am sure you know you have broken your marriage vows but maybe so has your hubby? If your child is big enough to understand, it could be time to make a decision on which way to go.
Why not have a heart to heart talk with hubby and thrash things out?
Sad to know that there are people like you (I know a guy friend who is also like that - I mean no more life in his marriage, like strangers, don't talk, etc).
You should enjoy life with your loved ones. Not be a zoombie...
eeemen
26-03-2010, 10:52 AM
Looking forward to more Sis, and have a great weekend ahead, cheers .....
yang punk
26-03-2010, 04:39 PM
Sad to know that there are people like you (I know a guy friend who is also like that - I mean no more life in his marriage, like strangers, don't talk, etc).
You should enjoy life with your loved ones. Not be a zoombie...
Gary, don't know how old you are or how experienced! Perhaps you are one of the lucky people who married the one you love and the love is still on going.
But there are many people out there caught in the web of circumstances...and are trap in situations that they have absolutely no control over. Even if you have been lurking here you would have read many stories of others' misfortune. So marriage is a gamble...it can go either way. Like you say if there are children involve, adults may sacrifice their personal happiness for the sake of their kids. You'll be surprised how many people are in such situations.
So don't be too quick to pass judgement...sometimes not all facts are revealed.
wewe2010
26-03-2010, 08:59 PM
Hi Bro yang punk,
I can't agree with you more...
There is a Chinese saying : 家家有本难念的经.
Furthermore, we are all here to learn; share our experiences ... definitely not here to TELL people what to do....:mad:
Sis Oopsx2010,
Keep up the good work... hope things are better ....
Gary, don't know how old you are or how experienced! Perhaps you are one of the lucky people who married the one you love and the love is still on going.
But there are many people out there caught in the web of circumstances...and are trap in situations that they have absolutely no control over. Even if you have been lurking here you would have read many stories of others' misfortune. So marriage is a gamble...it can go either way. Like you say if there are children involve, adults may sacrifice their personal happiness for the sake of their kids. You'll be surprised how many people are in such situations.
So don't be too quick to pass judgement...sometimes not all facts are revealed.
Oopsx2010
26-03-2010, 09:53 PM
You should enjoy life with your loved ones. Not be a zoombie...
Hello bro garyt1628,
Thank you for your interest in my thread and my welfare... :)
Maybe I'm a coward, maybe I'm selfish... it is safe staying put in marriage. Why rock the boat when the water is calm? If Shin No. 2 appears, this time I will put my interest on top priority. This I can assure you... ;)
fiendster
26-03-2010, 11:15 PM
Hi sis,
Finally waited till u online. Its really your personal life and we can only read and not really comments much as only "DANG SHI ZHE" knows it well. Anyway whatever u do just think of the kids, do not let them grow up in a broken family, its very painful. I have experience b4, thus sharing my thoughts.
Anyway, waiting for your next installment. I have subscribed to your thread for updates.
richie_rich
27-03-2010, 04:09 PM
Nothing has improved, instead we are functioning like strangers living in the same house and bed... what kind of strange marriage life I have, something I wonder?
hmmm...how do strangers, in this case a man and a woman, function in the same bed? do they screw each other? :p
grandsexster
27-03-2010, 06:17 PM
super story. totally horny. donno how it will end
Oopsx2010
27-03-2010, 07:46 PM
hmmm...how do strangers, in this case a man and a woman, function in the same bed? do they screw each other? :p
What do you think? Why still share bed if don't screw? :rolleyes:
gaipauchi
27-03-2010, 07:54 PM
good story, camping, pls do go on...
luvuass
27-03-2010, 07:59 PM
What do you think? Why still share bed if don't screw? :rolleyes:
In that case u still care abt him n love him
Oopsx2010
27-03-2010, 08:26 PM
In that case u still care abt him n love him
This is the distinctive difference between men and women.
Men relate sex = love... you conclude that I still care & love my hubby because we still have sex regularly. :rolleyes:
But I'm just fulfilling my duty as a wife as long as I'm still in the marriage...
I'm sure many of the bros already know that most of the decent women will agree into sex when they love or feel loved. Of course, excluding FL, WL and those with ulterior motives. Confused?? :D
Oopsx2010
28-03-2010, 04:11 PM
Been sitting infront of my notebook for a while trying to write the next update. Haiz, just don't have the mood to write...
Well, till I complete my next post, in this sunny and lazy Sunday afternoon, I wanna share with you one of my favorite song -- If I were a boy -- (this song tells the views from both guy and gal, good insight)
YouTube - Beyonce If I Were A Boy feat. R Kelly Remix.wmv (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlZwDPFAigM)
fairlady12
28-03-2010, 07:26 PM
patiently waiting for your story!! enjoyed reading it a lot. :)
Vectra
28-03-2010, 07:51 PM
Waiting for the next release till neck long already:p
Humpy Dumpty
28-03-2010, 11:37 PM
"If Shin No. 2 appears, this time I will put my interest on top priority. This I can assure you..."
What do you mean by this? Aren't your interests always being served when being in an affair?
Savanna
29-03-2010, 02:41 AM
Hey sis bloopz, thanks for your comment!
I was young but not my husband when we got married. We are still together to-date. Nothing has improved, instead we are functioning like strangers living in the same house and bed... what kind of strange marriage life I have, something I wonder?
If you had a choice, what would you do to improve your current predicament?
Oopsx2010
29-03-2010, 10:17 PM
If you had a choice, what would you do to improve your current predicament?
If I have a choice, I want Shin No. 2 to appear and this time I will definitely follow him to have a happily living ever after ending. It is time that I live for myself! :D
Oopsx2010
29-03-2010, 10:55 PM
patiently waiting for your story!! enjoyed reading it a lot. :)
Waiting for the next release till neck long already:p
Dear bros & sis, sorry for keeping you waiting... hands wanna type but mind is blank.
I remembered watching a movie quite some time ago. The title is 'The Bridges of Madison County' starred by Clint Eastwood and Meryl Steep. My affair with Shin has 50% similarity to this movie especially on the part that how they ended the affair. I couldn't stop crying while watching, it touched right into my sore spot.
Well, hope to find back the inspiration to write again soon...
Good nite,
Oops!
thickhead
29-03-2010, 11:02 PM
Yes. Read that book; bestseller because it was recommended by Oprah. Very touching indeed.
Anyway, at the end of the day, how much is love worth? Fairy tale romance doesn't exist. Every relationship has its problems. As one ages, perspective change. 10 years later, your views will be different ...
Why am I speaking like an old man? Perhaps I have aged :-)
dl2734
29-03-2010, 11:05 PM
For women, you got it! However, for men, you sure that's only thing men care about???[/QUOTE]
i thought women think that of guys ! it probably right 90% of the time
B52bomber
29-03-2010, 11:37 PM
If I have a choice, I want Shin No. 2 to appear and this time I will definitely follow him to have a happily living ever after ending. It is time that I live for myself! :D
No 2 IS HERE!!!!! kekekekeke
Oopsx2010
29-03-2010, 11:55 PM
No 2 IS HERE!!!!! kekekekeke
You? A Lady killer! You can never fit into Shin no. 2 lah!
My Shin no. 2 can only have me and no one else. :D
B52bomber
30-03-2010, 12:19 AM
You? A Lady killer! You can never fit into Shin no. 2 lah!
My Shin no. 2 can only have me and no one else. :D
how can i be a lady killer when all of them comes out of the bed with full satisfaction..kekekeke
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