Terrible Problem

[dvilla]

Hi bros,

its mi again, i encountered a terrible problem recently. I had not had sex for abt 2 weeks, and yesterdae when i had it wif my girl, i could not last for more than 10 mins, i retreated, hoping to ease the sensation so that i could carry on. But alas, upon retreating, while waiting for it to cool down, i simply had no control over myself and my loads juz dripped out lidat, not even gushing out at all. I felt so disappointed as this is the first time such thing has happened to mi.

Can bros here pls advise ? I'm only 24 btw.

[pachyderm]

Better consult a doc.

[Wright]

I had that before, not a big thing unless it is on a regular basis. No idea why like that but sometimes maybe too high so even if stop, still cum but feeling not very high. I get it maybe 1 in 20 times, probably cos too excited and feeling still strong.

[niteragester]

Anything else causing you stress? but like the previous bro said, best go consult a doc.

[tigerprawn]

maybe u should tell us more about your state of fitness, health and physique rather than just an age. Age is no longer a good indicator of anything.

[michaelrocksam]

you are ok and very normal.

in fact about 70 % of guys dun last more than 5 mins after copulation. Further more u had no sex for more than 2 weeks. And I assume u dun have sex very often. So your performance for that sexxion is above average. :)

U drip out cos you were about to ejaculation, didnt hit climax and you withdraw at the wrong timing. U should have rested awhile after that and continuing having sex u will find that you would have last much longer.

Certainly if you had continue bonking u would have made your g/f a very sextified woman.

next time dun stop after cumming once, continue after a rest and you wun cum so early :D

Dun worry u are very normal and no problem with your body.

Formula for better sex = have more sex and your dick will be train to last longer. If you practice PCC start stop it will help over long term.

[tantanmoe]

actually general fitness is also important, so regular jogging or interval sprinting then stop then sprint again helps

[cumfast]

you are ok and very normal.

in fact about 70 % of guys dun last more than 5 mins after copulation. Further more u had no sex for more than 2 weeks. And I assume u dun have sex very often. So your performance for that sexxion is above average. :)

U drip out cos you were about to ejaculation, didnt hit climax and you withdraw at the wrong timing. U should have rested awhile after that and continuing having sex u will find that you would have last much longer.

Certainly if you had continue bonking u would have made your g/f a very sextified woman.

next time dun stop after cumming once, continue after a rest and you wun cum so early :D

Dun worry u are very normal and no problem with your body.

Formula for better sex = have more sex and your dick will be train to last longer. If you practice PCC start stop it will help over long term.

I agree with michaelrocksam... there is nothing wrong with you and if you had rested for awhile, you would have lasted quite well.

Based on my personal experience - I am 26-27 - it is normal to not last for 10 mins after having no sex for 2 weeks. I also had encountered cum leaking out after trying to withdraw. There is no sensation of ejaculation but it just leaks out. Actually, that is better because you don't feel like you just came.

After awhile, you should be able to get hard again without being sore. I think you felt that it was a problem so you probably couldn't get hard / wasn't able to have sex again immediately?

There is no problem! Don't worry!

[alvin36]

Hi bros,

its mi again, i encountered a terrible problem recently. I had not had sex for abt 2 weeks, and yesterdae when i had it wif my girl, i could not last for more than 10 mins, i retreated, hoping to ease the sensation so that i could carry on. But alas, upon retreating, while waiting for it to cool down, i simply had no control over myself and my loads juz dripped out lidat, not even gushing out at all. I felt so disappointed as this is the first time such thing has happened to mi.

Can bros here pls advise ? I'm only 24 btw.

If you can continuously "pump and thrust" for 10 minutes... should be NOT BAD already. Why did you pull out ?

Anyway, is just one incident. No need to panic :)
Do you visit FL or commercial sex ?
If yes.. try with them... see how your little bro perform :)

[dvilla]

michaelrocksam and bro cumfast, thanks for the advice. And bro alvin36, i pulled out becos i felt like cuming initially, therefore i pulled out to cool down, but like i said, it had not happened b4, the cum juz drip out.

In response to bros who asked abt my general fitness, i haf to admit i haf not been running or rather exercising regularly, perhaps tats the real reason behind my under performance?

And its a relief to hear that i am normal =)

[pokeman71]

if i one week no do, i think i can last 5min i very happy liao

[{SPUD}]

However, I beg to be different and please check with a doctor if the situation persist. As far as I understanding, not having sex for 2 weeks is not a long time as well. I don't have sex for a month or 2 and when I do it again, it takes at least 15minutes before ejeculation.

If your problem is not psychological issue, then you better see a doc. Just make sure that it is not a psychological issue.

Also, pls do not conveniently brush aside that you are not exercising etc. You don't need to be very fit and it works when you are just normal. Some bros is asking your body condition checking if you are healthy (meaning severely overweight etc) to have better understanding. If you can afford the time to exercise, pls do it for your health but if you are thinking that exercising is going to solve the problem when you have a problem, then it will be very wrong, mate.

P.S. I just state the fact and he who cannot perform zap me 3 points. Kiddo!

[alvin36]

if i one week no do, i think i can last 5min i very happy liao


hahaha.. me too...

In fact, when pumping my OC... I think I last the longest (about 10-15minutes), maybe lack of thrills already.

When pumping FB.... usually I only last about 5 minutes (referring to penetration and pumping, not including foreplay and oral). I ever use phone to video shot sex with her. And the pumping last only 4-5 minutes !! I thought it was quite long and tiring already, but looking at the video in phone, is only 4-5 minutes !

Sometimes I wonder guys who can pump and last so long (I consider more than 15 minutes of pumping is long time) .. are they really enjoying ? not tiring ?

Last long is because enjoying or because cannot cum :confused: This is hard to say....

Anyway, last long or not.. is not the main thing. The most important thing is to make the cum before we shoot. That is at least mission accomplished :D

[snooker]

However, I beg to be different and please check with a doctor if the situation persist. As far as I understanding, not having sex for 2 weeks is not a long time as well. I don't have sex for a month or 2 and when I do it again, it takes at least 15minutes before ejeculation.


If minus foreplay n u can thrust for 15 mins non stop..the girl will surely complain of sore pussy the next day:p

If u do that to PRC fl, I guarantee she will ask" you can come or not, I'll help u wank it out?"

because they know their pussy a bit loose n some men had difficulty climaxing due to insufficient grip/tightness

[reflexk]

I'm in mid 20s, had been a virgin till about 3 weeks ago, had 5-6 sex times after that, but except for the first time, I never lasted more than 2-3 minutes (gf wanted to take it out many times due to discomfort, as she too was a virgin).. Though we were used to do everything before, I was never able to bring her to an orgasm. I Did all I can imagine of doing, but no results :o.. We thought it would get better once we have penetrative sex (though we both were kinda conservative and held on as far as we could), but looks like it doesn't help at all.. any advices would be welcome

I am uncircumcised and used to masturbate without touching glans, can last 10-15 mins while masturbation.. As for her, she never touched herself down, and never had an orgasm in life.

Comparing with my case, TS should feel damn lucky orready..

[snooker]

I'm in mid 20s, had been a virgin till about 3 weeks ago, had 5-6 sex times after that, but except for the first time, I never lasted more than 2-3 minutes (gf wanted to take it out many times due to discomfort, as she too was a virgin).. Though we were used to do everything before, I was never able to bring her to an orgasm. I Did all I can imagine of doing, but no results :o.. We thought it would get better once we have penetrative sex (though we both were kinda conservative and held on as far as we could), but looks like it doesn't help at all.. any advices would be welcome

I am uncircumcised and used to masturbate without touching glans, can last 10-15 mins while masturbation.. As for her, she never touched herself down, and never had an orgasm in life.

Comparing with my case, TS should feel damn lucky orready..

your problem is easily fixed, as for your GF not being able to orgasm...send her to me n I'll do what I can:p

[dvilla]

thanks bros for all the suggestions and advice and juz to answer to the health condition, im not overweight at all, juz average built. Its a one off thing as during mustabation i can control the timing as well.

I din noe by discussing my problem here, will get zapped 2 points, its juz my problem, and im not supposed to discuss it here, in the adult discussions abt sex?

Speechless, thanks alot bros

[kiasuking]

Young man.. where got problem. 2 weeks no release, your sperm bank is just waiting to be unloaded. Just when you are going to shoot, you tried to stop but your army just not so patient after so long.

When I was at your age, I masterbate 2 times b4 finding a gal to f. Then I can control well and last very long. :D

[alvin36]

I'm in mid 20s, had been a virgin till about 3 weeks ago, had 5-6 sex times after that, but except for the first time, I never lasted more than 2-3 minutes (gf wanted to take it out many times due to discomfort, as she too was a virgin).. Though we were used to do everything before, I was never able to bring her to an orgasm. I Did all I can imagine of doing, but no results :o.. We thought it would get better once we have penetrative sex (though we both were kinda conservative and held on as far as we could), but looks like it doesn't help at all.. any advices would be welcome

I am uncircumcised and used to masturbate without touching glans, can last 10-15 mins while masturbation.. As for her, she never touched herself down, and never had an orgasm in life.

Comparing with my case, TS should feel damn lucky orready..

There are many reasons why she never experienced orgasm.... maybe due to :
1. mental block, is her mindset. She is afraid of pain, or she think sex is dirty
2. if she is green, try to get her watch romatic porn, that lead to romantic sex
3. get the atmosphere right for her. for example, go for a short trip
4. try touching, kissing, lick her body and lick her pussy.
5. If she is conservative and green, dont try to do anything erotic or pervertic