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maxpee88
07-12-2010, 12:50 PM
Hi fellow Sis and Bros

I started a recent thread on JG a few weeks back and the topic was if men go and JG, how does the gf/spouse react if they found out. So thanks and many more thanks for ongoing comment.

Here is another poser for your comments. And I welcome all Sis and Bros' comments and posting.

Which in your humble opinion is the lesser of the evils :
a. Having found out your bf/hubby getting HJ outside while having a massage
b. Having found out your b/f/hubby getting BJ outside while having a massage
c. Having found out your bf/hubby getting FJ outside while having a massage

Ok - it is a simplistic scenario. Just focus on those 3. and I welcome all discussions and opinions and comments.

Those who feel offended, pls dun flame me or zap me, This is afterall a Adult Discussion section.

beancurd
07-12-2010, 03:54 PM
handjob? it shows some restraint despite having a lack of control. BJ and FJ is equally sinful.

hrodger25
07-12-2010, 04:38 PM
Hi fellow Sis and Bros

I started a recent thread on JG a few weeks back and the topic was if men go and JG, how does the gf/spouse react if they found out. So thanks and many more thanks for ongoing comment.

Here is another poser for your comments. And I welcome all Sis and Bros' comments and posting.

Which in your humble opinion is the lesser of the evils :
a. Having found out your bf/hubby getting HJ outside while having a massage
b. Having found out your b/f/hubby getting BJ outside while having a massage
c. Having found out your bf/hubby getting FJ outside while having a massage

Ok - it is a simplistic scenario. Just focus on those 3. and I welcome all discussions and opinions and comments.

Those who feel offended, pls dun flame me or zap me, This is afterall a Adult Discussion section.

My opinions will be :

a. If found out, jialat.
b. If found out, more jialat.
c. If found out, most jialat.

Based on these since all are jialat, do all and still same jialat from gf/spouse.

So just do our usual F&F and remember to wipe clean clean.Do not leave any trail behind your back....:D

dodo654321
07-12-2010, 04:41 PM
My opinions will be :

a. If found out, jialat.
b. If found out, more jialat.
c. If found out, most jialat.

Based on these since all are jialat, do all and still same jialat from gf/spouse.

So just do our usual F&F and remember to wipe clean clean.Do not leave any trail behind your back....:D

LOL!!!! How true how true!!! make me laugh today so 7 stick gudang garam for you!:p

sex crusader
07-12-2010, 05:44 PM
Ts, i think u sibei borliao lor! They are not sins at all, is just that you can't give them at home so they have to go outside and get it lor...understand bor?:rolleyes:

sibaysong4u
07-12-2010, 06:04 PM
Since all oso sin, might as well go for CIM,BBBJ,DP & Anal. Enjoy the sin:D

alan0338
07-12-2010, 06:12 PM
time to change the scenario la, always asking the ladies for opinion, should give us guys a chance to voice out ma. :p :D

teebs_darklord
07-12-2010, 06:14 PM
time to change the scenario la, always asking the ladies for opinion, should give us guys a chance to voice out ma. :p :D

He already say welcome all bros and sis comments mah...:D

Chery QQ
07-12-2010, 08:01 PM
Less Sinful ?

Maybe we can add another term "VJ".

VJ = Visual Job

The FL strip, moans, chut all patterns to seduce, arose you but without touching. You just PCC yourself. This should be less sinful ba?

mmhunter
07-12-2010, 09:05 PM
Hi fellow Sis and Bros

I started a recent thread on JG a few weeks back and the topic was if men go and JG, how does the gf/spouse react if they found out. So thanks and many more thanks for ongoing comment.

Here is another poser for your comments. And I welcome all Sis and Bros' comments and posting.

Which in your humble opinion is the lesser of the evils :
a. Having found out your bf/hubby getting HJ outside while having a massage
b. Having found out your b/f/hubby getting BJ outside while having a massage
c. Having found out your bf/hubby getting FJ outside while having a massage

.

go ask your gf and let us know what she thinks

boreas174
07-12-2010, 09:47 PM
definitely i think HJ is less sinful :cool:

Erasure
07-12-2010, 11:27 PM
Hi fellow Sis and Bros

Which in your humble opinion is the lesser of the evils :
a. Having found out your bf/hubby getting HJ outside while having a massage
b. Having found out your b/f/hubby getting BJ outside while having a massage
c. Having found out your bf/hubby getting FJ outside while having a massage



What if I get a hj from the masseur first, followed by bj and finally fj, does that makes me super jialat?

Alf1977
07-12-2010, 11:32 PM
If the motive of going for a massage is because of the extra service(s), be it HJ,BJ or FJ, it's sinful... It just goes to show how incapable yr gf/wife is.. But if you r single, I don't think it's any sinful at all.. Just that it's bit stupid to pay to fuck gals.. I think free fuck with horny girls is the best!

magixskin
08-12-2010, 12:24 AM
A Guy's point of view:

Sex is evil
Evil is sin
Sin is forgiven
So let's begin

no offense meant :)

F400
08-12-2010, 04:17 AM
My 2 cents worth:

Hj and bj is a lesser sin... Only the man receives and being pleasured.

I view that FJ is like sharing the whole process with each other.

Don't know how to explain this, just to share this experience with my fellow samster, during one of my trip overseas(Ansterdam) with my wife, we went to the legal brothel that lined the streets.

My wife wanted something different we agreed to have a pro with us, can do anything with her except Having sex with the pro. I had the best HJ and BJ in my life that day and in the presence of my wife, in return I must allows the pro to finger and paint my wife.

It was a sight to behold to see another girl making out with my wife. I couldn't take it, bonked my wife hard that day but I cum on the pro.

I hope you get my point.

jasdude
08-12-2010, 04:22 AM
whatever you do , its only sinful when you get caught . cos you will not hesitate when its given to you . :D

sammyboyboy
08-12-2010, 08:31 AM
whatever you do , its only sinful when you get caught . cos you will not hesitate when its given to you . :D

Nike say, Just do it.
:)

threetreasure
08-12-2010, 08:37 AM
whether is less sinful or most sinful, is still sinful, so wad the different? if ur gf/wife know abt it, even is so called less sinful, they may feel is still sinful in ur action... unless u assume ur gf/wife dun mind u go for those "less sinful" stuff.. of course.. there are gf/wife who dun mind at all....

to me, honestly i felt is all sinful, if u assume it is sinful in the 1st place.. i mean there is no so called less or more sinful... as another bro mentioned, to someone, is not sinful at all.. so is subjective to individual thinking...

thanks

jasdude
08-12-2010, 09:51 AM
Nike say, Just do it.
:)

like wat we are taught in the army . everything is fine , you can do whatever you want but just don't get caught !:D

NewMartin
08-12-2010, 10:23 AM
Whatever you do, make sure that you always have a condom with you so you can avoid bad accidents! Always remember that AIDS is still around and it does not give a break to anyone!

Cheating on someone is not a good thing, but if you ever are in such a situation (for example when you are on holidays with your friends, or in a professional trip), have these questions in mind. It is nice if you can avoid the “traps”, but one night stands are not a huge mistake.

If you are in love with the new person you have met, then this is another story and the best thing you can do is to break up with your current Gerfriend. Good luck with your new fling!:)

freezetheDB
08-12-2010, 03:57 PM
HJ less sinful as it can be considered as a massage of the groin

and less risk as well

newyorker88
08-12-2010, 04:04 PM
HJ, BJ, FJ, all consider about the same.

Matter most is not to get attached to someone else when you have a steady one.

Just to note that Monica Lewinsky BJ on Clinton, and Hilliary admitted sh would love to wringle his neck, and imagine, if she did a FJ on Clinton, what would Hillary do to Bill?

ken_v2
08-12-2010, 04:43 PM
just asked bill clinton who got a bj on the job. no sin.. :D

suce55
08-12-2010, 05:23 PM
everything is fine .....:D

Look, why are H, B & F sins in the 1st place???

If (BIG IF) they are sins then there is no 'lesser' or "seriouser", commit means guilty as charged!!

The correct attitude is; they are not sins if u did not commit any to 'do it' eg. adultery, lying etc.

That is the real sin, to 'do it' by way of sinning.

So by logic, monetary exchage for sex, 'in love' sex are NOT sins !!!

Cheers!!

hamsapkwai
08-12-2010, 09:58 PM
HJ is no sin if you do it yourself :D

kick_ass
08-12-2010, 10:50 PM
My opinions will be :

a. If found out, jialat.
b. If found out, more jialat.
c. If found out, most jialat.

Based on these since all are jialat, do all and still same jialat from gf/spouse.

So just do our usual F&F and remember to wipe clean clean.Do not leave any trail behind your back....:D

to me all 3 also same consequences.

wifes can sue u for divorce and take half of wat u hv.

gfs will break up wth u & may even destroy half of wat u hv (as in house hold items)

worst of all, they may sniped off half of "wat u hv"

maxpee88
09-12-2010, 08:46 PM
Dear Sis and Bros

First let me say : A sincere Thank You and Appreciation for all comments in this discussion thread. I know it may sound like boh liao or that a sin is a sin mah... where got lesser sin leh?

What I meant was that if supposing (and this is really for the sis to comment) CO/GF finds out one day you just visited a Massage parlor which is known to offer special (happy endings) and your CO/GF knows it for sure and YOU CAN'T deny it.. so from a woman's perspective which is more forgiveable or lesser evil from their perspective lor...

And from the Bros point of view, then if you were in that situation, I like to get the discussion and sharing session going on how so to explain to your GF/CO that having a HJ is not as serious as havving a BJ or FJ because there is no exchange of body fluids... etc...

Thanks everyone for jumping into this discussion thread.

Chery QQ
09-12-2010, 08:55 PM
And from the Bros point of view, then if you were in that situation, I like to get the discussion and sharing session going on how so to explain to your GF/CO that having a HJ is not as serious as havving a BJ or FJ because there is no exchange of body fluids... etc...

Let say you find out your gf/wife went hotel with her ex-bf and caught by you, your gf/wife later confessed that she did not have sex but just been fingered by her ex-bf and Of cos she also tell you tat there is no exchange of body fluids.

Is it less sinful or you are less angry hearing that?