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self_reserved
29-12-2010, 02:02 AM
the thread "How? (http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=222350)" inspired me to start a thread,

my case is similar to the TS.
except that she is single, and had been to my place twice in two weeks.
we were decent, just watching movies and playing games.

my mum likes her and she likes my mum alot too.
she even told me that she would drop by often for some chill out.

the thing is i really like her,want her to be my girl but she rejected me many times.she likes me as a buddy.
she said she never been to her buddy's house last time, not even once. (i felt really honored and happy at that moment)

she initiated to ask me out recently, which she never did it to the other guy whom she rejected, and whom she have known for 7 years.
her rejection towards me maybe due to no chemistry, commitments, and maybe, her personal health problem which i shall not disclose.

putting affairs of the heart aside, i did attempted to chat dirty with her once but she said she does not like it (a mild one like, are you a virgin?which she rejected to answer.and you dislike the topic of sex?) so since then, i never do that anymore.
i ever thought of how horny is this girl since she has been single for quite long, doesn't she have the needs? why does she dislike the topic of sex?

even thought of asking her to be my fling since she is single and i am rejected everytime,by her. but i do not wish to jeopardize our buddyship.
just hope that she falls in love with me ,due to our better bonding in friendship day by day (not because of making it out with her, but because i really like her :))

on the other hand,i am yearning to kiss her lips,or at least, hugging her but it seems impossible.feel like trying it someday when she comes over my place, but i am afraid of the negative outcome. because it is like a force action to someone who has no feel for me.
her initiating of asking me out and the better bonding between us,only makes me fell for her more. :mad:

my apology if this thread is not sex related lol. :rolleyes:
happy new year to all in advance. :D

jasdude
29-12-2010, 02:12 AM
wow wow wow ! rare extinct couple indeed . but for sure once you upz her she will stick to you like glue. you sure she is the one for you !

self_reserved
29-12-2010, 02:21 AM
wow wow wow ! rare extinct couple indeed . but for sure once you upz her she will stick to you like glue. you sure she is the one for you !

why rare extinct????
we are not couple! we are just buddies!
definitely i do not mind a sticking gf ,seriously. at least i am missed by her everytime, sweet SMS, sweet little nothings (which i don't think it's her style lol)

on the contrary, i like a sticky gf. that's provided i love her very much!

self_reserved
29-12-2010, 06:31 PM
what would you do if you were me, peeps?:rolleyes:

naturegreen
29-12-2010, 07:34 PM
Trust me, some girls kay siao only....

alan0338
29-12-2010, 08:03 PM
Trust me, some girls kay siao only....

100% agreed :D

Klein76
29-12-2010, 08:14 PM
Trust me, some girls kay siao only....

This part i had to agree with you , TS should also play hard to get at time and kay siao abit too .. ;) Good luck

Poolball_Kia
29-12-2010, 10:03 PM
how old are you bro? and how old is the girl?

bonkster
29-12-2010, 10:50 PM
Think it's time TS introduce some alcohol to 'jie jiu xing xiong'. :D

shwuang
29-12-2010, 11:34 PM
Simple, play the 'blow hot and cold' game.

You played it hot, now its time to play it cold. Invite her over to your place and ignore her by watching television. When she tries engaging you in conversation, reply with 'yes or no' answers.

Do not give in even if your mother scolds you in front of her.

Then at a timing (which you must look out for), blow hot again.

Women love it when men treat them this way.

self_reserved
30-12-2010, 11:31 AM
i'm 30 and she's 27. i don't drink too.
i don't know how to play it cold.but i guess if i try it, she would even be colder. :eek:

human beings are horny in nature, i also guess that she's horny just that she does not show it out,even shunned away from the topic of sex.
as much as i like her, i am keen in her horny nature too but it's like so hard to find it out...:rolleyes:

Jeremy Chiang
30-12-2010, 01:10 PM
Why not go read bro Warbird post la?

If that cannot help you, no one else can la...