Do u wanna have a female fren that can be ur FB like "No String Attached"? [Archive]

justl00king

09-03-2011, 09:11 PM

How good if u & ur female fren can have a sex relationship with no feelings & commitments involved....Wonder does this happen in real life?Very possible bro,

Speaking from encounters. :D Not only one, may be a few at the same time also! :eek:

Even FL/WL also can become one. They are also human and if they enjoy your company and you know how to wine and dine them. The sexual portion will only come naturally, FL or not. :cool:

Btw, there are some threads posted by ladies looking for FB! Quick, quick, go submit your applications there and you may just get lucky! :p

self_reserved

09-03-2011, 11:59 PM

i am looking for one too as i am still single, for years.
yearned to be hugged,kissed and of course, touched.
someone there for me when i am down.
movie/shopping/dinner kakis? no problem!

peterfoxtrot102

10-03-2011, 01:59 AM

still looking for one too.

bonkster

10-03-2011, 02:03 AM

The definition of "No String Attached" can be a little subjective. Just wanna know what most bros here would define as NSA.

I used to think i have had NSA FBs. To me, NSA means SMS each other a few times a week, meet up for a meal or drinks, then finish off with a fuck.

There was once when i told a few guy friends about it, some of them clearly think that my arrangements r still with some strings attached. Their definition of NSA means solely SMS the other party and go straight to fuck. No meals, no drinks, no occasional talk cock SMS or phone call. Basically nothing extra.

I have never had a FB who can match their definition. Even my most NSA FB would probably tell me to go fly kite if i didn't contact her for weeks and my first SMS to her is to give her a time and place to meet for a fuck.

With my FBs, i always need to put in some effort to maintain the rapport through SMS and phone calls every now and then. When we meet, even though it's pretty clear that it's a booty call, i still need to have the courtesy of putting up with a meal or drinks and more small talk before the deed. That's my norm. In that sense, i can see where my friends were coming from. Because there's still some effort involved, so perhaps i can't really call it NSA.

Can't really see myself ever getting a FB who can match my friends' NSA definition. The day i do, i probably found a sex slave more than a sex friend. :p

|GD_GeR|

10-03-2011, 08:10 AM

yes, it does happen but im still looking for 1.

s2k.. hahaz.. not find me enough liaoz mehz?? :P lolz.. i know u quite long liaoz.. and u still finding for one.. dun bluff me.. finding many many one right?? :P

slyer

10-03-2011, 12:13 PM

so far i didn't encounter any of no strings attached type of fb :( hope can find 1

1nite5shots

10-03-2011, 12:17 PM

nothing in tis world is impossible!even ur LP never kena sunlight oso will become dark:D:D

aerogun

10-03-2011, 12:28 PM

it all boils down to how good you are at making friends with the opposite sex..but not all girls are as easy as that. my own experience in my single years, I got to hook up with this Indonesian hottie aka 'friends with benefit' who didn't mind me taking her home.Later,a fellow housemate got his chance as well (she's not a hooker, mind you :P)

Longing

10-03-2011, 12:33 PM

Heaven Knows

10-03-2011, 01:19 PM

My 2 cents worth. NSA to some means really nothing n juz the deed when needed to. Some w some appetizers then the deed to add to the Atmosphere which personally finds it good to hav a built up of. ..

I don't hav FB, also hope to hav one but alas don't hav. Old Liao lo.

Don't flame me hor juz my two cents worth, who don't want a NSA, I supposed everyone or most of them want tat

haha

Perhaps, reason why some or us here don't want any NSA is probably due to the fact that we have too much on our hands for now. So a FB will be one who can release our tension as and when the need arises. But how one manages to convince their FB that its purely platonic without any contact in between like daily sms, phone calls, meet ups, etc is to each his own-how convincing one is. No women would wanna fuck without anything in return. Its either money, gifts or a relationship.

gotcraft30

10-03-2011, 01:24 PM

hmm.. i for one will want an FB with a bit of relationship... not NSA but friends with benefits... i feel the sex is better like that. :)

hickeybites

10-03-2011, 01:46 PM

my 2c as an "emotional" female :p
2 ex-fbs were actually more like acquaintances rather than friends. happened when i was posted overseas for work & they were colleagues from other offices outsideof the country i was based in. we would hook up whenever they were in town or i travelled for biz trips.

was careful in not considering friends cos i knew myself too well - i would hope/expect more even tho' he's only supposed to be an fb. friends would be too familiar & there's already that level of liking + hard to be discreet.
that's not to say that i didn't like my ex-fbs. they were attractive & i respected them but i never harboured any delusions that they are bf/hubby-material -- i'm a local-boy type of gal :)

female friends who are also fb with no-strings attached are hard to find... hate to admit this as a female but usually more emotions are invested & we'll always hope that there'll be more. of cos there's always the progression from fb to bf-gf but that won't be addressing TS right? ;)

Timmer

10-03-2011, 03:22 PM

Never had one, I dun expect to find one anyway.. No such luck with female friends...

Longing

10-03-2011, 03:50 PM

Perhaps, reason why some or us here don't want any NSA is probably due to the fact that we have too much on our hands for now. So a FB will be one who can release our tension as and when the need arises. But how one manages to convince their FB that its purely platonic without any contact in between like daily sms, phone calls, meet ups, etc is to each his own-how convincing one is. No women would wanna fuck without anything in return. Its either money, gifts or a relationship.

Bro, agreed w ur theory as well, so to speak it works both ways. Sometime guys also do the same of having feeling in the relationship.

Cheers

Soul mate

10-03-2011, 11:54 PM

:p:p:p...........

Shabu

13-03-2011, 03:55 AM

y not but never have the chance to have 1???

RealEstateGuy

13-03-2011, 07:05 AM

How good if u & ur female fren can have a sex relationship with no feelings & commitments involved....Wonder does this happen in real life?

I have been having a FB NSA relationship with a high class maid I met at a bookstore. Been going on a couple of months. Pure lust on both parts but its beginning to fizzle out. The sex was voracious, then turrned very kinky but seems routine nowadays. This is not the fist time I've been in a FB relationship and as far as women once they get adjusted to the concept of it, I would say its also desired on their part.

MultiOrgasGuy

13-03-2011, 07:07 AM

Why not?

I had many kinds of FBs before. Some are trully NSA coz they are "attached" so it's a purely "meetup for fuck only" now and then. Some are like frens, we SMS everyday, but meetup once or a few times a month for marathon sex sessions. Some may "fall in love" with me even though we just meet up for drinks/meals, movie, make love, bring her home operation every time. I also have some feelings for my FBs. I treat each girl as a unique special gal FB who enjoys making love to, regardless of their physical attributes, character and attitude.

eternally

13-03-2011, 09:12 AM

I used to think i have had NSA FBs. To me, NSA means SMS each other a few times a week, meet up for a meal or drinks, then finish off with a fuck.

With my FBs, i always need to put in some effort to maintain the rapport through SMS and phone calls every now and then. When we meet, even though it's pretty clear that it's a booty call, i still need to have the courtesy of putting up with a meal or drinks and more small talk before the deed. That's my norm. In that sense, i can see where my friends were coming from. Because there's still some effort involved, so perhaps i can't really call it NSA.

that's so kind of u to have meals or drinks with ur fb. Mine dun ever bother to. Normally he just SMS day, time n plc to see if I'm free to meet or not. Maybe he scare if go for drinks all that will Kenna seen by his frds or what. Sigh! I'm not a fl but he treats me like one. Hopefully he see this post ... & understand how I feel? But what the use when I'm just his fb with NSA.

xshadowx

13-03-2011, 09:44 AM

Personally, I feel that's quite uncalled for.. even if seen by frineds having meals with fb should be nothing as it is common to dine with friends ya..
I'm married and have a fb, but I do go movies ad meals with her too. FB should start from being friends and not just the bonking only.
My two cents.

that's so kind of u to have meals or drinks with ur fb. Mine dun ever bother to. Normally he just SMS day, time n plc to see if I'm free to meet or not. Maybe he scare if go for drinks all that will Kenna seen by his frds or what. Sigh! I'm not a fl but he treats me like one. Hopefully he see this post ... & understand how I feel? But what the use when I'm just his fb with NSA.

bonkster

13-03-2011, 02:11 PM

that's so kind of u to have meals or drinks with ur fb. Mine dun ever bother to.

I have meals or drinks with my FBs mainly because before we became FBs, we were either friends or dates who met up for meals, drinks or some friendly activities.

After we started casually screwing around and became FBs, i find it hard to put a stop to those things that we used to do together. It's not that i totally enjoy engaging in those friendly activities. Frankly, it's because i can't help but feel a little paiseh if i just cut them out of my life and contact them with a date, time and place to fuck. Come to think of it, even my guy buddies would complain that i bo sim if i only contact them when i need their help. I don't even want to think how the girls would feel, considering all the nasty stuff they do for me in bed when we meet up. :p

Well, that's my dilemma and the reason why i sometimes feel tired maintaining FB relationships.

ashleygal

13-03-2011, 03:53 PM

mind me asking you guys this question? what will you feel if the female treats you as a fuck and go fb? meaning, she sms you time and place, fuck and go without any words or feelings exchanged? how does it feel like? like you are her sex toy right?

sex is something that involves feelings and chemistry, at least to me. when I don't have any chemistry with that person, i find it very difficult for me to enjoy the sex. that is why i can never agree the fact that there is no feelings involve with your fb. if you don't have feelings for your fb, how is it possible you can fuck her? doesn't sound logical right?

that brings me to my point, if feelings are involved, how can you find a Fuck Buddy with No Strings Attached? FB is FB. NSA relationship is NSA relationship. these two should not be mixed together. You can be comfortable with just having a FB that you date once in awhile and ended the date with sex. But to me, as a female, i seriously feeling that NSA relationship are slightly different from your normal FB relationship. NSA relationship are 2 person having mutual feelings for each other but yet DO NOT WISH to have COMMITMENTS to each other. on the surface, they look as though they are real couple but in actual fact, they are not committed to each other and have the freedom and space as a single. That is why it is called No Strings Attached.

I seriously think that the movie is a big screw up. it gives people the false impression of the true meaning behind NSA relationship. But if anyone watched the movie should know that they end up falling in love with each other. Doesn't it prove that it's not possible to have no feelings involve with your fb?

just my 2 cents worth.

1128138

13-03-2011, 06:35 PM

that's so kind of u to have meals or drinks with ur fb. Mine dun ever bother to. Normally he just SMS day, time n plc to see if I'm free to meet or not. Maybe he scare if go for drinks all that will Kenna seen by his frds or what. Sigh! I'm not a fl but he treats me like one. Hopefully he see this post ... & understand how I feel? But what the use when I'm just his fb with NSA.

Haahaa...then you may think of to find some one else,i would like to queue up if you looking for someone else....:D

Empiric

13-03-2011, 07:39 PM

Did not see the movie so don't know. But of course want NSA FB. NSA to me does not mean purely for sex only, just as long as each other understand go no further from here and non commital sexual relationship. That for me is NSA enough, meeting up for some regular activities can always be beneficial for the sexual relationship :D

survival

13-03-2011, 09:26 PM

so where is your usual place ?
hotel not safe, his and your place too dangerous ...

digby

13-03-2011, 11:40 PM

now adays fb very common but not that easy to find.. Need to have some standard before you can find some.

Now adays i dun really want to find a FB. If girls here who is finding FB dun believe me try pming me I won't reply.. Hahaha just joking :)

Drooler

14-03-2011, 12:07 AM

my ideal FB is someone who can engage me both sexually and mentally cos comeon lets admit it, half of us here are not mr/miss universe material so having an engaging personality and a common purpose helps.

many a times i find my witty fren's, more sexually attractive then my pretty dollfaced secretary.

moosang

14-03-2011, 12:08 AM

interesting. i believe a lot of men out there hoping they have FB + NSA.

me, myself hoping someday i can afford to have my own private MP. these kind of fantasy make me want to make more $ in my pocket.

from my little experience some time ago, i do have FB. at peak time of me, i can have 2 FB in one period, but mostly only a FB. maybe i like to have fun a lot. Hardly to maintain NSA when you hooked to someone for a long time. unless you got a strong principle and rules in the relationship, which i hardly can tahan also. :D

now, i've been away from a big town and here, i just new and not much hanky panky thing happens to me.

babybaileys

14-03-2011, 03:33 AM

Hi guys, kinda new here and just my 2 cents worth on this...

FB with NSA is hardly gonna happen with any gals. For one, if they do agree to be your FB, chances are they have a thing for you. Speaking from the view of a lady and one who had experiences in this field... I do admit that when I was someone else's FB is cuz I had a thing for the guy. Dun hv to spend money on movies or drinks or dinner, even jus a few occassional SMS or text on asking how my day is was enough...

Plus, if a NSA FB really do happen on you, it will be just sex only. Would you really want that? I mean, the feel is not there, not to mention that the hugs and kisses will probably be non-existant since its jus sex only...

My conclusion is: For those who wish for NSA FB, you are watching too much junk on tv.... :P

Bangster

14-03-2011, 11:46 AM

mind me asking you guys this question? what will you feel if the female treats you as a fuck and go fb? meaning, she sms you time and place, fuck and go without any words or feelings exchanged? how does it feel like? like you are her sex toy right?....

I have a feeling most guys' answer to your question is......

"OLRIGHT!! Go ahead treat me like a SEX TOY!! NSA!!
:D

A+++

14-03-2011, 03:20 PM

i have a feeling most guys' answer to your question is......

"olright!! Go ahead treat me like a sex toy!! Nsa!!
:d

hahahaaaaa i strongly second tat!!
:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d:d

Swagelock

14-03-2011, 05:16 PM

1 type of rice feeds 100 of people...I want to find FB but FB dont want me... :mad:

tikosiao1

14-03-2011, 10:08 PM

For my case, my past fling and FB, having feeling either one sided or both sided.

I had yet to meet any girl who can fuck me just like that without any feeling except for prositute..

I think in order to bed a girl, you must always get to their heart first... Go and recall all the FB, fling or NSA gers you have.. you sure spend some time "tackling" her before she agree to bed you....

If any guy can go up to any girl and say:" you want to be my fb?" and she say yes, I will ask him to accept me as his disciple ..

And for the TS question, that a YES which guy dont want that to happen?

bonkster

15-03-2011, 12:57 AM

Go and recall all the FB, fling or NSA gers you have.. you sure spend some time "tackling" her before she agree to bed you...

Precisely! ;) I sure went through the "tackling" part for all of mine.

That's y i will probably piss them off if i stop treating them the way girls like to be treated and just text them straight for a fuck. :p

eternally

15-03-2011, 01:00 AM

Haahaa...then you may think of to find some one else,i would like to queue up if you looking for someone else....:D

Erm I still searching for suitable ones.

Swagelock

15-03-2011, 08:36 PM

If any guy can go up to any girl and say:" you want to be my fb?" and she say yes, I will ask him to accept me as his disciple ..

Well said! :D

Swagelock

15-03-2011, 11:18 PM

Erm I still searching for suitable ones.

I also searching for one...that makes us a pair now...:p

LooseCannon

15-03-2011, 11:19 PM

I also searching for one...that makes us a pair now...:p

you are not alone!! i need a SHI FU to show me the ropes

tikosiao1

16-03-2011, 12:06 AM

Make that a 4th.

digby

16-03-2011, 12:27 AM

whoever up me, thank a million, your two points is worth alot to me. Have been through alot in this forum. Up and down. I'm happy to get some points here. I have not recieve any pm from ladies looking for FB here. As i was saying in my previous post i'm not looking for a fb, ladies here pls pm me and I won't reply. thanks :)

eternally

16-03-2011, 01:45 AM

I also searching for one...that makes us a pair now...:p

Looking for someone who is creative to go abt intro themselves or
someone whom attracts my attention. But seems ur above sentence not that appealing to me =x

Swagelock

17-03-2011, 12:33 AM

Looking for someone who is creative to go abt intro themselves or
someone whom attracts my attention. But seems ur above sentence not that appealing to me =x

Ok. I take back my sentence... :o

maxi5599

17-03-2011, 04:29 AM

Any bro can pm me any NSA fb?thanks a million;)will up you:)

ashleygal

17-03-2011, 11:16 AM

Any bro can pm me any NSA fb?thanks a million;)will up you:)

begger, who in the hell with their right mind will want to share fb with you?! you got no rep power how to up ppl back?!:eek::rolleyes:

GoeGoeGoe

17-03-2011, 11:22 AM

Humans are emotional creatures thus i dont think there would be a really NSA relationship unless its a strictly ONS affair.

Personally if i were given a choice, i dont think i would want a NSA r/s also.

arsenal_84

17-03-2011, 11:49 AM

No women would wanna fuck without anything in return. Its either money, gifts or a relationship.

agreed, there's no such thing as free lunch in this world.
everything comes with a price.

Bangster

17-03-2011, 01:19 PM

Yup exactly. No free lunch.

Difference is how much she expects nia.

Got cheap, got expensive. So what's your appetite?

HungHubby

17-03-2011, 04:54 PM

Its true that there aint no free lunch in this world, but does wining & dining a lady constitute to that? Even if it's still a booty call and ya getting dessert after the meal, foreplay can begin as early as just by dressing to kill or turn heads, having a mind-stimulating conversation or as simple as things like teasing and flirting over dinner.

What bout the occasional gifts to further spice things up? It could be anything from novelty toys, sexy lingerie, costumes or fancy hotels.. Or if ya both getting a room, shouldnt the guy pay too? Doesnt this amount to spending on him/her as well?

There are a 1001 reasons/excuses to have a fb/fwb/nsa/fling/ons etc, but at the end of the day, it's where u both draw the line that matters.

People might want a partner becoz:
they aint satisfied with their partners in bed?
(low sex drive, no bj, dun eat pussy, no foreplay, not adventurous etc)
they are looking for new experience?
(bigger tits, tighter clit, longer/thicker dick, syt, cougar, other races etc)
their personal fetishes/fantasies?
(roleplay, costumes, bdsm, outdoor/exhibionist, taking pics/video etc)
their emotional/mental/physcial state?
(a listening ear, a peronsal sex "slave", a masseur with happy ending etc?

At the end of the day, if the "connection" is there, ya both know the do's and dont's bwtn yourselves, ya enjoying each other "company", ya both know when and where to draw the line. JUST ENJOY, WHY BOTHER? :confused:

ps. to the lady whom i read bout being just a booty call? cmon, most ladies would at least like simple things like meals, the occasional gifts etc. There must be a time when ya ponder bout calling it quits too, one way or another, u shld either change ya partner mindset or start looking for another. :)

imaginative

17-03-2011, 08:15 PM

The definition of "No String Attached" can be a little subjective. Just wanna know what most bros here would define as NSA.

Bro, No strings attached simply means, if either party wants to stop, the whole thing stops. That's all.

B52bomber

17-03-2011, 08:18 PM

How good if u & ur female fren can have a sex relationship with no feelings & commitments involved....Wonder does this happen in real life?

Just keep trying and you will know the results...never try never know

bonkster

18-03-2011, 03:07 PM

begger, who in the hell with their right mind will want to share fb with you?!

If there r people who share with him, it's probably Sherine's number. :p Just not sure if he dares to try. :D

Bro, No strings attached simply means, if either party wants to stop, the whole thing stops. That's all.

Think that makes more sense than the no effort needed definition that some guys were telling me. ;)

I also feel that it refers more to the commitment than the effort.

BJ21Boss

18-03-2011, 03:49 PM

I also want... but how do you start to approach the question to be FB?

babybaileys

19-03-2011, 02:38 AM

I also want... but how do you start to approach the question to be FB?

Guess its a mutual. You probably will know if the lady has the 'hots' for you and if you kiss her and she kisses back, probably a start of things. However of cuz do make a clear stand if you want to be jus FB or more, cuz tendancy is, ladies have a wilder imagination when it comes to relationship, booty call or not. If she doesn't mind being your FB, thank your lucky stars!

My experience is, most of the time if there is a FB, both are in a relationship, either attached or married. Sometimes things go haywire, other times everything comes under wraps because there is too much at stake if things get out of hand... :o

junior_cannibal

19-03-2011, 11:23 AM

To me, there is a difference between having sex and making love. Having sex is with a person you don't love, merely to get over the urge of unloading your soldiers. Making love, is with someone you like or love, with the intention to achieve climax for both.

A NSA relationship is not impossible to find. However, most women's mental setup is pretty different from men's. Men's can separate love from sex, while women's usually have them as a package. Having said that, there are some women who behave like men in terms of how they satsify their sexual craving.

As said by some in this thread, we are all human, somewhere somehow, when a NSA relationship lasted a little longer than not, the two people may develop some forms of feeligs for each other. If not, you better wish that you are not the one who develops while the other party does not. Else, you may be in for an emotional roller coaster ride.

There is no free lunch, even if the party is a professional FL/whore, the party is still a human that has feelings. So, while you wish to find a NSA counterpart, you better pray that you don't end up being the one who wants more than just sex.

There are some experienced samsters here who seemed to be totally cool about NSA, wait till you meet your match one day.

Just my 2ct worth.

JC

Komuso

20-03-2011, 02:40 AM

I think as human beings we all long for perfection, especially in the area of relationships; perhaps because failure or a lack of success (2 very different things) hurts more than anything else in life, other than physical pain.

In theory, the perfect partner would be able to satisfy us so completely that we would never feel a need to look anywhere else. Because this cannot be realised, we struggle to find our way along in search of that elusive perfection; some more successful than others. I would like to submit that those who know themselves well tend to fare better in this area.

I don't believe there is essentially any difference between an FB and a NSA relationship. All the descriptions provided so far only show that the two persons involved such relationships can be in very different emotional conditions at any point in time. The FB who tends to be cold and unemotional out of bed probably already has something else which fills every gap except sex, and cant understand why people get hung up over such things. The FB who gets offended by such transactory behaviour feels like a whore or giggolo, and probably needs a real relationship. Either way both characters are in a relationship which is lacking in one area or another. And then there's all the other intervening degrees between these two extremes.

The point I would like to bring across is that we need to know what exactly it is we are trying to fix; what are the realistic solutions we have on hand; and finally come to terms with the remaining whatevers which we cant fix. All this in service of one very simple end: to be happy. I sincerely hope everyone here (myself included :) will be able to achieve that to as far an extent as is humanly possible. Ideally, all of us would be so busy being happy that definitions would no longer mean a thing.

p.s. sorry for the shitload of words; but my humanity compelled me :P

pro.d.igy

20-03-2011, 03:34 AM

Women and Men are built differently. For cases like NSA, I've yet to see ANY local girl who is willing to commit.

Definitely not in Singapore. :D

some_

20-03-2011, 06:04 AM

if so easy to find the you guys wunt spend so much time in this forum already loh lolzzz :p

some_

20-03-2011, 06:05 AM

if so easy to find then you guys wunt spend so much time in this forum already loh lolzzz :p

Lesp

20-03-2011, 08:06 AM

The thread title seems self contradictory, hence perhaps the ensuing confusion. Generally, friends have strings, or would you regard them as friends? If you are after FBs with strictly NSA then it can't be with friends.

There may be exceptions, ie those that would be willing to enjoy it purely for its pleasure. Eg grandma with toyboy, haha, she may be willing to offer long term friendship with NSA as FB, but you get the picture.

cheongsterjon

20-03-2011, 02:44 PM

Not meant to show off to samster bros here just wanna share my experience with you bros....

Used to have this friend cum fb 2 years ago, she was malaysian working in a restaurant here as supervisor here around age 27...befriended her from my frequent visits to the restaurant and knew right from the start she had a bf back in her hometown...she told me of that...but we clicked and became very good friends cum fbs.. she return home only twice a month and when she was in sg she will turn to me for her sexual needs and companionship like accompanying her on her off days when she did not return to hometown and me sending her home after her shift...occasionally we would check in to H81 for a quickie on the way....she would share with me about her times with her bf too....after around a year she said she felt bad doing this to her bf so she wanted to stop and of cos me let her go as we have agreed right from the start that it's NSA.....think of it do miss her....

trueno2008

20-03-2011, 04:28 PM

Everything comes with a price including relationships or NSA. Time, money, reputation, feelings, long term perception, etc... It may seems free at the beginning but something else will always take place later, perhaps in the following NSAs. End of the day, it's whether you can afford that price or whether you have anticipated it, ready for it, etc. Sometimes you come to a point that you would think perhaps paid sex is still a safer choice with predictable price although not totally safe.

Finally, if you really meet the person in your life then the stakes will be different. Agree with some bros and sis here mention that moment u allow your dick to insert into that warm zone, you are already connected. It's just how much you need to do to snap it.

Sorry i seem to write aimlessly but all these comes from my experiences. But TS started a thread which beholds a lot of fantasies and hopefully, everyone here gets their own share of fun, be it FB, NSA or not ;)

Coulter

20-03-2011, 08:35 PM

Of course I would like to have a non commital FB, problem is they don't want me :o
NSA just means to me no commitment, drinks, meal and stuff like that is alright, no harm in it.

cheongsterjon

21-03-2011, 01:05 AM

Finally, if you really meet the person in your life then the stakes will be different. Agree with some bros and sis here mention that moment u allow your dick to insert into that warm zone, you are already connected. It's just how much you need to do to snap it.

Sorry i seem to write aimlessly but all these comes from my experiences. But TS started a thread which beholds a lot of fantasies and hopefully, everyone here gets their own share of fun, be it FB, NSA or not ;)

I do agree with ya bro on that the moment your dick enters her warm zone, you are connected with her. Everytime i had sex with that fb, even before the sexxion we agreed that no strings attached, when bonking her with my dick inside her, she would tend to hug me tighter while missionary and frenched like a lover and called out i love you....sometimes made me go soft cuz i also scared later she don't let me go....but she love her bf more lolzzzz

gohzxc

10-04-2011, 10:20 AM

that's so kind of u to have meals or drinks with ur fb. Mine dun ever bother to. Normally he just SMS day, time n plc to see if I'm free to meet or not. Maybe he scare if go for drinks all that will Kenna seen by his frds or what. Sigh! I'm not a fl but he treats me like one. Hopefully he see this post ... & understand how I feel? But what the use when I'm just his fb with NSA.

Sis...it time to change new FB get someone that will accompany u ;)

etch

10-04-2011, 12:08 PM

I have 3 FB at the moment. 2 of them in SG, i'm no longer working in SG but do drop by from time to time. The other one is malay girl that i hooked up in my factory last week. So far only have time to do her once. I'm targeting another 2 malay girls whom are in the same department. So far progress is good, bring her out for a movie & managed to hug her. Trying to get her to spend a night together in a hotel but she prefers it outside of Melaka probably KL. Will try to squeeze some time. She claims to be a virgin..lol

5exaddit

10-04-2011, 01:15 PM

go to Mirc
there got alot of div or older woman who play flings or tagged!! if u lucky u caught their eyes

Hypersexy

10-04-2011, 01:54 PM

My personal views are that the general female population only have sex if they really love you or you have to pay her. Nothing in between.

owen10

10-04-2011, 03:37 PM

interesting thread here.

many years ago, i missed an oppty. i was on the mailing list of swingers club. got an email 1 day fr a lady (she says she's mixed korean-chinese, in her
30s) who says her angmo partner is often out of town for biz trip n she was looking for FB, no strings attached. but she wanted me to email her pic 1st n she would also do the same. her plan was to meet for 1 or 2 sessions 1st, say goin to a SPA for massage or sorts or over a meal to see if both of us can click.

but she also have criteria that the guy muz have certain physique, muz have good built n height, presentable looks etc. furthermore she could onli meet in certain area (somewhr really far fr my wk plc then) n onli during lunch time period n i do not drive.

fr d emails i could tell she was genuine but too bad i dun think i could fit into her demands.

juz tryin to tell bros here it is possible to hv such lobang, but probly very rare.

sun814

10-04-2011, 07:10 PM

uboat2000

11-04-2011, 12:23 AM

no i do like the idea of a fb but as a friend i don think so. fb and i should be better then just friends. we r close but we cannot live together coz i cant stand certain ppl.

owen10

11-04-2011, 01:32 AM

i hv a gf who turned fb and i hv known her for 10 years now, she was already married but me single when she becomes my gf. her husband was abusive and cannot sexually satisfy her, thus we make love for like 2-3 times a week at the beginning. As her career progresses and her relationship with her husband improves, we started drifting apart n i got married later. recently met her on the street, n found her to be as attractive, n our sexual tension was still the still. so we starting making love again, we knew each other relationship and commitments, but promise to keep our relationships under wraps.

sounds like an ideal win-win situation for both which many will envy yr situation. both u n yr FB r able to satisfy ea other's sexual desires w/o strings attached. BUT the fact that both of u r oredi married is the sticky part. thr's always the risk of bumping into some1 when u hv yr regular sexcapades. if really kena caught red-handed both marriages will potentially get ripped apart. N since both of u enjoy having regular sex with ea other, there may come a danger both of u may eventually lose interest havin sex with yr respective spouses.

pro.d.igy

11-04-2011, 01:47 AM

fookydud

11-04-2011, 02:55 AM

i guess those in uni and workforce are easier to find such girls. i got a good fren he's still in uni and attached but able to get a fb easily. rich one somemore. always share experience with me i just LL and listen. he say girls once activate their pussy everything is possible. i still cant find one yet. sian.

owen10

12-04-2011, 02:22 AM

Sayang la bro! :p

too bad lah bro. but i oso gotta blame myself cos i didnt hv much urgency to date her. guess she got fed up eventually.

im nt tryin to boast here but juz tryin to tell bros again such thgs can be possible in spore.

excerpts of her email many years back:

' .... Note:I m NOT a "hard-core lady swinger, who is looking for hard-core sex". If u looking for someone likethat, pls forget about me. I always wish a "soft start" with chat, drink or lunch/dinner & get to know each other, and not likely jump into bed . Or maximum I can do, go spa together and show naked body to each other & flirt, touch each other, that's also more erotic thatn just "screw".

Now, to be my friend, you have to understand my situation. I m lonely and need something to look fwd & need secret companion to just brighten my days, of coz WITHOUT any troubles as I have no problem at home. I want to have a fun, without ANY risks & whiout ANYONE knows about it.I need to find someone who understand my needs & situation well, sincere & honest gentleman. Also, sex is an option NOT a obligation, ONLY do it if we like each other, for just once in a while fun without pressure/obligation/troubles.'

now, reading d emails again made me kinda horny. she's quite an intellectual. :)

i guess those in uni and workforce are easier to find such girls. i got a good fren he's still in uni and attached but able to get a fb easily. rich one somemore. always share experience with me i just LL and listen. he say girls once activate their pussy everything is possible. i still cant find one yet. sian.

havin good looks n a thick wallet do not neccessarily work all the time. sometimes it depends on how well u can hold an intelligent conversation or charm the gal with yr mannerism. during my time in the army there was this fren who's not handsome (wears glasses, have a high forehead which makes him look like a balding apeh when he was onli in his 20s then) or rich (used to drive an old nissan) but he was able to snake-charm girls n get them to bed quite easily.

babychronic

12-04-2011, 06:44 PM

I have one at the moment which is on-going. She is married but her hubby is not sexually inclined. So whenever i'm free, i will contact her and we will do it wherever i wan.

She have been my friend for like 15yrs or so and we got hooked up during july 2008. She keep a journal of our sexapade. Thinking if i shld start a new thread..

And at the same time, trying to get my ex-gf who is a mum of 2 to meet me again.. We managed to hook up last yr during my birthday and i got a very pleasant birthday present from her and it lasted for a few months. But now she is abit busy now so got to wait... Miss her bj and fj.. So far the best partner i had.

harv

12-04-2011, 07:37 PM

yup.. agreed wif some bro here .. acually not that difficult to have NSA FB ..in fact some of the FB i have proposed that first ..... for those bro who are keen ...i would say ... juz keep trying ...

sun814

12-04-2011, 08:14 PM

sounds like an ideal win-win situation for both which many will envy yr situation. both u n yr FB r able to satisfy ea other's sexual desires w/o strings attached. BUT the fact that both of u r oredi married is the sticky part. thr's always the risk of bumping into some1 when u hv yr regular sexcapades. if really kena caught red-handed both marriages will potentially get ripped apart. N since both of u enjoy having regular sex with ea other, there may come a danger both of u may eventually lose interest havin sex with yr respective spouses.

yes really enjoyed the sex with her, haha, u are correct to say that i may lose the interest of having sex with my wife. one thing is that i really enjoy having bbbj but my wife do not give (she gives me a great bbbj before marriage but doesn't do it now), but my gf does n gives a superb one.

Maggi0770

12-04-2011, 11:13 PM

I personally do know of friends (Female) who have a few, quite a few FBs at the same time. So much so that, after a while, they are immune to sex and need more to heighten her sexual pleasures. I don't mean drugs, but into things like trio, quartet, gangbang, and/or BDSM.

Though most of them had a sad story to tell about their hubbies which led to them seeking alternatives outside. Which when the dam was broken, all hell broke loose. I mean with one level of sexcapade leading to another more extreme ones.

The interesting part is that I also know of many guys, much more in terms of numbers, looking for FBs. Of course I am one of the targets, but I am happily married and have only had sex with one man for the past 20 years. So what I tell these guys is that the SYTs have a lower chance in getting a FB. Get those divorcees or widows, MILFs or 30-40. More chance to get FB or Friends with benefits.

Actually the female friends that I have who have FBs are usually those who are still in the marriage. Friends with benefits are those who is out of a marriage, or who is no bothered with their husbands knowing about their ECA.

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Great, my hubby just finished his work. Now is my turn for a session. Muahahaha.