My Salutation

[whiteangelcsh]

Nobody can tell who’s who and who does stuff for free and who does stuff for money. Nobody can tell who likes sex and gives it away, gratis, and who makes you pay for it. So sitting in indignant moral judgment about how people are entirely defined by how they earn a living is not only offensive, but also wrong.

Ever spare a moment in time to ponder upon how they are working alone, unprotected, in the dark and the rain and the cold, for that much needed money and at the mercy of any pevert that comes along.

They are somebody’s daughter, mother, sister, and somebody somewhere loves them, despite their life choices. They were once innocent little children, even if their innocence was fleeting, often through no fault of their own. They haven’t had lovely lives and now here they are.

Do we care, especially? Not really. We only become interested when there’s something bad happened to them and the whole thing takes on an appalling, televisual fascination. I suppose it all depends on how much value you put on people’s lives.

Who are they? They are your everyday's freelancers. I'm not supportive of prostitution but morally, these ladies deserves a clap, not just a bang.

[goodpartner]

Subject title not appropriate lah, else this thread sure invite lots of wind, rain and fire one :D

First camper.

[alan0338]

wa low eh,tis thread is breaking my heart :D

[Ronsee]

Tissue! Tissue! huhuhuhu

[Chery QQ]

Tissue! Tissue! huhuhuhu

I need a pail..... Huhuhu.....

[whiteangelcsh]

Subject title not appropriate lah, else this thread sure invite lots of wind, rain and fire one :D

First camper.

I'm saluting FLs, not writing story or encounters here. Frankly, who ever cares abt them in the real world. Some are out in this trade for pure monetary or thrill pleasures, but the main bulk are strayed persons of our equal human spirituals.

[Kennydalglish]

Nobody can tell who’s who and who does stuff for free and who does stuff for money. Nobody can tell who likes sex and gives it away, gratis, and who makes you pay for it. So sitting in indignant moral judgment about how people are entirely defined by how they earn a living is not only offensive, but also wrong.

Ever spare a moment in time to ponder upon how they are working alone, unprotected, in the dark and the rain and the cold, for that much needed money and at the mercy of any pevert that comes along.

They are somebody’s daughter, mother, sister, and somebody somewhere loves them, despite their life choices. They were once innocent little children, even if their innocence was fleeting, often through no fault of their own. They haven’t had lovely lives and now here they are.

Do we care, especially? Not really. We only become interested when there’s something bad happened to them and the whole thing takes on an appalling, televisual fascination. I suppose it all depends on how much value you put on people’s lives.

Who are they? They are your everyday's freelancers. I'm not supportive of prostitution but morally, these ladies deserves a clap, not just a bang.

:):):) very true. the only way to protect the rights of these ladies from exploitation will be to regulate them. but it seems unlikely to ever happen.

[talismann]

If we applaud freelancers, do we worship the women, who in spite of tremendous difficulties, refuse to take the easy way out by prostituting themselves? To me, its a cop-out, prostitutes work for your money and man earn a damn good living doing it that way. Better than you or me.

To feel sympathetic towards them because of the occupational hazards of the flesh trade is warp logic, man. Nothing wrong to choose this line but I won't go so far as to respect them for making this choice.

[talismann]

:):):) very true. the only way to protect the rights of these ladies from exploitation will be to regulate them. but it seems unlikely to ever happen.

Regulated prostitution already exists, think of our local red light districts.

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

If we applaud freelancers, do we worship the women, who in spite of tremendous difficulties, refuse to take the easy way out by prostituting themselves? To me, its a cop-out, prostitutes work for your money and man earn a damn good living doing it that way. Better than you or me.

To feel sympathetic towards them because of the occupational hazards of the flesh trade is warp logic, man. Nothing wrong to choose this line but I won't go so far as to respect them for making this choice.

This post sums up everything that i wanted to say. ;)

Great post - deserve my 6 sperms :p

[calvintan123]

Life is all about choices.
we may make right choices or wrong choices...only one self will know.
They made their choice for good or for bad...thats already become s fact and they have got to live with it.

FLs, all they provide is a service , amid with their flesh blood and body.
look at it this way...

If a sale man who sweats it out day and night to earn his keep uses his skills to exchange for a living

A FL also sweats it out day and night and uses her skills to exchange for a living

jus because it involves sex does not justify the downgrade

let me quote an example ,
loose married or single woman who throng night clubs and discos in search for ONS and sex..these woman offer themself for FREE..and many a times do not even use proper sex protection, i condem these people , i dun think they are successful even though they may earn alot and have high post and good careers...they have extremely loose morality and zero dignity...to me they are what i call cheap thrill or free F_ck...
At least the FLs has a price...and if i look for their service i need to pay them...

since ancient times prostitution is the oldest form of service trade....till now.
i seriously have alot of RESPECT for FLs, and i think they are here to help us out. too much of demand too little choices. If not for them...this society will be full of rapist and molesters...these people are here to help lower sex crime rate and at times like wat TS said...at their life risk.

Bottomline...its their choice. :cool:

[talismann]

This post sums up everything that i wanted to say. ;)

Great post - deserve my 6 sperms :p

Thank you but did you really have to call it 6 sperms? It feels like a bukkake I didn't ask for! :D

let me quote an example ,
loose married or single woman who throng night clubs and discos in search for ONS and sex..these woman offer themself for FREE..and many a times do not even use proper sex protection, i condem these people , i dun think they are successful even though they may earn alot and have high post and good careers...they have extremely loose morality and zero dignity...to me they are what i call cheap thrill or free F_ck...
At least the FLs has a price...and if i look for their service i need to pay them...

since ancient times prostitution is the oldest form of service trade....till now.
i seriously have alot of RESPECT for FLs, and i think they are here to help us out. too much of demand too little choices. If not for them...this society will be full of rapist and molesters...these people are here to help lower sex crime rate and at times like wat TS said...at their life risk.

Bottomline...its their choice. :cool:

Your example seem to be picking on women. Would you condemn men who do the same thing? I hope you would because people waiting to label you as a MCP are standing by. That aside, I do not see a balanced comparison there. One set of women have sex to make a living (which is after all the context of this thread) and your example is about women who are out to have fun. I won't go so far to regard them to "have extremely loose morality and zero dignity" and while you accord women who choose prostitution to earn their keep to have made a choice down this path, ditto for those in your example mentioned. For the latter, it is at least discretionary, they don't sleep with strangers because its they have to.

A society full of rapists and molesters is such because of a fucked-up domestic security system, not because of an abundance of FLs.

[calvintan123]

bro talismann,

U seem to misunderstand my point. I taking abt choices...and it applies even to men. We all make choices....and we live with the choices we made.

If I have a case of an FL, someone who provide sex so as to survive
VS
A case of a married Female manager working in a respectable institution but can sleep with a stranger she met clubbing jus for the kick of it...in what u deem as fun.

I would give the FL more respect....that's my choice.:D

All above comments are strictly self deduct..and all examples quoted are hypothetica situation with no reference to anyone or anybody.if my comments cause hurt and pain, I apologise in advance as I do not wish to cause any harm.

Cheers

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Bro talismann, 1st of all, your posts were very well-said. I read it over few times. :) No offend intended. Yes, think it's a case of misunderstanding with Bro calvintan123 earlier post cos he was citing examples on choices we make - a Slut or a FL. ;)

Life is all about choices.
we may make right choices or wrong choices...only one self will know.
They made their choice for good or for bad...thats already become s fact and they have got to live with it.......Bottomline...its their choice. :cool:

I agreed with above. It's like when we eat salty fish, we will have to accept being thirsty. Whatever choices we make, we must be prudent and consider all possibilities and risk at play cos at the end of day we take full responsibility of the choices we made.

Thanks, TS (Bro or Sis whiteangelcsh) for this food for thought thread.

Cheers, Peace out :D

[talismann]

In the context of this thread, my basic premise is that any adulation placed on prostitutes, which we euphemise as freelancers, is misplaced. Its a cop-out, plain and simple. I have no qualms tipping my hat to the sacked toilet cleaner living in Yuhua, who used to slog out her guts without Minimum Wages to put her 3 sons through school. But sorry, I can't bring myself to regard a prostitute at the same level. You cannot compare them against each other Its simply disrespectful to all the women around who go to work with their head held high. The vocations are not the same. Ask any prostitute if they openly tell their family and friends what they do for a living. Its not unreasonable to assume most would conceal that fact.

Don't get me wrong, this is not a high ground issue. Stretching the issue to the extreme...assuming you are a disabled husband that cannot work, would you ever push your wife to become a prostitute to feed the family? I think not... there are some lines we don't want to cross. Its clear that for some, prostitution is fine as long as it doesn't befall a close one.

No offense taken or meant, bros. In the light of this discussion, we may have some differences in opinions but that's what we need as a society to progress.

[whiteangelcsh]

Yes. It's all abt choices we made in life, frm crossing the road to the type of trade we choose. How many of these FLs crossed the line when at the edges of the cliff? Wat deductive reasons hv they made when they decided to go on this path? To indulge in this underground trade which they painfully conceal frm their love ones. Yes, some would rather choose frm being a street cleaner or dishwasher than being a prostitute or FL. I believe majority of them hv taken up this path after considering all available decent options.

Ever wonder how many cold nights they hv spent crying alone in the dark when the lights are turned off? Yes, it's the consequences they hv to face upon since it's their chosen path. Nobody wants to walk into the dark valley of the death if given a choice. There are differences between respect, applaud, salutation and sympathy. My point here is, as wat I mentioned in my starting post, it's how much value we put on other's life.

[calvintan123]

Ever wonder how many cold nights they hv spent crying alone in the dark when the lights are turned off? Yes, it's the consequences they hv to face upon since it's their chosen path. Nobody wants to walk into the dark valley of the death if given a choice. There are differences between respect, applaud, salutation and sympathy. My point here is, as wat I mentioned in my starting post, it's how much value we put on other's life.

this brings a tear to my eye....well said. :o

[hsbc]

That is the real world....

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Yes. It's all abt choices we made in life, frm crossing the road to the type of trade we choose. How many of these FLs crossed the line when at the edges of the cliff? Wat deductive reasons hv they made when they decided to go on this path? To indulge in this underground trade which they painfully conceal frm their love ones. Yes, some would rather choose frm being a street cleaner or dishwasher than being a prostitute or FL. I believe majority of them hv taken up this path after considering all available decent options.

Ever wonder how many cold nights they hv spent crying alone in the dark when the lights are turned off? Yes, it's the consequences they hv to face upon since it's their chosen path. Nobody wants to walk into the dark valley of the death if given a choice. There are differences between respect, applaud, salutation and sympathy. My point here is, as wat I mentioned in my starting post, it's how much value we put on other's life.

Foreword: Not being disrespectful of thread's title or anyone. Only for discussion and sharing opinion. ;)

IMHO there truly are no right or wrong choices, only different paths. I am sure every FL has her own tale to tell as to why she turn to become a FL whether it is due to lack of financial resources to support oneself or family, dissolution of marriage, rejected by families, lured by prospects & pleasures with a fancy for extravagant life or duped by people. However, things will never change no matter how much one cry every night. One need to ask oneself whether is this the only alternative? or make the best of a bad situation? In making choices - Not making a choice is also a choice in itself. Peace out and cheers. IK ;)

[whiteangelcsh]

Foreword: Not being disrespectful of thread's title or anyone. Only for discussion and sharing opinion. ;)

IMHO there truly are no right or wrong choices, only different paths. I am sure every FL has her own tale to tell as to why she turn to become a FL whether it is due to lack of financial resources to support oneself or family, dissolution of marriage, rejected by families, lured by prospects & pleasures with a fancy for extravagant life or duped by people. However, things will never change no matter how much one cry every night. One need to ask oneself whether is this the only alternative? or make the best of a bad situation? In making choices - Not making a choice is also a choice in itself. Peace out and cheers. IK ;)

No hard feelings. Thread is open for views sharing.

Agreed tt it's the path tts being chosen. In any decision making, there are always courses open for choice. Ultimately one hv to face the consequences or results of the path which oneself had chosen to undertake. My sentiment is tt regardless of the path or decision, there's bond to be happiness and sorrow. The joy may be short lived. The pain will go but slowly.

End of the day, it's how one move on. Incidents may change ur life, juz make sure tt it doesnt stop ur life.

[whiteangelcsh]

The talks goes on...

No one hv actually voiced their true sentiments towards FLs, in terms of the sensual aspect. Some says FLs are merely a body to relieve sexual stresses. Some reckons FLs to be sluts, and some treats them without dignity. I would opined tt most would not treat FLs as frens.

I personally hv few FLs frens (i shall not elaborate on how I aquainted them). Dun be confused by my other thread on FB where I talked abt being sensual wif them. Amongst the FLs tt I known, most hv their own unique stories to tell. Yes, u might say tt these stories are full of BS and are mainly made up to get sympathy frm us. How often hv u really listen and look them thru the eyes when they relate their stories to u? "Liars liars!" u may say. I wun dispute the facts tt there are indeed cooked up stories somewhere along the line.

I'm not asking u to waste ur precious paid-for 60/90mins of bonking session to actually sit down to listen to them. However, touch ur heart and listen for urself, listen to them, if u hv the chance. I'm not saying tt all FLs are kind souls or all FLs are to be sympathized. Nor am i asking u to befriend them for all u got. I'm merely asking u to listen... not juz their moans but to their heart.

[whiteangelcsh]

Why does the sun go on shining? 
Why does the sea rush to shore? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world?
'cause you don't love me anymore.

Why do the birds go on singing? 
Why do the stars glow above? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world?
It ended when I lost your love.

I wake up in the morning and I wonder,
Why everything's the same as it was.
I can't understand, no I can't understand,
How life goes on the way it does.

Why does my heart go on beating? 
Why do these eyes of mine cry? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world? 
It ended when you said goodbye...

[whiteangelcsh]

Some thoughts....

Prostitution is often described as the oldest profession. Not surprisingly, the ethics of prostitution have often been debated. In general, most people claim that it is morally unacceptable.

However, what interests me is the ethics of the profession itself. Rather than take the usual approach of simply asserting it is immoral, lets consider the various plausible reasons as to why it should be considered immoral and also argue that, under certain conditions, it can be just as morally acceptable as other forms of professions.

One common reason often given as to why prostitution is immoral is that it tends to involve coercion. In most cases, people do not freely decide to become prostitutes. In some cases, they are driven to the profession by desperation and a lack of other opportunities for employment. In other cases, they are forced into prostitution by others. However, some people freely and knowingly chose to be prostitutes. In these cases, the coercion argument obviously fails.

Another reason that prostitution is regarded as immoral is that it is supposed to be degrading to the prostitute. To treat someone as mere sexual object is to fail to respect their worth as human being. Of course, many jobs are degrading and are still considered morally acceptable. For example, cleaning people’s toilets or working as a servant can be regarded as degrading. In fact, a case could be made that most employment involves some attack on human dignity. Of course, the degree of degradation varies widely. But, if some degradation is morally acceptable, then prostitution that falls within that range would also be acceptable.

This, obviously enough, raises the question as to whether prostitution can be non-degrading or at least acceptably degrading.

It might be argued that having sex with people for money is inherently degrading. It is the fact that all jobs involve a person selling himself/herself. A person who does manual labor is selling her body. A person who writes for a living is selling her mind. A person who performs is selling his talent. And so on.

Of course, one might reply, these people are doing something less intimate. Hence, the difference. An easy reply to this is that people sell very intimate things. A writer sells her intimate thoughts. A therapist is being paid to be a friend (of sorts). If these sorts of jobs are acceptable, then so to is prostitution.

Given the above thoughts, it might seems reasonable to accept that prostitution can be morally on par with other acceptable professions.

** above are just my personal views.

[whiteangelcsh]

My sentiments continues...

To the FLs and those who are in their lowest point of their life, dun compare yourself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do. It's not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it. Your
background and circumstances may have influenced who you are, what you had become today, but you are responsible for who you become. Even if you do the right thing for the wrong reason, it's still the wrong thing to do. What matters most is to get over it, and be a new you.

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself. You may be walking down the dark valley of death now, but redefine yourself when the day comes.

You may attempt to live your life backwards; you may try to have more things, or more money, in order to do more of what you want, so you will be happier. The way it actually works is the reverse. You must first be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order to have what you want. So if you feel empty, as many do, start by getting free from yourself as a first stop to vibrant living.

My philosophy is not best expressed in words; it is expressed in the choices one makes ... and the choices we make are ultimately our responsibility. The only one thing you can change is yourself, but sometimes that makes all of the difference.

In your darkest hours, you may spend too much time finding other people to blame, too much energy finding excuses for not being what you are capable of being, and not enough energy putting yourself on the line, growing out of the past, and getting on with your life. You and me take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost.

You got to sing like you don't need the money,
Love like you'll never get hurt,
You got to dance like nobody's watching,
It's got to come from the heart, if you want it to work.

Be strong...

[CyberRod]

Bro.., I fully understand where you are coming from and your sentiments towards them. It's because of this empathy or trying to be helpful caused my pain and sorrow...

I ever fell in love with one. I was her customer when I was down and out. To me, it was kinda love at first sight. She told me her problems and I agreed to help her. Her past relationships ended badly and never felt loved. I put her and her family above myself... Love her with all my might... I scheduled my appointments around her's so that I could spend more time with her (I'm self-employed). I contributed to her family, her daughter and help her to clear her debts. In the end, I realised that she was only after my money and doesn't love me at all. She dumped me when I "declared bankrupt" due to "business failure" for a richer guy. I felt so hurt as she was the one that I was waiting for... I was prepared to marry her despite of her past... Had the wedding dates and venue planned out... But it was all an act...

Till date, I'm still nursing my wound and never will I trust women again. My attitude now is just f@#k and go (even for girls who just wanna get close to me). Never look back, never took pity, never harbour any feelings...

FYI, I "declared bankrupt" was to test her cos' my frens felt her motives and reactions to certain incidents a little strange. Hate to acknowledge the fact that my frens were right... :(

[whiteangelcsh]

Bro CyberRod,

Understood and agree wif ur views. Wat I'm emphasizing here are the sorrows of genuine FLs, amongst the black sheeps. End of the day, we sympatize and understand their stories, not to the extent of going all out for them. For those FLs who are genuine and sincere, wat they wan are juz a listening ear and moral support/understanding, nothing more...

[sun814]

Nobody can tell who’s who and who does stuff for free and who does stuff for money. Nobody can tell who likes sex and gives it away, gratis, and who makes you pay for it. So sitting in indignant moral judgment about how people are entirely defined by how they earn a living is not only offensive, but also wrong.

Ever spare a moment in time to ponder upon how they are working alone, unprotected, in the dark and the rain and the cold, for that much needed money and at the mercy of any pevert that comes along.

They are somebody’s daughter, mother, sister, and somebody somewhere loves them, despite their life choices. They were once innocent little children, even if their innocence was fleeting, often through no fault of their own. They haven’t had lovely lives and now here they are.

Do we care, especially? Not really. We only become interested when there’s something bad happened to them and the whole thing takes on an appalling, televisual fascination. I suppose it all depends on how much value you put on people’s lives.

Who are they? They are your everyday's freelancers. I'm not supportive of prostitution but morally, these ladies deserves a clap, not just a bang.

haha, then be like me, marry a ex-fl and free them of these miseries. (just joking, not encouraging anyone to do so as my case is different)

[CyberRod]

haha, then be like me, marry a ex-fl and free them of these miseries. (just joking, not encouraging anyone to do so as my case is different)

Almost did bro but I was fortunate to discover her scheme early... :o

[whiteangelcsh]

The initial objective of my thread is not to talk abt love. Nonetheless, many would wonder if a woman like that (in this context, a FL) is capable of loving a man and being loyal to him. If a man falls in love with a FL or prostitute, can she be loyal to him and respect him? As i had mentioned previously, I respect all woman, even prostitutes, they are humans and have feelings.

So, if u ask me on my personal views on the above, of course a FL is capable of loving and being loyal to a man. Just because she's a FL doesn't mean she can't love and be loyal. She’s human... She has feelings like everyone else. The majority of FLs don't even enjoy sleeping with these men. They do it because they need the money. If u were to 'survey' FL, u would find that majority of these women have to drink or be under the influence of something just to sleep with these guys. They dun want to do this job no more than a person wants to do a job they hate. I would bet my last dollar if they could find a job making the same type of money, they would walk away from that life quick, fast, and in a hurry! Majority (I need to quantify that I'm referring to majority, and not all) of these ladies might not have a high education and selling their bodies is the only way they can take care themselves (or their problems). Honestly, the only way these women will ever walk away from this lifestyle is if they go further their studies or find a man who is willing to love and take care of them, less on the possibilities of earning enough to resolve their problems.

[johnnyred]

After reading,i do share the same sentiment.Given a choice who will not choose a profession to earn a honest living.At the same time i think you
need to find where do these women come from.Are they being trafficked or want to make some fast money for the way of life they are craving for.For those who are shrewd they work for a period of time and start a new life.For those are tricked,everyday is a nightmare.Money and this realistic world is the root of the cause.The demand is always there.I don't think even a graduate can earn like them.No matter how there will always be a sad story along the journey of our lives.

[jay.lay]

Why does the sun go on shining? 
Why does the sea rush to shore? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world?
'cause you don't love me anymore.

Why do the birds go on singing? 
Why do the stars glow above? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world?
It ended when I lost your love.

I wake up in the morning and I wonder,
Why everything's the same as it was.
I can't understand, no I can't understand,
How life goes on the way it does.

Why does my heart go on beating? 
Why do these eyes of mine cry? 
Don't they know it's the end of the world? 
It ended when you said goodbye...

Nice poem with great metaphors.
Here's my personal take on life in general:
"The beauty of life lies in its imperfection."

[bunnyrabbit]

You pay them money, they open their legs.. Its just a business transaction.. Just whack and go.. Drink the milk but dun bring the cow home.. No need to think so much its ther choice or not.. Unless we want to whack and become a social worker as well?

As the saying goes.. NO MONEY NO HONEY!

[TheHornyDevilz]

Nice poem with great metaphors.
Here's my personal take on life in general:
"The beauty of life lies in its imperfection."

What poem? Them are song lyrics lah.

[thomas83]

interesting discussion. Valid, intellectual and respectful opinions frm a no. of contributors. Love to hear more of what you guys have to say if you stumble on this thread again as i can see some past replies r a few months old.

personally, i'm in no position to despise FLs as i've engaged FLs before myself. i believe that no matter how one evaluates others, one should be respectful towards others the amount that he or she expects to be reciprocated.

i will not salute the FLs as per arguements or reasons given by talismann(well said). shall not reiterate.

But i'll try to be more respectful if i ever go to geylang for supper with friends again and decide to stroll in the streetwalkers district just for fun. In the past, when i walked pass them, when they lightly grab my hand while soliciting, i just totally ignore them and walk on. After what whiteangelcsh said, pointing towards how we evaluate the world around us and our own choices internally and our empathy towards others, i will keep in mind to smile and decline politely, showing respect as a stranger to another. :)

[goodpartner]

I'm saluting FLs, not writing story or encounters here. Frankly, who ever cares abt them in the real world. Some are out in this trade for pure monetary or thrill pleasures, but the main bulk are strayed persons of our equal human spirituals.

The devil is in the details.

Its just so natural that human beings seek the best for him/herself first, before looking out for others and loved ones.

All these comments around sentiments for whores/Fl/hoes/pros/whatever are based on ones limited perspective, encounter and worst, popular hear-say. Majority of the whoremongers here don't give a fuck about these women except to be concerned about getting their money worth; so there's no bother of 'listening' to them or getting the details to substantiate the comments, which in TS's perspective, referring to a very small group which he is sure deserve some applaud.

Nobody else here can dispute him unless we also give those few cases equal attention. The rest of the naysaying comments here are generalized. Both are right, just that TS bother with details, the rest can't be bothered given other more 'deserving' attentions in their perosnal life & priority.

Yea, for those small group of Whatever, they deserves some respect.

Now, here's the interesting part: Are those guys who given them attention to listen out their stories and react accordingly to his beliefs normal or even applaudable? What about the majority who just patronize them and yet condemn them? That's a totally new topic. Someone pls start a thread :D

[Reoxy]

All of us come into SBF to look for one thing: A Fuck

All arguments are pointless and meaningless.

We are all judged on our actions, not our intentions.

[Rasta Marley]

As the saying goes.. NO MONEY NO HONEY!

Hi Bro, you are spot on with your comment. After all, it is a harsh reality in life that money makes the world go around. It is also quite true that money is also responsible for breaking relationships and marriages. Most of these gals doing FL are doing so because of money as they need to make ends meet. Hardly anyone will do it for the sake of their own personal enjoyment. Sad but true :(

[TempLust]

Hi Bro, you are spot on with your comment. After all, it is a harsh reality in life that money makes the world go around. It is also quite true that money is also responsible for breaking relationships and marriages. Most of these gals doing FL are doing so because of money as they need to make ends meet. Hardly anyone will do it for the sake of their own personal enjoyment. Sad but true :(

Not arguing but sharing my experience.

Has a 3p with full lesbian action with two 20 yo local Chinese gals for a 4 figures sum. After parting with my cold hard cash, they were having their gal's talk about hiring gigolos to get seviced instead. Just for the fun of it.

There are plenty of diff reasons for them to ply in this trade. Everyone is diff and so would their reasons. So don't judge and don't try too hard to figure them out professing like you have solved a mystery.

For those that don't subscribe to paid sex, cudos to you.

For those that do, hope that you get your gratification.

[TempLust]

Sorry Rasta Marley...just re-read my post and realise the part "professing like you have solved a mystery." sounds like it's directed at you and not too friendly.

It's not directed at you but everybody in general.

No offense meant.

[Rasta Marley]

Sorry Rasta Marley, It's not directed at you but everybody in general.
No offense meant.

Hi Bro, no worries as No Offense Taken as well :cool:

[JTen88]

they earn in a day my salary of a week ... so it's really about choice, they chose to provide the service in return for the money

I don't think it is a very "salute-able" thing providing this kind of service.

But it's good work serving our needs, judging from the amount of money bros are willing to pay for 60 min or 90 min service.