The way I lead my life after he passed on

[angelababy3003]

I'm officially 29years old and I'm not here to please or offend people here. Just want to find a place where I can pen my views, opinions and maybe share my stories here.


In October 2008, I've met a my ex-boyfriend, Jenson. He's a charming man in his mid thirties. The way he present himself and bringing himself in front of a stranger is awesome. I guess that is what it should be for a person in sales line.

We started off a close buddies who meet up for dinner and movies. We also club together.

One fine day, Jenson called me up n asked me out for dinner so I went. Upon arriving at Vivo City, I got a shocked. He was well-dressed in smart causal and I was so casually dressed. We went dining in a restaurant and to my surprise that restaurant was so empty on a weekend. Never have I expected that he booked the whole restaurant.


To be continued......

[PanDerMac]

Pitching up the first tent !

[xcess]

You got my interest. Waiting for more...

[Rickey]

I'm officially 29years old and I'm not here to please or offend people here. Just want to find a place where I can pen my views, opinions and maybe share my stories here.

To be continued......

You hav found it !...Welcome to SBF, angelababy3003 !!

...another new sis so bravely coming out here to share abt her life wif us bros/sis.. Wat a friendly introduction...a smooth & light-hearted start but looks like its gonna be a sad story....Thank you so much, sis, for coming out to share wif us yr story...Pls continue asap

[pendragon_sg]

hope this story will be a good one

[ah rat]

One fine day, Jenson called me up n asked me out for dinner so I went. Upon arriving at Vivo City, I got a shocked. He was well-dressed in smart causal and I was so casually dressed. We went dining in a restaurant and to my surprise that restaurant was so empty on a weekend. Never have I expected that he booked the whole restaurant.


To be continued......

TS u got a golden dick :D

[moxann]

Good start pls continue........

[bonkudear]

TS u got a golden dick :D

Hahaha. But too bad, golden dick didn't last and that's why he's an ex now. Write on TS. Camp here for your updates. :)

[oldwolf]

I'm listening sis. Right place to sob sob. Brothers here good listener. You have our ears..;)

[long]

fan of this thread already! :)

[angelababy3003]

We had dinner and wine. We went Sentosa after our dinner, had fun at Cafe Del Mar. At Cafe Del Mar, he caught me by surprise by asking the DJ to play our favourite song and he proposed. Yes, he proposed and yes I agreed. We planned everything ourselves and we did not want to make it a big affair therefore we did a closed door event.

As we were planning for our honeymoon, something happened to him. He went outstation in Hong Kong just a week before we setted off to Korea for honeymoon. Two days before he came back, I received a call from his secretary, who went to Hong Kong with him.

At the particular point of time, I was shocked and left speechless. My tears couldn't stop dropping. He died upon arriving at the hospital. He had a sudden heart attack that caused him to leave me and our family.

After getting his body sent back to Singapore, we were all upset but we went through his funeral. After the funeral, my in laws were all so different and they were thinking like what those elders think that I'm cursed and caused Jenson's death. As to them, Jenson is such a healthy man and a sudden heart attack brought him away from his loved ones was not a strong fact that my in laws would believe.

I've moved out of my in laws' place from then on. I tried ways and means to make myself forget him and move on with life but I just can't.



To be continued

[cantouchthis]

cant wait for the next installment of update!

thanks sis!

[chinchiahoe]

Another sad story unfolding....Sis, look on the bright side. Life has to move on.

[yangyang25]

Sad to hear this but life goes on.... no matter what time will heal you

[Tmade]

Sis...ability to start penning down your thoughts and sorrow is the begining to letting it go and moving on....no matter how much sorrow one bears..life still have to go on...just rbm..tough days dun last...tough ppl do...jia you

[bberry]

Life goes on dear. Be strong .

[MdmVodka]

From a woman to another...... *hugs*

[bombshell]

all the best & may u be strong to move on again.Awaiting for yur next installment.:)

[Ravenzou]

Be strong, Life is never smooth.
Remeber the past but don't dwell on it for too long.

[yang punk]

After the funeral, my in laws were all so different and they were thinking like what those elders think that I'm cursed and caused Jenson's death. As to them, Jenson is such a healthy man and a sudden heart attack brought him away from his loved ones was not a strong fact that my in laws would believe.

Sorry to say this...but you should remind them of Bruce Lee...besides it was his secretary who was with him...not you. They should have done an autopsy and would probably have discovered a congenital heart defect!

[blohsg]

T/S's story is about love lost ... why on SBF ?

[jasper10]

sis, nice story please carry on...

[long]

:( looking forward to more..

[arsenal_84]

take care girl.
and i sincerely hope that your life style is not a downward spiral, as in looking for other guys who resembles your former husband.

[kpkprivate]

Most things in life is not within our control BUT we can decide the outcome we want. . .
Time and faith will see you through . . . . take care

[Canoneos]

If he had a massive heart attack, then unlikely he would have sufferred. Take that as small comfort. From the title of your thread I presume you might have found a way to get over it? Interested to hear more. Take care.

[Frankiestine]

Hope you have moved on and remain strong. Don't be so foolhardy like that gal from Hougang. Life is short don't make it even shorter.

[angelababy3003]

I will pen my story in the next few days as I am going outstation today. I will come back and finish up my story. I sincerely thank all those people who has read and written here. Not to worry, Angela here is getting much better and I definitely will not choose to end my life. I will go on strong and make Jenson proud of me.

Once again thank you to all of you. I'll be back on Wednesday night to continue the story. Take care.

[kiwibunny]

Hello,

Very Sad situation but do not worry about others opinion. The life should move on and do not think anything is Impossible. Always know that "IMPOSSIBLE IS WORD FOUND ONLY IN THE DICTIONARY OF FOOLS". You are not responible for anyones fate. If some thing has to happen 'it will happen" wherever you are and no one can prevent. Take it easy and be strong.

Cheers.

[ck1961]

delete post

[kar1ya]

cheer up and stay strong. he is gone and is a fact no matter wad u do also cant bring him back. since his parents are so superstitious so be it, u cant blame them too cox their son just die suddenly. they are just so sad as u.

stay away from them so it wont bring any hurt to both parties. if writing things out will may u feel better, pls do so! i believe most bro n sis here will show their support towards u! i believe sbfs pple are one big family if not we wont be down here sharing out stuffs and stories.

do tc of urself!

[liberatte]

Little sister, all of us lost somebody before... I've lost my ex gf 1 week before our ROM in a car accident. Now I'm happily married to a very supportive darling wife.
Sorry to hear about your loss. But, you have to bravely face it! Don't be sad because its over... be happy it happened. If you. Need ppl to talk to, let us know...

[owl888]

Sis, we bros at SBF will shower u with more love if u need to find:D Hope to hear your soon. Cheers!

[blohsg]

hmmm T/S ... you're writing coz you're

1) Happier ?
2) Hornier ?
3) Hungry 4 SBF ?
4) Moving on slowly ...

life's tuff ... we have to make our own happiness once in a while ... waiting for your story to unfold :)

[GeMiNiZzzzZzz]

Life goes on, time will heal sadness.

Looking forward to your sharings ;)

[wolf2305]

The world still move in the direction that time will not move backwards.
Sis, Please do stay strong. Look forward to your next sharing.