Hot gf or wife means better sex life?

[firefoxy]

As the above title stated, just wanna ask around. what do you guys think?

I do believe alot of things play a part in having better intimacy level and i do know alot of peeps i know is not enjoying high intimacy level with wife.

I know of one person with a freaking hot wife but he say his intimacy level very low with wife. Please share your experience guys

[G111]

Varies. If you are good looking doesn't mean you are great at sex. I've heard horror stories of super hot chicks being total dead star fishes in bed, and guys with 6-packs and pecs lasting all of 2 minutes/can't make the gal orgasm.

[Canoneos]

Horny gf or wife means better sex life. Good looks help but not necessary. I know of hot looking girls that are damn fussy. Cannot do this, cannot do that. Bloody turn off. Of course, you just want to fuck the absolute shit out of them to teach them a lesson :D

[digby]

I believe understand what are the sexual needs of each other is important to maintain high sexual level. Able to be stress free and have more time for each other would enhance more intimacy time

[Frankiestine]

Like I always say, my wife is just like a piece of counter fake art, looks very much like a masterpiece but actually worthless in value...:(

Ho kua bo ho jiak to put it crudely..

[newyorker88]

Good looks does not mean better sex. Some of them dead fish, dont like this nor that.

Good massage ladies who does not look good but give good servcies are much better and more fun.

Also, looks does not last forever, good skills last as long as they are still able to perform.

[8195]

IMO, its better chemistry that creates better sex. :D

[firefoxy]

how bout if you wife or gf is like victoria beckham hot, or magan fox hot. Will all this pretty girls compromis for lousy boring sex?

[IwantbustyKim]

As the above title stated, just wanna ask around. what do you guys think?

I do believe alot of things play a part in having better intimacy level and i do know alot of peeps i know is not enjoying high intimacy level with wife.

I know of one person with a freaking hot wife but he say his intimacy level very low with wife. Please share your experience guys

Maybe too much of a good thing is bad. For example everyday eat birdnest and Abalone (hehe, pun intended) also can get sick one right? U would want to eat Tomyam noodles, Beef Horfun, Satay or Roti prata or Sze chuan hotpot or Beijing Bao or Hamburger or Bim Bim Bab or Sushi also rite....

[owl888]

So is very important to test drive your car make sure can perform first b4 signing on the dot. There is no termination clause in the ROM contract:D

[naturegreen]

Like I always say, my wife is just like a piece of counter fake art, looks very much like a masterpiece but actually worthless in value...:(

Ho kua bo ho jiak to put it crudely..

Slowly train her bro. Who knows she might just be another undiscovered gem! :)

[calvintan123]

Hot wife means better sex for her maybe...cuz u be dying lusting for her so likely u will give her a good time rather than she. Also since so hot....there will be many flies and bees trying to get her honey pot...great sex maybe but chances are ur nt involved. Lol

[Frankiestine]

Slowly train her bro. Who knows she might just be another undiscovered gem! :)

I thought i found a diamond but when i through cutting and polishing found out its just a piece of glass...:(

[geckoSG]

My wife gave the most mechanical BJ I ever experienced.
PS, I wash my part before presenting it to her...

Sometimes good looks, great bods may not be best sex
Partners. For me, i rather have great sex than good looks
And body.

If the lady kinda restricts too much in sex patterns or watever
I wouldn't even bother to pull down my pants.

Talk is important to know wat each other wants.
From there, exploration is unlimited.

[kammizar]

Hi All,

Saw this post, Had to come in and give my 2 cents worth hehehe, yeah 6 packs can't perform cause he shouldn't be able as he devoted his body into body building and that being said he has to follow strict regime or getting rid of body fats. Getting rid of body body fats resulting in depleting energy reserves that the body require for any "average cardio marathoning activities". Therefore, they shouldn't be able to last longer than they hope for unless they have some medical boost like viagra or other drugs.

Yeah some females if born in a strict family would be probably lacking in sexual knowledge. Consider yourself lucky, some WOMEN dedicated to Christianity, would think that having sex is "only for reproductive reasons" that one you really "hong - kan" situation.

I really suggest that you establish communication with your spouse rather than hold grudges. Slowly but surely infer from the conversation as well from your marital history what happened in the past or things like were your her first and all. If not did she enjoy their first or was it bad or whatever. Make it candid so she will confess to you. If she total "squid" sort meaning "sotong" lack of experience ones, those are easy, those you can use materials to spice her up. If she really loves you, she will would want to express in that manner right? She would want both of you to be happy what? She will invest the effort. But you cannot put her down as that will not encourage but rather kill your marriage further! Hesitant to say this, if she quietly feels that she has someone else in mind in terms of love, then that one utterly HONG-LAN-KAN!
As for those I really cannot help you and it also depends how much you love her to device your own means to convince her emotions to rely on you, blah blah so on and forth. Cause GUYS got ego, sometimes woman don't love you and they marry you because of your background or financial ability rather than love and if this is the case for the guy, the guy may spiral his own marriage further into the ground! So it also means whether in this case you have the that much love towards her to slowly convince her your love but you and I know this cannot be coerce. Female in general are like this, if they love you, u hammer them, scold them wack them, they will still be there for you. But if a woman doesn't even have a little love for you, you will have a long way to go. Some people manage to convince their spouse but I know it is going to take hell of a long time to do it.

As for those pretty girl, care in the sense that there are no regrets in the current marriage. Not true to my own experience and to some of my friends, pretty girls some are super wild if they want to be. Anal, CIM and swallow and even lick your anus, once they know you like it they will love it too. Matter of sexual compatibility and knowing each other thoughts to translate those fantasy into actions.

Be warned, whatever it is, do seek marital counselling, do not use this as a benchmark for your marriage. It is merely an opinion via experiences and stories shared amongst my peers.

All marriages I mean all, especially in these current times, requires working to keep it going. You never know sometimes the woman also yell out for help in marriages and so does the guys, but the strange thing is, not to each other but by acting out differently often precipitate into dire consequences.

Life in the fast lane, fast paced society, well, go figure, good luck truly!

[firefoxy]

Yeah guys i totally agree, even if you give me fan wong or zoe tay but their sex contribution is sucks i won't want to marry them either.

Luckily for me, my gf is very enjoyable on the bed

How about sharing how you guys improve sex life?

My gf likes to dress up but she does not really lke vibrators. She likes to play with ice as it is easier to clean then other food. Please share

[GoeGoeGoe]

Hot does not necessarily translates into great sex.

Chemistry is more impt that then and of course willingness to explore.

i have a friend with a good looking wife who only allows him to do it at home + 1-2 standard positions and nothing else :P

[hardcoremayhem]

i realised very early in my sex life that looks =/= good sex.

i would rather have hot steamy sex + great bj with an average / slightly overweight plain jane than fxxk a chiobu who behaves like a rubber sex doll.

end of the day when we have sex it is for pleasure and fun. So whatever gives me the most pleasure, i will do it! (pun intended)

[freezetheDB]

attitude is the most important when it comes to better sex life.

A good attitude means a willingness to please, to improve the atmosphere, to make our fantasies come true. Works both ways. Needs 2-way communication.


This is also why WL/FL/TN are thriving. We pay money for good attitude.

[digby]

totally agree.. time to find some fl

[arsenal_84]

i realised very early in my sex life that looks =/= good sex.


a very good equation.
is not always about the looks, i find that average looking fl tend to have better service.

[bombshell]

I thought i found a diamond but when i through cutting and polishing found out its just a piece of glass...:(

no wonder u always complain of not having it for months sometimes..:D

[Lamborginiboy]

For me, I think my wife is pretty hot, and even after having two kids, has managed to maintain her figure, albeit through *wink* aesthetic *wink* surgery. Even in her mid-30s, she looks at least in her late twenties and an even tighter bod.

Sex life was great and passionate before the kids came, and since then instead of calling her "Honey", I call her "Mom", seeing that my two little rug rats are the centers of our universes. She dresses up for work, and appearances are necessary for her in the PR business, but even then, when I look at her each morning, packing off our kids to school, chiding them for their youthful indiscretions, there's a disconnect between what you see and what you feel. Sex is few and far in between, and always passionless except on major events such as our anniversary and V'day, when sex is only marginally better.

Which of course led me recently to cheat on my wife, with a local FL, and even though the FL was hot, somehow that FL couldn't match up to how hot my wife was, but the sex was amazing, passionate, and left me with a hop in my step, something I haven't felt for the longest time.

So yes, what I'm saying is, once the romance and curiosity of married/couple life dies down, no matter how hot your wife/gf is..... the quality of sex just goes down the drain......


My 2 cent's worth

[digby]

From what i know, alot of time intimacy is one of the most important part of marriage life, I really cannot imagine if my sex life go down after i get married. Hope it works out fine

[RealEstateGuy]

Brothers, I want to chime in here and add my comments. Good looks will help you to get sex. It is one of the factors but not the sole factor ie personality, social status in SG society, etc. Having said that, good lucks does not mean one performs naturally well in bed. In fact, some of the best sex I had was with one of the homliest nerdy women I had met.

[digby]

Brothers, I want to chime in here and add my comments. Good looks will help you to get sex. It is one of the factors but not the sole factor ie personality, social status in SG society, etc. Having said that, good lucks does not mean one performs naturally well in bed. In fact, some of the best sex I had was with one of the homliest nerdy women I had met.

Care to explain why is it the best?

[cheongsterjon]

experienced some flower vases that looked really good...when in bed....shattered my expectations like a vases shatters....encountered one picked up from a club...kept worrying that my kissing would mess up her make-up and whether she laid properly worry that her nicely done up hair would get messed up...couldn't tahan just chop chop faster bonk her missionary and end....another one even better...dressed like a slut...behaved and looked like a slut...thought she would give me an experience even better than those fls...ended in the bed....told her wanted to change to spoon style...she asked ha? what's spoon?

[cannon2balls]

For me, I think my wife is pretty hot, and even after having two kids, has managed to maintain her figure, albeit through *wink* aesthetic *wink* surgery. Even in her mid-30s, she looks at least in her late twenties and an even tighter bod.

Sex life was great and passionate before the kids came, and since then instead of calling her "Honey", I call her "Mom", seeing that my two little rug rats are the centers of our universes. She dresses up for work, and appearances are necessary for her in the PR business, but even then, when I look at her each morning, packing off our kids to school, chiding them for their youthful indiscretions, there's a disconnect between what you see and what you feel. Sex is few and far in between, and always passionless except on major events such as our anniversary and V'day, when sex is only marginally better.

Which of course led me recently to cheat on my wife, with a local FL, and even though the FL was hot, somehow that FL couldn't match up to how hot my wife was, but the sex was amazing, passionate, and left me with a hop in my step, something I haven't felt for the longest time.

So yes, what I'm saying is, once the romance and curiosity of married/couple life dies down, no matter how hot your wife/gf is..... the quality of sex just goes down the drain......


My 2 cent's worth

For the most part, I agree with your thoughts.

I have a colleague who had a drop dead gorgeous girlfriend whom he'll bonk at least 2 to 3 times a week at transit hotels. Sex with her, according to him, was great. Great looks, great sex ... what more could he have asked for?

However, not long after their marriage, the sparks died off. They bonk only once a week or once a fortnight. So, even great looks will become plain after seeing the same look everyday for so many years.

Even worse, after the 2 kids arrived, sex was just once a month or once in two months. That was the result of all the shouting, yelling and screaming at the kids.

Admittedly, she still looks great after 2 kids, but my colleague says the kau peh kau bu every minute at home turned him off.

Your thoughts?

Now I'm kind of worried about my own sex life :D

[Window7]

For me, I think my wife is pretty hot, and even after having two kids, has managed to maintain her figure, albeit through *wink* aesthetic *wink* surgery. Even in her mid-30s, she looks at least in her late twenties and an even tighter bod.

Sex life was great and passionate before the kids came, and since then instead of calling her "Honey", I call her "Mom", seeing that my two little rug rats are the centers of our universes. She dresses up for work, and appearances are necessary for her in the PR business, but even then, when I look at her each morning, packing off our kids to school, chiding them for their youthful indiscretions, there's a disconnect between what you see and what you feel. Sex is few and far in between, and always passionless except on major events such as our anniversary and V'day, when sex is only marginally better.

Which of course led me recently to cheat on my wife, with a local FL, and even though the FL was hot, somehow that FL couldn't match up to how hot my wife was, but the sex was amazing, passionate, and left me with a hop in my step, something I haven't felt for the longest time.

So yes, what I'm saying is, once the romance and curiosity of married/couple life dies down, no matter how hot your wife/gf is..... the quality of sex just goes down the drain......


My 2 cent's worth

My life is just difference

[freezetheDB]

there was a geeky girl I once knew who gave the most awesome blowjob. Really CIM+Swallow. Sometimes best of all can shoot onto her specs.

[zaricort]

I thinks its the feelings between both of the guy and lady that matters. :D