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starystarynite
03-05-2011, 03:23 AM
I have a Tagged fren who seems to be a potential FB.

I knw she is looking for bf n is intetested in me.but I m only looking for FB. Not long term gf.

Any advise guys? How did u initiate your first sex with her? How do u know whether she is ok to b yr FB? Pls share yr experience? Also do u have the first sex then tell her that u only want FB relationship? Or u tell her everything b4 u go on further?

Pls share yr experience. Thx...

Steven00son
03-05-2011, 04:17 AM
gals and guys dun work the same way.. so its better not to tell her "be my fb" right from the start.. rather, jio her out for a good night fun (hope both of u like to club and drink) and try to hav ONS with her.. that way after that if she is fine with being ur fb, den she will still meet u, if not, she will shy away..

u dun hav to put feelings in this rs if u wan to jus hav a fb. but mind u, gals treat this kind of issue a whole lot differently. they must somehow feel that they "like" the guy they hav sex with.. we, man, can separate sex and love... they can't.. its imbue in them.. so if u are successful in turning her to ur fb, be careful to keep the distance as well.. (unless she hav other FBss, hahaha..)

Jus my two cents worth, hope it helps.. :)

Aperture
03-05-2011, 04:59 AM
Very first step is to tell her that you are not looking for a relationship.

Peter
03-05-2011, 11:02 AM
just go for makan & drinks, and if her mood is happy, ask her about her views about 'what you want in your mind' with her, hope this works for you:)

Chanelfingers
03-05-2011, 12:39 PM
Look for right age group...
26 to 35 optimum
It's like wooing a Gf
Ask her out, movie company or ktv/drinking kaki, make sure she is comfy with u
Tell her things about ur ex and make her soft hearted for u
Then tell her u r not keen on anymore relationship, like dejected / gave up hope. Hate sticky Gf, clingy turn u off...

Advance : try to hold her hands/ stare in her eyes/ hug her or lean on her
She will get it that u liked he but dun scare of relationship
Say the right things " u r really pretty u know that?"

Bring her to quiet places
for heart to heart talk then start frenching her.
etc..Foreplay... If she horny and wants... Congrats
Most importantly, give her a good fuck, do beyond her expectations

She will come back for more.

geckoSG
03-05-2011, 12:50 PM
very simple. If u are a REAL man. Tell her straight that you are seeking
fun only. Not seeking relationship.

Importantly, dun cheat a woman's feeling to get into her pants. I know
alot of guys out there does that and hurt the lady. Everyday on TAGGED,
I see all the women's comment on how guys cheat them, see the status
until sian...

So, be a man or be a cheater, its up to you. For me, I choose to be a man.
Hence, all the ladies that are willing be my lover and FBs knows what to
expect and we last long in our exclusive RS.

thomastankuku
03-05-2011, 01:26 PM
Want to be player must have thick skin and strong heart and not scare tio bad karma. I not say tink its not wrong but got many bros also make use same tricks to get some piakpiak.

If not be upfront also can get FB one la. At least wont mindfuck or tio mindfuck. must find the right chabor only lor.

starystarynite
03-05-2011, 10:59 PM
This is like making her my gf. I dun want that. I want a FB. Nt gf. It is a dangerous game if I dun play it right...

Is easy for me to hold her hands.n do whatever I like. I just dun want to cross the line too much until she mistaken that I want her as gf.

Look for right age group...
26 to 35 optimum
It's like wooing a Gf
Ask her out, movie company or ktv/drinking kaki, make sure she is comfy with u
Tell her things about ur ex and make her soft hearted for u
Then tell her u r not keen on anymore relationship, like dejected / gave up hope. Hate sticky Gf, clingy turn u off...

Advance : try to hold her hands/ stare in her eyes/ hug her or lean on her
She will get it that u liked he but dun scare of relationship
Say the right things " u r really pretty u know that?"

Bring her to quiet places
for heart to heart talk then start frenching her.
etc..Foreplay... If she horny and wants... Congrats
Most importantly, give her a good fuck, do beyond her expectations

She will come back for more.

starystarynite
03-05-2011, 11:05 PM
Ok. Thx for advice. So I have to be like a best fren to her. Dun commit anything or tell her wamt to pursue firthet.

Then somehoe create the right environment, rigjt timing to up her. After that, then clarify n make sure she understand my stand...

right? What wude u talking about..i kust eant to heaty nore they make the first move. What environment ppl create to make those frens of urs become FB willingly.


FB r/s can be potentially messy if not managed well. You already say she is your friend, and she is looking for a bf. Are you willing to sacrifice your friend, because there is no going back after you fuck her. you can't wish the fuck session away. So whether you be her fb or bf, you will lose a friend.

You don't want to tell her you are looking for a FB, which is against why you have FB in the first place. It should be upfront from the start that you do not want to commit into a relationship. Your position is like a best friend rather than bf. If you can't say it, don't go for it. as simple as that.

There is no conversion techniques, and even if have, bros here are not going to teach you either. :D cos you lack the "wu de" to learn the technques

starystarynite
03-05-2011, 11:09 PM
if she likes me, thats it. Defeat the purpose of having a FB, isnt it?

FB cannot have personal emo in it. Just fuck n go. N may be chat abit. But both sides must draw the line clearly.


QUOTE=Steven00son;5903887]gals and guys dun work the same way.. so its better not to tell her "be my fb" right from the start.. rather, jio her out for a good night fun (hope both of u like to club and drink) and try to hav ONS with her.. that way after that if she is fine with being ur fb, den she will still meet u, if not, she will shy away..

u dun hav to put feelings in this rs if u wan to jus hav a fb. but mind u, gals treat this kind of issue a whole lot differently. they must somehow feel that they "like" the guy they hav sex with.. we, man, can separate sex and love... they can't.. its imbue in them.. so if u are successful in turning her to ur fb, be careful to keep the distance as well.. (unless she hav other FBss, hahaha..)

Jus my two cents worth, hope it helps.. :)[/QUOTE]

Krazzie
04-05-2011, 12:19 AM
very simple. If u are a REAL man. Tell her straight that you are seeking
fun only. Not seeking relationship.

Importantly, dun cheat a woman's feeling to get into her pants. I know
alot of guys out there does that and hurt the lady. Everyday on TAGGED,
I see all the women's comment on how guys cheat them, see the status
until sian...

So, be a man or be a cheater, its up to you. For me, I choose to be a man.
Hence, all the ladies that are willing be my lover and FBs knows what to
expect and we last long in our exclusive RS.

Totally agree with bro gecko, if she wants you as a bf and a stable relationship, then no way she will be your FB. Talk feelings in FB relationship is just looking for trouble, especially from lady's side they don't work like guys who can separate sex and feelings easily. Experienced couple of times, called off my FB relationship cause both sides feel going too deep liao need to get out of the hole.

So if you insist on wanting to be a FB so much, you have to cheat her heart lor like what bro Chanelfingers said...tell her you love her but just cannot be with her.... ladies are sucker for that, but it is very bad karma and seriously won't a willing lady be more fun then a lady you lied to get into bed?

owl888
04-05-2011, 12:32 AM
TS u shd gain her trust first, then let nature takes its course. In this modren world there r many bf/gf who broke up after a while, most already have intimate rs. So its nothing really......sometimes its juz fated not to become bf/gf..........but juz fb

starystarynite
04-05-2011, 02:32 PM
No. bad. I wont tell her I like her or lived her. If she gt the wrong msg, thats nt entirely my problem..right..

As for fb, I just let the feeling goes. She asked me ovr in msn why I nvr kiss hrr after 3 meet ups. Walao...i dun no...she sounds fake..but so.etimes real

I m bringing h er for a show n see how it goes.



Totally agree with bro gecko, if she wants you as a bf and a stable relationship, then no way she will be your FB. Talk feelings in FB relationship is just looking for trouble, especially from lady's side they don't work like guys who can separate sex and feelings easily. Experienced couple of times, called off my FB relationship cause both sides feel going too deep liao need to get out of the hole.

So if you insist on wanting to be a FB so much, you have to cheat her heart lor like what bro Chanelfingers said...tell her you love her but just cannot be with her.... ladies are sucker for that, but it is very bad karma and seriously won't a willing lady be more fun then a lady you lied to get into bed?

starystarynite
04-05-2011, 02:35 PM
Any quiet place I can do frenching n touching in the afternoon?except cinema..

starystarynite
04-05-2011, 02:45 PM
Any quiet place I can do frenching n touching in the afternoon?except cinema..n hotel.

Krazzie
04-05-2011, 08:08 PM
Any quiet place I can do frenching n touching in the afternoon?except cinema..n hotel.

Ulu MSCP top deck -2 is the best, but make sure no one from HDB can see both of you else you will be next MSCP lovers to be stomped

starystarynite
04-05-2011, 11:30 PM
But I dun drive leh..how to bring her to MSCP...haha..

owl888
04-05-2011, 11:39 PM
Bring her to couple massage. Very fun as she could b wearing nothing beneath. Oso ask the massueus to dim the lights.......:D

starystarynite
05-05-2011, 10:34 PM
U guys have experience FB keeps borrow money from u? This fren of mine nt FB, already borrow money from me. Say want to see dr. 150. Hai, being kind n dunno how to reject het, I borrowed her yest.

starystarynite
19-05-2011, 11:59 PM
No one share experience....let me share mine then..:)

i finally manage to bonk my friend recently...:)

Get to know her fromsome social website. Went out for 4 times. She drinks a lot..almost 2-3 per week at pub. Iknow she has a liking on me on the 2nd date. But to make it clear,i told her that i am not looking for a gf. Just activity partner.

i also went to a thai disco with her on 3rd date. All went pretty ok. chatting well. and we have some common interest. 4th date is a break through cause after drinking, she seems tipsy. and she said headache. I offered to massage her at the void deck of her house. And half way through i kiss her. She didn't resist. Spent like 20 misn there, then i send her home.

5th date which is few days back. we have our usual dinner. She is on mc. We met up ard 6pm. Accompany her todo some shopping. She got some vouchers. So,use them up and walk her to the bus stop where she usually take bus back home. that was 9+. On the way, i asked her, if i can hug her and kiss her. As that is what i want to do on 4th date. But didn't do. She said ok. But i told her, got no where discreet there. All with peole. Then i point to Hotel 81, there, can? She said no.

She said no a few times, but didn't look angry. i know i need a few more tries.

So, i said ok. She litted a ciggy and i walk with her to mustafa centre. Along the way, i keep quiet. She asked me why i am so quiet. Unlike the usual me. i said nothing, just tired.

Then walk to the end, another hotel,fortune hotel. i said what about this. Want to go here to rest for a while. And i can massage her neck too as she is tired. She didn't resis. i know on liao...but she said that hotel nogood. i want tobring her to Tai hoe or tai sing hotel. Both got transit. But shae scolded me.. said those are for geylang girls.

then i keep quiet again as i am not familiar with that place. End up, she recommend me another hotel at lavender. We walked there. V hotel. anyone heard before? It is $110 nett. no transit. Walao, but small head ruile over big head. i paid and up we go.

Will post 2nd part subsequently.

starystarynite
20-05-2011, 12:16 AM
That V-hotel, outside look grand, but actually the room similar to a nice hotel 81. no difference.So,if tourist, that is good. For booking with FB, then not worth. Too expensive.

We rest in room for a while. i took a hot bath. full blast the aircon she almost fell asleep. i asked her to bath. After bathing she lie on bed. I started to lick her ear. neck. and french with her. surprisingly, she turns out to be super horny. i was almost raped by her. she grab me hard. french like no tomorrow. I bite her neck, earlobe etc. She started to moan. of course,all this, while tuning her nip...she is super sensitive. moan loud..i grab her 36c boob (easily as she is not a small frame lady), then i found out she like me to be rough. the harder i squeeze, the louder she is. I asked her if she likes to be licked. She said no. she does not like.i xian zi bua. but i ignore her. i slowly attack her south.Walan eh....flooded. so juicy. Give her a nice paint.spent a good15mins there. i think she minimally came twice with my tongue attack.i also beh tahan, straight away remove allobstacle,and attach her hole with my tool i thought her puss must be loose, cause she is pretty familiar with the hotel. ONS always....but to my surprise, no. Juicy, warm, and tight...very tight...and very responsive...hai...i dunno what went wrong with me. my cap is just below the pillow. But i didn't use it....i forget the first rule of cheonging....always put on the cap...hai! dunno should regret or what....i did it raw with her and lasted for about 5-10 mis and came in missionary. Her hole is too tight...i should have done longer. But too excited...

Rested for a while, while she went washed up. My load sprayed all over her tummy.:)

Then, after all the wash up, we hug and rested.Watched discovery channel. Talking aout big bang history. i explained to her what is big bang and some theory of the origin of universe. while tuning her nip. haha. afgter a while, she got high again.This time i put on my cap and go for second round of fun. missionary, doggie, side entranceetc...release my entire load in doggie. This round, lasted about 20 mins. Her moan is stereo and loud...haha! Asked her if she enjoys,she said yes.

Spent 3 hours there, and check out. although paid for the entire night.

Dunno luck or what, when dun have FB, try hard to find. When i find one, there are 2-3 potentials coming. hai...jialat..this girl might not last long cause of some other issues..She seems to have to many issues...but is a good fuck though...

sentsggirls
20-05-2011, 04:34 AM
I not sure if I should say this but it seems that TS still learning much here. U cant be selfish to think for yourself only. Althought, I understand that you just want her to be your FB but you got to think for your friend here. All girls have feelings, at the end of the day, we just want to bang the girl but still treat her and make her feel you care for her. It might be fake or what but this will certainly make the girl more comfortable and surely everything will flow in nicely for you.

Don;t have to ask if u want to kiss or hug her, look at her body language it will tell you if you can do those . The trick is do it at the right place and the time.

I not sure how you would have open your mouth and point to those hotels while you guys were walking home. This is really a turn off for a girl. Perhaps , she already wet and horny but because you never ask her in nice manner or suggested a better place and you would get what you wanted.

(not teaching or showing off but just my point of view :)

starystarynite
20-05-2011, 09:14 AM
I admit I have much ty o learn here. Thats why I open up a thread to learn from others. But not much sharing, so I just have to make my move.

I dont agree that I didnt care abt her feelings.

She drops hint along the way in our date. In msn, I ask whete is a discreet place, she says hotel best.

Then she start to wear sexily revealing half ball. In the cab, sje initiate to hug me. I dunno. All these to me is hint. So I have to proceed. She is a gal, she cant openly tell me to go hotel, so I have to start the suggestion right?

If nt how? May b u can teacj me wat is a btter way or approach to initiate going to hotel? Dobt ask? Just pull her there?


I not sure if I should say this but it seems that TS still learning much here. U cant be selfish to think for yourself only. Althought, I understand that you just want her to be your FB but you got to think for your friend here. All girls have feelings, at the end of the day, we just want to bang the girl but still treat her and make her feel you care for her. It might be fake or what but this will certainly make the girl more comfortable and surely everything will flow in nicely for you.

Don;t have to ask if u want to kiss or hug her, look at her body language it will tell you if you can do those . The trick is do it at the right place and the time.

I not sure how you would have open your mouth and point to those hotels while you guys were walking home. This is really a turn off for a girl. Perhaps , she already wet and horny but because you never ask her in nice manner or suggested a better place and you would get what you wanted.

(not teaching or showing off but just my point of view :)

starystarynite
25-05-2011, 12:49 AM
Actually I started to ponder, why the hell I go get myself a FB...more time needed n monet toi. Engaging FL might b easier b cheaper..dunno how many bro agree with this.

My this recent FB, we met 9 times , went hitel twice. But I have spent a lot on hr. Food, shopping, movie etc.

Advice for guy out thete that thought of getting free fxxk by havibg a FB. This is nt true...

No free lunch in this world. If u looking fir companion, someone to spent yr time, little thrill, then may b FB is fr u....

This week, I have spent 200+, on fd n everything. N of course, lots of time too.

I just cant help but has this feeling that he is making use of me for her shopping n meals..i may b wrong..need to observe further...

badboys
25-05-2011, 06:27 AM
Nice encounter with FB Bro, keep coming.

starystarynite
27-05-2011, 09:30 PM
I guess I need to move on to the next chapter doon. Thus FB of mine, I strongly felt she is using me to pass time n pay for wat she shopped. N eat. It gets tio obvious n over board nw.

It is ok to fulfil each other needs. But as someone paying for +r expenses, I felt that should nt b the factor having me as FB.

We should felt gd to each other.trust each other. N treat each with respect. We just fulfil each other lust.n it will b a bonus if we click well n can communicate well.

But this FB of mine, clearly lack of some chemistry...hai..

How to end it har? We met up 8 times...ML 3 times. N I spent 500 plus liao...

Move on, I guess....i m gonna miss her tight, juicy n lovely cunt....haha

0541774
28-05-2011, 01:03 AM
Want to share her tagged profile..hehe? (PM if want to exchange)

Digistras80
28-05-2011, 07:41 AM
Bro starystarynite,

I think is time u exit since u can sense that something is wrong. Seems that she's taking u as a "carrot head".

Before you fall deeper to it....Bail out while u still can. Sure you can find another better one out there.

Just my 2cts worth.

Cheers!!!

starystarynite
28-05-2011, 08:55 AM
Bro, tell me details of yr encoubter n experience engaginf her. I dun want to end up a similar case ....

Thx
stary


Want to share her tagged profile..hehe? (PM if want to exchange)

0541774
28-05-2011, 12:24 PM
I have my way to deal with money grubbers. Depending on how extreme the gal can get. There was once I purposely didn't bring a single cent out with me. It all depends on the situation too. :p

0541774
28-05-2011, 12:27 PM
Bro, tell me details of yr encoubter n experience engaginf her. I dun want to end up a similar case ....

Thx
stary

Bro, I got tried to pm u..but your inbox full.