Does a lean muscular body matter to sg gals?

[simsim87]

hi samsters, i know theres a debate btw whether having a lean muscular body rly helps in getting gals in the local context. On one hand, i see lots of guys working their arses out in gyms juz to get the coveted 6 pack so they could flaunt it to gals. On the other hand, i also often hear and see fatsos wif gorgeous gfs. So give me ur take on this :)

[CoverGirl]

well, not for me...

for me... he must be caring and attentive to me only. :p

[simsim87]

finally someone commented haha, keep the comments gg bros...:)

[silkypussy]

Same for me. I am not into Muscular guys. Thats a danger sign when a guy puts too much attention to his body. It tells me he's too vain for me.

Maybe when I was younger I was looking at 'hot hunks' ... but no longer.

My years of dating men, and liking men are not about how big their muscles are, or how their body is about to rip open their tight shirts etc...

Men who turned me ON are intelligent, witty and a great conversationalist.

Fat or thin, short or tall, it doesn't matter. Haven't you guys figured out the way to a woman's heart is through her head?

I have great orgasms with ordinary guys... not muscular, just an ordinary guy. He made me feel at ease with myself. I can be myself with no false pretense.

Its the same with Long or short or big or small dicks.

IT DOES NOT MATTER.

Come on guys, CLUE UP !!!!

[Gixer]

SG gals only want a......Big......fat..................Wallet. :rolleyes:

Muscles and body they don't really care, sometimes I wonder how a fat fuck can get a hot chick and how horrible it looks when he fucks her. Then I see them walk to their car.....you can guess what I mean.

$$$$$$$ its all about the money, money, money :p No money, No honey.

PS, Had 6 pack abs while in the army, now become beer barrel.

[ycfu1980]

well , of course a guy's earning power is impt but i would say its all about that chemistry feel also. If a girl feel for a guy even if he looks like PIG she will also wrap her arms around him like sugar!!

Horn1980

[simsim87]

this bro is well said

tink thats a female talking...

[Rated-R]

well, not for me...

for me... he must be caring and attentive to me only. :p

so over-weight and occupy 2 mrt seats instead of 1 is OKAY for you, Covergirl?
We are on the topic of body shapes....so No offence to anyone!:)

[Rated-R]

I have great orgasms with ordinary guys... not muscular, just an ordinary guy. He made me feel at ease with myself. I can be myself with no false pretense.

Its the same with Long or short or big or small dicks.

IT DOES NOT MATTER.

Come on guys, CLUE UP !!!!

again...no offence to anyone, but I pose the same challenge to ladies who claims body shape and dick size doesn't matter.

So, small thumb-size dick ( after hard-on ) is okay for you, Sis Silkypussy?
Really? Really?

In my opinion, I think body shape and dick size do play a part.
But I agree that getting to a lady is through her head or heart, not with a body-builder, shirt-ripping body.
Yet...whenever ladies say "body shape and dick size don't matter", I would ask for validation. So really?! Huge 2-seater man or small thumb size dicks are OKAY short-term and long-term for ladies?

REALLY?

[Apocalypse]

Visually, a rip body gets more heads turn, just like a well figured lady. This is nature. Nothing about it. Reason: woman want to find protected. Here lean muscle have abit of advantage

Next comes during interaction, now if the rip guy just smile widely and comment "eh...duh..." That will guarantee a lack of interests from a girl. Telling the girl to skip meals bec her fat percentage is above 12% and go load on protein shakes is not really going to sit well with most girls. This is the part where the wit and charm comes in. There is not a girl that doesn't like a guy that makes her comfortable and at ease, and is able to make her forget her stress and be like a lil girl again. Here muscles r not so useful

Sex is a physically demanding activity. Going beyond 45mins makes u perspire like crazy. Your abs core are tired, your quads and thighs r tired. To carry up your girl u need strong arms and back. Your constant thrusting should come fromthe movements of your hips n waist. A muscular body has more endurance. But a lot of ripped looking guys r training definition and not endurance. Some of the muscular looking guys tired out really fast too. Grasping for breath midway through sex is a major turn off. Muscles here is not so important. Important is training for muscular endurance.

Muscles Vs Money
How are you going to train muscles if you have no $? Gym dun come cheap. And no point having the best muscles but can't provide for your girl. Providing here can be booking the hotel or buying the condoms. You know you have a problem if you are counting the number of condoms you use in a month. If u r smart, intelligent, witty, charming, which a gd body, that can endure many rigouous hours of work at night, and day without fatigue, there is no reason why you should not have money.

Just my 2 cents








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[hickeybites]

again...no offence to anyone, but I pose the same challenge to ladies who claims body shape and dick size doesn't matter.

So, small thumb-size dick ( after hard-on ) is okay for you, Sis Silkypussy?
Really? Really?

In my opinion, I think body shape and dick size do play a part.
But I agree that getting to a lady is through her head or heart, not with a body-builder, shirt-ripping body.
Yet...whenever ladies say "body shape and dick size don't matter", I would ask for validation. So really?! Huge 2-seater man or small thumb size dicks are OKAY short-term and long-term for ladies?

REALLY?

You're right to say that body shape/ dick size does play a part - but only a part in the whole package.
When ladies see the word "matter" (as in to mean "of importance"), it may connote the idea that the man's physical attributes are the ONLY criteria to us - which is not true.

Of greater importance would be the chemistry & connection, and females are generally less visual creatures than males.
Anyways in my limited experience, I've yet to actually encounter a huge 2-seater guy with a size-challenged dick :p
More commonly seen are some men who may either be skinny or have a paunch. It's also important that men & women who exercise & keep fit do it for themselves & their own health ~
that instills an innate confidence that is not usually found in dudes who pump iron solely for the sake of bedding women :rolleyes:

I see it this way: unless I myself am a supermodel with the rockin hot body & face of Alessandra Ambrosio, powered by the brain of Einstein, and capable of earning moneybags the likes of Bill Gates, I don't see how/why I can be thick-skinned enough to demand that guy be mega-hot/mega-smart/mega-rich. We should look at ourselves in the mirror first eh?
Instead, what attracts me would be a guy who is able to connect with me & gets me... whether he's paunchy/skinny/hunky - that would be secondary :)

[Apocalypse]

You're right to say that body shape/ dick size does play a part - but only a part in the whole package.
When ladies see the word "matter" (as in to mean "of importance"), it may connote the idea that the man's physical attributes are the ONLY criteria to us - which is not true.

Of greater importance would be the chemistry & connection, and females are generally less visual creatures than males.
Anyways in my limited experience, I've yet to actually encounter a huge 2-seater guy with a size-challenged dick :p
More commonly seen are some men who may either be skinny or have a paunch. It's also important that men & women who exercise & keep fit do it for themselves & their own health ~
that instills an innate confidence that is not usually found in dudes who pump iron solely for the sake of bedding women :rolleyes:

I see it this way: unless I myself am a supermodel with the rockin hot body & face of Alessandra Ambrosio, powered by the brain of Einstein, and capable of earning moneybags the likes of Bill Gates, I don't see how/why I can be thick-skinned enough to demand that guy be mega-hot/mega-smart/mega-rich. We should look at ourselves in the mirror first eh?
Instead, what attracts me would be a guy who is able to connect with me & gets me... whether he's paunchy/skinny/hunky - that would be secondary :)

A lot of people who look fit are actually not. They sometimes just collaspe and die. Usually during marathon. Every time during marathon we have idiots that think they can out do the african. End up they die.

Pump iron is to carry the bags of goceries from point A to point B when there r no cabs or when the car breaks down.

[sun814]

again...no offence to anyone, but I pose the same challenge to ladies who claims body shape and dick size doesn't matter.

So, small thumb-size dick ( after hard-on ) is okay for you, Sis Silkypussy?
Really? Really?

In my opinion, I think body shape and dick size do play a part.
But I agree that getting to a lady is through her head or heart, not with a body-builder, shirt-ripping body.
Yet...whenever ladies say "body shape and dick size don't matter", I would ask for validation. So really?! Huge 2-seater man or small thumb size dicks are OKAY short-term and long-term for ladies?

REALLY?

maybe sis have only seen 3-5 inches dicks before, that's why she says that, i believe it's the same for all women who says that size doesn't matter. :p

[Shiock77]

Just to add more..

Most important is pocket must be loaded with cash!
rest of the thing can be cultivate later,

No money = Love is normal and stable
With money = she will be the happy lady standing beside you no matter how you look.

Cheers! Just IMOP

[bmirror]

its just a cocktail of preference, self image and what you deem can make you happy in life.

some people prefer stocky/chubby bodies - someone like their dad or mom, others have low self image even if they are beautiful so they go for average looking partners, yet others think a big wad of dough can keep them happy..

end of the day, i think a muscular body only matters when it matters ;)

my 2 cents..

[sifr]

well i guess so ?
its just how you'd like to fuck a hot toned babe with big boobs & tight vaginas, instead of a fat one with saggy boobs, am i right?

[rosepetals]

It doesnt rly matter to me. :)

[blinkblink7]

It really matter.
Many ladies that i know love muscular guy ;)

[Kaltit]

yo TS!

Hahaha! Muscular would be a plus.

Still boils down to what's in your head.

:D

[nomadSG]

I think looks and body is not as important as cash. I used to think otherwise, but after seeing so many of my female friends and sister going out with fat, balding, old BUT RICH men I changed my mind... =.=

[Alejandro88]

Based on the 15 number of gals (age from 21 - 29 years) I asked, almost 90% prefer guys with lean compact muscle something like Abercrombie and Fitch models' bod! ;)

http://http://msglitzy.com/2011/12/abercrombie-fitch-opens-on-15th-dec-in-singapore-meanwhile-check-out-the-hunks/

[Alejandro88]

Hmm , some might like it some might not but personally i try to keep my body lean and muscular as a bonus to attract girls ;) .

Ya, you would feel more confident when approaching the gals. I now spotting a Abercombie & Hitch model's bod!:cool:

BTW, is that guy in your avator you?? :p

[Alejandro88]

yo TS!

Hahaha! Muscular would be a plus.

Still boils down to what's in your head.

:D

Actually still boils down to one ability to make his partner reaches orgasm. :D

[Alejandro88]

If a girl looking for life partner, bod isn't the primary thing a gal looks at. I think ones financial stability, maturity and being faithful are far more important for the gals. :)

[winterwhite]

my bf has a very normal body, not those big and bulky kind, more of lean. although i always look at muscular guys, it's never a condition for me in a relationship xD

[Rated-R]

my bf has a very normal body, not those big and bulky kind, more of lean. although i always look at muscular guys, it's never a condition for me in a relationship xD

I think it's the responsibility of the man to keep his girl interested...and possibly lust for him, always. So if they like toned up men, then I would rather be toned than not. :)

[badder]

Depends on the purpose of getting the girl...

For flings or serious relationship.

I can't comment on serious relationship but one thing for sure you will have more opportunities with a better bod.

I used to work in retail service. Had received direct offers and even cash offer.

Getting spanked and groped by colleagues are a everyday thing. But damn, some aunties customers quite itchy fingers. One young FT even groped my thigh. You will still need conversational skills. May not be a sweet talker but as long you are smooth in carrying a conversation, it would be easy. Help in sales too. :D

[justl00king]

Better to poll whether gals prefer guys with 6 pack abs or 6 figure income? :p

[babezkitty]

Guys who go and work out either love themselves or love other guys.

[drahcir]

Open ended questions. So much permutation.
I rephrase the question:

Sg Gal will chose Lean muscular body over Cash?

1) Try asking that question to a guy that train in gym to look good, and most probably He will say Yes, because that is what he is trying to achieve.

2) Try asking a rich gal, and most probably she will say yes

3) Try asking a fat guy that have lot of money to hang "many many" flower to PRC, Thai lady. Or have the mean to buy a shop for a SG gal to have a business of her own. Most probably. No

4) If you ask me, a normal guy with neither muscles or cash. I will 100% chose money. So my ans is No

What other permutation can you give?

I guess the most important is for the ladies to vote.........

[Armoney]

I believe the body probably matters to younger girls. For the older women, financial stability takes priority.

[groupsex]

What's the point in debating this? You're basically trying to put a one size fits all answer to a question.

There are girls who like chubby guys, there are also girls who love muscular guys.

There are girls who love money, and those who don't care about it.

There are girls who go for looks, and those who don't.

The only problem is, the girl you want, are you her type?

[eyyh]

What's the point in debating this? You're basically trying to put a one size fits all answer to a question.

There are girls who like chubby guys, there are also girls who love muscular guys.

There are girls who love money, and those who don't care about it.

There are girls who go for looks, and those who don't.

The only problem is, the girl you want, are you her type?

totally true

[IBCBen]

My gf said she like my botak head and pot belly lei ........... :o

She like to rest her head on my belly :p and her hand somewhere near .. you-know-where

[BscBMD997]

SG gals only want a......Big......fat..................Wallet. :rolleyes:

Muscles and body they don't really care, sometimes I wonder how a fat fuck can get a hot chick and how horrible it looks when he fucks her. Then I see them walk to their car.....you can guess what I mean.

$$$$$$$ its all about the money, money, money :p No money, No honey.

PS, Had 6 pack abs while in the army, now become beer barrel.



My opinion: Doggy Style :)

Reason: Hot chick doesnt see that ugly fat guy. She only counting $$$$ while he does it to her from behind :)

[jessbaby]

its the thought that matters to a girl

[CaptiVated]

yaaaa i agree with CoverGirl, man mus b caring n loving to gal

[miniboy]

SG gals only want a......Big......fat..................Wallet. :rolleyes:

Muscles and body they don't really care, sometimes I wonder how a fat fuck can get a hot chick and how horrible it looks when he fucks her. Then I see them walk to their car.....you can guess what I mean.

$$$$$$$ its all about the money, money, money :p No money, No honey.

PS, Had 6 pack abs while in the army, now become beer barrel.

thats right :D

[sweetcandy33]

Yes it does...don't see any point in lying about it.

Don't expect him to have a six pack and a super buff bod. But I do appreciate guys who love themselves enough to work out and get a respectable looking bod.

But no pecs or abs can make up for it if a guy has zero personality or if he's a cheating bastard.

[joncheong]

money then matter .... to these sg girls....

lean mascular bodies? haha i doubt so...definitely not in today's singapore :(

[AdGuy]

I hope not. :p

[Lupdia]

I guess if all other factors being equal, a nice lean muscular body would be preferred.