maxpee88
13-02-2012, 04:52 PM
Hi
Let's hear from the rest of the bros
I had the rare opportunity to meet up some one on this SBF last Friday over drinks. But that's another story which I will need permission to write perhaps abother day.
Anyway during the drinks we TCSS and one of the conversation we talked about centred on this topic, because I have a guy friend who is having the best of both worlds.
He and his wife and 2 kids got separated in May 2010. Before that, they had a live-in maid. To cut a long story short, both he and wife got separated due to marital differences. The wife moved out with the kids and back to her parents place. My guy friend got stuck with living by himself and the maid. They could not change or return maid because they don't want to lose the deposit or something (which I have no idea) that will set them back in terms of money at the maid agency.
My guy friend stuck it out and had to pay 'alimony' for the kids schooling and expense, plus the maid even though he is now living alone. But he gets the maid help in housework and foodm which by now is simpler chores as she only have 1 person to pick up after.
I met him and he looked good and I asked him what changed? He told me that after sulking and in a depressed mood for 9 months, he went back to the maid agency on the pretext that the maid was not working out for him and his family and that it was his wife's request to cancel. But the maid agency insisted that he can do an exchange for a new maid.
After a few visits back to the maid agency, my friend finally interviewed and found a 'replacement maid' much younger from Philippines. So he exchanged his current Indo maid for this younger replacement pinoy maid. But paperwork was needed to be signed and so he arranged for his wife to co-signed off the paperwork prior to the actual day he will exchange the maid.
His wife agreed because my friend told her that the Indo maid was not working out and he want to change. He said, his wife was so not interested, she never bothered to find out or see how the maid looked like.
When my friend showed me the pic of his maid, I said :
WOW !!!! Are you sure she's your maid/helper?"
because the pinoy looked about early 20's and looked FAIR AND CHIO.
My friend related to me that he had to purposely go back each time and harassed the maid agency until they also buay tahan him and offered him 1st priority for any new maids coming into the agency. After a few visits and interviews he finally hit the jackpot and got this SYT maid.
He said he took about 3 months for him to able to sleep with his help. She doesn't mind according to him. So no wonder my friend looked happy... BUT then again, maybe the title is not Divorced Man, but more like 'Single-again married guy gets a Maid-cum-FB"
So he gets a maid, cleans his house cook dinner and a free fuck anytime.
Best part he said was that because all maid must go for health check, he actually did another in depth health check for the maid with a local hospital group. When the report came out she was all clean and no STD, he now also sometimes commando his maid.
He pays her slightly higher only for salary.
I told my friend, he is definitely one of the more "smart" married man who got separated and now has his cake and eat it too. Best part is that his wife dunno also because she already couldnt be bothered with my friend.
And maid agency still think the maid is being sent to a married home with kids. Because they lived separately mah and never filed for divorce yet.
This is better than cheonging and paying for FL.
But whether my friend story is true or not I dunno. Cos I have not met his maid except for the pic on his mobile phone, and he has never invited me back to his apartment.
What do you guys think? True or not?
Let's hear from the rest of the bros
I had the rare opportunity to meet up some one on this SBF last Friday over drinks. But that's another story which I will need permission to write perhaps abother day.
Anyway during the drinks we TCSS and one of the conversation we talked about centred on this topic, because I have a guy friend who is having the best of both worlds.
He and his wife and 2 kids got separated in May 2010. Before that, they had a live-in maid. To cut a long story short, both he and wife got separated due to marital differences. The wife moved out with the kids and back to her parents place. My guy friend got stuck with living by himself and the maid. They could not change or return maid because they don't want to lose the deposit or something (which I have no idea) that will set them back in terms of money at the maid agency.
My guy friend stuck it out and had to pay 'alimony' for the kids schooling and expense, plus the maid even though he is now living alone. But he gets the maid help in housework and foodm which by now is simpler chores as she only have 1 person to pick up after.
I met him and he looked good and I asked him what changed? He told me that after sulking and in a depressed mood for 9 months, he went back to the maid agency on the pretext that the maid was not working out for him and his family and that it was his wife's request to cancel. But the maid agency insisted that he can do an exchange for a new maid.
After a few visits back to the maid agency, my friend finally interviewed and found a 'replacement maid' much younger from Philippines. So he exchanged his current Indo maid for this younger replacement pinoy maid. But paperwork was needed to be signed and so he arranged for his wife to co-signed off the paperwork prior to the actual day he will exchange the maid.
His wife agreed because my friend told her that the Indo maid was not working out and he want to change. He said, his wife was so not interested, she never bothered to find out or see how the maid looked like.
When my friend showed me the pic of his maid, I said :
WOW !!!! Are you sure she's your maid/helper?"
because the pinoy looked about early 20's and looked FAIR AND CHIO.
My friend related to me that he had to purposely go back each time and harassed the maid agency until they also buay tahan him and offered him 1st priority for any new maids coming into the agency. After a few visits and interviews he finally hit the jackpot and got this SYT maid.
He said he took about 3 months for him to able to sleep with his help. She doesn't mind according to him. So no wonder my friend looked happy... BUT then again, maybe the title is not Divorced Man, but more like 'Single-again married guy gets a Maid-cum-FB"
So he gets a maid, cleans his house cook dinner and a free fuck anytime.
Best part he said was that because all maid must go for health check, he actually did another in depth health check for the maid with a local hospital group. When the report came out she was all clean and no STD, he now also sometimes commando his maid.
He pays her slightly higher only for salary.
I told my friend, he is definitely one of the more "smart" married man who got separated and now has his cake and eat it too. Best part is that his wife dunno also because she already couldnt be bothered with my friend.
And maid agency still think the maid is being sent to a married home with kids. Because they lived separately mah and never filed for divorce yet.
This is better than cheonging and paying for FL.
But whether my friend story is true or not I dunno. Cos I have not met his maid except for the pic on his mobile phone, and he has never invited me back to his apartment.
What do you guys think? True or not?