Girls don't want you to ask, they prefer you to just do it?

[ferragamo]

"Another tips, do not ask your gf whether they need a vibrator. The answer is 80%, a NO. Once you buy and put it in front of her the No will turn into a YES. As guy we need to control the situation and take the lead. Girls do not like guys who ask them for every single things. "

Saw the post above from LP, and got me thinking

I agree fully with him. it seems that most girls if you ask them like:

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO

but I find that if you just let things happen without asking, as long as they don't push you away (NO FORCE PLEASE), eventually they also get turned on and allow most things....

what are your own experiences?

[harddisk]

Quite true. Not every girl likes to be so direct.

Last time when I first wanted to have sex with my gf, I told her "I'm going to the mama shop to buy condoms, ok?" She nodded.

Now I ask my wife if we can make love tonight, she says "we see tonight how lar" then at night it happens.

The "now" was sometime back, I've stopped asking for sex but that's a different topic.

[RealEstateGuy]

"Another tips, do not ask your gf whether they need a vibrator. The answer is 80%, a NO. Once you buy and put it in front of her the No will turn into a YES. As guy we need to control the situation and take the lead. Girls do not like guys who ask them for every single things. "

Saw the post above from LP, and got me thinking

I agree fully with him. it seems that most girls if you ask them like:

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO

but I find that if you just let things happen without asking, as long as they don't push you away (NO FORCE PLEASE), eventually they also get turned on and allow most things....

what are your own experiences?

Braddah, most women own one.

[hokkien]

Braddah, most women own one.

How abt your high class maid? Does she own one ?:D

[guess67]

True, if u ask me, I will say no.

But if u do instead of ask, I do not push u away mean I am fine with it. :cool:

[wally888]

"Another tips, do not ask your gf whether they need a vibrator. The answer is 80%, a NO. Once you buy and put it in front of her the No will turn into a YES. As guy we need to control the situation and take the lead. Girls do not like guys who ask them for every single things. "

Saw the post above from LP, and got me thinking

I agree fully with him. it seems that most girls if you ask them like:

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO

but I find that if you just let things happen without asking, as long as they don't push you away (NO FORCE PLEASE), eventually they also get turned on and allow most things....

what are your own experiences?

Juz do it... upzz!

[ah rat]

True, if u ask me, I will say no.

But if u do instead of ask, I do not push u away mean I am fine with it. :cool:

I intend to buy 1,u willing to try it. :p :D

[guess67]

I intend to buy 1,u willing to try it. :p :D

U asking me now???

NO :D

[Apocalypse]

I intend to buy 1,u willing to try it. :p :D

U asking me now???

NO :D

Ah rat bro should Rephrase as

Let's find a time tonight to try my new toy. What time should I pick you up?
7?

:D

[ah rat]

U asking me now???

NO :D

Ah rat bro should Rephrase as

Let's find a time tonight to try my new toy. What time should I pick you up?
7?

:D

Haven't buy, kanan reject,so sad :(

[(o)(o) Tuner]

Yes it happens to my wife too.

One nite when I was fucking my wife, I asked her if I can cum on her face. But she said no. I was a little disappointed, but no choice so carry on fucking. Later I thought to myself, why care so much. Just as I was about to cum I withdraw my cock and ask her to kneel down. I quickly pump my cock and splurt 3 streams of hot sticky cum onto her face.

She got a shock as everything happens to fast, she can't react on time. It was a beautiful sight, but I thought this time siao liao, she would surely scream at me. Surprisingly, she did not. She even stroke my cock after that and slurp the remaining cum oozing out from the head. :D

[Apocalypse]

Haven't buy, kanan reject,so sad :(

Mai tu liao.

She ask u to teh neh neh first, make her song song liao then ask

"U want me to continue?" :D

[RealEstateGuy]

How abt your high class maid? Does she own one ?:D

Braddah, she does. Braddah, trust me most women own one. They are just reticent to admit it Braddah.

[Stageboy]

Bros, u will get this if u asked...

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO

Aft u do u will get this..

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO DUN STOP..
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO MAKE IT MORE OUTSIDE THE CAR
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO WAY U MAKING ME HORNY
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO NO NO I AM WET

[guess67]

Mai tu liao.

She ask u to teh neh neh first, make her song song liao then ask

"U want me to continue?" :D

U want tocontinue with ah rat huh?

Don't ask me hor!

[Apocalypse]

Braddah, she does. Braddah, trust me most women own one. They are just reticent to admit it Braddah.

What's the point of a vibrator when they have my fingers? More fun to hear the girl begging u to come over bec they need a warm hard cock inside them.

Of cos u wun understand. Ur high class maid too bz stealing I mean buying lacy underwear to sell. Of cos they need vibrator to stain n wipe it on the panty.

[Apocalypse]

U want tocontinue with ah rat huh?

Don't ask me hor!

Your prefered response is "siao ah?"

[Fighterman]

Bros,

Recently bought a mini vibrator from online for my gf. Hvnt tell her yet, dunno if she can accept. As mentioned by some bros, think i will just bring along to my upcoming bintan trip tomorrow..... Give her a surprise! Hahaha.....

Any bros like to use on their wife/gf/FLs??? Mind Share experience?? Becus i nvr use b4 leh.....

[RealEstateGuy]

What's the point of a vibrator when they have my fingers? More fun to hear the girl begging u to come over bec they need a warm hard cock inside them.

Of cos u wun understand. Ur high class maid too bz stealing I mean buying lacy underwear to sell. Of cos they need vibrator to stain n wipe it on the panty.

Braddah, the point is most women have vibrators for times when a man is not available. Braddah, your woman with you 24x7x365? Braddah, you should hope she has a vibrator rather than hunting for dick when you are not available ie work or biz trip. Braddah, I excuse your cheap shots due to immaturity and lack of concentration in actually advancing the discussion presented by the TS Braddah.

[flamenomore]

I agree that girls normally say no then end up agreeing to it. I guess it's because it's embarrassing to admit. We want to maintain that "innocent sweet" image, see.

But also take note of how girls say "no". If its immediate, you can tell its definitely no. Don't try to push it, we girls bear grudges and remember things. This will come back to haunt you if you insist on doing your way when we already say no.

If a girl pauses for awhile then reply no, it's safe to think that she's open to the idea and possibility. So depends on body language, you really don't want to get a girl on her wrong side.

[trash55]

i remember the first time I ask my exgf if i could go anal on her while i was doing doggy with her, she gave me the stare and say "bu yao, hao bian tai la". Kinda depressed being rejected the first time I asked, but subsequently when I have sex with her I didn't ask and just go straight there, she just let me do whatever I want, she even use her hands to split open for me to enter deeper, and we have been doing anal everytime when we have sex, until i cheated on her and went with her best friend. well, thats a different story altogether.

[flybynight]

Hi bros, I'm new to SB but from my own experience, I agree that many women like men to take the lead, including buy them sex toy, just manuver them to try new positions etc..i think the confidence turns them on.

a bro once said every woman he met had some sort of nonconsentual-sex fantasy..duno if i agree though.

[Apocalypse]

Braddah, the point is most women have vibrators for times when a man is not available. Braddah, your woman with you 24x7x365? Braddah, you should hope she has a vibrator rather than hunting for dick when you are not available ie work or biz trip. Braddah, I excuse your cheap shots due to immaturity and lack of concentration in actually advancing the discussion presented by the TS Braddah.

I see.

high class maid think of sex 24 x 7 x 365 like hamsters and rabbits

my girls are more well balance, and have to balance between work, travelling to work, studying in school, thinking how to meet quotas, win cases etc and of course we get to talk about many many stuff other than sex.

I love it when she is starved for sex for a few weeks or months. of course your high class maids won't understand as she is sex crazed thinking of sex for 24 x 7 x 365.

[PoloRalph]

I ask my wife if she likes to read sbf, she said NO.:cool:

[zelc]

As man, we take the lead, create the ambience and lead our girls on...
Like what all other brudders commented, if the girl don't reject you via her body language, then its obvious GREEN light to proceed what we want to do..

If kena scolded by her after that then bo bian. what's done cannot be undone..

hahahahaha

[shibume]

As man, we take the lead, create the ambience and lead our girls on...
Like what all other brudders commented, if the girl don't reject you via her body language, then its obvious GREEN light to proceed what we want to do..

If kena scolded by her after that then bo bian. what's done cannot be undone..

hahahahaha

Zelc,

Know what is the definition of a mistress?
A mistress is what comes between a master and the mattress!

[soccerboot]

Silence is golden! The more you ask, the more restrictions she imposed on you!

[HCKing]

Braddah, the point is most women have vibrators for times when a man is not available. Braddah, your woman with you 24x7x365? Braddah, you should hope she has a vibrator rather than hunting for dick when you are not available ie work or biz trip. Braddah, I excuse your cheap shots due to immaturity and lack of concentration in actually advancing the discussion presented by the TS Braddah.

i only see u login in and posting here 24x7x365. dont u have any other life than educating morality in a sex forum? such immaturity. wonder hw old r u braddah.:rolleyes:

[n30n]

Think is you ask at the wrong time la.

While driving on the road while talking about work, then suddenly you ask want to do in the car, of course no.
But when you do a little touching, kissing etc, then you ask want to do in the car, the answer change liao.

Girls usually arouse in this manner, emotional teasing>physical teasing> sex.
Get her in the right mood first before asking.

[RealEstateGuy]

i only see u login in and posting here 24x7x365. dont u have any other life than educating morality in a sex forum? such immaturity. wonder hw old r u braddah.:rolleyes:

Hand Cock King strikes again! Braddah, we are aware of your animosity toward voices of reason and voices for the betterment of SG society.

[minahfav]

Think is you ask at the wrong time la.

While driving on the road while talking about work, then suddenly you ask want to do in the car, of course no.
But when you do a little touching, kissing etc, then you ask want to do in the car, the answer change liao.

Girls usually arouse in this manner, emotional teasing>physical teasing> sex.
Get her in the right mood first before asking.

Im agree with bro n30n. its happen to me also.

[RealEstateGuy]

Braddah, women like confidence and also like to play thier traditional submissive role. Braddah, if you can't be confident in the bedroom where there is only one evaluator, she also sees you as a serious loser in the business world. Braddah, Ah Beng might dress up and have GQ hairstyle but most women know Ag Beng is low class SG society loser.

[McChicken]

I agree fully with him. it seems that most girls if you ask them like:

"do you want to try vibrator" - NO
"do you want to have sex in the car" - NO
"do you want to try anal sex" - NO
"do you want to watch porn together" - NO

but I find that if you just let things happen without asking, as long as they don't push you away (NO FORCE PLEASE), eventually they also get turned on and allow most things....

what are your own experiences?[/QUOTE]
I agree that most girls are quite turned off by the above questions.
My gf was quite fearful of sex at first, but when i started to get the initiative to lead her into orgasm, she will just willingly accommodate your request..http://www.sammyboyforum.com/images/icons/icon10.gif

[For_fun]

i remember the first time I ask my exgf if i could go anal on her while i was doing doggy with her, she gave me the stare and say "bu yao, hao bian tai la". Kinda depressed being rejected the first time I asked, but subsequently when I have sex with her I didn't ask and just go straight there, she just let me do whatever I want, she even use her hands to split open for me to enter deeper, and we have been doing anal everytime when we have sex.

How true bro!!

When I asked one of my FB, she gave said "nap bian tai!".

But later during one of our banging.. when she was very high, I started to put 1 finger into her a.. she was enjoying it.. kept backing up into my finger.. In the next sessions, I will slowly move her into having my dick in her A.

[HCKing]

Hand Cock King strikes again! Braddah, we are aware of your animosity toward voices of reason and voices for the betterment of SG society.

Sista, care to enlighten who's the WE u r referring to? arent u the only crazy dickhead here?:D

[HCKing]

I ask my wife if she likes to read sbf, she said NO.:cool:

Lol. good one here.:D

[pussinboots97]

Sista, care to enlighten who's the WE u r referring to? arent u the only crazy dickhead here?:D

high class maids can surf net 1 loh. :D

[Fighterman]

Bros,

Its so true! Dun ask so much, just attack lah.. No also become Yes lor!

Last time ask her:

1) u want to watch porn together? Bu yao lah
2) can do bj for me in car? Bu yao lah
3) one day while watching porn, i asked to buy a vibrator for u? Bu yao lah

I bought one recently, bring to bintan with me... Just now took out while we were bathing together.. She say "wah, ni heng huai hor!"... So i assume is a Yes, i proceed to lick and suck her breast, while using e mini vibrator on her, i finger her as well...she enjoyed so much..moan and moan..louder and louder.. She gave me a damn good bbbj and we ended up doing in different positions!

Actually she is e only gf tat always bbbj me...and her skill was good! From blur blur dunno how to do, till i teach her, watch porn etc, she good liao.. Haha. Think the toy really spice up this whole trip!

Bros, do u all like to hear moan? Or prefer quiet one?

[yabayaba]

Bros,

Its so true! Dun ask so much, just attack lah.. No also become Yes lor!

Last time ask her:

1) u want to watch porn together? Bu yao lah
2) can do bj for me in car? Bu yao lah
3) one day while watching porn, i asked to buy a vibrator for u? Bu yao lah

I bought one recently, bring to bintan with me... Just now took out while we were bathing together.. She say "wah, ni heng huai hor!"... So i assume is a Yes, i proceed to lick and suck her breast, while using e mini vibrator on her, i finger her as well...she enjoyed so much..moan and moan..louder and louder.. She gave me a damn good bbbj and we ended up doing in different positions!

Actually she is e only gf tat always bbbj me...and her skill was good! From blur blur dunno how to do, till i teach her, watch porn etc, she good liao.. Haha. Think the toy really spice up this whole trip!

Bros, do u all like to hear moan? Or prefer quiet one?

haha i prefer moan to screaming type.

[JKrauser]

This kind of things dun ask better, if ask they will just say no. Women are like that one. Just slowly set in the mood, then everything will turn from no to yes :D Less talk more work hahaha!
Bros,

Bros, do u all like to hear moan? Or prefer quiet one?

I prefer moaning one, moan loud loud :D Quiet one like the girl no feel...

[KevinJacob]

Eh I think the opposite. I won't want the girl to scream, freaks me out and makes me fear I am hurting her. But then again, totally silent just makes her a dead fish. Best if she wants to moan, but muffles herself. That's best for me lol.

totally agree bro!