Advice needed

[bambo]

I need some help from senior bros.

Currently not enjoying my sex life with my gf. As we does it at home often, she will not let out any sound. THis causes me to think if she doesnt enjoy it or it is because of the condition that might afraid being caught. When we go overseas, she does not moan as well. I am wondering if i am at fault. As i have the problem of fast ejaculating. Both of us are first sex partner of each other.

I wanted to try FL but something is stopping me. Due to my problem. I am afraid that i will not enjoy the session as i come too fast and end the session. Esp. the FL are mostly with good figures. Any bro can advice what should i do?

Thanks in advance

[super_manny]

maybe your gf is just not comfortable moaning?

have you spoken to her? ask her if she feels good during xoxo... not all girls moan like in porn...

you wanna go try fl? they moan also fake one.. where got high all the time? .sometimes so fake that its a turn off.

go speak to a doctor if you want to last longer. sbf is not the place to come for physiological advice.

[kiukiu]

Ya, agree with Super_manny. Not everyone's into moaning actually. Most important is their facial expression, they can't hide that most of the time. You got GF already still need FL meh:confused: Try to masturbate and shoot once first before u hv sex with her, hopefully can last longer lor.

[saintathome]

some girls are known to be silent thru the whole action, but seeing that u're her first partner, she may be shy and not willing to moan out loud, it doesnt mean u r not good. but if u feel that u r ejaculating too fast, try to do this when u pee, let go n release let go n release at least 10 times, starting it will hurt a bit but after a while, u'll b able to last longer, and masturbating frequently also helps to lengthen ur duration.
for her, sometimes bring in a toy to help her feel high easily, and see if she is comfortable with watching porn together, my gf does watches and she confessed that she learnt her moaning from porn so, this may probably help.
just my 2 cents worth

[keewee]

its is due to the fact dat shes shy and not expose to this kinda thingy...its normal for first timer
u need to try more in order to spice up yr experience...
cos i believed dat she dunno how to react to this kinda situation....
maybe share a few porn movie with her and explore the possible way to enjoy greater height in love making

if u said u are a first timer... its normal for u to cum fast cos too sensitive liao...

old bird liked me cant even find a ger who can blow me outta muahahaha

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

Don't be too fast to sentence yourself. I guess there's nothing wrong with you cos some girls are just shy. Go get her a cute pillow and "educate" her that she can moan and scream out loud into the pillow. You need to train her to overcome her shyness. ;)

Once she's trained, you can recycle the faithful pillow with missionary with pillow position to enhance your sex with a deeper penetration. ;)

Good for you, good for her and good for the environment. Good luck! ;)

[wally888]

Maybe u need some foreplay? Dont tell me u just bang her straightaway without lubricating her:confused: :D

[nudedudez]

Maybe you can try this technique on her: http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=281589.

:D

[Snah]

Hmmm how old is yur gf again? Think she is shy..ESP since u mentioned u r her first sex partner? Gg to fl doesn't solve the problem bro. Like some say they also moan in the best fake way. You shd jus talk to her n try t understand how she feels. Sex will b enjoyable if one knows how the other party feels and their wants...(eg some like different sex positions etc)...no need to rush...jus like our MRT nowadays, once u start yur engine, stop once a while n do other foreplay to stimulate her...:) hope my advice helps!!

[Hiddengems]

Maybe she is the introvert type.Take your time and slowly explore.Dont put pressure on yourself and her.Just enjoy,the both of you 2 will slowly discover each other likes and dislikes.

[bambo]

try to eat her pussy out...if she does not enjoy and moan she is strange then

well i ate her pussy before. She just enjoy it and keep quiet too. SHe will shiver and ask me to stop. THink she is sensitive alr?

[bambo]

Maybe u need some foreplay? Dont tell me u just bang her straightaway without lubricating her:confused: :D

Of cos there is foreplay before banging. If not my stick will break. LOL

[bambo]

Thanks all SBF bros for help and advice. I will try to talk with her and shall see how. Well i did try to ask her to moan during our overseas trip. But she didnt too. Haha. But occasionally she did moan though. Thanks again

[navras]

It is best that both parties talk about it. Likes and dislikes.
Communication is the key word.

[n30n]

Get her to drink a little.
It makes her more relax, and less inhibitions.
Like what the other bro say, even if she quiet, does she have facial expression?

[blueboat]

You wrote:
>> THis causes me to think if she doesnt enjoy it or it is because of the condition that might afraid being caught.

Caught by whom? Don't you have enough privacy? Ask her what is troubling her...

[NastyNate]

It's perfectly normal if your first sexual experiences happen at home with everyone around. You started out like that and eventually get used to keeping quiet. Even today I need to remind myself to moan (usually I just let out a grunt, according to my gf) when I ejaculate, just to let my gf know I'm coming. Otherwise I'm just used to keeping quiet and just enjoying the experience in my head.

You don't see everybody moaning when they're getting massaged too. It doesn't mean they're not enjoying it. I also need to remind myself to moan when I'm getting massaged cos I use that as a cue to let my masseuse know she's hitting the right spot and she's appreciated. It's a conscious effort on my part to moan, not a candid expression of pleasure.

Perfectly normal. Don't stress your gf out with this silly question of, "Why aren't you moaning?". Cunninglingus might be too overwhelming for some girls that's all.

[stonned]

well i ate her pussy before. She just enjoy it and keep quiet too. SHe will shiver and ask me to stop. THink she is sensitive alr?

Maybe you hit the sensitive spot? Some girls may feel too much when you hit certain spot. Just keep trying and ask her how she feels, or observe her response. or maybe she was coming and too shy to let go?

[crassa08]

try watching porn together, might help :)