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Marlb0r0
11-07-2012, 07:35 PM
I often get rejected when i send sms to girls i do not know personally, trying to strike a conversation with them. Just randomly got their numbers.
They common replies are "Where you get my number?" "Where do you know me?" "How to be friends when i don't even know you" etc
Any good methods that can make them comfortable to talk to stranger?


PLs do not ask me for contacts.

BoinKING
11-07-2012, 07:48 PM
hello, you may not know me but when i saw you the other day I just had to tell you that you had the most (insert compliment), I hope you don't take it the wrong way.

BTW My name is XXX, i got your number from XXX.

No such thing as 100% hit, sure get rejected some how in btwn cause it is creepy even for me as a guy.
Next time, instead of sms.. why not just directly call and try your luck.

nuclearkid
11-07-2012, 08:07 PM
Humour and originality works for many women. Be witty in your text and write in a manner that will attract her curiosity or laughter. Its pretty much a case-by-case basis... you will have to customise your pick-up line. :D

n30n
11-07-2012, 08:27 PM
I ever got a pick up that use 2 person tactic.

Firstly, i smsed a wrong number(guy A) regarding something serious.
Since i received no reply, i gave a call and realise i got the wrong number.

Hearing that i'm a girl, A gave guy B my number, and B smsed me: Hey guy A, wan go out?

Since i don't know that guy, i ignored the sms. Later i received a text from A looking for B.
End up, guy B called me, asking the same thing again. Then he (fake) realised i'm not guy A and apologised. Then he continued, "since my friend not around, why not you take his place? Come meet us at XX time, at XX club."
Then A text me the location details again as if he was telling the meeting place to B.

Yayaya. As if!
Smart way to con girls, but still creepy to me.

BoinKING
11-07-2012, 08:49 PM
Bro, u had any success with this approach?

i dont anyhow msg random number..
i rather just talk to them face to face.

get rejected flat out is better than to creep someone out..haha

alan0338
11-07-2012, 09:17 PM
sekali kena the hubby get the hp and get f upside down ... :D

tansy
11-07-2012, 10:23 PM
Yes, I think it is very creepy to message a random number. Sometimes I also get repeated text "you there?" when I am obviously ignoring the sender. Such numbers always end up in the reject/block list in my old phone but unfortunately iPhone has no such function...

Ladyrain
11-07-2012, 10:26 PM
Humour and originality works for many women. Be witty in your text and write in a manner that will attract her curiosity or laughter. Its pretty much a case-by-case basis... you will have to customise your pick-up line. :D

Expert! :D

tomcat007
11-07-2012, 10:29 PM
Yes, I think it is very creepy to message a random number. Sometimes I also get repeated text "you there?" when I am obviously ignoring the sender. Such numbers always end up in the reject/block list in my old phone but unfortunately iPhone has no such function...

Jailbreak and can down IBlacklist from Cydia. The SMS or phone won't even get to you.

Alternatively, just create a generic contact and start adding numbers that you want to reject to that contact. Then, just ignore the calls or delete the SMS that comes in.

westendgirl
11-07-2012, 10:52 PM
MLM machine gun style to ask girls out by just texting? spend some times talking to the girls lah. i think newbies can learn something from the "screwing maids" thread. seniors there emphasized a lot on talking to the girls to get what they want. and they provide top up and taxi fare too. go figure :p

Rickey
11-07-2012, 11:27 PM
Yes, I think it is very creepy to message a random number. Sometimes I also get repeated text "you there?" when I am obviously ignoring the sender. Such numbers always end up in the reject/block list in my old phone but unfortunately iPhone has no such function...
Hv wat sis, iphone can oso block in watapps...howcome u don know...:confused:

2centsworth
11-07-2012, 11:57 PM
Read this message that I send
May I be your brand new friend?
Type eight numbers randomly
Let Fate link up you and me
May this message bring a smile
May I call to chat a while?


Is this workable? :p

minihim
12-07-2012, 12:09 AM
I had this time I got a number from a girl in the IT show.

later I try and sms her and call her. Totally no reply. Post it on FB and some of my Gal friend on fb say this is what gals call soft rejection.

1 dam thing i don't understand why can't the girl just say no out front. Cause I felt that this soft rejection thingy is more hurtful then saying no.

tansy
12-07-2012, 12:40 AM
Jailbreak and can down IBlacklist from Cydia. The SMS or phone won't even get to you.

Alternatively, just create a generic contact and start adding numbers that you want to reject to that contact. Then, just ignore the calls or delete the SMS that comes in.

Ah. Guess I can only do it the hard way. :(

Hv wat sis, iphone can oso block in watapps...howcome u don know...:confused:

No one random msg me in whatapps lei...

BoinKING
12-07-2012, 12:46 AM
no number how to random msg you in whatsapp lol

stalkerboy
12-07-2012, 12:50 AM
Due to my work, I have access to contact details of lots of girls, some amateur models for blogshops and events.. Am also thinking if I could capitalise on this info..

Like any excuse to call/sms/visit them.. Haha.

LiN88
12-07-2012, 01:36 AM
it's very creepy... we girls are very sensitive towards unknown number. might think it's other friends who wanna play a prank or something. :mad::(

tansy
12-07-2012, 02:06 AM
Due to my work, I have access to contact details of lots of girls, some amateur models for blogshops and events.. Am also thinking if I could capitalise on this info..

Like any excuse to call/sms/visit them.. Haha.

Once I got woken up by a call at 3am asking about my vital stats and etc for upcoming job. Hung up immediately when I heard him not replying and deep breathing into the phone. :eek:

asdfghjkl
12-07-2012, 03:22 AM
Once I got woken up by a call at 3am asking about my vital stats and etc for upcoming job.

o m g .. this is serious business.. :o

saltwet
12-07-2012, 07:55 AM
Why not take advantage of emoticon?

For the first few SMS, however, u need to sound sincere. " How are you today " and " Hope you have a nice day " although are common, it is practical.

When the conversation progresses, u may tap on Internet for resources. Find any interesting quotes, humorous messages or pictures, and romantic poems.

I have been successful not w local but Vietnam and china gals as well.

Allow me to know if u need more ideas.

nuclearkid
12-07-2012, 08:15 AM
Expert! :D

Don't have lah...talk in theory only. Its evident that for me, it doesn't translate to actual results in real life. :D However, if I do have 2centsworth's originality, could do some serious damage there...:p

wehehehe
12-07-2012, 10:24 AM
i think whatsapp easier to pick girls up cos it works almost like msn, can have almost instant replies haha

maybe can start off something like "hey. how have you been?"
a question will prompt the other party to reply ;)

Ichigo_Kurosaki
12-07-2012, 10:54 AM
I received a wrong number call and politely told the sweet voice female caller it's wrong number and asked her to have "A Nice Day". She laughed and we chatted briefly and exchanged online details and became friends :D

I received a text from a number (that I sent several texts with no replies) and was informed that it was a wrong number. Instead of replying in text, I called the number cos I felt bad for the numerous texts I made, realized it was also a girl, I politely thank her for pointing out my mistake and apologized for the wrong texts. She works for a branded cosmatic company in Orchard and we became friends too :D

I received several :"Where are you? and Are you coming down?" text in Chinese from an unknow number. I ignored them and received a call from the same number at around 11.00pm. It was a PRC chick with background like a KTV/HFJ, I told her it was wrong person, she apologized ...and I asked with "concern" whether there's anything urgent seeking her "friend" cos she sounded like kinda of urgent. She said just a customer, and I humorously said okay since she already woken me up and cannot sleep already, she must tell me her work place cos she owed me 3 glasses as punishment for waking me up, we exchanged details and I was down at that joint drinking at 12.15am. She's 23years old and from DongBei :D

Just go with the flow with an open mind expecting nothing be best approach. Also no need to bombard the girls with texts as like taking medicine few times a day cos this will scare them off. Just a soft approach to warm her up be good. HOWEVER wrong texts or calls from guys and aunties WILL ALWAYS BE just wrong numbers and terminate the calls without prejudice. No need to chat. Period ;)

Ladyrain
12-07-2012, 11:56 AM
I get calls pretty often though. One call amused me and we became friends.
He: how have you been.. Thought about you. (SMS)
Me: no reply
He: still angry?
Ne: no reply
He: I'm really sorry for what happened ok? It's my birthday.
Me: happy birthday. But I'm not the girl you are looking for. Wrong number.
He: are you Jane?
Me: no.
He: Anna?
Me: no.
He: belle?
Me: no
He: June?
Me:No, no NO!!! @&!@&?',.,!?
He: I'm so sorry. :(
3 hours later night time, he called using anther number.
I picked and he asked the same questions as above. He said he just wanted to make sure he did really text the wrong girl. he also went onto say that it was his birthday and wondered if I would dine with him. I said in jest why not if it's really his birthday tonight and not some prank call. The first thing I did when we met was to ask him for his ic.
True enough,it's his birthday. :o

westendgirl
12-07-2012, 02:43 PM
I get calls pretty often though. One call amused me and we became friends.

3 hours later night time, he called using anther number.
I picked and he asked the same questions as above. He said he just wanted to make sure he did really text the wrong girl. he also went onto say that it was his birthday and wondered if I would dine with him. I said in jest why not if it's really his birthday tonight and not some prank call. The first thing I did when we met was to ask him for his ic.
True enough,it's his birthday. :o

sister, all i can say is you got a big heart. no such luck for me, though. :(

Ichigo_Kurosaki
12-07-2012, 02:59 PM
I get calls pretty often though. One call amused me and we became friends.

You buay steady la. :D

Started a thread looked for sugar daddy then another thread look for "pay by hour to lend a listening ear" to bros..but...wrong number, you metup this guy for FREE :D

You didn't charge him? :confused: :D

Ladyrain
12-07-2012, 03:13 PM
You buay steady la. :D

Started a thread looked for sugar daddy then another thread look for "pay by hour to lend a listening ear" to bros..but...wrong number, you metup this guy for FREE

You didn't charge him? :confused: :D

Affinity dude! Affinity!! :p

Darina
12-07-2012, 05:32 PM
No experience with wrong sms/phone calls but wrong email yes

We ended up chatting on ICQ and meeting up, dating and getting married Haha.

jimbotron
13-07-2012, 05:45 AM
supposed to add this really chic fashion design student i chatted up at the airport starbucks but typoed a number in the email n end up adding another gal on msn
happen they both have same name, n using tat name on their emails followed by yr of birth, diff of 1 yr

pursued both concurrently, dated the airport starbucks gal for a while n flirted wif her name doppelganger, bedded both during the same period

imo, pick ups work in person or im chats but sms is hard not to mention random smses
either she feels creeped out or she just thinks your a friend pranksmsing her

trick is to put them at ease n show confidence, think of it as a hobby where u talk to people, just approach n chat (not aimlessly n definitely no lame topics) without having agendas (at first), find a entry point to gain her interest. dont care if u get a cold reply, your just talking anyway (i happen to like those most tho, challenge ;))

n if your humourous it helps, which was the case for me with the name doppelganger, she asked me for a reason y she shldnt delete me (i wont say what i said since its spontaneous n dont work for all cases) in the end she took the initiative to invite me for a short bangkok trip n hinted she wants to be with me

it takes some degree of skills n like a bro mentioned, affinity but at the end of the day if u n the gal no click in terms of personality, the chances r slim no matter how hard u try n worse, it becomes like a chore

so sms w/o face is as gd as putting a brickwall betw, unless the gal is ultra desperate like a depressed wife having prob with her marriage i doubt it works

Stimsia
13-07-2012, 07:46 AM
Humour and originality works for many women. Be witty in your text and write in a manner that will attract her curiosity or laughter. Its pretty much a case-by-case basis... you will have to customise your pick-up line. :D

Like
hi babe
if you 2 legs are xmas n new yr
can i visit you inbetween the :Dseason lol

Stimsia
13-07-2012, 07:50 AM
I received a wrong number call and politely told the sweet voice female caller it's wrong number and asked her to have "A Nice Day". She laughed and we chatted briefly and exchanged online details and became friends :D

I received a text from a number (that I sent several texts with no replies) and was informed that it was a wrong number. Instead of replying in text, I called the number cos I felt bad for the numerous texts I made, realized it was also a girl, I politely thank her for pointing out my mistake and apologized for the wrong texts. She works for a branded cosmatic company in Orchard and we became friends too

I received several :"Where are you? and Are you coming down?" text in Chinese from an unknow number. I ignored them and received a call from the same number at around 11.00pm. It was a PRC chick with background like a KTV/HFJ, I told her it was wrong person, she apologized ...and I asked with "concern" whether there's anything urgent seeking her "friend" cos she sounded like kinda of urgent. She said just a customer, and I humorously said okay since she already woken me up and cannot sleep already, she must tell me her work place cos she owed me 3 glasses as punishment for waking me up, we exchanged details and I was down at that joint drinking at 12.15am. She's 23years old and from DongBei :D

Just go with the flow with an open mind expecting nothing be best approach. Also no need to bombard the girls with texts as like taking medicine few times a day cos this will scare them off. Just a soft approach to warm her up be good. HOWEVER wrong texts or
calls from guys and aunties WILL ALWAYS BE just wrong numbers and terminate the calls without prejudice. No need to chat. Period ;)
Cool:cool:

wally888
13-07-2012, 10:22 AM
I thought juz call the gal would b the best. If the gal is pretty and got many suitors, wonder how many sms/apps she would b receiving everyday & would she bother to reply your msg:confused:

Ladyrain
14-07-2012, 10:36 PM
I thought juz call the gal would b the best. If the gal is pretty and got many suitors, wonder how many sms/apps she would b receiving everyday & would she bother to reply your msg:confused:

Nothing to do With how many, it's how creative and innovative your SMS/apps can get her to want to know more about you. If you sound the same like everybody else, you can bet she won't bother. Obviously. :cool:

Ichigo_Kurosaki
14-07-2012, 11:52 PM
I thought juz call the gal would b the best. If the gal is pretty and got many suitors, wonder how many sms/apps she would b receiving everyday & would she bother to reply your msg:confused:

Many suitors is BEST cos can hone own KC skill and the chase process is bound to be thrilling :D
Once the cai gave you her nos, we are only as a good as the rest of the competing suitors ;) Just give 100%. ;)

Apocalypse
15-07-2012, 12:04 AM
they always say they have plenty of suitors, and what shit. but when u hack care them and u want to leave, she want to die want to live. after ten thousand times of practise, u know that 50% of the suitors are call bluff, and the rest of the 50% of suitors are losers. :D so how many suitors she had is not significant. she is the target, not the suitors. let them hate you and come up to you and scream and cry. end of the day, you win, they lose. that is all it matters to winners. :p Losers lament about how unfair life is to them.

Apocalypse
15-07-2012, 12:07 AM
Nothing to do With how many, it's how creative and innovative your SMS/apps can get her to want to know more about you. If you sound the same like everybody else, you can bet she won't bother. Obviously. :cool:

a sms that says "your 50k credit has been approved in principle. I will pick u up at 6pm to settle the logistics" is considered a creative/innovative sms? :D

iPhone
15-07-2012, 01:06 AM
ironic for my nick to say but i heard people use blackberry message get more success. they exchange pins which is equal of cell number. up you heroes i too balless to do it

Ladyrain
15-07-2012, 10:16 AM
a sms that says "your 50k credit has been approved in principle. I will pick u up at 6pm to settle the logistics" is considered a creative/innovative sms? :D

Wah, 50k! Good one. :D much better than, hi, can I know you? :cool:

sean69
15-07-2012, 11:18 PM
The first thing I did when we met was to ask him for his ic.
True enough,it's his birthday. :o

and to make sure he is of legal age ?? :D

flowbow
16-07-2012, 12:38 PM
To be honest, if you were a girl, won't you also ignore SMSes from random numbers wanting to get to know you? It's a bit freaky, no? :confused:

WhiteChocoBunny
16-07-2012, 01:44 PM
To be honest, if you were a girl, won't you also ignore SMSes from random numbers wanting to get to know you? It's a bit freaky, no? :confused:

Most definitely.
Though I think it's better if you pretend to sms and say change venue to meet somewhere to a friend but smsed you instead

I got that a few times and usually reply to tell the person on the other side that they smsed the wrong person.

Sometimes they sms back to chat with you for a bit though most don't

blacky123444
16-07-2012, 03:53 PM
next time just txt a lady and say that there is a glitch in ur hp and you can only see number. Then just ask them who they are.

Or you can ask where you guys meet before. anyway what I am saying is just dun make it so obvious that you got her contact from someone.

Xiao_Zhu168
17-07-2012, 05:05 PM
I ever got a pick up that use 2 person tactic.

Firstly, i smsed a wrong number(guy A) regarding something serious.
Since i received no reply, i gave a call and realise i got the wrong number.

Hearing that i'm a girl, A gave guy B my number, and B smsed me: Hey guy A, wan go out?

Since i don't know that guy, i ignored the sms. Later i received a text from A looking for B.
End up, guy B called me, asking the same thing again. Then he (fake) realised i'm not guy A and apologised. Then he continued, "since my friend not around, why not you take his place? Come meet us at XX time, at XX club."
Then A text me the location details again as if he was telling the meeting place to B.

Yayaya. As if!
Smart way to con girls, but still creepy to me.

totally dun understand what u trying to say... :confused:

Xiao_Zhu168
17-07-2012, 05:11 PM
teach u all one method..just randomly text some number..hey xxx, share with u, i just won 5million toto,i only share this great news with u, please dun let others know..

no matter is a man or woman..sure reply u fast ~ :D