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[richard1979]

All bros,

I have a problem and would really appreciate your advice.

Recently, I initate sex with my gf and she agreed. I was so happy but it turns out to be a nightmare to me. I couldn't erect to the max. Everything was fine. The foreplay was good, until when I tried to put on the condom and my lil bro shrink. It can only erect when I mast w my own hand. I'm thinking of a few possibilites that might have cause my erection problem.

1) Am I having erection problems?
2) Am I sensitive to condoms?

Any other possibilites?

[tomabcde8]

Probably you're too pressurized to want to give your gf a good time, which results in inability to erect. When you're making love to your gf, just follow the flow, and everything will turn out fine. :)

[Robinho]

You are allergic to condoms. You shouldn't use it.:D

Jokes aside,

Just relax...;)

[dickster_99]

You are too pressurised to perform. Just relax and enjoy.

[SharkAttack]

ask your gf to mast it a little? Tell her that its asleep as it needs some encouragement or its just shy.

Anything to make fun on the situation to turn things around. A good laugh relax everyone's nerve and set things on the right mood.

At least its not 1st n only shot wonder type

[richard1979]

Thanks all for the advice.

Just some additional infos,

I'm still a V so I might get too sexcitied.
I tried ways to get everything right but I guess I had just pushed everything too quickly.
She did mast for me but maybe her skills not that great yet as she is also a V. Her BBBJ also didnt wake my lil bro up much.
Feel really demoralised and disappointed I couldn't do things right to the mood.

[nobody`]

Bro.. You are too stressed and think too much about it already

[n30n]

You think too much!

1) Performance Anxiety- think too much, too kanchiong.

2) You DIY too much, too used to your own hands that other stimulation won't get you to feel good. Abstain from DIY regardless if you'll end up a one-shot wonder. If you need stimulation, ask her to do it. Teach her the spots and position to do for you. Learn to enjoy her feel.

3) It's not all easy and smooth to pop a virgin. It may take more than 3-5 tries to fully enter her depending on her body. You may need some lub to help you if she's nervous and tensed up there.

4) You may have issues with the condom. Too tight, too baggy, too loose, sensitive to chemicals etc.

Last but not least, the keyword is RELAX.
It's suppose to be enjoyable and fun. No one's judging anyone, don't treat it like an exam.

[solountipo]

All bros,

I have a problem and would really appreciate your advice.

Recently, I initate sex with my gf and she agreed. I was so happy but it turns out to be a nightmare to me. I couldn't erect to the max. Everything was fine. The foreplay was good, until when I tried to put on the condom and my lil bro shrink. It can only erect when I mast w my own hand. I'm thinking of a few possibilites that might have cause my erection problem.

1) Am I having erection problems?
2) Am I sensitive to condoms?

Any other possibilites?

Well, I suggest you see a doctor rather than getting stress out with the possibilities. If after check up and its only a mental block issue, try cialis as an enhancement to get over the mental block. PM me if you are interested cos I got some supplies to let go.

[UnSexpected]

I think you have put too much pressure on yourself. Many a times, the state of mind of the big head will affect the small head.

[Deesiaokia]

Bro, u give yourself too much pressure Liao lah.. I also the same as u before.. Too gan jiong to perform end up haven penetrate my fb, my Didi fall asleep when i trying to put on condom :mad:
My advise is to u is to relax..

[asdfghjkl]

or maybe you like *ahem* :o

[richard1979]

Really appreciate all the kind advice you bros gave.
Sorry I have no power to up to return the favours.
But I will bear in mind all the advices and be relax. If it's still fails, I might have to consult a doc (Hopefully this is not the case)

Thanks again to all the advices.

[kal79]

Problem lies in the mind bro, too nervous?
calm down abit might help u not so tensed up.

[DreamOfLust]

what condoms are you using? durex tends to be a little thicker... can consider okamoto 002 ;)

[naturegreen]

TS, it can't be your first time right? Did you DIY just before that?

[MultiOrgasGuy]

1. Relax, otherwise stress may affect you getting an erection.

2. Stop masturbation for a while before having sex, as you are too used to getting arousal and erection from masturbating, this may affect your sexual arousal when you are with GF.

3. Some virgin girls have really tight vagina so it may take an erect penis a few hours or even a few sessions before full penetration is achieved. If your penis is only semi-erect, then penetration is almost impossible. Do more foreplay with her, get her to give you a blowjob or handjob, then penetrate her slowly...

Good luck and all the best wishes for you!

[audacious]

Likely due ti fatigue. Exercise and rest early.

[westendgirl]

Richard, how old are you? Try soMe porn to relax w your love & see how.

[NehNehGorJi]

I think you should relax, it must be anxiety attack bro