Would you take an Ex FL as your GF?

[Geiko]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

[Armadio]

I don't see why not

[Confidante]

I will accept her as long she is not doing it anymore!

[dk1903]

for me, it's more complicated.

what were the reasons for becoming a FL? sick parents, young brother, single parent, all these are valid reasons.
need to buy prada, LV, etc.. these are not valid reasons.

if circumstances force you to be one, i will welcome you as a GF with open arms.
if u were just being materialistic, then how can i tell if u like me for who i am or for the money that i have?

[topcook1]

Is not easy situation. You got to really accept her past especially when you bonking her. You got to face your friends and family too. Lastly your love for her must be damn strong.

[sammyboyfor]

for me, it's more complicated.

what were the reasons for becoming a FL? sick parents, young brother, single parent, all these are valid reasons.
These are the bullshit, fairy tales they tell their clients.:p

need to buy prada, LV, etc.. these are not valid reasons.


This is always the real reason. :D

[cameeng]

Never, a FL is forever tainted, imagine every guy whom walk by smile at her....you will think he is ex client

[AtlasShrugged]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

Is it? Ex FL here??
It is best to keep quiet if he didn't ask. Everybody has secrets..

[grey82]

why not, as long as she dont do it anymore....

who dont have past...

in a way, will there be FL if we man dont create a market for it???

[StyleDoc]

Love is unconditional. If I have a gf and found out that she worked as an FL before, I'd hug and tell her that I'll accept her for who she is and kiss her tenderly.

[Apocalypse]

Unconditional love is reserved for people who live outside of time. Two kind of people can give unconditional love:

1. God
2. An immortal being, vampires, werewolves etc.

This is because the girl will eventually die and they won't.

God won't feel lonely
Immortal can wait 80 years for a girl

I can't.

Therefore my love is conditional. My love is rational and logical.

If she said she was an ex-FL from the start, you know what you will be facing and and that is fair. A lady that has the courage to tell the person she loves, her past deserves a shot (no pun intended). She also deserves to be respected even if she is still looking for love in the wrong places.

A lady that does not tell me and waits for me to find out, I have no hesitation of asking her to fuck off, especially if she acts goody, self righteous and all.

[TheSeeker]

for me, it's more complicated.

what were the reasons for becoming a FL? sick parents, young brother, single parent, all these are valid reasons.
need to buy prada, LV, etc.. these are not valid reasons.

if circumstances force you to be one, i will welcome you as a GF with open arms.
if u were just being materialistic, then how can i tell if u like me for who i am or for the money that i have?

Hi dk1903 bro,

Please accept my humble +3 rep, we share similar views. :)

In my opinion, if it is due to trying situations in life and she succumb herself, though initially it may be difficult to accept but still it's at least substantial grounds.

However if it is for material gains, then it would just feel wrong.

[solountipo]

Looking at the poll results , many will dump her for telling the truth.

[sammyboyfor]

Looking at the poll results , many will dump her for telling the truth.

Wouldn't you ask for your money back if you thought you'd bought a new car and it turned out to be an ex rental?:rolleyes:

[nuclearkid]

A variation to the poll question to pick the mind of fellow forummers. If you would not date a former FL, would you date a girl who had a promiscuous history? I believe the pool for the latter would be larger. What would be the mitigating reasons for the leniency?

And to answer the poll, no, I wouldn't date a former FL as my gf. Am afraid of feeling insignficant if she out-perfoms me in bed. :D

[xupernatural]

I would accept

[sane1]

TS,

A woman should know how to protect herself. U will never know whether this caring man who love u now will turn into a monster to use this against u when things turn ugly, shame you in front of the kids in the event of a divorce n make known to the world.

There r wild things to do when young but dun let it return to haunt you when u r ready to settle down n interfere ur happiness.

There r many things to ponder. Dun bare your heart to every potential guy u meet.

Know yourself first n what u really want before making any kind of decision, ur own life, u decide.

[jhtweee455]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

Considering I have visited my FLs, I would accept.

[Geiko]

Thank you All for the inputs so far

Yes I was a ex FL, thats the past and the past is the past. What I am looking forward to is today and tomorrow.

[hornyshit]

Jia yu! U have my support sister. Dont look back. What pass is pass . Move forward.

[Pokercard]

Thank you All for the inputs so far

Yes I was a ex FL, thats the past and the past is the past. What I am looking forward to is today and tomorrow.

what will u do if ur bf confess that he visited FL b4?

[BiRd13]

I don't mind as long as she quit the scene :)
I have an ex who work as a FL too... When I'm with her, I did not know she's in FL line until one day she told me about it... Something different is that she's no longer in the line when she's with me... It was her 'past' already... And yes, our rs went on quite well for about 3yrs before we both broke up...

[Geiko]

what will u do if ur bf confess that he visited FL b4?

IF B4 with me its okie as well!

[jsparrow]

FL or not they're all humans.....and humans are entitled to love......

[asdfghjkl]

judging from the numerous threads of marrying FLs.. i guess many would do so.. :o

[dottie86]

Yes i will accept if she longer is a fl anymore.
if chemistry allowed, i will still marry her.

[mr_missile]

Yes I was a ex FL, thats the past and the past is the past. What I am looking forward to is today and tomorrow.

let the past be the past so you can move on into the future and never look back. all the best to u. :)

[lao Gui]

Yes, the past is gone forever...... move on, all the best to you.
Make sure you don't turn back.

[kim-seng-heng]

If she is very rich . I dont mind too.

[jimbotron]

for me, it's more complicated.

what were the reasons for becoming a FL? sick parents, young brother, single parent, all these are valid reasons.
need to buy prada, LV, etc.. these are not valid reasons.

if circumstances force you to be one, i will welcome you as a GF with open arms.
if u were just being materialistic, then how can i tell if u like me for who i am or for the money that i have?

similar thoughts as above, with one other factor

it will be important to me whether she tells me honestly before the r/ship develops too far, its only fair for me to have all the facts out in the open b4 i make a choice

if she lays the fact out to me i will definitely consider but if she hides n the truth comes out most likely i will end it even if i alr have feelings for her

sis geiko, i'd advise u to tell him n let him make his choice, no point hiding, the truth will come out eventually, if u hide knowing he cant accept, he is prob not the one for u
just imagine u seeing a former client who happens to be his friend or relative, life will be hell

[Geiko]

sis geiko, i'd advise u to tell him n let him make his choice, no point hiding, the truth will come out eventually, if u hide knowing he cant accept, he is prob not the one for u
just imagine u seeing a former client who happens to be his friend or relative, life will be hell

Agree with you. I find it unfair to him and honestly it really disturbs me when I had to lie to cover up a lie. I rather be comfy with the person I like and want to be with that share the same sentiments with me.

[Geiko]

Hi All


After starting a poll, the responses were very encouraging. I have decided to take the next step and appeal for something more! But first let me introduce myself. I am a tall gal around 1.7m and definitely not obese, nothing to shout about just a girl next door look but a hungry cougar in bed. I was an ex FL and my appetite for sex is high, very high! I am only 22 but unfortunately look older and womanly. Hmmm what I am looking for……….. A FwB and maybe someone more long termed than that? Well lets nature take its own course then.


I am looking for someone that is single and not attached , 1.77m and above in height, someone not fat, well endowed with a power tool of minimum 6” x 2” which can function well in and out of bed. The rest of the requirements will be more on personality and chemistry which I think I need to chat and date to know. I am very particular on the physical aspects so please do not apply if you fail them. Last but not least Chinese bros only, sorry no Malays no Indians. Those that include their pictures will have priority.


Please understand that I hold a full time job and only those that are selected will be contacted. I apologize here in advance to those that I don’t reply to if they are not selected. Please email your application to [email protected] with your age, height, weight, size of tool, SBF nick and introduction of yourself. Impress me with FACTS only please. Those that show Inability to follow my instructions for the applications will be ignored immediately.


Thank you

Mavis

[Torch_Man]

1st n foremost,
nobody is perfect, everybody got a history, b it gd or not gd..... sum r worthy 2 shout abt, sum r not so glamrous abt individual's history....
within any frenship or relationship, communication is important,
but mo vital is understandin, 4givin, compromise n carryin on movin 2gether each other.......

compared 2 our grand-parents (sex is a taboo, or private) hwever nwadys men n women has evolved drastically,
nw sex is an open bk: give n take, seekin personal pleasure or climax....

personally, if u took such courage 2 tell d whole world,
dat u was an ex-fl b4 (whoever u choose, or d other guy mite b ur FwB) or watever it may turn out,
i hope u happiness........

my answer:
definitely yes..


jz sharin,
:)

[HCKing]

Love is unconditional. If I have a gf and found out that she worked as an FL before, I'd hug and tell her that I'll accept her for who she is and kiss her tenderly.

the more i read yr post the more u reminds me of the legendary bro KIKO.:eek:

[phaenteirae]

my girlfriend's an ex freelancer as well.

she was in the line for about 2 years & what she told me was that the more she did it with different men , the more horny she'd get.

sounds weird but i guess what she says is true, because thats how i feel when i do it with different girls, lol.

[Dtsyl]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

Many girls nowadays are doing FL anyway so this is sure to happen. Really depends on how special she is to me basically. But I am with an ex FL now but only thing is I knew her thro that way and she no longer works like that anymore. So yeah it can be done. :)

[Moooo]

I will accept her past provided she does not go back to it.

[S.B.Y.1]

Everyone has a past - Live and Let Live

[kkocheah]

If she tell me in the beginning and i really love her, i wll accept who she is..Not everbody will have the courage to reveal what he or she done in the past.

[xmilkbarx]

everyone went into FL for different reasons, some had no choice but to do it. if given a choice who will want to do it? they rather find a man they love and really enjoy it. i believe that between a couple there should not have anything to hide from each other, it is going to turn really really bad if things went well and suddenly he knows about the truth about your past. better to be truth at the start and if he accepts it, he will. everyone does silly mistakes here and there, as long they are willing to change for the better why not? we are nobody to judge another person's life or what they have done. we accept them for who they are.

just 2 cents........

[sammyboyfor]

everyone went into FL for different reasons, some had no choice but to do it. .

That's rubbish. Everyone has a choice. They do it because it's easy money and a short cut to the good things in life.

The grandmothers and great grand mothers of the current generation toiled 14 hours a day as hawkers or washing and ironing for the wealthy when they were young. My grandmother put 14 children through school as a seamstress earning a pittance.

They had a sense of honor, self respect and dignity. The shame of selling their bodies was something they could never live with.

Nowadays it's anything goes as long as the money is good.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

I think it should be the other way round.

It should be she wanted to tell the truth before we accepting her as our cai :D

No need to U turn or dump cos already spent time dating for weeks liao, just accept la. As long as she don't open mouth to borrow money and no RAW, don't waste mah. Also give the girl a tiger for being honest and upfront ;)

the more i read yr post the more u reminds me of the legendary bro KIKO.:eek:

He living in dreamland one :D

[Geiko]

I think it should be the other way round.

It should be she wanted to tell the truth before we accepting her as our cai :D


I am sure if its just FBs there are many to choose from but I prefer looking for someone with more potential thats why I prefer to come clean and bare it out cos if he accepts me, he will get to see me clean and bare in another way as well. :D

[AlexV]

You come across as a pretty shallow human.

Points for wanting to come clean about your past? You should as a decent human, want and need to do this with anyone you intend to spend the rest of your life with. Your partner deserves to know this so he knows what he is getting himself into.

Hopefully you have been responsible and been checked up for diseases. But there are also social repercussions from your past as an FL that can affect the future with your partner. Imagine the difficult situation you woudl put your family and future loved ones in if you had children, and did not tell your husband of your past and then someone publicly outs you. He's now stuck trying to explain to his kid....this is just 1 example.

Furthermore, to now turn around and ask guys to basically "apply" to date you.....and the audacity to say such things as "Those that show Inability to follow my instructions for the applications will be ignored immediately."

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

First you come asking for guys to forgive your past, then you say but only if you got 6" by 2" cock.

Sammyboy was right, you were obviously a FL due to wanting superficial things such as LV bag.

[jhtweee455]

That's rubbish. Everyone has a choice. They do it because it's easy money and a short cut to the good things in life.

The grandmothers and great grand mothers of the current generation toiled 14 hours a day as hawkers or washing and ironing for the wealthy when they were young. My grandmother put 14 children through school as a seamstress earning a pittance.

They had a sense of honor, self respect and dignity. The shame of selling their bodies was something they could never live with.

Nowadays it's anything goes as long as the money is good.

Sounds like you are no different actually. You are running a site based on prostitution and making income off it and you despise them so much?

[eugene_wong]

From her requirement for a male, I can see the other way round. It is more of her having so high expectation and demanding rather than being a little humble as an ex-FL.

It is not a matter of whether any guy would accept her but how good a guy need to be in order to be accepted by her!

[KinJioKar]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.Everyone has a past. As lomg as each can mutually respect

[leelili]

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[Moooo]

From her requirement for a male, I can see the other way round. It is more of her having so high expectation and demanding rather than being a little humble as an ex-FL.

It is not a matter of whether any guy would accept her but how good a guy need to be in order to be accepted by her!

Why not see it as what she had being thru all these and she knows what she wants. I don't pass her requirements as well but she does gets a choice right FL no FL now, Ex FL or what.

[Geiko]

You come across as a pretty shallow human.

Hopefully you have been responsible and been checked up for diseases. But there are also social repercussions from your past as an FL that can affect the future with your partner. Imagine the difficult situation you woudl put your family and future loved ones in if you had children, and did not tell your husband of your past and then someone publicly outs you. He's now stuck trying to explain to his kid....this is just 1 example.

Furthermore, to now turn around and ask guys to basically "apply" to date you.....and the audacity to say such things as "Those that show Inability to follow my instructions for the applications will be ignored immediately."



I am a Ex FL tats the truth. And the other truths are I am disease free and most of all guilt free of not keeping anything as a secret. Isn't that what I am doing now in which you are making a fuss about as well? FYI, I am single and do not have a BF or FB at the moment.

From her requirement for a male, I can see the other way round. It is more of her having so high expectation and demanding rather than being a little humble as an ex-FL.

It is not a matter of whether any guy would accept her but how good a guy need to be in order to be accepted by her!

Fl or not FL, every gal in this forum that asks for a FB has a choice. Too bad my choice or requirement no matter how I bring it down is still way too high for the both of you.

[sammyboyfor]

Sounds like you are no different actually. You are running a site based on prostitution and making income off it and you despise them so much?

I don't despise them at all. Whores are professionals that provide an essential service and many do an excellent job and I commend them highly for that.

However, the traits that make them excellent whores let them down when it comes to being a good wife or faithful girlfriend.

An analogy can be found on the sports field. An athlete who is an excellent distance runner will never win the shot putt. The physique of a distance runner means they don't have the strength required to do well in throwing events.

Whores don't make good wives and good wives won't be able to perform well as whores. Life is all about finding the right person for the right job.

[asdfghjkl]

very good.. prostitutes actually lower the crime rate.. :o

[sammyboyfor]

This what happens when you try to convert "whore" to "girlfriend". :rolleyes:

*************************

Man slashes prostitute girlfriend’s face

inSing.com - 25 July 2012 4:13 PM | Updated 4:19 PM

An ‘interesting’ job has landed one 50-year-old man in jail.

Ng Chye Ming’s job was to be a lookout for hookers from China at Geylang Lorong 24 and 27.

One of the prostitutes from China, 38-year-old Sun Qiuxia, was his girlfriend and he had slashed her face with a knife after she had demanded a breakup, reported Lianhe Wanbao.

Ms Sun arrived in Singapore in April 2010 and got to know Ng via a friend in December that year.

She had engaged his lookout services and soon the two began to develop a relationship and became lovers, reported the Chinese daily.

During investigations, Ng admitted he received the names and contact numbers of 18 prostitutes from China from a man and was told to act as a lookout for them.

The paper said he would provide information to the prostitutes such as when police raids occurred.

He was charging each prostitute $100 a month.

Investigations showed that he would warn prostitutes by sending a coded text message and even let them know when the coast was clear to resume their work.

On 17 March 2011, Ms Sun had an argument with Ng and texted him not to look for her again.

Ng was enraged and went to Geylang Lorong 24 to look for her. He dragged Ms Sun into a taxi and went home which was actually located nearby at Geylang Lorong 16, reported the Chinese daily.

Around 2am that night, the two began arguing over money and Ms Sun accused Ng of treating her like a sex slave.

The angry man then grabbed a 9cm knife and slashed her left cheek.

According to court documents, Ng had also threatened to kill her.

The Lianhe Wanbao report said Ms Sun called the police after her face was slashed and was sent to hospital.

[mr_missile]

This what happens when you try to convert "whore" to "girlfriend". :rolleyes:



boss, most of us here who happen to read your posts will know your stance regarding FLs and their suitability in being girlfriends and/or wives.

but surely there ought to be some happy endings somewhere out there?

[sammyboyfor]

but surely there ought to be some happy endings somewhere out there?

I'm sure there are but they are few and far between. Why bet on a horse with the odds stacked heavily against you?

Isn't it far easier simply to look for the love of your life from a huge pool of loving, kind hearted, selfless girls who have never treated their bodies as public toilets.

[AlexV]

I am a Ex FL tats the truth. And the other truths are I am disease free and most of all guilt free of not keeping anything as a secret. Isn't that what I am doing now in which you are making a fuss about as well? FYI, I am single and do not have a BF or FB at the moment.



Fl or not FL, every gal in this forum that asks for a FB has a choice. Too bad my choice or requirement no matter how I bring it down is still way too high for the both of you.

Firstly, you are asking whether you should tell and gauging the response. If the response you received had been negative you would likely not tell. Hence you are sitting on the fence dependent on the outcome you receive. This is not a moral person. That is what the fuss is about.

Secondly, based on your application criteria, you are not seeking love, companionship or friendship. You are seeking lust in a 6" by 2" cock. Setting this criteria, what sort of response do you feel you will get? What sort of way is this to start a committed relationship. You are saying, that a 6" by 2" cock is more important than a honest, loving, understanding, providing husband. Being attracted to your partner is important, don't get me wrong, but I have never met anyone who is actually "attracted" to a 6" by 2" cock.

Based on the above facts, you have, unfortunately, an ice cubes chance in hell in finding what you are looking for.

You are currently in the right proffession and should remain in it as it suits what you are looking for. Once you are used and abused a few more years by men who have a 6" by 2" cock, you will soon re-prioritise and are worthy of entering a mature monogomous relationship.

Thank you.

P.s. I actually have nothing against FL's, but I just can't help trying to educate people who I feel actualy "dumb down" or curb progress in society.

[dk1903]

I'm sure there are but they are few and far between. Why bet on a horse with the odds stacked heavily against you?

Isn't it far easier simply to look for the love of your life from a huge pool of loving, kind hearted, selfless girls who have never treated their bodies as public toilets.

boss, can show me where this huge pool is?
sounds so magical . . with so many angels . .
. . i also dying to find someone like this but have no luck :(

[Geiko]

Firstly, you are asking whether you should tell and gauging the response. If the response you received had been negative you would likely not tell. Hence you are sitting on the fence dependent on the outcome you receive. This is not a moral person. That is what the fuss is about.

Secondly, based on your application criteria, you are not seeking love, companionship or friendship. You are seeking lust in a 6" by 2" cock. Setting this criteria, what sort of response do you feel you will get? What sort of way is this to start a committed relationship. You are saying, that a 6" by 2" cock is more important than a honest, loving, understanding, providing husband. Being attracted to your partner is important, don't get me wrong, but I have never met anyone who is actually "attracted" to a 6" by 2" cock.

Based on the above facts, you have, unfortunately, an ice cubes chance in hell in finding what you are looking for.

You are currently in the right proffession and should remain in it as it suits what you are looking for. Once you are used and abused a few more years by men who have a 6" by 2" cock, you will soon re-prioritise and are worthy of entering a mature monogomous relationship.

Thank you.

P.s. I actually have nothing against FL's, but I just can't help trying to educate people who I feel actualy "dumb down" or curb progress in society.


Speak of morals when you seek out gals of my ex trade? Speak of morals if you are one of the one supporting this trade? Speak of morals when you yourself is in here in SBF? Think of your family then?

As said before, asking for a FB? is that wrong? Telling people I was a ex FL, was I wrong? So whats so morally wrong in checking out the response? DUH was any animals hurt in the process? You better delete your account so that progress of the society will not be hampered too!

Really amazed whether you can read? Mentioned in both threads. Not a FL now, working in a I.T firm now, looking for a FB. Is that a crime I want myself a big dick? At 22 years old and single, you want me to look for a proper guy to settle down? GET a life pal! I don't need you to come run my life, go pay more attention to your own family. Its people like you that make me request for a big dick cos you are a dick and you just told the world how small are you cos you cannot even apply.

I know you are PHD and like to educate people but you had mistaken that PHD wrongly cos the only PHD you got is Permanent Head Damage!

PS, your TYPOs are atrocious

[AlexV]

Speak of morals when you seek out gals of my ex trade? Speak of morals if you are one of the one supporting this trade? Speak of morals when you yourself is in here in SBF? Think of your family then?

As said before, asking for a FB? is that wrong? Telling people I was a ex FL, was I wrong? So whats so morally wrong in checking out the response? DUH was any animals hurt in the process? You better delete your account so that progress of the society will not be hampered too!

Really amazed whether you can read? Mentioned in both threads. Not a FL now, working in a I.T firm now, looking for a FB. Is that a crime I want myself a big dick? At 22 years old and single, you want me to look for a proper guy to settle down? GET a life pal! I don't need you to come run my life, go pay more attention to your own family. Its people like you that make me request for a big dick cos you are a dick and you just told the world how small are you cos you cannot even apply.

I know you are PHD and like to educate people but you had mistaken that PHD wrongly cos the only PHD you got is Permanent Head Damage!

PS, your TYPOs are atrocious

1) HHAHAHHAHHAHAHAH
2) Only people who are losing a battle talk about typos.
3) Only people who have no actual argument start talking about physical attributes on the internet. I.e your assumption that i don't meet your criteria.
4) Your assumptions are attrocious.
5) Take a long hard look in the mirror sister....give yourself a hug! :D

[Geiko]

1) HHAHAHHAHHAHAHAH
2) Only people who are losing a battle talk about typos.
3) Only people who have no actual argument start talking about physical attributes on the internet. I.e your assumption that i don't meet your criteria.
4) Your assumptions are attrocious.
5) Take a long hard look in the mirror sister....give yourself a hug! :D


Who is losing the battle when your points of arguments are weak and so easily rebuked. I argue about typos? that just the reminder not to further embarrass yourself. Look at the people around you? ask yourself, do they like you. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

[AlexV]

Who is losing the battle when your points of arguments are weak and so easily rebuked. I argue about typos? that just the reminder not to further embarrass yourself. Look at the people around you? ask yourself, do they like you. HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

Wow, you've single handedly deteriorated the conversation to a 5 year old.

P.S. speaking louder does not make you more right so you can stop screaming at the computer screen now, my little chicken.

[Geiko]

Wow, you've single handedly deteriorated the conversation to a 5 year old.

P.S. speaking louder does not make you more right so you can stop screaming at the computer screen now, my little chicken.

Come come auntie mavis give small boy boy pacifier. Go sit in that corner and poo poo okie. Finish already I get doggie to lick clean you. Don't eat your own shit okie! its not chocolates.

[AlexV]

Come come auntie mavis give small boy boy pacifier. Go sit in that corner and poo poo okie. Finish already I get doggie to lick clean you.

I'm bored now...good bye.

[Geiko]

I'm bored now...good bye.

TATA, good luck growing up. Good Riddance.

[sammyboyfor]

boss, can show me where this huge pool is?
sounds so magical . . with so many angels . .
. . i also dying to find someone like this but have no luck :(

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

[sammyboyfor]

PRC wife dumped Singaporean husband after obtaining long-term dependent pass

Posted by temasektimes on May 4, 2012

A 32 PRC woman immediately dumped her Singapore husband after obtaining her long-term dependent pass to reside in Singapore.

44 year old Mr Chow managed to know the PRC woman through a marriage agency. She reportedly went missing after registering the marriage in Singapore and Mr Chow did not even consummate the marriage with her.

When he tried to SMS her, she scolded him, describing him as an ‘old bull’ which wants to eat ‘young grass’. She even asked him to go to Geylang to find a prostitute if he cannot control his ‘urges’.

Mr Chow said he married her because she appeared to be very ‘serious’ in starting a family with him. After he brought her to apply for long-term dependent pass, she claimed she was going to her aunt’s place and did not follow him home after which she became uncontactable.

When Mr Chow went to her ‘aunt’s place, he was told that there was no such person living there. The PRC woman told Mr Chow to stop looking for her as she has applied for Work Permit to work in Singapore.

[Shadow_warrior]

Sometimes your body is wet up to your neck in this situation,

take her as FB, have great sex, lots of it, she did with many guys too, why shouldnt you. Make sure you get GFE, lots of

men did too, but here's a word of caution, when FL becomes FB, they dont give you the kind of treatment they give others

that pay, they are no longer obliged to give you anything. You might try paying, see if you get better treatment

FL to FB, thats the best I can offer, GF sorry cant.

Its not about feelings.... I can feel for her, she can for me too

but I cant get past myself. I am sure she had her reasons for selling her body, I am human too

[bimpom]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

Yes I would love her until my dying day... I was in love with 2 FLs before and I really dont mind as Im a quite forgiving person. Because I always check on myself... I cannot expect to have a pure virgin pretty girl as my partner as I myself sleep around( juz like a playboy ) I drive my coupe around, screwing girls in my car, one night stands,going for commercial sex.....etc Even my wife has confessed to me she had sex with another guy, I got angry at first, there's a natural reaction but I still forgive her and we are still together today. After all, we are all human beings. Thats my point of view, others might disagree.

yours sincerely

[bimpom]

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.


If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

I didnt know u do volunteer work at SPCA, respect and salute you...for being kind to animals.. Sincerely wish u all the best in health, wealth and sex, friendship...etc

Cheers

[jimbotron]

However, the traits that make them excellent whores let them down when it comes to being a good wife or faithful girlfriend.

An analogy can be found on the sports field. An athlete who is an excellent distance runner will never win the shot putt. The physique of a distance runner means they don't have the strength required to do well in throwing events.

Whores don't make good wives and good wives won't be able to perform well as whores. Life is all about finding the right person for the right job.

spot on.


I'm sure there are but they are few and far between. Why bet on a horse with the odds stacked heavily against you?

can't argue against that logic.


I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health.

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

very true that.


interesting new perspective of sam, only knew him previously as the man who educates people on the difference between advice and advise


but getting back to the topic, to visit fl n fall in infatuation is stupid, however finding the person inside the fl is real n loveable is a different thing
at the end of the day, anyone who dates an fl whether ex-fl or not should know what he is getting into, many tricky roads down+more than usual amounts of effort to sustain it n to go in that direction blindly believing love solves all prob is silly

ps-topic a good thread all bros should read, pity petty squabbles ruining it

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

I've met many wonderful girls simply from going about my day to day activities. Examples :

1. I do 4 hours a week at the local SPCA and I've become friends with dozens of other volunteers who share my desire to nurse ill treated animals back to health. - Me too :D

2. My cycling group regularly attracts new cyclists of the female variety.

3. My sports club holds regular social gatherings eg BBQs, sports seminars, sports meets, workshops.

Boss Sam, you didn't list out your Gardening and Flower Arrangement clubs :D These are excellent hobbies to know "Homegirls" (宅女) :D

If you want a girl to share your life with, you need to find someone you can relate to. Relationships aren't about sex and sex cannot be the foundation upon which they are built. They revolve around companionship, mutual respect, common interests and shared values. Your life partner has to be your best friend in order for the relationship to work.

A life partner has to be able to double our joy and share half of our sorrow. The best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other and any relationship primarily built on lust and physical attractiveness is predestined to be short lived and fake :D

[A+++]

Dear TS,

I believe every person will have their own different answers for u. For me, I would accept it if the GF comes clean.

U can take it as a test, if your BF couldn't accept & leave u, then u should forget about him then. If he truly loves u, he would try to accept it as past is past & move on to the future.

If u keep it from him, & he finds out after few yrs later or after u guys get married with kids, things just got shitted then :o

[eugene_wong]

spot on.




can't argue against that logic.




very true that.


interesting new perspective of sam, only knew him previously as the man who educates people on the difference between advice and advise


but getting back to the topic, to visit fl n fall in infatuation is stupid, however finding the person inside the fl is real n loveable is a different thing
at the end of the day, anyone who dates an fl whether ex-fl or not should know what he is getting into, many tricky roads down+more than usual amounts of effort to sustain it n to go in that direction blindly believing love solves all prob is silly

ps-topic a good thread all bros should read, pity petty squabbles ruining it

Actually, a girl became a FL due to character flaw. Her flaw is not being a FL but it is the flaw that causes her to become a FL.

Being a FL is just a symptom. Within her lies big flaw. Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well. I think bro sammyboyfor didn't elaborate but I wish he will.

It can be argued that she wants to earn some money to start a business back home. Once she earned enough, she won't become a FL again. Please remember a FL can be cocky too and won't simply have affair/sleep with people other than her bf/husband once she stopped being a fl even for money. But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person. She may not sleep with other man but cause other headache for you. Bro sam, can you provide more advice to educate visitors here.

[sammyboyfor]

Bro sam, can you provide more advice to educate visitors here.

I've already covered this aspect in many of my previous posts eg

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7226422&highlight=character+flaws#post7226422

Do a search.

[sammyboyfor]

Another http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=4205767&postcount=26

[JadedAngel]

Actually, a girl became a FL due to character flaw. Her flaw is not being a FL but it is the flaw that causes her to become a FL.

Being a FL is just a symptom. Within her lies big flaw. Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well. I think bro sammyboyfor didn't elaborate but I wish he will.

It can be argued that she wants to earn some money to start a business back home. Once she earned enough, she won't become a FL again. Please remember a FL can be cocky too and won't simply have affair/sleep with people other than her bf/husband once she stopped being a fl even for money. But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person.

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=6827061&postcount=138

Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

[Windy456]

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck :)

It should be initially dont care til they sick of the free fuck.......:D

[Cuddles]

Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well.

But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person.

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=6827061&postcount=138

Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

Guy is very sour, likely over past experiences. Wana share your story?

[iMonk]

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck

yo, can i fuck u for free ?

when where

put time put place

:D:D:D

[IKnwWhoUaRe]

Caaaaaaaaaaannnn

IKnwWhoUaRe and what you had done!

Lets play hang man


_ _ _ _ i _ _ _ _


fill in the blanks you notti gal.

[eugene_wong]

http://sammyboysexforum.com/showpost.php?p=6827061&postcount=138

Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

I couldn't recall that I have said that FL can be made good wife or gf.
Yes, I still didn't change my mind to wish for friendship with them. However, we must be on guard not to be emotionally involved. It is always safer not to befriend them as it may be road to emotional attachment. I never had any relationship with any FL.

Can a FL be your temporary gf? Well, if you are rich but I'm not.
How can we judge a person from good or bad? According to experts, look at three things
a) What is their attitude towards money?
b) How many friends they have?
c) What they do when they are angry?

A FL who is willing to sell her body to stranger failed badly in a)....usually bad in C too.......

>Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting >your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?
Why do you want to cling to the past? Why not move on?

[JadedAngel]

How can we judge a person from good or bad? According to experts, look at three things

Please enlighten me who are these experts?

a) What is their attitude towards money?
b) How many friends they have?
c) What they do when they are angry?

A FL who is willing to sell her body to stranger failed badly in a)....usually bad in C too.......

Based on your assumptions???


>Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting >your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?
Why do you want to cling to the past? Why not move on?

I not clinging to the past but you are not forgiving of people's past. So you fail terribly if you apply to the job as a counselor or a prison warden.


How can we determine who is a bad person and who is a good person?

Judge not, that ye be not judged.

For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

... so it isn't actually a problem to judge, as long as you're willing to hold the same yardstick up to yourself first. Tends to make you a lot nicer to other people.

The upshot is, why do you care who's bad & who's good? That's way too subjective to be a telling assessment. Treat everyone as if they're good (like you'd want to be treated, another biblical principle). You'd be surprised how many people will live up to whatever expectation you hold of them - expect them to be good, and they will be. Some won't...also not your problem.

[Inquisitive]

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck :)

Pardon me for being INQUISITIVE. Are you a FREE FUCK?

[mambojambo]

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

[WhoUthInkUaRe]

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

True but cannot agree fully. She might be even more hardworking than you to prove her worth.

[sane1]

True but cannot agree fully. She might be even more hardworking than you to prove her worth.

She gotta be hardworking or else she will suffer during old age.

[Shadow_warrior]

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

from experience I can tell you there is no way to avoid this type of quarrel

some fools will talk about fair or not fair.

its never fair. if she work as a FL/WL finding a man to want her, as a actual

gf is already fair to her. She didnt even respect her own body, you have to respect her, thats bloody hard on any man.

Thats the price they have to pay for taking the easy way to earn money

[RedBullRaping]

if she wants a man to accept her for her past, she should be able to accept the man matching her score for the number of sex partners/whores poked.

[wishy51]

Telling the truth then to discover the truth is more painful. I would rather my partner to know most of my ugly truth before committing themselves in a r/s. Although the truth hurts but life is never perfect. =)

[honii]

I voted "accept her"

I had an ex gf who confessed that she was a fl after a few months into our relationship. I didn't mind. But the relationship didn't last because eventually she felt guilty about her past and wanted a break-up.

[pussyslime]

nothing wrong with ex fl as gf

[megalive]

If you truly love your gal, you will accept everything about her. unless your so call love is just an illusion.

[ch1818]

Why bother to find out so much about the past, most importantly is she do not continue to FL after becoming my gf lah.....

[petriet]

i'm personally okay with it as i do have an ex girlfriend that was in this line before.

she started doing it when she was young & pulled out pretty fast as well , so i don't see anything wrong with it.

that's just how i feel.
heh :x

[pussyslime5]

yes. gf nia. fuck sian liao dump lo

[FRATERNITY]

Gf and Wife - has very different answers

[ahtat77]

What if the gal you are seeing or dating for weeks confesses to you that she was a ex FL. She wanted to tell the truth before accepting you as her guy. Will you as the guy accept her or U turn and dump her or take her for a FB only?


To answer why I ask this, I was a ex FL.

yes as long as she is willing to share the $$$ she had made as an FL:rolleyes:

[bengeo]

Accepting ex fl as gf is fine,but will an entirely a different matter if she eventually become your wife
If I am a woman and done fl before, die die I won't tell my bf. 100 percent he said bye bye after enough of free fuck.
My ex regular fl is really worry that her current bf find out her past....she is know her relationship will end the moment her past is reveal to him..so ladies who had been fl before, never never confess your past....die die must deny, just said those ex clients were ex bf...

[iamsextisfied]

it really depend how much you could tolerate when met up with ex customer and the look on her although she denied

[SammyNewbie]

So hot ar this topic!

Well, I have things in my past to hide also. Not that they were shameful, or that I was wrong to do them, or whatever. But I realised after awhile that it is better not to talk about these things or have half truths prepared, because people

WILL GET THE WRONG IMPRESSION THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH YOU.

When in actual fact, that might not be the case and you may even have a valid explanation. Most of them will choose to believe the worst permutation rather than the truth you present in front of them. Even when you do it with earnestness, honesty and they know it.

After awhile, I simply gave up on this 'Honesty is the best policy' bullshit and decided, I'd present the best parts of myself to people, and then if they should find my flaws out later, I'd let them decide then whether they like the best side of me enough to overlook the flaws.

And besides, people lie all the time to get job positions, to get in the pants of women, or whatever. Knowing myself and my abilities, I know that sometimes I deserve to be in that position and can do a better job than Drone X. Why should I let a portion of the past cause them/me to get short-changed? They are in safer hands with me.

People always say... 'Honesty is the best policy' on their lips. That couldn't be further from the truth. My mantra is 'Be Honest about most things... but keep the locations to your Nuclear Silos secret.'

[Shadow_warrior]

This video is interesting....kinda apt

http://www.thisav.com/video/14125/evelyn-lin---happy-tags.html

[bimpom]

I would not only accept her but even propose to her to be my wife if we r really compatibility. I once proposed to a FL, you guys can call me crazy, bought her ring with diamonds sapphire,and 2 LV wallets..etc brought her out but when I propose I was rejected... :eek:

I know some might call me crazy but my belief is," if I can screw so many girls in the past, so can my wife... " but I told her after marriage she must stop sleeping around with guys.... Unfortunately I didn't win her heart... Well that's life!:(

[Dick Trainee]

No way. At most FB/FWB. GF? Puh-lease... This trade is a one-way street. Once in, never out. Even if she says she won't return to it, how sure can you really convince yourself that she didn't just bonk another guy before saying that to you:confused:

I will lust for her, but never love her...:cool:

[Boalex]

Yes I would.
Everyone have a past, no one is prefect.

[Wintermelontea]

I don't have this kind of experience. Just thinking of the question and looking at almost every post, I think I may not be ready. A FB is cool but not without consequences of having that FB having even more FBssss. Can I share my FB then? Maybe, maybe not. Preference is not really (if anyone with high sex drive and having a FB should know about consistency and familiarity).

Bros and Sis alike, please cool down...have some winter-melon tea...weather has been erratic of late.

Most important, to each his/her own. Let's not "kill" each other over this topic. Not worth it ya? ;)

Happy bonking, surfing SBF and it's a thursday! Weekend's coming.

wmt:)

[Yuppie132]

I would date and accept an ex-FL. Key word being "ex". However, there will always be the social stigma as in "what if my friend has "did" before".

[kingjack8]

If you really love her, you will feel extreme difficult in letting her go. Then there are two things you must answer them yourself.....

1) can you overlook her past....if yes, proceed to
2) can you trust that she won't do it again behind you.

I'm sure being in this trade for a while, she knows how to earn quick and lots of money. With that, I guess she must have maintained certain standard of living for herself..eg: branded handbags, shoes, clothes, etc.

Now that she is with you, I'm sure she would have certain expectations that you could satisfy her standard of living while she knows she needs to support your sexual desires...hehehe. Along with this point, you must ask yourself whether you are financially capable to provide her..financially.

Sorry for the long story Bro...it's not as simple answer as Accept or Dump.

Cheers,

[bimpom]

If you really love her, you will feel extreme difficult in letting her go. Then there are two things you must answer them yourself.....

1) can you overlook her past....if yes, proceed to
2) can you trust that she won't do it again behind you.

I'm sure being in this trade for a while, she knows how to earn quick and lots of money. With that, I guess she must have maintained certain standard of living for herself..eg: branded handbags, shoes, clothes, etc.

Now that she is with you, I'm sure she would have certain expectations that you could satisfy her standard of living while she knows she needs to support your sexual desires...hehehe. Along with this point, you must ask yourself whether you are financially capable to provide her..financially.

Sorry for the long story Bro...it's not as simple answer as Accept or Dump.

Cheers,

Couldn't agree more. My answer to both 1) and 2) is yes. We have already built up the chemistry. You r right she has maintained certain standard of living for herself. Branded goods... And yes I am able to support her financially...

She rejected me firstly by saying that I already have a gf even though she likes me.
After that I persisted and told her to stop work I provide her money financially, she said she doesn't want money but just wanna be my close friend.or so called FB.
Now she says to me," sorry I don't love you darling, please forget me,I don't wanna hurt you. "

U are correct, not such a simple case of accepting or dumping.

[kingjack8]

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Case closed.

I wish you best of luck in finding your real lover & partner.

Cheers,
Jack

[bimpom]

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Case closed.

I wish you best of luck in finding your real lover & partner.

Cheers,
Jack

Thanks buddy,
Yes it is a one sided affair.. I love her and she has made it clear to me. I've decided to move on... Now we r not even FB... We no longer contact each other..
Thanks and have a nice day!

Cheers :)

[<<totally>>]

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Cheers,
Jack

That is a good call after what reading on the bimpom's issue. The point that you have pointed out on "certain standard of living for herself. " suggest to me something very clearly.

If you did not go through it, you will not know it. Anyway gd job done!:D

[poi123]

i will accept if i do love her and she truely loves me.. there should be no barrier and i appreciate the frankness if she tells me.. Cos i do have a ex who was a FL few years back.. only if u think u can help her out if not one cant stop her from working to help her family..

[Mirabell]

yes,if after going stead with you,she quit the trade.

[tambi8]

So far the discussion is you guys are aware the girl is or was FL
Let's change it. If after falling in love with a girl only to discover she was or is a F!, what would you guys do?
Dump or continue?

[bimpom]

That is a good call after what reading on the bimpom's issue. The point that you have pointed out on "certain standard of living for herself. " suggest to me something very clearly.

If you did not go through it, you will not know it. Anyway gd job done!:D


Hi bro,

Nice seeing in this discussion poll! It's a small world after all ya??;) yes I felt good after letting go... But now we are in contact again... Very strange ya.. But my love(feelings) are gone... Just friends

Cheers to u buddy!
Upz ur points!
Crazy BIMPOM

[spidey7]

I c y nt since u said she is ex-FL. Both muz hv feel 4ea other. Nt money feel fm her.

[Forevermark]

why not ?
i have a few friends who have FL as wife from vietnam,prc and tom-yam.

[Tamarai]

no problem for me.

[nanasempoi]

No issues for me. some how or rather, how sure are we that our ex/gf/wife nvr sleep around before??;)

totally respect FLs as they dare to do it for whatsoever reason, get paid some more, compared to being screwed freely by a guy anywhere, like those gerls u can normally find in the clubs.:cool:

[Sssh]

Not a issue for me as long she is clean

[Pare]

yes,but she must cut-off all her previous contacts and willing to start new.

[raftime68]

bro u got really good point, how do u know they never play punk behind ur back

[merlinlion3]

Want to play punk normal charboh also can, no need to be ex FL lah. :D

[sane]

Each to their preference ;)

[simitaijilei]

rather un likely

[Shadow_warrior]

Would a normal girl take an ex duck, gigolo as bf for husband?

if yes, sure then the answer also yes by all means.

[LiCksLiCksLiCks]

I dun mind if she is not doing it anymore

[Summerhillt]

All those who said yes i respect you all bro..

once a wl , not fl likes me so much that she even took her hard earned money out to help me.. of course i rejected but than could see she loves me so much but than i cant accept because.. how can i forget the fact that shes a whore?

[KCisBad]

I dont know if i will get zap by saying this.

But just a food for thought here, u can agree and you can disagree, or best u can agree to disagree.. =)

But here goes..

Hats off to all those who voted Accept her.
FYI for the record i voted FB.

So what im about to say includes me.

Isnt this[voting FB or dumb her] double standard?

Here we are bonking so many different girls for fun.
Spending money.

And we expect our future or current GFs and Wifes to accept it. :confused:

But when we turn the tables, suddenly its not possible.

We cannot accept someone who had bonked so many guys b4.
But at least she earn money doing it,
We lose money doing it. lol [this is side topic but interesting tot]


Point number 2, talking about leapord never changes its spots.

Now, chances of us promising not to go back to the night life of GL and breaking it are very high, because guys sexual urge is greater than women. And guys enjoy it! We are the demand, they are the supplies. Not the other way round.

They are doing it more for money, not that they really need to satisfy that urge. So once they decide to stop and commit to you, it makes more sense that they will really not fool around as compared to guys fooling around after commitment.

And lastly, i heard this saying once, "Pros are in a way better than most of us, they have a goal in life, they have plans, they have ambitions. They work towards it, whether its towards better life, saving captial for own business etc. But of cos it may not be in ways that main stream society respects. But they work towards it. Some of us live aimlessly, with no ambitions, no goals and no purpose."


But having said all this, its of cos easier said than done.

:) Good day to all bros and chicks out here! :D

[desmond_lee]

i believe lepoard will never change their spots. their dark side will still remains more or less with them throughout the remaining of their lives.

[hell4lif]

i always appreciate the honesty, but i wont accept her straight up... its depends on the when you start/stopped?... why you started.. etc etc... and is that your deepest darkest skeleton in your closet?...

and very frankly speaking.. there will be a slight dip in the trust level..for awhile... reason why i am saying this so confidently, is because i was dating nudist for about 6 months. i think it kinda works the same..:cool:

[AhLee2226]

Yes accept her :)

[El Bistro]

I will take her as my gf and accept her

[Meringues]

should be alright but she must quit.

[divedeeper]

This is a very personal decision, but for the bros who would dump her, aren't you looking at this one-sided? What about from the other side? If you meet a girl, fall in love, will you tell her you bonked WL/FL? How would you feel if she dumped you for telling her this? Many women think a man who has to pay for sex is no good. Many women blame there being WL/FL on men. I think this is just as one-sided as saying I will dump her. Girls who decide to be WL/FL do it for their reasons. Maybe to support family if from poor country. Maybe because can't get "real job". Maybe to buy prada. Whatever. I think a guy who pay WL/FL is no different than a girl who is WL/FL. Just two sides of the same coin. The only thing that matters is if you are honest with each other and decide to be faithful. Who is more likely to cheat, the guy who likes to bonk WL/FL or the girl who used to be WL/FL? I don't know for sure, but I think it's the guy.

[l0vestrudel]

I wouldn't mind as i believe everyone has a past. we should move on to that and accept.

[l0vestrudel]

Will accept her, past is a past. We just need to move on.

[l0vestrudel]

Will accept her, past is a past. We just need to move on.

[SGSexReviewer]

Depends on the circumstances, as a lot of the bros here mentioned. If she did it due to a need to pay off her family debts, sponsor her brother's school fees, or something along that line, I honestly don't see why not.

But she did it for material gain or just so she can meet a sugar daddy, I would still give her a chance, but I'll be more wary. Will she leave me if she sees another guy who drives a better car or makes more money? In this case, more time will have to tell before making a decision :o

[apemcc]

Nearly did... But she moved back home and found a guy who also accepte her past. She's now happily married with 2 kids. And we still stay in touch as friends. She was lucky in a way as was only working as FL for less than a year.