How will you react if you met someone you know in real-life from sbf?

[complex0]

Be it gathering, swinging or looking for FL, what do you think will happen if you met someone you know from sbf?

What if the local FL you met is your fellow classmate/colleague? Or you met your superior or colleague during sbf gathering session (e.g. undertaker bro's swinging session)? Will it be awkward and how will you react?


Any takers?

[callmebad]

will react 'accordingly':)

if the FL happens to be an ex-classmate, then I will react in a 'professional' manner as what a normal client do when he meets the FL, just take it as if you're 'helping' an old friend in certain ways if you want to make both sides feel better

no need to feel ashamed or embarrass, because this can make the FL feel bad

why feel embarrass or uneasy, since you're not responsible for your ex-classmate becoming a FL, you didn't force her into this line

[Oxen]

Be it gathering, swinging or looking for FL, what do you think will happen if you met someone you know from sbf?

What if the local FL you met is your fellow classmate/colleague? Or you met your superior or colleague during sbf gathering session (e.g. undertaker bro's swinging session)? Will it be awkward and how will you react?


Any takers?

Nothing wrong. Will just be a surprise only such small world. If you are willing to come out gathering be prepared to meet people you know, same goes if you are going for a swing or gb or orgy. Part and parcel of the package of risks involved. Just act accordingly. You will have enough shit on the other guy or gal to not be worried about he or she squealing on you too.

[ilikeoldchangke]

A moment of awkward silence followed by....

Oh I see..

if it's a fellow brother....


For fl....
Looking through the peephole, if the fl is someone i know, eg relative. No need to think. Call okt and ask for someone else. If it's a colleague at work that you really want to do, i would also call okt, extend another hour :p

[chineselover]

If superior, classmate or colleague is the FL, will juz go ahead with the deed.. don't know why they choose this but might as well support them..

If superior, classmate or colleague is one of the bros.. Hehehe, extra person to go bonk with ;)

[Xgenre]

Unless you meet someone at an event (swinging or fl activities), always keep your online identity a secret. Human relationships are fleeting. You never know how relationships will change years down the line. You won't want to be threatened in real life for what you do online.

Even though I'm a 10 pointer, I always act blur when people talk about sbf. Huh, what's that? I see guys sharing their nicks during reservist or during school gatherings. Those guys can expect a braggart to tell the rest of the whole world that they are actually so and so online. Not very wise if you have a wife or gf.

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

SBF identity is and will always be a closely guarded secret and shall only be reveal as deathbed confession (pun intended). :D
Just like Ichigo Kurosaki as a substitute shinigami or Bruce Wayne as Batman :D

[asdfghjkl]

always keep your online identity a secret.

on FB, everyone likes to show off their real identities and even upload their real photos too.. :o

[peanut123]

on FB, everyone likes to show off their real identities and even upload their real photos too.. :o

Yeah, but on FB you are not describing the last 20 girls you fucked behind your wife's back or what STDs you think you might have caught. Such things can come back and haunt you one day.

Blackmail comes to mind. Sabotage another. Just look at how the law student Darinne Ko got saboed and her photo, name, and flings with her professor became big news.

[imax88]

Actually I get to know a few friends, not the bonking type through SBF. My take is the aura of SBF as a secretive webbie is waning. Thus, Not surprising to meet a few fren or associate who are member.

[cncs]

There was once i was my Friend's younger sister doing FL. She walk into a Hotel w a guy and she saw me coming out with my FB. Till date we didn't talk about this incident.
I am not surprise if many of us here have such encounter.

[sta1100]

just act normal, nothing to be afarid of FL/WL they are still human making a living.

[westendgirl]

a few thoughts

1. can convert to fb if looking for one since i know his horniness level is up there
2. if he is my bf will drop him. no way i can be sure he is not trawling the FL Dome for eating out
3. if close associates and females, can compare notes and exchange technique :D

[westendgirl]

Unless you meet someone at an event (swinging or fl activities), always keep your online identity a secret. Human relationships are fleeting. You never know how relationships will change years down the line. You won't want to be threatened in real life for what you do online.

Even though I'm a 10 pointer, I always act blur when people talk about sbf. Huh, what's that? I see guys sharing their nicks during reservist or during school gatherings. Those guys can expect a braggart to tell the rest of the whole world that they are actually so and so online. Not very wise if you have a wife or gf.

well said especially if it carry a negative stigma with the association.

[pendragon_sg]

There was once i was my Friend's younger sister doing FL. She walk into a Hotel w a guy and she saw me coming out with my FB. Till date we didn't talk about this incident.
I am not surprise if many of us here have such encounter.\


contact please :D

[Timestopper]

I do encounter this before use to have this girlfriend in secondary.. After graduation broke up. After few years was like looking for fl n saw this ads stated local girl so try call, after meet up realise is actually my ex girlfriend. So ya in the end still went to hotel but dunno is I lucky or what she did not charge me, just that I pay for the hotel.

Anyway realise she getting more hot and pretty..

[Azmodan]

I do encounter this before use to have this girlfriend in secondary.. After graduation broke up. After few years was like looking for fl n saw this ads stated local girl so try call, after meet up realise is actually my ex girlfriend. So ya in the end still went to hotel but dunno is I lucky or what she did not charge me, just that I pay for the hotel.

Anyway realise she getting more hot and pretty..

definitely lucky tt she did not charge u

[tingx]

Unless you meet someone at an event (swinging or fl activities), always keep your online identity a secret. Human relationships are fleeting. You never know how relationships will change years down the line. You won't want to be threatened in real life for what you do online.

Even though I'm a 10 pointer, I always act blur when people talk about sbf. Huh, what's that? I see guys sharing their nicks during reservist or during school gatherings. Those guys can expect a braggart to tell the rest of the whole world that they are actually so and so online. Not very wise if you have a wife or gf.

I agree with Xgenre.
Unless its sbf fellow mates met at outings, i do agree exercising caution.

I do hear abt this during my reservist, though i am not here for long, but 'sbf' 'sbf' u always hear the younger soldiers (新兵) brag about some gals they met / bonk / etc etc.... U cant help but wonder are they so transparent with their gf/wives....

I guess for me, i will just act blur too bah. Whats the point to brag? Ppl come here for a good listening ear, for good companionship, good fuck, good frdship, even i believe some found lifelong partners and frds.... whatever it is, there is no need to link to sbf and spoil the discreetness, rite? ^^

Else it be something like this:
http://www.toonpool.com/user/997/files/discreet_money_senator_855305.jpg

SBF 万岁！ :)

[cataramp]

see people you know of cause must siam far far lar..

[rainchezz]

Be it gathering, swinging or looking for FL, what do you think will happen if you met someone you know from sbf?

What if the local FL you met is your fellow classmate/colleague? Or you met your superior or colleague during sbf gathering session (e.g. undertaker bro's swinging session)? Will it be awkward and how will you react?


Any takers?

I just had an FL and she was my first gf's baby sister. born jan 1994 ... so just made it to 18 .... i couldnt recognise her ... quit a hottie now ... but i still found her v v familiar .... then half way thru our foreplay, it dawned on me who she was ..... but small head overrule big head ..... bang first then see hw. lol

[GoldenMonkey1]

This is a part signature of our founder....

"1. Keep your identity secret.
2. Do not divulge personal information eg phone numbers, real names & addresses.
3. If you do arrange meetings through this site, do NOT reveal your sammyboy nick. "

I have always followed the above tips! you will never know what you will get. With technology so advance, people will be tracking you in no time.

[Xgenre]

There was once i was my Friend's younger sister doing FL. She walk into a Hotel w a guy and she saw me coming out with my FB. Till date we didn't talk about this incident.

Maybe the other guy is her FB? You enter the hotel with your FB, she can enter the hotel with her FB too.

[Big Sexy]

awkward? this is year 2012, not year 1960...
nothing awkward to be part of a sex forum

dont you know the internet is build on porn?

Be it gathering, swinging or looking for FL, what do you think will happen if you met someone you know from sbf?

What if the local FL you met is your fellow classmate/colleague? Or you met your superior or colleague during sbf gathering session (e.g. undertaker bro's swinging session)? Will it be awkward and how will you react?


Any takers?

[IkNowUdeSireMe]

awkward? this is year 2012, not year 1960...
nothing awkward to be part of a sex forum

dont you know the internet is build on porn?

I agree with Big Sexy

[JacqueMerlin]

I have never met someone in such a compromising situation before except for once and it was dramatically embarrassing.

I got myself a FB from PRC working in a private school while doing part time there. We went out for dinner with some of their students in a local restaurant once and as usual we went out separate ways after we bade farewell but met rendezvous with my FB near the car park while the rest went off to the bus stop or MRT station.

We went to a local Hotel and fucked outselves silly. But as we walked out of the room, we ran into 2 of our students holding hands at the lobby. We were momentarily stunned and didn't know what to do, simply smiled at each other and swiftly left the place hoping that nobody else saw us there.

[sean69]

I have never met someone in such a compromising situation before except for once and it was dramatically embarrassing.

I got myself a FB from PRC working in a private school while doing part time there. We went out for dinner with some of their students in a local restaurant once and as usual we went out separate ways after we bade farewell but met rendezvous with my FB near the car park while the rest went off to the bus stop or MRT station.

We went to a local Hotel and fucked outselves silly. But as we walked out of the room, we ran into 2 of our students holding hands at the lobby. We were momentarily stunned and didn't know what to do, simply smiled at each other and swiftly left the place hoping that nobody else saw us there.

and u didn't propose swapping ?? :D

[threetreasure]

if the fl i encounter are

1. my friends / colleague - i will ask does she feel comfortable to continue with the deal with me? if yes then carry on, if no go home... if the friend / colleague is someone i like to up.. i will try persuade her to continue the deal with me..

2. my relative - then need to consider in depth will there be any form of incest.. if yes, definitely got to stop.. if no. again ask her ok to continue or not..

3. gf / wife of my friends - if someone again i like to up.. then will persuade them to continue.. but if is my friend wife.. hmm.. need to think further lor.. really want to continue... bcos if friends find out then how..

4. siblings - definitely cannot continue.. as involve incest le...

5. any other categories else? hehe

[zunbo]

I would deny any asociation or knew of existence. Ignorance is bliss as they say

[asdfghjkl]

create another account if your one is sexposed lor ~ :o

[purepulp]

Why do almost everyone think that SBF is a dirty and forbidden forum?

If your intention here is to look for FLs then maybe you will feel guilty and will be embarrassed if you are associated with SBF in real life.

On the other hand, some people see SBF as an avenue to openly discuss sex and sexuality without all the stigma society imposes. In that case, it is really no big deal to be associated with it in real life. ;)

[SammyNewbie]

I realised... this kind of thing is like locker room talk or a google filter.

When it's a mixed group or 'White-knight kwai kia' group, better to shut up. When just guys you know well enough or people that don't know you and can't find out, can just take off the filter. ^^.

[westendgirl]

create another account if your one is sexposed lor ~ :o

concur! but i will sell the old account away if there are taker :D

[ac171]

My close friends are aware that I'm frequenting SBF but I refused to let them know my nick. It's always better be safe than sorry. Never know one day they might just come here dig all the stuffs I posted and blackmail me.

[MountainTurtle]

Be it gathering, swinging or looking for FL, what do you think will happen if you met someone you know from sbf?

What if the local FL you met is your fellow classmate/colleague? Or you met your superior or colleague during sbf gathering session (e.g. undertaker bro's swinging session)? Will it be awkward and how will you react?


Any takers?

Not awkward at all,you both will bond better and share a common topic