How to maintain emotional distance while having a regular.

[SammyNewbie]

I have a regular that I went to a few times, because I tried a few others that were freelance or whatever, but they were not so good.

So yah, actually I'm not sure... cause I go to her frequently, and she knows how I am like and what I like, and she's nice to me. I'm just really worried I might end up forming emotional attachment with her, though in my head, I keep saying, she's a FL, and I'm just paying her for it.

But I sort of went out and tried a few, then all not really what I'd say that after the thing, I would feel very shiok. More like just come out and that's it. She will make me feel quite happy after it. So I sort of dunno what to do lah.

I am thinking of her being the one I will just keep going to, but I'm scared now. Worried that I might get burnt because it might really happen.

[see see only]

Yo bro SammyNewbie,

You are not forgotten here in this section ... keep updating us ... until once you ... :eek:

Has a Commercial Fuck turned into a torrid Love Affair which has turned your life upside down?

We will then offer you advice and suggestion ;)

[sammyboyfor]

So yah, actually I'm not sure... cause I go to her frequently, and she knows how I am like and what I like, and she's nice to me.

1. She doesn't know you. She only knows how you like to FUCK.

2. She's nice to you because you're paying her money. :rolleyes:

[Ichigo_Kurosaki]

cause I go to her frequently, and she knows how I am like and what I like, and she's nice to me.

I frequent a mee pok stall, the aunty know what I like, mee kia or mee pok, ke chilli , dry or soup, ke mee or not :D

End of day, I still need to pay her $5 though she is nice to me. She will not sell me anything if I no money :D

Anyway, whatever we say here are useless and will not stop you in your track, please continue to visit and fall in love with her since she's so nice and special. We will be here as always, do return soon ya ;)

[SammyNewbie]

You're right. She dunno me, just know how to please a man and make me feel special.

I just scared if I keep visiting her, I might end up being stupid and you know lah...

[Ladyrain]

You're right. She dunno me, just know how to please a man and make me feel special.

I just scared if I keep visiting her, I might end up being stupid and you know lah...

Then stop visiting her lah, you stupid.

[Apocalypse]

I frequent a mee pok stall, the aunty know what I like, mee kia or mee pok, ke chilli , dry or soup, ke mee or not :D

End of day, I still need to pay her $5 though she is nice to me. She will not sell me anything if I no money :D

Anyway, whatever we say here are useless and will not stop you in your track, please continue to visit and fall in love with her since she's so nice and special. We will be here as always, do return soon ya ;)

sometime the fried wanton mee auntie at parklane will give me 2 more pieces of fried wanton , then sometime I pay big notes she no small change she say never mind la. But hor, even though she say never mind hor, next time I come and eat hor, I still pay her back otherwise duno which day she say I owe her a favor, give me free service I need to help her do this do that, I dam jialat wor.

[dickster_99]

Bro, when you ask this question here, you might already started to have some feelings for her... Stop visiting her totally before things get out of control. :)

[asdfghjkl]

2. She's nice to you because you're paying her money.

how true this is.. :o

[nacal]

Bro, when you ask this question here, you might already started to have some feelings for her... Stop visiting her totally before things get out of control. :)


true.. It might be better if she don hav feelings for you you know. Might be worse if she likes you, what can you give her? If you cant let it go.

[Greatking]

sometime the fried wanton mee auntie at parklane will give me 2 more pieces of fried wanton , then sometime I pay big notes she no small change she say never mind la. But hor, even though she say never mind hor, next time I come and eat hor, I still pay her back otherwise duno which day she say I owe her a favor, give me free service I need to help her do this do that, I dam jialat wor.

K2 is one of ur regular plc? :eek:

[sane1]

Chant this, "im not suitable to chiong FL if got kc" x 50times n if u still do, go home :rolleyes:

[Greatking]

Chant this, "im not suitable to chiong FL if got kc" x 50times n if u still do, go home :rolleyes:

It would be too late by the time he notice. :eek:

[sane1]

It would be too late by the time he notice. :eek:

haha of coz i mean prior to visit, same as if a player is emo, he's not cut out to play the game. ;)

[Apocalypse]

haha of coz i mean prior to visit, same as if a player is emo, he's not cut out to play the game. ;)

but fishing have to use fish bait. if u dun act like you are kced, how do you kc the girl. if u dun realize some emo content, how to you expect the girl to give u emo content. if she doesn't give u emo content, you'll never be able to bait her, and make her addicted and drawn to you.

[SammyNewbie]

LOL... You all ar... so bad. Like my friend that brought me there first time.

And after I read the thing, it's actually WL, not FL.

Thanks for the advice ... but you all also same as my friend, so can just follow the advice without problem. I might really not listen XD.

[sane]

but fishing have to use fish bait. if u dun act like you are kced, how do you kc the girl. if u dun realize some emo content, how to you expect the girl to give u emo content. if she doesn't give u emo content, you'll never be able to bait her, and make her addicted and drawn to you.

FL? If so, I can't understand y a boss must pay n act to kc the WL :confused:

If fb/NSA, then I think he must be quite silly to act n fall into his own trap :rolleyes:

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[Azmodan]

my advise: dont screw one particular FL for more than three times. it is quite impossible to control ur longing after tt. her services, looks whtever maybe appealling to u in whtever ways, but ultimately u dont want to form any emotional connections or treat her as 'the' special FL for u. To me, whoring is abt variety. thats it.

[sane1]

So what's the purpose of this thread? Yet another case of "I only hear what I wanna hear"?

Anyway if he don't help himself, nobody can :rolleyes:

[dOiOb]

Advise is always given but however most of the time its never taken.

[5ag1_Boar]

Test yourself:
When you are feeling horny and want to go see her, masturbate. After you cum and you still miss her, then you are falling for her. If after you cum, you have no urge to see her anymore, means its just great sex.

[ChokDeeDee!]

Dear TS, just make it clear to her that you're only interested to pay for sex. Never fall into the bullshit trap of "free sex", you'll just end up losing more than what you get. There is no free lunch in this world.

[meowwind]

A very big guide as been posted as the 1st sticky of this subforum.
From the bossman himself.

http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=148840

1. All you need to know about any whore is how to contact her if you want a professional fuck. No other personal details should be sought. If they volunteer to tell you their life stories, tell them you are NOT interested.

2. There should be NO contact with whores beyond their professional capacity. Do not give any whore your phone number or divulge any other personal info in your dealings with them. If they have manged to get hold of your phone number for some reason (confirmation of booking etc) and they SMS you subsequently, do NOT reply. Just delete the message immediately and they should be smart enough to know that you're not interested in them beyond being one of their hundreds of clients.

3. Whores are for fucking and that's it. They are NOT for loving or marrying. They are NOT dinner dates or persons you exchanging inane SMS messages with. They are NOT there for companionship or friendly chit chat after a fuck. Just fuck them and leave.

If you can't follow these simple rules, you should not be in this forum. If you do stick to the rules of engagement, I'll be able to close this section soon.

[The term "whores" applies to all commercial sex providers and this includes masseuse, KTV hostesses, freelancers, Government approved prostitutes, escorts, part time broads and so on. They're all WHORES.]

[carpark67]

When u r that intimate w a woman it can't help to have some feel for her, not withstanding WL or a normal lady. However, regular or 道行高者 can control their small head w their big head.

[Bebeque]

I have a regular that I went to a few times, because I tried a few others that were freelance or whatever, but they were not so good.

So yah, actually I'm not sure... cause I go to her frequently, and she knows how I am like and what I like, and she's nice to me. I'm just really worried I might end up forming emotional attachment with her, though in my head, I keep saying, she's a FL, and I'm just paying her for it.

But I sort of went out and tried a few, then all not really what I'd say that after the thing, I would feel very shiok. More like just come out and that's it. She will make me feel quite happy after it. So I sort of dunno what to do lah.

I am thinking of her being the one I will just keep going to, but I'm scared now. Worried that I might get burnt because it might really happen.

Dear bro, it is a good thing you are scared now. This is a good sign that at least you are aware of the danger.

To tell you frankly, we all believe you and understand how you feel for the FL for some of us too have had gone along the same lines - the fuck is always so comfortable, she is so nice to me, gfe, she is so good to me, just wonder if she is doing ok or not now, could we have some casual lunch first, can I know her better, etc, etc. If we ever go beyond the usual routine of fucking, paying and leaving, that is, start thinking of her day in and day out or start 'dating' her out, chances are we are falling for her, emotionally that is, and then get burnt (whether how serious or how long the burning takes does not matter, but you will definitely be burnt).

The only person who can stop you from being burnt is yourself. We know it is easier said than done, but if you do not want to be burnt, don't go beyond. fucking, paying and leaving. There are more than enough threads in this forum to warn you about the dangers of falling for FLs. WLs, etc. Do go and read through them and realise how other bros have suffered for their follies.

If you think you cannot resist the temptation to fall for this FL, and yet do not want to be burnt, we suggest you cease doing business with her altogether. Look out and try out for others. Trust us, you are going to experience another similar one sooner or later, and this will make you realise that bros all have this tendency to fall for FLs/WLs when the FLs, WLs, start being 'nice' to us. To us, it is a very, very nice experience, but to them, these are just tricks of the trade, aimed at returned business, same as any Company with good customer relations management, CRM.

For other FLs/WLs, such gf behaviour to some extend make up for the negative feelings they may have working as FLs/WLs, that is, some self consolation and retrieval of some measure of self respect (they may feel - at least we are not just pure FLs/WLs, and some customers really like us and treat us well!!!!).

Understand that most Hongkies are very down to earth and practical about such matters - choing, never pay above or too much beyond market rate and then leave, period. We should also learn from their approach, for the FL, WL business is essentally a business deal. That's it.

Finally, if you want a gf deal or a marriage deal, look elsewhere for a differnt sort of girl, not a FL/WL, etc.

Cheers and take care.



,

[Stimsia]

Test yourself:
When you are feeling horny and want to go see her, masturbate. After you cum and you still miss her, then you are falling for her. If after you cum, you have no urge to see her anymore, means its just great sex.

what a great test point :)

TS just follow your heart, should you really fall for, then marry her lor
talking is just trying to find way to keep the cake and eat it
don't understand
simple TS don't mind the great sex n feelings just don't wanna the responsibility

[wally888]

juz dunn stick to one regular spread your love & $$$ around. Maybe you'll find your regular not so nice to you liao :D

[Reoxy]

The only reason why TS thinks that this WL is the best one is because he has not tried enough other pussies.

When you only tried 10, you will always remember: My best is with XXX.

When you have tried 100, you will go: My Top 10 favorites are .....

When you have tried 200, you will go: Top 10 BBBJ, Top 10 AR, Top 10 GFE, Top 10 ..... etc etc

When you have tried 300, you will be too lazy to remember anything.:D

[EtherC]

Aye, second that! Such words can only come from a True blue cheongster :D

The only reason why TS thinks that this WL is the best one is because he has not tried enough other pussies.

When you only tried 10, you will always remember: My best is with XXX.

When you have tried 100, you will go: My Top 10 favorites are .....

When you have tried 200, you will go: Top 10 BBBJ, Top 10 AR, Top 10 GFE, Top 10 ..... etc etc

When you have tried 300, you will be too lazy to remember anything.:D

[SammyNewbie]

This is bad.

Yesterday I went to visit her after bad fuck.

Things happened that made me feel guilty. I thought will be ok after I wake up from my sleep, but now I can still feel the residual emo from yesterday. I don't think she KC trap me, she just give me good service only, never really ask for anything.

I think I stupidly fell into KC trap myself.

Damn. I cannot sleep already cause sleep too much. I think I must get out of the house. If not I kena left alone will just emo and emo and emo.

[PuErCha]

How to maintain emotional distance while having a regular???????
Ans : Change regular
Gao Dim Sai

[patric12]

great comment!

Dear bro, it is a good thing you are scared now. This is a good sign that at least you are aware of the danger.

To tell you frankly, we all believe you and understand how you feel for the FL for some of us too have had gone along the same lines - the fuck is always so comfortable, she is so nice to me, gfe, she is so good to me, just wonder if she is doing ok or not now, could we have some casual lunch first, can I know her better, etc, etc. If we ever go beyond the usual routine of fucking, paying and leaving, that is, start thinking of her day in and day out or start 'dating' her out, chances are we are falling for her, emotionally that is, and then get burnt (whether how serious or how long the burning takes does not matter, but you will definitely be burnt).

The only person who can stop you from being burnt is yourself. We know it is easier said than done, but if you do not want to be burnt, don't go beyond. fucking, paying and leaving. There are more than enough threads in this forum to warn you about the dangers of falling for FLs. WLs, etc. Do go and read through them and realise how other bros have suffered for their follies.

If you think you cannot resist the temptation to fall for this FL, and yet do not want to be burnt, we suggest you cease doing business with her altogether. Look out and try out for others. Trust us, you are going to experience another similar one sooner or later, and this will make you realise that bros all have this tendency to fall for FLs/WLs when the FLs, WLs, start being 'nice' to us. To us, it is a very, very nice experience, but to them, these are just tricks of the trade, aimed at returned business, same as any Company with good customer relations management, CRM.

For other FLs/WLs, such gf behaviour to some extend make up for the negative feelings they may have working as FLs/WLs, that is, some self consolation and retrieval of some measure of self respect (they may feel - at least we are not just pure FLs/WLs, and some customers really like us and treat us well!!!!).

Understand that most Hongkies are very down to earth and practical about such matters - choing, never pay above or too much beyond market rate and then leave, period. We should also learn from their approach, for the FL, WL business is essentally a business deal. That's it.

Finally, if you want a gf deal or a marriage deal, look elsewhere for a differnt sort of girl, not a FL/WL, etc.

Cheers and take care.



,