Your Salary On Sex ?

[Summerhillt]

Hi bros , just curious how much does every samster here spend on chiong-ing ?

Basically I do think that in Singapore , the amount of money you earn every month greatly affects on how much and how often and the grade of girls you can chiong..

So hope all samsters bros can give advise on how much you guys earn and how to spend it to the fullest extent.

My monthly salary - $2700
Spend on chionging - $1000 a month.

I can't go LV hug mei mei at KTV or go avalon :(
But i can always seek fun at cheaper alternatives which makes the fuck so much more thrilling. :D

[ErnestK]

I try not to remind myself how much I spend on this hobby. Too depressing and too high a price to pay for the 3-5 secs of shiokness.

[Summerhillt]

I try not to remind myself how much I spend on this hobby. Too depressing and too high a price to pay for the 3-5 secs of shiokness.

Haha , it's just a guideline for bros ma.. like state how much you earn and how much you spend on sex.. i got frens work get $100 a day immediately find a $100 girl at geylang and fuck lol. Than need me drive him home.

[apple26]

Wow that is really a lot of spending on this hobby of yours?! Is it really worth doing this?

[Arniki]

nice topic.
I personally spend about 10% each month. :o

[loneyheart]

Its depend on how u can resist t temptation n urge in u .... Beware of t addiction :D No fig can set when u r on FIRE :p

[tttk3388]

Wow...TS thats abt 37% of your salary! I spend btw 10 - 20% of my salary each mth.....:D

[starbuck]

$400 to $500, need to pay hotel, allowance to those maids i bonk ( they are usually poor ) makan and transport :cool:

[bigguy88]

I'm earning RM 12k per month. Basic + allowance.

But, spending SGD 300 only to bonk. SGD 300 or more is getting from my part time business. The more I get, the higher quality fuck I can get. So, if want to play more or getting better quality type, I will have to work harder to earn more.

[Max77]

after putting aside for basic needs, bills, responsibilities and saving, the rest I cheong (if...got left any)

I dont swap credit card during cheonging

[Summerhillt]

nice topic.
I personally spend about 10% each month. :o

Haha. Thanks bro. Wanted to use 10% also. But than think of it. $270 I open 1 bottle I die Liao .. Where got money hang flower or buys shots than go out eat with the working girl than hotel walao. I also duno how to Chiong in Sg Liao...

[naturegreen]

It's never enough. But TS, I do think you are spending way too much on fl

[maxman]

I'm sure, that for the majority of men who have bought sex, it is scary to think about the amount of money we have spent on that few seconds of orgasmic pleasure through women who sell sex.

Men need sex, but many women just simply know that men want sex. Need and want are not the same. Just like attention is a major emotional need to most women, sex is a major emotional need to most men. The lack of emotional fulfillment can cause depressive feelings.

Since it is common knowledge that most men tend to want/need sex often, there is a huge hungry demand for sex, but the lesser supply of sex comes from women, some willing, some forced . In most situations, women strongly guard access into her vagina, hence you may have read/heard the saying "get lucky". A woman reserves entry to her vagina to the man she likes or to the man who can pay her a substantial amount of money. To the man she likes, she gives (what I call) a loving vagina, and to the man who pays, she sells a working vagina.

There is a power play in sex although not everyone may agree to this perception as best as I can describe it below.

Our world has been for many centuries, and still is, male dominated. Even in the most developed western nations today, income inequality between male and female still exists. Men tend to earn more money than women on any regular rate, and as such, have the ability to save more money and also grow more wealth over time. Women, already disadvantaged by lower earning power, and having to bear loss of income when pregnant and in early motherhood, will never, really never, accumulate as much wealth as men do, at least under most normal circumstances by working as an employee. On top of that, women naturally bear higher expenses just by living life (think: feminine products and medical checkups), and they also tend to beautify themselves with more clothes, lingerie and shoes even though they may not admit to it.

With money comes power of choice. Money allows us to buy whatever we want, and we can also choose to buy the desired type and quality of a product/service for that better pleasure and better life.

In this context, as an example, a man with money can window-shop in several brothels in search for the desired woman. When he find that woman and pays for her, he gives up a substantial amount of money to her. There is a significant transfer of power in this transaction because what the man earns in 1 day, the woman takes away in about 1 hour.

If the woman works in a brothel, and is popular for her good service, she may receive/rob from several men a median week's salary in just a single shift of say 6-8 hours?

In essence, chances are, she takes more from you than what you can earn in an hour. She wins.

In many cases, she has the power to set the price of sex.

While the man's bank account gets smaller, the woman's bank account gets bigger, assuming she is smart with her money matters.

For those of you who have shopped for sex in brothels or by out-calls, and taken time to reflect on life, you would likely understand what I'm trying to explain. It's not the best written explanation on how our money and wealth is squandered.

PS: For those of you who have had both loving vaginas and working vaginas, some of us may be lucky enough to enjoy loving vaginas better than working ones. Indeed, some threads in this forum seem to prove it so.

[ac171]

Earn $2700 and spend $1000 on chionging/FLs, TS then where's your savings?

I usually spend around 10% of my pay on clubbing/cab fares home. Not much of an alcohol drinker nowadays plus my work requires me to drink sometimes so don't really need to spend on drinks. :D

[DegenerationX]

My personal opinion, there's no right or wrong in how much to spend on FL or chionging, as long as dun get into debts.

TS, if you are happy and enjoys your current lifestyle, just carry on. :D

[Summerhillt]

Earn $2700 and spend $1000 on chionging/FLs, TS then where's your savings?

I usually spend around 10% of my pay on clubbing/cab fares home. Not much of an alcohol drinker nowadays plus my work requires me to drink sometimes so don't really need to spend on drinks. :D

Sg chionging every week spend $250 very cheap le. U go Ktv long time also need $150 a normal viet girl overnight. Short time $100. Geylang brothels $50 to $150 need drink Leh Summore. HAIZZZZ. Sg too ex. I save about abit only. Cause need to give household expense de.

[keewee]

Sg chionging every week spend $250 very cheap le. U go Ktv long time also need $150 a normal viet girl overnight. Short time $100. Geylang brothels $50 to $150 need drink Leh Summore. HAIZZZZ. Sg too ex. I save about abit only. Cause need to give household expense de.

hmmmm say abt 2k per month i spent on chionging

[Azmodan]

used to spend around 3 k a mth. now i just limit it to less than 1 k a mth. money is hard to come by

[bigjack]

hmmmm say abt 2k per month i spent on chionging

that's really a lot bro.. i onli spent 300~400 per month. its abt 10% of my pay. cant tahan already.. lol

[Summerhillt]

hmmmm say abt 2k per month i spent on chionging

WAAA!! Bro. 2k a month on chionging damn alot! How much you take home sia! Pei fu pei fu. Care to share 2k includes drinks?

[tryherout]

Wife - Hey man, I noticed you didnt pay the PUB bills for last two months
Man - Yea, I am a little short of cash
Wife - What happen?
Man - (..) If we have sex more often, PUB bills are peanuts.
Wife - What are you talking?? I am working late tonight ya.
Man - Ok..

[littlepok]

TS, your salary 2.7k less CPF is 2.2k only, meaning u chiong 50% of your salary. less daily expenses, transport etc (assume u are those mrt/bus people) therefore u have really minimal savings.

not sure about your family background. if rich then no worries. if average, u need something to fall back on rainy days.

nonetheless, it is your $ and freedom. if u are happy, keep it that way. maybe i got too much unnecessary misgivings.

the need to save up increases when age rises. maybe u are unattached now. when u are, need to cut down liao

[maxman]

Wife - Hey man, I noticed you didnt pay the PUB bills for last two months
Man - Yea, I am a little short of cash
Wife - What happen?
Man - (..) If we have sex more often, PUB bills are peanuts.
Wife - What are you talking?? I am working late tonight ya.
Man - Ok..

Haha! Creative scenario. It believe this describes the heavy work load in SG that leads to some of the many social problems?

[rat967]

Lucky my big head controlled my small head... i dont spent in tat... hehe!

[1128138]

but spend how much is alright for every month?
i spend ard SGD 500 per month is already 30% of my pay.:(

[threetreasure]

for me the amount varies from $50 to max $500, but on the average $300...

$50 is when only go find those thail gals

$500 is when really got chio local girl lobang

$300 is on average got GL twice a month n call those $150 girls lor.. sometime goes once a mth, then spend on $150 ...

for bro who spend a lot of their salary on this "hobby", and did not save, my humble advice is must save some money for urgent needs.. dun spend too much on the hobby..

i ever when near the month end, my wallet left $10 only.. n wait for pay to come at end month.. if something cork up n the pay did not come in, then i hv to eat wind le.. chinese say XI BEI FENG.. bcos did not save up, as every month pay use to pay all kind of bills, give mum allowance, clear some loan from friends, plus this hobby so everytime month end no money...

so since then i told myself no matter wad must save abit.. as there is a saying.. no money no horney.. but remember oso no money no living...

[maxman]

A man with little or no money (indirectly referring to wealth) is also indicative of low social status, and will be less attractive in the eyes of most women.

[aayk_74]

A man with little or no money (indirectly referring to wealth) is also indicative of low social status, and will be less attractive in the eyes of most women.

Bro maxman,

I couldn't second that more especially in the Spore context & with Sporean ladies.

Everything if not most thing is measured with XXX amount of $$$.....:(

[ErnestK]

Bros,

There's this book "Richest Man in Babylon" that I strongly encourage you guys to grab a copy and give it a good read.

Your bank statement will be eternally grateful to you.

[ErnestK]

A man with little or no money (indirectly referring to wealth) is also indicative of low social status, and will be less attractive in the eyes of most women.

Aptly said by a Taiwanese newscaster:

金钱是最有效的春药

[maxman]

Aptly said by a Taiwanese newscaster:

金钱是最有效的春药

Could you please translate? Thanks.

[joncheong]

Bro maxman,

I couldn't second that more especially in the Spore context & with Sporean ladies.

Everything if not most thing is measured with XXX amount of $$$.....:(

To singapore women, it's not the length or girth that matter....it's $$$....

Their religion is $$$....just like china women....but singapore women love to look down on china women...but i think no difference between the two....just that one can speak english and better at hooking up with angmohs and act highclass...to me is only high class pros...

[joncheong]

Hi bros , just curious how much does every samster here spend on chiong-ing ?

Basically I do think that in Singapore , the amount of money you earn every month greatly affects on how much and how often and the grade of girls you can chiong..

So hope all samsters bros can give advise on how much you guys earn and how to spend it to the fullest extent.

My monthly salary - $2700
Spend on chionging - $1000 a month.

I can't go LV hug mei mei at KTV or go avalon :(
But i can always seek fun at cheaper alternatives which makes the fuck so much more thrilling. :D


Dear TS...cheonging is still cheaper than marrying the wrong woman and get screwed by divorce...legal fees, maintenance, housing split... sometimes i think spending up till 3/4 of salaries on hookers are still better than marrying the wrong woman....


i saw many average to do joes...ended up with divorce...marry new woman still need to feed her first marriage wife...poor guys..

fuck and forget is the motto

[cavemanng]

1~2% of mine

[abc84]

Earn about SGD5k n spend around SGD100 or less per mth(cus i go to massage center in jb). Hahaha

I dun like intercourse but prefer hj/bbbj...

Wooohoooo

Yea ts who spend 1k out of the 2.2k(after cpf deduction) is too risky cus u may spend more than 1k as ur salary increase further....diy occasionally can be fun too wat

[Arniki]

Well well, at the end of the day, I think it boils down to "wanna play more ? Than EARN more !!! "

Happy playing !!!

just to share some book to set all of us thinking ...:o
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Think_and_Grow_Rich

Bro ErnestK - nice share
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Richest_Man_in_Babylon_(book)

[Arniki]

Aptly said by a Taiwanese newscaster:

金钱是最有效的春药

Very True !!!!!

http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm

:o:o:o:o

[tttk3388]

Very True !!!!!

http://www.sacred-texts.com/nth/tgr/tgr16.htm

:o:o:o:o

Nice post!

[BiRd13]

Er..about 200-300 per month

[<<totally>>]

Wahah, I think I saved a lot for the past 2 years:D Zero! When I was loaded, small head will be bursting with energy. Now wallet empty, small head move also dun dare to move.
不是我帅，不是我厉害
是我口袋里的钞票在作怪！！:eek:

[AmeShin]

For me
Maybe one month once only.

But its never a good thing
As each time pose a risk to a deadly disease, cause its not a 100% full proof prevention even if its capped.

I try and wanna kick the habit but sometimes just too much internal stress or frustration that need to be released

Although I know that there are also other ways to release stress and frustrations, yet still not really able to totally kill this bad act.

Hopefully one day if can get a proper gf I need not go anymore.



But ts 1200/2700
Is really alot.

Beware of addiction. It can really cause many impact.

Sexual acts may be able to temporary satisfy ego and affection problems, release stress or frustrations
But the disease/cost can be damaging

[queeniegal]

Don't spend so much la recession coming le... Save $$$$$

Depressing days started last year I think it will just get worst :(

[Summerhillt]

Thanks bros for your concern. I now cutting down and spending less Liao. Walao beh tahan damn expensive sia chionging. I go jb massage plus full service even suck my toe luck my ear lol only 228 RM

[SekLo]

Save for rainy days, keep such spending to maybe 15% max of your income, maximize every opportunity to earn extra money, use this as motivation.

[BTech]

I try to control my reckless spending on FL and KTVs these days instead I put it to more meaningful use......

S$5000/mth and got myself a fulltime mistress ( that is allowence only lah). The good part is I got an arm candy and someone that I can share thoughts with etc .. unlike looking for new FL all the time... loose the feel.

of cos sometimes I still "eat out".. so in general for all my 'recess" time away from my family activities, I spend about $7k per month.

A big drop in what I used too... dont ask, dont remember and do not want to remember how much I have fu**** away :)

[takashi31400]

For me ,spend 1% of my income for massage or hair wash .Cause i dont go for FL and i have gf too.Although my gf very low sex drive but with SBF i manage to safe a lot of money .Tks for all the contribution from all the bro here for all the story sharing.

Cheers.

[fnulnu88]

when i used to earn my salary in USD$, i always go for high end gals that cost me easily USD$1k a pop, and minimum twice a month, max 4 times :eek:

now i am earning SGD$, cut down chionging liao...save money to buy 3rd home lor LOL

[keewee]

WAAA!! Bro. 2k a month on chionging damn alot! How much you take home sia! Pei fu pei fu. Care to share 2k includes drinks?

haha bro not inclusive of drinks as usually i go for main course nia

not time to waste

[GlimpseNglance]

I can't go LV hug mei mei at KTV or go avalon :(
But i can always seek fun at cheaper alternatives which makes the fuck so much more thrilling. :D

I spent about $20k in the first half of this year - this includes drinks, tips and 4 trips to china. Managed to claim a few grand from company under entertainment expenses hehe...

2H of the year spending dropped a lot cos sian already decided to play more sports. Stupid eurozone still haven't settle their debt prob so better for me to save more money if I dun wanna end up like them.

A towkay fren of mine spent $400,000 SGD chionging last year. Went out with him one nite after my 1st session ktv at peace centre jade ktv. Ended up at Tian An Men. Guess what? I saw the same gal who sat with me at jade at TAM as well...now she worth a few times more than a few hours earlier lol. Dun really know what's her rate at TAM cos my fren picked up the tab...total dmg $4k+ I think?

So bro, if u really want LV quality gals, go peace centre...it's really the same gals but much cheaper...just bear with their butterfly

[dbhh]

Used to spend up to $1k per month for 3 straight months this year for cheonging.

Now have wisely cut down on the frequency to $400 per month....save up for rainy day.

[Summerhillt]

Haiz. But I tried very hard. Everyweeek at least must spend 200 on cheonging sia

[nfiaker]

I also getting to buay tahan levels, once every 2 days go one time. When I checked my accounts, spent more than SGD500 most months, and it's becoming a routine.

Gotta find something more meaningful to do with my life.

[GlimpseNglance]

Kena zapped for posting here...

[caister]

hardly got any much more money to spend on all these cos dont earn as much as most of the bros here how much i envy

[TreakSYT]

For me I spent 10% also.
Any ladies here want to say something?
How much you spent every month on male companion? Or any sex related stuff
Hehe interested to know :)

[buttdimples]

about $500/- a month

[bitterdurian]

camping for more

[onlyhuman]

i really dont earn alot but i really spend 1.5k every month grrrr

[sgjoey]

I also getting to buay tahan levels, once every 2 days go one time. When I checked my accounts, spent more than SGD500 most months, and it's becoming a routine.

Gotta find something more meaningful to do with my life.

After a time, most activities become meaningless. In fact there are few activities more meaningful than great sex. :D

[freezetheDB]

learn a dance, a martial art or a new sport.

take up art, music or culinary.

They actually cost less, more productive and you get to widen your social circle and know more girls.

we all know after sometime cheonging leaves nothing but a feeling of void.

[sp150]

80% of salary for sex with wife and it's once a month lol just joking hor bros dun zap me...last few months have been $1k per month on cheonging but realize abit sian Liao cos going back to same place with different group so this month decide to stop better to save the money better...1 week 2-3 time KTV I think really too many times Liao

[pipi486]

usually go for $120/90/2
twice a month, so spend about $240 a month only
sometimes also go $50 massage, maybe twice a month too
total $340 a month

i self employed so income not stable, average earn only 2-4k
so its like 10-15% of my income ba
sometimes work so stressful, must spend some money to de-stress ba

[Melancholic69]

whatever left from my salary after my monthly expenses i will spend on FL. But I dont earn much now though. So maybe once a month if lucky.