Re: Reading Gurls Mind on <3 matters

[sgnottiboi]

Hope some female readers can help to relate to me what do girls usually have on their mind..

I got to find back one of my sec classmate whic we'd lost ctc and We begin to meet up more often, gng to the movies and also KTV wif oni the 2 of us....After clubbing, she would hold my hand and also hug me wen she's emo.
She will aske me to spend the nite over at her place on numerous occasions but nothing happen as both of us often each slept on the other edge of the bed without any body contact.

I do not dare to ask her be my gf as I am afraid of being rejected and losing our close friendship we both share right now....Can any sister out there help to comment as to whether she have any feel for me based on the above? Should I take the 1st step?

Pls advice....

[abugga]

Er... Are you sure she's not just asking you to accompany her to fill in the empty void of loneliness in her heart?

Why don't you ask her subtle questions instead? Nothing too direct that makes her appalled, nor too subtle that she may not catch your drift.

Better be sure bro, otherwise you are going to lose your chance, or friend for that matter.

Hope some other readers could give you some constructive advice as you deem fit. Cheers

[comm]

next time try sleeping close loh, if she ask u to go back to the edge.....friendzoned...

if she start rabba rabba....

[sgnottiboi]

Ya loh bro, that's wat pulling me back from popping the Q. Thanks for yr comment ;)

[sgnottiboi]

Bro Comm, its usually she's e one getting closer while I move away >.<

[Ravenzou]

Young man, fate has brought u this lady and put it in front of u.
It is up to u if u want to reach out yr hand and grab the chance or else she will run away.

I made a stupid choice (3 actually ) that I did not seize the chance when fate brought me such chance, And now I look back and tell myself what a dumb ass that I never even try.

[tttk3388]

Bro Comm, its usually she's e one getting closer while I move away >.<

TS isnt she taking the 1st step?? So why move away when she get closer?? This might give her a wrong signal!! Unless you are not too sure about your feeling towards her?

[sean69]

Hope some female readers can help to relate to me what do girls usually have on their mind..
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She will aske me to spend the nite over at her place on numerous occasions but nothing happen as both of us often each slept on the other edge of the bed without any body contact.

Pls advice....

Bro Comm, its usually she's e one getting closer while I move away >.<

er... are you gay???

[JavX]

TS, u mentioned she hugged u b4 right? Next time u sleep on the bed with her, just ask if u can hug her on the bed. 1 thing will lead to another la.

Seriously, it looks like she's there for your taking. Everything set up nicely for u, dunno y u haven't taken any action. Don't hesitate too much or she'll be gone once the feeling is lost.

[LovePotion]

TS, if you asked her to be your gf, 100% sure fail. I realised for gals, if you ask them anything, they will 90% say no even though they wanted to say yes

Therefore action speaks louder than words, you get both of you drunk and then take the chance to hug and kiss her

If she continue means, you can carry on

If she push you away, you can pretend to fall a side and pretend you dont know wad happen

Either way you benefit from the process

[devilzQQ]

TS, I think you should make some moves. do something special and not too awkward. test some water.

[fabby]

Young man, fate has brought u this lady and put it in front of u.
It is up to u if u want to reach out yr hand and grab the chance or else she will run away.

I made a stupid choice (3 actually ) that I did not seize the chance when fate brought me such chance, And now I look back and tell myself what a dumb ass that I never even try.

same experience bro.

TS is there anything stopping u? if you can give her wad she want, why not give it a try. No risk no harm, dont wait until she gone den you started regret.

[comm]

Bro Comm, its usually she's e one getting closer while I move away >.<

bro just relax....next time if she does that then dun move away...

if she already give up trying to get closer to u


try tell her u gonna give her a shoulder rub..

if still no action during shoulder rub ...

after finish just lie down on the bed close to her loh

if still no action...

then just close ur eyes n sleep loh

[sgnottiboi]

hi folks, thanks for all yr feedback :)
During clubbin she will always get so drunk that I would need to carry her back hm. Tod of kissin her but din coz she KO already.
Sometime gurls mind are so unpredictable and hard to anticipate their move and gettin on my nerves at time wen she throw her princess temper...reckon that's leave me in a dilemma whether wanna chio her anot...

[Krazzie]

Simple equation...

Try = May get her as a girlfriend
No Try = Forever just think of her as a girlfriend

Go figure

[Abbreviation]

one who hesitate; masturbate

[wodemama]

exactly. the worst to come when trying is rejection.. thats all. doesnt kill

[JacqueMerlin]

hi folks, thanks for all yr feedback :)
During clubbin she will always get so drunk that I would need to carry her back hm. Tod of kissin her but din coz she KO already.
Sometime gurls mind are so unpredictable and hard to anticipate their move and gettin on my nerves at time wen she throw her princess temper...reckon that's leave me in a dilemma whether wanna chio her anot...

Be very careful... she can always turn around and accuse you of rape even though she gave her consent. Even if you might exonerate yourself with the slimmest possibilities in Singapore, your reputation would have been ruined. Your incarceration commence outside bars and for an indefinate period. Tread the mine field cautiously.

[balloonboy]

TS, based on my experience in understand human minds. She already put all invitation to you. No girls will invite u to sleep together in the same bed if there is no interest in you. More over you all have been going out. Not many girl will want to make the first move. You have to do it as a man. I am sure u progress 1 step further , you are on ur road to success. try to pretend to turn towards her and like accidentally put ur hand on her. if she never retaliate u can slowly make all ur move. I am pretty sure she waiting for you to make all the move. All the best.

[deludedgal]

important thing is do u even like her? if u like her then go ahead. If u dont, dont even have to ask her to be yr gf already. or just to be sure u can ask her directly whether she likes u a not. 90% of the time she cant reply u that I can tell u she just making use of u.

[Summerhillt]

Hard say leh TS. sekali you Tio friend zone than she treat you as sister only. Lol. But once again , there are no real platonic friends. You should try to raba raba her ma. I also quite confused. She jio u go her house sleep. You can tahan don't do anything ah? Summore her parents not strange meh? Never ask why she let a guy sleep her room lol. If she stays alone at her bachleortte pad. You can be more daring ma. Try more stunts

[Jescx]

Purposely make into a joke saying you're so nice why no boyfriend yet? If she say cause got you can slowly jio her alr :p

But usually if I'm interested in the guy I'll be touchytouchy to him

[kittymae]

Purposely make into a joke saying you're so nice why no boyfriend yet? If she say cause got you can slowly jio her alr :p

But usually if I'm interested in the guy I'll be touchytouchy to him

That's true...gd pt
Girls usually shy away from physical contact w a guy unless

1. Interested in e guy
2. Drunk/high

[rushforlust]

TS, if you asked her to be your gf, 100% sure fail. I realised for gals, if you ask them anything, they will 90% say no even though they wanted to say yes

Therefore action speaks louder than words, you get both of you drunk and then take the chance to hug and kiss her

If she continue means, you can carry on

If she push you away, you can pretend to fall a side and pretend you dont know wad happen

Either way you benefit from the process
strongly agree what bro love potion said

never ask, gal like u to do it instead of say it out

my humble suggestion, next time when she hug u , try to bring her closer, smooth touch on her hair and try to approach lips, if on, that means on

[Chilloutsex]

To be honest, most girls prefer their partners to be straight forward. Rather than guessing around and they prefer the male to make the first move. So most if the time, we female will try to drop hints and hope the guy gets the message and make the first move.

Just confess. Rejection will not kill. Good luck.