Advice pls...

[Yiupo]

Hi all bros here.

Would like to seek some opinions or advices on this matter...

What would you do if you find out your wife had an affair outside? You confronted her and she told you what happened until today. They had raw sex a few times. and in between, you also fuck her raw. which means she somehow gets fuck by you and the guy raw alternately... and the standard bbbj, deepthroat, licking of balls and anal hole (ar), fingering, bathing together... and she dress sexily to kill. in mini skirt, gstrings etc.. she even got fingered in taxis by him.. She realise her mistakes and seek for your forgiveness.. Would you...?

Asking for opinion on how would bros here react if it were happen to you...

[sammyboyfor]

Hi all bros here.

Would like to seek some opinions or advices on this matter...



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[queeniegal]

Hi all bros here.

Would like to seek some opinions or advices on this matter...

What would you do if you find out your wife had an affair outside? You confronted her and she told you what happened until today. They had raw sex a few times. and in between, you also fuck her raw. which means she somehow gets fuck by you and the guy raw alternately... and the standard bbbj, deepthroat, licking of balls and anal hole (ar), fingering, bathing together... and she dress sexily to kill. in mini skirt, gstrings etc.. she even got fingered in taxis by him.. She realise her mistakes and seek for your forgiveness.. Would you...?

Asking for opinion on how would bros here react if it were happen to you...

If u think u can forgot and forgive without doubting her anymore in future then ok lor

But u can forgive and unable to forget.. Start controlling her going out who she go out with.. Trust is gone no point remain in the marriage lor.

Is all in you whether u want things to work. But again if your wife beg ur forgiveness and trust still continue eat outside then this marriage also fail. Thus learn to close one eye if u want continue the marriage.

[queeniegal]

Anw just my two cents thoughts

[jameschong1]

What would you do if you find out your wife had an affair outside?
Asking for opinion on how would bros here react if it were happen to you...
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idiot like u should go beach road buy a gree hat to wear!
change your name to cuckold yiupo green hat

[littlepok]

hi bro, u setup account here since sept 2011 so perhaps u are also not as faithful as compared to her.

the only diff is most prob she strayed emotionally whereby u strayed physically. to females is same thing, to guys is not.

trust is gone but perhaps there are many other factors pulling u back, aka kids, house, family and relative views etc.

i think everyone deserve a second chance at some point of time, for everyone will definitely make mistakes. perhaps u will lose some faith, always want to know where she is etc. it might be inevitable and she have to live with it. sort of a trial period and after that, if u decide to leave, at least u know it's not a moment of folly.

PS: consider having medical check-up for each other also

[queeniegal]

hi bro, u setup account here since sept 2011 so perhaps u are also not as faithful as compared to her.

the only diff is most prob she strayed emotionally whereby u strayed physically. to females is same thing, to guys is not.

trust is gone but perhaps there are many other factors pulling u back, aka kids, house, family and relative views etc.

i think everyone deserve a second chance at some point of time, for everyone will definitely make mistakes. perhaps u will lose some faith, always want to know where she is etc. it might be inevitable and she have to live with it. sort of a trial period and after that, if u decide to leave, at least u know it's not a moment of folly.

PS: consider having medical check-up for each other also

Agreed with Pok ha..

[5ag1_Boar]

First time, I will forgive. That is what love is suppose to be about. Second time, its going to be really hard.

The fact that she voluntarily admit and ask for forgiveness and to stay in the marriage means something.

As for trust... well, if she betrayed my trust, then she has to be the one to make the effort to win it back. Its going to take a long time though, because frankly, if ever I have a hard time contacting her, I'm probably going to go from worry to suspicion to anger... depending on long it takes before I finally get hold of her again.

Also, have to examine the relationship... what is causing her to cheat?

Lastly, don't hang on to the relationship out of pride or ego. Do it only because you love her.

[songsonglah]

My 2 cents.

Men, when curi ayam, only think about the sex most of the time. Whereas, for women, most of the time, feeling is concerned. Especially in your case where she curi ayam repetitively with the same guy and even bonked raw. So, most likely feeling is involved here.

My advice will be ... Have a talk with her. What went wrong such that she has to seek comfort outside. Is it a case of their mutual attraction or is it a case of you being indifferent to her feeling which causes her to stray.

Simply divorce or forgive/forget won't help if the root of the problem is there. My 2 cents.

[slowgear]

Bro.
Women will stray emotionally first and then physically.

The main issue you have to deal with, is whether you can trust her again and also, what went wrong for her to stray?

[Tai_zi21]

I would Not forgive her in my case! Gals need a reason to cheat for guys maybe it just lust fuck and forget but for gals dun think so

[TritonR]

If you also unfaithful and still love your wife then just forgive lor..
If you faithful she not, get a Divorce.

[notti4u]

Hi all bros here.

Would like to seek some opinions or advices on this matter...

What would you do if you find out your wife had an affair outside? You confronted her and she told you what happened until today. They had raw sex a few times. and in between, you also fuck her raw. which means she somehow gets fuck by you and the guy raw alternately... and the standard bbbj, deepthroat, licking of balls and anal hole (ar), fingering, bathing together... and she dress sexily to kill. in mini skirt, gstrings etc.. she even got fingered in taxis by him.. She realise her mistakes and seek for your forgiveness.. Would you...?

Asking for opinion on how would bros here react if it were happen to you...


For me, I guess I will forgive her. I will reflect on myself why I let her cheat instead. However, there will be scar no matter what and are we willing to let go in the end, its depends on ourselves. Forgive and forget is what we always say. But in reality, we can forgive the person but can we forget what they did to us? Bro, if you still love her, may I suggest you and her to see a counsellor to see how to patch things back?

[Mountain]

Wow. That's a cuckold to be.

After enjoying the raw fetish and wonderful "sexsperience" with other guy, she wanna come back to you, ask for forgiveness and question about feeling and the loves with you? That's ridiculous.

She wouldn't bother to think about the whether the loves existed between the two of you when she was having fun outside.

Just do the right thing and send her packing! :D

[ahtat77]

i would'nt. once she's been fucked by other man,i find it hard to accept unless i do not truly love her. :D

[hi2u]

I think this is very personal.
First of all, you got to find out the reason why, what is the reason behind her fucking another guy. Got to keep reminding self to think logically. Yes she is wrong for fucking another guy behind your back, but the reason behind, could be due to yourself.

[acidicavex]

Sorry to hear your situation if she would have consider making the guy wear protection. Maybe I will forgive her at least she is still responsible to me. As for the rest of the kinky things they do. If I choose to forgive that mean in future I also have the right to do all those to her more to be exact.

No Hard feeling and no offence to any sis reading. Since she let him fuck her raw plus all those stuff that could only mean seeking your forgiveness is just to pacify you. Cause to me she already have no regard for the marriage she can risk and jeopardize and risk contracting disease and spreading it to u by letting the other guy fuck her raw and every other things. I guess she have no more respect for the vow u both make. Frankly I don't even want to know what went wrong btw me and her. She let him fuck her raw who know how clean is the guy. And if a gal let another guy other than her husband of bf fuck her raw and willing to let a guy do kinky stuff with her in public My best bet is she is already putting in emotional involvement with the guy.


End of it your call bro u are facing her everyday we are just reader. Good luck in whatever action u take.

[wells]

haiz..sad to say there will be no trust left. how to carry on if there is trust issue?

[Yiupo]

Thank bro here for all the advice..

It is that the things that she done still remain fresh in my mind. Esp during when we have sex. Everything they do will just come up.

Funny thing is. Before this happen, i used to think of hotwifing.. Mmf, eip etc. And i get super turn on by it. But now it happen she fuck another guy behind my back. It is diff to take it.

Just cant accept the thing she do to other is the same she do to me, and the mental part which she fell for another guy...,, but now all is fine i think so..

[saintmouse]

bro, regardless which directions you take, its going to be tough on you.

just a suggestion for thought... have a open chat with her and understand what she plans to do next since she already confess to you.

it will be a long road to recovery... look ahead once you made the decision to let go & move on. even you muster courage to continue life with her...look ahead too...no point humping on the past events

look after yourself :)

[chokdee1987]

I've heard countless stories of friends getting cheated on by their gfs. It's always the same - I'm so sorry. I want to come back to you. You're the best guy I've ever met. Tears and more tears.

The fact that she slept with another guy on more than 1 occasion shows that there is either a problem with 1) the relationship OR 2) the cheating spouse's character.

From what I've heard, cheating is hardly a one-off occurrence. That was why I ended my relationship with a really heavy heart. Once the trust is lost, it will never be back again. Not saying that you shouldn't try to make it right but if it's not working, never avoid the step of separation for whatever reasons. Both parties would be, unfortunately, happier that way.

All the best bro.

[rhlks]

Agree with littlepok, especially about the medical for the Both of you...