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LovePotion
14-11-2012, 12:50 PM
A friend of mine called me in the middle of the night and told me that her younger brother touch her ass while she was asleep

She turn around and found that her brother was awake and this is not the first time

She told her parents but they dont believe and scolded her

I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14

Hmm.... anyone have experience such cases?

eddy72
14-11-2012, 01:13 PM
Poor gal. She need protection, from her horrible family..

iFuck
14-11-2012, 01:54 PM
"accident" waiting to happen.
They should not be sleeping in the same room in the first place.

justdifferent
14-11-2012, 02:22 PM
A friend of mine called me in the middle of the night and told me that her younger brother touch her ass while she was asleep

She turn around and found that her brother was awake and this is not the first time

She told her parents but they dont believe and scolded her

I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14

Hmm.... anyone have experience such cases?

solution: go to sim lim, buy a few spy cams. they are not expensive. install at appropriate areas. if he's done it before and gotten away with it, he will do it again. once she has footage, make backup copies and go to her parents.

now they have to believe her. if they still don't take appropriate actions, then she needs to move out asap.

alan0338
14-11-2012, 02:37 PM
I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14


no problem, 14 also can go kio kuay ... me living example ... :D :D

sean69
14-11-2012, 02:42 PM
no problem, 14 also can go kio kuay ... me living example ... :D :D

please start a thread !! :D

wally888
14-11-2012, 03:07 PM
Experience being the gal is impossible, if anyone having the boy experience got to be pervert.....so u think anyone here would admit he's so pervert:confused:

alan0338
14-11-2012, 03:14 PM
please start a thread !! :D

no need start thread la, FYI nia, virgin bo ang bao de ... :D

freezetheDB
14-11-2012, 03:17 PM
the young boy needs counselling

LovePotion
14-11-2012, 03:20 PM
please start a thread !! :D

Hahaha you are so funny. Btw his damn awesome, chiong at the age of 14 liao. I dont even know wad is porn over that time

MillieS
14-11-2012, 06:25 PM
Koala-bear hug a bolster and face the brother while sleeping with her back against the wall. If he squeezes his hands through then it's time to knee him in the plumbs. Personal experience and it works. :)

sean69
14-11-2012, 06:42 PM
no need start thread la, FYI nia, virgin bo ang bao de ... :D

damn it !!.. u mean i have been saving myself for NOTHING??!!! :D :D

Lizarre
14-11-2012, 07:16 PM
A friend of mine called me in the middle of the night and told me that her younger brother touch her ass while she was asleep

She turn around and found that her brother was awake and this is not the first time

She told her parents but they dont believe and scolded her

I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14

Hmm.... anyone have experience such cases?

How old is your friend?
If she is the younger one then both of them need to sleep in different rooms.
If she is the older sister, it is her responsibility to teach her younger brother how to release his needs. Teach him to PCC and NOT do it for him. :)

LovePotion
14-11-2012, 08:16 PM
damn it !!.. u mean i have been saving myself for NOTHING??!!! :D :D

Hmm..... Didnt now still have samster whom is virgin, so rare ^^

Summerhillt
14-11-2012, 08:38 PM
waa. like this need to tell the parents lah.. wtf the brother doing sia so horny until touch the sister ass knn... spy cam idea is really good but show to the parents already... scared will have emotional scar between the siblings.. as the boy is still in his growing age... best is counsel him that it is wrong.

LovePotion
14-11-2012, 09:12 PM
Yes... but the problem is that her parent dont believe her. =-=

This case i also helpless because is someone close to her and stay with her

nuclearkid
14-11-2012, 09:27 PM
Yes... but the problem is that her parent dont believe her. =-=

This case i also helpless because is someone close to her and stay with her

Looking from the perspective of parents, it would be quite a disgraceful matter if forced to deal with it. As it has not been blown out of proportion, they are probably hoping to brush it aside.

At his age, rampaging hormones and all, they shouldn't be sleeping in the same room. If there isn't a choice due to the size of the house, see if you can arm her with a stun gun. Encourage her to zap her brother whenever he touches her. I don't think he will do it too often after that.

Me Siam Bu
14-11-2012, 09:35 PM
ha ha interesting lol

lyulka
14-11-2012, 09:59 PM
I think The victim have 2 solutions.

Depending how much he love her younger brother and how nice the brother is.

1. She should sit down and have a good talk with the brother. Explaining and sternly say that such action is not pardonable. and etc.

2. OR. Scream out loud hysterically when the brother touches her again. This will scare the shit out of him and hopefully he will not touch her again.

Solution 2 is usually for siblings not in good terms.

I experience that myself. I used to touch my younger cousin when she is asleep.

I was young and super horny.

But thankfully my cousin never spill the beans. Everytime, she just warn me.

I done alot of funny pattern (minus sex) before I become a better person

Over time. My thinking mind start to work more properly. Really understand That is really wrong and is something should never happens. I changed over the years and become a better person.

my advise. Better do something before it turn out worst.

I am lucky that I become a sensible person in time. IF not. I think it will end up like the typical case of sibling rape.

I was also around that age when I do that. IT is the Hormones changes and high sex drive. Without a strong moral foundation. I seriously cannot imagine the outcome.

I am not saying that I have very high morals (that explains why i am still surfing SBF) but the basic moral foundations is still there and is strong. I may be tempted nowadays. But only restrict to fantasy.

kittymae
14-11-2012, 10:36 PM
How abt ur fren a guy fren to talk to the brother or a close relative
Maybe guy-to-guy might help?

I can feel the helplessness of ur fren. Truly.

If this persist, and the parents still don't believe, might have to seek external help/counselor? Give parents wake up call also.
If not in long run, ur fren may be emotionally traumatized ...

Bangster
14-11-2012, 11:15 PM
I experience that myself. I used to touch my younger cousin when she is asleep.

I was young and super horny.

But thankfully my cousin never spill the beans. Everytime, she just warn me.

I done alot of funny pattern (minus sex) before I become a better person

Over time. My thinking mind start to work more properly. Really understand That is really wrong and is something should never happens. I changed over the years and become a better person.

my advise. Better do something before it turn out worst.

maybe if he touches her a few more time, he will also become a better person?

Hehe :p jokin joking...my bad..
:D

deludedgal
14-11-2012, 11:57 PM
If i were your friend, i will advised her to shout loudly " F*CK OFF LA" and make sure daddy and mummy hears her and if they ask her what happen say brother touch her butt a lot of times when he think she was asleep la...

If her parents still dont believe her, then sleep on couch and threaten her brother touch one more time, go make police report herself.

Love potion really pls tell your friend dont suffer in silence. this not a joking matter. later her brother go outside anyhow touch people how? is caning and jail. want to nip in the bud or let this matter rest and become worst in future?

diputs1269
15-11-2012, 12:27 AM
Yes... but the problem is that her parent dont believe her. =-=

This case i also helpless because is someone close to her and stay with her

This is a very serious matter. Your friend must bodly confront his younger brother to stop his improper activitives and reform him. If not this may becomes a habit and will lead greater trouble if his victims report him to the police:mad: In this way, she is helping herself as well as helping her brother to lead a normal and meaningful life:)

asdfghjkl
15-11-2012, 12:38 AM
i face such thing before... how to deal with such problem when the house is a 3 room flat? :o

makka111
15-11-2012, 01:07 AM
The girl should take things into her own hands. Sepak the bugger until he learns not to poke people's backside.

Summerhillt
15-11-2012, 03:32 AM
I think The victim have 2 solutions.

Depending how much he love her younger brother and how nice the brother is.

1. She should sit down and have a good talk with the brother. Explaining and sternly say that such action is not pardonable. and etc.

2. OR. Scream out loud hysterically when the brother touches her again. This will scare the shit out of him and hopefully he will not touch her again.

Solution 2 is usually for siblings not in good terms.

I experience that myself. I used to touch my younger cousin when she is asleep.

I was young and super horny.

But thankfully my cousin never spill the beans. Everytime, she just warn me.

I done alot of funny pattern (minus sex) before I become a better person


bro care to share what u did ... not too overboard ah? only tio warning. :eek:

lyulka
15-11-2012, 11:55 PM
bro care to share what u did ... not too overboard ah? only tio warning. :eek:

I don't mind sharing my story if you don't find it long winded.

My cousin name is C. 4 yrs younger than me. She have an older brother J what is 2 years older than me.

We are a bunch of typical cousins in the older days. When we visit them or they visit us. Cousins will gather together and play whatever that is available. Catching, climb tress. Play with whatever toys we have. Yes that was the oden days era. Pre affordable PC days. VHS was the WAAAH thing.

Think all this started due to bad infuence around me. My dad's porn stash. His pron VHS collection. I just happen to stumble upon them.

Not to mention J was becomeing more gangster like. Smoke and watch porn. Old school gangster but with moral. I did get influence by him. Pron part of cos.

Start watching pron when I was pri 4. Learn the art of masterbation at pri 5. pri was when I started to be horny (Hormone change).

We are not well off. DAd drive a company van. so sometimes will bring 2 or more familes to picnic at east coast. With the equipments and spares onboard. sitting area can be very tight so we squeese.

That time she happens to sit on my lap due to no space. Funny feel but still ok. She was p2 only. I p6.

Things proceed as usual as what people do during picnic. Not to mention we swim also.

C was wearing the old school simple swim suit. dark blue color. after it got wet. U can see the basic outline of the body. She was slim and lanky.
maybe I was horny all the time so I wank in the sea.

Goig home time she also sit on my lap. Abit can take it. I was having a erection and was pressing on her butt but she did not say anything.

That was the start.

Uzzi
16-11-2012, 12:12 AM
Screeeeam bloody murder until everyone is awake... That should scare the shit out of the brother...

And when the parents come over just reason with them that if he didnt touch her why would she be screaming...

After once or twice it should deter him from further furry hand furry leg actions.

lyulka
16-11-2012, 12:19 AM
Over time. I start to have nasty thoughts. Sometimes they will stay over my place. or vice versa.

The first time was when they stay over my place. My place was only a 3 room flat. 1 of the room was my father's workshop. So my cousins and myself will be sleeping in one room.

For some reasons. on of the sleep over, I woke up in the middle of the night. Pretty erected. (Pubity?) Horny and cannot sleep. SAw my cousin sleeping on the floor. So I move queitly and sit next to her on the mattress. And ot my hand on her mei mei. Just outside. My heart was pounding like mad. andrelin rushes like mad. It was enjoyable to a certain extent.

Slowly it becomes lifting her pajamas and put my hands outside her panty. the process was slower cos I scared she may wake up.took like 20 minutes just to do it.

Then it becomes slipping my hand into her panty and feel the slit of her mei mei. This is the time when she ocasionally woke up in the middle and push me away.

Then I become more bold. I begin pulling down her pajamas and panty to her knee level before feeling her clit. It is a 50/50 case. Sometimes she will be deep asleep. Sometime she will wake up and push me away.

Then it become more extreme. There's one time she was sleeping side way.
I find it hard to pull down her panty. SO i Just lie next to her with my dick pressing her butt. That was really ectasy for me (for a p6 kid)

After PSLE. I was staying over at their place. I got even more bold. She was wearing some cute ballon shorts to sleep. SO it time my acions. Waited till 2am before I start. I pull down her shorts to tight level. Place my dick in between her legs. just below her mei mei.(no penetration). And kinda like masterbation using her legs gripping my dick. She woke up and shouted : "OI" and push me away. The shout was abit loud but not loud enough to wake up the whole house. Of couse I back out for a while.

lyulka
16-11-2012, 01:00 AM
Again I am back to the no good self after some time.

Was sec 1 and needless to say much hornier. Modify my ops. and started something new. Just slip my hand into her panty, feel her clit and wank myself.
This goes on whithout her knowing. And I get even bolder. Sometimes I will remove my shorts and brief. Squeese myself into her tiny panty or cute terry shorts and touch her while wanking.

Soon it become even more scary. slip my hand into her panty to feel her clit and use her hand to wank myself. This of course without saying was like a 50/50 again. Sometimes I get away with it. But there are times she wake up and push me away. And that is when she start giving me warning. But me being a sec 1 kid and she's only pri 3 kid. of cos I never take her seriously.

It ellove to some more perverted as time goes.
The next one time crap I did was I strip myself naked. Lie beside her slip my dick into the leg opening of her panties Kind like riding her leg. the other hand play with her nipples, no breast yet. And cum on her hip. Vsualise she was lie flat on her back. I was side way. Dick slide into the opening of her panty rubbing her hip. And I hump her hip till I cum. Supper thrilling.

And finally the most hard core (for kids). Only did once and that was the final. And that as the time I start to wake up.

That was end of sec 2 for me. My uncle in law won 4D and was having a mini celebration at their place. He was crazy enough to let ever one drinks beer. C was curious and drank. J needless to say was happy to drink as he was drinking all along bt find it expensive. I on the other hand was having band influence from J so I can hold at least 3 cans of beer.

As I was havig my second can. I start to have evil thoughts. So I kinda make C drinks 1 1/2 can of beer and she was pretty knock out.

In the middle of the night, 3am I started my ops.

C was wearing those Big T shirt look alike with Buttons from top to bottom. Kinda like a giant Shirt.

I tap her face afew time to make sure she is knock out. I strip myself naked. Unbutton her pajamas all the way. With all the buttons undid, she looks pretty naked. I remove her panty and wear it. Spread her legs open. Sniff her mei mei. got abit of urine smell so I did not try to lick it. I suck her nipple(still no breast).Use my dick and rub her cheek. (super high) Use her hand and hold my dick.

Finally. I spread her leg real wide. Hold my dick and rub her clit (can die already). AS the I get even horny and high. I rub her clit using the base of my dick head at a faster pace. Like having sex/dry hump/etc. I was sweating but the feelings is super shiok. and after 5mins of intense rubbing I cum. A super big one and my legs really wobble. M cum was all over her tummy and her belly button was close to full with my cum.

I was in sweat. Dick was throbbing hard. legs is wobbly and I was panting super hard. Super satisfied

That was when My make up call comes.

AFter when I catch my breath and catch my sense. I was shock with what I see.

my cousin C laying there naked. with my cum on her tummy. Helplessly lying there asleep and knock out.

I was kinda shocked and abit disgusted with what I have done. She was a nice cousin of mine. Pure, innocent. Someones who give me chances for so long. Always willing to play with me when I was much younger. And yet I did that this kind of things to her. tears rolls down my eyes.

I was crying silently while cleaning her up and dress her proper.

next morning. She still ask me why My eyes are all swollen. Drink too much izzit she ask. The guilt and remose was something almost unbearable.

From that time on. I treat her even nicer. To a stage my mum hint me that cousins cannot be married.

Bangster
16-11-2012, 01:02 AM
Oh my god...

That was extreme already...

lyulka
16-11-2012, 01:12 AM
Now she is happily married. stay6ing in Australia and a Proud mum of 2.

My story here does 2 things. juicy story for fellow bros (provided they find it juicy and shiok)

on the other hand. Message for others who are in the same path like what I did last time.

My Message is. All this seem super turn on and arousing. Sibling molestr and sexual abuse.

But please Wake up and look at it again. If you love your siblings. Do they deserves this kind of treatment?

I was really lucky that I snap out of it. If I proceed further. Not only I ruin my favourite cousin's life and future but myself also.

And I must say I am lucky that I snap out of it. People who are on the same path like my past acts may not be so lucky.

even if you are not in good terms with you siblings. She does not deserve this kind of encounters.

yes you may not like your sister. But do spare a thought for your future. In the present digital age. YOu may not get away like me. My era was the donkey years olden days. where people used to be much simplier back then.

My advice to victims still stand.

Have a good talk with your brother and warn them sternly. If same thing still happens. Shout hysterically till the whole hosue is awake when your brother touchs you again. For both the brother and yourself. No one deserve this kind of treatment.

And Karma does catch up with you.

Nopt mattars how much makeup I did for my cousins. Karma still comes in.

My sex drive dwells earlier than others. FL bullies me. Even my wife bully me when comes to sex.

cuntarow
16-11-2012, 03:48 PM
Koala-bear hug a bolster and face the brother while sleeping with her back against the wall. If he squeezes his hands through then it's time to knee him in the plumbs. Personal experience and it works. :)

thats dangerous, he might squeez her boobs or finger her instead.:D

LovePotion
16-11-2012, 04:18 PM
i face such thing before... how to deal with such problem when the house is a 3 room flat? :o

Hmm... only choice is to moved out?

outside
16-11-2012, 04:20 PM
Think she dress "sexy" and it tempts her brother lah.... Tell him to study first, and grow up and earn more money, then he can choose any girls that he wants with the money lah...

handcell
16-11-2012, 06:44 PM
If the parents cannot handle it well, let the teacher know.

cereal-killer
16-11-2012, 08:35 PM
I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14

1. get some one else to dress up like her, FULL SCARY make up and scare the shit out of him ( plus put on youtube )

2. pay an old auntie to get touched by 14 year old boy (old auntie SURELY will say yes, if room is dark enough, blow him with night vision on and put it on porn site with his name)

3. skip all the above and put night vision and tape it, and let her parents see. Good chance she will get her own room from then on.

4. Get sister to beat the shit out of him

cereal-killer
16-11-2012, 08:37 PM
no problem, 14 also can go kio kuay ... me living example ... :D :D

auntie got give you 'ang pow' bo ?

wuahahah ahahah ahahahaa.....

cereal-killer
16-11-2012, 08:48 PM
And Karma does catch up with you.

Nopt mattars how much makeup I did for my cousins. Karma still comes in.

so has Karma came back to you ?

lyulka
16-11-2012, 08:53 PM
so has Karma came back to you ?

Yah. like what I have discribed. This is what I sow and reap.

sennheiser
17-11-2012, 05:29 AM
Need to tell the adults about it and have them speak to the boy about it. This happened to my gf when her bro was younger..

My gf is 3 yrs older than her bro, so body is very much developed even when they are at pri sch level. She's very busty.. E cup. So the story goes that her bro will grope and squeeze her breasts when she's asleep. Sometimes she knows, other times she's really asleep. I think she didn't tell anyone about it but after some time the bro stopped doing it. Got scared i think.

How i know? She told me after I groped and saueezed her boobs while she was asleep. She thought her bro came back for seconds. Scared her so bad she woke up in cold sweat. From then on, if i wanna hanky panky, i won't initiate by that method.

LovePotion
17-11-2012, 12:20 PM
Need to tell the adults about it and have them speak to the boy about it. This happened to my gf when her bro was younger..

My gf is 3 yrs older than her bro, so body is very much developed even when they are at pri sch level. She's very busty.. E cup. So the story goes that her bro will grope and squeeze her breasts when she's asleep. Sometimes she knows, other times she's really asleep. I think she didn't tell anyone about it but after some time the bro stopped doing it. Got scared i think.

How i know? She told me after I groped and saueezed her boobs while she was asleep. She thought her bro came back for seconds. Scared her so bad she woke up in cold sweat. From then on, if i wanna hanky panky, i won't initiate by that method.

Ya true.... I think there is nothing she can do as her parents dont believe her plus she dont know how to face her younger brother

I told her i can wack the hell out of him but it will only make things worst as they r silbings

Now she is sleeping sofa lol. =-=

Iluminati
17-11-2012, 01:02 PM
violent will not solve any problem. what you should do is to talk to the boy and explain to him that what he did is wrong by the law. molest is an outrage of modesty. sleeping on sofa is not the solution for the long term. as a youth it is not good for the spine to sleep on the sofa on the long term. the spine has not fully developed and might have effect in the long term.

piao
17-11-2012, 02:51 PM
Yah. like what I have discribed. This is what I sow and reap.

good for u to realize your mistake n not harming your cousin.
wish u all the best.

happpy
17-11-2012, 02:57 PM
A friend of mine called me in the middle of the night and told me that her younger brother touch her ass while she was asleep

She turn around and found that her brother was awake and this is not the first time

She told her parents but they dont believe and scolded her

I told her to talk to him nicely and bring him to prostitude if he have his need. However her brother is only 14

Hmm.... anyone have experience such cases?


why dun ur friend report him to police?

Lizarre
17-11-2012, 03:57 PM
Ya true.... I think there is nothing she can do as her parents dont believe her plus she dont know how to face her younger brother

I told her i can wack the hell out of him but it will only make things worst as they r silbings

Now she is sleeping sofa lol. =-=

Tell your friend to talk to her school counsellor, there is one in every school.
Not to worry, the police will not be involved. As I understand, this type of situation is rather common especially among those staying in 1, 2 or 3 room flats. The remedy usually is to arrange a counselling session involving the whole family and a school representative. :)

CTOA3954
17-11-2012, 04:15 PM
Tell your friend to talk to her school counsellor, there is one in every school.
Not to worry, the police will not be involved. As I understand, this type of situation is rather common especially among those staying in 1, 2 or 3 room flats. The remedy usually is to arrange a counselling session involving the whole family and a school representative. :)

Excellent advice. .... :D

LovePotion
17-11-2012, 04:25 PM
Yup, i will let her know, i think it is a good advice

Lucky i am not a gal =)

lyulka
18-11-2012, 12:21 AM
Tell your friend to talk to her school counsellor, there is one in every school.
Not to worry, the police will not be involved. As I understand, this type of situation is rather common especially among those staying in 1, 2 or 3 room flats. The remedy usually is to arrange a counselling session involving the whole family and a school representative. :)

Common among those staying in 1 2 3 room flats? That'sseems to be a interesting info.

Care to share more on the info?

lyulka
18-11-2012, 12:33 AM
i face such thing before... how to deal with such problem when the house is a 3 room flat? :o


Care to share ur story? Just being curious

Hippie
18-11-2012, 03:16 PM
Hey TS,

You should tell your friend to stand up to her brother.
Since she's older than him, she shouldn't be afraid of him.
If she doesn't do anything, her brother might take advantage of her even more regardless whether they are sleeping in the same room.

Lizarre
19-11-2012, 03:25 AM
Common among those staying in 1 2 3 room flats? That'sseems to be a interesting info.

Care to share more on the info?

School counsellors islandwide receive on average about 100 such cases reported to them every year. On looking into the details many were not genuine cases where the accused had the intention to commit molestation. Out of these 100 cases, maybe about 70% of them were due to cramped living quarters where body contact is inevitable due to the sleeping arrangements. The remaining 29% are usually malicious reports due to rivalry / jealousy / bad blood between the accused / victim. And only 1% of the cases are referred to the police for investigation.

The Milk Man
19-11-2012, 03:39 AM
Tell your friend to talk to her school counsellor, there is one in every school.
Not to worry, the police will not be involved. As I understand, this type of situation is rather common especially among those staying in 1, 2 or 3 room flats. The remedy usually is to arrange a counselling session involving the whole family and a school representative. :)

Counselling session involving whole family & school?
Like that the whole school will know about it which is even worse for the victim, isn't it? :rolleyes:

naturegreen
19-11-2012, 10:05 AM
How about some stories of sisters rubbing for their brothers? That will be interesting.

LovePotion
19-11-2012, 08:24 PM
Hmm..... I bet not much people would like incest

I find that the real story about incest is quite weird

Lizarre
20-11-2012, 01:53 PM
Counselling session involving whole family & school?
Like that the whole school will know about it which is even worse for the victim, isn't it? :rolleyes:

On the contrary, no one would be any wiser as the counselling session is held at the FSC nearest to the victims home. :)

hillsborough96
20-11-2012, 06:40 PM
On the contrary, no one would be any wiser as the counselling session is held at the FSC nearest to the victims home. :)

What is FSC?

kittymae
21-11-2012, 05:21 AM
T'S, just curious, so ur friend taken some form of action yet? Resolved?
Think many of us here would hope that her sibling has been deterred, if not ceased his actions towards her.

Bangster
22-11-2012, 12:07 PM
Counselling session involving whole family & school?
Like that the whole school will know about it which is even worse for the victim, isn't it? :rolleyes:

Aiyo Milk Man ah Milk Man,

You think it is conducted in front of the whole damn school during morning assembly, after singing Mari Kita n flag raising meh??

Imagine....
Pervert Principal: "...he he...so...where did your gorgor stroke you? He..he..."

Siao boh?

Lizarre
23-11-2012, 02:38 AM
What is FSC?

Family Service Centre :)

Lizarre
25-11-2012, 11:48 PM
Yup, i will let her know, i think it is a good advice

Lucky i am not a gal =)

So...... any developments yet?
If your friend requires any further info or assistance can sent pm to me. :D

LovePotion
26-11-2012, 12:17 AM
She sleeps in the living room for the time being and always stay at her friend house (Female)

I think also not much choice for her to decide since her parents reluctant to do something

Iluminati
26-11-2012, 12:33 AM
She sleeps in the living room for the time being and always stay at her friend house (Female)
I think also not much choice for her to decide since her parents reluctant to do something

wah cannot la like that. this is after all her home. she must feel loved and cared instead of like being cast away.
i think bro maybe you can talk properly to his bro? don't use threat or foul words when talking to him. explain to him the gravity of his offense which is molest and also tell him the nature of his consequences not only to himself which is correction school if under 16 years old but also to the victim as well.

Lizarre
26-11-2012, 01:47 PM
She sleeps in the living room for the time being and always stay at her friend house (Female)

I think also not much choice for her to decide since her parents reluctant to do something

That is not a solution. She is merely procrastinating the problem as it will not go away unless some form of action is taken. I still feel she should at least talk to her school counsellor. :)

BernardFrosty
27-11-2012, 01:54 PM
I had hesitated abt reading this thread but I succumbed.

I've dated 2 girls that had been victims of molest by someone close. One by a older cousin and another by her 2 brothers.

The one by the older cousin went to the extend whereby he even tried to penetrate her. Think she was only in her lower primary back then. Her aunt had been her baby sitter and that's where the cousin found the opportunity to assault her. Complains to her aunt and parents went unheeded. Eventually stopped when her aunt found a job and stopped babysitting her. Thank God there wasn't opportunities for him to go further.

Other girl got harassed when she was in her sec school years. Started with her older brother groping her. Same shit, complained to her mother and she was brushed off. Think the brother found himself a gf and things went back to normal. Then the younger bro started following the older bro lead and started groping her as well. She being older, fought back and it stopped after that.

Side note : The 2nd girl has the most beautiful and perfect pair of boobs that I had ever come across. Getting my hands on them was the immediate and only thing on my mind when we first met. I can totally understand her bros temptation but being siblings, it is still incorrect.

For your friend, I can only suggest one thing as the immediate solution. Retaliate and fight back. Deal with it as how you would deal with bullies. Fight back and show that you are not a soft target.

I've met and dated girls that were rape victims or self mutilate. Dunno why they share all these history with me but I always tell them one thing. Don't share it with your future bf unless you can absolutely trust them. Not everyone can dun mind their past.

Jescx
29-11-2012, 05:53 PM
Nowadays youngsters so fast do these kind of stuffs. Apparently one of my guy friend told me this 12 year old xmm like wants to rape him somemore LOL

LovePotion
29-11-2012, 10:03 PM
Nowadays youngsters so fast do these kind of stuffs. Apparently one of my guy friend told me this 12 year old xmm like wants to rape him somemore LOL

You serious? How I wish I were him. However, most probably she will threaten you with it and might get risk of been canned

Jescx
30-11-2012, 11:45 PM
You serious? How I wish I were him. However, most probably she will threaten you with it and might get risk of been canned

But in the end he avoided and reject her cause too young for him! He's 17 at that time btw. Never know if the girl will blackmail him or something.

KnightnPartner
01-12-2012, 04:00 AM
Oh we'll, just kick him behind his legs, punch him in his eye black and slapping him awake and remind him I'm his sister.