What do woman wants?

[Ho-Lee]

I had been through 1 divorce and many relationships and still could not find out what they really wants? Mostly are controlled freaks and expect you to obey them. They not really understand we man got to make ends meet sometimes during weekends. If you disobey them they will throw temper at you. When comes to material things they tends to be very greedy. Sigh....Frankly speaking I am a decent person who dont have affairs and yet I prefer to have freedom and not to be controlled . Who are more greedy??Man or woman?

[DegenerationX]

I had been through 1 divorce and many relationships and still could not find out what they really wants? Mostly are controlled freaks and expect you to obey them. They not really understand we man got to make ends meet sometimes during weekends. If you disobey them they will throw temper at you. When comes to material things they tends to be very greedy. Sigh....Frankly speaking I am a decent person who dont have affairs and yet I prefer to have freedom and not to be controlled . Who are more greedy??Man or woman?

Dun find locals lo. :D

[Ngengheng]

One of my Indian friend catorgarised woman is like a chicken backside...why because is full of shit... never trust whatever they say. They makes life difficult for man.

[Ngengheng]

Dun find locals lo. :D

Foreign girls are same too. Heard too much horror stories from my friends too.

[DegenerationX]

Foreign girls are same too. Heard too much horror stories from my friends too.

Then remain single lor. Like me..... :D

[Ho-Lee]

Then remain single lor. Like me..... :D

THats a wise choice. I find that nowadays woman are only good for bonking. They cant take good care of man as they too greedy and selfish.

[HCKing]

I had been through 1 divorce and many relationships and still could not find out what they really wants? Mostly are controlled freaks and expect you to obey them. They not really understand we man got to make ends meet sometimes during weekends. If you disobey them they will throw temper at you. When comes to material things they tends to be very greedy. Sigh....Frankly speaking I am a decent person who dont have affairs and yet I prefer to have freedom and not to be controlled . Who are more greedy??Man or woman?

woman's logic: 我的是我的 你的也是我的

u say leh?:D

[Ho-Lee]

woman's logic: 我的是我的 你的也是我的

u say leh?:D

Which means they are selfish!!!Why man still love it....???

[HCKing]

Foreign girls are same too. Heard too much horror stories from my friends too.

the girls of today are very different from the past generations, regardless of local or foreign girls. they are more self centered and egoistic, expect alot but give little, love to judge a book by the cover only. in short - they are hard to please.:D

[DegenerationX]

Which means they are selfish!!!Why man still love it....???

Becos man got a rod below mah :D

[HCKing]

Which means they are selfish!!!Why man still love it....???

keyword - The Pussy.....:p

[Ho-Lee]

Becos man got a rod below mah :D

Yar rod has no brain.....lol

[DegenerationX]

Yar rod has no brain.....lol

Anyway, by population, there are more females than males. And males tend to have more charm as they grow older, unlike females which is the opposite of males. In such case, shouldn't it be that females are more worried to be left on the shelf as compared to male? Then why there are still so many males going all the way out just to please ladies. :confused::D

[huhu123]

One of my Indian friend catorgarised woman is like a chicken backside...why because is full of shit... never trust whatever they say. They makes life difficult for man.

u cant live with them and u cant live without them:D

love hate bah.

[sane]

u cant live with them and u cant live without them:D

love hate bah.

stay single will be the best, have needs then pay :D

[DegenerationX]

stay single will be the best, have needs then pay :D

Yes....agreed. :D

[sane]

Yes....agreed. :D

pay = 互不相欠

[HCKing]

Anyway, by population, there are more females than males. And males tend to have more charm as they grow older, unlike females which is the opposite of males. In such case, shouldn't it be that females are more worried to be left on the shelf as compared to male? Then why there are still so many males going all the way out just to please ladies. :confused::D

think only our sinkie males are like that....the other countries ones dun give a fark.:D

[DegenerationX]

think only our sinkie males are like that....the other countries ones dun give a fark.:D

Yup. Dunno why our sinkie males are like that. Haiz.

[maxsee]

One thing i realize about women nowadays..is they are targeting a new breed of man-slaves.....I happen to come across this post on FB by a sillypore women....

A girl can date poor, but never date a stingy man.

A rich man with $1000 that's only willing to spend $100 on you, is nothing compared to one with $100 but willing to spend $99 on you :)

I find the above statement really weird...if a woman has $100...would she has spend $99 on a man then???

It is like as though women nowadays want one sided love affair...with them not giving anything....but the men going all out.....

Most likely new breed of sillypore man-slaves bah....:D:D:D

[alan0338]

but the men going all out.....

Most likely new breed of sillypore man-slaves bah....:D:D:D

wasted me no such lobang, i can go all out on the bed.... :D

[HCKing]

One thing i realize about women nowadays..is they are targeting a new breed of man-slaves.....I happen to come across this post on FB by a sillypore women....

A girl can date poor, but never date a stingy man.

A rich man with $1000 that's only willing to spend $100 on you, is nothing compared to one with $100 but willing to spend $99 on you :)

I find the above statement really weird...if a woman has $100...would she has spend $99 on a man then???

It is like as though women nowadays want one sided love affair...with them not giving anything....but the men going all out.....

Most likely new breed of sillypore man-slaves bah....


wah man-slaves....so jia lat. one thing i cant tolerate abt sinkie girls is that when they are busy with work they expect the men to be understanding and accomodating but will kpkb alot when the men are busy with their work. double standards.:rolleyes:

[DegenerationX]

wah man-slaves....so jia lat. one thing i cant tolerate abt sinkie girls is that when they are busy with work they expect the men to be understanding and accomodating but will kpkb alot when the men are busy with their work. double standards.:rolleyes:

For me, there is one thing which I detest most. Not sure who to blame for it. That is the guy carry the gal's handbag while the gal is empty handed

[Ho-Lee]

wah man-slaves....so jia lat. one thing i cant tolerate abt sinkie girls is that when they are busy with work they expect the men to be understanding and accomodating but will kpkb alot when the men are busy with their work. double standards.:rolleyes:

Woman are so unreasonable......This also applies to malaysian gals too.

[muscleboi]

thats why more and more males in the world are doing the right thing; staying single. i'm one of the awaken ones liaoz ( see my signature :D ) and after reading this http://www.do-not-marry.com/ , it double triple confirm my choice is the right one; staying single. pay only when required to. never pay by instalments. :o

[HCKing]

For me, there is one thing which I detest most. Not sure who to blame for it. That is the guy carry the gal's handbag while the gal is empty handed

hehehehe sometimes i really LOL when i see the guy's expression like he is damn proud of himself carrying her handbag.:D

[HCKing]

think sis sane is avoiding this thread like a plaque.....wahahahaa.:p:D

[DegenerationX]

hehehehe sometimes i really LOL when i see the guy's expression like he is damn proud of himself carrying her handbag.:D

Hahaha. Sometimes when I'm out with my mother and she happen to see this, she will say very loud: Sia suay!! :D

[Ho-Lee]

thats why more and more males in the world are doing the right thing; staying single. i'm one of the awaken ones liaoz ( see my signature :D ) and after reading this http://www.do-not-marry.com/ , it double triple confirm my choice is the right one; staying single. pay only when required to. never pay by instalments. :o

Nice web site...totally agrees

[IAmIsuzu]

Take time to know the girl n see if she fits ur requirement. I got frens that till now, 40+ still not married. Better to take ur time than marry the wrong one.

[etct88]

Becos man got a rod below mah :D

Boy, "I have what you don't have"

Girl, "I can have as many as I want, with what I don't have"

[sane]

For me, there is one thing which I detest most. Not sure who to blame for it. That is the guy carry the gal's handbag while the gal is empty handed

I find it sooooooo sweet leh especially when he's just a friend and want to help to carry my bag. I will put him in my tick list.

think sis sane is avoiding this thread like a plaque.....wahahahaa.:p:D

no la bro, i was busy juz now and also think of what to write. D

N hor guys what sort of gals u all looking for and your expectations?

Pretty, slim
Must know how to cook, do housework
be filial and respectful to the elderly
Not demanding as in asking u to buy this, buy that
contribute to the household
have her own career
Like kids
with a kind heart
Cheerful,Fun, humorous, can click

hello misters, where to find :eek:

[PPGirl]

For me, there is one thing which I detest most. Not sure who to blame for it. That is the guy carry the gal's handbag while the gal is empty handed

hehehehe sometimes i really LOL when i see the guy's expression like he is damn proud of himself carrying her handbag.:D

erm my bf carry my bag for me cos normally I bring "alibaba" bag or so-called bigger bag . I think he dun want me to carry too heavy bag so he help me carry.
This is an act of caring for gf too ;)

[HCKing]

I find it sooooooo sweet leh especially when he's just a friend and want to help to carry my bag. I will put him in my tick list.



no la bro, i was busy juz now and also think of what to write. D

N hor guys what sort of gals u all looking for and your expectations?

Pretty, slim
Must know how to cook, do housework
be filial and respectful to the elderly
Not demanding as in asking u to buy this, buy that
contribute to the household
have her own career
Like kids
with a kind heart
Cheerful,Fun, humorous, can click

hello misters, where to find :eek:

there r a couple of guys i know who have all these unrealistic expectations are currently still single and searching even though all of them r already late 30s and early 40s liao. if really got this type of charbo angel available i bet she will also be eyeing for the perfect and richest hunk out there. :D

[guess67]

For me, there is one thing which I detest most. Not sure who to blame for it. That is the guy carry the gal's handbag while the gal is empty handed

I also can't accept a guy helping a gal to carry her bag, very sia suay lor :)

[vanram]

Girls can fall in love and out of love just as easily..
They can just switch on and off at a whim..

Very sad when that happens...

[sane]

there r a couple of guys i know who have all these unrealistic expectations are currently still single and searching even though all of them r already late 30s and early 40s liao. if really got this type of charbo angel available i bet she will also be eyeing for the perfect and richest hunk out there. :D

Not only men, I have many single ladies friends who have high expectations too which I find it nearly impossible to find too.

In a way, i've stopped helping them to find too cause no such person exist. :D

[sane]

Girls can fall in love and out of love just as easily..
They can just switch on and off at a whim..

Very sad when that happens...

women have a secret checklist hence those really unsuitable will be eliminate in the first round :D

[sane]

erm my bf carry my bag for me cos normally I bring "alibaba" bag or so-called bigger bag . I think he dun want me to carry too heavy bag so he help me carry.
This is an act of caring for gf too ;)

Haha yup especially heavy bags like gym bag and groceries.

I also can't accept a guy helping a gal to carry her bag, very sia suay lor :)

Haha y.. but hor they will carry themselves if they carry chanel, Prada :D

Nowadays I only lug my big nike black gym bag around, so i think generally still acceptable :p

[peanodood1337]

I had been through 1 divorce and many relationships and still could not find out what they really wants? Mostly are controlled freaks and expect you to obey them. They not really understand we man got to make ends meet sometimes during weekends. If you disobey them they will throw temper at you. When comes to material things they tends to be very greedy. Sigh....Frankly speaking I am a decent person who dont have affairs and yet I prefer to have freedom and not to be controlled . Who are more greedy??Man or woman?

You just haven't met the right person bro. Most likely, you married/got into relationships with chio bu who are self-entitled because they are chio. This is a problem all guys have to deal with. Is the girl you meet someone you want to bonk, or someone that is marriage material (by that I mean someone who is down-to-earth, independent and most importantly - compassionate).

Face it. The chio and nice girls are mostly accounted for. Hot property mah. So either you compete for their attention, or you set your target sights on someone who is less physically attractive, but a better person.

Anyway, 20, 30, 40 years down the road and it will not matter. Someone who is chio but has a crappy personality? How are you gonna retire peacefully with that kind of person?

So until you meet the right lady, just screw around when you have your urges.

Take care bro.

[guess67]

Haha yup especially heavy bags like gym bag and groceries.

Haha y.. but hor they will carry themselves if they carry chanel, Prada :D

Nowadays I only lug my big nike black gym bag around, so i think generally still acceptable :p

Gym bag or groceries bag still ok to let the guy carry, but definitely not the handbag :D

[muscleboi]

of all the things on earth, actually what every girl wants the most is security. they want to be assured that someone will be there to support them, emotionally, psychologically, financially bla bla bla..to have someone who wouldnt mind one day their body will inflate and still love them as they are. just that nowadays, few men can provide such security (money especially) without additional stuffs in the package (eg fooling around etc)

[SiliconVibrator]

haiz.... no need so kang kor lor....be single, be your own self.:cool:

[sane]

of all the things on earth, actually what every girl wants the most is security. they want to be assured that someone will be there to support them, emotionally, psychologically, financially bla bla bla..to have someone who wouldnt mind one day their body will inflate and still love them as they are. just that nowadays, few men can provide such security (money especially) without additional stuffs in the package (eg fooling around etc)

True :), they will get emotional/mood swing if they ever feel insecure.


haiz.... no need so kang kor lor....be single, be your own self.:cool:

True also, better to stay single if cant fulfill the requirements.

[chanster]

They want nothing but money.

[by73]

They want nothing but money.

D main thing they want is security.. N money equals security.
In my opinion, u can't depend on others for security. U will feel secured if u r confident of urself.:)

[sane]

D main thing they want is security.. N money equals security.
In my opinion, u can't depend on others for security. U will feel secured if u r confident of urself.:)

If a woman truly loves u, $$ is not impt and some can even support the man financially.

[by73]

$$ is not impt and some can even support the man financially.

True, n i have a lady friend who does tat. But i believe it's affection in play. To me,love is just a feeling n fades wif time. Whatever remains is affection, n affection grows deeper wif time.

[sane]

True, n i have a lady friend who does tat. But i believe it's affection in play. To me,love is just a feeling n fades wif time. Whatever remains is affection, n affection grows deeper wif time.

It also depend on how real is the person and whether there's hidden agenda :)

[muscleboi]

True, n i have a lady friend who does tat. But i believe it's affection in play. To me,love is just a feeling n fades wif time. Whatever remains is affection, n affection grows deeper wif time.

chim..bro, so what can we do to grow the affection?

[chanster]

that why must strike fast .. love liao faster marry then is responsibility already .. got children then is commitment already..

[peanodood1337]

If a woman truly loves u, $$ is not impt and some can even support the man financially.

Yep I believe there are ladies out there who are financially independent, loving, looks decent, great homemakers etc. I also believe that most of these all-rounders are accounted for already. Good catch, tonnes of folks chasing after them.

Anyway, I think even if the woman is financially independent, I'm sure she would like the idea of being pampered by her man.

[by73]

chim..bro, so what can we do to grow the affection?

The Sun, water n fertilizers??:D just kidding..:p
I'm no guru in tis matter, but i believe, if we r true n genuinely showers our loved ones wif TLC, they will feel it n naturally, affection grows.

[sane]

Yep I believe there are ladies out there who are financially independent, loving, looks decent, great homemakers etc. I also believe that most of these all-rounders are accounted for already. Good catch, tonnes of folks chasing after them.

Anyway, I think even if the woman is financially independent, I'm sure she would like the idea of being pampered by her man.

Y do u always speak my mind :D

[peanodood1337]

Y do u always speak my mind :D

*shrug*

I guess great bros think alike LOL

[sane]

*shrug*

I guess great bros think alike LOL

好兄弟 :D :rolleyes:

[peanodood1337]

好兄弟 :D :rolleyes:

Not the 7th month yet dude :D

[sane]

Not the 7th month yet dude :D

Happy 7th month in advance :D

[PPGirl]

Security n someone whom stand by her n be there for her when she needs U :)

[DegenerationX]

Security n someone whom stand by her n be there for her when she needs U :)

What's your definition of security? :D

[PPGirl]

What's your definition of security? :D

安全感 n not monetary terms
;)

[DegenerationX]

安全感 n not monetary terms
;)

何谓安全感？

:d:d

[sane]

What's your definition of security? :D

A woman security should be wanting a man who love her with a sincere heart with no hidden agenda and not faking love to get something out from her.

[sane]

安全感 n not monetary terms
;)

Love that is not based on monetary/materialistic gains?

[DegenerationX]

A woman security should be wanting a man who love her with a sincere heart with no hidden agenda and not faking love to get something out from her.

Then how you know whether the man have hidden agenda?

[PPGirl]

A woman security should be wanting a man who love her with a sincere heart with no hidden agenda and not faking love to get something out from her.
True..

Love that is not based on monetary/materialistic gains?

不是为了钱,才有爱
跟他在一起, 不是为了钱。 而是我已爱上他。
真正的爱。。
Haha dont know this make sense or not? Cant really express my definition well

[DegenerationX]

True..



不是为了钱,才有爱
跟他在一起, 不是为了钱。 而是我已爱上他。
真正的爱。。
Haha dont know this make sense or not? Cant really express my definition well

Ok lah. At least I know what u trying to say :D

[sane]

Then how you know whether the man have hidden agenda?

That's when ur intelligence comes in, be rational and not be rule by emotions.

Sometimes I wish I can be that gullible and believe in everything. :D

True..

不是为了钱,才有爱
跟他在一起, 不是为了钱。 而是我已爱上他。
真正的爱。。
Haha dont know this make sense or not? Cant really express my definition well

I understand, love the person for whoever he is and not what he has.

[DegenerationX]

That's when ur intelligence comes in, be rational and not be rule by emotions.

Sometimes I wish I can be that gullible and believe in everything. :D

So, you are very intelligent :confused:

[sane]

So, you are very intelligent :confused:

As in IQ, ability to use logic to judge instead of emotions.

Sometimes it is hard to believe even if u see it with your own eyes.

[DegenerationX]

As in IQ, ability to use logic to judge instead of emotions.

Sometimes it is hard to believe even if u see it with your own eyes.

Wah! I very low IQ de. Must learn from you. :D

[sane]

Wah! I very low IQ de. Must learn from you. :D

normally low IQ ppl, they have high EQ.

I dont have high IQ lah, but definitely not that stupid :D

[Happyguy801]

normally low IQ ppl, they have high EQ.

I dont have high IQ lah, but definitely not that stupid :D

EQ is more impt than IQ.... of cos IQ cannot be too low...:D

[PPGirl]

Both are equally important :)

[RAMS75]

well sometimes love do hurts ..

[Cuntworth]

Time will tell if that person is sincere or not...

[aisheteru]

If you disobey them they will throw temper at you. When comes to material things they tends to be very greedy.

That's why so many sg men goes for foreign girls
i do always believe wife should obey to the husband,
"Husband and Wife" - husband should be always be infront.
when the hell started husband should obey to wife :confused:

[deludedgal]

woman want love and sex? haha

[PikachuDoraemon]

woman want love and sex? haha


second that :D

[zanketon]

just happen to come across a movie called "what women wants" starring Andy Lau. probably u might wanna watch the movie n get some inspiration of what women wants from there :)

[chanster]

they only want money and nothing else

[huhu123]

maybe be women sometimes also dun kn what they want.

Hermes?????

[huhu123]

Love that is not based on monetary/materialistic gains?

Pure love so elusive. In a meritocratic society where its a rat race everyone striving for all material gain and recognition. We quantified everything in our pursuit even in relationship.

[huhu123]

EQ is more impt than IQ.... of cos IQ cannot be too low...:D

I got no EQ and IQ dieeee...guess i should go join power Tan.:rolleyes:

[huhu123]

well sometimes love do hurts ..

it hurts everytimes....I MISS HER LIKE MAD.

[Ho-Lee]

Wah lau really cant tahan anymore..my gf threatens to break off with me if I go for old friends gathering next month. Really cant understand them.....:mad: Really mental torture...

[Greenfrog]

Wah lau really cant tahan anymore..my gf threatens to break off with me if I go for old friends gathering next month. Really cant understand them.....:mad: Really mental torture...

Then break lo....:D

[DegenerationX]

Wah lau really cant tahan anymore..my gf threatens to break off with me if I go for old friends gathering next month. Really cant understand them.....:mad: Really mental torture...

Kao. Old friends gathering also cannot go? Must threaten? Sorry bro, but I think break up with such gals will be better off

[Ho-Lee]

Kao. Old friends gathering also cannot go? Must threaten? Sorry bro, but I think break up with such gals will be better off

I had stand firm in going for the gathering. I see nothing wrong with it..I am not fooling around. I wish she will leave me too.

[DegenerationX]

I had stand firm in going for the gathering. I see nothing wrong with it..I am not fooling around. I wish she will leave me too.

Good job bro. Just go for the gathering. If she wanna break, tell me. I help you pop champange :D

[Ho-Lee]

Good job bro. Just go for the gathering. If she wanna break, tell me. I help you pop champange :D

Thanks...I really dont know why have such woman on earth?? Everything wanna controls and monitor.

[DegenerationX]

Thanks...I really dont know why have such woman on earth?? Everything wanna controls and monitor.

No offense, but have to ask yourself. You chose her to be your girlfriend rite? :D

[Ho-Lee]

No offense, but have to ask yourself. You chose her to be your girlfriend rite? :D

Yup coz she is a good looker.....Now I know every rose has its thorns.

[ah rat]

Thanks...I really dont know why have such woman on earth?? Everything wanna controls and monitor.

Bro,there was a such guy too.I have a ex-colleague,her BF also like to control & monitor.Met her at Ang Mo Kio,chit chat with her,can see her BF face black.Broke off & she got married to another guy.:D

[Ho-Lee]

Bro,there was a such guy too.I have a ex-colleague,her BF also like to control & monitor.Met her at Ang Mo Kio,chit chat with her,can see her BF face black.Broke off & she got married to another guy.:D

Guess the guy love her too much and he has no security.

[DegenerationX]

Guess the guy love her too much and he has no security.

Maybe your girlfriend love you too much and has no security cos you too handsome? :D

[Ho-Lee]

Maybe your girlfriend love you too much and has no security cos you too handsome? :D

Nah I just an ordinary man...nothing special...

[sane]

Thanks...I really dont know why have such woman on earth?? Everything wanna controls and monitor.

Yup coz she is a good looker.....Now I know every rose has its thorns.

It's either she know she has "market value" so more demanding and in a way finding excuses to kick up a fuss to break off or no trust in you, insecure coz luv u too much.

Bro,there was a such guy too.I have a ex-colleague,her BF also like to control & monitor.Met her at Ang Mo Kio,chit chat with her,can see her BF face black.Broke off & she got married to another guy.D

waa ... i guess he must have know u too well!

[KonKam]

Nah I just an ordinary man...nothing special...

You may consider yourself ordinary but your other half definitely think you something special to her.
Anyway Rose do have thorns, so be prepared to "ouch" once a while.

[Ho-Lee]

Good job bro. Just go for the gathering. If she wanna break, tell me. I help you pop champange :D

Pls pop champange for me..she has gave up...

[HCKing]

It's either she know she has "market value" so more demanding and in a way finding excuses to kick up a fuss to break off or no trust in you, insecure coz luv u too much.


think most likely answer 1 leh, i got female friend chio one also same pattern. small little thing only threaten break up. dont knw change hw many bf oredi.:D

[sane]

think most likely answer 1 leh, i got female friend chio one also same pattern. small little thing only threaten break up. dont knw change hw many bf oredi.:D

that shows she dun luv the guy that much :)

[stillgottheblue]

Guys should not rely too much on women and don't put too much in a relationship. Women, though weaker than men, can destroy your life using emotions.

[HCKing]

that shows she dun luv the guy that much :)

from what i knw abt her she only loves herself. every problem will blame the guy one. but on the outside she looks sweet, gentle and ladylike so guys will still gong gong fall for her.:D

[sane]

from what i knw abt her she only loves herself. every problem will blame the guy one. but on the outside she looks sweet, gentle and ladylike so guys will still gong gong fall for her.:D

her or her body :D

[HCKing]

her or her body :D

dun knw leh, maybe looks plus body lor.:D

character cant tell unless u knw the person well mah. thats y ppl like me who knws her will not fall in love one.:p

[sane1]

dun knw leh, maybe looks plus body lor.:D

character cant tell unless u knw the person well mah. thats y ppl like me who knws her will not fall in love one.:p

nvrmind let them 先甜后苦 ;)

anyway once they got sick, they will move on too, vicious cycle ..

[HCKing]

nvrmind let them 先甜后苦 ;)

anyway once they got sick, they will move on too, vicious cycle ..

thats true, but still hope she can find one really suitable guy and settle down.

[sane1]

thats true, but still hope she can find one really suitable guy and settle down.

prisoner u mean :D

[HCKing]

prisoner u mean :D

maybe she really heng can find one guy who loves her enough to tahan all the shit. who knows?:D