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Acerpac
13-07-2005, 11:34 AM
Hi bros & sis(if there is),
Need advise on having "Affair". I knew a gal recently and she's very interested in me and some how initiated to have a discreet relationship. She knows that I'm married and with a possesive wife, but she said she knows the rules. Won't be calling or smsing me during weekends and after office hour. This arrangement is safe enough?
She's pretty. My small head want her badly. My big head is stopping me.
How? Any advise?
CyberRod
13-07-2005, 11:42 AM
Hi bro, had the same experience before...
If she knows the rules, then go for it but don't get caught...
However, pls do a check from time to time & see that she's still abide by the rules... Sometimes, girls might cross the line when things get too heated up... Gd luck bro...!
kevric
13-07-2005, 11:45 AM
Ya manz.. Be careful as if it goes really deeper and deeper, they might cross the line.
fun4evergood
13-07-2005, 11:53 AM
Are u very sure that she will play by the rules ?? just remember to wipe clean your mouth when u reach home......... if u really cherish your family, I advise against it..... :cool:
nakamara
13-07-2005, 11:54 AM
Just a few words for ya :)
Wanna play? Play smart.
Wanna tou tou eat? Don't leave bits of rice around your mouth.
Eastpipper
13-07-2005, 11:56 AM
if u really cherish your family, I advise against it..... :cool:
the above statement is very true!but some time we man can't really control small head,which i think all of us understand :)
shadowlunar04
13-07-2005, 11:57 AM
Been there, done that. Yah, the gal will give you all the promises initially, promise not to call you unnecessarily, promise not the disturb your family, promise you this, promise you that. But, once you crossed that line and got involved with her. That's it. Both of you will be way too involved in this relationship. She wants more from you, more time from you, wants you to divorce your wife and be with her. But, you don't want to. Then, things start to get nasty and threats start to emerge. Your wife finally got to know about this marital affair of yours. And who's gonna get hurts the most? The innocent parties (your wife and your kids). You really want to risk all these just because your "small" head is doing the thinking? Think again, this time use your "big" head.
naemlo
13-07-2005, 11:58 AM
She's pretty. My small head want her badly. My big head is stopping me.
How? Any advise?
As a friend if I know u, I will say dun be a fool, unless u dun hav a family. As a cheongster, I will say go for it just be careful. As a family, I will say go jump down from Westin.
Acerpac
13-07-2005, 12:08 PM
Thanks for all the replys, bros.
I think a "No" is more like it. To reject this relationship is wiser.
If small head wanna try to override, pay sex should be able to "press" him down. :p
wins1974
13-07-2005, 12:09 PM
Hi brother,
If your bank account got 100k plus you still dun have kids can go ahead. Why? If your wife found out you still got $$$ to engage lawyer and paid her :D
ricardo
13-07-2005, 12:10 PM
i m not exactly having an affair per se now but am in constant contact with a ex-gf. i set up an email account specially for emailing with her and she only knows my office number. just playing very very safe ... well in case things move to another level :D
Castrol
13-07-2005, 12:11 PM
Thanks for all the replys, bros.
I think a "No" is more like it. To reject this relationship is wiser.
ok lah, just bonk her one last time and change your hp number... :p
nismo88
13-07-2005, 12:15 PM
bro most bros r right....
go in... but MUST know when to pull out....
even if the gal promise this n that....
BUT the biggest thing u need to know is that before u even go in.... there is a possibility of hurting yr wife n family..... so u need to be very prepared for that.....
if u cant be prepared for the worst then i say dun jump in the boat....
jus my 2 cents.... :)
Acerpac
13-07-2005, 12:16 PM
ok lah, just bonk her one last time and change your hp number... :p
I haven't even bonk her yet lah. But sure can one. But only scare troublesome.
KKHHLOVE
13-07-2005, 12:19 PM
Thanks for all the replys, bros.
I think a "No" is more like it. To reject this relationship is wiser.
From my experience on this, (I already had 3), the feeling initially is very shiok. But later I can tell you it's going to be very tiring. Everytime reach home must set hp to silent mode. Why ? Scared suddenly in the middle of nowhere hp ring or kena sms. Always kena farked by my frens or colleagues "How come never answer your hp?" Even when you go out oso cannot feel comfortable. What if seen by colleagues who know you are married ? Worse, kena seen by relatives ? Die liao.
Worth it? Most likely not?
fun4evergood
13-07-2005, 12:21 PM
Woman and men are alike, they won't not like to share their husband/wife with other pple. Would u ?
Castrol
13-07-2005, 12:23 PM
I haven't even bonk her yet lah. But sure can one. But only scare troublesome.
huh? no bonk yet ah? you dont faster bonk her first wait you regret lo...
sibaysianz
13-07-2005, 12:27 PM
Men really think with small head wan hor.... my personal opinion is that u just feel "LUST" for her and you are toying with the idea cos "it may be convenient" for you since she is a ready and willing partner and the opportunity presents itself. Have you tot about wat she wants from you? Why would she offer herself to you? You mean she just wants to have sex and that's it? What's in it for her if she plays by the rules?
It's quite sad that men cannot exercise restraint when there is an opportunity .... the family doesn't come into the picture at all?
Anyway, I also say if yr small head itchy better pay for sex.... no strings attached... my gut feeling is "no free lunch in the world" the girl is up to something if not now maybe later... girls are emotional creatures u know....
ricardo
13-07-2005, 12:28 PM
I haven't even bonk her yet lah. But sure can one. But only scare troublesome.
if she still dont have your contact or anything. BONK first and disappear :D
but she already have forget it unless u willing to change HP number. Even change HP number oso must have valid explaination to OC. I have tot abt that, if i have to do it i would say HP kena stolen.
BigGuy
13-07-2005, 12:38 PM
Yo Acerpac......well life is really very nice and it always amaze me.....
there is a very high likely chance of u bonking her soon.....now u can be very rationale and say NO is the right answer for fear of trouble. Like it or not, as time past by there will be a lot of chance for you to bonk her either created by her intentionally or unintentionally.....just learn n try to play by the rule to ear.......everyone would give advise that NO is the right answer but again IMHO......who cares......
Play it rite n get it rite.
marji
13-07-2005, 12:52 PM
My advice? "DON'T DO IT" bro!
When your small head think about her, then make your BIG head think about your wife & family....
When small head itchy, just go pay and release....
blondes
13-07-2005, 04:36 PM
dont let her know where yr working place,home,home no, use a hi card to contact her... in case she turns nasty, she also cant do any things to u :D
asdfghjkl
13-07-2005, 04:38 PM
seems to me that they are working colleagues? :rolleyes:
if you want to do it than do it smartly, want to drink milk dont ever bring the cow home ok. also dont anyhow go and drink, see one cow drink one cow and u end up with so many cows,drink smartly lah. like me drink only one cow, so safe lah :D
hunter89
13-07-2005, 04:48 PM
Bro,
Don't do it... promises are create to be broken later... Try once before and also nearly landed in deep shit.... want me to divorce my wife.......
They will always say no string attached...later they become sticky to you, and they will say that they love you... finally they want you to divorce.....
Better pay, fark and forget...
Unless she is staying oversea, then that is a different story.
Be careful.
Wang Ye
13-07-2005, 04:58 PM
Hi bros & sis(if there is),
Need advise on having "Affair". I knew a gal recently and she's very interested in me and some how initiated to have a discreet relationship. She knows that I'm married and with a possesive wife, but she said she knows the rules. Won't be calling or smsing me during weekends and after office hour. This arrangement is safe enough?
She's pretty. My small head want her badly. My big head is stopping me.
How? Any advise?
Best not too as knowing the rules and following the rules are 2 different issues. If you want to take the risk go ahead but be prepared for the fallout if anything goes wrong. This sort of thing can ruin lives. Namely yours and your family unless you kill her.
Horsepower
13-07-2005, 05:06 PM
Add on to what the rest of the bros said.
Women are basically territorial and possessive. It's their nature. The other ger (btw is she married ?) feeling for you will increase and will cum a time she totally wants to have you exclusively. Once that line is crossed, it basically become the situation what bro shadowlunar said...
Steer clear ! Just go commercial, fcuk, pay and fcuk off !!!
Horsepower
13-07-2005, 05:07 PM
dont let her know where yr working place,home,home no, use a hi card to contact her... in case she turns nasty, she also cant do any things to u :D
Can find out 1 lah. My fren's ger started looking at his HDB car park disk to find out where he stay, then the business card .....
Horsepower
13-07-2005, 05:09 PM
[QUOTE=Acerpac]I haven't even bonk her yet lah. But sure can one. /QUOTE]
remember hor...bonk in any place but yr home.
My gal describe my whole house including furniture layout colour and everything to my wife.....I jump into singapore river also cannot get clean....Never bring the cow home if you want to drink milk. :D
I kena jialt jialt....same like wat yr girl say...I will be discreet...I knows the rule...CCB.....my house phone change 7 times even though suppose to be secret...
Yozz bro, you damn steady bring the ger home hor.
Horsepower
13-07-2005, 05:12 PM
if you want to do it than do it smartly, want to drink milk dont ever bring the cow home ok. also dont anyhow go and drink, see one cow drink one cow and u end up with so many cows,drink smartly lah. like me drink only one cow, so safe lah
Bro, wu yah boh you only drink 1 cow :D
asdfghjkl
13-07-2005, 05:25 PM
unless you kill her.
bro.. u dun mean the Hong Mei case ah? :o
bozocum
13-07-2005, 05:55 PM
Don't ever trust any funny creature, don't ask for trouble and trouble won't be looking for you, there is no such thing as for her promises, your wife will find out sooner or later and you will be in deep shit.
ahpaul25
13-07-2005, 07:15 PM
Bro, my advise here is don.........unless u know her from a pub.........ONS is ok.........don leave any clues behind..........if you know her from work, better don.............yes, it true she knew u r married......by once,she want you badly...you are doomed....if u are game enough......kindly prepare your marriage might be gone 1 day.........that the rules of the game......
Either you paid for bonk or ONS.........don ever enter feeling with her...... :)
Haiz..........I myself have destroy a true story MARRIAGE OF A LADY.....I feel guilty man.... :(
FORMS
13-07-2005, 07:34 PM
Hi bros & sis(if there is),
She's pretty. My small head want her badly. My big head is stopping me.
How? Any advise?
bro
Don't get involve. Woman can be very unreasonable. Now she tell U she know the rule, later U cannot satisfy her, she will call your wife.
BTW, one bro engaged a FL call Sylvia. Later refuse to introduce more clients to her. Next, she threaten to make call to his wife. So think twice brother.
Eat, clean up and leave.
Bro, wu yah boh you only drink 1 cow :D
Bro Horsepower, 1 cow at home and 1 cow outside lah, so home also got milk to drink than outside also got milk to drink lor. anyway my wife also knew it but she did not pichar my lobang lah so no need to hide liao. I am serious not joking
ronins
14-07-2005, 12:57 AM
bro, the girl is single or married? if single, the answer is a big 'NO', i went thro it b4, plus i never even sleep with her yet, only petting. Later she went nuts about feeling guilty and all the craps, so better be careful with such "single, available & knw the rules girl"
Acerpac
14-07-2005, 12:41 PM
seems to me that they are working colleagues? :rolleyes:
Nope. Not colleagues.
Acerpac
14-07-2005, 12:43 PM
Add on to what the rest of the bros said.
Women are basically territorial and possessive. It's their nature. The other ger (btw is she married ?) feeling for you will increase and will cum a time she totally wants to have you exclusively. Once that line is crossed, it basically become the situation what bro shadowlunar said...
Steer clear ! Just go commercial, fcuk, pay and fcuk off !!!
She's not married yet. WORST tio bo?
Acerpac
14-07-2005, 12:45 PM
Add on to what the rest of the bros said.
Women are basically territorial and possessive. It's their nature. The other ger (btw is she married ?) feeling for you will increase and will cum a time she totally wants to have you exclusively. Once that line is crossed, it basically become the situation what bro shadowlunar said...
Steer clear ! Just go commercial, fcuk, pay and fcuk off !!!
She's not married yet. WORST right? ... Even bonk once she can be "sticky" too. She sms me, everyday except weekend and after office hour. Now think of her, my small head is going wild liow.
nismo88
14-07-2005, 02:15 PM
anyway my wife also knew it but she did not pichar my lobang lah so no need to hide liao. I am serious not joking
bro u more solid....
Got licence one.... :D
[QUOTE=nismo88]bro u more solid....
Got licence one....
Bro nismo88 in fact my wife saw her before and they did ever sit together to eat and drink lah, so i already indirectly told my wife that she is my 2nd wife. like that when she keep qiuet means she never reject the lady. I had done my duties as a husband and never failed her, so since she also know that i hv someone out there she also dont want to know too much lah, afterall she knows that i am a 1 man 2 women guy :D Me every alternate nite also go and see my gal, my wife never stop me leh :)
Acerpac
14-07-2005, 03:30 PM
Bo lah...say she wants to look at my kind of flat....
ding dong.....I open the door..there she is ..standing at the door. A minah colleague of mine...
Gal : may I come in.
JT ; sure sure come take a look
Gal : no one at home..
Jt : smile
So show her around and in no time we were sitting together at the sofa......ai listen mai???? Ai i continue with the encounter steamy FR.... :D
Sorry threadstarter...me suddenly feel like writing leh...of course with yr permission lah...
Ai! Lai! Tell us your encounter. I believe all bros here would like to know also. I cannot be selfish since all bros here giving me advises.
ken_v2
14-07-2005, 03:38 PM
Bro Acerpac,
Go for it lah since she said she knows the rule.
Get a new handphone number for her to call/sms anytime. of coz, you don't use that when your CO is around.
Don't bring her home. Do it outside.
Do it only during office hours or when you are working late.
If you drive, put another set of clothes in the boot. This is for you to wear when meeting her so that any lingering perfume won't be on your clothes when you reach home.
If you drive, always park a distant away from your rendevzous point. Also, don't do it in the car.
All these should help to minimise suspects from your CO. If she starts suspecting, cool down for a while....
Good luck!! and if you don't mind, we would all like to read your FR :cool:
Acerpac
14-07-2005, 03:46 PM
Bro Acerpac,
Go for it lah since she said she knows the rule.
Get a new handphone number for her to call/sms anytime. of coz, you don't use that when your CO is around.
Don't bring her home. Do it outside.
Do it only during office hours or when you are working late.
If you drive, put another set of clothes in the boot. This is for you to wear when meeting her so that any lingering perfume won't be on your clothes when you reach home.
If you drive, always park a distant away from your rendevzous point. Also, don't do it in the car.
All these should help to minimise suspects from your CO. If she starts suspecting, cool down for a while....
Good luck!! and if you don't mind, we would all like to read your FR :cool:
I'm trying to give her a miss as she's too "aggressive" in getting me now. Always hinting that she's lonely and bore(this indicate she needs attention). And that worries me. Today we talk abit on sex and she's hinting that she's willing to receive from me. After the hang up the phone, my small head was in the National Day parade liow. So bo bian got to go PCC. I'll be knocking off early to go HC later liow. Really need to poke someone liow.
TheHappyMondays
14-07-2005, 03:49 PM
Hi bros & sis(if there is),
Need advise on having "Affair". I knew a gal recently and she's very interested in me and some how initiated to have a discreet relationship. She knows that I'm married and with a possesive wife, but she said she knows the rules. Won't be calling or smsing me during weekends and after office hour. This arrangement is safe enough?
She's pretty. My small head want her badly. My big head is stopping me.
How? Any advise?
You got watch Chanel U everynight 10pm, the police shows and can get advise from there. Also got "affair". :)
ken_v2
14-07-2005, 03:53 PM
I'm trying to give her a miss as she's too "aggressive" in getting me now. Always hinting that she's lonely and bore(this indicate she needs attention). And that worries me. Today we talk abit on sex and she's hinting that she's willing to receive from me. After the hang up the phone, my small head was in the National Day parade liow. So bo bian got to go PCC. I'll be knocking off early to go HC later liow. Really need to poke someone liow.
Bro,
if she's turning "aggressive" then she doesn't know the rules as she claimed she does.
Stick to HC and GL then....
too bad... was hoping for a good FR.. .hahaha!
wins1974
14-07-2005, 03:58 PM
Be careful Hor, after farking her tell her that you still love her but due to certain reason cannot part with yr wife. :D
I got one good friend steal eat outside but there is an agreement between them not to distrub eachother family. They meet up once a week just to bond...hehee. This girl even give my friend $$$$ when he need it...i pity her so stupid ...really dun know what to said "Love is blind" :)
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