storm11
21-10-2013, 08:20 AM
Bros / Sis
I am just an ordinary guy - who cheong GL occasionally, and got to know this PRC WL about 6 months back. Then, I found I click well with her and became her regular customer. Then, one thing led to another - I KC her..or also kanna KC myself ..And we went out dating on many occasions.
Not that I fell in love with her..I doubt so.. I deem myself too old for lovey dovey romance. It just that it was fun being with her.
Then, she need to go back home to settle some family issues. To help her through, I gave her a small amount so that she can sort things out back home. I didn't expect anything in return. I have fully written off this small amount anyway. I also casually teased her that I can "养她“ when she go back to PRC. We communicate daily after her return to PRC and I also visited her in PRC since. And we continue to have sexual relation as well. I did gave her spending money too. Now I feared that she really have feelings for me or become dependent on me.
But..I am not the commitment type of guy..i really get cold feet about commitment.
What do you people think? Is this a BAO relationship? I don't want to BAO anyone - hehe..I can't afford it either.
Should I end this "relationship" if it is at all a relationship to start with? Do you think that I have lead her on? I did not have any intention to lie to or hurt anyone.
Any points of view will be appreciated.
I am just an ordinary guy - who cheong GL occasionally, and got to know this PRC WL about 6 months back. Then, I found I click well with her and became her regular customer. Then, one thing led to another - I KC her..or also kanna KC myself ..And we went out dating on many occasions.
Not that I fell in love with her..I doubt so.. I deem myself too old for lovey dovey romance. It just that it was fun being with her.
Then, she need to go back home to settle some family issues. To help her through, I gave her a small amount so that she can sort things out back home. I didn't expect anything in return. I have fully written off this small amount anyway. I also casually teased her that I can "养她“ when she go back to PRC. We communicate daily after her return to PRC and I also visited her in PRC since. And we continue to have sexual relation as well. I did gave her spending money too. Now I feared that she really have feelings for me or become dependent on me.
But..I am not the commitment type of guy..i really get cold feet about commitment.
What do you people think? Is this a BAO relationship? I don't want to BAO anyone - hehe..I can't afford it either.
Should I end this "relationship" if it is at all a relationship to start with? Do you think that I have lead her on? I did not have any intention to lie to or hurt anyone.
Any points of view will be appreciated.