Am I being cuckolded?

[TheArtist]

I think my wife is cheating on me. A couple of months ago, I noticed a change in her behaviour. Normally a homely person, she suddenly start messaging pple on her hp. When I walk near, I can see that she quickly close the program.

Initially I did not suspect much, until one incident where I got off work and want to meet her. She says she was in bugis shopping, if want to meet can find her there. When I reach, she did not pick up my call any more. I bombed her hp and waited there for 1.5 hr. I fed up and went home. Then she msg me she went to her cousin place. Im like wtf?

I started to grow suspicious and checked her whatsapp online timings. But seem normal. Then suddenly I came across wechat, which doesnt have online times. At night, when all is asleep, I sneak beside her and took her hp to check. Sure enough, there is wechat but no msg inside. Got a couple of friends though, nothing more.

Then she went 3 days chalet with her 2 girl friends which I know too. Nothing suspicious.

These few weeks, there are msgs inside her wechat. It seems that at night before she sleeps, she will delete the msgs. Got a few nights never delete, and here are some msgs I saw. Summaries only.

Incident 1:
Guy 1: Sorry, my fengshui friend say I cannot have another woman in my life else I have trouble blah blah.

Wife: I trusted you, the disappointment is in the lost of trust. Blah blah.

Incident 2:
Wife: Angry with that pig today (me). Make me angry yadda yadda (I did not really make her angry, why call me pig?)

Guy 2: Wah you fierce leh, you know how to handle him. (Ya right)

Incident 3:
Guy 2: Free on 26?

Wife: 26 thur I work til 9pm so only after 9pm.

Guy 2: Oh ok I off on thur and fri. But night time I hard to come out.

Wife: Ok fri then.


Msg ends, no update since. The 26 is actually this thur, but since there is a meeting on this coming fri instead. Thur and fri I also off, if I tell my wife now, surely she will cancel the appointment and I will not find out anything.

I will check her hp again see if got msgs she forget to delete. Not sure if I am going to pretend going to work, then hide somewhere and stalk her when she leaves the house. Or what.

Is this consider cheating on me? And it seems like 2 guys somemore. Wtf. Am I being cuckolded? I always read stories about wives being a slut and it is so damn hot, but now like happening to me I so damn fucking angry. I did not tell anyone about this, not something nice to tell pple about. But I can really help with some advice man.

Is there anyway to capture her wechat msgs and send to my hp to read? I now only spy on her hp and took pictures of the msgs in my own hp. I also install a samsung account on her s4 to track her location, but when I track her hp will get a tracking msg so i used it sparingly.

What can I do? Any bros can advise? Totally no mood now, cannot concentrate at work too. fml.

[Hardstick15by5]

I feel for you.

If your worst fears turned out to be true,

All I can say is,


Realize this woman doesn't treasure


Life is like that, there are millions out there who went trough the same as you



If it really is true, protect yourself financially, gather evidence. Think for yourself..


It is still a big forest out there.

[thebigdick]

WECHAT VERY EASY TO KNOW GIRLS MAN.... LOTSA MARRIED WOMAN HANGING AROUND THERE LOOKING.... EASY TARGET FOR HANDSUM GUYS ACTUALLY.... BETTER BEWARE ok:rolleyes:

[TheOneAtWork]

Bro, I feel for u. But I also agree with a lot of bros here, is to gather the evidence first and protect your financial future. The worse case is u may have to divorce her, but at least u have the prove that she betrayed you. No point keeping a person who have changed heart.

If really proved she is a slut, put her to shame here for all bros to know. But of course I hope things still turn out fine for you. Good luck...

[archer69]

Now they know as you already post it here. (Might cancel appt)
Good luck.

[gobal100]

Bro,

There is a law in Singapore called woman chapter. It is a very powerful law. Every man that is married regardless happy or so so also scared. Woman know how to use this law to protect the self. Even she give you green hat. Chapter law can also asked you money to pay for your kids.

I know is your kids but what if the money is allocated not to good use? Then is jialat, never let kids followed this kind of woman even the kids like them a lot. Bring them up yourself. You can do it man.

[karpo]

Gather all the info of ur wife and the man and stomp them.. make her lose face.. let the whole world know..

[B-free]

Bro, get professional help to gather info now. Once you have enough evidences, divorce will be faster. However, be prepared to part with 50% of your assets thou.

[Zangetsu]

If me, i will control my emotions and continue to spy on her hp. if you noted on certain dates that she is going out. Just pretend to go work normally but camp at one corner to stalk her. Best is to get concrete evidence before confronting her. if you want to catch , must make sure u checkmate her. if not then forget it. anyway, i feel for you. take care bro.

[sadfa]

Is this going to end up as a story where the guy ends up happy his wife is being fucked? Like the other stories like yours which start like this?

If not, seems like she's cheating on you. Sorry lo

Get a PI and take photos etc n decide want divorce or not.
PI report n photos stronger for divorce than you say on this n that date, see her go hotel with unknown guy etc.

Got kids? No kids easier 2 divorce.
And its hard for a guy 2 not divorce after he finds out what his wife did.
So sooner or later, the marriage will end or end up as a non marriage.

And if she is damn smug, tell her family n close frends what a whore she is and see how smug she is lor. If her 'bf' are married, then see how smug they can be lor if their wives know what they are up to. But don't get into trouble hor

But of cos make sure they sympathise with you cos she will make it seem its all your fault for her fucking around.

[TheArtist]

Not going to start a story here, but thanks for your advice, everyone. Much appreciated. We have a kid, that makes it harder.

Anyway, the msgs in her hp on the appointment all deleted liao, but after midnight got guy 2 and guy 3 (wtf) wishing her Merry Christmas. No further news on her outing this fri.

Financially may be hard to transfer my assets to myself, being that I transfer 1100 to her monthly. One month never transfer she'll notice.

Like the bros above said, need to checkmate her. I guess for nowI need to find concrete evidence first.

Thanks again everyone. Merry Xmas.

[sadfa]

Not going to start a story here, but thanks for your advice, everyone. Much appreciated. We have a kid, that makes it harder.

Anyway, the msgs in her hp on the appointment all deleted liao, but after midnight got guy 2 and guy 3 (wtf) wishing her Merry Christmas. No further news on her outing this fri.

Financially may be hard to transfer my assets to myself, being that I transfer 1100 to her monthly. One month never transfer she'll notice.

Like the bros above said, need to checkmate her. I guess for nowI need to find concrete evidence first.

Thanks again everyone. Merry Xmas.

Sorry la.
My predictions for you in 2014 Is likely divorce la.

Very hard for guy 2 know wife fucked behind his back n stay together la.
Even if you stay together for kid, the trust is gone cos she betrayed you.
And its a matter of time she fucks again or you all quarrel big time.

And her calling you names is very very bad la.
If you call her fucking bitch behind her back, you think she happy meh?

And no assets, nothing 2 transfer la.
If you Got flat, will decide what 2 do.
Maybe sell n give back 2 CPF, or transfer whole lot 2 her n she pay the bill lor.

Messages, Telco can produce la.
So no issue. If whole thing come out, she will be damn malu.

Don't become 2 fixated on that.
She got fuck behind your back is more damaging than she say I love you to 10guys.

But important thing is PI la. Don't make your move, don't change your schedule, don't show black face. Better still, say go overseas for work n hide in Spore. Don't spy on her during this time n let PI do their work. She got free time n think u r not there 2 spy on her, may even brin him 2 your house 2 fuck. Or she more daring n fuck him even more. Sorry again 2 tell u that

[kenta]

TS if ur wife is on red telco check PM

[ah rat]

Ts,did u have sex with yr wife :D

[eddtan1]

TS...go to this web site - www.flexispy.com
Since you are able to get hold of her phone...the software will be able to help you for whatever you need to know.

[Renfeng]

Is there anyway to capture her wechat msgs and send to my hp to read? I now only spy on her hp and took pictures of the msgs in my own hp. I also install a samsung account on her s4 to track her location, but when I track her hp will get a tracking msg so i used it sparingly.

What can I do? Any bros can advise? Totally no mood now, cannot concentrate at work too. fml.

If you able to get her mobile phone for a while, there is a was to read her message from your computer. but once you off your Browser, you need her mobile phone again.

[jameschong1]

I think my wife is cheating on me. concentrate at work too. fml.
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if that guy is a property consultant, then u better worry as property consultans got the 'seh' 'sak ki' look.

[TassieDevil]

Hi Bro,

Sorry for your predicament. Your story kinds on remind me of a blog ( http://iwantrevange.wordpress.com) which I stumbled in SBF a while back. It's about a guy caught his wife cheating on him by secretly installing a spy app on her mobile. They ended up getting a divorced

You might want to consider installing similar app on her mobile.

[mcyeoh]

oh well. SG girls are all sluts

[Krazzie]

Other bros gave good advice to you liao. But I don't think you should smear her stuff all over the internet who knows they can use it to sue you back.

On a side note... those bros who are eating other people's wife on Friday... confirm damn stress.

[nextview]

i would have stalk her 1st, see what is going on, sometime think aint that bad as you think it was. she might know you are paranoid type that why some thing might not want to tell you, she have her freedom and you have yours, everything is base on trust, ofcause saying is easy then done.

i hope you really think too much and hope your wife didnt cheat on you

[ch1818]

She has her fun, then you go ahead and have yours lor.....

[TheArtist]

To all bros, thanks for your kind words and advice. Mean a lot to me. I am no saint, been a cheongster once, but met her, settled down and had a kid, I put down my old lifestyle a long time ago.

I know she need space, but shouldnt that space be shared with me? I share everything with her. Feels like shit now that I know she is flirting around.

Sorry that I sounded whiny and ranty. I just type what I feel. This is not my usual way of thinking and writing but I dont seem to care anymore.

[B-free]

Bro, I feel for you. Right now you need 2 group of professional, PI ( to gather evidences ) & legal rep ( to handle the messy divorce ). Inform the legal team of your intention regarding your daughter. Let them advise you how to go about. I suggest that you do both concurrently & with haste.
Women are creature that can sense mood. Although you try to mask your feeling at this moment, they can sense something not right with you.

[jameschong1]

To all bros, thanks for your kind words and advice. Mean a lot to me. I am no saint, been a cheongster once, but met her, settled down and had a kid, I put down my old lifestyle a long time ago.

I know she need space, but shouldnt that space be shared with me? I share everything with her. Feels like shit now that I know she is flirting around.

Sorry that I sounded whiny and ranty. I just type what I feel. This is not my usual way of thinking and writing but I dont seem to care anymore.
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we know how u feel wearing green hat
y dun u post her cheating photos here
she want to tao jiat, make her jiat sai lah

[Red_Wine]

oh well. SG girls are all sluts

Hi dude, look at yr own face 1st before calling people as slut. U are such a disgrace to yr own country. Why still come here when u so dislike Singaporeans? Spineless loser.

[mcyeoh]

Hi dude, look at yr own face 1st before calling people as slut. U are such a disgrace to yr own country. Why still come here when u so dislike Singaporeans? Spineless loser.
sip shit singaporean...says the one that got broken by singaporean sg and suck you dry

plus why the dislike of singaporean, it just me no reason

[TheArtist]

This fri she having dinner with guy, dunno should i stalk her, find out the place, then call her sister com down and witness or not. Should i do that? Or should i wait with her sister and tell her dont let my wife know?

[DDAMn]

This fri she having dinner with guy, dunno should i stalk her, find out the place, then call her sister com down and witness or not. Should i do that? Or should i wait with her sister and tell her dont let my wife know?

Bro its best u dun involve her family as ppls say bloodnis always thicker than water better bring someone u can really trust n back u up when the need arises.

[Taeloth]

Sorry to hear about this bro. This can only end badly based on your story. You should try to mitigate your losses as best as you can. Seek legal advice and prepare yourself mentally before initiating anything.

Best of luck.

[sadfa]

This fri she having dinner with guy, dunno should i stalk her, find out the place, then call her sister com down and witness or not. Should i do that? Or should i wait with her sister and tell her dont let my wife know?

What do you hope 2 achieve by doing all that?

You confront her, she will deny fucking the guy. Juz talk n dinner only.
You lose the chance liao n she knows you know.
If she's smart, she will slowly badmouth you to everybody including her sis.

Do things that's productive n not dream n fantasise la.
Only when you got concrete things, then you are in a better bargaining position.

BTW long time ago, I caught this colleague. Really milf despite 2 kids n ugly hubby. Very fair n slim n pretty n hiao bitchy attitude. Dinning way after office hours with 20 something good looking colleague. I knew something not right liao even though eating in the public.

[jedireturn]

bro, i feel for u but think u should stay calm now. forget about doing anything first and most important, put aside ur pain and anger. dig in and ask urself, do u love her enough, and u want to forgive her and save ur marriage or cant swallow this..and u want a ending?
many times by digging into the truth, u will end up in the situation where both of u dun want to actually.
if ur wife really cheat, do u really want a divorce?
if ur wife did not cheat on u and find out that u did not trust her, will she get hurt and will she want a divorce in the end?

sometimes choosing to dig into the truth may not be thebest solution.

[acidicavex]

WECHAT VERY EASY TO KNOW GIRLS MAN.... LOTSA MARRIED WOMAN HANGING AROUND THERE LOOKING.... EASY TARGET FOR HANDSUM GUYS ACTUALLY.... BETTER BEWARE ok:rolleyes:

Er.... actually it is another platform of chat u can blk outsiders as long as u have your friend id u can chat with them like whatapps except u need to login. And also other platform also......

[Wipedout]

What do you hope 2 achieve by doing all that?

You confront her, she will deny fucking the guy. Juz talk n dinner only.
You lose the chance liao n she knows you know.
If she's smart, she will slowly badmouth you to everybody including her sis.

Do things that's productive n not dream n fantasise la.
Only when you got concrete things, then you are in a better bargaining position.

Completely agreed with bro sadfa, don't be stupid. Women are cunning, if you confront her in public she will find all sorts of excuses, after all just having dinner nothing more right? Then later she will know that you are monitoring her and will become more sneaky, so you'll find it even harder to get evidence.

Take the other bros advice and get a PI and legal rep. It is natural for you to want to confront her, but you are just screwing up your case and will lose out later on.

The PI will get the evidence for you whether it is at the dinner on friday or later. DO NOT GO THERE YOURSELF you will not be able to control your emotions and you will screw things up by rushing to confront her.

[Taisho75]

Bro, did u stop making her feel like u still dating her? Are u still making her feel special? Ask her for dinner tomorrow night and see her response before u do anything stupid. Dun says u know she meeting a guy for dinner.

Anyway I believe those guys are experienced players. Slowly goes for the kîll.
Get a pi to track for u for tomorrow dinner. It may just be a dinner only. If not, see what the pi comes back with. Dun personally do it yourself as u cannot control ur emotion when u see them having a lovely dovy dinner. Confronting them too soon will only spoil ur chances of catching them red handed.

Keep cool and dun think too much. Sometimes it is better to close 1 eye when needed. Maybe after a lesson of been dupe by another guy may change her views on extramarital affairs.

[TheArtist]

Thanks, for the advice guys. I wasnt thinking straight. Anyone has a good PI to introduce? Thank you.

[TheArtist]

So hard to close one eye when every single day got she is msging these guys. So fucking hard.

[Taisho75]

So hard to close one eye when every single day got she is msging these guys. So fucking hard.

How u know she msging these guys every day? She maybe msging her friends?

If she is msging these guys infront of u, u have to ask a passing remark like u so busying talking to ur friends hor. Or dropped a hint like I can't believe there r guys out there who prey on married women. If she ask u where u see it ? Show her sammyboyforum thread, not ur thread or account.

How to go about it is in ur hands. We can only offer advice.

[Taisho75]

Here is the thread.

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=10251357#post10251357

Anyway hope she not reading sammyboyforum too.;)

[Megatronzombie]

Its not confirm yet she is eating out la so to all the bros talking abt exit strategies hold ur horses first.

Here s wat u should do:
1) hire a PI or better yet go spy urself dont go calling her sister mother etc wats the point??if u r d type who cant control ur emptions then better PI go if not u might grt heart attack
2) dont do anthing foolish and dont go confront her with every little things (e.g the guy touching ur wife hand or shoulder or even waist. That s zero evudence of infidelity. I touch ur waist ur wife got cockolded? No rite? Let ghem enjoy the dinner.
3) take plenty of photos if u like test ur photography skills no harm but pls dun use an ipad hor or a high tech guant size camera damn obvious sia. Remember to take the guy's face mdun just take ur pretty wufe photos this s not a photoshoot !!
4) let them finish dinner. If they kiss or whateer also let them do it!! Its still not counted as infidelity! Besides its bad manners to interrupt people's dinner. U better not interrupt my dinner or i sic gangsters on u ok?? Anyway d point is not to jump at ever small things or u lose game over man!
5) after dinner now here comes the important part. U gott see where they go next! This s the moment of truth! Will ur wite gors home or will she go hotel81?? Is that ur final answer??? ;p i digress sorry. At this point a different strategy needs to be employed depending on what she does next. Like role playinggame lidat
6) if she parts with the guyu gotta immediately call he ask her where she is. She will lie to u but the date on the photos dont lie in court. Congrats! U have just made ur first step to being an amatuer PI! Anyway if she goes home treat likenothing happen and continue to monitor her wechat. Install spyware on her phone. Unless u like d cockolding lifestyle then knock on the door and when d guy open the door ask him if u can join or watch lor (coz hor i noticed u put a smilie with a wink rght next to ur topic like u very sexicted lidat, correct me it i wrong)
7) if she follows the guy jackpot lor! Take photo of them enterig hotel81 or fragrance hotel. Then get ready for the most harrowing legal fight of ur life! Remember to take photos of all d wechat u found on her phone
8) if they dont go to hotel but go moonlight walk then repeat step 6. Note down the guy's car no plate
Hope this helps. Most importantly you must always remain cool and collected. And think about ur kid. :/

[chnhubby71]

bro to be together as a couple is fate and destiny. if you love your wife, why not sit down and have a good chat to see what went wrong as both of you had came along way before decide to tide the knot.

If you personally feels that both of you have NO feeling for each others, than take the last option to leave with mutual understanding to stay as friends. That is my opinion to you. Cheer!!!

[TheArtist]

Hi bros, thanks again for the advice. I will follow her and let her have her dinner in peace. I will try to take pics but depending where they go may not be possible. Like if they go restaurant sit among others, no way I can take pic inside without getting noticed. Unless they sit near windows.

To bro above, I dont recall putting a smiley face in my topic? But thanks for the advice and kind words.

I checked all spyware, flexi, hpspy, all cannot install on her samsung S4 model cos its new and the software cannot support yet.

edit: unless any bros know any spyware program that can track wechat on s4 models? Thanks!!

[Megatronzombie]

Hi bros, thanks again for the advice. I will follow her and let her have her dinner in peace. I will try to take pics but depending where they go may not be possible. Like if they go restaurant sit among others, no way I can take pic inside without getting noticed. Unless they sit near windows.

To bro above, I dont recall putting a smiley face in my topic? But thanks for the advice and kind words.

I checked all spyware, flexi, hpspy, all cannot install on her samsung S4 model cos its new and the software cannot support yet.

edit: unless any bros know any spyware program that can track wechat on s4 models? Thanks!!

Oh jeez! The smilie is onmy post!! I must jave accidentally inserted it while typing. Typing that long essay using iphone s gruelling! Much apologies bro Ts!!

[Johnbass]

真的吗?
So easy to catch 偷吃?
Like some laojiao mentioned b4... Die die don't admit even if kena caught... Unless really catch during the act.
The more u think, the more you buey tahan

:cool:

[Megatronzombie]

真的吗?
So easy to catch 偷吃?
Like some laojiao mentioned b4... Die die don't admit even if kena caught... Unless really catch during the act.
The more u think, the more you buey tahan

:cool:

Everything is possible. I caught my gf in d act right smack in d guy's house. Now ThATs wat i call fate/destiny ;p

[Wisetiger]

Dear Artist,

What is the final outcome that you want or hope to achieve in view of the matter ?

(1) Do you love your wife ? ... Ppl do stray once a while, however it is important that you keep everything under control. As such do have an open talk with your wife early as soon as you are suspicious.

(2) You want to part way ? ... If you need to call it quit, why need to go thru all those trouble. You want to catch them red handed to justify your cause ? Divorce has it pros and cons

(3) You want to be happy ? ... Do whatever that u think will make you happy but take responsibility of your actions and face whatever consequences that may arise. Dont regret !

Time to put on your thinking hat and face the matter squarely between both of you. Ask your mind and search your heart and see whether they can be balance !

Good Luck

[TheArtist]

Oh jeez! The smilie is onmy post!! I must jave accidentally inserted it while typing. Typing that long essay using iphone s gruelling! Much apologies bro Ts!!

No worries, bro, appreciate you took the time and effort to give me advice. My head clearer now. Just hope to be able to get some evidence or photos tmr.

[MrPimp]

Ts,did u have sex with yr wife :D

This question is straight to the point. :D

[TheArtist]

This question is straight to the point. :D

I didn't answer this but YES.

[Megatronzombie]

I didn't answer this but YES.

Atually the way i see it that question is irrelevant here unless bro TS is asking how to improve his relationship with his wife. But what he is asking is whether he is being cuckolded. So bro TS do YOU want to ask that question here?

[Johnbass]

U sure u want to follow and take photos tomorrow?
Think u'll be caught before you get within 400m radius.
Then 打草惊蛇... And you know how the story continues...
:eek:

[Wipedout]

Hi bros, thanks again for the advice. I will follow her and let her have her dinner in peace. I will try to take pics but depending where they go may not be possible.

NO NO NO NO NO!

NO!

DO NOT GO YOURSELF! That is very bad advice! Get a professional!

Do not expect to be able to control yourself. Also, the PI will generally have a better idea of what to do.

[Megatronzombie]

NO NO NO NO NO!

NO!

DO NOT GO YOURSELF! That is very bad advice! Get a professional!

Do not expect to be able to control yourself. Also, the PI will generally have a better idea of what to do.

After much consideration this is the for the best i think ;p i retract my previous opinion that it is better to go yourself :o

[sadfa]

Hi bros, thanks again for the advice. I will follow her and let her have her dinner in peace. I will try to take pics but depending where they go may not be possible. Like if they go restaurant sit among others, no way I can take pic inside without getting noticed. Unless they sit near windows.



Take pic for what????
Even if it shows her laughing n touchin the guy, its 2 ppl having a great time at dinner.
Take pic liao, even if you show 2 the judge, she will say 'so whats your point?'
You confront her, she will blow up like volcano.

[acidicavex]

Ts ask yourself what u want?? As human as the person in the scene you will not be able to keep cool. Bestie get PI collect evidence than decide what to do. Unless you're looking to be turn on by the fact she is cuckolding u than nothing more. If not get a 3rd party do the job n you pretend n go about your business as usual. This will let her off guards and easier to collect the info u want.
Just my own POV.

[Taisho75]

TS, any updates on the dinner yesterday? If yes, please post. Hope is not as bad as u think.

[TheArtist]

TS, any updates on the dinner yesterday? If yes, please post. Hope is not as bad as u think.

I stalked my wife and the guy, took video of wife arriving on scene but the face of the guy is blur. At dinner I took some photos but cannot get clear shot with my phone. After dinner they went coffee and the guy drove her home. I took photo of car plate number too. I said I ot so went back later than her. She didn't mention a thing thereafter.

Any bros know what I can do with the car plate number?

[mcyeoh]

just go to the vehicle transportation association and trace the car-plate number

[USboy]

Bro, be a man.
Why are you snooping around ur wife's handphone?
You are in a marriage.
Out right tell her you feel something is off.
And that you don't have a connection anymore.
You should talk to face to face bro.
Don't kill yourself with paranoia.
Be a man and confront her.
Solve your shit.

[TheArtist]

Bro, be a man.
Why are you snooping around ur wife's handphone?
You are in a marriage.
Out right tell her you feel something is off.
And that you don't have a connection anymore.
You should talk to face to face bro.
Don't kill yourself with paranoia.
Be a man and confront her.
Solve your shit.

Bro, thanks for your advice, I know where you are coming from. However, the dates of her msgs range all the way back into august. Most msgs are deleted, those normal looking msgs are left but can tell msgs are deleted because the answers and replies don't tally. If she can hide something from me for so many months, if confront her most likely she will hide again. And from then on, it will be harder to get evidence.

[tallsynn]

Bro, be a man.
Why are you snooping around ur wife's handphone?
You are in a marriage.
Out right tell her you feel something is off.
And that you don't have a connection anymore.
You should talk to face to face bro.
Don't kill yourself with paranoia.
Be a man and confront her.
Solve your shit.

What bro, USboy saying is right. What u try to prove while doing tis?
She is ur wife, if there a problem, both of u had some responsibility.

The best way is to talk to her face to face, bro.
If u wanna find out what happen, find a PI la.. while ur waiting the result, act normal.

about the car's number plate, just pass it to the PI when u hire 1..

[Max77]

If alrdy lost her heart then no use liao. Divorce is a matter of time unless that guy dump her after finish playing with. When she lack of lan jiao, ur lan jiao will be better than no lan jiao to play with.

But seriously...u so gd boy didnt play outside urself meh?

If games are even then spare a thought for the innocent kid plse.

[Beasty]

Any idea on reallocating assets? I think under women charter, even if the wife cheats, the husband still have to pay her maintenance after divorce.

[MassageExpert]

I think my wife is cheating on me. A couple of months ago, I noticed a change in her behaviour. Normally a homely person, she suddenly start messaging pple on her hp. When I walk near, I can see that she quickly close the program.

Initially I did not suspect much, until one incident where I got off work and want to meet her. She says she was in bugis shopping, if want to meet can find her there. When I reach, she did not pick up my call any more. I bombed her hp and waited there for 1.5 hr. I fed up and went home. Then she msg me she went to her cousin place. Im like wtf?

I started to grow suspicious and checked her whatsapp online timings. But seem normal. Then suddenly I came across wechat, which doesnt have online times. At night, when all is asleep, I sneak beside her and took her hp to check. Sure enough, there is wechat but no msg inside. Got a couple of friends though, nothing more.

Then she went 3 days chalet with her 2 girl friends which I know too. Nothing suspicious.

These few weeks, there are msgs inside her wechat. It seems that at night before she sleeps, she will delete the msgs. Got a few nights never delete, and here are some msgs I saw. Summaries only.

Incident 1:
Guy 1: Sorry, my fengshui friend say I cannot have another woman in my life else I have trouble blah blah.

Wife: I trusted you, the disappointment is in the lost of trust. Blah blah.

Incident 2:
Wife: Angry with that pig today (me). Make me angry yadda yadda (I did not really make her angry, why call me pig?)

Guy 2: Wah you fierce leh, you know how to handle him. (Ya right)

Incident 3:
Guy 2: Free on 26?

Wife: 26 thur I work til 9pm so only after 9pm.

Guy 2: Oh ok I off on thur and fri. But night time I hard to come out.

Wife: Ok fri then.


Msg ends, no update since. The 26 is actually this thur, but since there is a meeting on this coming fri instead. Thur and fri I also off, if I tell my wife now, surely she will cancel the appointment and I will not find out anything.

I will check her hp again see if got msgs she forget to delete. Not sure if I am going to pretend going to work, then hide somewhere and stalk her when she leaves the house. Or what.

Is this consider cheating on me? And it seems like 2 guys somemore. Wtf. Am I being cuckolded? I always read stories about wives being a slut and it is so damn hot, but now like happening to me I so damn fucking angry. I did not tell anyone about this, not something nice to tell pple about. But I can really help with some advice man.

Is there anyway to capture her wechat msgs and send to my hp to read? I now only spy on her hp and took pictures of the msgs in my own hp. I also install a samsung account on her s4 to track her location, but when I track her hp will get a tracking msg so i used it sparingly.

What can I do? Any bros can advise? Totally no mood now, cannot concentrate at work too. fml.

First of all, you better think of what you intend to do if she is really cheating on you and had affairs outside. Think carefully.
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[jameschong1]

First of all, you better think of what you intend to do if she is really cheating on you and had affairs outside. Think carefully.
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maybe u cannot sextisfy yr wife that she must get other man to f k her?
stop blaming her

[arsenic401]

Any idea on reallocating assets? I think under women charter, even if the wife cheats, the husband still have to pay her maintenance after divorce.

nope not really... can be mitigated by the lawyer

[bonbong88]

I guess the moment your wife cheats on you, the relationship has ended.

[SillyTubbie]

I guess the moment your wife cheats on you, the relationship has ended.

I think even if relationship is there, the trust is also gone. Even if you stay together, you will always be wary what she is up to and capable of...

[jj583]

Before u do anything, pls spare a though for ur kid ...
What will happened to ur child?
I know it maybe unfair on ur part but it will have a very big impact on ur little 1.

Think carefully before u act ....

[oliesao]

If you have concerns about this, maybe you can use the monitor app like KidsGuard to find out the specific situation.

[Gyozai]

If you have concerns about this, maybe you can use the monitor app like KidsGuard to find out the specific situation.

Why r u replying to a 2013 post man...

[sexcision]

Why r u replying to a 2013 post man...

At least we know he is new and not a clone. :)

[thomastanzh]

Why r u replying to a 2013 post man...

School holidays and HBL.

[energy_boi]

so what happen in e end