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W1ck3dSecret
25-12-2013, 05:13 PM
............ Is the day of sharing and giving.

Just returned back.

Honestly, I can't feel joy or sense happiness this season.
Parting scene is unbearable for me.
What I just witnessed is someone important, precious and dear to me will be taken from me. It hurts to see my beloved in pain and discomfort.

Perhaps this will no longer be the time of the year which I most yearned for anymore.

.................................Love Is Always In The Heart...................................
PikachuDoraemon
25-12-2013, 05:26 PM
dont think too much
Babyrexx
26-12-2013, 10:41 PM
We are all jus passerby on this planet. Eventually, we will go through the same path of departing from here. So, jus Live everyday to the fullest. Cos whether We like it or not. Life goes On. So why not enjoy it while We stil can? ;)
stillgottheblue
27-12-2013, 07:32 AM
At least you are still going strong and healthy. Most importantly, you can still find love and duck like no tomorrow.
W1ck3dSecret
28-12-2013, 02:30 AM
It saddened me and those who loved you dearly when you exhausted your last breath.
But then we are proud of you for being so courageous to fight this tough battle.
Sadness aside, we will be strong and keep on loving you, keeping you in our mind always.
cmelater
28-12-2013, 08:17 PM
Disappointments and sadness are sometimes reminders to us that there are memories worth keeping and remembering.

Even when we lose the people we care for, we just have to be stronger and not let down those who care for us.
LosTotally
29-12-2013, 04:27 PM
i can feel you because i have almost the same feeling as you.
My love one is in prison during this festive season and i have no mood in other things as well.
W1ck3dSecret
02-01-2014, 09:12 AM
You are right, cmelater.

Let us try to divert our attention to other things, LosTotally. We will definitely survive through this difficult period.
Ken79
02-01-2014, 10:20 PM
TS bro, there is only 1 thing u can do now.

Be strong and don't have any intentions that she would return or try to make her return, a betrayal is a betrayal - no need to harbor any hope that she will return or think she can be forgiven as long as she returns and you might be able to forget anything ever happened (at least that's how i see betrayal, maybe u are more forgiving).

What u should do now is look forward and concentrate on yourself, life n career wise... just do the best that you could for yourself and by doing that and becoming a better person she would come to realize she ever left u.
But u might also meet someone better than her.
All u need to do is bring yourself up another few levels than her and your old self, to the extent that she is not worthy of u anymore.

Hope u get yourself together soon, take care.
viviankoh
02-01-2014, 10:44 PM
This is intresting. I had the most miserable christmas too. Falling in love with a guy I least expected.

Sometimes I wonder why... cant seem to stop thinking about him



Sigh. Happy new year to all !
W1ck3dSecret
03-01-2014, 11:44 AM
Ken79 ..... ...... I supposed you missed my earlier post. Your advice seemed inappropriate. FYI, I am a sister.

Viviankoh ...... ...... ...... That is life ...... ....... So unpredictable....... ....... full of surprises!
viviankoh
03-01-2014, 12:25 PM
Ken79 ..... ...... I supposed you missed my earlier post. Your advice seemed inappropriate. FYI, I am a sister.

Viviankoh ...... ...... ...... That is life ...... ....... So unpredictable....... ....... full of surprises!

Hi,
Nice to know u r a lady. Very pleased.

But this guy is not someone I can be commited to. Thats the torturing part my dear..
viviankoh
03-01-2014, 12:49 PM
Sorry. Cant commit
W1ck3dSecret
08-01-2014, 11:05 AM
Hi,
Nice to know u r a lady. Very pleased.

But this guy is not someone I can be commited to. Thats the torturing part my dear..

The decision is in your hand how the way you want your life to go on.
nuclearkid
09-01-2014, 08:17 AM
The pain is the greatest at the beginning. Time will soothe your heartaches...
W1ck3dSecret
09-01-2014, 08:36 AM
The pain is the greatest at the beginning. Time will soothe your heartaches...

Very true.
queeniegal
11-01-2014, 02:02 AM
Ts I feel you few years back I lost someone during Xmas and 1st Jan on the very same year. After so many years I Nv look forward toward Xmas n new year. Cause the memories will always flow in.
sam30sg
13-01-2014, 03:48 AM
sorry to know about the passing of your love one. It is always not easy let go but her passing is actually better off for her as she had been suffering. She is gone and I believe she qant everyone she love to live good so don't disappoint her, stay strong and live well.
W1ck3dSecret
13-01-2014, 10:21 AM
Ts I feel you few years back I lost someone during Xmas and 1st Jan on the very same year. After so many years I Nv look forward toward Xmas n new year. Cause the memories will always flow in.

Will feel so like u as well whenever X'mas and ny fall :(
Probably others would not detect our hurt underneath as they only see our forged joy and happiness during these festive holidays.
W1ck3dSecret
13-01-2014, 10:23 AM
sorry to know about the passing of your love one. It is always not easy let go but her passing is actually better off for her as she had been suffering. She is gone and I believe she qant everyone she love to live good so don't disappoint her, stay strong and live well.

Yes Sam ..... We gave her our words to be strong and live well. And we will try our utmost best to do so.