i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf

[kas00]

i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf(normal looking la but she sincere). my gf is thinking of leaving me until i couldn't satisified her.. she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ... my friend recommend me to go geylang to get training from professionall....so that my performance will surprise my gf....

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

[kas00]

i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf(normal looking la but she sincere). my gf is thinking of leaving me until i couldn't satisified her.. she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ... my friend recommend me to go geylang to get training from professionall....so that my performance will surprise my gf....

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

[Rof|maoxz]

i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf(normal looking la but she sincere). my gf is thinking of leaving me until i couldn't satisified her.. she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ... my friend recommend me to go geylang to get training from professionall....so that my performance will surprise my gf....

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

Dun be imprudent will you. And a very stupid idea from your so called friend. :rolleyes: Thai WLs from legal hses can make you cum within minutes. China WLs can annoy you by time-wasting tactics and indifferent services. Indo/Viet WLs although very wild in bed, newbies like you can contain them? So what can you really learn from them after wasting so much $$? I rather you communicate more with your ger sexually and emotionally. :)

[Ethanas]

I do believe that what you need is not skill but communication. You mentioned that she complained that you are busy and don't spend enough time with her. This is perhaps the place where you should worked on. Set aside some time to spend with her.

she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ...

Oh and try to see her more than twice a month geezz. I see my wife everyday she also complain I don't spend enough time with her, you spend like what twice a month? This is not about satisfying her this about not spending enought time with her.

Trying to go GL on the pretense of brushing up your bed skill is really silly I reckon. Absolutely no WL or FL is going to be frank or truthful to you regarding your skills, they will just say that you are good and how wet you make them blah blah blah.



Nip the problem at its bud.

-Ethanas.

[Happosai]

Dude, it has nothing to do with learning how to sextisfy your gf by learning from the pros. As you have mentioned, you're simply not spending enuff time with her. Pros cant teach you how to manage your time so that you can spend time with her!?!?!?! This one only you can help yourselve, and the solution is easy, by hook or by crook, squeeze out some quality time to spend with her.

[HuiGe3387]

Watch porn movies together. Ask her how she like being touched and serviced. Pick up the techniques that best suits your situation.

[shadowlunar04]

If she say you're not spending enough time with her. Try to adjust your schedule a bit to accomodate her. Women need more tender care when they are your girlfriends. Seeing her twice a month is bit too little to my opinion.

If she wants to ditch you because you can't perform in bed. Trust me, ditch her first. You wouldn't want to be a cuckold after marriage. If she is sincere in the relationship, talk to her. Find a proper solution with her.

Pardon me for my french but I think your friend is a dick. Do you think GL is a sex institution? It's a whore house for goodness sake. They are just out to make some fast bucks. When the time's up, the gal say bye bye to you and you say bye bye to your $$$. Simple as that.

Lastly, if you think the problem lies in you. Seek proper help. Go to a doctor for some professional ADVICE.

[Batman Begins]

need 2 know .... not satisfied in the relationship or in bed ??????
for me if she is not satisfied, find out y n is there any thing to improve it ....
but if my ger focus more in bed then in relationship then i dun think i wanna carry on with her ......

relationship is the basic for all .... if foundation is strong n deep .... things sure can work it out ..... this is what i strongly believe .... even in bed ... sure can have ways for both parites to be happy ......

Its impt for u 2 know what u really wan ..... think abt it :rolleyes:

Just my 2 cents of views......

[laodi123456789]

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

See her MORE than 2 times a WEEK or let her try another guy. Why make her miserable u selfish asshole.

[sgiceboy]

If she say you're not spending enough time with her. Try to adjust your schedule a bit to accomodate her. Women need more tender care when they are your girlfriends. Seeing her twice a month is bit too little to my opinion.

If she wants to ditch you because you can't perform in bed. Trust me, ditch her first. You wouldn't want to be a cuckold after marriage. If she is sincere in the relationship, talk to her. Find a proper solution with her.

Pardon me for my french but I think your friend is a dick. Do you think GL is a sex institution? It's a whore house for goodness sake. They are just out to make some fast bucks. When the time's up, the gal say bye bye to you and you say bye bye to your $$$. Simple as that.

Lastly, if you think the problem lies in you. Seek proper help. Go to a doctor for some professional ADVICE.

good advice....... could say it better

[nakamara]

Yeah...seeing her twice a month is way too little...the very minimum is at least once a week...this is not a long distance relationship mind u...if you're working and staying in malaysia or something that's different...but then i'll advise u to find one in malaysia instead of singapore...the foundation of this relationship haven't even been built, how u expect to substain it by meeting twice a month? :confused:

[sammyboyfor]

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

I don't think she'll leave you because you can't satisfy her. It's a lot more likely she'll leave you because you're a moron.

[Rof|maoxz]

I don't think she'll leave you because you can't satisfy her. It's a lot more likely she'll leave you because you're a moron.

Of all the "morons" you had used before, this time I fully support the usage of "moron" in here. :D

[nexo]

Yo bro .. you know wat .. your problem is that you dun spend enough time with your gf .. you dun understand her and her needs .. you both must soend more time together and communicate more ..talk t each other during sex .. and ask her where is her erotic points .. and ask her to guide you to the points if you cant get it right .. see wat more her tick .. in one word communication is very important bet couples .. so spend more time with her and you will see the difference

[nexo]

I forget to add .. your fren is really a F***ker to ask you go geylang learn skills .. think you will learn more by going to times bookshop and get a book on how to improve sexual relationship .. it makes a better investment.. save geylang for another day..

[sadfa]

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

stay tune for many people here volunteering 2 spend more time with n sextifying her 4 u.

[jur9]

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..
Dude,
The girls in GL behave in a different manner than your gf, they know how to arouse you and make you cum. Unless your gf behaves in the same manner, how are you then be able to appply what you learn?

But since you want to try, start with $40 fish tank girls and progress on to the $150 whom might give you better sexducation...

[so_good]

Bro kas00,

When u post your queries here, I am wondering is your gf not satisfied your your sexual performance or the fact that u only see her 2 time in a mth!! Perhaps u may wanna try spending more time with her and let the sex part come in naturally. Just my humble opinion, pls dun flame me if we dun see eye 2 eye!!

[asdfghjkl]

bro.. twice a month is really too little imho..

[naemlo]

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..


If she wants to leave because of sex then u might as well forget abt her. Love involves more than sex. Imagine u 2 marry. If u still can't sexified her, she looks for another guy?? She taking u as a sex toy??? :confused:

[walkingdick]

Er... got this kind of girl meh? leave you bcoz you not bonking her enough? You need time management man!

[Khoratian]

Yeah i think Bro so_good makes a point..is she not happy with your love making or the fact you're seeing her twice a month?

If it's the skills, it can be improved through more prositution, but i'll not recommend the CAT40 ones.. take those CAT 80 or 150 ones..but seriously... if you have time and energy to go prositution to learn, but you can't spend that amount of time with her? Watching more porn is one way too to get tricks... but if it's some 'tian sheng' stuff like early cum, too short and stuff like that, it might be very hard then.

If you ask me , if she's a sincere and nice girl, she'll not stick to you just because you can make great love, the fact of you not able to spend more time with her will still be there and she'll leave you someday if you dun try something.

If she's a sex demanding type and a partial reason she's leaving you, then worse... with the amount of time you're with her..er..it's even more dangerious she'll have a flirt here and there.

[agent010]

I don't think she'll leave you because you can't satisfy her. It's a lot more likely she'll leave you because you're a moron.

I fully agree. Even the Boss cannot tahan and have to say this to you.

U need to face the four walls man. Dun be so selfish to ur girl emotionally and psychologically. 2 times a month? I wld at least see my gal (if any) 3 times a week! :mad:

[sibeyjio]

See her MORE than 2 times a WEEK or let her try another guy. Why make her miserable u selfish asshole.

Wah.. so strong worded... but i tink so too... u seem to treasure her a lot and if dats the case... sacrifice more time for her... ;)

just my two ringgits worth...

[GuyNeedOfSex]

Meet ur gf oni twice a month?
Too little liao lah.
At least once a week ma.
Ur gf feels lonely when u not with her when she needs u by her side.
Try to make urself more time to company her.

[siamcutey]

Actually we are all men lah. What threadstarter thinking we don't know meh?

Satisfy gf is not top priority. Satisfy ownself during the process is utmost priority. :D

hahaha
SC

[SEX 3]

all the above they say dont help.my advice is u do not have enough foreplay with ur girl

[naemlo]

Actually we are all men lah. What threadstarter thinking we don't know meh?

Satisfy gf is not top priority. Satisfy ownself during the process is utmost priority. :D

hahaha
SC


U r wrong leh Mr SC, some men r there to sexifiy women.... :rolleyes:

[siamcutey]

U r wrong leh Mr SC, some men r there to sexifiy women.... :rolleyes:

yeah, you are correct. But must remember collect money or else lugi. :D

hahaha
SC

[zunbo]

Frankly Speaking, What Do u actually want from this relationship? On this hand, You are seeing yr Gf TWICE per mth.... and what do U expect her to react? Love U more and Hugs U likw crazy whe she finally sees u? Wake Up laR...

i BELIEVE Spending more time with her GF will reap more then u going to Gl to gain experience..

[sattva]

Satisfy yourself first before you can satisfy others. Go read books something like " improve love life". What important is the communication between you and your gf. Did your gf ever mentioned that you cannot satisfied her? NO! So dont think too much.

[sexxxx]

Bro kas00, your girlfriend say she want to dump you and try out other man, just because you can't satisfied her sexual needs??? In my own opinion, that a very lame excuse.

l feel that you should take S$150 to Geylang, ask a OKT to introduce you a good and solid CAT150, and you will be sexually satisfied. After that I bet that you will straight away dump you girlfriend, because you then realise that she is the one that can't sexually satisfy you.

Above is just my humble opinion, don't take it too seriously.

[Dj^^]

spend more time with her.

[blur girl]

What is essential is the amount of quality time spent together.
Not how many positions you can achieve in bed with her.
It's probably more of the attention that she craves, not the sex. >.<

[Lonev]

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??


you know, once upon a time, my dad told me... son, you gotta appreciate a lady with these:
1. gift: bought her some good, cute stuff, not necessarily expensive, but things she needs... well, it's very hard to tell needs and wants of a lady... diamond rings, nice watches, perfect earrings...
2. attention: when she goes "a chew..." you bring her tissue... when she dyed her hair you say lovely color, when she did manicure you said your finger nails so cuteee... EVERY LITTLE things!
3. time: when she goes "hix.." you say "what happen dear? tell me, i am listening" or bring her to watch nice clear nite sky with falling stars... too bad in SIN it's hard to watch falling stars... but give you a hint: 27 Aug, it's a good time to watch MARS, as it's on the closest distance to Earth... wish no haze from neighbour country to cover it... lemme predict moving shaking cars on Mt Faber...
4. appreciation: saying, Dear you look so fantastic today... should we go watch Fantastic Four? or Dear, your look turns me on... i mean, just appreciate whatever she does for you... or even for other guys... WORDS are ladies' best friends... their ears are so tuned to it... be TRUTHFUL tho'...
5. touch: touch her!!! wherever... hold hands, kiss her, hands on shoulder, massage her, finger her... *ooppps... no, my dad didnt teach me that!*

now, reflection: what have you done? what you havent do?

if you find it hard to accomplish, beat me! half my lifetime, trying all these things... you cant really satisfy a lady... but do your best and pray hard that one FINE day they gonna appreciate that!

or follow my lifestyle... geylang, FL, Devil Bar, and overseas gals... they are all waiting for you... if you'd ask, all married guys will say, stay single is the best... well maybe 90% would say that... the rest just havent find the joy of life... hahaha... *peace man!*

life is too precious...
find a lady to spend the rest of your life with...
or find ladies to spend all your seeds with...

*love maketh the world goes round... or should i say sex? hmm...*
*this is a different time of the world we're living*

[Lonev]

too bad in SIN it's hard to watch falling stars... but give you a hint: 27 Aug, it's a good time to watch MARS, as it's on the closest distance to Earth...

my bad, should have been in November...

[Ethanas]

Bro Lonev,

Your suggestion like that will make him more like a slave than a bf. You do not have to be like that lah. Spending time and be sensitive but not too sensitive.

Too much will makes her feels stifled, and backfire on you. Heh... most girls wants a guy who they can depend on, a rock who they can lean on not a slave to beckon and call all the time.

Give her attention but not so much that they feel you are spineless slave serving them.

[darkice]

i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf(normal looking la but she sincere). my gf is thinking of leaving me until i couldn't satisified her.. she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ... my friend recommend me to go geylang to get training from professionall....so that my performance will surprise my gf....

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..


The most important statement here is 'See her twice a month'

Obviously you are seeing her too little. I will say you shuld spend at least once a week.

The reason why she is saying that that perhasp she could be already seeing another guy or intending to. Or maybe it's something mild like her friend mentionng about how good her friend's bf is to her. Woman are always bitches when they try to compare. It could also be that she is insercure. I assume that you should know better as she is your gf. If you don't know what she is thinking, ask her. Have a good talk with her. Tell her how much you meant to her and try to work things out.

In the Sex issues, For woman, the act of sex process is much more than guys. Mainly guys after they cum, they usually will be happy. Have you forgot to mention sweet words to your gf? When was the last time you bought something or roses for gf. Or prehasp give her a hug or something?

Most of us tends to neglect our relationship when the honeymoon period is over. We tend to get into a routine and often couples tend to drift apart. Sex may be important in a relationship but it is not everything in a relationship. Be more sweet to your gf, give her a kiss, a hug, or bring her to some place for dinner. Talk to her make her understand that your work is busy.

The bottom line is how important she meants to you. Most of us will not realise the fact till we have lost something. Give me a PM if you need advise anytime dude!

[lesnar]

i'm 28 but still unable to satisfied my gf(normal looking la but she sincere). my gf is thinking of leaving me until i couldn't satisified her.. she complain i everyday work never spend enough time with her... see her twice a month ... my friend recommend me to go geylang to get training from professionall....so that my performance will surprise my gf....

but the question is do the gal in geylang teach you how to satisfiied gal?? any recommendation?? how much?? what the procedure???anyone??

this is emergency here.. she will leave me...and try another guy.. ii don;'t want this to happen..

If she already have the idea of trying out other guys because you cannot satisfy her, she may had already tried out other guys.....

Just my thought.... :confused:

[Toyota Honda]

Well.. Let me see, everyone feels the problem is that you only see her twice a mth.. I have something to add.. you see her twice a mth and end up on the bed whenever you see her?? Its just as good as visiting Pros man..

I tell you.. the best way for you is.. see her more often, doesn't mean you have to have sex everytime u see her.. if you drive, you can always meet her for supper.. She will tend to have more feelings knowing you want to meet her and would then grow that 'love' for you even more and things will just go on getting better and better..

I used to be busy like you.. But I make it a point to meet her for supper then sayang (kiss her, play with her hair and say how much I miss her etc) her before sending her home w/o sex or any of such activiities.. She realised she loves me more and more and gets wilder on the bed the next few times I meet her..

Please... Let her go if you cannot.. Get your colleague as ur gf better...

[flowerpot]

haha.

twicw a month..

dude.. im seeing my gf 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year.....

u can do better.... come on..

[sing1nitestand]

First of all, you need to make sure what kind of satisfaction.

If it is physically issue, then it is true you need to polish up your on-bed skill. Try to get some AV to watch (choose the right type). When intimate with her, do more foreplay, communicate with her. Making love is not only put in your birdbird and move in and out. (Who knows SM maybe needed to satisfy her?)

If it is mentally satisfaction problem, then I must tell you, no body can really help besides keep telling you spend more time with her. Try to understand her more. Every gal has different requirements. Not too sure what’s yours.

Anyway, if the gal already planned to leave you, that’s just her excuse. If not, then this gal is trying her best to communicate with you, to close the gap between 2 of you. That’s a good thing at least. Hope my words do help. Good luck.

[singexpat]

Wats urs is urs, wats not cannot be forced...

if u hav tried ur best, then u hav not let anyone down..

Dun change, despise urself cos of comments from others cos u can never please everyone..

Straighten up, look sharp n u will realise there are plenty of opportunities out there... :D

[laodi123456789]

I don't think she'll leave you because you can't satisfy her. It's a lot more likely she'll leave you because you're a moron.

A Classic. This one goes into my quote book alongside the one about the peanuts!

[ricardo]

bros, think threadstarter heed all the advices here and go see gf more often liao. he no more coming back in this forum liao. either that or he had found a "for moron only" forum to ask more questions. :)

[sammyboyfor]

bros, think threadstarter heed all the advices here

Should be "ADVICE" not "advices"

"Advice" is a non countable noun.

[ricardo]

wow kena correct england by boss siah i so proud. ok will take note of your cannot count advice.