When man fail to get sex/girl(s)

[Lucifersangel]

So what do all sis and Bros here feel about man who fail? I am sure almost all of us have failed a couple of time when hitting on sis or Bros here on sbf.

I have been hit on and most Bros are very cool about it. Like 99% of Bros here are really nice. But there is always that 1% that ruin the whole market. They will send message like try want to be "just friend" or "just want to meet and drink coffee" but insist on your number. Then when you burst their lies about simply wanting coffee/friends the flip out and scold you like no tomorrow and call u ugly and say you have attitude problem then they go through your posting and point out your flaws.

I find that, that is just creepy. Why can Bros just be could about it? Most are alright with just regular chat but these 1% have to destroy the whole market.

So what do Bros/sis(s) here think about such people? Will you be like them? Do you agree with them?

I think they need to grow their dicks out and build some ego-.- scolding the people who reject you ain't gonna boost your ego in anyway. And I want to add, if you are not cool about rejection, don't hit on anyone here because most people are really nice about it.

[nextview]

So what do all sis and Bros here feel about man who fail? I am sure almost all of us have failed a couple of time when hitting on sis or Bros here on sbf.

I have been hit on and most Bros are very cool about it. Like 99% of Bros here are really nice. But there is always that 1% that ruin the whole market. They will send message like try want to be "just friend" or "just want to meet and drink coffee" but insist on your number. Then when you burst their lies about simply wanting coffee/friends the flip out and scold you like no tomorrow and call u ugly and say you have attitude problem then they go through your posting and point out your flaws.

I find that, that is just creepy. Why can Bros just be could about it? Most are alright with just regular chat but these 1% have to destroy the whole market.

So what do Bros/sis(s) here think about such people? Will you be like them? Do you agree with them?

I think they need to grow their dicks out and build some ego-.- scolding the people who reject you ain't gonna boost your ego in anyway. And I want to add, if you are not cool about rejection, don't hit on anyone here because most people are really nice about it.

Slowly find I bet there is someone you will find it over here. There are still good man over here :D

[Lucifersangel]

Slowly find I bet there is someone you will find it over here. There are still good man over here :D

You hinting about yourself:D? Haha. I know I said 99% is good. But 1% always spoil the market and make girls want to shut all man on sbf off.

[nextview]

You hinting about yourself:D? Haha. I know I said 99% is good. But 1% always spoil the market and make girls want to shut all man on sbf off.

I'm good but I'm not available anymore, I found somebody to spent my life with :D

I don't 99% is good man over here buy there are still minority good man to be found.

Slowly find your gem over here. It worth your time if you found the right person.

[justica]

well as wat the 2 bros commented i believe tat there are good guys here in SB. well TS take ur time to find and u will uncover someone here and of there always black sheeps around on wat u posted on ur thread.kind of sad to know tat there are guys like tat

[kryptonite123]

Call me cynical but as far as this forum goes, I believe no guys are just looking for a “regular” chat with you. Many are willing to play the waiting game and are good at it, but some can’t wait and thus flip out when they can’t get what they want immediately. For such guys, you don’t have to bother about them, let alone create a new thread just for them.

Regarding failure, it’s normal to fail; who doesn't? Accept it graciously and move on. Gracious in defeat and humble in victory – Sis, I see you are “victorious” having rejected somebody else. I don’t know how nasty they were to you but no need to further rub salt into their wounds by creating this new thread to get other people to bash them. If so, aren't you no different from them?

Just my two cents’ worth. :)

[mcyeoh]

You hinting about yourself:D? Haha. I know I said 99% is good. But 1% always spoil the market and make girls want to shut all man on sbf off.
let me sum it up, new generation sg guys and girls are dumb, slutty, gigolish and fucked up due to their rational ability to think about each other....funny new generation singaporean....easy to manipulate and easy to control......maybe your genepool is used to this for all??

hee hee

[HappyOwl]

So what do Bros/sis(s) here think about such people? Will you be like them? Do you agree with them?



So what do Bros/sis(s) here think about such people?

I don't even want to spend time thinking about anyone who doesn't makes me feels good or respect me as a human being. :)

Will you be like them?

Try me! Try me! I will be particularly excited if you like to shop for branded goods. Shop only ah, not buy. But if you are rich to buy, go ahead. Tag me along to shop. No sex so be it. I won't ask you for that. :)

Do you agree with them?

No comment.

[Lucifersangel]

Call me cynical but as far as this forum goes, I believe no guys are just looking for a “regular” chat with you. Many are willing to play the waiting game and are good at it, but some can’t wait and thus flip out when they can’t get what they want immediately. For such guys, you don’t have to bother about them, let alone create a new thread just for them.

Regarding failure, it’s normal to fail; who doesn't? Accept it graciously and move on. Gracious in defeat and humble in victory – Sis, I see you are “victorious” having rejected somebody else. I don’t know how nasty they were to you but no need to further rub salt into their wounds by creating this new thread to get other people to bash them. If so, aren't you no different from them?

Just my two cents’ worth. :)

Well call karma a BITCH. But I have NEVER once stated their name or ask anyone to bash them. I am just asking people for opinion and how they feel if they were in such situation and or how they'll deal with these people. However, if you feel like this is bashing I think you shouldn't be here. I have no intention of hurting anyone.

One more thing. I use to think this forum do not have anyone that just want to be friends. But some really nice people change my mind. I think you honestly should open up your tiny little enclosed heart more and accept and believe people. You need to stop being a little cynical bitch.

Just my two cents worth too. have a nice day. :)

[NastyNate]

Frankly you really should be glad only 1% of men you've encountered are nasty. Why are you bearing grudge over such a minority?

[justwanadoit]

u look at profile of men involved in underage hooker case, principal, teacher, rich man son ... Wat it tells is good men need sex too.

so there are many gd men here

[kryptonite123]

Well call karma a BITCH. But I have NEVER once stated their name or ask anyone to bash them. I am just asking people for opinion and how they feel if they were in such situation and or how they'll deal with these people. However, if you feel like this is bashing I think you shouldn't be here. I have no intention of hurting anyone.

That was not what you asked. Look at your initial post. Instead, this was what you asked: So what do Bros/sis(s) here think about such people? Will you be like them? Do you agree with them? While “bashing” is not the appropriate word to use and I apologise for that, going by your story and the questions you asked initially, you were obviously going to get answers that are favoured towards you—which to me smacks of ego trippin’.

One more thing. I use to think this forum do not have anyone that just want to be friends. But some really nice people change my mind. I think you honestly should open up your tiny little enclosed heart more and accept and believe people. You need to stop being a little cynical bitch.

My statement by no means was an absolute one; there are exception(s) to every general rule. Great for you if you (think you) found those exceptions.

Just my two cents worth too. have a nice day. :)

A nice day to you too. :)

[SammyNewbie]

I am not so calm to answer a troll thread like you guys are while remaining civil. Fortunately, my original reply is not here. Time to head back to the other forums.

Honestly guys, I find it amusing that this is the sort of talk a gal would say to her friends mostly privately or in gossipy chats, but someone can come onto a sex forum and say this stuff. Think about it.

[valkyrierune]

I feel that no matter how good a person is, there is still someone out there who don't see eye to eye :)

Just don't put it to heart ba. We cant satisfy the whole world of population :)

[Wintermelontea]

Like 99% of Bros here are really nice. But there is always that 1% that ruin the whole market.



Why ruin the entire forest for just a cock? (Do not apply to all things though :D)


I only lash out when I see it's a one-sided affair.

[justwanadoit]

Manu guys will siao chiong nao.....

[hunted]

Maybe they are just frustrated? bait many but none hook! Men are very simple creatures. Enough blood for 1 head. I am very sure not all men are like that! The smaller population killed the bigger population.

[fudgeholic]

Some people are jerks, most people are horny, and some people just want to have the company of another person.

Heck, I remember somebody did mention getting their couple from this forum, so who knows what you will get, right? :)

[adoe1]

Sis, sorry that you have to see the ugly side of some guys..

I suspect that these guys whom msg u for coffee & scold u when u refuse your number will have no guts to deal with rejection in real life. It could be that they have no guts to ask approach a girl in fear of getting rejected. We r all faceless online, so it's easy to msg & scold someone without much consequence.

Even with these rude guys, I hope you can find it in your heart to give the genuinely shy guys a chance at a conversation with you. If he is not your type, let him down gently by replying later & later.. I'm busy etc.

For the rude bros, I would think that these guys are still learning.. everyone is a learner in some aspect of his/her life.. you are better & more civil than them.

[Lucifersangel]

Sis, sorry that you have to see the ugly side of some guys..

I suspect that these guys whom msg u for coffee & scold u when u refuse your number will have no guts to deal with rejection in real life. It could be that they have no guts to ask approach a girl in fear of getting rejected. We r all faceless online, so it's easy to msg & scold someone without much consequence.

Even with these rude guys, I hope you can find it in your heart to give the genuinely shy guys a chance at a conversation with you. If he is not your type, let him down gently by replying later & later.. I'm busy etc.

For the rude bros, I would think that these guys are still learning.. everyone is a learner in some aspect of his/her life.. you are better & more civil than them.


Wow. You reply is really the best. Although I usually let them down directly and nice. Like "I am really sorry but I am not keen. No offence really:)"

[makka111]

One type of rice feeds hundred types of people. That is life.

[Gothers]

Sis, sorry that you have to see the ugly side of some guys..

I suspect that these guys whom msg u for coffee & scold u when u refuse your number will have no guts to deal with rejection in real life. It could be that they have no guts to ask approach a girl in fear of getting rejected. We r all faceless online, so it's easy to msg & scold someone without much consequence.

Even with these rude guys, I hope you can find it in your heart to give the genuinely shy guys a chance at a conversation with you. If he is not your type, let him down gently by replying later & later.. I'm busy etc.

For the rude bros, I would think that these guys are still learning.. everyone is a learner in some aspect of his/her life.. you are better & more civil than them.

I agree with what you posted. Except the last point. Never stop learning. ^^
Good night everyone.

[jazp]

you can't choose your relatives and spouse but you can choose your friends.

choose the ones who make you happy. let go of the ones who don't. :)

[acidicavex]

1) Rude tell them go stick themselves to the wall.
2) Shy n not your type ask them go socialise more.
3) Not really into them just say sorry we don't click don't want to waste each other time.
4) ok over chat meet liao cmi. Just tell them busy when they jio again.
5) chat liao ok meet liao ok but can do with or without. This type hmm just say see how.
6) chat liao sibey song meet liao lagi song than no need to talk so much just JUMP ON HIM!!!

:D:p
GOOD luck in your search aunty

[Lucifersangel]

1) Rude tell them go stick themselves to the wall.
2) Shy n not your type ask them go socialise more.
3) Not really into them just say sorry we don't click don't want to waste each other time.
4) ok over chat meet liao cmi. Just tell them busy when they jio again.
5) chat liao ok meet liao ok but can do with or without. This type hmm just say see how.
6) chat liao sibey song meet liao lagi song than no need to talk so much just JUMP ON HIM!!!

:D:p
GOOD luck in your search aunty

Agree TO THE MAX! HAHA. Thank you xdd ^.~

[Johnbass]

Agree TO THE MAX! HAHA. Thank you xdd ^.~

Acid is xdd?
I thought u are xmm
:D

[acidicavex]

Acid is xdd?
I thought u are xmm
:D

Wah here also u explore???:eek:

[geckoSG]

Chill sis. There are a number of losers out there like that... Just ignore them

[jur9]

It is interesting sometimes when the girls post the conversation or rather the messages of these guys.

I find it rather amusing too. haha... reading them is like reading the laughter section on the papers. Damn bloody brings a smile to my face.

It is funny how they can start abusing someone when they fail to solicit an outing or response, especially for sex.

Anyway, let these screen warriors rest in peace la. They can all fall of the face of earth and no one will miss them a bit....

Have a great day.... Chill!

[bigbrudder]

Wow. You reply is really the best. Although I usually let them down directly and nice. Like "I am really sorry but I am not keen. No offence really:)"

To be fair to the 1%, how was your tone like when you reject? Not trying to speak up for our fellow bros, just trying to be objective.:)