loss interest

[sungsung]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

[Calebchua]

Well..I'm a 25 year old male and I don't like to go for paid sex or FL..Reason being for me its not so much about the act itself but doing with someone I like or am comfortable with..Not that I have regular sex..

I know plenty of bros here have different preferences..thus I think it would not be fair to say all men like to go for paid sex..You probably haven't met men who don't do it.

Hope it helps!

[makkau]

super honestly.. i had 2 ex gf and my current gf is coming to 10yrs together.

the only sex we had were oral sex. never really had the balls to go all the way as
1) she wanna remain virgin till marriage , which means, not even fingering. my 2 previous ex let me.

nowadays dont really do anything cause she's kinda religious and feels guilty. what to do must DIY. no balls to try paid sex.. cause never know what that person has or the person who visited her had.. i still believe in the "stick to one, be safe than sorry" rule..

unless you telling me a girl who is willing to be my fb and sticks to me and not other guys .. than maybe can consider..

wanna find FB also not that good looking nor am i a good talker. suck it up liao..

[Latte]

Hmm... Not true. I m also in my early 30s. Wife no longer keen. I also don't go for paid sex as i find it dirty too. So i always fish from the decent source (non clubbing, non nightclub ktv places).

Guess there are also lots of men out there who r looking for long term decent fb with less risk.

[makkau]

Hmm... Not true. I m also in my early 30s. Wife no longer keen. I also don't go for paid sex as i find it dirty too. So i always fish from the decent source (non clubbing, non nightclub ktv places).

Guess there are also lots of men out there who r looking for long term decent fb with less risk.

i think ultimately, we want someone whom we can feel comfortable with, who are looking for the same thing.

sex deprived guy looking for sex deprived girl purely for sex and sticks to that partner.

to me, whats stopping me is i that i want someone who is interested in sex and is also not looking around for someone else, we meet up just for it and part and get on with our lives. no feelings or attachments. hard? yes. but possible

[Innocentkia]

im 21 and doesn't believe in paid sex..

[Tai_zi21]

Wat is wrong with paid sex i wonder?

Do u wan ur future husband to go for paid sex or u perfer them to cheat gals feelings and of cos get to fuck them for free with feelings involved?

But since there a few post here saying thinking paid sex is dirty

Well to each on his own i guess

[mcyeoh]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?
same here....i m a guy, i would rather fail of courting a women properly then going for paid sex...it not about unhygienic but to me, pleasing a women is a skill rather than a release which most new generation sg guys here have...

funny sg guys...so perverted and mind-sicko.......
good that you think this way..

[mcyeoh]

Wat is wrong with paid sex i wonder?

Do u wan ur future husband to go for paid sex or u perfer them to cheat gals feelings and of cos get to fuck them for free with feelings involved?

But since there a few post here saying thinking paid sex is dirty

Well to each on his own i guess
it people like you that are emotionally and mentally weak which you cant control it...hence less superior abilities of perceive what can be separately easily...funny sg guys. nowadays...it is people like you dont have loyalty.....pathetic....nowadays most new generation people dont have loyalty...funny new generation sg people

[Lucifersangel]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

I agree it is super gross and unhygienic. But I bet they feel the same way about woman who have too many raw sex too.

I am fine with it if they done it occasionally in the past with protection. Otherwise.. I would be totally grossed out. God know what illness they have. Plus most STD don't show sign till its too late.

So best thing to do is date nerdy, shy, sociable guys that is less likely to fool around and bang them enough that they are too "drained" to go get FL :D

[Tai_zi21]

it people like you that are emotionally and mentally weak which you cant control it...hence less superior abilities of perceive what can be separately easily...funny sg guys. nowadays...it is people like you dont have loyalty.....pathetic....nowadays most new generation people dont have loyalty...funny new generation sg people

Keep it up on ur insults! What you say dun bother me anyway

[Get1Cow]

If free sex or fb can easily find, who would want to go for paid sex ..

Unless you are a Casanova, the chance and time spent to find one is slim and long.

Beside pcc, paid sex is the fastest route to cool down men sexual desires :D

[sungsung]

Very happy to know a few nice guys

[wildromper]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

some men pay to get new experiences like bdsm, anal sex, group sex, mfff (id like to try that), porno-type of services that partners arent willing.

[Wintermelontea]

sis,

you do know we can't influence your views about men as much as you want to.

for all you know, you are already disguised with men on their hygiene and not necessary with them going for FL/WL. That's just sex.

so, how do you want the bros and sis here to change your views with them airing theirs...will that really help you? i hope so...

have a nice day.

[wolflust]

Sexual intimacy is a basic human need, of course there are those who can curb or totally forgo it. However for those who can't find a willing partner be it, ONS, FB, gf or wife, there is only 2 options left which is DIY or commercial sex.

With regards to hygiene, even if your bf or husband is only faithful to you and sticks to you, you may have no knowledge of his past or his past partners' history. Much less can be said for FBs and ONSs because if they are willing to do it you, what stops them from doing it with others?

Having commercial sex brings about higher risk because on the average, they definitely have had more partners than people who are FBs or have ONSs. However, majority do take precaution and also those who frequent their services should too. Everything comes with a risk, the bare minimum risk would come from one which both are first to each other and remain faithful throughout.

If TS is so concerned, perhaps she should only find pure virgin men and also examine her own past. Whether her past partners had partners before her?

[bigbrudder]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

TS, why come here to ask such a question. It is like asking people in food forum and say 'I dun like you cos you eat too much'. :confused:

There are so many vices around ... is binge drinking, chain smoking, drugs, gambling any better?

[acidicavex]

Question so is it alright for a woman to engage in paid Sex to toyboy and gigolo?? God know how many women they serve? Some might even serve guys.

I don't go for paid sex nor wish to con my way for free sex. I have my palm Yes I agree pathetic But that my own way to solve my urge. It doesn't hurt anyone or betray anyone.

However I believe always always do it save don't want because of the moment of pleasure or shiokness u need you kill a life or got something or much worse get emotional. Like alot of season players raw is war Yes there are still risk taker. But to deem it as dirty just cause he engage in paid service than I think is very very unjustifiable. Is like many guys dream marrying a virgin how many nowadays are?? Look at the posts over at the other session u will know.

If that is your believe than good luck in your search for the prefect guy could be a rarest one left on the shelf if u find one, than u must be damn lucky. But might not be the right one u have in mind.

[Cintacy]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

Men and women will always have this bits of difference - drive differences
If u are a man, u probably may have paid for sex then comes a woman telling u u make her gross and loss interest...what can u do to make her think otherwise? Probably look for someone who can take u as u and accept u as u. So for now,, I guess look up those old sayings and see if u can find any to make u feel better.

[Ryoshohei]

Close to 30 this year, never had nor entertained the thought of paid sex. Just against my principles I guess. Of course, I do have sex with my exes when we were dating. I guess men's need for sexual release is higher than women's in general.

[Sirrus]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

who cares? ur entitle to your view and nobody give a damn

[bochapsing]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?


women loss interest with men becos men go find paid sex...
men go find paid sex becos women loss interest in men...

then how???? :confused::confused::confused:

[pyrokinets]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

Totally get you. Question of hygiene aside, I tend to lose interest in a girl when I know that more than 2 guys has been in and out between her legs before me, so prostitutes literally make me cringe. But thats just me.

But when it comes to the question of payment, seriously, it costs more to chase and woo a girl into bed than just throwing a couple of hundred down for a single fuck. You know what I'm talking about. You girls don't exactly have cheap tastes. I don't mean you're all gold-diggers though. I've met a fair share of independent women who takes pride of being able to earn their own living, and they were scrumptious.

Men are logical creatures. And since we pay for sex either way, paying less for a guaranteed fuck is most certainly a more rational choice than paying more and investing time for sex which is by no means a sure thing in the end. Since i walk this path, I can tell you that it is infuriating when it happens.

I happen to find pleasure in having sex with women I know deeply, which is another reason I find the prospect of fucking prostitutes unappealing. And finding out that the woman I took the time to know deeply just doesn't want to take the next step, well, that's a huge waste of my time and money right there.

You get the idea. In other words, for most people the alternative to paying for sex implies taking a risk. And to them, it's just not worth it.

"Aha!" You say. "It's your own fault. You shouldn't have pursued a woman just for sex!"

My dear, if a guy ever tells you that he is into you but not for sex, he is either lying or telling the truth. If he is lying, he's a scoundrel. If he's telling the truth, he's either gay and ashamed about it, or he has an inferiority complex which you can be sure will pop up and haunt you further down the relationship, or he's a religious nut.

Mark my words, be very, very, very cautious about the nuts. I've found that religious girls are really sweet, but for the guys, the more religious they are, the more insecure and bigoted they tend to be. There are of course exceptions.

Eh, before anyone zaps me, I probably should say that I am of course not talking about your religion. Unless, you're a christian. Then yeah, i'm totally talking about you. Zap away... If you do though, you should know that your girls are real screamers in bed.

Oh, and TS, in conclusion, if a guy tells you he's into you and not interested in sex, hold on to your panties and run the other direction screaming. You'll thank me in the future. And I don't know why you're worried about hygiene. I thought hookers in Singapore have mandatory health checks and all that. You should see the ones in malaysia. Nasty.

[TheHornyDevilz]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

If got chance for free steady fb, who wants to pay?

[NRider]

[QUOTE=bochapsing;10743903][FONT="Comic Sans MS"]women loss interest with men becos men go find paid sex...
men go find paid sex becos women loss interest in men...


Case of LPPL ? Lol I couldn't agree more !! Well written Bro:D

[nextview]

seem like we got more and more angel over here :rolleyes:

[bakaas]

Im female in my early 30s. Totally loss interest with men. Mostly because they like to go for pay sex. I find them very unhygienic. Pardon me for saying that all men.

Any men here don't like to go pay sex that can chg my view to men?

Any ladies have the same thinking as mine?

I've been reading this forum silently for sometime now and I finally chanced upon this interesting topic!

Ok, this is my humble point of view. All bros do not have to agree with me because at the end of the day, it's all about preferences.

I do not believe in paying for sex, I had a few ex girlfriends and some doesn't involve in sexual relationship. I know I'll have urge like any other men out there but unlike most of them, I do not think with my lower head; plus paying for sex is just so wrong. To me i find paying for sex utterly disgusting because I know for a fact that there will be many dicks going into her vagina for god knows how many times in a day.

The idea of you putting your dick into a vagina that have been "patronized" by many other dicks before you just turn me off completely. It's like having sex on a high flow day with your girlfriend. Therefore I control my urge with other things other than looking for a FL.

I enjoy the love, companionship and time given by my partner anytime of the day more than just sex; Moreover it's pretty unfaithful for you to look for a FL even though u have a girlfriend or worst married. I won't say that I'm not horny or I do not have a least bit of lust on other girls but I have that little bit of mind over body thing called faithfulness.

I'm in no position to condemn any bros out there that pays for sex be it while attached or married because at the end of the day it's up to that individual what he wants to do in his life.

That is just my penny's worth. :)

[sungsung]

Nextview, just point of view. No angel!