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washere
29-04-2014, 10:42 PM
Anyone into BDSM? Share your experience! Those who are curious or interest, do join in too.

D-joker
30-04-2014, 09:30 AM
Y dont u share ur experience first??

HornyKingKong
30-04-2014, 12:57 PM
I prefer Bounded Gangbang.
Avail in Czech.
Banged there.

LoveBoobies
30-04-2014, 03:09 PM
Yes, I am interested to smack yr ass.

greatdane88
30-04-2014, 03:25 PM
Anyone into BDSM? Share your experience! Those who are curious or interest, do join in too.

I have a gay friend who love to be financially dominated.

I used to do that on him. LOL

Oh yeah, he pays me to punch him too.
Yes PUNCH him, he wants to feel weak in front of straight guys.

lostbird
30-04-2014, 04:08 PM
I have a gay friend who love to be financially dominated.

I used to do that on him. LOL

Oh yeah, he pays me to punch him too.
Yes PUNCH him, he wants to feel weak in front of straight guys.

:eek::eek::eek:

Will he report police after the ordeal.....

greatdane88
30-04-2014, 05:29 PM
:eek::eek::eek:

Will he report police after the ordeal.....

Nope he is quite sadistic, he likes to beg me, pay me.

Financial domination works for him, we only punch his body.

He is an ang moh. He pays to be treated badly.

Dont ask me why but yes i am doing it for the money only.

He was the one who suggested to me. I mean i am surprised because he is an owner of a very successful business.

D-joker
30-04-2014, 08:31 PM
Nope he is quite sadistic, he likes to beg me, pay me.

Financial domination works for him, we only punch his body.

He is an ang moh. He pays to be treated badly.

Dont ask me why but yes i am doing it for the money only.

He was the one who suggested to me. I mean i am surprised because he is an owner of a very successful business.

Bro, gt lobang bo. I dont mind joining in as well. Recently I need to destress. Lol...

washere
30-04-2014, 08:38 PM
Nope he is quite sadistic, he likes to beg me, pay me.

Financial domination works for him, we only punch his body.

He is an ang moh. He pays to be treated badly.

Dont ask me why but yes i am doing it for the money only.

He was the one who suggested to me. I mean i am surprised because he is an owner of a very successful business.

Wow, nice one. Humiliation play.. So now you're not doing it anymore?

greatdane88
30-04-2014, 08:43 PM
Wow, nice one. Humiliation play.. So now you're not doing it anymore?

Verbal abuse via skype and if we meet up once in like afew months. I punch him in his hotel wahha.

Easy job easy money. It is good.

Form of destress.

He is coming to singapore soon. Gonna bring him to male host bar.

washere
30-04-2014, 09:04 PM
Haha, u need a helping hand? Or helping punch rather?

washere
30-04-2014, 09:22 PM
Anybody into receiving pain? Slaps? Or whipped?

greatdane88
30-04-2014, 09:27 PM
nah, love to earn the money by myself.

Normally he has a budget no matter if i am alone or with afew others.

So why not earn it myself...

washere
01-05-2014, 09:58 PM
Wa, okay, nice one..

O well, let me share one experience...

Sometime ago, I went to a pub with an acquaintance that I met online. I knew her as we have the same interest, bdsm. And I was still a novice then. She introduced me to the pub and i mingled with the people there. The people were into bdsm and then I noticed this lady...

She walked into the pub with 2 other guys walking behind her. First thing that came to my mind was, " she must be a domme". And sure enough, at the table, her mannerisms and friends all made her seemed like a domme. I was turned on by her mannerisms but I was a little too shy to approach her. Then 15 minutes before the pub was about to close, the crowd subsided and there was an empty seat beside her, and I decided to sit beside her and chat.

I introduced myself to her and her 2 guys. Realised that one of the guy is her childhood friend and the other guy is a sub to another domme. And that was also her first time there and she was also interested in bdsm.

"awesome!" I thought. I might have a chance to explore bdsm with her. We left when the pub finally closed. And we decides to share cab. The 2 guys lived in the west while me and her lived in the east. So lucky! And so, we decided to share a cab home... Throughout the cab ride, I didn't express my interest to her.. then she asked me if I wanna continue drinking at her place...

greatdane88
02-05-2014, 01:45 PM
Wa, okay, nice one..

O well, let me share one experience...

Sometime ago, I went to a pub with an acquaintance that I met online. I knew her as we have the same interest, bdsm. And I was still a novice then. She introduced me to the pub and i mingled with the people there. The people were into bdsm and then I noticed this lady...

She walked into the pub with 2 other guys walking behind her. First thing that came to my mind was, " she must be a domme". And sure enough, at the table, her mannerisms and friends all made her seemed like a domme. I was turned on by her mannerisms but I was a little too shy to approach her. Then 15 minutes before the pub was about to close, the crowd subsided and there was an empty seat beside her, and I decided to sit beside her and chat.

I introduced myself to her and her 2 guys. Realised that one of the guy is her childhood friend and the other guy is a sub to another domme. And that was also her first time there and she was also interested in bdsm.

"awesome!" I thought. I might have a chance to explore bdsm with her. We left when the pub finally closed. And we decides to share cab. The 2 guys lived in the west while me and her lived in the east. So lucky! And so, we decided to share a cab home... Throughout the cab ride, I didn't express my interest to her.. then she asked me if I wanna continue drinking at her place...

so what is your role?

You are a sub but you wanted to be a dom on the friend of mine.

If you are a sub, you can never be a dom unless you are neither of them.

For me, i am a dom and i can never be a sub on my friend.

It is the character that makes one a certain role.

Confused :confused:

Gustav Gestapo
03-05-2014, 11:14 AM
Visit site's like Fetlife or Collarme to cind out more.
Interesting stuff out there.

GG

derrick07
03-05-2014, 12:48 PM
I'm into bondage sex and love gags and blindfolds.
Haven't tried been dominated by a female yet but that thought of that always runs in my mind. Just mild bondage and love watching bondage videos esp japs.

washere
05-05-2014, 07:03 PM
I alighted the cab with her and the moment we entered the lift, we were kissing like no tomorrow. I know that night will be a very special night. I enter the room and we quickly stripped naked and proceeded to her bed. It was her first time into domme sub play. And both of us were determined to play it out that night.

She was a natural. She verbally abused me and called me her slave. She demanded me to please her pussy and I was to ask for permission for my every action. Any mistakes from my part, and she will not hesitate to slap me. And I wasn't a very obedient slave that night. It was my first time playing a slave and the feeling was just, fresh and interesting.

Most of the time, my mouth was on her pussy. "Make me cum" she demanded. And I was given an ambiguous timeframe to make her cum or else I will receive another round of slapping. Fortunately or unfortunately for me, I worked hard on my tongue action and managed to make her cum many times that night. But I still received enough slaps to feel warm on my cheeks. By the end of the session, my jaw and tongue were dead tired from blowing her pussy. It was enjoyable even though I didn't have sex with her. Well, this was only the first night.

The next night, she mentioned she will be clubbing and I am not invited. I was to standby by my phone the whole night and wait for her call if she ever needed me for my service again.

And so obediently, I waited by my phone the following night....

washere
05-05-2014, 08:19 PM
so what is your role?

You are a sub but you wanted to be a dom on the friend of mine.

If you are a sub, you can never be a dom unless you are neither of them.

For me, i am a dom and i can never be a sub on my friend.

It is the character that makes one a certain role.

Confused :confused:


Yes, there are doms that can never thought of being a sub and subs that can dream of being a dom. However, there''re also a group of in betweens. Let's just say I'm a switch. And I'm sure there 're many switches around too. Check out fetlife.

happigirl
05-05-2014, 09:14 PM
Hello all :) Sis here...

Interesting to read about BDSM. Previously, I was only into the usual sexual stimulation but I felt very aroused when my partner dominated me gently. I feel very horny in the arms of a man who can dictate and make me want him more.

Then there was a friend who enjoys being a slave...maybe I looked like a dominatrix when I look serious...so he asked me to make him do things for me. So I understand what you guys mean by switching.

I kind of like the idea of taking turns to dominate...but if my partner only prefers one role, it's ok by me also...I am seeking ONE regular partner now. If you like costumes, I'm most happy to wear them :)

Bros who are interested can PM me. Thank You. happigirl <3

Klafterdark
06-05-2014, 12:00 AM
welldone Ts, nice topic. I'm definitely into mild bdsm and definitely prefer the dom role.

I do indulge in some private roleplays with my gf where I become her Master and she my sexslave.

It can only work if your partner can accept their role be it dom/sub. I use punishments such as light whipping, spanking, bondage as disciplinary methods when my "slave" fails to obey my instructions.

I find it arousing because this feeds my dark desire to see a girl dominated and subjected to my whims and fancies.

If Ts and others dont mind, I would like to share some of my "punishment" pics I did as a "Master" ;)

Klafterdark
06-05-2014, 01:14 AM
http://img5.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/19377/1937740500e88b4fdf2109da575d6e3470a1e026.jpg

One of my favorite punishment method: nipple clamps. Make your sub/slave wears it for certain period of time as punishment. The bigger the mistake, the longer your sub has to wear the nipple jewelry. :cool:

Klafterdark
06-05-2014, 01:22 AM
http://img8.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/19377/19377418b9b43715205adb84c5f1e3181084d4be.jpg

My dear...you've been a notty pet. Do you want to be whipped or wear your favorite nipple clamps?

I'd say both. No? Too bad.... :cool:

washere
06-05-2014, 05:51 AM
Hello all :) Sis here...

Interesting to read about BDSM. Previously, I was only into the usual sexual stimulation but I felt very aroused when my partner dominated me gently. I feel very horny in the arms of a man who can dictate and make me want him more.

Then there was a friend who enjoys being a slave...maybe I looked like a dominatrix when I look serious...so he asked me to make him do things for me. So I understand what you guys mean by switching.

I kind of like the idea of taking turns to dominate...but if my partner only prefers one role, it's ok by me also...I am seeking ONE regular partner now. If you like costumes, I'm most happy to wear them :)

Bros who are interested can PM me. Thank You. happigirl <3



Glad to hear from you.. A switch is like having the best of both world. Haha, you like costumes? This most probably lead to role play and I love role playing :)

washere
06-05-2014, 08:21 AM
http://img8.uploadhouse.com/fileuploads/19377/19377418b9b43715205adb84c5f1e3181084d4be.jpg

My dear...you've been a notty pet. Do you want to be whipped or wear your favorite nipple clamps?

I'd say both. No? Too bad.... :cool:

Nice share:)

Awesome !

happigirl
06-05-2014, 10:29 AM
Glad to hear from you.. A switch is like having the best of both world. Haha, you like costumes? This most probably lead to role play and I love role playing :)


Yes I like role playing too :) We PM.

Have a lovely week to all here!

washere
06-05-2014, 12:56 PM
Yes I like role playing too :) We PM.

Have a lovely week to all here!

;) have a lovely Tuesday.

acidicavex
06-05-2014, 01:05 PM
;) have a lovely Tuesday.

Pls give a FR later in stories form :p

ralliart
06-05-2014, 01:26 PM
Pls give a FR later in stories form :p
wah got FR... must stay tuned liao...

acidicavex
06-05-2014, 01:42 PM
wah got FR... must stay tuned liao...

Is TS and happigal ever make it happen lol:D

ah rat
06-05-2014, 01:45 PM
Is TS and happigal ever make it happen lol:D

Some more with pixs :p

acidicavex
06-05-2014, 01:49 PM
Some more with pixs :p

Bro ah rat ya if have pixs lagi best...:p

washere
06-05-2014, 05:20 PM
Pls give a FR later in stories form :p

Hahaha, I'm not done writing my past experience. Only 1/3 through. stay tune..

acidicavex
06-05-2014, 06:18 PM
Hahaha, I'm not done writing my past experience. Only 1/3 through. stay tune..



I will mean while I also looking forward u start another one :D

washere
06-05-2014, 06:23 PM
I will mean while I also looking forward u start another one :D

Haha, thanks for your support!!

graheg
09-11-2014, 10:19 PM
yes! i spent most of my childhood right into mid 30's now being in love with bondage. not into the whole whips, and being dominated, spat on, shat on etc (but i understand it's appeal.) i'm more of a straight up, wanna tie and gag a girl kinda guy. Started with those tv bondage scenes, then when the internet came, boom! hahah

illusions
30-12-2014, 12:43 AM
Anyone into BDSM? Share your experience! Those who are curious or interest, do join in too.

yes! i spent most of my childhood right into mid 30's now being in love with bondage. not into the whole whips, and being dominated, spat on, shat on etc (but i understand it's appeal.) i'm more of a straight up, wanna tie and gag a girl kinda guy. Started with those tv bondage scenes, then when the internet came, boom! hahah

Hey, was searching for SM or BDSM stuff on sammyboy. Wonder if this is still active.

Over the years, the girls I met up (mostly through this forum, also mirc), I did have some experience with some girls of SM role play.

There was once where the TS basically advertised that the girl was available for SM.

Then there was once when I chatted with a girl on mirc and we met up for a chat then SM. but we were too shy and nervous and we went home after meeting up for coffee. but we eventually did another time.

then there was this independant FL i met whom we chatting during the session and realised she was open for SM. and we met a few more times.

there were a few other girls who weren't really into sm, but were very willing to serve and was willing to do some things there borders on sm. one of them, we ended meeting up for many many times and she gradually learnt to me more and more obedient and willing to please me.

the things i've tried range from mild to quite depraved, in terms of obedience, humiliation, endurance. i've never really tried much bondage, partly for practical reasons, partly cos I actually enjoy obedience, having her at my beck and call, and i enjoy watching her strain to hold on to vulnerable postures.


i dunnoe when it started, but somewhere along the way i started desiring to experience it from the slave's perspective. i started making myself do things that i made my them do, initially on my own. at first, it was very very intolerable, partly cos i'm not accustomed to the pain and strain, partly cos some of the things i made them do were really quite depraved.

i chatted with ppl, guys, usually "bi" on mirc with similar fantasies and met up with them to help the fulfil them, esp if their fantasies are very similar to my fantasies for my slaves. somehow, being in the same position i put my slaves under was very different from how i imagined. one difference is that as a master during the session, i'm continually keeping myself aroused, either through self or using my slave, usually her mouth, and the sense of arousal inhibites the sense of revulsion or depraveness when doing these things to the slave.

but the ppl i met up with were quite nice in general. but on two occasions, i met masters that were quite depraved. one made me serve him in an almost similar way i like to be served, and it was quite extended and humiliating, yet the thought that i have been doing that casually to a girl i met up with regularly made me appreciate her, and ironically, enjoy her more. the other taught me, though doing it on me, a way to really test a slave's obedience that i've never seen before in any bdsm video.


it's been quite a while since i've done any of these... i may still be open for those who want to experience the feeling of being a dom with a guy. i wrote a story once on sbf ("please... it's really painful"), to capture some of the emotions i've experienced. although the story is fiction but it's based on real experience and real emotions. although i barely done bondage, the idea of verbal bondage, where she has to hold on, like in a bondage, to a precise posture, including where her hands have to stay, even if it is strenous, tiring, painful, humiliating... this arouses me a lot and the story captures one such experience.

Johnston
30-12-2014, 04:28 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IsvfofcIE1Q

theredbaron69
20-01-2015, 03:26 PM
I wasn't really into bdsm at the start. Heard about it, but never tried it. Till I met this girl, a long while back.
We became close friends and we were having a staycation at a particular hotel. The conversation sort of strayed into sex and it's where I learnt about bdsm from her. She wasn't into the hardcore, butt plugs and aggressive rope bondage stuff. She was more into breathplay. She mentioned that if she was horny and alone at home, she masturbate and play with herself and at the same time, she would use something soft, like a towel or scarf, wrap it around her neck, and twist it tightly.
As she was about to cum, the towel strangling her neck would make her light headed and she would cum strongly as she released the grip on the towel.

As the conversation went on, I noticed she became figity and started to rub her groin. She told me that the topic turned her on and asked if I would help her out. I was a little apprehensive at first but she assured me by guiding me.

She took a towel from the bathroom, wrapped it around her neck from the front, crossing the ends at the back. She then told me to slowly tighten the wrap by pulling on the ends of the towel. She was rubbing away on her wet, plump pussy while she instructed me on how to strangle her. By then, I was having a full erection and she noticed it. She coaxed me to pull my boxers down and gently pumped away on my shaft.

I noticed she was climaxing fast and instructed me to pull the towel a little harder. Very gently, I pulled the towel just a a little tighter. She stuck out her tongue slightly to simulate being strangled and came almost immediately after. I released the towel and we hugged as she relaxed.
She told me to try it. She made me sit on a swivel chair.
She then tried something different on me. She took a long silk scarf she had worn earlier and tied it around the base of my penis below the balls, knotted it and tied the remaining ends around my shaft. She said it would make me last longer. She kept playing with my already hard cock, instructing me not to move. I was within seconds of blasting out cum. She then pulled on the scarf around my shaft, making the wrap tighter and told me not to cum yet.

She took the same bath towel she was strangled with previously, wrapped it around my neck once, and twisted the ends together tightly at the side of my neck, till the wrap became tight. As it was my first time being strangled, I choked a little and she giggled. While she held on to the twisted towel end with one hand, she resumed masturbating me with the other hand.
With a strangled voice, I told her I couldn't hold it any longer.

Without releasing her grip on the towel around my neck, she skillfully released the silk scarf that was wrapped around my bulging cock. Once free, she twisted the towel even harder and wanked me more aggressively. I could still breathe a little but I was beginning to feel light headed. She commanded me to cum, and threatened to strangle me completely if I didn't. I came so hard, and she let the cum gush onto her naked body. That was the most intense sexual experience I ever had. I've become fond of breathplay since then.

We had several breathplay occasions after that, using different things to strangle with, mostly soft materials that wouldn't leave any marks. But we always make sure to do it safely and to keep one another comfortable. Sadly, she then migrated off to another country and our relationship became distant.

An actual, true account. And I wonder if anyone else shares this interest in bdsm.

subway73
20-01-2015, 11:22 PM
Yup same fetish, I had plenty of it with girls I knew too. Guess we are not alone in this pervert world

theredbaron69
21-01-2015, 06:46 AM
Nice, how did you come across these women?

AmeShin
26-01-2015, 12:13 AM
extremely rare to find gals into bdsm
recently went to bkk and just so lucky happen to visit a bar that allow u to sm the gal or be sm by the gals there lol

BabyEito
26-01-2015, 10:09 AM
Wow so

Informative

That's BDSM


I didnt knew


So Now I did