How do one have an affair?

[D-joker]

Ok. I m damb curious here. How do one have an affair?
The time mgmt and sg is so small. No scared ur wife fren or relative see meh? And isnt it double the pleasure, double e pain? And ur gal who u have an affair with. Wouldnt they feel lonely when u go home to ur wife? What other sort of things will u take note if u have an affair. Especially those who r nt driving.
Anyone can advise here???

[D-joker]

Wow. 300+ views n no reply. Seriously no one can advise on this??

[sadsky18]

when the time come , you will find the space and time yourself .

nothing to share de ..

[MasterJerker]

Bro, you don't plan. It just happens.

[xiaosiami]

Affair this type of game is not for everyone.

The odds are very high and the consequences is usually very bad.

I say think twice before getting into one or better still don't even think of it.

Edit:

I think i may know who you are as i have a friend who uses a similar nickname in other forums. But that's not important.

Family disputes are common in families. Family members don't see eye to eye is common. This doesn't constitute a reason to have an affair.

Wife don't give you sex is also not a reason to have an affair. Wife focus more on kids than you also doesn't constitute a reason to have an affair.

Having an affair is more than just free sex and companionship.

That affair must just turn messy and turn your life upside down.

If you just need sex, go grab a whore. Fuck and forget. No strings attached.

If you want companionship, go get a new hobby or studies. That will burn up your time and keep you busy and away from loneliness.

[copper]

Affairs and marriages are apples and oranges. You don’t know what it is like to be married to someone until you are married to them.Anyway, when a man has an affair with a new woman, he may not start out thinking of making it a permanent relationship, but sometimes, if the relationship persists, that question pops up...

[xiaosiami]

Affairs and marriages are apples and oranges. You don’t know what it is like to be married to someone until you are married to them.Anyway, when a man has an affair with a new woman, he may not start out thinking of making it a permanent relationship, but sometimes, if the relationship persists, that question pops up...

The worst is both did not started out to be serious but later the lady got serious.

That's when the shit hits the fan.

[copper]

Holding on to regrets is like bringing a jar full of bees into your house. There’s no need for them and they will only end up stinging you when you’re trying to watch TV. The decsion still lay on you!

[twin99]

Your wife is your 80%. The new woman offers the missing 20%.
It starts to get complicated when your wife gives you less and
the new woman gives you more.

[BMW69]

One has an affair by simply having an affair. If you're worried about getting caught, don't have an affair.

[14animal]

And don't always think that guys are having affairs outside. Nowadays girls are more happening than the guys here.

[feral888]

20 years back, I would have asked the same question.

Today, I'm more keen in knowing how not to have an affair. :eek:

[bigbrudder]

All your very tokong leg, I never got half a chance to have an affair. :(

[4getful]

don‘t get married, there will be no affair, no cheating, no betrayal.

[bankrobber]

got to know a girl recently on wechat. speaks well. seems sweet. and shy .. at first.

we got along really well. too well maybe. by the second night of chatting, after all the teasing, started sexting and she was sending me sexy photos of her. first with clothes. eventually nude.

and then .. she revealed she's married :eek: she's still calling me baby and all. so tempting ]= but i don't think i got the heart to mess with someone else wife. and like TS said .. risky!

[baddboy]

DON'T DO IT. IN THE HISTORY OF HUMAN HISTORY, NO AFFAIRS EVER END WELL. YES IT HAS TO END. As the old auntie said to neo "everything that has beginning has an end"

[aegis]

Yes. It will ruin your life. Need sex, just go find fl. Rest of yr emotional needs shud be provided by yr partner.

[whizzard]

An affair usually isn't planned. It develops when you make that first horny and conscious decision to get it up her skirt. It feels good whilst it lasts ..... it's like falling in love all over again, with that little spring on your footsteps and things to look forward to, especially for the married ones whose life has settled into a mundane.

My first was with this Korean single girl who is new in Singapore. It lasted about a year. Took me more than a year to get over her. From lust and companionship, feelings developed along the way after the initial lust is fully explored. Eventually, after the initial euphoria, THE QUESTION started popping out. Where is this relationship heading? Usually, that spells the end for most affairs. How many girls can share her guy with another woman, keep the relationship very low key and without any status?

My second affair wasn't started by me as I was still reeling over the first. She was an acquaintance and I happened to be there when she needed someone to lean on. She got into this because she discovered her husband is in an affair and when confronted didn't want to end the affair. In addition, she isn't prepared to divorce him and would like to find a way to somehow salvage the marriage in the future. In the meantime, she is being tormented mentally on a daily basis each time she sees her husband returning home late, wondering where has he gone and what has he done with the bitch. She succumbed and had to find solace and companionship from someone else before she grew crazy.

Affairs always start out with a desire to satisfy lust and companionship. It then develops like a fertilised embryo ..... slowly creeping up on you before you have no choice but to confront the relationship. It's been two years for us now, keeping up with the pretense and semblance of normality our family life. We have developed many mutual friends along the way but try not to get too close to them in order not to let the cat out of the bag.

Don't start if you are not ready for it. Even if it ends without the family ever knowing, you can't avoid the pain.

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE=D-joker;11135068]Ok. I m damb curious here. How do one have an affair?
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as a successful property top-gun, I get plenty of invites from female agents & woman buyers.
but I stay out of it - with $$$, u are king in ktv & god in china, thailand, indonesia,

[AgentSmith]

Ok. I m damb curious here. How do one have an affair?
The time mgmt and sg is so small. No scared ur wife fren or relative see meh? And isnt it double the pleasure, double e pain? And ur gal who u have an affair with. Wouldnt they feel lonely when u go home to ur wife? What other sort of things will u take note if u have an affair. Especially those who r nt driving.
Anyone can advise here???

Affair is Private aka Private Affair.
Ssshhh ... Don't think too much.

[Gustav Gestapo]

Ideally you have flexible Iffice hours and can sneak out over Lunch or in the afternoon for action.
If hou are late in the evening returning home the Wife will question this and that..
Cheers

GG

[God_9]

Ok. I m damb curious here. How do one have an affair?
The time mgmt and sg is so small. No scared ur wife fren or relative see meh? And isnt it double the pleasure, double e pain? And ur gal who u have an affair with. Wouldnt they feel lonely when u go home to ur wife? What other sort of things will u take note if u have an affair. Especially those who r nt driving.
Anyone can advise here???

that really depends on the girl you're seeing.. if she's simply looking for some companionship, u have less to worry about. but just like bro XiaoSiaMi said, if any of u starts developing serious feelings.. then the situation WILL go bad.

as to HOW to get into an affair, it can be like wooing a girl. i'm very sure you know how to cuz.. i know who you are irl :D

[D-joker]

Lol. Now then I realise alot of pple knw who I am but I dont knw u guys are.
Nvrm. Shall be careful of what I post now...