Samtress to share advice!

[spiderlily]

I'm new here and it's overwhelming. Any samtress can share their experience on orgasms? I only get orgasms from vaginal penetration and never from the clit. In fact, sometimes I find the feeling i get from fingering the clit quite a turnoff.

[watssupp]

Hi sis,mayb u can try to ask yr guy to finger at yr Gspot...most gals will encounter intense orgasms or multi orgasms while playing with the Gspot..correct me if I'm wrong..cheers :D

[MattJB]

should use right amount of pressure on clit.
too much would cause a pain.
try ask him to suck & lick your clit.

[ladylove]

interesting! im the opposite of you, clit stimulation works amazing for me. but feels different from g spot stimulation, the feeling from g spot lasts longer and much more intense.

sometimes directly applying pressure on to the clit can be very uncomfy and painful, maybe thats why you're not enjoying it?

[acidicavex]

Wah suddenly so many female around.......hmmmm:p

[yandaodr]

You may not be relaxed mentally and the pressure needs to be light.

Follow the below steps for clitoral orgasm

1. Bathe, clean yourself thoroughly, use fragrance.

2. Dim the lights, turn on sexy music.

3. Start making out with your man, make sure he kisses you slowly and gently and sensually, using a mix of tongue and kissing from the neck, down to the chest, tummy, legs, up the inner thighs and then to the vaginal area. You should be quite turned on by all these.

3. Get your man to use the tip of his tongue to moisten your clit and to put light pressure only on your clitoris. Spell the alphabet out with the tip of his tongue. Alternate this with long vertical licks of the labia, occasionally sticking the whole tongue into the vagina. The main thing is still the clitoral stimulation at this step.

4. After finishing spelling first round of the alphabet, you can ask him to spell a second round, or you could ask him to finger you while still licking your clitoris. The fingering must be slow and strong strokes, using one finger first, and then two. Also slowly increase the pace of the fingering and the licking when he sees that you are moaning louder and faster.

5. The fingering gets faster as he realizes your pussy gets wetter. Be sure to stop the fingering occasionally to touch your cervix and the G spot.

6. After spelling at least 2 rounds of the alphabet, start doing random licks of the clitoris. Also, another trick is to engulf the whole clitoris between the guy's lips, and then the tongue stimulates the clit when it's inside his mouth. This is ultimate pleasure for u.

7. Intensify the fingering and licking and before long, you should be shivering in orgasm down your spine .

Feel free to pm me for any questions. :)

[sweetnothing]

First time I've seen so much advice from a doctor!

[yandaodr]

It's always better to check with your doctor for professional advice on health issues lol

[Johnbass]

Wah suddenly so many female around.......hmmmm:p

Mai Tu Liao...
Remember to SIC good lobangs hor...
:D

[real_king]

Amazing advice from the Doc.

Any video or powerpoint to go along?

*my angmo not powder enough. :D

[BiRd13]

Yes. There are some females who felt clits orgasm is quite a turn off...

My ex gf doesn't like/allow me to rub her clits, or lick her... As she don't really felt comfortable with it...

And she usually get orgasm or even squirt via penetration....

If you want orgasm via clits, maybe can try penetration in doggy, while rubbing own clits.... Or woman sitting position (facing front), and get your guy to rub your clits at the same time...

2nd is more recommended, as you can control the speed of the rides, and can adjust accordingly...and to achieve orgasm via clits and penetration at the same time :D

[yandaodr]

All women love clit orgasms, it's just that some of them are not relaxed enough. Have u heard of a man who doesn't like a good blowjob?

[loveless1]

I will penetrate and finger her clit while having a slow and consistent bonking. Watching her reactions is a sure way to tell me whether I am doing it correctly or otherwise.

[Turtle]

Have u heard of a man who doesn't like a good blowjob?

Yes.... there are. Some of my friends are not interested at all. But if you blow for me using a condom, I will fuck you upside down. I prefer without it. Keke

[KingOfChangPing]

I finger so many clits, is one of the most fragile thing. Please handle with care

[spiderlily]

Thank you for all the advices! From ladies' pov, I guess it's really too sensitive that there's a fine line between pleasurable and pain.

Tried doc's advice, doesn't really work for me. I can have multiple intensive orgasms via penetration but never from the clit. Just wondering how it would feel. Although when grinding in close body contact and the clit is being squeezed, it does gives me more intense feel.

[Greendevil]

Spidelily, maybe the finger pressure to just to strong and you not hitting the right spot. Probably a good wriggling wet tongue will do the job.

[otacon]

I thought orgasm by penetration is much more difficult? I never made anyone orgasm via penetration

[pleasurehobby]

I'm new here and it's overwhelming. Any samtress can share their experience on orgasms? I only get orgasms from vaginal penetration and never from the clit. In fact, sometimes I find the feeling i get from fingering the clit quite a turnoff.

The clit is a spot with the most number of sensitive nerves.

What most men always do is to keep pushing it like a love buttom.

It should be treated as you will like the head of your penis to be treat.

More often than not, VERY VERY gentle and sensual caressing, licking and sucking will produce great sensations instead of flicking it fast and agressively.

The key is to remember that sex is a sensual activity. Contrary to what you see in porn, fast, rought and aggressive is often not the best way to an orgasm.

[itsme]

Yup, probably TS has higher sensitivity level on clit, breathe hot air with light painting less threatening. Hope you able to unleash that O.

[spiderlily]

Yup, probably TS has higher sensitivity level on clit, breathe hot air with light painting less threatening. Hope you able to unleash that O.

Wow, this sounds like it might work but gotta ask the bf to try on me.

The clit is a spot with the most number of sensitive nerves.

What most men always do is to keep pushing it like a love buttom.

It should be treated as you will like the head of your penis to be treat.

More often than not, VERY VERY gentle and sensual caressing, licking and sucking will produce great sensations instead of flicking it fast and agressively.

The key is to remember that sex is a sensual activity. Contrary to what you see in porn, fast, rought and aggressive is often not the best way to an orgasm.

Yes, agree that it's REALLY sensitive! But guys seems to think that it's da way to increase intensity of lovemaking. :(

[sensuous]

I'm new here and it's overwhelming. Any samtress can share their experience on orgasms? I only get orgasms from vaginal penetration and never from the clit. In fact, sometimes I find the feeling i get from fingering the clit quite a turnoff.

I'm the same as you. I get awfully squirmish when my boyfriend tries to lick my clit. I think it's cause I'm just way too sensitive and the sensation from the clit is just way too much for it to be pleasurable for me.

Gently caressing the clit area through panties feels good for me. I can't imagine me achieving orgasm through that, but at least it feels nice and is a turn on. If I want to cum, it's got to be penetration.

[spiderlily]

I'm the same as you. I get awfully squirmish when my boyfriend tries to lick my clit. I think it's cause I'm just way too sensitive and the sensation from the clit is just way too much for it to be pleasurable for me.

Gently caressing the clit area through panties feels good for me. I can't imagine me achieving orgasm through that, but at least it feels nice and is a turn on. If I want to cum, it's got to be penetration.

Yes! That's how I feel too! Although rubbing gently without pulling the lips apart do make me more aroused.

Btw sis, if I see my own photos in this forum, what can I do?

[nobodyisme]

I always believe something is as magical as orgasm through clitoral stimulation (and of course, through the actual penetration). Of course, having a guy who knows how to get it right is vital. Otherwise, there are always toys out there for that purpose. For me, I am fine with either ways.

Perhaps TS can try to relax more and communicate with your partner, what works and what doesn't. :)