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monster.cookie
09-11-2005, 07:42 AM
Yo bros,
need to seek some advice.
My new chick is complaining that I am too silent while having sex. She says there is no emotion in doing it and it feels like a mechanical fuck that I would do in a whorehouse.
Most experienced bros will know that at this juncture, there is no explaining to them that it is different. So lan lan, will have to change the habit and be more communicative during sex. The question is what do women like to hear during intercourse.....help out, bros!!
MonsterCookie
ragnarclaw
09-11-2005, 07:55 AM
Hm..i understand you problem bros,i use to be like that when i make luv with my g/f but not anymore.Some girl like to talk dirty when you bonk them or maybe ask them how they feel when you're going fast/slow or even ask them what position they want to change to and how hard they want to be bonk..hope this help alittle...:D
Wang Ye
09-11-2005, 09:10 AM
Very simple. Ask her if it is comfotable call her by her pet names. Tell her mushy stuff. Make her feel like she is being made love to and not being fucked! :D Hope this helps.
devilboy99
09-11-2005, 09:14 AM
Bro try talking dirty to her maybe she likes it....
super_manny
09-11-2005, 09:24 AM
Yo bros,
need to seek some advice.
MonsterCookie
Bro, I was taught by a girl to bed-talk... (In fact I was taught by that gal to do everything)... It'll be in the grand finale 4th part of my 'Incredible Event' story.
However, I've not finished writing yet. If you are interested, keep a look-out for it later today. Most likely by early evening today.
ztsorf
09-11-2005, 09:51 AM
When you touch a woman's skin, you touched her Heart. But when you touch a man's skin, you are just touching the skin.....;)
Fake all those bed talk la, come on, they can fake orgas, we can fake cheap talks they need.
deepthroat
09-11-2005, 10:02 AM
Try saying things like:
- You like it?
- I'm going in harder now.
- You are good(when she blow you).
Hopefully, it'll help.
MMM88
09-11-2005, 10:07 AM
try tis : while bonking ..tell her: (praise her- women like to b praised )
1) "i jus luv ur tits"
2) "i luv sucking ur tits"
3) "i luv t smell of ur hair...it arouses me "
4) "i like t way u bbbj me.....dun stop ....go on....on ....on..."
5) "u wanna try 69 .........."
etc......n t list goes on and on and on.....
talking while having sex can b quite "difficult" n "mechanical" (as u hav said it)....most bros (including me) agree ...well if she insist to have "communication" ....then u can oso try RP lor....at least it helps u to start a few lines....hehehehe...like;
1) "hi nurse....u wanna do dressssssing on me .....*[wink]*
hope it helps.....i do try it once in a while when i feel tat i need to "inspire" my OC(so i can b better "serviced")......whahahahahaha:p :D
JPimp
09-11-2005, 10:12 AM
Try saying things like:
- You like it?
- I'm going in harder now.
- You are good(when she blow you).
Hopefully, it'll help.
Better do not say "you are good"....you are inviting her to ask you of your previous fucks....and that is as good as relationship suicide.
Replace that with "That is nice" or "I like that".
DehOne
09-11-2005, 10:18 AM
There are no real rules when it comes to bed tak bro. Every woman, guy and couple is different. My GF is very vocal and moans and says what she likes and doesn't like: "Faster!" "Ooooh", "Yessss!" "Try it from behind..." "Don't stop..." etc etc. I am more the silent typeand usually don't moan much until I cum. But we also talk, joke and laugh during sex too... until things get very heated up that is! You can never go wrong with complimenting your lady - just be sincere. Tell her how nice and soft her skin and hair feels. Hoy you love her breasts, butt etc. Sayang her - it's as important to women as an orgasm! If you masturbate her, ask her what she is feeling when you do. Lovemaking is a form of communication so you gotta make the effort. Don't stress over it - just sayang her!
MoonBlaze
09-11-2005, 10:25 AM
If u really have nothing much to say...just lock your lips with hers
Pokimon1
09-11-2005, 10:25 AM
It all depends on the woman.
Some like tender talk. Stroke their hair... tell them nice things about how you enjoy their body. Others may be different.
I once had a GF who likes it rough and tough..
I would tell her "I,m going to Fuck the shit out of you"... "I,m going to rape you"
She loves it. She would return by saying "Yes, Yes... Fuck me.. Fuck me.. deeper, deeper, harder, harder..."
Nesferatu
09-11-2005, 10:32 AM
It all depends on the woman.
I once had a GF who likes it rough and tough..
I would tell her "I,m going to Fuck the shit out of you"... "I,m going to rape you"
She loves it. She would return by saying "Yes, Yes... Fuck me.. Fuck me.. deeper, deeper, harder, harder..."
Hahahahah. That's wat I did to my gal also...but she's the guai type. So when it comes to sex, she likes it rough. I would say "Im going to enjoy raping u" before the sex & "Im raping u now!!!" when doing it. I tell u, most women loves to be animalized by her guy. So go ahead & do her a favor. Be a BEAST!!!!!
Vamoos
Frankiestine
09-11-2005, 10:36 AM
Yo bros,need to seek some advice.
My new chick is complaining that I am too silent while having sex. She says there is no emotion in doing it and it feels like a mechanical fuck that I would do in a whorehouse.
TALK DIRTY
You will be surprised how some women just get turn out by all the dirty talks you spew out when making out..
ragnarclaw
09-11-2005, 10:46 AM
It all depends on the woman.
Some like tender talk. Stroke their hair... tell them nice things about how you enjoy their body. Others may be different.
I once had a GF who likes it rough and tough..
I would tell her "I,m going to Fuck the shit out of you"... "I,m going to rape you"
She loves it. She would return by saying "Yes, Yes... Fuck me.. Fuck me.. deeper, deeper, harder, harder..."
Hahaha...same to my g/f too.she like to be tie up and blind folded sometime,something excited that we cant do it outside..
devilboy99
09-11-2005, 11:00 AM
TALK DIRTY
You will be surprised how some women just get turn out by all the dirty talks you spew out when making out..
bro u r rite.... that day while about to have sex, my gf turned around and tell me to get my fat ass over BITCH(me).... n start pumping her ....
wow i was so turned on...........
whitegals
10-11-2005, 02:23 PM
Bro,
Just remember a few simple guidelines,
Men fuck using their dicks, women fuck using their minds.
Imagine, if you're fucking a gal, be it a ONS or your gf, you'd like some kind of affirmation that what you're doing is fine or good. Something sorta like a moan or gentle spasms of the body is a confirmation that she is getting wet by what you're doing. Some of the bros may have fucked what I've experienced a couple of times and are generally referred to as a piece of wood. I didn't enjoy the experience and I seriously doubt you would too.
Women also need that kind of confirmation and especially so for a good majority of the broads out there. If you look at how self conscious they generally are of their appearance and scent, imagine the degree of extremity they would go to when they're naked in bed with you inside their most private secrets.
What she might mean by you being too silent is that she has no idea if what she is doing with you in bed is good for you. She may be self conscious that while she enjoys the ride, she may be crap in the sense that you dun seem to be enjoying it like she is.
Moan a little, rub her tits, breathe into her ear, bite her neck gently, slap her bum, act a little crazy, do something, but let her believe that she is making you do so.
Hope this helps. :D
Castrol
10-11-2005, 03:42 PM
- You are good(when she blow you).
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for better suction power, say this when she's blowing you - not bad, not bad at all... :D
euro2004
10-11-2005, 05:26 PM
tell her, she's beautiful... and dun overdo it.
Ask she like it... (on various position)... sometimes you know.. cos she will moan slightly like the arrhhhs... the mmmhhss.. and mmm huhs....
when she do you... if you "song4" (hokkien), let out some manly ARrghh.. yeah... mmhh huh... orgh yeeeeaahhh....
create chemistry. Dun diam diam... how will she knows... body language and vocal are important... if not, make no diff to make love to a log, right?
Beautiful, say you love her, her eyes... her shoulder, the smell of her hair when you are so near her. and dun overdo it in one session... or repeat the same everytime... too SOP... issit warm and nice... should I go faster... wanna try from behind... opps.. getting out of hand.. well hope you got a few tips from here... and hope other brothers contribute too...
I would love to spice up and try new stuff... hee hee...
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